Relationship Issues Therapists in Orland Park, IL

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Mindy Sherack Life Coach Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSN, MSW, LCSW, SAP
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
We can address a wide range of life issues such: depression, anxiety, Stress at work/home, relationship issues, addiction, low self-esteem or self-care, trouble with assertiveness or communication, or just wanting something more out of life? I am a Substance Abuse Professional (SAP), have divorce mediation certificate (2021) and Gottman Level 1 trained!.
I am obsessed with partnering alongside brave people who are motivated for a better life, become the architects to actually do it! We all come face to face with our personal "life stumbling stone" (a certain event, relationship, loss, difficult life situation), that we are unable to adequately cope with, using our own inner strength, resources, knowledge or willpower. Loss and adversity are a part of life, but it can be the architecture for a better, more fulfilling and joyful life, it just depends how we use it! With over 30 years working with clients, across the entire life span, let me coach you to create your best you!
We can address a wide range of life issues such: depression, anxiety, Stress at work/home, relationship issues, addiction, low self-esteem or self-care, trouble with assertiveness or communication, or just wanting something more out of life? I am a Substance Abuse Professional (SAP), have divorce mediation certificate (2021) and Gottman Level 1 trained!.
I am obsessed with partnering alongside brave people who are motivated for a better life, become the architects to actually do it! We all come face to face with our personal "life stumbling stone" (a certain event, relationship, loss, difficult life situation), that we are unable to adequately cope with, using our own inner strength, resources, knowledge or willpower. Loss and adversity are a part of life, but it can be the architecture for a better, more fulfilling and joyful life, it just depends how we use it! With over 30 years working with clients, across the entire life span, let me coach you to create your best you!
(773) 570-2542 View (773) 570-2542
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Lisa Vander Veer
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467  (Online Only)
As a clinical psychologist, I have experience with a wide range of issues, including personality disorders, anxiety, mood disorders, and relationship challenges.
Are you struggling with issues that feel overwhelming or that others haven’t been able to help you with successfully? I’m here to help you navigate the most challenging life experiences, whether it’s anxiety, relationship problems, family conflicts, or life transitions. Sometimes, it's hard to pinpoint exactly what's wrong, but you know life could be better. Together, we’ll work towards reducing suffering, processing the past, and finding practical strategies to help you become the best version of yourself.
As a clinical psychologist, I have experience with a wide range of issues, including personality disorders, anxiety, mood disorders, and relationship challenges.
Are you struggling with issues that feel overwhelming or that others haven’t been able to help you with successfully? I’m here to help you navigate the most challenging life experiences, whether it’s anxiety, relationship problems, family conflicts, or life transitions. Sometimes, it's hard to pinpoint exactly what's wrong, but you know life could be better. Together, we’ll work towards reducing suffering, processing the past, and finding practical strategies to help you become the best version of yourself.
(708) 726-8240 View (708) 726-8240
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White Oak Institute for Growth and Wellness
Counselor, LCPC, LMFT , PsyD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60462
At the White Oak we pride ourselves on building the therapeutic relationship with you and offering comfort and a personal quality in our approach.
Are you still trying to feel better, adjust to stressors, find balance, better relationships, or cope with mental illness? We will join you. At the White Oak we believe that the relationship with our clients is the paramount of any successful therapeutic endeavor. Your professional specialized counselor will tailor a plan to help you gain insight, develop mental skills, and better balance your life in coordination with your perceived mental health dilemma, stressors, or problem. Our beautiful new facility is located in Orland Park on 143rd Street 1 mile west of Route 45 in a beautifully renovated unique office in Old Orland.
At the White Oak we pride ourselves on building the therapeutic relationship with you and offering comfort and a personal quality in our approach.
Are you still trying to feel better, adjust to stressors, find balance, better relationships, or cope with mental illness? We will join you. At the White Oak we believe that the relationship with our clients is the paramount of any successful therapeutic endeavor. Your professional specialized counselor will tailor a plan to help you gain insight, develop mental skills, and better balance your life in coordination with your perceived mental health dilemma, stressors, or problem. Our beautiful new facility is located in Orland Park on 143rd Street 1 mile west of Route 45 in a beautifully renovated unique office in Old Orland.
(708) 726-5131 View (708) 726-5131
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Nancy L Bonnevier
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462  (Online Only)
I specialize in mood disorders, including anxiety and depression, personality disorders, relationship/family therapy and dealing with grief and loss.
