Emotionally Focused Therapists in Norridge, IL
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Many of the clients that I work with are people who are processing the factors that are impacting them as individuals today. Parent's are able to explore a space where they are validated and empowered. Much of the work that we do is rooted in identity and discovering what it is they need, not what they have been socialized into thinking they need. Together we explore experiences and dynamics that have occurred throughout their lifetime. Marginalized populations come to me to learn more about themselves and the ways in which they interact with the world around them including exploring family of origin issues.
Many of the clients that I work with are people who are processing the factors that are impacting them as individuals today. Parent's are able to explore a space where they are validated and empowered. Much of the work that we do is rooted in identity and discovering what it is they need, not what they have been socialized into thinking they need. Together we explore experiences and dynamics that have occurred throughout their lifetime. Marginalized populations come to me to learn more about themselves and the ways in which they interact with the world around them including exploring family of origin issues.
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Angela Marie Costanza
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Norridge, IL 60706
There are times when everyone needs support, advice and new ways of coping. Whether you are struggling with a particular issue or just feel "stuck", I can help. As a licensed clinician and the founder of PRP, I have spent the last 17 years studying evidence and science based approaches to psychotherapy and the treatment of emotional/psychological issues in some of the country's best universities, including Northwestern University and UW-Madison. These experiences have allowed me to develop a holistic therapeutic approach where I integrate complementary researched-informed modalities to offer personalized and effective treatments.
There are times when everyone needs support, advice and new ways of coping. Whether you are struggling with a particular issue or just feel "stuck", I can help. As a licensed clinician and the founder of PRP, I have spent the last 17 years studying evidence and science based approaches to psychotherapy and the treatment of emotional/psychological issues in some of the country's best universities, including Northwestern University and UW-Madison. These experiences have allowed me to develop a holistic therapeutic approach where I integrate complementary researched-informed modalities to offer personalized and effective treatments.
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Melissa Martin
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Norridge, IL 60634 (Online Only)
I am passionate about working with adults who are dealing with challenges including but not limited to: identifying and healing from trauma, identity exploration, interpersonal conflict, relationship with food and body, addictions, life transitions, eating disorders, mood disorders, stress management, and ADHD. The goal of my work with clients is for them to increase authenticity and vulnerability within the therapeutic relationship first, then translate that success to their lives outside of therapy. I empower clients with coping skills and provide a safe space for learning effective communication of and connection to emotions.
I am passionate about working with adults who are dealing with challenges including but not limited to: identifying and healing from trauma, identity exploration, interpersonal conflict, relationship with food and body, addictions, life transitions, eating disorders, mood disorders, stress management, and ADHD. The goal of my work with clients is for them to increase authenticity and vulnerability within the therapeutic relationship first, then translate that success to their lives outside of therapy. I empower clients with coping skills and provide a safe space for learning effective communication of and connection to emotions.
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I enjoy working with young adults and professionals who feel stuck and are desiring change. I believe we all are capable of leading a happy and fulfilling life, and with the right support and tools we can! I am passionate about working with individuals who struggle with depression, anxiety, grief and loss, work/life stressors, self-esteem, and relationship issues.
I enjoy working with young adults and professionals who feel stuck and are desiring change. I believe we all are capable of leading a happy and fulfilling life, and with the right support and tools we can! I am passionate about working with individuals who struggle with depression, anxiety, grief and loss, work/life stressors, self-esteem, and relationship issues.
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Phyllis Laughlin
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Elmwood Park, IL 60707
Waitlist for new clients
Externship in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy sponsored by Chicago Center for Emotionally.
Life is all about relationships--beginning with the one you have with yourself. My goal is to provide a safe place for you to explore your underlying feelings leading to a better understanding and acceptance of who you are and who you can be. I will provide you a supportive relationship as you re-gain control of your life. Changes within often change relationships with others and that can be challenging, even frightening, yet rewarding. We will work together to strengthen emotional bonds with loved ones, cope with grief and loss, deal with trauma, and maintain a sense of inner balance.
Externship in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy sponsored by Chicago Center for Emotionally.
Life is all about relationships--beginning with the one you have with yourself. My goal is to provide a safe place for you to explore your underlying feelings leading to a better understanding and acceptance of who you are and who you can be. I will provide you a supportive relationship as you re-gain control of your life. Changes within often change relationships with others and that can be challenging, even frightening, yet rewarding. We will work together to strengthen emotional bonds with loved ones, cope with grief and loss, deal with trauma, and maintain a sense of inner balance.
