Infidelity Therapists in West Valley, Boise, ID
Tyler has successfully helped couples heal and reconnect from the damaging effects of addictions and affairs.
Are there times when you feel disconnected, alone, unimportant, and rejected - even in your closest relationships? You seek closeness but it ends in conflict? It seems the harder you try, the more disconnected you feel. Walls go up - you feel hurt and alone. You lose hope for a closer, more secure relationship. Tyler is committed to helping you end this negative cycle. By getting below the surface of behavior, he helps couples bring awareness to the deep, underlying emotional needs within themselves. A new bond is formed, where each partner is able to feel safe, supported, desired, and loved.
Tyler has successfully helped couples heal and reconnect from the damaging effects of addictions and affairs.
Are there times when you feel disconnected, alone, unimportant, and rejected - even in your closest relationships? You seek closeness but it ends in conflict? It seems the harder you try, the more disconnected you feel. Walls go up - you feel hurt and alone. You lose hope for a closer, more secure relationship. Tyler is committed to helping you end this negative cycle. By getting below the surface of behavior, he helps couples bring awareness to the deep, underlying emotional needs within themselves. A new bond is formed, where each partner is able to feel safe, supported, desired, and loved.
Are you at a turning point, looking to reinvent yourself and clean up the mess you have created? Have you or your loved one been out of control with regards to destructive behaviors (pornography, excessive internet use, affairs etc.) or are you simply no longer satisfied with the direction your life is headed. I offer effective psychotherapy that gets to the heart of the matter. I specialize in working with men who are looking for a new beginning. I also work with women impacted negatively by men they care about. I have been helping clients for over twenty years and draw upon both science and the deepest Christian tradition.
Are you at a turning point, looking to reinvent yourself and clean up the mess you have created? Have you or your loved one been out of control with regards to destructive behaviors (pornography, excessive internet use, affairs etc.) or are you simply no longer satisfied with the direction your life is headed. I offer effective psychotherapy that gets to the heart of the matter. I specialize in working with men who are looking for a new beginning. I also work with women impacted negatively by men they care about. I have been helping clients for over twenty years and draw upon both science and the deepest Christian tradition.
My expertise and training has lead me to work effectively with clients through the normal transitions of life as well as issues as varied as depression, anxiety, sexual abuse, chronic illness, bereavement, parent/child problems, acting out teens, marital conflict, sexual addiction, infidelity, and improving intimacy and communication in couple relationships.
I love the counseling that I do. For the last fifteen years I have been a witness to the courage, tenacity, and resiliency of my clients as they strive to improve their personal lives and relationships in their families. I am convinced that much of our life is determined by the lens that we choose to look through. I also believe counselors are most successful when they also have a healthy lifestyle and live the principles that they teach to their clients. I believe that when you meet me that you will find me to be grounded, healthy, and authentic.
My expertise and training has lead me to work effectively with clients through the normal transitions of life as well as issues as varied as depression, anxiety, sexual abuse, chronic illness, bereavement, parent/child problems, acting out teens, marital conflict, sexual addiction, infidelity, and improving intimacy and communication in couple relationships.
I love the counseling that I do. For the last fifteen years I have been a witness to the courage, tenacity, and resiliency of my clients as they strive to improve their personal lives and relationships in their families. I am convinced that much of our life is determined by the lens that we choose to look through. I also believe counselors are most successful when they also have a healthy lifestyle and live the principles that they teach to their clients. I believe that when you meet me that you will find me to be grounded, healthy, and authentic.
I use a person centered approach. I believe you are the expert of your own experience. You have the power and strength to move to a more empowering mindset. Sometime we are just not sure how. My role is to support your efforts with compassion, encouragement, insight and resources.
I use a person centered approach. I believe you are the expert of your own experience. You have the power and strength to move to a more empowering mindset. Sometime we are just not sure how. My role is to support your efforts with compassion, encouragement, insight and resources.
Tracy Santomarco
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, #118841
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83720 (Online Only)
Have you realized you're breaking free from the grip of a narcissistic relationship and ready to start healing? Whether it was with a romantic partner, family member, boss, or friend, the wounds left behind can run deep. Let's work together to rebuild your sense of self so you can emerge feeling stronger and more connected to who you are meant to be. In our sessions, you'll find a supportive and interactive space where open and honest communication thrive. Laughter and tears are also welcomed without judgment as humor can offer perspective alongside compassion and healing.
Have you realized you're breaking free from the grip of a narcissistic relationship and ready to start healing? Whether it was with a romantic partner, family member, boss, or friend, the wounds left behind can run deep. Let's work together to rebuild your sense of self so you can emerge feeling stronger and more connected to who you are meant to be. In our sessions, you'll find a supportive and interactive space where open and honest communication thrive. Laughter and tears are also welcomed without judgment as humor can offer perspective alongside compassion and healing.
