Emotionally Focused Therapists in Bannockburn, IL

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Amy Cassandra Cwiklinski
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bannockburn, IL 60015
Amy uses a variety of therapeutic modalities including CBT, DBT, EFT, Narrative Therapy, and Solutions Focused Therapy.
Amy Cwiklinski graduated with a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Adler University in 2018 and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). With over 7 years of experience, Amy has developed a deep understanding of the complex dynamics within families and relationships.
Amy uses a variety of therapeutic modalities including CBT, DBT, EFT, Narrative Therapy, and Solutions Focused Therapy.
Amy Cwiklinski graduated with a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Adler University in 2018 and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). With over 7 years of experience, Amy has developed a deep understanding of the complex dynamics within families and relationships.
(224) 549-2791 View (224) 549-2791
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Susan Jacobs
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MBA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bannockburn, IL 60015
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Illinois and Iowa with 30 yrs of experience working with adults, couples and teens. I am a strong believer that change is a result of self empowerment, education and support. I believe that each person is unique and requires a holistic approach to inspire change. The therapeutic relationship is one where the client can explore and confront their challenges in a safe environment working with their therapist as a coach. I understand the importance of each person working at their own pace and needing different levels of guidance: Accepting new patients. InnerWarriorLLC.com
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Illinois and Iowa with 30 yrs of experience working with adults, couples and teens. I am a strong believer that change is a result of self empowerment, education and support. I believe that each person is unique and requires a holistic approach to inspire change. The therapeutic relationship is one where the client can explore and confront their challenges in a safe environment working with their therapist as a coach. I understand the importance of each person working at their own pace and needing different levels of guidance: Accepting new patients. InnerWarriorLLC.com
(773) 960-2771 View (773) 960-2771
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Rachel Kornacker (Heller)
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Bannockburn, IL 60015
The client-therapist relationship is the single most important factor in successful therapy. Taking the time to build this rapport is a crucial step when I work with someone. I also believe therapy is a collaborative process. The client must feel empowered to lead their therapy process, while I can support and guide them to meet their goals. Ideal clients include those who genuinely want to identify areas of challenge in their life and make progress. At the end of therapy sessions, my goal is for my clients to feel better than when they walked into the session.
The client-therapist relationship is the single most important factor in successful therapy. Taking the time to build this rapport is a crucial step when I work with someone. I also believe therapy is a collaborative process. The client must feel empowered to lead their therapy process, while I can support and guide them to meet their goals. Ideal clients include those who genuinely want to identify areas of challenge in their life and make progress. At the end of therapy sessions, my goal is for my clients to feel better than when they walked into the session.
(708) 914-7967 View (708) 914-7967
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Sammie Easley
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bannockburn, IL 60015
Hi there! I believe in the transformative power of therapy to heal wounds, overcome obstacles, and foster resilience. My passion lies in helping individuals discover their inner strengths, break cycles of trauma and unhealthy patterns, empowering them to navigate life’s challenges with confidence and clarity. I utilize a holistic approach with the belief that individuals are more than their life circumstances or symptoms. My goal is to provide a supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings freely without judgment or distractions. Together, we’ll be able to work collaboratively to create meaningful change.
Hi there! I believe in the transformative power of therapy to heal wounds, overcome obstacles, and foster resilience. My passion lies in helping individuals discover their inner strengths, break cycles of trauma and unhealthy patterns, empowering them to navigate life’s challenges with confidence and clarity. I utilize a holistic approach with the belief that individuals are more than their life circumstances or symptoms. My goal is to provide a supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings freely without judgment or distractions. Together, we’ll be able to work collaboratively to create meaningful change.
(224) 302-4738 View (224) 302-4738
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Terri A. Ammirati
Counselor, MA, MFT, LCPC
Verified Verified
Bannockburn, IL 60015
I believe you are the expert of your life. Within you are the answers to many of the problems you face. My role is to come along side you to help clear the obstacles that are preventing real growth and change. We establish a collaborative relationship built on mutual respect and trust. I provide an environment where you will feel safe, supported, heard and understood. Clients describe me as empathetic, genuine, and direct.
