Gottman Method Therapists in Houston, TX
The Family Relationship Center, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77058
For couples sessions, we follow the empirically based Gottman Method which encompasses 40 years of research on couples and marriage as well as Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT).
You don't have to face your issues alone. We specialize in helping individuals and couples achieve healthier relationships. We are here to help you talk through your personal, private issues in a safe, accepting, supportive, comfortable, and collaborative environment. Our goal is to help clients understand their emotions and to identify patterns of communication that can lead to core issues or problems within their relationships. We assist each client and/or family in developing new strategies to achieve clarification and honesty within themselves.
For couples sessions, we follow the empirically based Gottman Method which encompasses 40 years of research on couples and marriage as well as Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT).
You don't have to face your issues alone. We specialize in helping individuals and couples achieve healthier relationships. We are here to help you talk through your personal, private issues in a safe, accepting, supportive, comfortable, and collaborative environment. Our goal is to help clients understand their emotions and to identify patterns of communication that can lead to core issues or problems within their relationships. We assist each client and/or family in developing new strategies to achieve clarification and honesty within themselves.
I am licensed by the Texas State Board of Examiners of Psychologists; Certified as a Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT); level 2 trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy; and a Gottman 7 Principles Program Educator.
I believe that your decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, courage, and respect for your personal and relationship well-being. Congratulations on taking the first, and often, hardest step. Identifying a therapist with whom you are comfortable is also a critical step toward facilitating the changes that you desire. I have a collaborative and active style in therapy. I am sensitive to the diverse expressions of sexuality, gender, and lifestyles that my clients may bring. I specialize in sexual and relationship concerns, problematic sexual behaviors, kink/fetish, gender identity, and sexual identity.
I am licensed by the Texas State Board of Examiners of Psychologists; Certified as a Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT); level 2 trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy; and a Gottman 7 Principles Program Educator.
I believe that your decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, courage, and respect for your personal and relationship well-being. Congratulations on taking the first, and often, hardest step. Identifying a therapist with whom you are comfortable is also a critical step toward facilitating the changes that you desire. I have a collaborative and active style in therapy. I am sensitive to the diverse expressions of sexuality, gender, and lifestyles that my clients may bring. I specialize in sexual and relationship concerns, problematic sexual behaviors, kink/fetish, gender identity, and sexual identity.
James Williams
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77009 (Online Only)
I am also trained in relationship therapy, and I produce excellent results with the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy certified Level 2 of 4 Levels.
My name is James E Williams Jr but call me James. I graduated with a master's degree in clinical Mental Health Counseling from Texas A&M University. I’ve been trained in various types of therapy, so I use different approaches to assist you in meeting your therapeutic goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy are the main approaches to therapy I use for challenges such as trauma, couples therapy, anxiety, depression, and life challenges.
I am also trained in relationship therapy, and I produce excellent results with the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy certified Level 2 of 4 Levels.
My name is James E Williams Jr but call me James. I graduated with a master's degree in clinical Mental Health Counseling from Texas A&M University. I’ve been trained in various types of therapy, so I use different approaches to assist you in meeting your therapeutic goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy are the main approaches to therapy I use for challenges such as trauma, couples therapy, anxiety, depression, and life challenges.
Ty Neely
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, CST, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77008
I am extensively trained in Sex Therapy, LGBTQ+ Therapy, and The Gottman Method.
I became a therapist out of a passion and love in walking others through the storms of life. We all experience times in our lives that leave us bruised, battered, and beaten. As a therapist, my goal is to help you find a way out of your storm and become a stronger, more resilient, and more fulfilled person. The basis for my practice is Existential Therapy, where I help clients truly grasp their relationships with themselves and the world around them. I bring in other therapeutic techniques and styles to individualize treatment to what each client needs and wants out of therapy.
I am extensively trained in Sex Therapy, LGBTQ+ Therapy, and The Gottman Method.