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Emily Reynoso
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60641
I utilize a holistic approach to providing support in these areas, including person centered, emotionally focused, cognitive, and trauma-informed therapies.
I believe that therapy should be a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space, that offers the opportunity to process and make sense of emotions and experiences, and move towards deeper sense of self understanding. I am dedicated to helping people identify how certain thoughts, feelings and behaviors contribute to distress, and creating a collaborative path to change. My passion for providing therapy comes from the belief that we are inherently aware of what we need to be successful and are capable of making the changes necessary to move in a positive direction.
I utilize a holistic approach to providing support in these areas, including person centered, emotionally focused, cognitive, and trauma-informed therapies.
I believe that therapy should be a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space, that offers the opportunity to process and make sense of emotions and experiences, and move towards deeper sense of self understanding. I am dedicated to helping people identify how certain thoughts, feelings and behaviors contribute to distress, and creating a collaborative path to change. My passion for providing therapy comes from the belief that we are inherently aware of what we need to be successful and are capable of making the changes necessary to move in a positive direction.
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Analeise Parchen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60646
Waitlist for new clients
EMDR and EFT/Tapping lend themselves to my intuitive side, and Cognitive Behavioral Treatment helps a person shift anxiety disorders as well grief treatment.
Hello! I am Analeise, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker working in the NW side of Chicago where I offer individual and family therapy. I chiefly use Strengths Based, Client-Driven, and Person-Centered therapy. We are the experts on ourselves, even when thinking that conditions inside or outside of us are running the show. We have an innate drive to heal and grow. Therapy is designed to connect us with the truest expression of ourselves, not driven by anxiety or reactivity. It is a relief to know this is possible to access our best self; as a partner, parent, family member, or co-worker.
EMDR and EFT/Tapping lend themselves to my intuitive side, and Cognitive Behavioral Treatment helps a person shift anxiety disorders as well grief treatment.
Hello! I am Analeise, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker working in the NW side of Chicago where I offer individual and family therapy. I chiefly use Strengths Based, Client-Driven, and Person-Centered therapy. We are the experts on ourselves, even when thinking that conditions inside or outside of us are running the show. We have an innate drive to heal and grow. Therapy is designed to connect us with the truest expression of ourselves, not driven by anxiety or reactivity. It is a relief to know this is possible to access our best self; as a partner, parent, family member, or co-worker.
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Life can often cause us to question who we are, where we fit in, and how to navigate its toughest moments. Perhaps you’re ready to begin working through the challenging traumatic experiences that are a part of your story and you are here seeking support. Perhaps you are struggling with finding your place in spaces that may question who you are based on your racial/cultural identity or your sexuality; or you’re simply exhausted with carrying physical, emotional, or sexually traumatic wounds and you would like a safe space to process these concerns. Your experiences are your truths but you can find support to make your future yours.
Life can often cause us to question who we are, where we fit in, and how to navigate its toughest moments. Perhaps you’re ready to begin working through the challenging traumatic experiences that are a part of your story and you are here seeking support. Perhaps you are struggling with finding your place in spaces that may question who you are based on your racial/cultural identity or your sexuality; or you’re simply exhausted with carrying physical, emotional, or sexually traumatic wounds and you would like a safe space to process these concerns. Your experiences are your truths but you can find support to make your future yours.
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Does it feel like you can’t stop feeling anxious, overthinking, and sometimes self-doubt, and feeling “not enough” take over your life? Self-doubt and anxiety are overwhelming. It feels that you can’t stop overthinking and thinking about everything that can go wrong. You think about the bad things that can happen, the mistakes you can make, and the negative situations that can occur. Worry and overanalyzing take over, and you end up anxious and panicked. Questioning and doubting yourself makes you feel defeated. You overthink your abilities and self-worth, which makes you feel low and defeated.
Does it feel like you can’t stop feeling anxious, overthinking, and sometimes self-doubt, and feeling “not enough” take over your life? Self-doubt and anxiety are overwhelming. It feels that you can’t stop overthinking and thinking about everything that can go wrong. You think about the bad things that can happen, the mistakes you can make, and the negative situations that can occur. Worry and overanalyzing take over, and you end up anxious and panicked. Questioning and doubting yourself makes you feel defeated. You overthink your abilities and self-worth, which makes you feel low and defeated.
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Peace Through Hope Therapy
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60634 (Online Only)
If you can change your thoughts, you can change your world. I believe that our day-to-day thoughts directly dictate our emotions and ultimately our decisions and actions. Whether it is childhood trauma, adult anxiety or postpartum depression, we can take captive every self-defeating thought and turn that negative narrative into a powerful and hopeful future. Regaining control over our thoughts and actions can provide such lasting peace and happiness. My focus is to thoroughly get to know my patients, by listening to and trying my best to understand their unique experiences, while working collaboratively toward agreed upon goals.
