Emotionally Focused Therapists in Wheaton, IL

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Annie Musgraves
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, ALMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
I make use of Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems therapy, as well as other experiential and somatic approaches.
My name is Annie Musgraves and I am a therapist on staff with Bristlecone Therapy. I know that it can be hard to consider going to see a therapist. Sometimes we have parts of us that want the support therapy can offer and then sometimes we have other parts that aren't so sure about the idea of therapy. If this sounds like you, I want you to know that all parts of you are welcome in my office, especially those parts of you that may be unsure, standoffish or fretful about showing up.
I make use of Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems therapy, as well as other experiential and somatic approaches.
My name is Annie Musgraves and I am a therapist on staff with Bristlecone Therapy. I know that it can be hard to consider going to see a therapist. Sometimes we have parts of us that want the support therapy can offer and then sometimes we have other parts that aren't so sure about the idea of therapy. If this sounds like you, I want you to know that all parts of you are welcome in my office, especially those parts of you that may be unsure, standoffish or fretful about showing up.
(630) 473-9687 x703 View (630) 473-9687 x703
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Michael Galbraith
Counselor, MS, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I get deep satisfaction from working with couples, using best practices from advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy to recreate emotional connection. I also am trained in using EMDR to help individuals experience relief from the burden of traumatic experiences. Another specialty is Discernment Counseling, a discipline in which I am fully certified and which offers couples an opportunity to gain clarity about whether they remain married, continue as they are for the time being, or commit to the challenging work of couples therapy.
I get deep satisfaction from working with couples, using best practices from advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy to recreate emotional connection. I also am trained in using EMDR to help individuals experience relief from the burden of traumatic experiences. Another specialty is Discernment Counseling, a discipline in which I am fully certified and which offers couples an opportunity to gain clarity about whether they remain married, continue as they are for the time being, or commit to the challenging work of couples therapy.
(630) 407-1241 View (630) 407-1241
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Ines Chen
Counselor, DCoun, LPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I am a seminary-trained professional counselor who utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), emotionally focused therapy ( EFT), and eclectic therapy.
My dear client, I am glad that you have found me. I understand that life is full of challenges and obstacles. That is why I am here: meeting you where you are and walking together with you through the storm in your life. I will do whatever I can to help you, using all my professional training, experiences, and resources. Please don't give up! I have seen many troubled hearts and lives restored as a result of counseling. There is hope! Together we can ride out your storm!
I am a seminary-trained professional counselor who utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), emotionally focused therapy ( EFT), and eclectic therapy.
My dear client, I am glad that you have found me. I understand that life is full of challenges and obstacles. That is why I am here: meeting you where you are and walking together with you through the storm in your life. I will do whatever I can to help you, using all my professional training, experiences, and resources. Please don't give up! I have seen many troubled hearts and lives restored as a result of counseling. There is hope! Together we can ride out your storm!
(888) 725-4642 View (888) 725-4642
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Angie Young
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR, RYT200
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I believe healing is possible through an invitation to connect with your body, emotions, and thoughts. To build understanding about how your experiences, relationships, and culture have impacted your life. I seek to be a companion in the process of sharing your personal story as you sift through the well of your entire lived experience to discover your authentic voice. Together, we will use body based interventions, emotionally focused work, and brain-based approaches like EMDR to reclaim the chapters of your life where difficult experiences stole your sense of who you are, and nurture growth, healing, and overcome loneliness.
I believe healing is possible through an invitation to connect with your body, emotions, and thoughts. To build understanding about how your experiences, relationships, and culture have impacted your life. I seek to be a companion in the process of sharing your personal story as you sift through the well of your entire lived experience to discover your authentic voice. Together, we will use body based interventions, emotionally focused work, and brain-based approaches like EMDR to reclaim the chapters of your life where difficult experiences stole your sense of who you are, and nurture growth, healing, and overcome loneliness.
(630) 524-4362 View (630) 524-4362
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Hilary Gilway
Counselor, MEd, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
I have completed training in cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, emotionally focused counseling and mind-body centered therapies.
