Relationship Issues Therapists in Joliet, IL

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Rosario Villanueva-Khan
Counselor, LCPC, ICDVP, CADC, EMDR
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
I have the ability to develop a healthy professional relationship with my clients.
As a clinical therapist I am passionate about my profession and care for my clients. I strive toward their empowerment and personalize the therapeutic interventions best suited for their life needs and therapeutic goals. I use an eclectic mix of Cognitive Behavioral, Reality Therapy and EMDR techniques to best meet the needs of my clients. I am a Licensed Certified Professional Counselor (LCPC), Certified Alcohol & Other Drug Abuse Counselor (CADC) and Certified Domestic Violence Professional (CDVP) with nine 9 years of extensive experience in Trauma, Domestic Violence, Mood Disorders and Alcohol and Drugs.
I have the ability to develop a healthy professional relationship with my clients.
As a clinical therapist I am passionate about my profession and care for my clients. I strive toward their empowerment and personalize the therapeutic interventions best suited for their life needs and therapeutic goals. I use an eclectic mix of Cognitive Behavioral, Reality Therapy and EMDR techniques to best meet the needs of my clients. I am a Licensed Certified Professional Counselor (LCPC), Certified Alcohol & Other Drug Abuse Counselor (CADC) and Certified Domestic Violence Professional (CDVP) with nine 9 years of extensive experience in Trauma, Domestic Violence, Mood Disorders and Alcohol and Drugs.
(779) 205-0237 View (779) 205-0237
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Cheryl Stampley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, RN ret
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60435
My practice of therapy incorporates a thorough assessment (bio-psycho-social-cultural-spiritual), relationship driven approach with one or several of the following therapeutic interventions: cognitive behavioral, psychodynamic, solutions focused/brief therapy, relationship/ interpersonal and/or self psychology.
Welcome! I am excited to share my passion and expertise working with college students, mid-life through geriatric age, professionals working in academic settings, and couples. My knowledge and understanding of diversity, inclusiveness, and equality are readily incorporated into my therapeutic practice. I work with individuals struggling with PTSD, anxiety/depression, grief & loss, mood disorders, chronic emotional illness, addiction/chemical substances, chronic pain, eating disorders, sexual abuse/trauma, and sleep disturbances. I also enjoy working with biracial / multicultural folx and parents with biracial kids.
My practice of therapy incorporates a thorough assessment (bio-psycho-social-cultural-spiritual), relationship driven approach with one or several of the following therapeutic interventions: cognitive behavioral, psychodynamic, solutions focused/brief therapy, relationship/ interpersonal and/or self psychology.
Welcome! I am excited to share my passion and expertise working with college students, mid-life through geriatric age, professionals working in academic settings, and couples. My knowledge and understanding of diversity, inclusiveness, and equality are readily incorporated into my therapeutic practice. I work with individuals struggling with PTSD, anxiety/depression, grief & loss, mood disorders, chronic emotional illness, addiction/chemical substances, chronic pain, eating disorders, sexual abuse/trauma, and sleep disturbances. I also enjoy working with biracial / multicultural folx and parents with biracial kids.
(815) 706-6745 View (815) 706-6745
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Lesley Widmer
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
As a Master's level clinician, I have 19 years of experience in the mental health field. I specialize in getting clients from where they are to where they want to be. I treat children, adolescents, couples and families. My areas of specialty include, but are not limited to: Depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, ADD/ADHD, relationship issues, life transition issues, impulse control disorders, anger management, chronic pain, illness and military/veteran's issues.
As a Master's level clinician, I have 19 years of experience in the mental health field. I specialize in getting clients from where they are to where they want to be. I treat children, adolescents, couples and families. My areas of specialty include, but are not limited to: Depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, ADD/ADHD, relationship issues, life transition issues, impulse control disorders, anger management, chronic pain, illness and military/veteran's issues.
(708) 675-8442 View (708) 675-8442
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Kristina Fifer
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60436
I do not take for granted the healing that results from a supportive therapeutic relationship, and seeing my clients experience joy and happiness again.
I am a licensed clinical professional counselor with over 13 years of experience. Through these years I have helped individuals with a variety of issues including: mood disorders, anxiety disorders, self-injury, relationship issues, anger management, stress management, loss/grief issues, and difficulties with life changes. I have provided therapy to adults, adolescents, couples, and families.