If you can change your thoughts, you can change your world. I believe that our day-to-day thoughts directly dictate our emotions and ultimately our decisions and actions. Whether it is childhood trauma, adult anxiety or postpartum depression, we can take captive every self-defeating thought and turn that negative narrative into a powerful and hopeful future. Regaining control over our thoughts and actions can provide such lasting peace and happiness. My focus is to thoroughly get to know my patients, by listening to and trying my best to understand their unique experiences, while working collaboratively toward agreed upon goals.
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Diane Pelegris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60641 (Online Only)
In life we may face some difficult experiences which can leave us feeling defeated, scared, or overwhelmed. You don't have to handle it alone. Making the decision to go into therapy may be difficult, but therapy can be a space in which you experience comfort, healing, and growth. As every person is unique, so is my approach to working with each client.
In life we may face some difficult experiences which can leave us feeling defeated, scared, or overwhelmed. You don't have to handle it alone. Making the decision to go into therapy may be difficult, but therapy can be a space in which you experience comfort, healing, and growth. As every person is unique, so is my approach to working with each client.
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LifeSpan Counseling & Psychological Services offers services to children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. I am co-owner and have worked extensively as an adolescent, adult, and couples therapist. My style is empathic, warm, and informative. At times, I am direct and challenging with clients in order to facilitate growth and insight. I draw upon relational, systems, and cognitive-behavioral approaches and tailor my treatment to each individual/couple's unique needs. My background/training, helps foster connections with people from various ethinicities, religions, and cultural identifications. I work with common adjustment concerns as well as with serious mental health issues.
LifeSpan Counseling & Psychological Services offers services to children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. I am co-owner and have worked extensively as an adolescent, adult, and couples therapist. My style is empathic, warm, and informative. At times, I am direct and challenging with clients in order to facilitate growth and insight. I draw upon relational, systems, and cognitive-behavioral approaches and tailor my treatment to each individual/couple's unique needs. My background/training, helps foster connections with people from various ethinicities, religions, and cultural identifications. I work with common adjustment concerns as well as with serious mental health issues.
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I believe we all possess fundamental wholeness and inner wisdom—sometimes we just lose sight of it. When we feel lost, numb, disembodied, or overwhelmed, it can be difficult to feel connected to the people and things in your life that you care about the most, including yourself. Therapy is a radical act that invites us to show up just as we are, in all our beautiful messiness, uniqueness and identities. Together, we will strengthen and expand your capacity to be with, and work through, the challenges that come your way, while building self-compassion, awareness, resilience, and a sense of connection to your truest self.
I believe we all possess fundamental wholeness and inner wisdom—sometimes we just lose sight of it. When we feel lost, numb, disembodied, or overwhelmed, it can be difficult to feel connected to the people and things in your life that you care about the most, including yourself. Therapy is a radical act that invites us to show up just as we are, in all our beautiful messiness, uniqueness and identities. Together, we will strengthen and expand your capacity to be with, and work through, the challenges that come your way, while building self-compassion, awareness, resilience, and a sense of connection to your truest self.
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Sarah Fletcher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chicago, IL 60631 (Online Only)
My expertise is working with adults who need support in overcoming challenges that have become overwhelming to deal with on their own. I have been working in the field for over 13 years and during that time have worked in a variety of settings including residential, homeless shelters, jail, intensive outreach, therapy, and internationally. I've been blessed to work with people as they go through suffering to become at peace and able to accept themselves within the changes that can be made in their circumstances. I work from a strength-based approach that focuses on instilling hope and belief that change is possible.
My expertise is working with adults who need support in overcoming challenges that have become overwhelming to deal with on their own. I have been working in the field for over 13 years and during that time have worked in a variety of settings including residential, homeless shelters, jail, intensive outreach, therapy, and internationally. I've been blessed to work with people as they go through suffering to become at peace and able to accept themselves within the changes that can be made in their circumstances. I work from a strength-based approach that focuses on instilling hope and belief that change is possible.
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Wesley White
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60656 (Online Only)
Hello! If you found yourself here, you might be feeling lost, overwhelmed, or burnt out. Or maybe you are just wondering if this whole therapy thing is really for you. That’s ok too. Maybe you’ve been thinking about reaching out for help for a long time, or maybe you just started this journey today. Whatever stage you find yourself at, I’m glad you’re here. You’re in the right place, and you don’t need to handle it on your own anymore.
