Infidelity Therapists in Indianapolis, IN

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Dennis Daupert
Psychologist, PhD, HSPP, CCTP
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46268  (Online Only)
My specialties include helping couples recover from infidelity, and helping individuals heal the effects of trauma: anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other stuck patterns.
Opting for therapy is not easy. The thought may even be scary. Well, that's normal. Who wants to open their private pains to someone they've just met? But when life hurts, when you've tried your best to fix things and it just isn't working, you might consider doing something different. Life's too short to merely abide in distress.
My specialties include helping couples recover from infidelity, and helping individuals heal the effects of trauma: anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other stuck patterns.
Opting for therapy is not easy. The thought may even be scary. Well, that's normal. Who wants to open their private pains to someone they've just met? But when life hurts, when you've tried your best to fix things and it just isn't working, you might consider doing something different. Life's too short to merely abide in distress.
(317) 434-1515 View (317) 434-1515
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Jennifer Warr
Counselor, MA, LHMCA, NCC, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46220
I work with individuals and couples experiencing various emotional and behavioral issues. I enjoy helping and guiding clients navigate through all the challenges and problems that arise during their lifetime. I am also a sex therapist, and I specialize in working with clients who need healing or work with kink, eroticism, intimacy, problem sexual behavior, ethical non-monogamy, recovering from affairs, low libido, and orgasm difficulties.
I work with individuals and couples experiencing various emotional and behavioral issues. I enjoy helping and guiding clients navigate through all the challenges and problems that arise during their lifetime. I am also a sex therapist, and I specialize in working with clients who need healing or work with kink, eroticism, intimacy, problem sexual behavior, ethical non-monogamy, recovering from affairs, low libido, and orgasm difficulties.
(317) 648-5062 View (317) 648-5062
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Logan Everett
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46256
I am specifically trained as a couples therapist using the Gottman Method and other effective, evidence-based models. I help couples build connection and intimacy and equip couples with communication and conflict management skills, create shared meaning and connect emotionally. I also have extensive training to help couples work through betrayal and infidelity from affairs or unwanted sexual behaviors. I work with men struggling unwanted sexual behaviors including pornography and help rebuild broken trust in relationships. Schedule today with the upmost confidence knowing that research-based methods will be used in your therapy.
I am specifically trained as a couples therapist using the Gottman Method and other effective, evidence-based models. I help couples build connection and intimacy and equip couples with communication and conflict management skills, create shared meaning and connect emotionally. I also have extensive training to help couples work through betrayal and infidelity from affairs or unwanted sexual behaviors. I work with men struggling unwanted sexual behaviors including pornography and help rebuild broken trust in relationships. Schedule today with the upmost confidence knowing that research-based methods will be used in your therapy.
(317) 527-4547 View (317) 527-4547
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Dayle A. Brenner Wild, LCSW-R
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CCPS- C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46201  (Online Only)
I have 20+ yrs experience. It is common to feel stuck, experience emotional polarity and/or indecision. I have counseled many individuals at this juncture, offering objectivity, compassion and guidance. Additionally, I am a Candidate for Certification with the esteemed Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS). NEW : Betrayal Trauma Group Spring '24 for women who are leaving or have left the relationship due to infidelity and/or sexually compulsive behavior outside the relationship. Together, we will work towards restoring your confidence, increasing clarity, and the achievement of your desired outcome.
I have 20+ yrs experience. It is common to feel stuck, experience emotional polarity and/or indecision. I have counseled many individuals at this juncture, offering objectivity, compassion and guidance. Additionally, I am a Candidate for Certification with the esteemed Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS). NEW : Betrayal Trauma Group Spring '24 for women who are leaving or have left the relationship due to infidelity and/or sexually compulsive behavior outside the relationship. Together, we will work towards restoring your confidence, increasing clarity, and the achievement of your desired outcome.
(201) 379-6702 View (201) 379-6702
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Tim Tedder
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46280
My experience and passion have been focused on helping couples and individuals work through a relationship crisis, including infidelity issues. By helping clients gain greater insight into the causes of their problem and clarity regarding a healthy & satisfying relationship, they are able to experience real change rather than just temporary relief from symptoms.
