Couples Counseling Therapists in Fort Wayne, IN
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Jason Cussen
Counselor, MBA, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46818 (Online Only)
Specializing in anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship issues, I offer a safe, supportive environment for personal growth and healing.
My ideal client seeks personal growth and healing from issues like anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems. They need emotional support, coping strategies, self-understanding, and guidance for healthy relationships. Their goals include symptom reduction, trauma healing, improved relationships, enhanced self-worth, and greater life satisfaction. Motivated by desires for personal growth, joyful moments, connection, resilience, and clarity, they seek therapy to achieve a healthier, improved life rhythm.
Specializing in anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship issues, I offer a safe, supportive environment for personal growth and healing.
My ideal client seeks personal growth and healing from issues like anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems. They need emotional support, coping strategies, self-understanding, and guidance for healthy relationships. Their goals include symptom reduction, trauma healing, improved relationships, enhanced self-worth, and greater life satisfaction. Motivated by desires for personal growth, joyful moments, connection, resilience, and clarity, they seek therapy to achieve a healthier, improved life rhythm.
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I am committed to working with children ages, 6 – 17, adults, couples and families who are dealing with the stressors of life especially in relationships, marital or family conflicts.
I know that seeking help is not a comfortable space for many. I believe in the resiliency of every individual and appreciate the uniqueness of families. It is humbling to partner with you or someone you love as we address issues that cause distress and play out in different aspects of life. Our shortcomings are many, our strengths enormous, and our weaknesses reveal our humanity, regardless of life experiences, ethnicity, culture, age, religion, or sexual orientation. I am passionate about helping and supporting families and individuals find healing through approaches in my clinical training to help toward wholeness.
I am committed to working with children ages, 6 – 17, adults, couples and families who are dealing with the stressors of life especially in relationships, marital or family conflicts.
I know that seeking help is not a comfortable space for many. I believe in the resiliency of every individual and appreciate the uniqueness of families. It is humbling to partner with you or someone you love as we address issues that cause distress and play out in different aspects of life. Our shortcomings are many, our strengths enormous, and our weaknesses reveal our humanity, regardless of life experiences, ethnicity, culture, age, religion, or sexual orientation. I am passionate about helping and supporting families and individuals find healing through approaches in my clinical training to help toward wholeness.
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Kathryn is trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Gottman Couples Counseling.
The process of finding a therapist and beginning therapy can be overwhelming. I believe any and all people can benefit from therapy and I encourage everyone to give it a shot! In my office, anyone is welcome. I serve many types of people and specifically work with anxiety, trauma, grief, and school/career/relationship problems.
Kathryn is trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Gottman Couples Counseling.
The process of finding a therapist and beginning therapy can be overwhelming. I believe any and all people can benefit from therapy and I encourage everyone to give it a shot! In my office, anyone is welcome. I serve many types of people and specifically work with anxiety, trauma, grief, and school/career/relationship problems.
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**Accepting new clients and offering telehealth** I work with couples, families, adolescents and adults to help address a wide range of life’s challenges. I believe in utilizing your strengths as building blocks in developing a stronger, safer and more stabilized foundation while working together to achieve a more healthy and balanced life. Life is about setting goals, whether daily or long term. I will partner with you to achieve these goals and work with you side by side to realize the best version of yourself. Life’s issues are never ending and sometimes painful. I provide a safe, nonjudgmental and open environment.
**Accepting new clients and offering telehealth** I work with couples, families, adolescents and adults to help address a wide range of life’s challenges. I believe in utilizing your strengths as building blocks in developing a stronger, safer and more stabilized foundation while working together to achieve a more healthy and balanced life. Life is about setting goals, whether daily or long term. I will partner with you to achieve these goals and work with you side by side to realize the best version of yourself. Life’s issues are never ending and sometimes painful. I provide a safe, nonjudgmental and open environment.
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I specialize in the areas of trauma, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, and teen dating violence.
I work from a strength-based, holistic perspective, integrating the effects of both internal and external life stressors on one's ability to function and thrive. My approach is collaborative, respecting the dignity and input of each client. I provide tools and techniques to help you overcome challenges, leverage personal strengths, and enhance your ability to navigate life more effectively. Therapy sessions are customized to meet your unique needs, focusing not only on managing and reducing mental health issues but also on enhancing overall well-being.
I specialize in the areas of trauma, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, and teen dating violence.
I work from a strength-based, holistic perspective, integrating the effects of both internal and external life stressors on one's ability to function and thrive. My approach is collaborative, respecting the dignity and input of each client. I provide tools and techniques to help you overcome challenges, leverage personal strengths, and enhance your ability to navigate life more effectively. Therapy sessions are customized to meet your unique needs, focusing not only on managing and reducing mental health issues but also on enhancing overall well-being.