Are you seeking change...balance...emotional well-being? Do you feel your life is out of control? As an experienced therapist for the past twenty years, I am here to help guide you toward living a more rewarding life. My philosophy of counseling embraces a fundamental belief in the integrity and dignity of each individual, and employs a collaborative approach. I utilize a relaxed, holistic and engaged style designed to achieve comfort and trust, blended with effective and proven therapeutic techniques. Together we will chart a path to successful living. Life is a gift - let's live it well!
I specialize in mood disorders, including anxiety and depression, personality disorders, relationship/family therapy and dealing with grief and loss.
Are you seeking change...balance...emotional well-being? Do you feel your life is out of control? As an experienced therapist for the past twenty years, I am here to help guide you toward living a more rewarding life. My philosophy of counseling embraces a fundamental belief in the integrity and dignity of each individual, and employs a collaborative approach. I utilize a relaxed, holistic and engaged style designed to achieve comfort and trust, blended with effective and proven therapeutic techniques. Together we will chart a path to successful living. Life is a gift - let's live it well!
(708) 316-7970 View (708) 316-7970
Dr. Julie Chicvara
Psychologist, PsyD, LCP
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
Because I feel the therapeutic relationship is the main catalyst to success in therapy, I strive to form a relational bond with my patients.
Hello! I am Dr. Julie Chicvara, PsyD, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Born and raised in the southwest suburbs, I have settled my own family in the same community and opened a private practice in the Orland/Mokena area. You can expect a warm welcome and a comfortable environment upon coming to my office. The first visit entails a structured interview where background information and presenting problems are noted. A weekly time will be agreed upon where we will meet to work on therapeutic goals and current stressors. Therapy sessions are less structured and are tailored to the individual.
Because I feel the therapeutic relationship is the main catalyst to success in therapy, I strive to form a relational bond with my patients.
Hello! I am Dr. Julie Chicvara, PsyD, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Born and raised in the southwest suburbs, I have settled my own family in the same community and opened a private practice in the Orland/Mokena area. You can expect a warm welcome and a comfortable environment upon coming to my office. The first visit entails a structured interview where background information and presenting problems are noted. A weekly time will be agreed upon where we will meet to work on therapeutic goals and current stressors. Therapy sessions are less structured and are tailored to the individual.
(708) 317-9435 View (708) 317-9435
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Dr. Amy Suszko Brown
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
Insecurity, poor self confidence, anxiety, depression, health issues, stress, relationship issues, grief, worry, loneliness, and feeling completely overwhelmed can be difficult. Making changes to your life is a big step and you do not have to do it alone. Therapy is a collaborative conversation designed to better understand you and your life, which can help you achieve the sense of well-being to overcome anxiety/depression, gain deeper self-worth, shift self sabotaging behaviors, build confidence, attract healthy relationships, and create healthy boundaries.
Insecurity, poor self confidence, anxiety, depression, health issues, stress, relationship issues, grief, worry, loneliness, and feeling completely overwhelmed can be difficult. Making changes to your life is a big step and you do not have to do it alone. Therapy is a collaborative conversation designed to better understand you and your life, which can help you achieve the sense of well-being to overcome anxiety/depression, gain deeper self-worth, shift self sabotaging behaviors, build confidence, attract healthy relationships, and create healthy boundaries.
(708) 955-8070 View (708) 955-8070
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Sherry Petro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
If you are looking for a non-judgmental therapist who will provide insight into your own self-awareness, then I welcome your call. I guide my clients in an environment that assists you in connecting to your inner guidance system. My intention is to support your success in all areas of your life. I am licensed and experienced in clinical social work and qualified in psychotherapy. I am certified in life coaching, Imago couples and relationship counseling. Imago couples’ therapy has proven to be one of the most successful avenues for positive results for couples. Please contact me to learn more.
If you are looking for a non-judgmental therapist who will provide insight into your own self-awareness, then I welcome your call. I guide my clients in an environment that assists you in connecting to your inner guidance system. My intention is to support your success in all areas of your life. I am licensed and experienced in clinical social work and qualified in psychotherapy. I am certified in life coaching, Imago couples and relationship counseling. Imago couples’ therapy has proven to be one of the most successful avenues for positive results for couples. Please contact me to learn more.
(616) 229-2131 View (616) 229-2131
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Martie Ryan Lukanich
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
A healthy therapy relationship offers you respect & unconditional positive regard.
