Gottman Method Therapists in Des Plaines, IL

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Jen Haughey
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Des Plaines, IL 60016
I practice a collaborative form of therapy incorporating Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy and mindfulness-based interventions.
Are you facing challenges with relationships, a life or career transition, finding work/life balance or managing your stress? Do you feel disconnected or "off-track" from who you want to be in your life and relationships? Perhaps you feel ready to make a change. I can help you get started. Call now or use this secure form to reach out: https://www.empathic.com/cp/client/register?clinic=451.
I practice a collaborative form of therapy incorporating Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy and mindfulness-based interventions.
Are you facing challenges with relationships, a life or career transition, finding work/life balance or managing your stress? Do you feel disconnected or "off-track" from who you want to be in your life and relationships? Perhaps you feel ready to make a change. I can help you get started. Call now or use this secure form to reach out: https://www.empathic.com/cp/client/register?clinic=451.
(847) 986-5210 View (847) 986-5210
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David Bronsveld
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60016
I also have experience using Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method which I often apply when working with couples.
I like to work with individuals and couples of various ages and backgrounds. I enjoy working with those who are struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, or relationship conflicts. Whether it be struggling with things at work, home, or other parts of your life, my hope is to be able to come alongside and empower individuals to utilize your strengths and resources. While there are several different methods of therapy, I believe in using an integrative approach by applying empirically supported treatment best suited for your needs.
I also have experience using Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method which I often apply when working with couples.
I like to work with individuals and couples of various ages and backgrounds. I enjoy working with those who are struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, or relationship conflicts. Whether it be struggling with things at work, home, or other parts of your life, my hope is to be able to come alongside and empower individuals to utilize your strengths and resources. While there are several different methods of therapy, I believe in using an integrative approach by applying empirically supported treatment best suited for your needs.
(312) 470-6927 View (312) 470-6927
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Nancy Eschbach, LCSW and Associates, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60016
Feeling challenged, stressed or anxious by life events? For all of us, there are times that life becomes difficult to manage. Changes and challenges become overwhelming or increase our sense of vulnerability, worry or frustration. Other times, we just feel stuck. Therapy can be a helpful step towards feeling better and a means to regain insight, balance and perspective. We provide individual and couples therapy for teens through older adults in both our Des Plaines and Evanston offices. You'll find our team warm, caring and supportive while you work on the changes you desire.
Feeling challenged, stressed or anxious by life events? For all of us, there are times that life becomes difficult to manage. Changes and challenges become overwhelming or increase our sense of vulnerability, worry or frustration. Other times, we just feel stuck. Therapy can be a helpful step towards feeling better and a means to regain insight, balance and perspective. We provide individual and couples therapy for teens through older adults in both our Des Plaines and Evanston offices. You'll find our team warm, caring and supportive while you work on the changes you desire.
(847) 307-7180 View (847) 307-7180
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Kenan Pojskic
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60016  (Online Only)
I work with with couples, families and individuals to fully realize their potentials and help them have the experiences they want in their lives and relationships. This can prove especially difficult when there are so many factors affecting one's well-being; a boss at work that doesn't respect you, a spouse that doesn't understand you, a friend that doesn't contact you. I try to explore all of these influences and help you find the place where you want to be in. Who said relationships have to be difficult or dreadful to experience?
I work with with couples, families and individuals to fully realize their potentials and help them have the experiences they want in their lives and relationships. This can prove especially difficult when there are so many factors affecting one's well-being; a boss at work that doesn't respect you, a spouse that doesn't understand you, a friend that doesn't contact you. I try to explore all of these influences and help you find the place where you want to be in. Who said relationships have to be difficult or dreadful to experience?
(773) 985-5274 View (773) 985-5274
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Great Lakes Psychology Group - Schaumburg
Counselor
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60018
Accepting new patients! Whether you are new to therapy or looking to start again, Great Lakes Psychology Group - Schaumburg understands that starting therapy can be overwhelming. That’s why we simplified the process with Find My Therapist. Get started by telling us about yourself, your location, and your insurance. Once you find your best-fit therapist, pick a time that works for you and book an appointment instantly through their calendar. Find My Therapist aims to make your journey as stress-free as possible, so you can start feeling better sooner.