I do not take for granted the healing that results from a supportive therapeutic relationship, and seeing my clients experience joy and happiness again.
I am a licensed clinical professional counselor with over 13 years of experience. Through these years I have helped individuals with a variety of issues including: mood disorders, anxiety disorders, self-injury, relationship issues, anger management, stress management, loss/grief issues, and difficulties with life changes. I have provided therapy to adults, adolescents, couples, and families.
(815) 862-4846 View (815) 862-4846
Clare Hoyland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60435
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in helping couples keep their commitments to lifelong marriage or partnership wherever possible-- restoring friendships, managing conflict, healing relationship hurts and traumas, supporting each other's life dreams, and reconnecting again over what it means to do life together. My practice includes helping couples prepare for marriage, providing consultation for those with relationship questions and concerns, and providing therapy for couples in distress. I have increasingly embraced the belief that connection with others is what makes life meaningful and that relationships are worth the effort. My training encompasses several therapy approaches.
I specialize in helping couples keep their commitments to lifelong marriage or partnership wherever possible-- restoring friendships, managing conflict, healing relationship hurts and traumas, supporting each other's life dreams, and reconnecting again over what it means to do life together. My practice includes helping couples prepare for marriage, providing consultation for those with relationship questions and concerns, and providing therapy for couples in distress. I have increasingly embraced the belief that connection with others is what makes life meaningful and that relationships are worth the effort. My training encompasses several therapy approaches.
(815) 290-0263 View (815) 290-0263
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Inspire Therapy Services LLC
Counselor, LCPC, LCSW, LMFT, CADC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60436
Traumatic experiences, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Problems, Child Concerns, Grief and Loss. There are so many things that can affect your mental health and daily life. There is help and you don't have to navigate these problems by yourself. The therapists at Inspire welcome you to start or continue on your path with the needs that matter most to you. Starting by meeting you where you are at, the therapists at Inspire will then create a plan with you to address the challenges you are facing. Working together towards your goals will help you live the life that you want and need!
Traumatic experiences, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Problems, Child Concerns, Grief and Loss. There are so many things that can affect your mental health and daily life. There is help and you don't have to navigate these problems by yourself. The therapists at Inspire welcome you to start or continue on your path with the needs that matter most to you. Starting by meeting you where you are at, the therapists at Inspire will then create a plan with you to address the challenges you are facing. Working together towards your goals will help you live the life that you want and need!
(779) 223-1133 View (779) 223-1133
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Mary D'Adam
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, CADC, CCTP
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60431
Mary is deeply committed to guiding clients in understanding the profound healing that can be found in connecting the mind and body and she believes the therapeutic relationship is the foundation for healing.
Mary D'Adam, LCPC, CADC is a co-founder of Roots of Regulation Counseling. Mary brings over 11 years of experience in the helping field, 7 of those years being clinically focused. Mary is a compassionate therapist specializing in empowering trauma survivors as well as individuals affected by addiction to find groundedness in their day to day lives. Mary employs an attachment-based, relationally focused approach to therapy, integrating techniques such as polyvagal theory, mindfulness based cognitive therapy and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).
Mary is deeply committed to guiding clients in understanding the profound healing that can be found in connecting the mind and body and she believes the therapeutic relationship is the foundation for healing.
Mary D'Adam, LCPC, CADC is a co-founder of Roots of Regulation Counseling. Mary brings over 11 years of experience in the helping field, 7 of those years being clinically focused. Mary is a compassionate therapist specializing in empowering trauma survivors as well as individuals affected by addiction to find groundedness in their day to day lives. Mary employs an attachment-based, relationally focused approach to therapy, integrating techniques such as polyvagal theory, mindfulness based cognitive therapy and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).
(779) 273-4382 View (779) 273-4382
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Gina Weber
Counselor, LCPC, CADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60435
Did you know that 70% of the changes that clients make is based off of the relationship between client and therapist? I pride myself in practicing from a person-centered, strengths-based, and existential framework in order create a safe space for clients, validate their experiences, and provide unconditional positive regard. I use humor and warmth in sessions in order to build a strong therapeutic relationship quickly so that we can work together to achieve your goals.