I am passionate about providing counseling to new moms, women and teen girls who need support with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship concerns, life transitions and more. I am trauma-informed and work to build safe and positive relationships with clients focusing on each client's strengths and goals. I talk with clients about how they relate to and interact with others, find and process their deeper emotions and figure out a path to healing, making changes and feeling better.
I have completed training in cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, emotionally focused counseling and mind-body centered therapies.
I am passionate about providing counseling to new moms, women and teen girls who need support with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship concerns, life transitions and more. I am trauma-informed and work to build safe and positive relationships with clients focusing on each client's strengths and goals. I talk with clients about how they relate to and interact with others, find and process their deeper emotions and figure out a path to healing, making changes and feeling better.
(708) 290-7077 View (708) 290-7077
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Christine A Barker
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
I use mindfulness, CBT, CPT, and EFT in many of my sessions.
Hi there! I am Christine :) I am a passionate-practicing LCPC in North Naperville. I have over 10 years of experience. I enjoy working with adults who have problematic relationships, childhood issues, and who feel stuck in their present life. It might be trauma, depression, anxiety, but whatever it is we can help you get "unstuck" together. I believe everyone has potential to help themselves, but sometimes we need some guidance. Many of us weren't taught how to deal with our emotions and feelings, and as a result, our adult lives suffer in ways we aren't educated to fix. I am here to help guide YOU to your BEST SELF.
I use mindfulness, CBT, CPT, and EFT in many of my sessions.
Hi there! I am Christine :) I am a passionate-practicing LCPC in North Naperville. I have over 10 years of experience. I enjoy working with adults who have problematic relationships, childhood issues, and who feel stuck in their present life. It might be trauma, depression, anxiety, but whatever it is we can help you get "unstuck" together. I believe everyone has potential to help themselves, but sometimes we need some guidance. Many of us weren't taught how to deal with our emotions and feelings, and as a result, our adult lives suffer in ways we aren't educated to fix. I am here to help guide YOU to your BEST SELF.
(630) 581-2505 View (630) 581-2505
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Mary Gigi Borge
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA , LCPC, EMDR, NCC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60189
Waitlist for new clients
I offer approaches focused on creating healthy relationships (IFS, EFT, Gottman), healing from trauma (EMDR, Trauma-Focused CBT, IFS, experiential therapy), and supporting clients in their pursuits (Strengths-based coaching, CBT, Mindfulness).
Whether you seek relief from depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, PTSD, relationship difficulties or other challenges, I am excited to collaborate with clients who desire to live their unique lives fully, participate in their healing process and seek to establish genuine, compassionate relationship with themselves and others! I believe most of us are doing our best to become who we hope to be, and can benefit from seeking appropriate support. Therefore, I don’t see a diagnosis, but an amazing human who wants to thrive despite life’s many challenges.
I offer approaches focused on creating healthy relationships (IFS, EFT, Gottman), healing from trauma (EMDR, Trauma-Focused CBT, IFS, experiential therapy), and supporting clients in their pursuits (Strengths-based coaching, CBT, Mindfulness).
Whether you seek relief from depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, PTSD, relationship difficulties or other challenges, I am excited to collaborate with clients who desire to live their unique lives fully, participate in their healing process and seek to establish genuine, compassionate relationship with themselves and others! I believe most of us are doing our best to become who we hope to be, and can benefit from seeking appropriate support. Therefore, I don’t see a diagnosis, but an amazing human who wants to thrive despite life’s many challenges.
(630) 407-1782 View (630) 407-1782
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Seth W. Allison
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
Via EFT, a large part of my clinical work is focused on couples who are seeking to strengthen their sense of connection.
In a word, my approach to therapy is relational. I am at my best when I am centered, curious and genuinely engaged in my client's experience... exploring, nuancing and understanding their unique perspective and the struggles they are facing. I believe in the importance of finding the right "fit" between client and therapist and it is for that reason that I strive to be authentic and fully engaged in every session. My training, areas of specialization and personal style are well suited for those who might be seeking to go deeper in their understanding of themselves and their relationships.