Individuals, couples, adolescents and young adults benefit from talking with someone who is objective, empathetic & supportive-- exploring concerns, gaining insight, and learning coping skills to become more resilient. In this stressful world, mental health concerns effect us all. I make therapy a conduit for people to recognize and use their own strengths and help them develop coping skills to better adapt to challenges and overcome obstacles--whether they are with relationships, health, work or family. My goal is for people to use the therapeutic work we do as a "spring-board" to greater success and happiness in their lives.
A healthy therapy relationship offers you respect & unconditional positive regard.
Individuals, couples, adolescents and young adults benefit from talking with someone who is objective, empathetic & supportive-- exploring concerns, gaining insight, and learning coping skills to become more resilient. In this stressful world, mental health concerns effect us all. I make therapy a conduit for people to recognize and use their own strengths and help them develop coping skills to better adapt to challenges and overcome obstacles--whether they are with relationships, health, work or family. My goal is for people to use the therapeutic work we do as a "spring-board" to greater success and happiness in their lives.
(708) 487-6725 View (708) 487-6725
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Joan Wolfe
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
I specialize in working with couples who are struggling with their relationship.
Choosing a therapist is a difficult task. Knowing what to expect in therapy and from the therapist is important information to help you make an appropriate choice. I provide a warm, safe, respectful and accepting environment where you will feel comfortable and understood. My approach is to establish mutually agreed upon goals to work toward. My focus in therapy includes helping you develop new strategies to solve problems, explore alternatives to situations, provide education and change perceptions about life. My goal is to restore optimum functioning and help you improve your life and your relationships.
I specialize in working with couples who are struggling with their relationship.
Choosing a therapist is a difficult task. Knowing what to expect in therapy and from the therapist is important information to help you make an appropriate choice. I provide a warm, safe, respectful and accepting environment where you will feel comfortable and understood. My approach is to establish mutually agreed upon goals to work toward. My focus in therapy includes helping you develop new strategies to solve problems, explore alternatives to situations, provide education and change perceptions about life. My goal is to restore optimum functioning and help you improve your life and your relationships.
(708) 928-8503 View (708) 928-8503
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Lynn Wachtel-Shapiro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CADC, CIRT, ACSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
After practicing for over 20+ years I have gone back for specialized training in couples therapy, IMAGO relationship therapy certification and Gottman Method Level two trained.
Are you sad? Feel worried? Do you feel disconnected from your partner? Don't say no enough? Do you feel lost and sad after a death? I have specialized training in couples work{ relationship issues} Addictions {codependency} I have extensive experience in treating Grief and Loss issues, Bipolar issues , Depression, Self esteem, Anxiety, ADD, ADHD, Assertiveness issues, Adjustment issues, Anger management, Self harm issues, and Coping skills. My goal is to provide a supportive, respectful, caring environment to help all clients achieve their fullest potential I have had client"s report relief and progress after only a few sessions
After practicing for over 20+ years I have gone back for specialized training in couples therapy, IMAGO relationship therapy certification and Gottman Method Level two trained.
Are you sad? Feel worried? Do you feel disconnected from your partner? Don't say no enough? Do you feel lost and sad after a death? I have specialized training in couples work{ relationship issues} Addictions {codependency} I have extensive experience in treating Grief and Loss issues, Bipolar issues , Depression, Self esteem, Anxiety, ADD, ADHD, Assertiveness issues, Adjustment issues, Anger management, Self harm issues, and Coping skills. My goal is to provide a supportive, respectful, caring environment to help all clients achieve their fullest potential I have had client"s report relief and progress after only a few sessions
(708) 342-1773 View (708) 342-1773
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Donald Kronenberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462  (Online Only)
I believe that all people have the potential to overcome whatever obstacles are in their life path, and our relationship is very important in helping you overcome those obstacles. So with that in mind, I will initially spend time just getting to know you and helping you feel comfortable and understood. You can expect a compassionate listener who will help you express issues that sometimes are uncomfortable to talk about. I will also help you establish goals for our work together that will be clear from the beginning of your treatment until the end.
I believe that all people have the potential to overcome whatever obstacles are in their life path, and our relationship is very important in helping you overcome those obstacles. So with that in mind, I will initially spend time just getting to know you and helping you feel comfortable and understood. You can expect a compassionate listener who will help you express issues that sometimes are uncomfortable to talk about. I will also help you establish goals for our work together that will be clear from the beginning of your treatment until the end.
