Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Wheaton, IL

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Kasia Tomanek
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, MA
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I work with clients 6 and older and have experience working with depression, anxiety, complex trauma, BPD, and attachment/relationship issues.
Are you struggling to prioritize your own needs and caring for yourself? Are you feeling the weight of depression, anxiety, and relationship problems? I strongly believe that, as individuals, we need to prioritize our own well-being to live a full and rewarding lives. Helping clients discover and access self-care and self-compassion as they begin their journey in therapy is a passion of mine. Beginnings are never easy, but I am here to walk alongside you in this journey and will be here to support and guide you through this rewarding and life changing process.
I work with clients 6 and older and have experience working with depression, anxiety, complex trauma, BPD, and attachment/relationship issues.
Are you struggling to prioritize your own needs and caring for yourself? Are you feeling the weight of depression, anxiety, and relationship problems? I strongly believe that, as individuals, we need to prioritize our own well-being to live a full and rewarding lives. Helping clients discover and access self-care and self-compassion as they begin their journey in therapy is a passion of mine. Beginnings are never easy, but I am here to walk alongside you in this journey and will be here to support and guide you through this rewarding and life changing process.
(630) 538-7405 View (630) 538-7405
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Antonio D Salvat
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60189
Waitlist for new clients
Antonio Salvat, Psy.D., LMFT has a doctorate in clinical psychology and is a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist. He specializes in individual, couples, and family therapy with adolescents and adults of various backgrounds and sexual orientations. Dr. Salvat has worked with people struggling with depression, anxiety, Asperger's Syndrome (autism spectrum), Borderline Personality Disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, thought disorders, emotional disorders, sexuality and gender, co-dependency, boundary issues, and general life problems.
Antonio Salvat, Psy.D., LMFT has a doctorate in clinical psychology and is a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist. He specializes in individual, couples, and family therapy with adolescents and adults of various backgrounds and sexual orientations. Dr. Salvat has worked with people struggling with depression, anxiety, Asperger's Syndrome (autism spectrum), Borderline Personality Disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, thought disorders, emotional disorders, sexuality and gender, co-dependency, boundary issues, and general life problems.
(630) 358-4288 View (630) 358-4288
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Taylor McPherson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Hey - I am happy you're here! I am passionate about working with individuals who live with anxiety, depression, PTSD, BPD, & behavioral/emotional dysregulation difficulties. Moreover, I enjoy helping individuals process trauma & relationship/family conflict. I’m LGBTQIA+ affirming and enjoy working with folks from different cultural backgrounds and walks of life. Nothing brings me more joy than helping my clients heal and see the beauty within themselves.
Hey - I am happy you're here! I am passionate about working with individuals who live with anxiety, depression, PTSD, BPD, & behavioral/emotional dysregulation difficulties. Moreover, I enjoy helping individuals process trauma & relationship/family conflict. I’m LGBTQIA+ affirming and enjoy working with folks from different cultural backgrounds and walks of life. Nothing brings me more joy than helping my clients heal and see the beauty within themselves.
(331) 256-1638 View (331) 256-1638
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Jenny Schermerhorn
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Everyone deserves a safe, non-judgmental space to process, reflect and heal. I am passionate about providing my clients a space to examine patterns and behaviors that are no longer serving them and move forward with their lives in an empowered, healthy way. No matter what your current challenges and needs are, we can work together to establish realistic goals for therapy that will help move you toward creating the life and relationships you want.
Everyone deserves a safe, non-judgmental space to process, reflect and heal. I am passionate about providing my clients a space to examine patterns and behaviors that are no longer serving them and move forward with their lives in an empowered, healthy way. No matter what your current challenges and needs are, we can work together to establish realistic goals for therapy that will help move you toward creating the life and relationships you want.
(630) 228-1150 View (630) 228-1150
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Laura Van Dame
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I work with a wide array of issues and concerns, but most of my clients are in need of a compassionate ear to help them make sense of their own world. They want to know they are heard and valued and that the clinician will be a supportive resource in their journey. Many clients these days struggle with asking for help, and allowing themselves to receive it. That is where therapy can come in and offer skills and support to help move forward.
I work with a wide array of issues and concerns, but most of my clients are in need of a compassionate ear to help them make sense of their own world. They want to know they are heard and valued and that the clinician will be a supportive resource in their journey. Many clients these days struggle with asking for help, and allowing themselves to receive it. That is where therapy can come in and offer skills and support to help move forward.
