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Aileen Esmeralda
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Kailua, HI 96734
My 15 years of experience in the mental health field include employee assistance program counseling, couples and marriage counseling, group facilitator for domestic violence and abuse, life skills specialist and residential counselor for high risk adolescents, and counseling military members and their family.
Let’s find your inner peace and balance together. I’m here to support you as we work through challenges that you are facing and identify stressors from your daily life. We’ll rediscover your strengths and guide you through your healing process in a collaborative and holistic approach.
My 15 years of experience in the mental health field include employee assistance program counseling, couples and marriage counseling, group facilitator for domestic violence and abuse, life skills specialist and residential counselor for high risk adolescents, and counseling military members and their family.
Let’s find your inner peace and balance together. I’m here to support you as we work through challenges that you are facing and identify stressors from your daily life. We’ll rediscover your strengths and guide you through your healing process in a collaborative and holistic approach.
(808) 204-4675 View (808) 204-4675
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Kristen Alise Mowrey
Counselor, MSCP, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kailua, HI 96734  (Online Only)
Are you looking to make changes in your life but don't know where to start? Have you recently experienced a change in your life and are struggling to pick up the pieces? Do you feel stuck repeating the same patterns again and again?
Are you looking to make changes in your life but don't know where to start? Have you recently experienced a change in your life and are struggling to pick up the pieces? Do you feel stuck repeating the same patterns again and again?
(808) 784-7929 View (808) 784-7929

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Teresa Lathrop
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96816
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
(808) 495-0192 View (808) 495-0192
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Alfred A. Sison
Psychologist, PsyD, MFT
Verified Verified
Kaneohe, HI 96744  (Online Only)
Populations I have had experience over the last 20+ years; Individuals - Adults, Adolescents, Couples - Marital/Pre Marital, Family Therapy, EFT, Serious Mental Illness, Sexual Abuse, Domestic Violence, School Based Behavioral Health, Health Psychology, Trauma, US Military Active Duty/Veterans/Dependents, and the Diverse/Marginalized populations of Hawaii.
With over 19+ years of experience in Hawaii Behavioral/Mental Health, I provide psychotherapy and stress mgmt coaching as a Clinical Psychologist with a subspecialty in Marriage and Family Therapy. My professional goals are to help individuals, couples, or a family, find resolve, contentment, and meaningfulness. Through evidenced based practices, I intend to provide a non-judgmental, neutral, and safe, clinical psychotherapy environment/relationship. We may have to develop a new direction and purpose or simply clarify what is. I am a therapist with sensitivity, compassion, and an awareness of cultural diversity issues.
Populations I have had experience over the last 20+ years; Individuals - Adults, Adolescents, Couples - Marital/Pre Marital, Family Therapy, EFT, Serious Mental Illness, Sexual Abuse, Domestic Violence, School Based Behavioral Health, Health Psychology, Trauma, US Military Active Duty/Veterans/Dependents, and the Diverse/Marginalized populations of Hawaii.
With over 19+ years of experience in Hawaii Behavioral/Mental Health, I provide psychotherapy and stress mgmt coaching as a Clinical Psychologist with a subspecialty in Marriage and Family Therapy. My professional goals are to help individuals, couples, or a family, find resolve, contentment, and meaningfulness. Through evidenced based practices, I intend to provide a non-judgmental, neutral, and safe, clinical psychotherapy environment/relationship. We may have to develop a new direction and purpose or simply clarify what is. I am a therapist with sensitivity, compassion, and an awareness of cultural diversity issues.
(808) 393-0320 View (808) 393-0320
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Heavenly Counsel
MA, LMHC, LPC, IMFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96817
Do you find yourself burdened with repetitive thoughts of “Why can’t I escape my past?” or you can’t seem to escape the guilt or shame associated with a past traumatic event? Do you find it nearly impossible to find peace? These very things rob us daily from experiencing joy, confidence, happiness, peace, and healthy relationships. Relationships are my passion, especially those concerning individuals suffering from issues related to communication, addiction, sexual abuse, loss of identity, intimacy, marriage/divorce, depression, and broken trust. Each individual, in my opinion, is unique and my approach is tailored case specific.
