Relationship Issues Therapists in Hinsdale, IL
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I am a licensed clinical psychologist who provides psychological services from an insight-seeking approach that includes psychodynamics principles - focusing on relationship and life patterns, existential principles - focusing on life choices, meaning and loss, and systemic principles - focusing on the influence of family, work and social groups. I have specific clinical interest and training regarding identity issues, developmental and phase of life transitions, matters of loss and grief, disordered eating, as well as mood and anxiety issues. I also have specific interest in the experience of emptiness, dream work and understanding inter-generational patterns of family dynamics.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist who provides psychological services from an insight-seeking approach that includes psychodynamics principles - focusing on relationship and life patterns, existential principles - focusing on life choices, meaning and loss, and systemic principles - focusing on the influence of family, work and social groups. I have specific clinical interest and training regarding identity issues, developmental and phase of life transitions, matters of loss and grief, disordered eating, as well as mood and anxiety issues. I also have specific interest in the experience of emptiness, dream work and understanding inter-generational patterns of family dynamics.
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Katie Butusov
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Hinsdale, IL 60521
I excel at working with adolescents, helping to improve and strengthen vital skills such as emotion regulation, effective communication, empathy, assertiveness, and self-awareness, while developing the crucial therapeutic relationship needed to facilitate change and growth.
Seeking help can be scary and overwhelming, but you are not alone! I am here to offer a safe, nonjudgmental, and comfortable place that you can feel heard and validated. I believe that building strong foundations and relationships with people are imperative to the growth and healing of an individual’s mind and soul. I bring energy, compassion, and even a little humor to my work with clients, to create a collaborative environment that you can be comfortable and yourself in.
I excel at working with adolescents, helping to improve and strengthen vital skills such as emotion regulation, effective communication, empathy, assertiveness, and self-awareness, while developing the crucial therapeutic relationship needed to facilitate change and growth.
Seeking help can be scary and overwhelming, but you are not alone! I am here to offer a safe, nonjudgmental, and comfortable place that you can feel heard and validated. I believe that building strong foundations and relationships with people are imperative to the growth and healing of an individual’s mind and soul. I bring energy, compassion, and even a little humor to my work with clients, to create a collaborative environment that you can be comfortable and yourself in.
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All the while, developing a relationship of trust, acceptance, empathy and validation.
*Offering both online and in-person sessions. Are you looking for a therapist who is engaging, warm, understanding, experienced and very knowledgeable? If so, I'm your therapist. I have helped others like you improve their relationships, overcome anxiety, depression and anger. Even if you have lost hope, together we can build self-confidence, strengthen resilience, and find motivation to overcome the obstacles. Whether you come for individual, or for couples therapy, my clients are often surprised what can be overcome and how much better things can be.
All the while, developing a relationship of trust, acceptance, empathy and validation.
*Offering both online and in-person sessions. Are you looking for a therapist who is engaging, warm, understanding, experienced and very knowledgeable? If so, I'm your therapist. I have helped others like you improve their relationships, overcome anxiety, depression and anger. Even if you have lost hope, together we can build self-confidence, strengthen resilience, and find motivation to overcome the obstacles. Whether you come for individual, or for couples therapy, my clients are often surprised what can be overcome and how much better things can be.
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I have been in practice for over 30 years and feel that I'm best at dealing with individuals with anxiety, depression and relationship issues. The goal of all my work is to help individuals live up to their full potential. I have an expertise with numerous techniques to accomplish this goal. Traditional insight-oriented, cognitive/behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy and specialty techniques such as hypnotherapy, biofeedback and relaxation training are just a few of the interventions I use.
I have been in practice for over 30 years and feel that I'm best at dealing with individuals with anxiety, depression and relationship issues. The goal of all my work is to help individuals live up to their full potential. I have an expertise with numerous techniques to accomplish this goal. Traditional insight-oriented, cognitive/behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy and specialty techniques such as hypnotherapy, biofeedback and relaxation training are just a few of the interventions I use.
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Megan Borhart | Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMT, CR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hinsdale, IL 60521
I am dedicated to providing restored safety and support, unique to your relationship with a partner or family member.
Narcissistic abuse is a confusing and painful experience, characterized by gaslighting, blame-shifting, coercive control, and the questioning of one’s reality. My mission is to provide specialized, trauma-informed care designed specifically for people experiencing this unique kind of emotional and psychological abuse. People exhibiting narcissistic traits are drawn to compassionate and empathetic people, who often feel these admirable qualities have been exploited. It's not your fault.
I am dedicated to providing restored safety and support, unique to your relationship with a partner or family member.
