Couples Counseling Therapists in Worcester County, MA

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Andrew Knorr
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01605
If you are interested in working hard and allowing the healing of a therapeutic relationship with an experienced therapist to help you become the person you want to be, call or email now for an appointment!.
I specialize in work with college students and the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) community. If you want to work with an experienced therapist with 27 years of service in the mental heatlh professions, please visit my website now - www.aknorrtherapy.com to learn more about how I might be of assistance to you. I have extensive experience with a broad range of clinical issues, including: depression, anxiety, sexual identity issues, relationship issues, transitions, loss, and change related concerns.
If you are interested in working hard and allowing the healing of a therapeutic relationship with an experienced therapist to help you become the person you want to be, call or email now for an appointment!.
I specialize in work with college students and the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) community. If you want to work with an experienced therapist with 27 years of service in the mental heatlh professions, please visit my website now - www.aknorrtherapy.com to learn more about how I might be of assistance to you. I have extensive experience with a broad range of clinical issues, including: depression, anxiety, sexual identity issues, relationship issues, transitions, loss, and change related concerns.
(508) 812-0015 View (508) 812-0015
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Victoria Flynn-Sankaran
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Shrewsbury, MA 01545  (Online Only)
Increased communication with couples is my favorite part of this work.
I created Upswing Counseling Services because time and time again I hear people feel that they are invalided in health care settings. I want clients to understand that they will drive services and their treatment.
Increased communication with couples is my favorite part of this work.
I created Upswing Counseling Services because time and time again I hear people feel that they are invalided in health care settings. I want clients to understand that they will drive services and their treatment.
(508) 231-4915 View (508) 231-4915
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Paul Harris Sandman
Counselor, EdD, LMHC
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01605
My ideal clients are interested in improving their self awareness of their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I treat any of the following issues: depression, anxiety, anger, substance abuse, relationship issues, sexual behaviors, trauma, domestic violence, low self-esteem, eating disorders, attention deficit difficulties, autism, schizophrenia, stress management, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, child behavior and attitude problems, school behavior, low motivation, weight loss, quitting smoking, grief and loss of a loved one, divorce, parenting issues, co-dependency, pain management, social skills development, bi-polar disorder, abusive family situations, work problems, shame/inappropriate guilt, and negative thinking but treat many more issues.
My ideal clients are interested in improving their self awareness of their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I treat any of the following issues: depression, anxiety, anger, substance abuse, relationship issues, sexual behaviors, trauma, domestic violence, low self-esteem, eating disorders, attention deficit difficulties, autism, schizophrenia, stress management, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, child behavior and attitude problems, school behavior, low motivation, weight loss, quitting smoking, grief and loss of a loved one, divorce, parenting issues, co-dependency, pain management, social skills development, bi-polar disorder, abusive family situations, work problems, shame/inappropriate guilt, and negative thinking but treat many more issues.
(774) 768-0617 View (774) 768-0617
Enlightened Interventions
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Worcester, MA 01608
Our practice employs therapists who are available to treat young children, adolescents, young adults, older adults, families, couples, and offer supervision and consulting to practicing professionals and agencies and have flexible scheduling to meet individual's needs.
Our practice offers clients a chance to collaborate to create a strength-based, client-centered, holistic treatment plan that will allow the client to achieve their goals through a wide variety of interventions. Our group practice has a variety of clinicians who have an extensive history working with a wide variety of presenting problems, including mood and adjustment disorders, trauma, and family and relational issues. We will work with you to find creative and plausible solutions to the problems you are facing. We believe wellness is achievable, manageable, and sustainable for all clients.
Our practice employs therapists who are available to treat young children, adolescents, young adults, older adults, families, couples, and offer supervision and consulting to practicing professionals and agencies and have flexible scheduling to meet individual's needs.
Our practice offers clients a chance to collaborate to create a strength-based, client-centered, holistic treatment plan that will allow the client to achieve their goals through a wide variety of interventions. Our group practice has a variety of clinicians who have an extensive history working with a wide variety of presenting problems, including mood and adjustment disorders, trauma, and family and relational issues. We will work with you to find creative and plausible solutions to the problems you are facing. We believe wellness is achievable, manageable, and sustainable for all clients.