Do you find yourself burdened with repetitive thoughts of “Why can’t I escape my past?” or you can’t seem to escape the guilt or shame associated with a past traumatic event? Do you find it nearly impossible to find peace? These very things rob us daily from experiencing joy, confidence, happiness, peace, and healthy relationships. Relationships are my passion, especially those concerning individuals suffering from issues related to communication, addiction, sexual abuse, loss of identity, intimacy, marriage/divorce, depression, and broken trust. Each individual, in my opinion, is unique and my approach is tailored case specific.
(808) 698-7862 View (808) 698-7862
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National Center for Psychological Services, Inc
Psychologist, PhD, MSCP, PsyD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96814
Are you struggling with issues related to depression, trauma, grief, divorce, addiction, anxiety, or major life changes? There comes a time when help is needed from a licensed professional to cope with many of life’s challenges. We are licensed Psychologists serving populations nationwide. We are here to support you on your journey toward healing and self-discovery.
Are you struggling with issues related to depression, trauma, grief, divorce, addiction, anxiety, or major life changes? There comes a time when help is needed from a licensed professional to cope with many of life’s challenges. We are licensed Psychologists serving populations nationwide. We are here to support you on your journey toward healing and self-discovery.
(808) 824-4960 View (808) 824-4960
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Marisa Fialho
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CSAC, LLC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821  (Online Only)
Looking for a therapist is no easy task yet here you are, taking an incredibly courageous step towards self-improvement. Whether you are thinking about therapy because you or your relationship feels stuck, hopeless, or you feel that an outsider's unbiased perspective could help, finding the right therapist is crucial. I would be honored in starting this very rewarding and life changing journey with you.
Looking for a therapist is no easy task yet here you are, taking an incredibly courageous step towards self-improvement. Whether you are thinking about therapy because you or your relationship feels stuck, hopeless, or you feel that an outsider's unbiased perspective could help, finding the right therapist is crucial. I would be honored in starting this very rewarding and life changing journey with you.
(808) 201-3079 View (808) 201-3079
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Aspire Psychological Services, LLC
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, CSOTP, CCTP, CBT
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813  (Online Only)
Aspire Psychological Services offers online video or phone sessions with clients via Simple Practice, Zoom or other Telehealth services in a professional, clinical approach to provide therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families. We are experienced in working with culturally diverse populations from various ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds. We assist individuals who need to complete and fulfill legal requirements of psychological therapy. Certified in CBT, treatment of trauma and sexual abuse (victims and offenders) Aspire provides a safe and nonjudgmental environment for individuals to openly process life issues.
Aspire Psychological Services offers online video or phone sessions with clients via Simple Practice, Zoom or other Telehealth services in a professional, clinical approach to provide therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families. We are experienced in working with culturally diverse populations from various ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds. We assist individuals who need to complete and fulfill legal requirements of psychological therapy. Certified in CBT, treatment of trauma and sexual abuse (victims and offenders) Aspire provides a safe and nonjudgmental environment for individuals to openly process life issues.
(808) 427-3339 View (808) 427-3339
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Pamela K. Luis, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813
I am also privileged to work with individuals and families on issues such as PTSD and trauma, physical and emotional abuse, anger, effective communication, self discovery, blended families, pre marital counseling, and separation/divorce.
I am currently accepting Graduate Students for supervision. Are you struggling with past or current military, childhood or other types of trauma? Are you dealing with overwhelming anxiety or depression? Are you in conflict with family members? These are my specialties and I would be honored to guide you through the healing process. I focus on unique individual strengths and positive attributes. I am here to guide you on that journey of rediscovery in yourself and with your loved ones.
I am also privileged to work with individuals and families on issues such as PTSD and trauma, physical and emotional abuse, anger, effective communication, self discovery, blended families, pre marital counseling, and separation/divorce.
I am currently accepting Graduate Students for supervision. Are you struggling with past or current military, childhood or other types of trauma? Are you dealing with overwhelming anxiety or depression? Are you in conflict with family members? These are my specialties and I would be honored to guide you through the healing process. I focus on unique individual strengths and positive attributes. I am here to guide you on that journey of rediscovery in yourself and with your loved ones.