Narcissistic abuse is a confusing and painful experience, characterized by gaslighting, blame-shifting, coercive control, and the questioning of one’s reality. My mission is to provide specialized, trauma-informed care designed specifically for people experiencing this unique kind of emotional and psychological abuse. People exhibiting narcissistic traits are drawn to compassionate and empathetic people, who often feel these admirable qualities have been exploited. It's not your fault.
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Like all providers at AMANI Clinical Services, I am skilled and focused on the systems my patients come from and love working with relationship issues, families, and parenting difficulties.
I am passionate about helping people break free from the traps they create for themselves. I live for overcoming "weak, fragile, broken, victim" narratives. I love helping people rediscover their valued selves and lives. I am always mindful that one’s experiences are true and valid, and even unhealthy coping has gotten clients through painful moments. If your world has been shrinking and getting smaller and smaller, I can help. Let's get you feeling better. I will help you cultivate a road map that guides you towards your values, while also problem-solving barriers, symptoms, and challenges to help equip you for the journey.
Like all providers at AMANI Clinical Services, I am skilled and focused on the systems my patients come from and love working with relationship issues, families, and parenting difficulties.
I am passionate about helping people break free from the traps they create for themselves. I live for overcoming "weak, fragile, broken, victim" narratives. I love helping people rediscover their valued selves and lives. I am always mindful that one’s experiences are true and valid, and even unhealthy coping has gotten clients through painful moments. If your world has been shrinking and getting smaller and smaller, I can help. Let's get you feeling better. I will help you cultivate a road map that guides you towards your values, while also problem-solving barriers, symptoms, and challenges to help equip you for the journey.
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Emily McCoy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hinsdale, IL 60521
I love supporting those who wish to work through life transitions, anxiety, low self-esteem and relationship issues.
Hello, and congratulations on taking this first step in finding a therapist – I celebrate your choice to make a difference in your life. I am an individual therapist with a goal to help you understand your potential for living your most fulfilled life – whatever that looks like for you. I bring compassion, warmth, humor and a thoughtful pragmatism to my practice to establish authentic rapport with clients, as I believe that a relationship built on trust is the most important and effective aspect of deeply therapeutic work. Whether our work is via video telehealth or in-person, I can help!
I love supporting those who wish to work through life transitions, anxiety, low self-esteem and relationship issues.
Hello, and congratulations on taking this first step in finding a therapist – I celebrate your choice to make a difference in your life. I am an individual therapist with a goal to help you understand your potential for living your most fulfilled life – whatever that looks like for you. I bring compassion, warmth, humor and a thoughtful pragmatism to my practice to establish authentic rapport with clients, as I believe that a relationship built on trust is the most important and effective aspect of deeply therapeutic work. Whether our work is via video telehealth or in-person, I can help!
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I primarily chose counseling due to the fact that poor communication & issues with personalization cause most of our relationship issues.
We all find ourselves at times in our life that we require nurturance to help us through life's changes. Loss in our lives requires care and guidance by a professional. Loss may be defined in various ways, it may be death, divorce, depression, addictions, infidelity, anxiety, infertility just to name a few.
I work to specifically assist individuals, couples, families and groups to alleviate emotional disorders, to understand conscious and unconscious motivation, to resolve emotional, relationship and attitudinal conflicts and to help modify behaviors that interfere with effective emotional, social adaptive, and intellectual functioning.
I primarily chose counseling due to the fact that poor communication & issues with personalization cause most of our relationship issues.
We all find ourselves at times in our life that we require nurturance to help us through life's changes. Loss in our lives requires care and guidance by a professional. Loss may be defined in various ways, it may be death, divorce, depression, addictions, infidelity, anxiety, infertility just to name a few.
I work to specifically assist individuals, couples, families and groups to alleviate emotional disorders, to understand conscious and unconscious motivation, to resolve emotional, relationship and attitudinal conflicts and to help modify behaviors that interfere with effective emotional, social adaptive, and intellectual functioning.
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I truly believe in creating a therapeutic relationship where you can feel safe to connect with yourself and better understand what you might need to flourish.
I have had the privilege of providing therapy for individuals impacted by abuse and complex trauma for over ten years and practice with the intention of creating a safe and affirming space that can support healing and develop trust. I am passionate about providing therapy using a holistic lens and embracing how mind, body and emotional wellness are connected. That said, I value transparency and collaboration in finding the right fit or approach so that we can ensure your needs are met. I provide individual services and especially enjoy exploring life transitions, family of origin issues and women's issues.
I truly believe in creating a therapeutic relationship where you can feel safe to connect with yourself and better understand what you might need to flourish.