(978) 404-7979 View (978) 404-7979
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Arammu Relationship Clinic
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01609  (Online Only)
Our work starts with a Relationship Checkup; a brief, evidence-based approach to help you better understand your relationship and draw out a road map for future work.
To book a session, please visit us here: www.arammu.com-intake. At Arammu, we believe that healthy, fulfilling relationships are the cornerstone of a happy and balanced life. Whether you’re seeking to deepen your connection with a partner or navigate the complexities of being in a relationship, our team of dedicated therapists is here to support you on your journey. "Arammu" is derived from ancient languages meaning love and connection. These principles guide our approach to therapy. We understand each relationship is unique, and we are committed to providing personalized care tailored to meet the specific needs of each couple.
Our work starts with a Relationship Checkup; a brief, evidence-based approach to help you better understand your relationship and draw out a road map for future work.
To book a session, please visit us here: www.arammu.com-intake. At Arammu, we believe that healthy, fulfilling relationships are the cornerstone of a happy and balanced life. Whether you’re seeking to deepen your connection with a partner or navigate the complexities of being in a relationship, our team of dedicated therapists is here to support you on your journey. "Arammu" is derived from ancient languages meaning love and connection. These principles guide our approach to therapy. We understand each relationship is unique, and we are committed to providing personalized care tailored to meet the specific needs of each couple.
(508) 794-7441 View (508) 794-7441
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Justina Tambeau
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Westborough, MA 01581  (Online Only)
I offer individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and free consultations.
Hello, my name is Justina, I am a licensed mental health counselor in Massachusetts. My focus is holistic well-being. I have clinical training experience in Expressive Arts Therapy and mindfulness therapy approaches. I am a client-centered therapist and consider myself to be empathetic in nature. I can help support you by listening to you, validating you, and working on the goals that you want to achieve. In my free time I enjoy spending time in nature, spending time with family, friends, and my dog. I look forward to connecting!
I offer individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and free consultations.
Hello, my name is Justina, I am a licensed mental health counselor in Massachusetts. My focus is holistic well-being. I have clinical training experience in Expressive Arts Therapy and mindfulness therapy approaches. I am a client-centered therapist and consider myself to be empathetic in nature. I can help support you by listening to you, validating you, and working on the goals that you want to achieve. In my free time I enjoy spending time in nature, spending time with family, friends, and my dog. I look forward to connecting!
(508) 500-6953 View (508) 500-6953
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Empowered Pathways Counseling, LLC
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Worcester, MA 01608  (Online Only)
“I believe that therapy is a platform that allows people to understand themselves better. The therapeutic relationship provides an opportunity to overcome challenges by trialing coping skills and talking through issues to gain new insight. Engaging in activities of wellness that supports the whole individual promotes continuous healing that allows us to connect to ourselves and others on a deeper level.”
“I believe that therapy is a platform that allows people to understand themselves better. The therapeutic relationship provides an opportunity to overcome challenges by trialing coping skills and talking through issues to gain new insight. Engaging in activities of wellness that supports the whole individual promotes continuous healing that allows us to connect to ourselves and others on a deeper level.”
(774) 315-1987 View (774) 315-1987
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Integrative Transformations LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, Tara G, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Westborough, MA 01581  (Online Only)
I am an experienced Clinical Social Worker who enjoys working with children, adolescents, adults and couples to aid them with finding balance in their lives between their mind (thoughts/beliefs), body (physical well being) and spirit (emotional well being).
As humans we all feel "out of balance" at different times throughout our lives. This can quickly get away from us and snowball into larger issues. Sometimes, life feels like something that "happens to us" and disrupts our ability to self-regulate or grow beyond our current circumstances, leaving us feeling stuck. Most of us desire to feel empowered and able to grow beyond issues that leave us feeling "less than" or "incapable of growth." I like to work with people with an integrative approach focusing on self-healing through empowered choices and balance. Working towards: "Taking back your power to create your ideal life."
I am an experienced Clinical Social Worker who enjoys working with children, adolescents, adults and couples to aid them with finding balance in their lives between their mind (thoughts/beliefs), body (physical well being) and spirit (emotional well being).