(808) 518-3906 View (808) 518-3906

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Jina Uyeda
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96814  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am wholistic, systems based, Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. I am fluent in Korean. I provide Substance Abuse Assessments and early intervention education. I work with families, couples, individuals and children. I have experience working with trauma, depression, dual diagnosis, children with autism, ADHD, and ADD.I have training in play therapy, EMDR, Gottman methods and mindfulness based treatment modalities. I have also worked as a domestic violence advocate for the Navy and worked with military families.
I am wholistic, systems based, Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. I am fluent in Korean. I provide Substance Abuse Assessments and early intervention education. I work with families, couples, individuals and children. I have experience working with trauma, depression, dual diagnosis, children with autism, ADHD, and ADD.I have training in play therapy, EMDR, Gottman methods and mindfulness based treatment modalities. I have also worked as a domestic violence advocate for the Navy and worked with military families.
(808) 425-9811 View (808) 425-9811
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Christopher M Slavens
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pearl City, HI 96782
As a combat Veteran I bring a unique perspective to dealing with trauma, grief, transition, marital discord and the power of using your inner strength to overcome. I believe that we all possess the ability to walk through the challenges of life and become better, stronger and capable of living our best lives. The past is gone and the future is not promised, our power lies in the precious present.
As a combat Veteran I bring a unique perspective to dealing with trauma, grief, transition, marital discord and the power of using your inner strength to overcome. I believe that we all possess the ability to walk through the challenges of life and become better, stronger and capable of living our best lives. The past is gone and the future is not promised, our power lies in the precious present.
(808) 797-2713 View (808) 797-2713
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"Flying With Eagles", LLC
Psychologist, PhD, ABFamP, CSAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96813
The other areas of specialization have been in pre- marital, relationship, marital, divorce counseling and Family counseling.
Welcome to my private practice. I will first provide you with some background information about me so that you can become familiar with me. I had the honor of serving on active duty as an Officer and Clinical Psychologist for the Army, the Navy and as a civilian Clinical Psychologist for the Department of Defense.
The other areas of specialization have been in pre- marital, relationship, marital, divorce counseling and Family counseling.
Welcome to my private practice. I will first provide you with some background information about me so that you can become familiar with me. I had the honor of serving on active duty as an Officer and Clinical Psychologist for the Army, the Navy and as a civilian Clinical Psychologist for the Department of Defense.
(808) 207-8409 View (808) 207-8409
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Erin McSherry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
Pearl City, HI 96782  (Online Only)
I have been in private practice for eight years. I am dedicated to providing all of my clients with compassionate and empathetic support and a non-judgemental space, always. I recognize that each family history, structure and dynamic is unique and so should be their therapeutic approach. While I believe that YOU are the only expert in your life, I can help guide you to solutions by offering a fresh perspective consisting of ideas and suggestions based on my experience. I strive to consistently help clients process, heal and understand how the trauma they have experienced in their life may inform their current challenges.
I have been in private practice for eight years. I am dedicated to providing all of my clients with compassionate and empathetic support and a non-judgemental space, always. I recognize that each family history, structure and dynamic is unique and so should be their therapeutic approach. While I believe that YOU are the only expert in your life, I can help guide you to solutions by offering a fresh perspective consisting of ideas and suggestions based on my experience. I strive to consistently help clients process, heal and understand how the trauma they have experienced in their life may inform their current challenges.
(321) 325-4220 View (321) 325-4220
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Jennifer O Cornwell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CSAC, SAP
Verified Verified
Aiea, HI 96701
Aloha, my name is Jennifer Cornwell , MFT, CSAC, SAP. As a young girl living in a then rural Island of Hawaii, I loved to wonder, dream, explore, and question life! As you can imagine these traits sometimes put me on wild adventures but because of them I believe they have shaped my counseling style. With that same curiosity, I have come to believe that everyone has a special story unique to their own and as a therapist I am here to help clients understand, and navigate their personal story. Like every adventure in life there are challenges and that is where a trained ear can help make a world of difference.
Aloha, my name is Jennifer Cornwell , MFT, CSAC, SAP. As a young girl living in a then rural Island of Hawaii, I loved to wonder, dream, explore, and question life! As you can imagine these traits sometimes put me on wild adventures but because of them I believe they have shaped my counseling style. With that same curiosity, I have come to believe that everyone has a special story unique to their own and as a therapist I am here to help clients understand, and navigate their personal story. Like every adventure in life there are challenges and that is where a trained ear can help make a world of difference.