My experience and passion have been focused on helping couples and individuals work through a relationship crisis, including infidelity issues. By helping clients gain greater insight into the causes of their problem and clarity regarding a healthy & satisfying relationship, they are able to experience real change rather than just temporary relief from symptoms.
(317) 706-4871 View (317) 706-4871
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Tony M Talley
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LCAC, MAC
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46236
I work with Addiction, affairs, intimacy issues, communications, blended families, recovering from divorce, and so much more.
Winter is coming! That can bring a sense of JOY for some and a sense of PAIN for others. Maybe you did not meet that goal you wanted to meet. Perhaps the Seasonal Depression is starting. Or, is it time to make that BIG decision. I work to assist individuals and couples find their internal peace. I listen and provide suggestions based on what you tell me. I like to see outcomes so we will set goals every 90 days to track our progress. I really enjoy my work with couples and one of the things I encounter the most is lack of "friendship". Is you partner your best friend?
I work with Addiction, affairs, intimacy issues, communications, blended families, recovering from divorce, and so much more.
Winter is coming! That can bring a sense of JOY for some and a sense of PAIN for others. Maybe you did not meet that goal you wanted to meet. Perhaps the Seasonal Depression is starting. Or, is it time to make that BIG decision. I work to assist individuals and couples find their internal peace. I listen and provide suggestions based on what you tell me. I like to see outcomes so we will set goals every 90 days to track our progress. I really enjoy my work with couples and one of the things I encounter the most is lack of "friendship". Is you partner your best friend?
(317) 900-4082 View (317) 900-4082
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Erica Kane
Psychologist, PsyD, HSPP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46237  (Online Only)
I am a very down to earth, “let’s get real” type of human and trauma therapist. I work with clients ages 15+ to overcome thoughts, behaviors and feelings related to trauma from experiencing physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, financial, infidelity, and military trauma among others. My style tends to be very real. I don’t shy away from anger, cursing, or sensitive subjects. I believe therapy sessions make more progress if we have a great rapport so that you can be your authentic self without feeling like you have to sensor yourself. I specialize in EMDR, prolonged exposure, narrative, and other trauma-specific therapies.
I am a very down to earth, “let’s get real” type of human and trauma therapist. I work with clients ages 15+ to overcome thoughts, behaviors and feelings related to trauma from experiencing physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, financial, infidelity, and military trauma among others. My style tends to be very real. I don’t shy away from anger, cursing, or sensitive subjects. I believe therapy sessions make more progress if we have a great rapport so that you can be your authentic self without feeling like you have to sensor yourself. I specialize in EMDR, prolonged exposure, narrative, and other trauma-specific therapies.
(765) 253-5278 View (765) 253-5278
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Katherine Turner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46240
I'm an Emotionally Focused Therapist and member of ICEEFT, a therapy that guides marriages through difficult crises including infidelity, desire discrepancies, and disconnection.
I believe the process of therapy will help you clarify your feelings, understand yourself and others, explore options, and make changes in your life. My orientation as a therapist is both psychodynamic and interactive--gaining an understanding of your past to enhance your future. I consider self-knowledge and self-acceptance the best ways to overcome challenges encountered throughout life. Therapy should be tailored to a client's needs as no two people are alike, therefore I employ a variety of theories, techniques, and practices which customize treatment to the uniqueness of each individual.
I'm an Emotionally Focused Therapist and member of ICEEFT, a therapy that guides marriages through difficult crises including infidelity, desire discrepancies, and disconnection.
I believe the process of therapy will help you clarify your feelings, understand yourself and others, explore options, and make changes in your life. My orientation as a therapist is both psychodynamic and interactive--gaining an understanding of your past to enhance your future. I consider self-knowledge and self-acceptance the best ways to overcome challenges encountered throughout life. Therapy should be tailored to a client's needs as no two people are alike, therefore I employ a variety of theories, techniques, and practices which customize treatment to the uniqueness of each individual.
