Relationship Issues Therapists in Alsip, IL

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Free Minded Counseling PLLC
Counselor, PhD, EdD, LCSW, MA, CADC
Verified Verified
Alsip, IL 60658
Perhaps you're down or anxious - maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Whatever your needs may be, we are here to offer support. Therapy is a process of growth and self-discovery, and in our sessions, we promote behavioral transformation by encouraging a positive outlook and the adoption of new attitudes and reactions.
Perhaps you're down or anxious - maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Whatever your needs may be, we are here to offer support. Therapy is a process of growth and self-discovery, and in our sessions, we promote behavioral transformation by encouraging a positive outlook and the adoption of new attitudes and reactions.
(312) 945-0724 View (312) 945-0724
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Get Your Mind Right Therapy Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alsip, IL 60803  (Online Only)
I AM a Professional Questioner, Listener, and Change Agent! Curator of Get Your Mind Right Therapy Services LLC., we work with Pastors/Wives, Ministers, Couples, and Adult Individuals. Our motto: ‘A Healed Mind Leads to a Healed Life’. We expose unhealthy thoughts, behaviors, and patterns helping you create healthy ones, so you can live a fulfilling and productive life! We believe in healing both Naturally and Spiritually! We provide a Confidential and Space of Safety for you to process. We work heavily with the Church Community and understand some of the misconceptions and thoughts people have been taught regarding God and therapy!
I AM a Professional Questioner, Listener, and Change Agent! Curator of Get Your Mind Right Therapy Services LLC., we work with Pastors/Wives, Ministers, Couples, and Adult Individuals. Our motto: ‘A Healed Mind Leads to a Healed Life’. We expose unhealthy thoughts, behaviors, and patterns helping you create healthy ones, so you can live a fulfilling and productive life! We believe in healing both Naturally and Spiritually! We provide a Confidential and Space of Safety for you to process. We work heavily with the Church Community and understand some of the misconceptions and thoughts people have been taught regarding God and therapy!
(708) 766-8757 View (708) 766-8757
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Toyia Miller-Peters
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MEd, CRMP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alsip, IL 60803  (Online Only)
There’s no doubt that daily life situations, transitions and challenging relationships can be triggering. These triggering events and relationships can cause emotional flooding. Emotional flooding is the body’s response to being overly aroused by physical and emotional sensations which could lead to “shutdown” mode. This can look like an inability to concentrate, being mentally withdrawing, having a fight-flight-freeze reaction, intense anger, toxic stress, paralyzing anxiety, grief or depression which are impacting your quality of life and ability to maintain optimal functioning.
There’s no doubt that daily life situations, transitions and challenging relationships can be triggering. These triggering events and relationships can cause emotional flooding. Emotional flooding is the body’s response to being overly aroused by physical and emotional sensations which could lead to “shutdown” mode. This can look like an inability to concentrate, being mentally withdrawing, having a fight-flight-freeze reaction, intense anger, toxic stress, paralyzing anxiety, grief or depression which are impacting your quality of life and ability to maintain optimal functioning.
(708) 554-7433 View (708) 554-7433
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Karina Servin Jimenez
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Alsip, IL 60803  (Online Only)
Life happens and it can be difficult to navigate obstacles on our own. The good news is that we don’t have to do it alone. Therapy can be that support we need and a safe space to share and explore new possibilities. I am a Bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. I have experience working with children, adolescents and Adults. I enjoy empowering clients by assisting them in identifying and managing difficult emotions, negative thoughts/believes and unhealthy coping styles. I work collaboratively with my clients in developing a treatment plan based on their current needs and expectations for therapy.
Life happens and it can be difficult to navigate obstacles on our own. The good news is that we don’t have to do it alone. Therapy can be that support we need and a safe space to share and explore new possibilities. I am a Bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. I have experience working with children, adolescents and Adults. I enjoy empowering clients by assisting them in identifying and managing difficult emotions, negative thoughts/believes and unhealthy coping styles. I work collaboratively with my clients in developing a treatment plan based on their current needs and expectations for therapy.