As humans we all feel "out of balance" at different times throughout our lives. This can quickly get away from us and snowball into larger issues. Sometimes, life feels like something that "happens to us" and disrupts our ability to self-regulate or grow beyond our current circumstances, leaving us feeling stuck. Most of us desire to feel empowered and able to grow beyond issues that leave us feeling "less than" or "incapable of growth." I like to work with people with an integrative approach focusing on self-healing through empowered choices and balance. Working towards: "Taking back your power to create your ideal life."
(508) 859-4017 View (508) 859-4017
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Debra Joy
Counselor, MEd, CAGS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01605
I have been working with families who are in crisis ( children with behavioral issues and teens who have trouble functioning). I have extensive experience with substance abuse (heroin,pills, and alcohol) issues, that have been affecting teens/parents. I can help parents and couples, dealing with relationship problems-many times tantruming children or depressed/anxious teens are a factor. Working with the entire family, or just the individual is my specialty. I have experience working with children who have trauma history, ADHD, anxiety or depression. I am able to assist parents in deciphering the IEP/504 options, if needed.
I have been working with families who are in crisis ( children with behavioral issues and teens who have trouble functioning). I have extensive experience with substance abuse (heroin,pills, and alcohol) issues, that have been affecting teens/parents. I can help parents and couples, dealing with relationship problems-many times tantruming children or depressed/anxious teens are a factor. Working with the entire family, or just the individual is my specialty. I have experience working with children who have trauma history, ADHD, anxiety or depression. I am able to assist parents in deciphering the IEP/504 options, if needed.
(978) 434-5776 View (978) 434-5776
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Rachel Gaillard Smook
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Northborough, MA 01532  (Online Only)
I enjoy working with adolescents, students, adults, and couples and also specialize in pregnancy/fertility concerns, relationship issues, and sexuality.
I believe that coming to therapy when your life is not proceeding in the way you wish is a courageous and important step in building the life you want. Although it is sometimes difficult or frightening to make that first phone call, it's a strong sign of your belief in yourself and your desire to live fully and joyfully. I respect the decision to begin therapy and understand that it's sometimes a hard step that requires great courage. I firmly believe that however you're feeling now, there is a capacity for healing, change, and joy within you.
I enjoy working with adolescents, students, adults, and couples and also specialize in pregnancy/fertility concerns, relationship issues, and sexuality.
I believe that coming to therapy when your life is not proceeding in the way you wish is a courageous and important step in building the life you want. Although it is sometimes difficult or frightening to make that first phone call, it's a strong sign of your belief in yourself and your desire to live fully and joyfully. I respect the decision to begin therapy and understand that it's sometimes a hard step that requires great courage. I firmly believe that however you're feeling now, there is a capacity for healing, change, and joy within you.
(508) 925-0530 View (508) 925-0530
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Christina Cronin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Northbridge, MA 01534  (Online Only)
I am an experienced practitioner with over 16 years in the clinical social work field. I enjoy working with older teens and young adults working on transitional issues as well as people of all ages struggling with mood disorders, life stressors, relationship struggles, redefining life goals or other adjustments to change. I also work with couples to enhance communication and navigate barriers to a healthy relationship. I use many CBT techniques as well as meditation and other relaxation practices to enhance sessions. I am licensed in Massachusetts and in Florida, currently offering telemedicine sessions.
I am an experienced practitioner with over 16 years in the clinical social work field. I enjoy working with older teens and young adults working on transitional issues as well as people of all ages struggling with mood disorders, life stressors, relationship struggles, redefining life goals or other adjustments to change. I also work with couples to enhance communication and navigate barriers to a healthy relationship. I use many CBT techniques as well as meditation and other relaxation practices to enhance sessions. I am licensed in Massachusetts and in Florida, currently offering telemedicine sessions.
(774) 252-9902 View (774) 252-9902
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Jessica M Holmes
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01605
Do you ever feel like the odds are against you? Or nothing ever goes right for you? Let's talk about how you can start living the life you want to live! Maybe it's that you have trouble finding the right partner for you. Or maybe you want to feel better about who you are. No matter the issue, together, we can make the changes necessary to improve your life. I love working with clients of all ages who are ready to make the change they've been putting off.