I became a therapist out of a passion and love in walking others through the storms of life. We all experience times in our lives that leave us bruised, battered, and beaten. As a therapist, my goal is to help you find a way out of your storm and become a stronger, more resilient, and more fulfilled person. The basis for my practice is Existential Therapy, where I help clients truly grasp their relationships with themselves and the world around them. I bring in other therapeutic techniques and styles to individualize treatment to what each client needs and wants out of therapy.
Dinah Parker Matthews
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, LPC-A
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77059
I meet with clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, or relationship challenges. The populations that I serve are teens, adults, and couples who want more out of their relationships or are experiencing stress. When working with couples, I use Gottman Method techniques and materials. I can also incorporate a spiritual component in the counseling sessions if a client requests it.
I meet with clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, or relationship challenges. The populations that I serve are teens, adults, and couples who want more out of their relationships or are experiencing stress. When working with couples, I use Gottman Method techniques and materials. I can also incorporate a spiritual component in the counseling sessions if a client requests it.
I work from a person-centered approach, using evidence based treatments, such as Brainspotting, Gottman Method, Self-Compassion, ADHD management, and other trauma-informed approaches, incorporated based on your unique needs .
As of 10/9/24 - Immediate Evening openings: Monday 4-8 pm. Life can be overwhelming, challenging, and exhausting. You know you don't want things to stay the same, but are not sure where to start. It can be frustrating to feel like you're doing your best and still be stuck. Whether it is dealing with life changes and transitions, a new ADHD diagnosis, relationship struggles, or you're not even able to pinpoint what it is - I'm here to listen as you process through and work towards having the life you desire.
I work from a person-centered approach, using evidence based treatments, such as Brainspotting, Gottman Method, Self-Compassion, ADHD management, and other trauma-informed approaches, incorporated based on your unique needs .
As of 10/9/24 - Immediate Evening openings: Monday 4-8 pm. Life can be overwhelming, challenging, and exhausting. You know you don't want things to stay the same, but are not sure where to start. It can be frustrating to feel like you're doing your best and still be stuck. Whether it is dealing with life changes and transitions, a new ADHD diagnosis, relationship struggles, or you're not even able to pinpoint what it is - I'm here to listen as you process through and work towards having the life you desire.
Carla Jenkins-Pratt
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, LPCC, CMS-CHT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77018
By blending evidence-based practices with various modalities like cognitive behavioral therapy, trauma-focused therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, EMDR, and a strength-based perspective, we'll create a plan that works for you.
Ready for Transformation? Are you eager to tap into the hidden power of your subconscious mind and create real, lasting change in your life? Are you tired of feeling held back by inner conflicts, limiting beliefs, or negative patterns? Let's work together to harness your inner strength and achieve your dreams. I provide compassionate and effective hypnotherapy for individuals of all ages, families, and couples. My extensive experience has prepared me to offer you the highest quality therapeutic care. Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and unlock your true potential. Together, we'll create a life overflowing with joy, pe
By blending evidence-based practices with various modalities like cognitive behavioral therapy, trauma-focused therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, EMDR, and a strength-based perspective, we'll create a plan that works for you.
Ready for Transformation? Are you eager to tap into the hidden power of your subconscious mind and create real, lasting change in your life? Are you tired of feeling held back by inner conflicts, limiting beliefs, or negative patterns? Let's work together to harness your inner strength and achieve your dreams. I provide compassionate and effective hypnotherapy for individuals of all ages, families, and couples. My extensive experience has prepared me to offer you the highest quality therapeutic care. Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and unlock your true potential. Together, we'll create a life overflowing with joy, pe
Crystal Perryman
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77002 (Online Only)
I know that no single approach is the right one for every individual, and so I have spent many years enhancing my knowledge and skills in a range of modalities such as Gestalt Play Therapy, Solutions Focused Therapy, The Gottman Method for Couples Therapy as well as a somatic approach in Reality Therapy.
I am an enthusiastic Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Life Coach! When human beings experience trauma or severe life stressors, it is not uncommon for their lives to unravel. My great passion is bringing healing to people who have been through a traumatic/stressful experience. I am driven to “unlocking limiting beliefs” to those in distress or in need of guidance. I help my clients, which include children, young adults, couples and families, to find healthy perceptions of themselves and strengthen their relationships so they can know themselves as peaceful, complete, whole, and secure.