(224) 291-8689 View (224) 291-8689
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Shaunita Montout
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MEd, MSW, CTMH
Verified Verified
Alsip, IL 60803
I am accepting new clients! With over 13 years of experience as a mental health professional, I am passionate about helping adolescents, women, mothers, couples, and athletes navigate life’s challenges and rediscover their sense of purpose. Using a holistic, strength-based, cognitive behavioral approach, I help align self-perception with life goals and foster self-discovery, emotional intelligence, and better relationships. I believe that together, we can restore balance and help you live with purpose.
I am accepting new clients! With over 13 years of experience as a mental health professional, I am passionate about helping adolescents, women, mothers, couples, and athletes navigate life’s challenges and rediscover their sense of purpose. Using a holistic, strength-based, cognitive behavioral approach, I help align self-perception with life goals and foster self-discovery, emotional intelligence, and better relationships. I believe that together, we can restore balance and help you live with purpose.
(773) 290-1318 View (773) 290-1318
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Nicole Rodriguez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
Alsip, IL 60803  (Online Only)
My clients have a variety of issues including Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, Emotional Disturbance, and Behavioral Issues. Clients often require psychoeducation, identifying emotions and somatic symptoms, use of a variety of coping skills, behavioral management techniques including contingency management, knowledge of social skills and opportunities to practice such skills. My goal for every client is to help them find their motivation, gain knowledge about their issues, and to be able to effectively manage their issues.
My clients have a variety of issues including Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, Emotional Disturbance, and Behavioral Issues. Clients often require psychoeducation, identifying emotions and somatic symptoms, use of a variety of coping skills, behavioral management techniques including contingency management, knowledge of social skills and opportunities to practice such skills. My goal for every client is to help them find their motivation, gain knowledge about their issues, and to be able to effectively manage their issues.
(708) 726-0520 View (708) 726-0520

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Susan Zeitner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60655
She values the therapeutic relationship and strives to build a strong connection with each of her clients.
Susan Zeitner is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 20 years of experience in a variety of mental health settings. Susan provides individual therapy and couples/family therapy for children, adolescents, and adults. She uses a relational, client-centered approach to help clients with mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, relational issues, and adjustment to life transitions. Susan has a strong foundation in trauma and attachment-informed theory to help her understand how a client's personal history influences their experiences.
She values the therapeutic relationship and strives to build a strong connection with each of her clients.
Susan Zeitner is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 20 years of experience in a variety of mental health settings. Susan provides individual therapy and couples/family therapy for children, adolescents, and adults. She uses a relational, client-centered approach to help clients with mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, relational issues, and adjustment to life transitions. Susan has a strong foundation in trauma and attachment-informed theory to help her understand how a client's personal history influences their experiences.
(872) 274-3704 View (872) 274-3704
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Paula R Coughlin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
Oak Lawn, IL 60453
My special interests include mood disorders, anxiety and relationship concerns, and my primary treatment method is solution-focused, cognitive behavioral therapy.
My therapy practice, Neil D. Shere and Associates, is composed of seven highly skilled, dedicated and compassionate therapists. Each of our therapists is highly qualified, and offers a personalized approach to mental health counseling. As the owner and director of the practice, I view the therapeutic relationship as one of collaboration and support, working together in a client centered, individual growth model of therapy.
My special interests include mood disorders, anxiety and relationship concerns, and my primary treatment method is solution-focused, cognitive behavioral therapy.
My therapy practice, Neil D. Shere and Associates, is composed of seven highly skilled, dedicated and compassionate therapists. Each of our therapists is highly qualified, and offers a personalized approach to mental health counseling. As the owner and director of the practice, I view the therapeutic relationship as one of collaboration and support, working together in a client centered, individual growth model of therapy.
(708) 761-4465 View (708) 761-4465
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Rob Gellman, MS, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60655
-Individual, Couple, & Family Therapy. Trained at the University of Rochester School of Medicine, Kansas State University's School of Family Studies, and The University of Chicago School of Medicine, Clinic Founder Rob Gellman has been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 14 years, and was a professor at Adler University from 2008-2011. He is a regularly invited speaker with local mental health agencies and national conferences. A recognized expert on families coping with chronic illness, infidelity, and the training of therapists and physicians, Rob's clinical practice is diverse, helping adults, children, couples and families on the path to wellness. ***Specializing in Anxiety Disorders, Relationship Distress, Infidelity, Sex Therapy, Young Couples, Depression, Chronic Illness, Grief and Loss, Family Conflict, and Lifecycle Transitions.