Did you know that 70% of the changes that clients make is based off of the relationship between client and therapist? I pride myself in practicing from a person-centered, strengths-based, and existential framework in order create a safe space for clients, validate their experiences, and provide unconditional positive regard. I use humor and warmth in sessions in order to build a strong therapeutic relationship quickly so that we can work together to achieve your goals.
(815) 657-9198 View (815) 657-9198
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Edlicia Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60403  (Online Only)
Relationships are challenging and trauma, depression, anxiety, PTSD, worry, shame and guilt are just some of the things that can hinder you from not only achieving a healthy relationship but also being the best version of yourself. As a Couples and Family therapist I help individuals, couples and families achieve relationship satisfaction, gain a deeper understanding of self and each other and heal from wounds that are negatively impacting the ability to heal. I believe that each individual in a relationship has their own individual thoughts and beliefs that are impacted by childhood and the families we are born into.
Relationships are challenging and trauma, depression, anxiety, PTSD, worry, shame and guilt are just some of the things that can hinder you from not only achieving a healthy relationship but also being the best version of yourself. As a Couples and Family therapist I help individuals, couples and families achieve relationship satisfaction, gain a deeper understanding of self and each other and heal from wounds that are negatively impacting the ability to heal. I believe that each individual in a relationship has their own individual thoughts and beliefs that are impacted by childhood and the families we are born into.
(312) 598-1578 View (312) 598-1578
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Adam Jackson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60403  (Online Only)
I use an integrative approach to counseling, based in building a trusting therapeutic relationship emphasizing empathy and unconditional care.
My hope is to offer clients a new and different perspective, and empower them to attain greater insight. I believe that every client possesses the ability to find their own path that leads to meaning, joy, and fulfillment in their life. I enjoy working with adolescents and adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, or other traumatic experiences. We also address family and relationship issues, such as boundary setting, difficult life transitions, emotional abuse, and social trauma. My ideal client is one who is ready to do the hard work of self-reflection, and to seize control and responsibility for living their own best life.
I use an integrative approach to counseling, based in building a trusting therapeutic relationship emphasizing empathy and unconditional care.
My hope is to offer clients a new and different perspective, and empower them to attain greater insight. I believe that every client possesses the ability to find their own path that leads to meaning, joy, and fulfillment in their life. I enjoy working with adolescents and adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, or other traumatic experiences. We also address family and relationship issues, such as boundary setting, difficult life transitions, emotional abuse, and social trauma. My ideal client is one who is ready to do the hard work of self-reflection, and to seize control and responsibility for living their own best life.
(618) 243-0502 View (618) 243-0502
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Erin Wold
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
Erin is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who has 5 years of clinical experience with mental health and substance abuse treatment. She understands how prevalent the relationship is between substance abuse, trauma history, and marginalization. Erin's foundation in education deepens her perspective and understanding of how a client, just as a student, is a human first. With a humanistic perspective, Erin compassionately listens to her client's story. Her experience helps facilitate skill building to encourage confidence in her clients, helping them make personal changes toward improved symptom management and recovery.
Erin is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who has 5 years of clinical experience with mental health and substance abuse treatment. She understands how prevalent the relationship is between substance abuse, trauma history, and marginalization. Erin's foundation in education deepens her perspective and understanding of how a client, just as a student, is a human first. With a humanistic perspective, Erin compassionately listens to her client's story. Her experience helps facilitate skill building to encourage confidence in her clients, helping them make personal changes toward improved symptom management and recovery.
(815) 567-8819 View (815) 567-8819
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Lindsey Craven
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60435
I believe in building a trusting relationship with my clients.
Welcome! I am glad you are here! Struggling with roadblocks in life can be difficult, which is why I emphasize creating a safe space for each of my clients to feel free to be themselves. Therapy is a tool to help build confidence and achieve the clarity you envisioned, to lead a well-balanced life. I work with adolescents and adults struggling with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, stress, and life transitions. I practice from a trauma informed approach, helping clients to heal and feel empowered. By incorporating psychoeducation into therapy, I help clients gain the knowledge needed not just to understand the how, but the why.
I believe in building a trusting relationship with my clients.