I am so blessed! Over 20 years of helping people heal, grow and experience a higher quality of life has been incredibly rewarding for me. I am passionate about being a counselor, coach and teammate, I regularly see quick and noticeable improvement in the vast majority of the people that I work with. My style is to be very interactive and connected in the counseling process. I will listen to you, support you, and seek to give clarity and guidance where you have been confused. This may mean helping you heal from wounds of the past, dealing with current stressors, or helping couples communicate with more understanding and unity.
I am so blessed! Over 20 years of helping people heal, grow and experience a higher quality of life has been incredibly rewarding for me. I am passionate about being a counselor, coach and teammate, I regularly see quick and noticeable improvement in the vast majority of the people that I work with. My style is to be very interactive and connected in the counseling process. I will listen to you, support you, and seek to give clarity and guidance where you have been confused. This may mean helping you heal from wounds of the past, dealing with current stressors, or helping couples communicate with more understanding and unity.
Amy Elisa Hedrick
Counselor, MEd, LCPC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83704
I serve individuals, couples and families with much expertise and experience with various issues and mental health disorders.It is an honor to accompany client's on their personal journey to developing a deeper understanding of their personal challenges, strengths and inner wisdom as well as their personal story. I place an emphasis on developing insight, mindfulness, and empathy and acceptance for self and others. I value the opportunity to assist others in reaching their goals and creating the life they have envisioned while helping to connect individuals with their authentic and true selves.
I serve individuals, couples and families with much expertise and experience with various issues and mental health disorders.It is an honor to accompany client's on their personal journey to developing a deeper understanding of their personal challenges, strengths and inner wisdom as well as their personal story. I place an emphasis on developing insight, mindfulness, and empathy and acceptance for self and others. I value the opportunity to assist others in reaching their goals and creating the life they have envisioned while helping to connect individuals with their authentic and true selves.
Cornerstone Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT-S, LCPC-S, NCC, CFTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83704
Accepting New Clients! FREE therapy with an intern (starts FA24), call for details. Life is full of challenges, and sometimes these can lead to stress and feelings of hopelessness that affect our daily lives and our relationships. We are here to provide a safe, caring, and compassionate environment that encourages you to find your strengths and create motivation to facilitate change that leads to fulfillment in your life and in the relationships you have. We emphasize self-development, growth, and accountability for one's own emotions and behaviors as well as ways to improve the communication you have with others in your life.
Accepting New Clients! FREE therapy with an intern (starts FA24), call for details. Life is full of challenges, and sometimes these can lead to stress and feelings of hopelessness that affect our daily lives and our relationships. We are here to provide a safe, caring, and compassionate environment that encourages you to find your strengths and create motivation to facilitate change that leads to fulfillment in your life and in the relationships you have. We emphasize self-development, growth, and accountability for one's own emotions and behaviors as well as ways to improve the communication you have with others in your life.
I am an EMDR, APSATS, and EFT trained, Counseling Intern working toward completing requirements for a master's degree in Counseling from Hope International University. I work under the supervision of Stephanie Baker at Restoration Counseling. There are three things that I would like you to know today. You are not alone. You are not broken. You are not out of control. This means that there are others out there who have been where you are. There is nothing fundamentally or irreparably wrong with you. You have agency in this world both internally and externally. Change is possible. I'm here to help.
I am an EMDR, APSATS, and EFT trained, Counseling Intern working toward completing requirements for a master's degree in Counseling from Hope International University. I work under the supervision of Stephanie Baker at Restoration Counseling. There are three things that I would like you to know today. You are not alone. You are not broken. You are not out of control. This means that there are others out there who have been where you are. There is nothing fundamentally or irreparably wrong with you. You have agency in this world both internally and externally. Change is possible. I'm here to help.
Jenna Naifeh
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
West Valley, Boise, ID 83713
Life can be beautiful, but it can also be difficult, stressful, and overwhelming. It can feel easy to lose sight of the person you want to be and reaching out for help when you are struggling is an act of courage. I find counseling an invitation to listen and provide support to what is going on in your heart, your mind, and your world. Together, we can reconnect you with what matters most in your life and help you find direction, meaning, and insight. Whatever you are experiencing or wherever you are in your life, we will work together towards healing. GO TEAM!
Life can be beautiful, but it can also be difficult, stressful, and overwhelming. It can feel easy to lose sight of the person you want to be and reaching out for help when you are struggling is an act of courage. I find counseling an invitation to listen and provide support to what is going on in your heart, your mind, and your world. Together, we can reconnect you with what matters most in your life and help you find direction, meaning, and insight. Whatever you are experiencing or wherever you are in your life, we will work together towards healing. GO TEAM!