(317) 443-9593 View (317) 443-9593
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Michael J O'Connell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46220
I have a passion to journey with couples who seek to restore love and trust in their life and in their relationship(s). When we experience violations to our sense of identity and safety we experience real pain and confusion. It is possible for all of us to find peace and be grounded in the truth of who we are, and discover new ways to act within our daily life and decision making. I especially have an interest in journeying with couples struggling with communication (i.e. decision making), passion and attachment, intimacy, life transitions, and conflict (i.e. anger, shame, control, infidelity, addiction, trauma).
I have a passion to journey with couples who seek to restore love and trust in their life and in their relationship(s). When we experience violations to our sense of identity and safety we experience real pain and confusion. It is possible for all of us to find peace and be grounded in the truth of who we are, and discover new ways to act within our daily life and decision making. I especially have an interest in journeying with couples struggling with communication (i.e. decision making), passion and attachment, intimacy, life transitions, and conflict (i.e. anger, shame, control, infidelity, addiction, trauma).
(317) 608-5071 View (317) 608-5071
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Couples Clinic
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46260
My specialties include infidelity, trust, communication and emotional/physical intimacy issues.
My approach is patient, empathetic, and honest. I know how hard it can be to feel at a loss as to how you got here, and how hard it is to seek out therapy. You may not be ready to reach out today, or even tomorrow. Whenever you are ready, I’ll be here. Call or email me to get started.
My specialties include infidelity, trust, communication and emotional/physical intimacy issues.
My approach is patient, empathetic, and honest. I know how hard it can be to feel at a loss as to how you got here, and how hard it is to seek out therapy. You may not be ready to reach out today, or even tomorrow. Whenever you are ready, I’ll be here. Call or email me to get started.
(765) 538-7274 View (765) 538-7274
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Shannon Loehr
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46220
Some issues may include: depression, divorce, grief, infidelity, transition to parenthood, childhood/adult trauma, mood disorders, anxiety, LGBTQ+ and relationship conflict.
I often hear people ask, "why did I wait so long to seek counseling?" Although making the decision to begin counseling FEELS intimidating, the truth is that it can be a very helpful step in managing some of the difficulties of life. Are you experiencing thoughts, emotions or behaviors that are impacting your daily life or affecting your relationships with others? I can help you work through these challenges and I am available to listen, support and guide you in developing a plan to move forward.
Some issues may include: depression, divorce, grief, infidelity, transition to parenthood, childhood/adult trauma, mood disorders, anxiety, LGBTQ+ and relationship conflict.
I often hear people ask, "why did I wait so long to seek counseling?" Although making the decision to begin counseling FEELS intimidating, the truth is that it can be a very helpful step in managing some of the difficulties of life. Are you experiencing thoughts, emotions or behaviors that are impacting your daily life or affecting your relationships with others? I can help you work through these challenges and I am available to listen, support and guide you in developing a plan to move forward.
(317) 333-7605 View (317) 333-7605
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Mark Dubec
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46256
Individuals & couples seeking help for; life transitions, adjusting to changes, self-esteem, sex & intimacy issues, anxiety, stress, depression, affairs, infidelity, communication & premarital counseling.
We all feel a little lost at times. This can have a negative impact on our relationships & individual lives. I work with adult individuals and couples and offer a safe space to work on creating an environment for positive change. Together we can sort through your struggles & work to make progress on life adjustments and transitions. This progress can involve learning to manage stress, anxiety and depression. If you are looking to address problems in your marriage or relationship ( infidelity, trust, communication, intimacy, and sex), I offer you space for working to understand what is happening and use tools to improve your balance.
Individuals & couples seeking help for; life transitions, adjusting to changes, self-esteem, sex & intimacy issues, anxiety, stress, depression, affairs, infidelity, communication & premarital counseling.
We all feel a little lost at times. This can have a negative impact on our relationships & individual lives. I work with adult individuals and couples and offer a safe space to work on creating an environment for positive change. Together we can sort through your struggles & work to make progress on life adjustments and transitions. This progress can involve learning to manage stress, anxiety and depression. If you are looking to address problems in your marriage or relationship ( infidelity, trust, communication, intimacy, and sex), I offer you space for working to understand what is happening and use tools to improve your balance.
(317) 548-8781 View (317) 548-8781
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Aaron Tempel
Counselor, LMHC, CSAT, CPTT, NCC
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46220
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist, I specialize in treating sex/porn addiction, betrayal trauma, shame, anxiety, and other trauma.