Do you ever feel like the odds are against you? Or nothing ever goes right for you? Let's talk about how you can start living the life you want to live! Maybe it's that you have trouble finding the right partner for you. Or maybe you want to feel better about who you are. No matter the issue, together, we can make the changes necessary to improve your life. I love working with clients of all ages who are ready to make the change they've been putting off.
(508) 863-4892 View (508) 863-4892
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Chuncie Willis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Athol, MA 01331
I am a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with over 7 years of experience working with individuals from diverse backgrounds in acute care and outpatient settings. Effective therapy requires a relationship between patient and provider founded on trust and mutual understanding. I am supportive, non-judgmental, trustworthy, optimistic, and understanding. I believe in meeting people where they are in order to guide them towards self-awareness so they can develop their full potential.
I am a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with over 7 years of experience working with individuals from diverse backgrounds in acute care and outpatient settings. Effective therapy requires a relationship between patient and provider founded on trust and mutual understanding. I am supportive, non-judgmental, trustworthy, optimistic, and understanding. I believe in meeting people where they are in order to guide them towards self-awareness so they can develop their full potential.
(978) 354-7716 View (978) 354-7716
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Michael J McManus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlton, MA 01507
Current openings with clinicians credentialed with BCBS. The ideal client who I work with therapeutically is motivated and desires change. This client values the therapeutic relationship while also working toward success quickly. This client should be excited, even if a little bit anxious, about gaining valuable insight into themselves and their place in their life. As far as couples/marriage counseling is concerned, couples should be motivated to stay together and not simply stop off at therapy before divorce. Couples should be willing to work hard and look at themselves as individuals as well as a family.
Current openings with clinicians credentialed with BCBS. The ideal client who I work with therapeutically is motivated and desires change. This client values the therapeutic relationship while also working toward success quickly. This client should be excited, even if a little bit anxious, about gaining valuable insight into themselves and their place in their life. As far as couples/marriage counseling is concerned, couples should be motivated to stay together and not simply stop off at therapy before divorce. Couples should be willing to work hard and look at themselves as individuals as well as a family.
(508) 455-3496 View (508) 455-3496
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LIKEMIND Mental Health & Wellness, Inc.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01608
At LIKEMIND, we provide: individual, couples, family, & group psychotherapy, psychological & neuropsychological evaluations, and executive functioning coaching to/for young adults.
At LIKEMIND Mental Health & Wellness, Inc. we understand that young adults today are facing challenges unique to their generation and their stage in life. That is why it is essential that they have access to services designed specifically to address and manage these challenges. The transitional milestones of young adulthood are very different than those of childhood or of adulthood. The services provided at LIKEMIND acknowledge these differences.
At LIKEMIND, we provide: individual, couples, family, & group psychotherapy, psychological & neuropsychological evaluations, and executive functioning coaching to/for young adults.
At LIKEMIND Mental Health & Wellness, Inc. we understand that young adults today are facing challenges unique to their generation and their stage in life. That is why it is essential that they have access to services designed specifically to address and manage these challenges. The transitional milestones of young adulthood are very different than those of childhood or of adulthood. The services provided at LIKEMIND acknowledge these differences.
(508) 841-3038 View (508) 841-3038
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RAI Counseling Services LLC
Counselor, LMHC, LICSW, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Shrewsbury, MA 01545  (Online Only)
We use a collaborative approach and focus on building a trusting therapeutic relationship, two factors that are important in promoting growth in treatment.
We have openings for virtual/video sessions! RAI Counseling Services LLC has a team of counselors from diverse backgrounds, who are passionate about helping others. We believe in taking brave steps toward healing, living and growth. If you're experiencing anxiety, racing thoughts, prolonged sadness and depression, distress due to traumatic experiences, grief, mood disorders, PPA/PPD, life transitions/stressors or you've been trying to gain as much control over your life as possible due to other chronic mental illnesses, we are here for you!
We use a collaborative approach and focus on building a trusting therapeutic relationship, two factors that are important in promoting growth in treatment.
We have openings for virtual/video sessions! RAI Counseling Services LLC has a team of counselors from diverse backgrounds, who are passionate about helping others. We believe in taking brave steps toward healing, living and growth. If you're experiencing anxiety, racing thoughts, prolonged sadness and depression, distress due to traumatic experiences, grief, mood disorders, PPA/PPD, life transitions/stressors or you've been trying to gain as much control over your life as possible due to other chronic mental illnesses, we are here for you!
