Gottman Method Therapists in New York, NY
Christina Scalise
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001 (Online Only)
Additionally, I have achieved Level 1 and Level 2 in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
"When we protect ourselves so we won't feel pain, that protection becomes like armor that imprisons the softness of the heart". In therapy, rather than avoiding pain, we learn how to hold space for it. Therapy is a space to slow down, to be present and to fully connect to ourselves and our experiences. When we connect directly to our experiences, we create space to foster emotional growth, gain insight and move toward healing.
Additionally, I have achieved Level 1 and Level 2 in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
"When we protect ourselves so we won't feel pain, that protection becomes like armor that imprisons the softness of the heart". In therapy, rather than avoiding pain, we learn how to hold space for it. Therapy is a space to slow down, to be present and to fully connect to ourselves and our experiences. When we connect directly to our experiences, we create space to foster emotional growth, gain insight and move toward healing.
I can also help couples using Gottman Method.
Are you finding yourself constantly overwhelmed by anxiety? Are the symptoms of your lingering anxiety impacting the quality of your life? I know exactly what you are experiencing: the pounding chest, tightened muscles, clenched jaw, and on/off cold sweats. People often suffer from anxiety for many years without seeking treatment. I believe that holistic and evidence based practices can reduce anxiety and panic, and I look forward to teaching you tools to help take your life back. I also work with LGBTQ couples who are struggling with a variety of concerns like sexual/intimacy issues, communication, codependency, and infidelity.
I can also help couples using Gottman Method.
Are you finding yourself constantly overwhelmed by anxiety? Are the symptoms of your lingering anxiety impacting the quality of your life? I know exactly what you are experiencing: the pounding chest, tightened muscles, clenched jaw, and on/off cold sweats. People often suffer from anxiety for many years without seeking treatment. I believe that holistic and evidence based practices can reduce anxiety and panic, and I look forward to teaching you tools to help take your life back. I also work with LGBTQ couples who are struggling with a variety of concerns like sexual/intimacy issues, communication, codependency, and infidelity.
Heather Roiser: Anxiety/ADHD/Relationships/Dating
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ADHD-, CCSP, CMHIMP
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10036 (Online Only)
Are you experiencing difficulties in your relationship/dating, family role, job, health or some other area of your life? Are you feeling anxious? Are you struggling with symptoms of ADHD? I am here to help you get to the root of the issue and together, we can work on finding ways for you to feel better. My approach to therapy is holistic and eclectic. I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic and mindfulness-based techniques to tailor the treatment to your personality and desired outcome. I also utilize the Gottman Method for relationship and dating issues.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your relationship/dating, family role, job, health or some other area of your life? Are you feeling anxious? Are you struggling with symptoms of ADHD? I am here to help you get to the root of the issue and together, we can work on finding ways for you to feel better. My approach to therapy is holistic and eclectic. I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic and mindfulness-based techniques to tailor the treatment to your personality and desired outcome. I also utilize the Gottman Method for relationship and dating issues.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
Her therapeutic approach is a thoughtful blend of Mindfulness, the Gottman Method, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Motivational Therapy, among others.
Alexis Grevers, LMHC is a graduate of New York University with over five years of experience, specializing in therapy for individuals and couples. Alexis has extensive experience helping clients navigate a variety of challenges, including relationship concerns, anxiety, confidence issues, OCD, ADD/ADHD, stress, and trauma.
Her therapeutic approach is a thoughtful blend of Mindfulness, the Gottman Method, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Motivational Therapy, among others.
Alexis Grevers, LMHC is a graduate of New York University with over five years of experience, specializing in therapy for individuals and couples. Alexis has extensive experience helping clients navigate a variety of challenges, including relationship concerns, anxiety, confidence issues, OCD, ADD/ADHD, stress, and trauma.
Wei takes an eclectic approach to counseling, drawing on Relational-Cultural Therapy and incorporating the Gottman Method for couples' issues, Internal Family Systems concepts, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools, and Buddhist philosophy with a focus on spirituality. Her holistic approach supports both the mental and spiritual well-being of clients.