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Bethany Kellogg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, RPT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46825
Waitlist for new clients
Making that first phone call or walking into the office for the first time can be scary so I make sure that people feel comfortable and that we have a good relationship.
I love working with kids and seeing how play transforms lives! I am a clinical social worker and a registered play therapist (RPT). I have worked with kids with a variety of concerns including behaviors, trauma, and regulation. I'm very playful in my approach, using a lot of sensory tools and activities specific to each child. I am client-centered, strengths based, trauma-informed and use an eclectic approach.
Making that first phone call or walking into the office for the first time can be scary so I make sure that people feel comfortable and that we have a good relationship.
I love working with kids and seeing how play transforms lives! I am a clinical social worker and a registered play therapist (RPT). I have worked with kids with a variety of concerns including behaviors, trauma, and regulation. I'm very playful in my approach, using a lot of sensory tools and activities specific to each child. I am client-centered, strengths based, trauma-informed and use an eclectic approach.
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Willow Center For Healing
Counselor, EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46815
We offer in-person & tele-health across the lifespan from toddlers to seniors. We offer family, individual, & couples' counseling. We believe the decision to seek therapy is a courageous step. Although the initial decision can be frightening and stressful, it's our intention to instill hope, foster growth and cultivate healing in your life. The most important aspect to your choice in finding the right counselor is your ability to feel emotionally safe and vulnerable in session. Feeling heard, connected, and validated in a non-judgemental environment is the best predictor to having a successful counseling experience.
We offer in-person & tele-health across the lifespan from toddlers to seniors. We offer family, individual, & couples' counseling. We believe the decision to seek therapy is a courageous step. Although the initial decision can be frightening and stressful, it's our intention to instill hope, foster growth and cultivate healing in your life. The most important aspect to your choice in finding the right counselor is your ability to feel emotionally safe and vulnerable in session. Feeling heard, connected, and validated in a non-judgemental environment is the best predictor to having a successful counseling experience.
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Kelsie Strand
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46804
Seeking help for yourself, your relationship, or your teen? I entered the field to work with couples who are struggling or desiring growth anywhere on their relationship journey. Newly dating, long term cohabitating, pre-marriage, newlywed, long-term married, or considering separation and divorce- I will meet you where you are. If you are an individual struggling with anxiety, self-worth, interpersonal relationship issues, or mood instability, I would love to partner with you on your journey to healing and reclaiming your life. Concerned about your teen? I am passionate about helping them grow into the best version of themselves.
Seeking help for yourself, your relationship, or your teen? I entered the field to work with couples who are struggling or desiring growth anywhere on their relationship journey. Newly dating, long term cohabitating, pre-marriage, newlywed, long-term married, or considering separation and divorce- I will meet you where you are. If you are an individual struggling with anxiety, self-worth, interpersonal relationship issues, or mood instability, I would love to partner with you on your journey to healing and reclaiming your life. Concerned about your teen? I am passionate about helping them grow into the best version of themselves.
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I strive to provide an open, safe, authentic and LGBTQIA+ affirming space for individuals to process through life challenges, experiences, stressors, etc. I use a strengths - based, client-centered approach incorporating multiple evidenced based modalities. I have experience working with individuals impacted by cancer, chronic/ life-limiting illnesses, anticipatory grief, grief/loss, relationship concerns, substance abuse, fertility concerns, anxiety, depression, self-identity, trauma and more. It would be an honor and privilege to walk alongside you. Thank you for taking the first step in caring for your mental/emotional health!
I strive to provide an open, safe, authentic and LGBTQIA+ affirming space for individuals to process through life challenges, experiences, stressors, etc. I use a strengths - based, client-centered approach incorporating multiple evidenced based modalities. I have experience working with individuals impacted by cancer, chronic/ life-limiting illnesses, anticipatory grief, grief/loss, relationship concerns, substance abuse, fertility concerns, anxiety, depression, self-identity, trauma and more. It would be an honor and privilege to walk alongside you. Thank you for taking the first step in caring for your mental/emotional health!
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Anne Devine
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46804
Waitlist for 5:00 or later appointments. As a Certified Sex Therapist, I help committed couples fix their sexual issues and create connected, happy relationships. My clients may worry about speaking to an outsider about their struggles, but I'm not afraid to tackle the hard things about relationships and intimacy with knowledge, humor, and compassion. A poor sex life can cause arguments, pulling away, and sometimes the end of partnerships. If you're ready to work for the sex life you want and deserve, I'd love to help you achieve it. To learn more about me, visit my website at annedevine.net, or watch my videos on Youtube.