I know that no single approach is the right one for every individual, and so I have spent many years enhancing my knowledge and skills in a range of modalities such as Gestalt Play Therapy, Solutions Focused Therapy, The Gottman Method for Couples Therapy as well as a somatic approach in Reality Therapy.
I am an enthusiastic Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Life Coach! When human beings experience trauma or severe life stressors, it is not uncommon for their lives to unravel. My great passion is bringing healing to people who have been through a traumatic/stressful experience. I am driven to “unlocking limiting beliefs” to those in distress or in need of guidance. I help my clients, which include children, young adults, couples and families, to find healthy perceptions of themselves and strengthen their relationships so they can know themselves as peaceful, complete, whole, and secure.
Ashley Giles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77027 (Online Only)
I utilize Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, and trainings in AASECT Certified Sex Therapy and Gottman Method.
No one is given a guidebook on how to navigate relationships with others or with ourselves and this missing information often leaves us feeling unfulfilled, unhappy, and unstable. At each session, we'll set goals specific to your needs to work toward immediate changes.
I utilize Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, and trainings in AASECT Certified Sex Therapy and Gottman Method.
No one is given a guidebook on how to navigate relationships with others or with ourselves and this missing information often leaves us feeling unfulfilled, unhappy, and unstable. At each session, we'll set goals specific to your needs to work toward immediate changes.
For couples therapy, I use the Gottman Method combined with Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy and Emotion-Focused techniques.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals with relationship problems. I also conduct forensic evaluations for cases involving intimate partner violence. As a relationship researcher for the past 25 years, I am applying research to help couples and individuals with communication, sexual, or other problems by offering couples' assessments, therapy, & forensic evaluations. Combining the work of my Ph.D. mentors, Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Neil Jacobson, my scientifically-based couples therapy combines Gottman Couples Therapy and Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy. My approach is direct, short-term and effective.
For couples therapy, I use the Gottman Method combined with Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy and Emotion-Focused techniques.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals with relationship problems. I also conduct forensic evaluations for cases involving intimate partner violence. As a relationship researcher for the past 25 years, I am applying research to help couples and individuals with communication, sexual, or other problems by offering couples' assessments, therapy, & forensic evaluations. Combining the work of my Ph.D. mentors, Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Neil Jacobson, my scientifically-based couples therapy combines Gottman Couples Therapy and Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy. My approach is direct, short-term and effective.
William J Kao
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77098
Kao is also a Gottman Method Level 2 certified therapist in couples counseling.
Mr. Kao hopes to help clients navigate the challenges of life in a fulfilling and meaningful way. Mr. Kao works with clients on mindfulness, emotional regulation, relaxation techniques, as well as developing communication and coping skills for healthier relationships. Mr. Kao also utilizes techniques from EMDR to help clients heal from trauma and experience new insights that help the client move forward safely. Mr. Kao’s therapeutic approaches include Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, Gestalt Therapy, and The Gottman Method.
Kao is also a Gottman Method Level 2 certified therapist in couples counseling.
Mr. Kao hopes to help clients navigate the challenges of life in a fulfilling and meaningful way. Mr. Kao works with clients on mindfulness, emotional regulation, relaxation techniques, as well as developing communication and coping skills for healthier relationships. Mr. Kao also utilizes techniques from EMDR to help clients heal from trauma and experience new insights that help the client move forward safely. Mr. Kao’s therapeutic approaches include Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, Gestalt Therapy, and The Gottman Method.
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, MEd
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77027
I am a Relationship Therapist, who is trained in the Gottman Method. I approach therapy from social justice, womanist, and healing-centered approach. I guide partners on a healing journey of how to engage in mature and respectful conflict. I will equip them with the skills to turn towards each other and deepen their level of intimacy. I also work with individuals and families to improve their relationships. My intention is to normalize and increase relationship therapy access to POC and QPOC.
I am a Relationship Therapist, who is trained in the Gottman Method. I approach therapy from social justice, womanist, and healing-centered approach. I guide partners on a healing journey of how to engage in mature and respectful conflict. I will equip them with the skills to turn towards each other and deepen their level of intimacy. I also work with individuals and families to improve their relationships. My intention is to normalize and increase relationship therapy access to POC and QPOC.