(508) 714-7110 View (508) 714-7110
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James J Butrym
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSc, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Worcester, MA 01609
Specializing in individual & couples counseling (e.g. those struggling with infidelity, addiction, high levels of conflict, dissatisfaction, inability to communicate or "stage of life" changes). My clients are typically professionals, first responders (fire, police, EMT, hospital staff), couples, trauma survivors, those in addiction recovery & those struggling with grief and loss. For over three decades, I have worked effectively with individuals & families of all types and persuasions. I employ both evidence-based & observation-based practices but believe a therapist's life-long experience is always the best predictor of success.
Specializing in individual & couples counseling (e.g. those struggling with infidelity, addiction, high levels of conflict, dissatisfaction, inability to communicate or "stage of life" changes). My clients are typically professionals, first responders (fire, police, EMT, hospital staff), couples, trauma survivors, those in addiction recovery & those struggling with grief and loss. For over three decades, I have worked effectively with individuals & families of all types and persuasions. I employ both evidence-based & observation-based practices but believe a therapist's life-long experience is always the best predictor of success.
(978) 543-5616 View (978) 543-5616
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Noemi Paciorek
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Westborough, MA 01581
I work with individuals and couples coping with life stressors, anxiety, and depression.
I create a supportive environment that facilitates healing and growth. Through our collaborative work together, I empower clients to find their best answers, and teach them the skills they need to thrive in their lives and relationships. My approach is both empathic and solution oriented. My primary focus is to help people improve their lives in the present, even when that means healing from the past. I am skilled in both traditional techniques, such as CBT, and holistic approaches, including mindfulness. This enables me to tailor my approach to meet each person’s needs and goals.
I work with individuals and couples coping with life stressors, anxiety, and depression.
I create a supportive environment that facilitates healing and growth. Through our collaborative work together, I empower clients to find their best answers, and teach them the skills they need to thrive in their lives and relationships. My approach is both empathic and solution oriented. My primary focus is to help people improve their lives in the present, even when that means healing from the past. I am skilled in both traditional techniques, such as CBT, and holistic approaches, including mindfulness. This enables me to tailor my approach to meet each person’s needs and goals.
(508) 593-4927 x2 View (508) 593-4927 x2
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Alyssa Brewer
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
West Boylston, MA 01583
I really enjoy working with couples and maintain a strong focus on developing healthy communication skills, increasing understanding, and building intimacy and trust. I offer judgment free, empathy and understanding and a safe space for addressing any issue or topic. I also work with individuals on a multitude of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and bereavement, as well as blended family issues.
I really enjoy working with couples and maintain a strong focus on developing healthy communication skills, increasing understanding, and building intimacy and trust. I offer judgment free, empathy and understanding and a safe space for addressing any issue or topic. I also work with individuals on a multitude of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and bereavement, as well as blended family issues.
(508) 714-7718 View (508) 714-7718
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Cheryl Whitney, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Millbury, MA 01527
Every day, we must fit into many different roles no matter who we are and these roles include employee, parent, child, student, partner, etc.
Do you ever feel like all you can do is throw your arms up in the air? Do you just want to feel like a whole person again? Whether it is work, school, finances, relationships, children or some other source of stress, an excellent way to get back on confident feet is to work with a skilled clinician such as myself. Therapy can help build coping skills to manage life challenges, gain skills to redirect misguided or distorted thoughts and process emotions in order to have a better understanding of personal needs and how to meet them.
Every day, we must fit into many different roles no matter who we are and these roles include employee, parent, child, student, partner, etc.
Do you ever feel like all you can do is throw your arms up in the air? Do you just want to feel like a whole person again? Whether it is work, school, finances, relationships, children or some other source of stress, an excellent way to get back on confident feet is to work with a skilled clinician such as myself. Therapy can help build coping skills to manage life challenges, gain skills to redirect misguided or distorted thoughts and process emotions in order to have a better understanding of personal needs and how to meet them.
(508) 413-3168 View (508) 413-3168
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.