Wei takes an eclectic approach to counseling, drawing on Relational-Cultural Therapy and incorporating the Gottman Method for couples' issues, Internal Family Systems concepts, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools, and Buddhist philosophy with a focus on spirituality. Her holistic approach supports both the mental and spiritual well-being of clients.
Kristina works from a place of non-judgement and authenticity where clients can feel free to show up as themselves. She values empathy and uses collaboration to help clients achieve their goals. Kristina uses CBT and DBT to help clients understand behaviors, thoughts, emotions and relationships. She uses Attachment Theory and The Gottman Method with couples.
Kristina works from a place of non-judgement and authenticity where clients can feel free to show up as themselves. She values empathy and uses collaboration to help clients achieve their goals. Kristina uses CBT and DBT to help clients understand behaviors, thoughts, emotions and relationships. She uses Attachment Theory and The Gottman Method with couples.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained specifically as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained specifically as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
I work with both individuals and couples, using EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) and The Gottman Method.
As a therapist, I am dedicated to creating a warm, collaborative, and genuine interaction with my clients. I believe in the importance of building a real relationship between therapist and client, where trust and understanding are paramount. My approach is both compassionate and supportive, sometimes adding a touch of humor to help build connection and ease stress. I strive to foster a safe and open environment where clients feel comfortable exploring their thoughts and emotions, and where together, we can work towards meaningful change and personal growth.
I work with both individuals and couples, using EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) and The Gottman Method.
As a therapist, I am dedicated to creating a warm, collaborative, and genuine interaction with my clients. I believe in the importance of building a real relationship between therapist and client, where trust and understanding are paramount. My approach is both compassionate and supportive, sometimes adding a touch of humor to help build connection and ease stress. I strive to foster a safe and open environment where clients feel comfortable exploring their thoughts and emotions, and where together, we can work towards meaningful change and personal growth.
In working with couples I use a combination of EFT and Gottman method.
Whether you are feeling anxious, fearful, stuck, or seeking to improve the quality of your relationships, I can offer guidance in resolving inner conflict and living authentically. Together we will work to uncover underlying causes of distress, examining old stories that keep you stuck, and moving away from unhealthy patterns, thus creating freedom and fluidity. Psychotherapy has the power to be a metamorphic experience, and my aim is to create a warm, accepting environment to help you gain insight and navigate away from behaviors that get in the way of personal fulfillment.
In working with couples I use a combination of EFT and Gottman method.
Whether you are feeling anxious, fearful, stuck, or seeking to improve the quality of your relationships, I can offer guidance in resolving inner conflict and living authentically. Together we will work to uncover underlying causes of distress, examining old stories that keep you stuck, and moving away from unhealthy patterns, thus creating freedom and fluidity. Psychotherapy has the power to be a metamorphic experience, and my aim is to create a warm, accepting environment to help you gain insight and navigate away from behaviors that get in the way of personal fulfillment.
Angela Ordyniec
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10010 (Online Only)
I have training and experience in CBT, ACT, CPT as well as the Gottman Method for couples, and have over a decade of experience working with TGNC and gender expansive people and their families.
Would you like to become more self aware, accept what you are unable to control, and move toward healing? If you would like support with grief/loss, relationship dynamics/communication, life transitions, exploration of identity and sexuality, and inner discomfort including anxiety and sadness, I am here to support you. Accepting new patients for teletherapy in New York, Minnesota, South Carolina, California and New Jersey for individuals and couples therapy.
I have training and experience in CBT, ACT, CPT as well as the Gottman Method for couples, and have over a decade of experience working with TGNC and gender expansive people and their families.
Would you like to become more self aware, accept what you are unable to control, and move toward healing? If you would like support with grief/loss, relationship dynamics/communication, life transitions, exploration of identity and sexuality, and inner discomfort including anxiety and sadness, I am here to support you. Accepting new patients for teletherapy in New York, Minnesota, South Carolina, California and New Jersey for individuals and couples therapy.