(708) 887-2021 View (708) 887-2021
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Ericka Swanson
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60462  (Online Only)
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH, THE TOUGH GET GOING You may not feel tough right now, but deep down you know you have the strength to tackle the problems you are facing. These problems may be extraordinary stressors, life transitions, combat fatigue, post-partum depression, unexpected/expected loss of close relationships, trauma, abuse, or relationship problems. I can be part of the team that assists you in strengthening the resources that you have inside. RELATIONSHIPS AND FAMILIES CAN BE LIKE DOMINOS Families and couples are linked. If part of that link is broke or off balance, other members involved can be affected.
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH, THE TOUGH GET GOING You may not feel tough right now, but deep down you know you have the strength to tackle the problems you are facing. These problems may be extraordinary stressors, life transitions, combat fatigue, post-partum depression, unexpected/expected loss of close relationships, trauma, abuse, or relationship problems. I can be part of the team that assists you in strengthening the resources that you have inside. RELATIONSHIPS AND FAMILIES CAN BE LIKE DOMINOS Families and couples are linked. If part of that link is broke or off balance, other members involved can be affected.
(708) 512-7179 View (708) 512-7179
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James Odom
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Not Verified Not Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
During my years in clinical practice I have worked with clients experiencing mood disorders relationship issues, substance abuse concerns, and anxiety disorders.
Within my 16 years of clinical practice experience I have had the opportunity to work with a wide range of individual experiencing personal and interpersonal concern impacting their daily lives. I view the therapeutic relationship as one of support and collaboration with a client centered non-judgmental approach.
During my years in clinical practice I have worked with clients experiencing mood disorders relationship issues, substance abuse concerns, and anxiety disorders.
Within my 16 years of clinical practice experience I have had the opportunity to work with a wide range of individual experiencing personal and interpersonal concern impacting their daily lives. I view the therapeutic relationship as one of support and collaboration with a client centered non-judgmental approach.
(708) 856-8587 View (708) 856-8587
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Holly A Cox
Counselor, LCPC, CDC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
I love working with individuals, couples, families, and groups, and I see our relationship as a partnership.
Have you been living your life like it's a dress rehearsal for the real thing? If so, you've come to the right place! My goal is to help you get clear about what you really want and assist you in transforming your life. I will support you in developing the skills you need to achieve whatever it is you are searching for - increased self-confidence, better relationships, improved parenting skills, emotional peace and stability, stress reduction, financial security, family harmony, etc. I am also passionate about assisting parents who are dealing with the challenges of raising "gritty" children in this topsy-turvy world.
I love working with individuals, couples, families, and groups, and I see our relationship as a partnership.
Have you been living your life like it's a dress rehearsal for the real thing? If so, you've come to the right place! My goal is to help you get clear about what you really want and assist you in transforming your life. I will support you in developing the skills you need to achieve whatever it is you are searching for - increased self-confidence, better relationships, improved parenting skills, emotional peace and stability, stress reduction, financial security, family harmony, etc. I am also passionate about assisting parents who are dealing with the challenges of raising "gritty" children in this topsy-turvy world.
(708) 277-6852 View (708) 277-6852
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Jim Phelan
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
I specialize in Couples Counseling to help strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection. I am also specially trained to treat Anxiety including OCD.
I specialize in Couples Counseling to help strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection. I am also specially trained to treat Anxiety including OCD.
(708) 419-3770 View (708) 419-3770
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Samiha Jallouqa
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60462
I also love helping people overcome relationship difficulties, identity and self-esteem concerns, adjustment issues, major life transitions, trauma, anxiety, and depression.
Allowing yourself to be supported is the first step towards becoming your best self. However, without adequate support, overcoming feelings of sadness, overwhelm, disconnection or insecurity can be an exhausting and isolating experience. This is why I understand the importance of finding the right therapist. You may be seeking to feel truly heard and understood without judgment by someone you can trust to help you feel more grounded, confident, and satisfied in your everyday life. As a therapist, my main goal is to create that safe and trusting relationship to guide and empower you towards achieving ultimate personal growth.
I also love helping people overcome relationship difficulties, identity and self-esteem concerns, adjustment issues, major life transitions, trauma, anxiety, and depression.
Allowing yourself to be supported is the first step towards becoming your best self. However, without adequate support, overcoming feelings of sadness, overwhelm, disconnection or insecurity can be an exhausting and isolating experience. This is why I understand the importance of finding the right therapist. You may be seeking to feel truly heard and understood without judgment by someone you can trust to help you feel more grounded, confident, and satisfied in your everyday life. As a therapist, my main goal is to create that safe and trusting relationship to guide and empower you towards achieving ultimate personal growth.