Waitlist for 5:00 or later appointments. As a Certified Sex Therapist, I help committed couples fix their sexual issues and create connected, happy relationships. My clients may worry about speaking to an outsider about their struggles, but I'm not afraid to tackle the hard things about relationships and intimacy with knowledge, humor, and compassion. A poor sex life can cause arguments, pulling away, and sometimes the end of partnerships. If you're ready to work for the sex life you want and deserve, I'd love to help you achieve it. To learn more about me, visit my website at annedevine.net, or watch my videos on Youtube.
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Grace Love and Connection
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46835
Waitlist for new clients
Grace Love and Connection is a group of clinicians who are passionate about hope and healing. With a spectrum of interests and specialties, our clinicians are able to meet your family's needs. Grace Love and Connection counselors are able to address individual concerns, mental health issues, children's behaviors, adolescent anxiety, emotional health struggles, interpersonal conflict, and family crisis. Counseling is facilitated in a warm environment and within the safety of a non-judgmental, professional relationship.
Grace Love and Connection is a group of clinicians who are passionate about hope and healing. With a spectrum of interests and specialties, our clinicians are able to meet your family's needs. Grace Love and Connection counselors are able to address individual concerns, mental health issues, children's behaviors, adolescent anxiety, emotional health struggles, interpersonal conflict, and family crisis. Counseling is facilitated in a warm environment and within the safety of a non-judgmental, professional relationship.
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I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, who primarily sees adult populations, as well as couples/various dynamics. I believe in building a therapeutic relationship based on mutual respect and trust. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, and shame free environment to explore all aspects of the self. I am a firm believer that by helping each person become comfortable being themselves, the rest of life's struggles are much easier to process. I primarily utilize Acceptance and Commitment Therapy as my approach.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, who primarily sees adult populations, as well as couples/various dynamics. I believe in building a therapeutic relationship based on mutual respect and trust. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, and shame free environment to explore all aspects of the self. I am a firm believer that by helping each person become comfortable being themselves, the rest of life's struggles are much easier to process. I primarily utilize Acceptance and Commitment Therapy as my approach.
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I prefer to help people find the peace keeping their relationship together, but I enjoy helping them find peace when divorce is imminent.
You have choices, and sometimes all the choices suck. They just do. I help you find your way through the choices. I believe you matter, and your feelings matter. You don't matter more than anyone else, but you certainly don't matter less! I work hard to understand what you're experiencing. I have a direct style of communicating, so you will know what I believe. While counseling isn't inherently fast, I won't waste your time. You can read more about my style at www.KatherineGuy.com.
I prefer to help people find the peace keeping their relationship together, but I enjoy helping them find peace when divorce is imminent.
You have choices, and sometimes all the choices suck. They just do. I help you find your way through the choices. I believe you matter, and your feelings matter. You don't matter more than anyone else, but you certainly don't matter less! I work hard to understand what you're experiencing. I have a direct style of communicating, so you will know what I believe. While counseling isn't inherently fast, I won't waste your time. You can read more about my style at www.KatherineGuy.com.
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Imagine a neurodivergent parent juggling the chaos of family life—kids bouncing off the walls, a to-do list that never ends, and a partner who seems to speak a different language. They’re looking for a lifeline: practical strategies, understanding, and a dash of humor to navigate the ups and downs of parenting and strengthen their relationship. Their goal? To turn the overwhelm into connection and confidence, creating a home where everyone thrives.
Imagine a neurodivergent parent juggling the chaos of family life—kids bouncing off the walls, a to-do list that never ends, and a partner who seems to speak a different language. They’re looking for a lifeline: practical strategies, understanding, and a dash of humor to navigate the ups and downs of parenting and strengthen their relationship. Their goal? To turn the overwhelm into connection and confidence, creating a home where everyone thrives.
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I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and a graduate of Huntington University. I have worked with individuals in a community counseling center and university setting. I have growing experience working with adolescents, teens, young adults, and adults. Specific areas of experience and interest include: anxiety, depression, trauma, family and relationship issues, eating concerns, and stress management. I am also able to offer counseling from a distinctly Christian perspective if desired, but I enjoy connecting with people from all faith backgrounds.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and a graduate of Huntington University. I have worked with individuals in a community counseling center and university setting. I have growing experience working with adolescents, teens, young adults, and adults. Specific areas of experience and interest include: anxiety, depression, trauma, family and relationship issues, eating concerns, and stress management. I am also able to offer counseling from a distinctly Christian perspective if desired, but I enjoy connecting with people from all faith backgrounds.
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Please reach out to me today and schedule an appointment with our kind and polite staff so I can partner with you to improve your life.