-Individual, Couple, & Family Therapy. Trained at the University of Rochester School of Medicine, Kansas State University's School of Family Studies, and The University of Chicago School of Medicine, Clinic Founder Rob Gellman has been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 14 years, and was a professor at Adler University from 2008-2011. He is a regularly invited speaker with local mental health agencies and national conferences. A recognized expert on families coping with chronic illness, infidelity, and the training of therapists and physicians, Rob's clinical practice is diverse, helping adults, children, couples and families on the path to wellness. ***Specializing in Anxiety Disorders, Relationship Distress, Infidelity, Sex Therapy, Young Couples, Depression, Chronic Illness, Grief and Loss, Family Conflict, and Lifecycle Transitions.
(872) 206-3435 View (872) 206-3435
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Andrea Espinosa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oak Lawn, IL 60453  (Online Only)
Welcome! Thank you for being here. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, distinct traumatic events/complex trauma, grief/loss, stress management, boundary setting, life transitions, relationship issues, therapy for therapists, emotional regulation skills, and identity development. One of my passions is working with women of color and first-generation child of immigrants dealing with the impacts of intersectionality, marginalization, immigration, acculturation, and generational/historical trauma. I also love working with couples helping them work on their communication, rebuild connection, and reducing negativity.
Welcome! Thank you for being here. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, distinct traumatic events/complex trauma, grief/loss, stress management, boundary setting, life transitions, relationship issues, therapy for therapists, emotional regulation skills, and identity development. One of my passions is working with women of color and first-generation child of immigrants dealing with the impacts of intersectionality, marginalization, immigration, acculturation, and generational/historical trauma. I also love working with couples helping them work on their communication, rebuild connection, and reducing negativity.
(872) 278-1831 View (872) 278-1831
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Ashley Williams
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Blue Island, IL 60406
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is essential in helping you meet your goals to create meaningful change in your life.
I received my Master’s degree from the University of Illinois – Chicago’s Jane Addams College of Social Work. I have an extensive background of working with teen women and young adults with a passion for those in need. I have a history of working with those who may struggle with anxiety or depression due to a variety of complex traumas or various life circumstances. I’m passionate about meeting people where they are, helping them create goals, figure out how to overcome obstacles, and celebrating them in their victories!
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is essential in helping you meet your goals to create meaningful change in your life.
I received my Master’s degree from the University of Illinois – Chicago’s Jane Addams College of Social Work. I have an extensive background of working with teen women and young adults with a passion for those in need. I have a history of working with those who may struggle with anxiety or depression due to a variety of complex traumas or various life circumstances. I’m passionate about meeting people where they are, helping them create goals, figure out how to overcome obstacles, and celebrating them in their victories!
(708) 249-3244 View (708) 249-3244
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Maggie Donnelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60655
My work with adults has been focused on assisting those who are experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and life changes.
I believe therapy is a collaboration between client and therapist, working together to understand and shift patterns that may not be working for you anymore. I understand the strength it takes to face challenges and the sense of vulnerability that goes along with it. I believe the relationship that develops between client and therapist fosters a comfortable space where honest dialogue can happen. My approach is straightforward, encouraging and comes with a bit of humor as a way to remind ourselves that life is supposed to be enjoyed.
My work with adults has been focused on assisting those who are experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and life changes.
I believe therapy is a collaboration between client and therapist, working together to understand and shift patterns that may not be working for you anymore. I understand the strength it takes to face challenges and the sense of vulnerability that goes along with it. I believe the relationship that develops between client and therapist fosters a comfortable space where honest dialogue can happen. My approach is straightforward, encouraging and comes with a bit of humor as a way to remind ourselves that life is supposed to be enjoyed.
(708) 274-7122 View (708) 274-7122
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Sherry Petro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oak Lawn, IL 60453
If you are looking for a non-judgmental therapist who will provide insight into your own self-awareness, then I welcome your call. I guide my clients in an environment that assists you in connecting to your inner guidance system. My intention is to support your success in all areas of your life. I am licensed and experienced in clinical social work and qualified in psychotherapy. I am certified in life coaching, Imago couples and relationship counseling. Imago couples’ therapy has proven to be one of the most successful avenues for positive results for couples. Please contact me to learn more.