Accepting new patients! Whether you are new to therapy or looking to start again, Great Lakes Psychology Group - Schaumburg understands that starting therapy can be overwhelming. That’s why we simplified the process with Find My Therapist. Get started by telling us about yourself, your location, and your insurance. Once you find your best-fit therapist, pick a time that works for you and book an appointment instantly through their calendar. Find My Therapist aims to make your journey as stress-free as possible, so you can start feeling better sooner.
(847) 994-4382 View (847) 994-4382
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Saioa Aranceta-Sieracki
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60019
Offering telehealth and in-person. One of my favorite quotes is by the late Magda Gerber- "We all need someone who understands." As a clinician that has worked with a variety of mental health and familial issues, I can attest that the most important part of the therapeutic process is the relationship between the therapist and the client. I prioritize that relationship and always aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space for the most vulnerable and deepest parts of your struggles to be heard and made better. I believe that every individual has the internal skills to create the life for themselves and with others that they want.
Offering telehealth and in-person. One of my favorite quotes is by the late Magda Gerber- "We all need someone who understands." As a clinician that has worked with a variety of mental health and familial issues, I can attest that the most important part of the therapeutic process is the relationship between the therapist and the client. I prioritize that relationship and always aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space for the most vulnerable and deepest parts of your struggles to be heard and made better. I believe that every individual has the internal skills to create the life for themselves and with others that they want.
(773) 245-2780 View (773) 245-2780
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Lisa Kohut
Counselor, EdD, EdS, LCPC, CADC
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60016
I am a Christian Counselor/Psychologist and I use a compassionate, direct, faith based and solution focused approach that's personalized to your needs. If you're looking to get to the root of your issues, you want to improve the quality of your life and you want to be happier or have more peace, you've come to the right place. Whether it's individual therapy, marriage counseling, addiction counseling, psychological assessments or parental guidance for the challenging teenage years, I'll gently, but directly guide you in the right direction to discovering lasting solutions.
I am a Christian Counselor/Psychologist and I use a compassionate, direct, faith based and solution focused approach that's personalized to your needs. If you're looking to get to the root of your issues, you want to improve the quality of your life and you want to be happier or have more peace, you've come to the right place. Whether it's individual therapy, marriage counseling, addiction counseling, psychological assessments or parental guidance for the challenging teenage years, I'll gently, but directly guide you in the right direction to discovering lasting solutions.
(847) 457-0577 View (847) 457-0577
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Bob Campbell
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Des Plaines, IL 60016
Not accepting new clients
You may be facing one of the biggest challenges of your life--a relationship problem, a serious illness, significant loss, anxiety or depression. I use both brief and long-term methods so that we can make progress quickly and then sustain it. As we work toward a greater understanding and clarity, I will help you to pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and sensations; accompanying you through the fear and sadness, the pain and loneliness. My goal is for you to end up feeling stronger and more capable. Call now or use this secure form: https://www.empathic.com/cp/client/register?clinic=451.
You may be facing one of the biggest challenges of your life--a relationship problem, a serious illness, significant loss, anxiety or depression. I use both brief and long-term methods so that we can make progress quickly and then sustain it. As we work toward a greater understanding and clarity, I will help you to pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and sensations; accompanying you through the fear and sadness, the pain and loneliness. My goal is for you to end up feeling stronger and more capable. Call now or use this secure form: https://www.empathic.com/cp/client/register?clinic=451.
(847) 462-4321 View (847) 462-4321
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Whitney Gipson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSW, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Des Plaines, IL 60016
Waitlist for new clients
With just over 20 years experience in the field, I am the proud owner of Northwest Suburban Counseling. My colleagues and I provide services to a broad spectrum of clients and truly enjoy dedicating ourselves to our work as private practitioners. Among my personal areas of specialization are depression & anxiety, marital discord, pre-marital counseling, relationship counseling, anger management, autism spectrum disorders, school and home behavioral issues, parental guidance and divorce support.
With just over 20 years experience in the field, I am the proud owner of Northwest Suburban Counseling. My colleagues and I provide services to a broad spectrum of clients and truly enjoy dedicating ourselves to our work as private practitioners. Among my personal areas of specialization are depression & anxiety, marital discord, pre-marital counseling, relationship counseling, anger management, autism spectrum disorders, school and home behavioral issues, parental guidance and divorce support.