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck concerning their relationships, emotions, work, finances, health, or purpose. They are looking for an identity outside of parent or worker. They are feeling depressed and hopeless lately. They are the type that is generally anxious, worried, or on edge. Their goal may be to change their life, but they are not sure how. They may have tried a ton of different self-help, spiritual, or healing modalities on their own but had moments where they have started to think it's never going to happen for them. They need to break free of nonproductive cycles and poor choices to change their lives.
Please reach out to me today and schedule an appointment with our kind and polite staff so I can partner with you to improve your life.
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck concerning their relationships, emotions, work, finances, health, or purpose. They are looking for an identity outside of parent or worker. They are feeling depressed and hopeless lately. They are the type that is generally anxious, worried, or on edge. Their goal may be to change their life, but they are not sure how. They may have tried a ton of different self-help, spiritual, or healing modalities on their own but had moments where they have started to think it's never going to happen for them. They need to break free of nonproductive cycles and poor choices to change their lives.
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Adrianne Wright
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46802
Life can be challenging. Whether you're experiencing feeling "stuck"/ unmotivated, "anxious"/restless, and/or even feeling burdened by the past, these feelings can lead us to feeling helpless and even fearful. If you are on this website, you have already done the hardest thing we can do in life; which is you having hope in processing and/or learning skills to assist with staying focused, reducing emotional suffering, and coping skills to help with whatever your personal/and or relationship goals are.
Life can be challenging. Whether you're experiencing feeling "stuck"/ unmotivated, "anxious"/restless, and/or even feeling burdened by the past, these feelings can lead us to feeling helpless and even fearful. If you are on this website, you have already done the hardest thing we can do in life; which is you having hope in processing and/or learning skills to assist with staying focused, reducing emotional suffering, and coping skills to help with whatever your personal/and or relationship goals are.
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I also work with couples and families through difficult transitions.
I am able to connect with those who are frustrated with their perpetual stress, questioning their pain, and seeking answers. I am drawn to working with adolescents and families who have serious emotional and behavioral problems. My background includes marriage and family therapy as well as counseling chronic mental health issues. I employ a variety of strategies and techniques to provide relief from symptoms as well as explore the root of the problem. I have experience helping with issues such as ADD/ADHD, personality disorders (utilizing DBT), child/adolescent behavioral issues, divorce, social skills, anger management, and grief.
I also work with couples and families through difficult transitions.
I am able to connect with those who are frustrated with their perpetual stress, questioning their pain, and seeking answers. I am drawn to working with adolescents and families who have serious emotional and behavioral problems. My background includes marriage and family therapy as well as counseling chronic mental health issues. I employ a variety of strategies and techniques to provide relief from symptoms as well as explore the root of the problem. I have experience helping with issues such as ADD/ADHD, personality disorders (utilizing DBT), child/adolescent behavioral issues, divorce, social skills, anger management, and grief.
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I primarily work with individuals, marriages, couples, and teens in a variety of areas, including trauma, boundaries, communication, and addictions. I have a passion for walking with wounded people during what often seems like the worst, most broken, and hopeless time of their lives and working toward restoration, reconciliation, forgiveness, and hope. I am also a credentialed EMDR Therapist. I have been married for 36 years and have 6 grown children, 9 grandchildren, and 1 great-grandchild. I love spending time with my family and riding my Harley all over the country.
I primarily work with individuals, marriages, couples, and teens in a variety of areas, including trauma, boundaries, communication, and addictions. I have a passion for walking with wounded people during what often seems like the worst, most broken, and hopeless time of their lives and working toward restoration, reconciliation, forgiveness, and hope. I am also a credentialed EMDR Therapist. I have been married for 36 years and have 6 grown children, 9 grandchildren, and 1 great-grandchild. I love spending time with my family and riding my Harley all over the country.
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Shannon R Colburn-Blinn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Fort Wayne, IN 46805
I enjoy working with young children, teens, families & couples.
I know that seeking help is often a difficult decision whether it's for yourself or your loved one. I commend you on your choice to strive for a healthier life. It is important to me that I provide an accepting, comforting environment that allows you to feel safe when discussing difficult topics. As a social worker, I am very client-focused. You are the expert in your life and I want to join with you to enhance your strengths and prepare for a brighter future. Stop waiting and schedule an appointment today! Evening and weekend appointments available.
I enjoy working with young children, teens, families & couples.
I know that seeking help is often a difficult decision whether it's for yourself or your loved one. I commend you on your choice to strive for a healthier life. It is important to me that I provide an accepting, comforting environment that allows you to feel safe when discussing difficult topics. As a social worker, I am very client-focused. You are the expert in your life and I want to join with you to enhance your strengths and prepare for a brighter future. Stop waiting and schedule an appointment today! Evening and weekend appointments available.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.