Jesse Mathis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
West Valley, Boise, ID 83704 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) as well as a nationally certified counselor (NCC) in the state of Idaho. I am passionate about holistically partnering with clients on their journey towards growth and healing in a way that respects the whole person. My style is warm and genuine as I work with individuals to process through past traumas, navigate current challenges, identify and set healthy boundaries, replace negative belief systems, heal ostracized parts of themselves, and find new ways to better manage their mental health.
Welcome! I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) as well as a nationally certified counselor (NCC) in the state of Idaho. I am passionate about holistically partnering with clients on their journey towards growth and healing in a way that respects the whole person. My style is warm and genuine as I work with individuals to process through past traumas, navigate current challenges, identify and set healthy boundaries, replace negative belief systems, heal ostracized parts of themselves, and find new ways to better manage their mental health.
15 Second Videos
Matthew D Geske
Daybreak Counseling
Becky Lynn Spotten
David Chiddix
Dylan Haas
Shane Thomason
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
West Valley, Boise, ID 83713
Waitlist for new clients
I utilize a straight-forward and honest approach to therapy and I am direct in identifying real-life solutions to the presenting issues. I am an experienced counselor and I am often able to connect with and form positive relationships with those who are resistant to counseling or skeptical of the counseling process. I have found humor to be quite productive in treatment and will implement it often. I have experience in treating issues such as (but not limited to): depression, anxiety, PTSD/trauma, ADHD, Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder, anger issues, parenting concerns, and marriage/couples issues.
I utilize a straight-forward and honest approach to therapy and I am direct in identifying real-life solutions to the presenting issues. I am an experienced counselor and I am often able to connect with and form positive relationships with those who are resistant to counseling or skeptical of the counseling process. I have found humor to be quite productive in treatment and will implement it often. I have experience in treating issues such as (but not limited to): depression, anxiety, PTSD/trauma, ADHD, Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder, anger issues, parenting concerns, and marriage/couples issues.
Debbie Samije Abreu
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MS, RMFT-I
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83713
Debbie Abreu is a highly qualified professional with a Master’s degree in Marriage & Family Therapy, a Sixth Year Degree in School Administration, a Master’s degree in Special Education, and a Bachelor's degree in Elementary Education. Debbie is passionate about leveraging a strengths-based, solution-focused approach to drive positive outcomes for her clients. She has a proven track record of success in working collaboratively with individuals from diverse cultural, racial, and religious backgrounds. Her exceptional skills in this area enable her to effectively connect with clients, build rapport, and facilitate meaningful results.
Debbie Abreu is a highly qualified professional with a Master’s degree in Marriage & Family Therapy, a Sixth Year Degree in School Administration, a Master’s degree in Special Education, and a Bachelor's degree in Elementary Education. Debbie is passionate about leveraging a strengths-based, solution-focused approach to drive positive outcomes for her clients. She has a proven track record of success in working collaboratively with individuals from diverse cultural, racial, and religious backgrounds. Her exceptional skills in this area enable her to effectively connect with clients, build rapport, and facilitate meaningful results.
Tina Wilkerson, LCSW Kind Life Counseling, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
West Valley, Boise, ID 83713
If you have made it to my profile, you are struggling with emotional issues in your life and need support. The most important part of a therapeutic alliance is to feel safe and supported in a non-judgmental space to explore the issues that are causing you distress in your life. Rooted in empathy and active listening, I will assist you in navigating barriers and implement coping strategies leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.
If you have made it to my profile, you are struggling with emotional issues in your life and need support. The most important part of a therapeutic alliance is to feel safe and supported in a non-judgmental space to explore the issues that are causing you distress in your life. Rooted in empathy and active listening, I will assist you in navigating barriers and implement coping strategies leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Stacy Pineda
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LAMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83713
Waitlist for new clients
As a marriage and family therapist specializing in working with couples and trauma, I am passionate about helping individuals heal and thrive within their most intimate relationships. Working with couples and trauma requires sensitivity, patience, and a deep respect for the unique experiences of each individual. Guided by empathy and a deep understanding of the complexities of trauma, I am dedicated to guiding couples through their healing journey and empowering them to rebuild their lives together. My goal is to facilitate transformative change within couples' lives by fostering healthier relationships and fulfilling futures.
As a marriage and family therapist specializing in working with couples and trauma, I am passionate about helping individuals heal and thrive within their most intimate relationships. Working with couples and trauma requires sensitivity, patience, and a deep respect for the unique experiences of each individual. Guided by empathy and a deep understanding of the complexities of trauma, I am dedicated to guiding couples through their healing journey and empowering them to rebuild their lives together. My goal is to facilitate transformative change within couples' lives by fostering healthier relationships and fulfilling futures.