Significant disconnection and shame are intense and unfortunately common experiences people are struggling with. Sometimes, our emotions or body sensations feel intense or overwhelming. This pain may lead us to act in ways that are against our values or desires. Perhaps we act out sexually, eat excessively, or are avoidant of relationships. Regardless, these behaviors often further our loss of control, distress, hurt, and low self-esteem.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist, I specialize in treating sex/porn addiction, betrayal trauma, shame, anxiety, and other trauma.
Significant disconnection and shame are intense and unfortunately common experiences people are struggling with. Sometimes, our emotions or body sensations feel intense or overwhelming. This pain may lead us to act in ways that are against our values or desires. Perhaps we act out sexually, eat excessively, or are avoidant of relationships. Regardless, these behaviors often further our loss of control, distress, hurt, and low self-esteem.
(317) 458-9891 View (317) 458-9891
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Faithful Counsel
Psychologist, PsyD, HSPP
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46204  (Online Only)
Faithful counsel sees individuals, couples, children, and families. We are trained to provide counseling for a range of issues including but not limited to depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, addictions (from drugs & alcohol to sexual addiction), anger, marital strife & infidelity. The clients that present to our practice are interested in receiving counseling from a Christian worldview and biblical foundation. They understand that the wisdom of man is limited and that apart from God, we can do nothing.
Faithful counsel sees individuals, couples, children, and families. We are trained to provide counseling for a range of issues including but not limited to depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, addictions (from drugs & alcohol to sexual addiction), anger, marital strife & infidelity. The clients that present to our practice are interested in receiving counseling from a Christian worldview and biblical foundation. They understand that the wisdom of man is limited and that apart from God, we can do nothing.
(219) 258-4736 View (219) 258-4736
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Jonathan M Burg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46229
Utilizing a systemic approach and predominately EFT, EMDR, and IFS Informed EMDR, I primarily work in the areas of fostering family cohesion and communication, sexual integrity issues, recovering from childhood trauma, healing from marital affairs, and increasing marital satisfaction.
I earned my undergraduate degree in Bible and Religion from Anderson University. I completed my master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Indiana Wesleyan University. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist. Additionally, I have post-graduate training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have worked in residential facilities for at-risk youth, schools, prisons, churches and private practices.
Utilizing a systemic approach and predominately EFT, EMDR, and IFS Informed EMDR, I primarily work in the areas of fostering family cohesion and communication, sexual integrity issues, recovering from childhood trauma, healing from marital affairs, and increasing marital satisfaction.
I earned my undergraduate degree in Bible and Religion from Anderson University. I completed my master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Indiana Wesleyan University. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist. Additionally, I have post-graduate training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have worked in residential facilities for at-risk youth, schools, prisons, churches and private practices.
(317) 653-4287 View (317) 653-4287
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Lisa Ferguson
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LCAC, CSAT, CPTT, CCPS
Verified Verified
Indianapolis, IN 46236
Has your life become unmanageable? Getting the right help for yourself or a loved one can be the breakthrough that changes everything. LightSource offers expert therapies for people who have experienced the effects of trauma, betrayal, PTSD, pornography/sex addiction or substance abuse, providing necessary strategies for recovery for patients and their loved ones. Through cutting-edge techniques, our program meets people where they are, and provides needed resources to put lives back together and addictions into remission. This healing and empowering process is facilitated by the compassion and expertise of someone who cares.
Has your life become unmanageable? Getting the right help for yourself or a loved one can be the breakthrough that changes everything. LightSource offers expert therapies for people who have experienced the effects of trauma, betrayal, PTSD, pornography/sex addiction or substance abuse, providing necessary strategies for recovery for patients and their loved ones. Through cutting-edge techniques, our program meets people where they are, and provides needed resources to put lives back together and addictions into remission. This healing and empowering process is facilitated by the compassion and expertise of someone who cares.