I have had the privilege of providing therapy for individuals impacted by abuse and complex trauma for over ten years and practice with the intention of creating a safe and affirming space that can support healing and develop trust. I am passionate about providing therapy using a holistic lens and embracing how mind, body and emotional wellness are connected. That said, I value transparency and collaboration in finding the right fit or approach so that we can ensure your needs are met. I provide individual services and especially enjoy exploring life transitions, family of origin issues and women's issues.
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Mindful Counseling Chicago can assist you in achieving your life and relationship goals.
Recognizing the need to make changes in your life and seeking support takes courage. Therapy can provide not only the understanding that supports change, but the tools to prepare you to live with more confidence, balance and intentionality. I help clients make meaning of their struggles, articulate their desires, and collaborate to reach their goals. I am mindful of the interdependence between body, mind, and spirit and support and encourage my clients in doing the same.
Mindful Counseling Chicago can assist you in achieving your life and relationship goals.
Recognizing the need to make changes in your life and seeking support takes courage. Therapy can provide not only the understanding that supports change, but the tools to prepare you to live with more confidence, balance and intentionality. I help clients make meaning of their struggles, articulate their desires, and collaborate to reach their goals. I am mindful of the interdependence between body, mind, and spirit and support and encourage my clients in doing the same.
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Got anger, anxiety, depression? I can help. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Anger Management Specialist Level III. Passionate about helping individuals, professionals and couples escape the parasitic nature of mismanaged anger, conflict, and stress freeing them to discover greater enjoyment, fulfillment, and success in their lives, careers and relationships. 25+ years of clinical counseling and coaching effectively treating Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety Disorders, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Anger and Stress Management, Marriage and Relationship Issues, Conflict Resolution and Influencing Skills.
Got anger, anxiety, depression? I can help. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Anger Management Specialist Level III. Passionate about helping individuals, professionals and couples escape the parasitic nature of mismanaged anger, conflict, and stress freeing them to discover greater enjoyment, fulfillment, and success in their lives, careers and relationships. 25+ years of clinical counseling and coaching effectively treating Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety Disorders, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Anger and Stress Management, Marriage and Relationship Issues, Conflict Resolution and Influencing Skills.
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I believe in the healing power of a warm and caring therapeutic relationship, and I am honored to be a companion to you as you navigate your path to achieving the life you want to live. I bring an authentic, compassionate, trauma-informed, and client-centered approach to my work with adults, adolescents, and couples struggling with relationship issues, trauma, anxiety, depression, life transitions, and step-family dynamics.
I believe in the healing power of a warm and caring therapeutic relationship, and I am honored to be a companion to you as you navigate your path to achieving the life you want to live. I bring an authentic, compassionate, trauma-informed, and client-centered approach to my work with adults, adolescents, and couples struggling with relationship issues, trauma, anxiety, depression, life transitions, and step-family dynamics.
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The therapeutic relationship is based on support, trust, honesty, openness, and empathy.
Hello. My therapeutic experience is layered with an emphasis on relational concerns, problematic personality traits, and mood disorders. I attend to clients with psychological, emotional, and physical trauma and/or neglect. Support is offered for recovery from narcissistic or borderline personality abuse. I am a Certified Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor and trained in Domestic Violence, EMDR, and Divorce Mediation. I treat clients who endure anxiety, depression, anger, grief, attachment, identity, and low self-esteem concerns. I assist with life transitions, stress management, family conflict, and parenting skills.
The therapeutic relationship is based on support, trust, honesty, openness, and empathy.
Hello. My therapeutic experience is layered with an emphasis on relational concerns, problematic personality traits, and mood disorders. I attend to clients with psychological, emotional, and physical trauma and/or neglect. Support is offered for recovery from narcissistic or borderline personality abuse. I am a Certified Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor and trained in Domestic Violence, EMDR, and Divorce Mediation. I treat clients who endure anxiety, depression, anger, grief, attachment, identity, and low self-esteem concerns. I assist with life transitions, stress management, family conflict, and parenting skills.
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I have experience working with adults and have addressed issues such as anxiety, depression, grief, interpersonal relationship dynamics, and cultural/ethnic struggles.
“Together, my clients and I collaborate on a treatment plan to help them reach their goals and live their lives authentically.” I strongly believe in the mind-body connection, and use a variety of mindfulness techniques to anchor clients to themselves and promote whole-person wellness. As a Black woman, I am passionate about increasing access to mental health services for ALL people of color, as it has been deeply stigmatized in our communities for generations.
I have experience working with adults and have addressed issues such as anxiety, depression, grief, interpersonal relationship dynamics, and cultural/ethnic struggles.
“Together, my clients and I collaborate on a treatment plan to help them reach their goals and live their lives authentically.” I strongly believe in the mind-body connection, and use a variety of mindfulness techniques to anchor clients to themselves and promote whole-person wellness. As a Black woman, I am passionate about increasing access to mental health services for ALL people of color, as it has been deeply stigmatized in our communities for generations.