(847) 999-0812 View (847) 999-0812
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Us And Kids Communication Program
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Des Plaines, IL 60018  (Online Only)
Couples with young kiddo are particularly at risk for marriage and family strife because they are so busy, and because there is so much that is new to their brains, emotions and relationship. Figuring out how to be both mom and dad as well as husband and wife is often overwhelming and troubling. Tension builds when the relationship energy gets split between kiddos needs (and there are a lot of them!) and marriage needs (and those are valid as well). The energy to figure out how to integrate all those needs, wants, wishes becomes divided and divisive. Disconnected and discontent brew and relationship trouble stews. What to do?
Couples with young kiddo are particularly at risk for marriage and family strife because they are so busy, and because there is so much that is new to their brains, emotions and relationship. Figuring out how to be both mom and dad as well as husband and wife is often overwhelming and troubling. Tension builds when the relationship energy gets split between kiddos needs (and there are a lot of them!) and marriage needs (and those are valid as well). The energy to figure out how to integrate all those needs, wants, wishes becomes divided and divisive. Disconnected and discontent brew and relationship trouble stews. What to do?
(616) 843-0985 View (616) 843-0985
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Lucas Somma
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Des Plaines, IL 60016
The adage “we repeat what we don’t repair” is especially true of couples. Couples often start therapy knowing that their relationship can and should be better, but they feel powerless to change. Constant fighting, threatening to leave, infidelity, always feeling distant, anxiety and depression—these are signs that something needs to change. Couples therapy with me focuses on helping you and your partner break these cycles by first understanding how they came to be. I offer a unique perspective that emphasizes the importance of exploring unconscious dynamics and your past’s influence in your relationship.
The adage “we repeat what we don’t repair” is especially true of couples. Couples often start therapy knowing that their relationship can and should be better, but they feel powerless to change. Constant fighting, threatening to leave, infidelity, always feeling distant, anxiety and depression—these are signs that something needs to change. Couples therapy with me focuses on helping you and your partner break these cycles by first understanding how they came to be. I offer a unique perspective that emphasizes the importance of exploring unconscious dynamics and your past’s influence in your relationship.
(773) 739-6826 View (773) 739-6826
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Dr. Gina Raza
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Des Plaines, IL 60016  (Online Only)
Hello! Life can be hard. If you're stressed, and wanting more peace in your life, there's hope for better days. Nagging anxiety can eat up your joy, but it doesn't have to stay that way. There are effective strategies that will help you feel better! Therapy can help you experience positive changes, freedom from fear, and give you more enthusiasm about life. I also specialize in Couples therapy (marital, committed couples, and pre-marital). It IS possible to revitalize your relationship! Couples therapy will help you reconnect, communicate more effectively, and strengthen your understanding of one another.
Hello! Life can be hard. If you're stressed, and wanting more peace in your life, there's hope for better days. Nagging anxiety can eat up your joy, but it doesn't have to stay that way. There are effective strategies that will help you feel better! Therapy can help you experience positive changes, freedom from fear, and give you more enthusiasm about life. I also specialize in Couples therapy (marital, committed couples, and pre-marital). It IS possible to revitalize your relationship! Couples therapy will help you reconnect, communicate more effectively, and strengthen your understanding of one another.
(224) 864-9173 View (224) 864-9173
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Proactive Therapy, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AM, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Des Plaines, IL 60018
Life can be difficult and all of us struggle at times. We deal with hardship, loss, pain, break ups, hurt, relationship turmoil, tough transitions, crisis, sadness, worry and difficulty managing intense feelings. We are also resillient. We all have the inherent ability to change and better ourselves. We offer you the space and tools to learn and grow through collaborative, non-judgmental, compassionate therapy.
Life can be difficult and all of us struggle at times. We deal with hardship, loss, pain, break ups, hurt, relationship turmoil, tough transitions, crisis, sadness, worry and difficulty managing intense feelings. We are also resillient. We all have the inherent ability to change and better ourselves. We offer you the space and tools to learn and grow through collaborative, non-judgmental, compassionate therapy.