I believe you are the expert of your life. Within you are the answers to many of the problems you face. My role is to come along side you to help clear the obstacles that are preventing real growth and change. We establish a collaborative relationship built on mutual respect and trust. I provide an environment where you will feel safe, supported, heard and understood. Clients describe me as empathetic, genuine, and direct.
(847) 607-1374 View (847) 607-1374

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Catherine Marie Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Deerfield, IL 60015
I believe there is no limit to human capacity. I create a safe and affirming space to cultivate an understanding of the deeper meaning our struggles unveil. With curiosity and compassion leading our work, I help clients recognize the effects of the larger societal and cultural environment that has shaped how we move through the world. I am passionate about the process of unlearning and learning. I’ll serve as a gentle companion on the path of your own unfolding. As a fellow imperfect human being, I am honored to do this work with you.
I believe there is no limit to human capacity. I create a safe and affirming space to cultivate an understanding of the deeper meaning our struggles unveil. With curiosity and compassion leading our work, I help clients recognize the effects of the larger societal and cultural environment that has shaped how we move through the world. I am passionate about the process of unlearning and learning. I’ll serve as a gentle companion on the path of your own unfolding. As a fellow imperfect human being, I am honored to do this work with you.
(224) 328-2892 View (224) 328-2892
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Dr. Eleanor D Laser
Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Highland Park, IL 60035
I am a psychotherapist with extensive experience using Hypnosis, NLP, EMDR and EFT for medical procedures, weight loss, anxiety reduction, essential tremor, and other issues. Through hypnosis, I can help you shift into a new way of thinking and being by deleting old messages and old programmed behaviors. We can replace old behaviors that no longer serve you with new thoughts and actions and that will improve the quality of your life and give you the peace and comfort. I am a coauthor of Patient Sedation Without Medication. Please visit my website www.laserhypnosis.com.
I am a psychotherapist with extensive experience using Hypnosis, NLP, EMDR and EFT for medical procedures, weight loss, anxiety reduction, essential tremor, and other issues. Through hypnosis, I can help you shift into a new way of thinking and being by deleting old messages and old programmed behaviors. We can replace old behaviors that no longer serve you with new thoughts and actions and that will improve the quality of your life and give you the peace and comfort. I am a coauthor of Patient Sedation Without Medication. Please visit my website www.laserhypnosis.com.
(312) 465-4993 View (312) 465-4993
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Meghan M. Scileppi
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lincolnshire, IL 60069
I use empathy, personal honesty, and clear boundaries to establish therapeutic relationships. My training and professional style enable the development of healthy emotional attachment and the behavioral regulation needed to maintain a secure sense of self and family well being. I am a member of International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) and also a member of Chi Sigma Iota in recognition of scholastic and professional excellence. I work with couples to promote healthy attachment and communication skills. I also work with children and families utilizing attachment and family system based models.
I use empathy, personal honesty, and clear boundaries to establish therapeutic relationships. My training and professional style enable the development of healthy emotional attachment and the behavioral regulation needed to maintain a secure sense of self and family well being. I am a member of International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) and also a member of Chi Sigma Iota in recognition of scholastic and professional excellence. I work with couples to promote healthy attachment and communication skills. I also work with children and families utilizing attachment and family system based models.
(847) 512-8994 View (847) 512-8994
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Jean Rock
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deerfield, IL 60015
As much as my training is primarily psychodynamic, I use an integrative approach that incorporates Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), and Person-Centered Therapy.
I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with strong clinical training and years of experience in private practice, high school and community mental health settings. I obtained a Master's in Counseling and Psychotherapy from the Institute for Clinical Social Work. In addition, I received certification as a Grief Support Specialist from the University of Wisconsin. My main objective is to support you in gaining a deeper understanding of your emotional challenges, while at the same time, empowering you to make healthy and desired changes.