(765) 276-0407 View (765) 276-0407
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Anthony Sandilla
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46202  (Online Only)
I am a social worker who specializes in couples and sexual-related issues. I do a lot of work with couples around infidelity, trust and sexual issues. I spend much time helping couples overcome the aftermath of affairs and help lead them to a better relationship than they previously had. I also work with individuals with problems like depression, anxiety and loss. I do my sessions exclusively by video and phone and have done teletherapy for about five years. My style is very casual and thoughtful. And I have become very adept at doing teletherapy. I find that most of my clients prefer this format.
I am a social worker who specializes in couples and sexual-related issues. I do a lot of work with couples around infidelity, trust and sexual issues. I spend much time helping couples overcome the aftermath of affairs and help lead them to a better relationship than they previously had. I also work with individuals with problems like depression, anxiety and loss. I do my sessions exclusively by video and phone and have done teletherapy for about five years. My style is very casual and thoughtful. And I have become very adept at doing teletherapy. I find that most of my clients prefer this format.
(219) 841-7832 View (219) 841-7832
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Dena Hein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MALS, RYT-500, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46260
I have a particular interest in working with couples who want to improve patterns of communication, who have a desire for deeper connection and intimacy, or who are in recovery from infidelity, or divorce.
Most of us want to live life more fully and connected, but more often than not, stress, loss, disappointment, and unexpected transitions disconnect us from the life we want. I am passionate about helping clients find the tools to repair relationships, navigate difficult times, and find their way back to a place of comfort and satisfaction. As an affirming, open-minded, and curious therapist, I see each person as unique. I work with clients to discover their own individual path to the change and growth they desire. I work with individuals, couples, and families.
I have a particular interest in working with couples who want to improve patterns of communication, who have a desire for deeper connection and intimacy, or who are in recovery from infidelity, or divorce.
Most of us want to live life more fully and connected, but more often than not, stress, loss, disappointment, and unexpected transitions disconnect us from the life we want. I am passionate about helping clients find the tools to repair relationships, navigate difficult times, and find their way back to a place of comfort and satisfaction. As an affirming, open-minded, and curious therapist, I see each person as unique. I work with clients to discover their own individual path to the change and growth they desire. I work with individuals, couples, and families.
(317) 516-0080 View (317) 516-0080
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Michael J Stribling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46220  (Online Only)
and along with that the concepts of death, grief, despair, betrayal, frustration, survivors guilt and shame, and acceptance.
Loss is a feeling that is ever present in our hearts, minds, and souls. Have you experienced a loss? The death of a loved one: human or animal? Are you facing a terminal illness or situation related to an accident that is challenging your life continuing as it had in the past? Are you wanting to prepare for your end of life routine emotionally? Have you lost something in your life that is important to you? My practice focuses on supporting those whom are facing life changing circumstances related to the feeling of loss and need a safe space to talk about the range of emotions that go along with these painful life experiences.
and along with that the concepts of death, grief, despair, betrayal, frustration, survivors guilt and shame, and acceptance.
Loss is a feeling that is ever present in our hearts, minds, and souls. Have you experienced a loss? The death of a loved one: human or animal? Are you facing a terminal illness or situation related to an accident that is challenging your life continuing as it had in the past? Are you wanting to prepare for your end of life routine emotionally? Have you lost something in your life that is important to you? My practice focuses on supporting those whom are facing life changing circumstances related to the feeling of loss and need a safe space to talk about the range of emotions that go along with these painful life experiences.
(812) 727-0730 View (812) 727-0730
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Michele O'Mara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD, IMAGO
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Indianapolis, IN 46201  (Online Only)
Couple's counseling and sexual health is my passion. Infidelity, cheating, and emotional affairs. Lack of sexual desire. Communication, loss of connection, and healing old hurts and resentments are common issues addressed in my practice. I'd love to meet you (I do see individuals), or you and your partner (same-sex couples, heterosexual couples, polyamorous couples). You can schedule with me directly online from my webpage: micheleomara.com
Couple's counseling and sexual health is my passion. Infidelity, cheating, and emotional affairs. Lack of sexual desire. Communication, loss of connection, and healing old hurts and resentments are common issues addressed in my practice. I'd love to meet you (I do see individuals), or you and your partner (same-sex couples, heterosexual couples, polyamorous couples). You can schedule with me directly online from my webpage: micheleomara.com
(317) 207-2795 View (317) 207-2795
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.