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Life can be challenging and overwhelming at times, especially when feeling unwell and lonely. It may seem scary, but you don't have to face these hardships alone. Whether dealing with depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship problems, the loss of a loved one, don't hesitate to reach out for support. I am here to listen and help.
Life can be challenging and overwhelming at times, especially when feeling unwell and lonely. It may seem scary, but you don't have to face these hardships alone. Whether dealing with depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship problems, the loss of a loved one, don't hesitate to reach out for support. I am here to listen and help.
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My practice specialties are: psychotherapy with adults, adolescents, and couples. Issues that I help with are the regulation of self-esteem, relationship issues, as well as helping the client to reduce anxiety, improve mood, and reach personal goals.
My practice specialties are: psychotherapy with adults, adolescents, and couples. Issues that I help with are the regulation of self-esteem, relationship issues, as well as helping the client to reduce anxiety, improve mood, and reach personal goals.
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We all struggle at times. Having a compassionate but objective person help guide you through your thoughts and feelings can help you process your experiences to find clarity and peace. Clients have come to me with grief, addiction, trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, and many other circumstances. My approach is caring, collaborative, motivational, and creative. I have learned the most from my clients and as I continue to grow professionally, I incorporate more holistic approaches. I look forward to earning your trust, developing a great rapport, and working with you to obtain your goals and realize your best self.
We all struggle at times. Having a compassionate but objective person help guide you through your thoughts and feelings can help you process your experiences to find clarity and peace. Clients have come to me with grief, addiction, trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, and many other circumstances. My approach is caring, collaborative, motivational, and creative. I have learned the most from my clients and as I continue to grow professionally, I incorporate more holistic approaches. I look forward to earning your trust, developing a great rapport, and working with you to obtain your goals and realize your best self.
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~Parenting Strategies
~Anxiety or Fears
~Child or Adolescent Issues
~Depression
~ Relationship Issues
~Divorce
~Domestic Abuse
~Domestic Violence
~Gay Lesbian Issues
~Life Coaching
~Loss or Grief
~Substance Abuse
~Trauma and PTSD
~Thinking Disorders.
If you are feeling confused or frustrated, helpless, angry or isolated, schedule a time to talk with me about strategies that will empower you to work toward identified goals and bring balance back into your life. With certified professionalism, I will attentively listen to your specific situation and goals, and intelligently advise you along a path to an improved quality of life. Phone or FaceTime sessions available.
~Parenting Strategies
~Anxiety or Fears
~Child or Adolescent Issues
~Depression
~ Relationship Issues
~Divorce
~Domestic Abuse
~Domestic Violence
~Gay Lesbian Issues
~Life Coaching
~Loss or Grief
~Substance Abuse
~Trauma and PTSD
~Thinking Disorders.
If you are feeling confused or frustrated, helpless, angry or isolated, schedule a time to talk with me about strategies that will empower you to work toward identified goals and bring balance back into your life. With certified professionalism, I will attentively listen to your specific situation and goals, and intelligently advise you along a path to an improved quality of life. Phone or FaceTime sessions available.
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I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience. I specialize in providing treatment of depression, anxiety, relationship issues, eating issues, addiction, and women's issues. My approach to therapy is individualized to your specific needs. My style in interactive and direct and my goal is to help people of all ages, backgrounds and beliefs find solutions to personal, relational and family problems. I work with a variety of other professionals, including psychiatrists and physicians, to provide a team approach to treatment.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience. I specialize in providing treatment of depression, anxiety, relationship issues, eating issues, addiction, and women's issues. My approach to therapy is individualized to your specific needs. My style in interactive and direct and my goal is to help people of all ages, backgrounds and beliefs find solutions to personal, relational and family problems. I work with a variety of other professionals, including psychiatrists and physicians, to provide a team approach to treatment.
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Melissa Bercier Phd Lcsw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hinsdale, IL 60521
Are you in a relationship where you have an unresolved issue that you can seem to find the right time or place to discuss it with your partner? Schedule it! I have been a practicing therapist for over 29 years and am also a collaborative coach. I work with couples on issues that require a neutral person to assist with healthier communication methods, conflict resolution, and a more directive approach to problem solving. I am trained in mediation as well as collaborative divorce coaching.
Are you in a relationship where you have an unresolved issue that you can seem to find the right time or place to discuss it with your partner? Schedule it! I have been a practicing therapist for over 29 years and am also a collaborative coach. I work with couples on issues that require a neutral person to assist with healthier communication methods, conflict resolution, and a more directive approach to problem solving. I am trained in mediation as well as collaborative divorce coaching.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.