As much as my training is primarily psychodynamic, I use an integrative approach that incorporates Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), and Person-Centered Therapy.
I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with strong clinical training and years of experience in private practice, high school and community mental health settings. I obtained a Master's in Counseling and Psychotherapy from the Institute for Clinical Social Work. In addition, I received certification as a Grief Support Specialist from the University of Wisconsin. My main objective is to support you in gaining a deeper understanding of your emotional challenges, while at the same time, empowering you to make healthy and desired changes.
(847) 321-7325 View (847) 321-7325
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Kathryn Krause
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Northbrook, IL 60062
I use a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) to help clients feel empowered, improve their relationships, and work on providing themselves with the kindness and care they deserve.
Healing is an imperfect process, but it is in that imperfection that we find real opportunity for growth, connection, and change. As a therapist, I strive to create these opportunities for clients as I believe we find strength and hope when we are true to ourselves. When we learn to sit with discomfort and difficult emotions, we can gain new perspectives and insights towards making lasting change. I use a relational, authentic approach to create a warm, safe environment for clients. I believe therapy should be collaborative, and I work to provide clients with the space to share their stories.
I use a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) to help clients feel empowered, improve their relationships, and work on providing themselves with the kindness and care they deserve.
Healing is an imperfect process, but it is in that imperfection that we find real opportunity for growth, connection, and change. As a therapist, I strive to create these opportunities for clients as I believe we find strength and hope when we are true to ourselves. When we learn to sit with discomfort and difficult emotions, we can gain new perspectives and insights towards making lasting change. I use a relational, authentic approach to create a warm, safe environment for clients. I believe therapy should be collaborative, and I work to provide clients with the space to share their stories.
(224) 407-3380 View (224) 407-3380
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Margie Wheelhouse
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Highland Park, IL 60035
It takes time, work and commitment to have the best things in life, but it can also take guidance! I have advanced training in both Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Gottman Level 3 Therapy.
Hope is better when it's combined with a plan. If you're having too many fights without resolution, I can help you. I help couples figure out how to resolve stuff once and for all. Even when you're successful in most areas of life, It's hard to be happy when problems are chronically unresolved. It's even worse when the past hangs over the relationship, or you feel like room-mates. If your relationship problems are weighing down your otherwise great life, then counseling can make a big difference.
It takes time, work and commitment to have the best things in life, but it can also take guidance! I have advanced training in both Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Gottman Level 3 Therapy.
Hope is better when it's combined with a plan. If you're having too many fights without resolution, I can help you. I help couples figure out how to resolve stuff once and for all. Even when you're successful in most areas of life, It's hard to be happy when problems are chronically unresolved. It's even worse when the past hangs over the relationship, or you feel like room-mates. If your relationship problems are weighing down your otherwise great life, then counseling can make a big difference.
(217) 703-1410 View (217) 703-1410
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Julie Lee Dorr
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Northbrook, IL 60065
I am trained in EFT ( Emotionally Focused Therapy) to help couples to reconnect; trained in perinatal mental health to help women in their life transitions; hold a certificate in Prepare/Enrich to help premarital couples to strengthen their relationship skills; and completed Gottman Level One training to help couples to communicate more effectively.
I provide a warm and nonjudgmental atmosphere so you will have a safe place to let your guard down and explore. You will be heard. You may be experiencing a "lost at sea" moment - which can be expressed in many shades of sadness,worries, or even anger. These moments can be circumstantial, or perhaps, you just can't seem to stop yourself from revisiting old challenges. We will identify that very pattern you get stuck and get to the core of the issues so you can start to heal and reach your optimal emotional well being.