Welcome! I am glad you are here! Struggling with roadblocks in life can be difficult, which is why I emphasize creating a safe space for each of my clients to feel free to be themselves. Therapy is a tool to help build confidence and achieve the clarity you envisioned, to lead a well-balanced life. I work with adolescents and adults struggling with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, stress, and life transitions. I practice from a trauma informed approach, helping clients to heal and feel empowered. By incorporating psychoeducation into therapy, I help clients gain the knowledge needed not just to understand the how, but the why.
(815) 446-3825 View (815) 446-3825
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Patty Chavez
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
Patty specializes in working with children, adolescents, and adults who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, emotional and behavioral disorders, relationship issues and adjustment to life transitions.
Patty specializes in working with children, adolescents, and adults who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, emotional and behavioral disorders, relationship issues and adjustment to life transitions.
(815) 454-5147 View (815) 454-5147
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Sacha Montgomery
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
I work with clients that struggle with depression, anxiety, mood disorders, anger issues, substance use disorder, sexual abuse, sex addiction, relationship conflict, as well as communication issues.
Sacha L. Montgomery, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS), Licensed Sex Offender Treatment Provider (LSOTP), Certified- Dialectical Behavior Therapy Provider (Trauma Specific treatment) Approach to therapy: Collaborative approach with each client to create personalized treatment plan to help clients get back to a higher level of functioning. Focus areas of practice: Co-Occurring Disorders, Depression, Anxiety, Anger, Relationship conflict, Communication, work issues, change of life issues as well as adults and juveniles who have abusive sexual behavior histories.
I work with clients that struggle with depression, anxiety, mood disorders, anger issues, substance use disorder, sexual abuse, sex addiction, relationship conflict, as well as communication issues.
Sacha L. Montgomery, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS), Licensed Sex Offender Treatment Provider (LSOTP), Certified- Dialectical Behavior Therapy Provider (Trauma Specific treatment) Approach to therapy: Collaborative approach with each client to create personalized treatment plan to help clients get back to a higher level of functioning. Focus areas of practice: Co-Occurring Disorders, Depression, Anxiety, Anger, Relationship conflict, Communication, work issues, change of life issues as well as adults and juveniles who have abusive sexual behavior histories.
(708) 847-9636 View (708) 847-9636
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Carolyn Franklin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
I am Carolyn Franklin, a licensed clinical social worker. I am a skilled therapist with over 30 years in the profession, working with children, adolescents, and adults. I have conducted individual, group, couples, and family therapies. I have worked with clients challenged with anxiety, depression, relationship/family issue, and many other concerns. I welcome the opportunity to work with you. I truly enjoy my work, and my clients have been successful. I worked with clients challenged with anxiety, depression, relationship/family adjustments, and even individuals having difficulty making decisions.
I am Carolyn Franklin, a licensed clinical social worker. I am a skilled therapist with over 30 years in the profession, working with children, adolescents, and adults. I have conducted individual, group, couples, and family therapies. I have worked with clients challenged with anxiety, depression, relationship/family issue, and many other concerns. I welcome the opportunity to work with you. I truly enjoy my work, and my clients have been successful. I worked with clients challenged with anxiety, depression, relationship/family adjustments, and even individuals having difficulty making decisions.
(773) 985-7436 View (773) 985-7436
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Payal Sud
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60432
I believe in the importance of a consistent therapeutic relationship, so I accommodate clients by providing sliding scale fees, in-home visits, online sessions and office visits.
Life gives us challenges. These challenges can include anxiety, depression, difficulties in relationships, or just feeling stuck in life. However, we do not have to face these challenges alone. It is my job to help you identify and eliminate stresses, embrace your strengths, and work towards empowerment. Through collaboration, we together can create an individualized and comprehensive plan to help you create an identity of your own, integrate positive practices into your daily interactions, and grow to live a happy and healthy life.
I believe in the importance of a consistent therapeutic relationship, so I accommodate clients by providing sliding scale fees, in-home visits, online sessions and office visits.
Life gives us challenges. These challenges can include anxiety, depression, difficulties in relationships, or just feeling stuck in life. However, we do not have to face these challenges alone. It is my job to help you identify and eliminate stresses, embrace your strengths, and work towards empowerment. Through collaboration, we together can create an individualized and comprehensive plan to help you create an identity of your own, integrate positive practices into your daily interactions, and grow to live a happy and healthy life.