Hello! If you found yourself here, you might be feeling lost, overwhelmed, or burnt out. Or maybe you are just wondering if this whole therapy thing is really for you. That’s ok too. Maybe you’ve been thinking about reaching out for help for a long time, or maybe you just started this journey today. Whatever stage you find yourself at, I’m glad you’re here. You’re in the right place, and you don’t need to handle it on your own anymore.
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Samantha Veronica Nguyen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, MA
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60630
I am a licensed professional counselor who wants to do more than a traditional human service in the community. I want to give back to generations and help with generational trauma. Through healing work and mixed modalities of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and trauma-informed therapy, I strive to empower each and every person. With a holistic approach, I address the person as a whole by working on all parts of one’s self. Each therapeutic session is customized to each individual’s needs so that they can succeed. Are you ready to make a difference in your life? If so, feel free to contact me!
I am a licensed professional counselor who wants to do more than a traditional human service in the community. I want to give back to generations and help with generational trauma. Through healing work and mixed modalities of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and trauma-informed therapy, I strive to empower each and every person. With a holistic approach, I address the person as a whole by working on all parts of one’s self. Each therapeutic session is customized to each individual’s needs so that they can succeed. Are you ready to make a difference in your life? If so, feel free to contact me!
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www.HopeLandTherapy.com 708-274-7991 Call or e-mail for scheduling information. Improve: Relationship with self, Couple relationship, Family relationships, Self-esteem, Anxiety, ADHD, Self-improvement, Relaxation, Grounding, PTSD, Sexual trauma, Childhood trauma, Life transitions, and more! Get help now with Therapy or Life Coaching. Call today and start your journey to well-being.
www.HopeLandTherapy.com 708-274-7991 Call or e-mail for scheduling information. Improve: Relationship with self, Couple relationship, Family relationships, Self-esteem, Anxiety, ADHD, Self-improvement, Relaxation, Grounding, PTSD, Sexual trauma, Childhood trauma, Life transitions, and more! Get help now with Therapy or Life Coaching. Call today and start your journey to well-being.
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Eleanor Herzberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chicago, IL 60707 (Online Only)
I am a systemically-trained therapist who primarily works with couples and individuals. I strive to create a safe space for clients of all backgrounds including gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, relationship context, etc. Some of my clinical interests include anxiety, depression, couple conflict, general relationship struggles, family of origin, attachment issues, life transitions, self-esteem, and spirituality. My primary goal is to empower clients by helping them see through the layers of their conditioning in order to live a life that involves more freedom, courage, connection, and peace.
I am a systemically-trained therapist who primarily works with couples and individuals. I strive to create a safe space for clients of all backgrounds including gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, relationship context, etc. Some of my clinical interests include anxiety, depression, couple conflict, general relationship struggles, family of origin, attachment issues, life transitions, self-esteem, and spirituality. My primary goal is to empower clients by helping them see through the layers of their conditioning in order to live a life that involves more freedom, courage, connection, and peace.
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With a deep understanding of the complexities surrounding mental health, I offer a safe and nurturing environment where clients can explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences. I tailor each session to meet the unique needs and goals of every individual, empowering them to cultivate inner strength and foster change. I am passionate about helping adults navigate through life's challenges with empathy and understanding. Specializing in addressing depression, anxiety, trauma, and grief, I provide support to both men and women as they journey towards healing and resilience.
With a deep understanding of the complexities surrounding mental health, I offer a safe and nurturing environment where clients can explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences. I tailor each session to meet the unique needs and goals of every individual, empowering them to cultivate inner strength and foster change. I am passionate about helping adults navigate through life's challenges with empathy and understanding. Specializing in addressing depression, anxiety, trauma, and grief, I provide support to both men and women as they journey towards healing and resilience.
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Are you trying to find more balance in your life? I can help! I specialize in working with adults who are trying to improve their relationships, navigate infidelity and women/couples who are experiencing infertility or alternative paths to build a family. I support clients who are navigating pregnancy and the stress of early parenthood. I also offer therapy to women who are interested in being a Single Mother by Choice. I provide a supportive environment where you can feel heard and seen in a nonjudgmental space.
Are you trying to find more balance in your life? I can help! I specialize in working with adults who are trying to improve their relationships, navigate infidelity and women/couples who are experiencing infertility or alternative paths to build a family. I support clients who are navigating pregnancy and the stress of early parenthood. I also offer therapy to women who are interested in being a Single Mother by Choice. I provide a supportive environment where you can feel heard and seen in a nonjudgmental space.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.