I am trained in EFT ( Emotionally Focused Therapy) to help couples to reconnect; trained in perinatal mental health to help women in their life transitions; hold a certificate in Prepare/Enrich to help premarital couples to strengthen their relationship skills; and completed Gottman Level One training to help couples to communicate more effectively.
I provide a warm and nonjudgmental atmosphere so you will have a safe place to let your guard down and explore. You will be heard. You may be experiencing a "lost at sea" moment - which can be expressed in many shades of sadness,worries, or even anger. These moments can be circumstantial, or perhaps, you just can't seem to stop yourself from revisiting old challenges. We will identify that very pattern you get stuck and get to the core of the issues so you can start to heal and reach your optimal emotional well being.
(815) 676-4015 View (815) 676-4015
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Ewa Nevler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Deerfield, IL 60015
Ewa's integrated approach is derived from extensive training in many modalities, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Bowen's Family System theory, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
Ewa Nevler is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 18 years of clinical experience in family services agencies. Ewa has significant experience and training working with children, adolescents, adults as well as geriatric population. Ewa provides integrative services to offer guidance related to issues of parenting and co-parenting, anxiety and depression, grief and loss, marriage and relationship concerns, separation and divorce, life transitions, as well as work and school related issues.
Ewa's integrated approach is derived from extensive training in many modalities, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Bowen's Family System theory, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
Ewa Nevler is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 18 years of clinical experience in family services agencies. Ewa has significant experience and training working with children, adolescents, adults as well as geriatric population. Ewa provides integrative services to offer guidance related to issues of parenting and co-parenting, anxiety and depression, grief and loss, marriage and relationship concerns, separation and divorce, life transitions, as well as work and school related issues.
(224) 808-4524 View (224) 808-4524
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Jason Singer
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Highland Park, IL 60035
Hello! I've joined Affiliates In Counseling so I can continue my work using emotionally focused strategies to work with adults & teens who suffer from anxiety, depression and stress, as well as those experiencing grief, life changes, job loss and isolation, in both the northern suburbs and in Chicago. As a couples & family counselor, I've had great success utilizing these same emotional tools to strengthen and enhance more effective and long-term communication skills, helping to build more fulfilling relationships. Finally, I had the honor working directly in both the post-deployment veteran and LGBTQ communities during my training.
Hello! I've joined Affiliates In Counseling so I can continue my work using emotionally focused strategies to work with adults & teens who suffer from anxiety, depression and stress, as well as those experiencing grief, life changes, job loss and isolation, in both the northern suburbs and in Chicago. As a couples & family counselor, I've had great success utilizing these same emotional tools to strengthen and enhance more effective and long-term communication skills, helping to build more fulfilling relationships. Finally, I had the honor working directly in both the post-deployment veteran and LGBTQ communities during my training.
(224) 365-8743 View (224) 365-8743
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Dylan Saks
Counselor, LCPC, CRC
Verified Verified
Northbrook, IL 60062  (Online Only)
As a couples therapist, I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), one of the only evidence based couple's interventions.
When life feels like a knotted ball of yarn, sometimes we need help finding a thread to grab. As a therapist, I support my clients in finding that thread. I work with clients and couples who are experiencing work challenges, disability, life transitions, OCD, anxiety and depression. Couples often will come to me when they are feeling afraid and lonely in their relationships, like they are walking on eggshells. As your couples’ therapist I will work in supporting you to share with each other vulnerably and fully.
As a couples therapist, I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), one of the only evidence based couple's interventions.
When life feels like a knotted ball of yarn, sometimes we need help finding a thread to grab. As a therapist, I support my clients in finding that thread. I work with clients and couples who are experiencing work challenges, disability, life transitions, OCD, anxiety and depression. Couples often will come to me when they are feeling afraid and lonely in their relationships, like they are walking on eggshells. As your couples’ therapist I will work in supporting you to share with each other vulnerably and fully.