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LPC Associate, M Ed, LPC-A
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77027 (Online Only)
I use the Gottman Method with couples.
I work with women, couples, adolescents, and young adults facing life transitions. Navigating motherhood, de-escalating relationship conflict, communication skills, stress management, perinatal mental health, anxiety & depression are some of my specialities. As a therapist I strive to offer a genuine, trusting relationship with my clients. In this safe, affirming space, we can process your unique life experiences and concerns.
I use the Gottman Method with couples.
I work with women, couples, adolescents, and young adults facing life transitions. Navigating motherhood, de-escalating relationship conflict, communication skills, stress management, perinatal mental health, anxiety & depression are some of my specialities. As a therapist I strive to offer a genuine, trusting relationship with my clients. In this safe, affirming space, we can process your unique life experiences and concerns.
Madiha Anas
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77084 (Online Only)
I have completed Level 1 of Gottman Method Couples Therapy, am a certified Prepare/Enrich facilitator for martial and pre-marital counseling, and use the most appropriate evidence-based methods from the attachment perspective, DBT and CBT on your healing journey.
If there is a sense of hopelessness surrounding you about what has passed amidst the fear of what is yet to be; if you find yourself stuck as these challenges show up in your relationships, lingering grief, or a sense of powerlessness - know that you don't have to go through this alone. In this space, we can meet. My training has prepared me to provide tailored counseling to individuals, couples, and children navigate challenges of marriage, divorce, and illness or loss of loved ones. Along with private practice, I have worked at behavioral hospitals helping clients struggling with challenges of depression, anxiety, and trauma.
I have completed Level 1 of Gottman Method Couples Therapy, am a certified Prepare/Enrich facilitator for martial and pre-marital counseling, and use the most appropriate evidence-based methods from the attachment perspective, DBT and CBT on your healing journey.
If there is a sense of hopelessness surrounding you about what has passed amidst the fear of what is yet to be; if you find yourself stuck as these challenges show up in your relationships, lingering grief, or a sense of powerlessness - know that you don't have to go through this alone. In this space, we can meet. My training has prepared me to provide tailored counseling to individuals, couples, and children navigate challenges of marriage, divorce, and illness or loss of loved ones. Along with private practice, I have worked at behavioral hospitals helping clients struggling with challenges of depression, anxiety, and trauma.
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Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77010
She is trained and certified in Mental Health Integrative Medicine, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, IFS, EMDR, Gottman Method, Grief, and Anxiety Treatment.
The last years have been trying years for everyone. Perhaps they brought new behaviors from your partner, family member, or yourself. Maybe they reminded you of past traumas. Many have "big T" traumas like abuse or near-death experiences. We all have some "little t" traumas, like feeling rejected by others. Part of us gets stuck back to when we experienced the trauma. But you don't have to stay there! You can escape the grip of both "big T" & "little t" traumas. These no longer have to affect you, your relationships, or many other things. Sign up today for a consultation at drdanielakrotzer.com.
She is trained and certified in Mental Health Integrative Medicine, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, IFS, EMDR, Gottman Method, Grief, and Anxiety Treatment.
The last years have been trying years for everyone. Perhaps they brought new behaviors from your partner, family member, or yourself. Maybe they reminded you of past traumas. Many have "big T" traumas like abuse or near-death experiences. We all have some "little t" traumas, like feeling rejected by others. Part of us gets stuck back to when we experienced the trauma. But you don't have to stay there! You can escape the grip of both "big T" & "little t" traumas. These no longer have to affect you, your relationships, or many other things. Sign up today for a consultation at drdanielakrotzer.com.
Rebecca Rosalez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77044 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) and Level 3 Practicum Trained therapist in the Gottman Method.
If you struggle with challenges related to trauma, are a part of a couple who is in need of support or an individual who struggles with anxiety, I am glad you are here! I am a trauma specialist utilizing EMDR (Certified Practitioner) and Somatic Experiencing (at the Advanced level). Together we will work together to reprocess your trauma to help you see and experience distressing images and memories in a new and less painful way.