Via EFT, a large part of my clinical work is focused on couples who are seeking to strengthen their sense of connection.
In a word, my approach to therapy is relational. I am at my best when I am centered, curious and genuinely engaged in my client's experience... exploring, nuancing and understanding their unique perspective and the struggles they are facing. I believe in the importance of finding the right "fit" between client and therapist and it is for that reason that I strive to be authentic and fully engaged in every session. My training, areas of specialization and personal style are well suited for those who might be seeking to go deeper in their understanding of themselves and their relationships.
(630) 672-0783 View (630) 672-0783
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Inner Peace Therapies
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCPC, CADC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
In my work with couples, I use Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT), which is a well-researched and effective modality to increase safety and connection in relationships.
I know that making the choice to seek counseling is not easy. No one is immune to the stressors of life. But even small changes can lead to enormous benefits. At Inner Peace Therapies, I aim to provide a safe, nurturing space for your journey to healing. Through a collaborative environment, you can explore your emotional needs and face your challenges to uncover your true potential. By focusing on your strengths and using complementary therapy approaches, I can guide you to achieve wellness, happiness, and peace. Because each client has different experiences and backgrounds, I strive to be culturally sensitive, providing compassionate care to all.
In my work with couples, I use Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT), which is a well-researched and effective modality to increase safety and connection in relationships.
I know that making the choice to seek counseling is not easy. No one is immune to the stressors of life. But even small changes can lead to enormous benefits. At Inner Peace Therapies, I aim to provide a safe, nurturing space for your journey to healing. Through a collaborative environment, you can explore your emotional needs and face your challenges to uncover your true potential. By focusing on your strengths and using complementary therapy approaches, I can guide you to achieve wellness, happiness, and peace. Because each client has different experiences and backgrounds, I strive to be culturally sensitive, providing compassionate care to all.
(630) 793-4916 View (630) 793-4916
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Francoise Mastroianni
Counselor, LCPC, Hypnoth, SEP, CCPS, CSAS
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Training as an Emotionally Focused Therapist ( EFT),and certified Hypnotherapist.
Certified Sexual Addiction Specialist, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist.The model practiced is multidimensional, treating the addict, partner, coupleship. All three dimensions of the attachment injury are traumatized. The aftermath of discovery/disclosure induces symptoms that impact psysiological responses to the mind, body.The treatment protocol for sexual addiction induced trauma I practice is EMDR, as well as 2 day Intensives. Practicing SEP,we are able to get to wounds of how the body holds the trauma/ attachment injury, using an integrative trauma model. Emotionally Focused Therapy allows helping couples to get to their deepest needs/hurt/rejection/ and betrayal.
Training as an Emotionally Focused Therapist ( EFT),and certified Hypnotherapist.
Certified Sexual Addiction Specialist, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist.The model practiced is multidimensional, treating the addict, partner, coupleship. All three dimensions of the attachment injury are traumatized. The aftermath of discovery/disclosure induces symptoms that impact psysiological responses to the mind, body.The treatment protocol for sexual addiction induced trauma I practice is EMDR, as well as 2 day Intensives. Practicing SEP,we are able to get to wounds of how the body holds the trauma/ attachment injury, using an integrative trauma model. Emotionally Focused Therapy allows helping couples to get to their deepest needs/hurt/rejection/ and betrayal.
(630) 282-4643 View (630) 282-4643
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Lindsey Rogers
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
When working with couples, I utilize Gottman techniques and EFT to address issues such as communication, parenting issues, and trust.
Have you been considering therapy for a while but something has gotten in the way? Did you try therapy in the past without arriving at your desired outcome? I look forward to working with you to take that next step and achieve your goals. My approach is client-centered and strengths-based, and my clients describe me as positive, warm, and directive. I focus on building rapport and making clients feel comfortable, knowing that the therapeutic relationship can be so integral in facilitating change.
When working with couples, I utilize Gottman techniques and EFT to address issues such as communication, parenting issues, and trust.