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
New York, NY 10024 (Online Only)
Therapy is going to the gym for your emotional and relational well-being, so I give you a ton of credit for being here, exploring how to get in shape! Throughout my work, I have developed a style that is warm, direct, and actively challenges you to evolve. I have a tremendous working knowledge of evidence-based models, including CBT, DBT, MST, and ACT, as well as psychodynamic theory and the Gottman Method. My commitment to staying updated on current research and utilizing evidence-based models is a testament to my resolve to deliver therapy that actually works to help you meet your goals and experience relief.
Therapy is going to the gym for your emotional and relational well-being, so I give you a ton of credit for being here, exploring how to get in shape! Throughout my work, I have developed a style that is warm, direct, and actively challenges you to evolve. I have a tremendous working knowledge of evidence-based models, including CBT, DBT, MST, and ACT, as well as psychodynamic theory and the Gottman Method. My commitment to staying updated on current research and utilizing evidence-based models is a testament to my resolve to deliver therapy that actually works to help you meet your goals and experience relief.
Antonio Carratelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, RYT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
New York, NY 10036 (Online Only)
In work with couples I pull from Imago Therapy and The Gottman Method.
Hey there! Antonio here. I believe therapy is the most valuable investment one can make in themselves. Therefore, I attune my therapeutic approach to foster connection with you. In this safe environment we will uncover barriers, obvious and hidden, that keep you from the fullest expression of yourself. I can help you address concerns from: depression/anxiety, work/life balance, change/transition, conflict in families/relationships, and executive functioning.
In work with couples I pull from Imago Therapy and The Gottman Method.
Hey there! Antonio here. I believe therapy is the most valuable investment one can make in themselves. Therefore, I attune my therapeutic approach to foster connection with you. In this safe environment we will uncover barriers, obvious and hidden, that keep you from the fullest expression of yourself. I can help you address concerns from: depression/anxiety, work/life balance, change/transition, conflict in families/relationships, and executive functioning.
Conny Chan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010 (Online Only)
I have received training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method Couple Therapy, Exposure Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization, and EMDR.
I specialize in treating Depression, Anxiety, Phobias, OCD, PTSD, Trauma, and intimate relationship issues. I also assist clients in promoting self-discovery, building self-esteem, and building coping strategies and time management skills.
I have received training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method Couple Therapy, Exposure Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization, and EMDR.
I specialize in treating Depression, Anxiety, Phobias, OCD, PTSD, Trauma, and intimate relationship issues. I also assist clients in promoting self-discovery, building self-esteem, and building coping strategies and time management skills.
Anissa employs a range of therapeutic techniques, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), Exposure Therapy, Family Systems, Gottman Method, Mindfulness, Motivational Interviewing, and Trauma-Focused CBT, all tailored to support and guide her clients on their journey to well-being.
Anissa House is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 15 years of experience, dedicated to providing empathetic and solution-focused therapy. A graduate of the University of Rochester, she works with couples, individuals, families, and teenagers.
Anissa employs a range of therapeutic techniques, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), Exposure Therapy, Family Systems, Gottman Method, Mindfulness, Motivational Interviewing, and Trauma-Focused CBT, all tailored to support and guide her clients on their journey to well-being.
Anissa House is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 15 years of experience, dedicated to providing empathetic and solution-focused therapy. A graduate of the University of Rochester, she works with couples, individuals, families, and teenagers.
Hello! I help adults and teens who are struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, depression or trauma responses by getting to know the unique individual you are through an exploration of your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, experiences, relationship dynamics, self care routines, community involvement, personal and interpersonal goals and life dreams. By utilizing a variety of modalities such as Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems Therapy and Action Methods, I help you to understand and create meaning around what has already happened and walk with you on your path to fulfillment.
Hello! I help adults and teens who are struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, depression or trauma responses by getting to know the unique individual you are through an exploration of your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, experiences, relationship dynamics, self care routines, community involvement, personal and interpersonal goals and life dreams. By utilizing a variety of modalities such as Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems Therapy and Action Methods, I help you to understand and create meaning around what has already happened and walk with you on your path to fulfillment.