(630) 349-5920 View (630) 349-5920
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Kristin Padera
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Everyone deserves a caring, non-judgmental space to process, reflect, and find healing. As a therapist, I have a warm, compassionate, and honest relational style. I take pride in my ability to connect easily with clients to help them feel comfortable quickly. My specialty is in assisting my clients with uncovering the root of unhelpful patterns, addressing the symptoms of these patterns, and creating meaningful changes in their lives. Through my knowledge, experience, and passion, I can assist you in finding greater confidence, healing, and insight.
Everyone deserves a caring, non-judgmental space to process, reflect, and find healing. As a therapist, I have a warm, compassionate, and honest relational style. I take pride in my ability to connect easily with clients to help them feel comfortable quickly. My specialty is in assisting my clients with uncovering the root of unhelpful patterns, addressing the symptoms of these patterns, and creating meaningful changes in their lives. Through my knowledge, experience, and passion, I can assist you in finding greater confidence, healing, and insight.
(630) 756-5925 View (630) 756-5925
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Joseph Rubin
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Are your thoughts and emotions making it difficult for you to do your best at work/school or negatively affecting your relationships? Are you struggling to find balance in your life? Are you experiencing anxiety or depression? Constantly thinking about the consequences of past decisions? Going over catastrophic what-if scenarios again and again in your head? I can help you get out of your head and into your life using the best and most researched methods from Western psychology and Eastern philosophy and healing techniques. The world is waiting for you !
Are your thoughts and emotions making it difficult for you to do your best at work/school or negatively affecting your relationships? Are you struggling to find balance in your life? Are you experiencing anxiety or depression? Constantly thinking about the consequences of past decisions? Going over catastrophic what-if scenarios again and again in your head? I can help you get out of your head and into your life using the best and most researched methods from Western psychology and Eastern philosophy and healing techniques. The world is waiting for you !
(847) 423-6842 View (847) 423-6842
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Josette Nard
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CGP, CRS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
Waitlist for new clients
Even after nearly 40 years as a therapist, each time I begin to work with people I feel as though I am walking on holy ground. Each person who comes to me willing to be vulnerable and open to the change necessary to bring about greater relational happiness and deeper personal awareness is treated with profound respect. Therapy takes courage to face that part of ourselves that may be limiting or sabotaging our relational and personal growth.
Even after nearly 40 years as a therapist, each time I begin to work with people I feel as though I am walking on holy ground. Each person who comes to me willing to be vulnerable and open to the change necessary to bring about greater relational happiness and deeper personal awareness is treated with profound respect. Therapy takes courage to face that part of ourselves that may be limiting or sabotaging our relational and personal growth.
(630) 426-6864 View (630) 426-6864
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Katrina Flesvig
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187  (Online Only)
I am dedicated to fostering a nurturing environment where compassion and understanding flourish, offering you a safe haven to navigate your goals, confront challenges, and heal from past traumas. Recognizing that your journey is deeply personal, my goal is to empower you with the confidence to forge your own path. With a blend of empathy and expertise, I stand beside you, guiding you towards self-discovery and resilience, ensuring that you feel supported and valued every step of the way.
I am dedicated to fostering a nurturing environment where compassion and understanding flourish, offering you a safe haven to navigate your goals, confront challenges, and heal from past traumas. Recognizing that your journey is deeply personal, my goal is to empower you with the confidence to forge your own path. With a blend of empathy and expertise, I stand beside you, guiding you towards self-discovery and resilience, ensuring that you feel supported and valued every step of the way.
(630) 866-8965 View (630) 866-8965
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Lauren Lucas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Perhaps you're pursuing therapy in the hopes of strengthening your self-worth, or maybe to improve communication skills, to process the impact traumatic experiences have had on your worldview, or to learn new ways to cope with depression, anxiety, or life's stressors. Whatever it is that has prompted you to start this process, I look forward to working together to move you towards a place of contentment, emotional security, and confidence in coping with what life brings you. My approach is collaborative and conversational; my clients have described our sessions as warm, empowering, educational, and connective.