(773) 609-0361 View (773) 609-0361
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Rosario Villanueva-Khan
Counselor, LCPC, ICDVP, CADC, EMDR
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60462
I have the ability to develop a healthy professional relationship with my clients.
As a clinical therapist I am passionate about my profession and care for my clients. I strive toward their empowerment and personalize the therapeutic interventions best suited for their life needs and therapeutic goals. I use an eclectic mix of Cognitive Behavioral, Reality Therapy and EMDR techniques to best meet the needs of my clients. I am a Licensed Certified Professional Counselor (LCPC), Certified Alcohol & Other Drug Abuse Counselor (CADC) and Certified Domestic Violence Professional (CDVP) with nine 9 years of extensive experience in Trauma, Domestic Violence, Mood Disorders and Alcohol and Drugs.
I have the ability to develop a healthy professional relationship with my clients.
As a clinical therapist I am passionate about my profession and care for my clients. I strive toward their empowerment and personalize the therapeutic interventions best suited for their life needs and therapeutic goals. I use an eclectic mix of Cognitive Behavioral, Reality Therapy and EMDR techniques to best meet the needs of my clients. I am a Licensed Certified Professional Counselor (LCPC), Certified Alcohol & Other Drug Abuse Counselor (CADC) and Certified Domestic Violence Professional (CDVP) with nine 9 years of extensive experience in Trauma, Domestic Violence, Mood Disorders and Alcohol and Drugs.
(779) 205-0237 View (779) 205-0237
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Joseph V Maranto
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60462
I believe in the strength of the therapeutic relationship and the significance of active listening and validation.
The ability to ask for help is a sign of strength not weakness. I can assist you in identifying and using your strengths to help you overcome your challenges. We all need some assistance at some point and to learn new ways of coping with life. I am here to help you through the process of change by creating a supportive, caring, and trusting environment.
I believe in the strength of the therapeutic relationship and the significance of active listening and validation.
The ability to ask for help is a sign of strength not weakness. I can assist you in identifying and using your strengths to help you overcome your challenges. We all need some assistance at some point and to learn new ways of coping with life. I am here to help you through the process of change by creating a supportive, caring, and trusting environment.
(773) 453-9489 View (773) 453-9489
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Snonita Marcus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467  (Online Only)
As we build a therapeutic relationship, we will work collaboratively towards goals you have set to make the changes you are seeking.
I believe that you are the expert in your story and understand that it can be difficult to ask for support, especially when you aren’t sure what to expect. Within you are the answers to many of the challenges you are trying to overcome. My role is to come along side you to help clear the obstacles that are preventing real growth and change. I am always honored to observe my clients through their journey and am truly passionate about supporting you in gaining coping skills and managing symptoms on the path to healing.
As we build a therapeutic relationship, we will work collaboratively towards goals you have set to make the changes you are seeking.
I believe that you are the expert in your story and understand that it can be difficult to ask for support, especially when you aren’t sure what to expect. Within you are the answers to many of the challenges you are trying to overcome. My role is to come along side you to help clear the obstacles that are preventing real growth and change. I am always honored to observe my clients through their journey and am truly passionate about supporting you in gaining coping skills and managing symptoms on the path to healing.
(847) 233-1755 View (847) 233-1755
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Elizabeth Anderson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
I enjoy working with children, adolescents, adults, and couples. I primarily work with the following challenges: Anxiety, Depression, Mood disorders, Eating disorders, Life transitions, Relationship distress, Self-esteem, Grief and loss, and Stress management. I utilize models such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Person-Centered, and Solution-Focused within the therapeutic process. I emphasize meeting the needs of each client by using an integrative approach that is best suited for the overall growth and well-being. My goal is to create a safe and welcoming environment where clients can be free to discover and explore their goals.
I enjoy working with children, adolescents, adults, and couples. I primarily work with the following challenges: Anxiety, Depression, Mood disorders, Eating disorders, Life transitions, Relationship distress, Self-esteem, Grief and loss, and Stress management. I utilize models such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Person-Centered, and Solution-Focused within the therapeutic process. I emphasize meeting the needs of each client by using an integrative approach that is best suited for the overall growth and well-being. My goal is to create a safe and welcoming environment where clients can be free to discover and explore their goals.
(708) 726-8327 View (708) 726-8327
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.