Becky Lynn Spotten
Counselor, CMHC, LPC, NCC, EFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83704
I primarily work with Women and Couples, especially those with limited time or emotional resources to meet the demands of fast-paced life/career, manage chronic illness, or build deeper connections with loved ones. I can help when you are overwhelmed with life or in a challenging relationship. I can help you find inner peace and confidence despite intense emotions, anxiety, or discouragement...Do you find yourself masking feelings and symptoms of worthlessness by working harder or expecting that more effort will finally help you feel good enough? Do you feel alone/unimportant even when you have friends/family?
I primarily work with Women and Couples, especially those with limited time or emotional resources to meet the demands of fast-paced life/career, manage chronic illness, or build deeper connections with loved ones. I can help when you are overwhelmed with life or in a challenging relationship. I can help you find inner peace and confidence despite intense emotions, anxiety, or discouragement...Do you find yourself masking feelings and symptoms of worthlessness by working harder or expecting that more effort will finally help you feel good enough? Do you feel alone/unimportant even when you have friends/family?
Rolling Hills Counseling & Mediation Services PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CPM
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83713
Courtney Lossmann is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Professional Mediator. She offers counseling and mediation services to individuals in Idaho, age 18 and above. Courtney is trained in Level 1 and 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy and has experience working with individuals and couples on blended family issues. She believes that everyone has an innate need to belong, which is achieved through their relationships with others. Courtney is passionate about promoting healthy relationships in all domains of life. She considers healthy relationships to be the foundation of wholeness and gives meaning to our existence
Courtney Lossmann is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Professional Mediator. She offers counseling and mediation services to individuals in Idaho, age 18 and above. Courtney is trained in Level 1 and 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy and has experience working with individuals and couples on blended family issues. She believes that everyone has an innate need to belong, which is achieved through their relationships with others. Courtney is passionate about promoting healthy relationships in all domains of life. She considers healthy relationships to be the foundation of wholeness and gives meaning to our existence
You’re lying in bed next to your partner, but it feels like there’s an unbridgeable gap between you. Lately, it’s as though you’re just roommates. You tolerate each other and have built a functional life together, but something integral is missing. There’s no passion anymore, and the romance has all but disappeared. When you try to discuss these issues, it always seems to devolve into a screaming match. Neither of you is having your needs met. You’ve both become so locked into your family roles that there appears to be no way out. You’re not ready to give up, but you don’t know how much longer you can go on like this. You need help.
You’re lying in bed next to your partner, but it feels like there’s an unbridgeable gap between you. Lately, it’s as though you’re just roommates. You tolerate each other and have built a functional life together, but something integral is missing. There’s no passion anymore, and the romance has all but disappeared. When you try to discuss these issues, it always seems to devolve into a screaming match. Neither of you is having your needs met. You’ve both become so locked into your family roles that there appears to be no way out. You’re not ready to give up, but you don’t know how much longer you can go on like this. You need help.
Currently accepting new clients. I love helping people heal and align with their better self... their "real self" that has been hidden away. I do this through connection, healing, and seeing you as being whole through holistic, modern, and traditional approaches. I come from the Rosebud Lakota people in South Dakota and have lived here in Boise since 1993. Drawing upon my traditional insight and background that is centered on human balance, harmony, and inner peace by way of connecting the circle of past, present, and future. It's all connected... we are connected!
Currently accepting new clients. I love helping people heal and align with their better self... their "real self" that has been hidden away. I do this through connection, healing, and seeing you as being whole through holistic, modern, and traditional approaches. I come from the Rosebud Lakota people in South Dakota and have lived here in Boise since 1993. Drawing upon my traditional insight and background that is centered on human balance, harmony, and inner peace by way of connecting the circle of past, present, and future. It's all connected... we are connected!
Joshua R Grade
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, Gottman, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
West Valley, Boise, ID 83704
My clinical specialties include Trauma, Couples and Marital Counseling, Parenting Issues, and a variety of Addiction. Primarily, my areas of expertise are Problematic Sexual Behaviors, Autism, and PTSD.
My clinical specialties include Trauma, Couples and Marital Counseling, Parenting Issues, and a variety of Addiction. Primarily, my areas of expertise are Problematic Sexual Behaviors, Autism, and PTSD.
See more therapy options for West Valley, Boise
Nearby Infidelity Therapists Searches for West Valley, Boise
- Central Bench
- Collister
- Depot Bench
- Downtown
- East End
- Franklin Randolph
- Hillcrest
- North End
- Southeast Boise
- Southwest Ada
- Veterans Park
- West Bench
Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.