Perhaps you're pursuing therapy in the hopes of strengthening your self-worth, or maybe to improve communication skills, to process the impact traumatic experiences have had on your worldview, or to learn new ways to cope with depression, anxiety, or life's stressors. Whatever it is that has prompted you to start this process, I look forward to working together to move you towards a place of contentment, emotional security, and confidence in coping with what life brings you. My approach is collaborative and conversational; my clients have described our sessions as warm, empowering, educational, and connective.
(630) 557-8218 View (630) 557-8218
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Angie Young
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR, RYT200
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I believe healing is possible through an invitation to connect with your body, emotions, and thoughts. To build understanding about how your experiences, relationships, and culture have impacted your life. I seek to be a companion in the process of sharing your personal story as you sift through the well of your entire lived experience to discover your authentic voice. Together, we will use body based interventions, emotionally focused work, and brain-based approaches like EMDR to reclaim the chapters of your life where difficult experiences stole your sense of who you are, and nurture growth, healing, and overcome loneliness.
I believe healing is possible through an invitation to connect with your body, emotions, and thoughts. To build understanding about how your experiences, relationships, and culture have impacted your life. I seek to be a companion in the process of sharing your personal story as you sift through the well of your entire lived experience to discover your authentic voice. Together, we will use body based interventions, emotionally focused work, and brain-based approaches like EMDR to reclaim the chapters of your life where difficult experiences stole your sense of who you are, and nurture growth, healing, and overcome loneliness.
(630) 524-4362 View (630) 524-4362
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Gigi Mary Clinard Borge
Counselor, MA , NCC, LPC, EMDR
Not Verified Not Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Whether you seek relief from depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, PTSD, relationship difficulties or other challenges, I am excited to collaborate with clients who desire to live their unique lives fully, participate in their healing process and seek to establish genuine, compassionate relationship with themselves and others! I believe most of us are doing our best to become who we hope to be, and can benefit from seeking appropriate support. Therefore, I don’t see a diagnosis, but an amazing human who wants to thrive despite life’s many challenges.
Whether you seek relief from depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, PTSD, relationship difficulties or other challenges, I am excited to collaborate with clients who desire to live their unique lives fully, participate in their healing process and seek to establish genuine, compassionate relationship with themselves and others! I believe most of us are doing our best to become who we hope to be, and can benefit from seeking appropriate support. Therefore, I don’t see a diagnosis, but an amazing human who wants to thrive despite life’s many challenges.
(630) 407-1782 x328 View (630) 407-1782 x328
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Debbie Prescott
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
Are you facing unexpected challenges in your life? Let me help you rediscover your strengths and regain mental and emotional wellness. I offer support and teach techniques to help you overcome your obstacles. My specialty is guiding my clients through life transitions, such as divorce, illness, grief, and job loss. I focus on treatment of depression, marital and relational codependency, workplace conflict, and parenting issues, especially those related to discord with adult children.
Are you facing unexpected challenges in your life? Let me help you rediscover your strengths and regain mental and emotional wellness. I offer support and teach techniques to help you overcome your obstacles. My specialty is guiding my clients through life transitions, such as divorce, illness, grief, and job loss. I focus on treatment of depression, marital and relational codependency, workplace conflict, and parenting issues, especially those related to discord with adult children.
(331) 208-5568 View (331) 208-5568
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Britni Ludwig
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60189  (Online Only)
Are you feeling distant in your relationships? Despite caring deeply, you might be struggling to connect with your partner, children, or parents. It can be frustrating and even painful when your efforts to feel close fall short. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I help individuals, couples, and families navigate these challenges and create stronger connections. I also specialize in treating anxiety, guiding you toward a calmer and more balanced life. Together, we’ll work to create the meaningful change you want, both in your relationships and in your life.
Are you feeling distant in your relationships? Despite caring deeply, you might be struggling to connect with your partner, children, or parents. It can be frustrating and even painful when your efforts to feel close fall short. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I help individuals, couples, and families navigate these challenges and create stronger connections. I also specialize in treating anxiety, guiding you toward a calmer and more balanced life. Together, we’ll work to create the meaningful change you want, both in your relationships and in your life.
(312) 477-2840 View (312) 477-2840
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Joyce Babb
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD, MSW
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Change is possible. I can help. I offer exceptional and compassionate counseling services to help you to achieve your goals so that you can live your life and relationships more fully. I have extensive experience, both in the US and overseas, in working with individuals, couples, families, and groups to address a wide range of issues, including anxiety and panic disorders; depression; stress management; marital and family problems; parenting skills; attention deficit disorders; life transitions; grief and loss; women's issues; men's issues; substance abuse and addictions; co-dependency, family of origin, perfectionism, and shame issues and more. .