(708) 377-2935 View (708) 377-2935
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Jennifer Liacone
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
Change is often scary, but a necessary part of life for growth. It takes courage to reach out for help. I have over 8 years of experience in the field, working with diverse populations. I have experience working as a sexual assault counselor and outpatient intake/assessment specialist in a community mental health setting. I have helped clients with a variety of issues over the years including: depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, mood disorders, stress management, life transitions, relationship distress, anger management, and self-injury. I am offering telehealth and in-person services, depending on your preferences or needs.
Change is often scary, but a necessary part of life for growth. It takes courage to reach out for help. I have over 8 years of experience in the field, working with diverse populations. I have experience working as a sexual assault counselor and outpatient intake/assessment specialist in a community mental health setting. I have helped clients with a variety of issues over the years including: depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, mood disorders, stress management, life transitions, relationship distress, anger management, and self-injury. I am offering telehealth and in-person services, depending on your preferences or needs.
(815) 453-9528 View (815) 453-9528
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Leigh Bancsy
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
Taking the first step to begin the counseling process can be a difficult one, as the decision to make changes in your life can be overwhelming. I believe in providing a safe, caring and compassionate environment for my clients that enables them to acquire the skills they need to lead a fulfilling life. Utilizing cognitive-behavioral and play therapies, I assist clients with identifying obstacles they wish to overcome in their lives. I strive to establish a supportive, trusting and collaborative relationship with my clients to assist them in reaching their goals.
Taking the first step to begin the counseling process can be a difficult one, as the decision to make changes in your life can be overwhelming. I believe in providing a safe, caring and compassionate environment for my clients that enables them to acquire the skills they need to lead a fulfilling life. Utilizing cognitive-behavioral and play therapies, I assist clients with identifying obstacles they wish to overcome in their lives. I strive to establish a supportive, trusting and collaborative relationship with my clients to assist them in reaching their goals.
(815) 206-8431 View (815) 206-8431
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Hilary E Kohs
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60431
My name is Hilary Kohs, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been a mental health therapist since 2003. I received my Bachelor’s in Science degree for Psychology in 1997 from Illinois State University, Normal, Illinois. I received my Master’s degree in Social Work in 2003 from University of Illinois in Chicago, Jane Addams College of Social Work. I have been working as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 20 years helping clients ages 6-96 with issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, parenting issues, anger management, bi-polar disorder, and a variety of other mental health issues.
My name is Hilary Kohs, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been a mental health therapist since 2003. I received my Bachelor’s in Science degree for Psychology in 1997 from Illinois State University, Normal, Illinois. I received my Master’s degree in Social Work in 2003 from University of Illinois in Chicago, Jane Addams College of Social Work. I have been working as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 20 years helping clients ages 6-96 with issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, parenting issues, anger management, bi-polar disorder, and a variety of other mental health issues.
(779) 204-9048 View (779) 204-9048
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Stephen Hart Lanterman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, JD, MSW, LCSW, CSAT, CADC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
SOCIAL MEDIATOR-THERAPIST: Social Mediation lends third party neutral support to prepare and empower family members to have a voice; and to prepare to heal the raw wounds of relationship conflict, betrayal and broken trust; Social mediation addresses some of the following problems: Depression, anxiety,alcohol abuse, abuse of prescription medication, trauma, alienation in marriage, family, or community,divorce,narcissism, sex addiction, partners’ trauma, shame, gaslighting, betrayal and broken trust,restoring trust, and revitalizing sexual intimacy, conflict over parenting; and adult child issues over parents’ elder care.
SOCIAL MEDIATOR-THERAPIST: Social Mediation lends third party neutral support to prepare and empower family members to have a voice; and to prepare to heal the raw wounds of relationship conflict, betrayal and broken trust; Social mediation addresses some of the following problems: Depression, anxiety,alcohol abuse, abuse of prescription medication, trauma, alienation in marriage, family, or community,divorce,narcissism, sex addiction, partners’ trauma, shame, gaslighting, betrayal and broken trust,restoring trust, and revitalizing sexual intimacy, conflict over parenting; and adult child issues over parents’ elder care.
(779) 223-1771 View (779) 223-1771
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.