(312) 313-6557 View (312) 313-6557
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The Family Institute at Northwestern University
Psychologist
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Deerfield, IL 60015
Through research, education and clinical services, The Family Institute at Northwestern University is one of the nation's leading relationship-based behavioral health organizations committed to strengthening and healing the whole family system by bringing together the right partners to support children, adults, couples and families across the lifespan. As researchers, educators and therapists, we work with our clients and PARTNER TO SEE CHANGE. By weaving together 175 therapists and therapists-in-training, we create a high quality, collaborative system of behavioral health care. One that gets results.
Through research, education and clinical services, The Family Institute at Northwestern University is one of the nation's leading relationship-based behavioral health organizations committed to strengthening and healing the whole family system by bringing together the right partners to support children, adults, couples and families across the lifespan. As researchers, educators and therapists, we work with our clients and PARTNER TO SEE CHANGE. By weaving together 175 therapists and therapists-in-training, we create a high quality, collaborative system of behavioral health care. One that gets results.
(847) 733-4300 x263 View (847) 733-4300 x263
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Rebecca Jacobson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deerfield, IL 60015
I specialize in working with women experiencing pregnancy loss, infertility and challenges during the perinatal period and parenting challenges. I also specialize in working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety, depression related to interpersonal relationship conflict and life transitions such as moving to a new city, starting a family, becoming a new student or starting a new job.
I specialize in working with women experiencing pregnancy loss, infertility and challenges during the perinatal period and parenting challenges. I also specialize in working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety, depression related to interpersonal relationship conflict and life transitions such as moving to a new city, starting a family, becoming a new student or starting a new job.
(773) 661-4520 View (773) 661-4520
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Nicholas Larkin
Counselor, LCPC, RN, CRADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deerfield, IL 60015
As a Licensed Therapist & Registered Nurse my approach is client centered, compassionate, and holistic. You can expect a warm, comforting space. We will work together to address your needs & goals. I offer you my sincere, empathetic, genuine and experienced care.
As a Licensed Therapist & Registered Nurse my approach is client centered, compassionate, and holistic. You can expect a warm, comforting space. We will work together to address your needs & goals. I offer you my sincere, empathetic, genuine and experienced care.
(224) 257-3822 View (224) 257-3822
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Franny Kaulentis
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC
Verified Verified
Highland Park, IL 60035
I know starting this process can be daunting and takes courage. I am here to support you and take things one step at a time. Trust, sensitivity, empowerment, and empathy are at the core of my practice so that each client may feel completely safe in their most challenging and vulnerable moments. I believe everyone has the ability to change and grow. I help clients learn healthy coping skills, restructure negative thinking, build confidence within themselves and their relationships, and feel empowered and balanced in their lives.
I know starting this process can be daunting and takes courage. I am here to support you and take things one step at a time. Trust, sensitivity, empowerment, and empathy are at the core of my practice so that each client may feel completely safe in their most challenging and vulnerable moments. I believe everyone has the ability to change and grow. I help clients learn healthy coping skills, restructure negative thinking, build confidence within themselves and their relationships, and feel empowered and balanced in their lives.
(847) 499-1523 View (847) 499-1523
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Lori Tolan
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deerfield, IL 60015
We all have times in our lives when we are needing support. Whether we are coping with struggles in relationships, work, parenting, health or other stressors, we can all benefit from a different perspective and a strengthened ability to understand ourselves. I am passionate about empowering and collaborating with clients on their journey to gain insight, better manage various stressors in their lives, and be grounded in their authentic selves. I work primarily with adolescents, young adults, and adults in addition to couples.
We all have times in our lives when we are needing support. Whether we are coping with struggles in relationships, work, parenting, health or other stressors, we can all benefit from a different perspective and a strengthened ability to understand ourselves. I am passionate about empowering and collaborating with clients on their journey to gain insight, better manage various stressors in their lives, and be grounded in their authentic selves. I work primarily with adolescents, young adults, and adults in addition to couples.
(224) 458-2390 View (224) 458-2390

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.