I am a Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) and Level 3 Practicum Trained therapist in the Gottman Method.
If you struggle with challenges related to trauma, are a part of a couple who is in need of support or an individual who struggles with anxiety, I am glad you are here! I am a trauma specialist utilizing EMDR (Certified Practitioner) and Somatic Experiencing (at the Advanced level). Together we will work together to reprocess your trauma to help you see and experience distressing images and memories in a new and less painful way.
Ashley Clark
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77058 (Online Only)
The Gottman Method is a method of couples therapy that is based on the research of Dr.
I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor in Texas. I have received advanced training in the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy and Trauma Therapy. With over 13 years of experience, I've worked with a broad spectrum of clients, including children, teens, adults, families and couples. Currently, I am seeing clients virtually in my private practice. My focus is helping teens, young adults and individuals who are struggling with anxiety, trauma, life transitions and other stressors. I also specialize in couples using the Gottman Method.
The Gottman Method is a method of couples therapy that is based on the research of Dr.
I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor in Texas. I have received advanced training in the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy and Trauma Therapy. With over 13 years of experience, I've worked with a broad spectrum of clients, including children, teens, adults, families and couples. Currently, I am seeing clients virtually in my private practice. My focus is helping teens, young adults and individuals who are struggling with anxiety, trauma, life transitions and other stressors. I also specialize in couples using the Gottman Method.
Samantha S Salazar
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77058
My approach includes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Christian Counseling (upon request) to meet you where you are and customize goals specific to your needs.
I enjoy working with clients interested in exploring ways to improve their relationship with themselves and others. Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, or are looking to heal from past experiences and create the life you want, I believe that together we can help you find a new perspective, build skills and resiliency, and live your best life.
My approach includes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Christian Counseling (upon request) to meet you where you are and customize goals specific to your needs.
I enjoy working with clients interested in exploring ways to improve their relationship with themselves and others. Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, or are looking to heal from past experiences and create the life you want, I believe that together we can help you find a new perspective, build skills and resiliency, and live your best life.
Cassandra J Wolff
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77096 (Online Only)
I have completed levels 1 and 2 of the Gottman Method, as well as additional trainings in EMDR, CBT, and family therapy.
I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families impacted by ADHD, anxiety based disorders, and/or are experiencing relationship challenges. I also welcome those who identify as neurodiverse, but may not have a specific diagnosis. We work together to improve executive functioning, improve relationship quality, learn how to live with uncertainty, and live by our values. Over half of the clients I work with either identify as neurodiverse (most often diagnosed with ADHD), or has someone within their partnership or family that identifies this way. It is an absolute pleasure to be able to work with these individuals.
I have completed levels 1 and 2 of the Gottman Method, as well as additional trainings in EMDR, CBT, and family therapy.
I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families impacted by ADHD, anxiety based disorders, and/or are experiencing relationship challenges. I also welcome those who identify as neurodiverse, but may not have a specific diagnosis. We work together to improve executive functioning, improve relationship quality, learn how to live with uncertainty, and live by our values. Over half of the clients I work with either identify as neurodiverse (most often diagnosed with ADHD), or has someone within their partnership or family that identifies this way. It is an absolute pleasure to be able to work with these individuals.
Stephen Anthony Bonnette
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77058
I have focused training on couples therapy in Gottman Method as well as psychoanalytic and existential techniques.
I regard counseling as an opportunity for both the counselor and client to grow in trust and walk towards a goal together. Both the client and counselor have goals that value self-improvement and that is a journey best done with someone else. Counseling is a chance to define and refine values and work towards expressing those values in a constructive and functioning way.
I have focused training on couples therapy in Gottman Method as well as psychoanalytic and existential techniques.
I regard counseling as an opportunity for both the counselor and client to grow in trust and walk towards a goal together. Both the client and counselor have goals that value self-improvement and that is a journey best done with someone else. Counseling is a chance to define and refine values and work towards expressing those values in a constructive and functioning way.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.