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Kari Sikich, LCPC, PLLC
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Park Ridge, IL 60068  (Online Only)
As an LCPC, Mediator, and Clinical Supervisor with over 15 years of experience, I focus on the strengths and resiliencies clients already possess and offer strategies and interventions to help overcome barriers. Some areas I specialize in are anxiety, depression, trauma, major life events, divorce, and familial conflict. I have worked across different levels of care and understand the importance of a trusting, therapeutic relationship.
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Healing Space Counseling Services, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Park Ridge, IL 60068  (Online Only)
Hi, life can be complicated, we all go through difficult moments in which we can benefit from therapeutic support. As a licensed therapist, I can accompany you in your healing journey. For me, therapy is a journey in which we work collaboratively to discover answers and solutions that empower you to build the type of life you want. As a bilingual Latina Therapist, I have a multicultural vision that allows me to easily understand and connect with problems related to cultural and racial issues that affect our well-being.
Hi, life can be complicated, we all go through difficult moments in which we can benefit from therapeutic support. As a licensed therapist, I can accompany you in your healing journey. For me, therapy is a journey in which we work collaboratively to discover answers and solutions that empower you to build the type of life you want. As a bilingual Latina Therapist, I have a multicultural vision that allows me to easily understand and connect with problems related to cultural and racial issues that affect our well-being.
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Dr. Jillian M Wickery
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Park Ridge, IL 60068
Not accepting new clients
If you’re looking for answers, I don’t have them. But if you’re looking for someone to help you face the tough questions, you’re in the right place. Questions like “Why do I feel stuck?”, “What do I truly want?”, or “How can I change my circumstances?” can be hard to navigate on your own. I have 20 years of experience helping patients reclaim their happiness from the effects of anxiety, depression, loss of motivation, stress and perfectionism. I work with individuals, mother-daughter relationships, siblings, and help couples redefine their relationships after time or troubles erode familiar routes to connection. Therapy can help.
If you’re looking for answers, I don’t have them. But if you’re looking for someone to help you face the tough questions, you’re in the right place. Questions like “Why do I feel stuck?”, “What do I truly want?”, or “How can I change my circumstances?” can be hard to navigate on your own. I have 20 years of experience helping patients reclaim their happiness from the effects of anxiety, depression, loss of motivation, stress and perfectionism. I work with individuals, mother-daughter relationships, siblings, and help couples redefine their relationships after time or troubles erode familiar routes to connection. Therapy can help.
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North Shore Family Services, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Park Ridge, IL 60068
When you or your child/teen is struggling, you want strategies to combat challenges NOW. At North Shore Family Services, we empower kids, teens, and adults to learn tools, so they can succeed independently. Our goal is for children, teens, adults, parents, and couples to learn skills to be successful with school, peers, work, and family- long after therapy ends. We assist with IEP and 504 plans to help our children/teen clients succeed where they spend most of their day- out of their parents' sight. Parents are our partners in helping kids and teens learn life skills.
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(224) 803-2468 View (224) 803-2468
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Don Rossoff
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
Park Ridge, IL 60068  (Online Only)
I seek to serve members of the clergy and their families in Illinois. You and your dear ones often experience great joy and meaning in your callings. Along with these, however, you frequently feel lonely, isolated, judged, never good enough, overwhelmed, overworked, underpaid, and dismissed, feelings which you dare not share with others. You need to be seen and heard by someone with whom you can freely express these emotions, speak your truth, and be your authentic self. With me, you will find a non-judgmental therapist who has had similar experiences and who understands the unique challenges which clergy and their families face.
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Tatiana Vukotic
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Park Ridge, IL 60068
It takes a great deal of courage to share your experiences with someone, and I am honored to walk this journey with you! Together we can explore how current (and past) stressors and uncertainties may be impacting your lived experience. I aim to co-create an open and warm therapeutic space of collaboration where we can unfold your experiences and culture while strengthening insight, healthy coping skills, and self-compassion. In this process we can explore a holistic understanding of your self in the context of your relationships and the world. I offer easy-to-use, HIPAA-compliant TeleHealth/teletherapy services.
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Doug Hansen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Park Ridge, IL 60068
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I work with adult individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed by the pressures of life and unsure how to navigate the complexities of personal, relational, and professional challenges. I help my clients discover what matters most to them and build the courage, communication skills, and compassion to live in alignment with those things.
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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.