Erin Gilbert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10001 (Online Only)
I'd love to be a part of the change you desire in your life, whether you want to shift troubling moods, resolve relationship difficulties, or end addictions. My expertise includes working with individuals and couples who face a broad range of challenges such as stress, low self-esteem, trauma, grief, infidelity, anxiety, depression, and addictions. I have a special interest in life transitions, such as new parenthood or divorce, career changes, and upcoming or recent high school or college graduates. I have completed level three training in the Gottman Method, and am excited to work with couples to improve their relationships.
I'd love to be a part of the change you desire in your life, whether you want to shift troubling moods, resolve relationship difficulties, or end addictions. My expertise includes working with individuals and couples who face a broad range of challenges such as stress, low self-esteem, trauma, grief, infidelity, anxiety, depression, and addictions. I have a special interest in life transitions, such as new parenthood or divorce, career changes, and upcoming or recent high school or college graduates. I have completed level three training in the Gottman Method, and am excited to work with couples to improve their relationships.
Elisa Gizzo
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10003 (Online Only)
I have completed Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and use the Gottman Method in my work with couples.
I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in individuals, couples, and families experiencing difficulties within their relationships. I also work with individuals that are experiencing anxiety and are seeking a desire for change in their overall sense of well-being and contentment. I take a holistic, mind-body approach and believe change comes from healthy habits, healthy actions, and learning healthy communication with oneself and those around them.
I have completed Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and use the Gottman Method in my work with couples.
I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in individuals, couples, and families experiencing difficulties within their relationships. I also work with individuals that are experiencing anxiety and are seeking a desire for change in their overall sense of well-being and contentment. I take a holistic, mind-body approach and believe change comes from healthy habits, healthy actions, and learning healthy communication with oneself and those around them.
Heather H Hamilton
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10004
I support Trauma Processing; Harm Reduction for Substance Misuse; Couples Therapy; and Career Development & Changes using various modalities including KAP (ketamine assisted psychotherapy), PHRI, IFS, CBT, EMDR and Gottman Method.
Our cultural emphasis on paid work identity has led to some of us getting stuck continually striving for “more” and feeling starved in other areas like meaning making, community, spirituality and connection. My life experience with trauma, addiction and LGBTQ+ concerns make this work personal for me. I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, sex-positive, inclusive of all identities and enjoy working with clients in every life stage. My professional and personal experiences allow me to have deep empathy for those who are facing major life challenges such as trauma, substance misuse, divorce, career change, chronic health issues and loss.
I support Trauma Processing; Harm Reduction for Substance Misuse; Couples Therapy; and Career Development & Changes using various modalities including KAP (ketamine assisted psychotherapy), PHRI, IFS, CBT, EMDR and Gottman Method.
Our cultural emphasis on paid work identity has led to some of us getting stuck continually striving for “more” and feeling starved in other areas like meaning making, community, spirituality and connection. My life experience with trauma, addiction and LGBTQ+ concerns make this work personal for me. I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, sex-positive, inclusive of all identities and enjoy working with clients in every life stage. My professional and personal experiences allow me to have deep empathy for those who are facing major life challenges such as trauma, substance misuse, divorce, career change, chronic health issues and loss.
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, dealing with repetitive conflict, and wanting to connect better.
As your therapist, I provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit there – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that are bothering you in your everyday life, be it challenges with relationships, work, or family. Whether our work is one-on-one, with you two as a couple, my clients gain valuable insights and practical tools to get unstuck and move forward. Imagine leaving each session feeling understood, empowered, and equipped to navigate life with confidence.
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, dealing with repetitive conflict, and wanting to connect better.
As your therapist, I provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit there – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that are bothering you in your everyday life, be it challenges with relationships, work, or family. Whether our work is one-on-one, with you two as a couple, my clients gain valuable insights and practical tools to get unstuck and move forward. Imagine leaving each session feeling understood, empowered, and equipped to navigate life with confidence.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.