Change is possible. I can help. I offer exceptional and compassionate counseling services to help you to achieve your goals so that you can live your life and relationships more fully. I have extensive experience, both in the US and overseas, in working with individuals, couples, families, and groups to address a wide range of issues, including anxiety and panic disorders; depression; stress management; marital and family problems; parenting skills; attention deficit disorders; life transitions; grief and loss; women's issues; men's issues; substance abuse and addictions; co-dependency, family of origin, perfectionism, and shame issues and more. .
(630) 984-7627 View (630) 984-7627
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Jonathan Alvin
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Psychotherapy provides a personalized journey towards understanding and learning about one's self. Therapy can help us cope with psychological distress and the issues which life presents to us.
Psychotherapy provides a personalized journey towards understanding and learning about one's self. Therapy can help us cope with psychological distress and the issues which life presents to us.
(773) 492-8817 View (773) 492-8817
Holly S Heighway
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Are you new to therapy and looking for change, but not sure where to start? Or maybe you need some extra support at this time in your life. Hello, I have been in practice for 10 years, treating individuals and families struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, communication, and all things self-worth. I work well with any family/adult who is motivated to change. I personalize treatment based on each client's needs and situation, motivating one's ability to pursue real change in their life. Please be curious about your potential for change and reach out today.
Are you new to therapy and looking for change, but not sure where to start? Or maybe you need some extra support at this time in your life. Hello, I have been in practice for 10 years, treating individuals and families struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, communication, and all things self-worth. I work well with any family/adult who is motivated to change. I personalize treatment based on each client's needs and situation, motivating one's ability to pursue real change in their life. Please be curious about your potential for change and reach out today.
(630) 912-8338 View (630) 912-8338
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Joan L Fefferman
Counselor, MS , LCPC, CADC, NCC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I enjoy helping patients improve their lives. I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and a Alcohol and Drug Counselor. I specialize in depression and anxiety that stems from relationship issues, peer issues, work problems, and school issues. Through education, life experiences, a family of my own, and a great deal of empathy, I feel that I can offer unique and confidential treatment. I have worked within private practices, hospitals, trauma centers, hospices and schools. Before counseling, I worked in academics, teaching, and financial institutions. I aim to provide my patients with the highest quality of care possible.
I enjoy helping patients improve their lives. I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and a Alcohol and Drug Counselor. I specialize in depression and anxiety that stems from relationship issues, peer issues, work problems, and school issues. Through education, life experiences, a family of my own, and a great deal of empathy, I feel that I can offer unique and confidential treatment. I have worked within private practices, hospitals, trauma centers, hospices and schools. Before counseling, I worked in academics, teaching, and financial institutions. I aim to provide my patients with the highest quality of care possible.
(630) 315-0945 View (630) 315-0945
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Cindy L Bandukwala
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I am passionate about working with children, adolescents, families, and individuals and am committed to collaborating with each person to provide a non-judgmental, personalized therapeutic experience. I am dedicated to helping others to understand their difficulties and to create healthy ways to value themselves and others.
I am passionate about working with children, adolescents, families, and individuals and am committed to collaborating with each person to provide a non-judgmental, personalized therapeutic experience. I am dedicated to helping others to understand their difficulties and to create healthy ways to value themselves and others.
(630) 653-1717 View (630) 653-1717
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Kylie Maynard
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, ALMFT
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Looking to create deep and lasting change in your life and relationships? I love working with individuals, couples, and families. Being trained systemically, I examine a client's entirety, not just the issue at hand. I strive to provide a safe, judgement-free, and positive environment that will allow for meaningful therapeutic work. Together we can look into core issues, relational problems, or aspects of trauma to find ways to create and maintain the life and relationships you have always wanted.
Looking to create deep and lasting change in your life and relationships? I love working with individuals, couples, and families. Being trained systemically, I examine a client's entirety, not just the issue at hand. I strive to provide a safe, judgement-free, and positive environment that will allow for meaningful therapeutic work. Together we can look into core issues, relational problems, or aspects of trauma to find ways to create and maintain the life and relationships you have always wanted.
(630) 866-7062 View (630) 866-7062
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.