If you are looking for a non-judgmental therapist who will provide insight into your own self-awareness, then I welcome your call. I guide my clients in an environment that assists you in connecting to your inner guidance system. My intention is to support your success in all areas of your life. I am licensed and experienced in clinical social work and qualified in psychotherapy. I am certified in life coaching, Imago couples and relationship counseling. Imago couples’ therapy has proven to be one of the most successful avenues for positive results for couples. Please contact me to learn more.
(616) 229-2131 View (616) 229-2131
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Fred W Gross
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Blue Island, IL 60406
I am well-trained, and an experienced, research-informed, solution-focused, multi-model therapist. I draw upon various truths, selecting what may be most helpful according to the needs of each client. I want clients to feel comfortable and informed. I will use metaphor and analogies as appropriate to bring insight and change. Specialties: therapy with trauma victims, adolescents, children, and families; couples with relationship issues; conditions such as mood disorders, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, complicated grief/loss, PTSD, stress, and life/job transition issues.
I am well-trained, and an experienced, research-informed, solution-focused, multi-model therapist. I draw upon various truths, selecting what may be most helpful according to the needs of each client. I want clients to feel comfortable and informed. I will use metaphor and analogies as appropriate to bring insight and change. Specialties: therapy with trauma victims, adolescents, children, and families; couples with relationship issues; conditions such as mood disorders, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, complicated grief/loss, PTSD, stress, and life/job transition issues.
(773) 906-4430 View (773) 906-4430
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Jennifer Lara, LCPC
Counselor, MA, LCPC, ICDVP
Verified Verified
Oak Lawn, IL 60453  (Online Only)
I have worked with youth/adults in the areas of stress, trauma, relationship and life transitions.
*Currently accepting clients via telehealth* In a world of constant transitions, it can be challenging to feel settled with change. Therapy is an outlet to discuss, explore and change aspects of our lives that are causing distress. Therapy allows a supportive, non-judgmental space to talk through feelings and engage our strengths to cope with life's changes. I provide action-oriented, supportive, feminist, and person-centered psychotherapy. I am a bi-lingual (Spanish-speaking) and bi-cultural therapist that understands cultural influences and can express feelings and thoughts in a language that my clients feel comfortable.
I have worked with youth/adults in the areas of stress, trauma, relationship and life transitions.
*Currently accepting clients via telehealth* In a world of constant transitions, it can be challenging to feel settled with change. Therapy is an outlet to discuss, explore and change aspects of our lives that are causing distress. Therapy allows a supportive, non-judgmental space to talk through feelings and engage our strengths to cope with life's changes. I provide action-oriented, supportive, feminist, and person-centered psychotherapy. I am a bi-lingual (Spanish-speaking) and bi-cultural therapist that understands cultural influences and can express feelings and thoughts in a language that my clients feel comfortable.
(773) 717-2936 View (773) 717-2936
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Lesley Widmer
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Palos Heights, IL 60463
As a Master's level clinician, I have 19 years of experience in the mental health field. I specialize in getting clients from where they are to where they want to be. I treat children, adolescents, couples and families. My areas of specialty include, but are not limited to: Depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, ADD/ADHD, relationship issues, life transition issues, impulse control disorders, anger management, chronic pain, illness and military/veteran's issues.
As a Master's level clinician, I have 19 years of experience in the mental health field. I specialize in getting clients from where they are to where they want to be. I treat children, adolescents, couples and families. My areas of specialty include, but are not limited to: Depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, ADD/ADHD, relationship issues, life transition issues, impulse control disorders, anger management, chronic pain, illness and military/veteran's issues.
(708) 675-8442 View (708) 675-8442
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Mindy Sherack Life Coach Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSN, MSW, LCSW, SAP
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60655
We can address a wide range of life issues such: depression, anxiety, Stress at work/home, relationship issues, addiction, low self-esteem or self-care, trouble with assertiveness or communication, or just wanting something more out of life? I am a Substance Abuse Professional (SAP), have divorce mediation certificate (2021) and Gottman Level 1 trained!.