(808) 353-4489 View (808) 353-4489
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DarLene Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCMHC, CSAC, MAC
Verified Verified
Aiea, HI 96701
Aloha! Making a decision to attend a counseling session can be very scary! However, counseling can provide an opportunity to stop, reflect, heal, and gain hope in a safe and professional atmosphere. My task as a therapist is to work along side of you to help guide you toward answers you may seek. I believe that all difficulties contain a small seed of opportunity within them and I can support you in clarifying yours while resolving obstacles that may get in the way.
Aloha! Making a decision to attend a counseling session can be very scary! However, counseling can provide an opportunity to stop, reflect, heal, and gain hope in a safe and professional atmosphere. My task as a therapist is to work along side of you to help guide you toward answers you may seek. I believe that all difficulties contain a small seed of opportunity within them and I can support you in clarifying yours while resolving obstacles that may get in the way.
(808) 495-0091 View (808) 495-0091
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Sandee Villeza
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Waipahu, HI 96797
Tired of feeling misunderstood, frustrated, and resentful in your relationships? Or maybe you and your loved one(s) repeat the same ineffective cycle over and over with no positive results? What would life be like if you and your loved one(s) "got" each other, you felt heard and cared for? Pretty awesome right? Let's work together to increase connection and peace through understanding the triggers that you may not realize are there for both you and your loved one(s). Call me and let's talk!
Tired of feeling misunderstood, frustrated, and resentful in your relationships? Or maybe you and your loved one(s) repeat the same ineffective cycle over and over with no positive results? What would life be like if you and your loved one(s) "got" each other, you felt heard and cared for? Pretty awesome right? Let's work together to increase connection and peace through understanding the triggers that you may not realize are there for both you and your loved one(s). Call me and let's talk!
(808) 201-0213 View (808) 201-0213
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Ann Vance
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, Ph,D, CCP
Verified Verified
Wailuku, HI 96793
Dr. Annie Vance, MFT can be reached at www.AlohaConcepts.com. Phone 805-573-1950. or 808-740 4288. To sign up just complete boxes 1 and 5 on the home page at Alohaconcepts.com. Annie works with Couples and Individuals to make relationships more satisfactory for both partners. She has extensive training and experience to offer you: check out her website at AlohaConcepts.com. She has worked in Wailuku since the fire mostly and by video conference with patients from California and the other Hawaiian Islands. She is also available for EAP sessions offered through your employer.
Dr. Annie Vance, MFT can be reached at www.AlohaConcepts.com. Phone 805-573-1950. or 808-740 4288. To sign up just complete boxes 1 and 5 on the home page at Alohaconcepts.com. Annie works with Couples and Individuals to make relationships more satisfactory for both partners. She has extensive training and experience to offer you: check out her website at AlohaConcepts.com. She has worked in Wailuku since the fire mostly and by video conference with patients from California and the other Hawaiian Islands. She is also available for EAP sessions offered through your employer.
(808) 664-5189 View (808) 664-5189
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Serenity Counseling Services Hawaii
Counselor, MD, MFT, LCSW, LPCC, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Aiea, HI 96701
At Serenity we will match you to a specialist who uses cognitive behavioral approaches and evidence-based interventions so you can quickly gain results! Our ideal clients are open to learning & doing small homework assignments to promote change. When you work with us you can expect to feel that you are in control of your emotions and you will feel, more confident, calmer, and of course happier in your life too! We offer automated appointment reminders, three click Telehealth session set up and sessions form 8am to 8pm seven days a week! Let us help you to discover how to live the life you truly want. We are here to help. Call Today!
At Serenity we will match you to a specialist who uses cognitive behavioral approaches and evidence-based interventions so you can quickly gain results! Our ideal clients are open to learning & doing small homework assignments to promote change. When you work with us you can expect to feel that you are in control of your emotions and you will feel, more confident, calmer, and of course happier in your life too! We offer automated appointment reminders, three click Telehealth session set up and sessions form 8am to 8pm seven days a week! Let us help you to discover how to live the life you truly want. We are here to help. Call Today!
(808) 745-1333 View (808) 745-1333

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Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.