Have you been considering therapy for a while but something has gotten in the way? Did you try therapy in the past without arriving at your desired outcome? I look forward to working with you to take that next step and achieve your goals. My approach is client-centered and strengths-based, and my clients describe me as positive, warm, and directive. I focus on building rapport and making clients feel comfortable, knowing that the therapeutic relationship can be so integral in facilitating change.
(331) 241-7928 View (331) 241-7928
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Rory Scher
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Therapy can be a great place to begin the courageous journey of rediscovering who you are and equipping yourself with the tools needed to make your life more enriched and fulfilling. I work with couples, families, and individuals of all ages. I have undergone training in EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy), and use ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) for treating OCD and anxiety related disorders.
Therapy can be a great place to begin the courageous journey of rediscovering who you are and equipping yourself with the tools needed to make your life more enriched and fulfilling. I work with couples, families, and individuals of all ages. I have undergone training in EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy), and use ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) for treating OCD and anxiety related disorders.
(331) 204-1696 View (331) 204-1696
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Amanda Summers
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
In addition I have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy which I use to help couples navigate the cycles that may create conflict in their relationship.
As a therapist specializing in adults, couples and perinatal therapy, I utilize a relational approach to support my clients through pivotal life transitions. Relationships have one of the greatest influences on our lives and I believe that by exploring these relationships from both past and present we can find more clarity and connection in our life. I work with individuals and couples on increasing communication, navigating life changes and preparing for parenthood. My practice is grounded in creating a safe, empathetic space where clients can explore their experiences and develop the tools they need for personal growth and healing
In addition I have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy which I use to help couples navigate the cycles that may create conflict in their relationship.
As a therapist specializing in adults, couples and perinatal therapy, I utilize a relational approach to support my clients through pivotal life transitions. Relationships have one of the greatest influences on our lives and I believe that by exploring these relationships from both past and present we can find more clarity and connection in our life. I work with individuals and couples on increasing communication, navigating life changes and preparing for parenthood. My practice is grounded in creating a safe, empathetic space where clients can explore their experiences and develop the tools they need for personal growth and healing
(331) 256-2732 View (331) 256-2732
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Sheila Hynes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
EFT is restorative and can help you heal and build a stronger and more secure emotional bond.
In my practice, I work with couples, individuals, and families utilizing methods from Emotionally Focused Therapy. This scientifically proven approach, developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, helps people understand and improve their emotional connection with themselves and others. Couples learn how to reconnect through listening, validation, and empathy. The EFT process, backed by research, enables couples, families, and individuals to create secure attachments, leading to improvements in depression and anxiety. I offer faith-based counseling in my practice according to my client's preferences.
EFT is restorative and can help you heal and build a stronger and more secure emotional bond.
In my practice, I work with couples, individuals, and families utilizing methods from Emotionally Focused Therapy. This scientifically proven approach, developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, helps people understand and improve their emotional connection with themselves and others. Couples learn how to reconnect through listening, validation, and empathy. The EFT process, backed by research, enables couples, families, and individuals to create secure attachments, leading to improvements in depression and anxiety. I offer faith-based counseling in my practice according to my client's preferences.
(331) 701-2676 View (331) 701-2676
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Lindsay Baish-Flynn
Counselor, LCP, MA, NCC, CTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
If you're someone who feels like they have "been there, done that" when it comes to therapy and are looking for deeper understanding of yourself, I just might be your therapist. I'm someone who believes coping skills are fantastic, but challenging deeply-held emotional beliefs is what moves people towards lasting change. To do this, I make space for the people I work with to feel understood for exactly who they are. Because I know that when people are able to explore their full selves in a compassionate, curious way, they will be amazed at what they can change (or in some cases, learn to love and accept!).
If you're someone who feels like they have "been there, done that" when it comes to therapy and are looking for deeper understanding of yourself, I just might be your therapist. I'm someone who believes coping skills are fantastic, but challenging deeply-held emotional beliefs is what moves people towards lasting change. To do this, I make space for the people I work with to feel understood for exactly who they are. Because I know that when people are able to explore their full selves in a compassionate, curious way, they will be amazed at what they can change (or in some cases, learn to love and accept!).