I am obsessed with partnering alongside brave people who are motivated for a better life, become the architects to actually do it! We all come face to face with our personal "life stumbling stone" (a certain event, relationship, loss, difficult life situation), that we are unable to adequately cope with, using our own inner strength, resources, knowledge or willpower. Loss and adversity are a part of life, but it can be the architecture for a better, more fulfilling and joyful life, it just depends how we use it! With over 30 years working with clients, across the entire life span, let me coach you to create your best you!
We can address a wide range of life issues such: depression, anxiety, Stress at work/home, relationship issues, addiction, low self-esteem or self-care, trouble with assertiveness or communication, or just wanting something more out of life? I am a Substance Abuse Professional (SAP), have divorce mediation certificate (2021) and Gottman Level 1 trained!.
I am obsessed with partnering alongside brave people who are motivated for a better life, become the architects to actually do it! We all come face to face with our personal "life stumbling stone" (a certain event, relationship, loss, difficult life situation), that we are unable to adequately cope with, using our own inner strength, resources, knowledge or willpower. Loss and adversity are a part of life, but it can be the architecture for a better, more fulfilling and joyful life, it just depends how we use it! With over 30 years working with clients, across the entire life span, let me coach you to create your best you!
(773) 570-2542 View (773) 570-2542
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Brian Kelley
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oak Lawn, IL 60453
As a certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, I explore the dynamic relationship between thoughts, feelings and behaviors.
Are you feeling alone, stuck or that something in your life needs to change? Would you like to take control of your life, instead of it controlling you? I have worked with those struggling with depression, anxiety, bipolar, stress management, relationship conflict, divorce, LGBT issues, grief/loss and trauma and helped them take back control of their lives. By working together to identify your unique needs, the source of distress, and what's perpetuating the problem, I will help you develop the tools to navigate and overcome the obstacles preventing you from finding fulfillment and living the life you want!
As a certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, I explore the dynamic relationship between thoughts, feelings and behaviors.
Are you feeling alone, stuck or that something in your life needs to change? Would you like to take control of your life, instead of it controlling you? I have worked with those struggling with depression, anxiety, bipolar, stress management, relationship conflict, divorce, LGBT issues, grief/loss and trauma and helped them take back control of their lives. By working together to identify your unique needs, the source of distress, and what's perpetuating the problem, I will help you develop the tools to navigate and overcome the obstacles preventing you from finding fulfillment and living the life you want!
(708) 866-0150 View (708) 866-0150
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Tammie Walker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oak Lawn, IL 60453
Have you been feeling down? Managing life at times can be complex for the strongest individuals. Are you experiencing difficulties in your marriage or relationship? Are you adjusting to a new life experience? I understand these feelings and offer a non-judgmental safe environment. I specialize in: depression, anxiety, self esteem issues, coping skills , anger management/ court orders, and empowerment to help people heal inside and restore balance to your life.
Have you been feeling down? Managing life at times can be complex for the strongest individuals. Are you experiencing difficulties in your marriage or relationship? Are you adjusting to a new life experience? I understand these feelings and offer a non-judgmental safe environment. I specialize in: depression, anxiety, self esteem issues, coping skills , anger management/ court orders, and empowerment to help people heal inside and restore balance to your life.
(224) 302-6105 View (224) 302-6105
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Foundations Counseling, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oak Lawn, IL 60453  (Online Only)
Are you experiencing anxiety, stress, unexplained sadness, isolation, intrusive thoughts, relationship or marriage problems? Are you struggling with low self-esteem, low self-worth? Are you having challenges with navigating life transitions? Finding a therapist could seem difficult, but seeking help is the first step to overcoming life’s challenges. As a licensed clinical social worker, I have over 10 years of experience providing culturally sensitive and trauma informed counseling to individuals, couples, and families.
Are you experiencing anxiety, stress, unexplained sadness, isolation, intrusive thoughts, relationship or marriage problems? Are you struggling with low self-esteem, low self-worth? Are you having challenges with navigating life transitions? Finding a therapist could seem difficult, but seeking help is the first step to overcoming life’s challenges. As a licensed clinical social worker, I have over 10 years of experience providing culturally sensitive and trauma informed counseling to individuals, couples, and families.
(773) 839-4035 View (773) 839-4035

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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.