(224) 628-7583 View (224) 628-7583
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Lauren Bose
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, L, C, S, W
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
My name is Lauren Bose and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s degree from Aurora University. I like to assist others in overcoming obstacles to achieve their goals. Many times stress, anxiety and depression can make us feel like we can’t. I like to help others realize that they can!
My name is Lauren Bose and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s degree from Aurora University. I like to assist others in overcoming obstacles to achieve their goals. Many times stress, anxiety and depression can make us feel like we can’t. I like to help others realize that they can!
(630) 634-9844 View (630) 634-9844
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Courtney Osbourne
Counselor, MA, LCPC, PhD(c)
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
As we walk through different seasons of our lives, we may all need caring individuals that can offer interventions, help and/or support during our circumstances. Going further, I believe that we were innately created to be in covenant or relationship with our creator, our family or other social circles that we choose to surround ourselves with. However, it is a very personal choice as to how each one of us chooses to go about this path. My strong belief in this basic aspect of life gave birth to Covenant Intuition Center.
As we walk through different seasons of our lives, we may all need caring individuals that can offer interventions, help and/or support during our circumstances. Going further, I believe that we were innately created to be in covenant or relationship with our creator, our family or other social circles that we choose to surround ourselves with. However, it is a very personal choice as to how each one of us chooses to go about this path. My strong belief in this basic aspect of life gave birth to Covenant Intuition Center.
(224) 223-1178 View (224) 223-1178
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Kirsten Emery
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CADC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187  (Online Only)
The world was already complicated...and then COVID happened. I am passionate about helping my clients regain a sense of control, empowerment, and calm in their lives. I specialize in working with adults impacted by depression, anxiety, family stressors, addictions, and disordered eating.
The world was already complicated...and then COVID happened. I am passionate about helping my clients regain a sense of control, empowerment, and calm in their lives. I specialize in working with adults impacted by depression, anxiety, family stressors, addictions, and disordered eating.
(847) 696-8971 View (847) 696-8971
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Kylie Maynard
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, ALMFT
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Looking to create deep and lasting change in your life and relationships? I love working with individuals, couples, and families. Being trained systemically, I examine a client's entirety, not just the issue at hand. I strive to provide a safe, judgement-free, and positive environment that will allow for meaningful therapeutic work. Together we can look into core issues, relational problems, or aspects of trauma to find ways to create and maintain the life and relationships you have always wanted.
Looking to create deep and lasting change in your life and relationships? I love working with individuals, couples, and families. Being trained systemically, I examine a client's entirety, not just the issue at hand. I strive to provide a safe, judgement-free, and positive environment that will allow for meaningful therapeutic work. Together we can look into core issues, relational problems, or aspects of trauma to find ways to create and maintain the life and relationships you have always wanted.
(630) 866-7062 View (630) 866-7062
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Bethanie Lee
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I welcome you and acknowledge the courageous step in considering seeking counseling. Life can feel difficult or hopeless at various seasons or crossroads of our lives. It has been a privilege to collaborate with individuals on addressing their needs and areas of personal growth and would be a privilege to walk with you on your journey. My clinical work has included inpatient and outpatient care settings addressing a variety of mental health concerns including Depression, Anxiety, Mood Disorders, Psychosis, Adjustment issues, Trauma, Substance/Alcohol Abuse and Grief/Bereavement.
I welcome you and acknowledge the courageous step in considering seeking counseling. Life can feel difficult or hopeless at various seasons or crossroads of our lives. It has been a privilege to collaborate with individuals on addressing their needs and areas of personal growth and would be a privilege to walk with you on your journey. My clinical work has included inpatient and outpatient care settings addressing a variety of mental health concerns including Depression, Anxiety, Mood Disorders, Psychosis, Adjustment issues, Trauma, Substance/Alcohol Abuse and Grief/Bereavement.
(847) 584-1731 View (847) 584-1731
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.