Gottman Method Therapists in Michigan
Brett Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Dexter, MI 48130
Waitlist for new clients
I have completed level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Hello, my name is Brett Johnson and I have worked in mental health since 2006, first providing direct care. I received my a BA degree from Albion College in 2009, and served in the Peace Corps from 2010 to 2012 as a youth development volunteer in Bulgaria. Following my Peace Corps service, I worked as a case manager for adults who receive mental health services from 2012 to 2020. I received my MSW degree from Western Michigan University in 2020 and I have worked as a clinical social worker and therapist at Peaceful Mind Counseling Services since then.
I have completed level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Hello, my name is Brett Johnson and I have worked in mental health since 2006, first providing direct care. I received my a BA degree from Albion College in 2009, and served in the Peace Corps from 2010 to 2012 as a youth development volunteer in Bulgaria. Following my Peace Corps service, I worked as a case manager for adults who receive mental health services from 2012 to 2020. I received my MSW degree from Western Michigan University in 2020 and I have worked as a clinical social worker and therapist at Peaceful Mind Counseling Services since then.
Jeffrey D Goodwin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MDiv, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Traverse City, MI 49686
I focus on couples counseling using the Gottman method, and I have completed the Level 3 Practicum Training in Gottman Method Couples therapy.
I love helping adolescents and their families! Sounds strange I know, but it's true. I provide a listening ear and create a non-judgmental space for youth ages 11-24 to talk about life, love, friendship, and the challenges associated with transitioning into adulthood. I also work with struggling adults, couples and stressed families, and help individuals deal with things like depression and anxiety. Life puts lots of pressure on individuals, marriages, parents, and families, and I'd love to help you find ways to cope with the pressure and go from surviving to thriving!
I focus on couples counseling using the Gottman method, and I have completed the Level 3 Practicum Training in Gottman Method Couples therapy.
I love helping adolescents and their families! Sounds strange I know, but it's true. I provide a listening ear and create a non-judgmental space for youth ages 11-24 to talk about life, love, friendship, and the challenges associated with transitioning into adulthood. I also work with struggling adults, couples and stressed families, and help individuals deal with things like depression and anxiety. Life puts lots of pressure on individuals, marriages, parents, and families, and I'd love to help you find ways to cope with the pressure and go from surviving to thriving!
Holli Slater
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49008 (Online Only)
I use client centered approaches with counseling techniques including EMDR, Person-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman Method, and Psychoeducation.
Whether you are experiencing mental health issues, challenges that are overwhelming, or just need someone to talk with, I am here to support and be a person standing next to you through whatever challenges you may face by providing a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free environment. Experiencing anxiety, depression, PTSD, relationship conflict, family conflict, addiction, trauma, and mental health disorders can be hard to handle on your own. I am here to assist in creating a better understanding of yourself and accomplish the goals you want within your life and treatment.
I use client centered approaches with counseling techniques including EMDR, Person-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman Method, and Psychoeducation.
Whether you are experiencing mental health issues, challenges that are overwhelming, or just need someone to talk with, I am here to support and be a person standing next to you through whatever challenges you may face by providing a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free environment. Experiencing anxiety, depression, PTSD, relationship conflict, family conflict, addiction, trauma, and mental health disorders can be hard to handle on your own. I am here to assist in creating a better understanding of yourself and accomplish the goals you want within your life and treatment.
Dr. Jennifer Tang Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, PhD
Verified Verified
Ann Arbor, MI 48104
Through science-based therapies, like trauma-focused CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy, we’ll work together to find coping strategies and tools that you can use every day.
Are you experiencing a high level of stress and burnout? Do you struggle to balance the demands of home and work life? Are you tired of feeling like you're stuck in a cycle of fights with your partner? Maybe you feel emotionally disconnected, and the stress from one area of your life spills over to others. If you've reached the point of saying, "Enough is enough,” let’s explore therapy that works. Hi, I’m Dr. Jennifer Tang Cole, a trauma and couples therapist located in Ann Arbor, Michigan and licensed in FL, NJ, MA, MI and DC. I help adults and couples balance the demands of life to find healing.
Through science-based therapies, like trauma-focused CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy, we’ll work together to find coping strategies and tools that you can use every day.
Are you experiencing a high level of stress and burnout? Do you struggle to balance the demands of home and work life? Are you tired of feeling like you're stuck in a cycle of fights with your partner? Maybe you feel emotionally disconnected, and the stress from one area of your life spills over to others. If you've reached the point of saying, "Enough is enough,” let’s explore therapy that works. Hi, I’m Dr. Jennifer Tang Cole, a trauma and couples therapist located in Ann Arbor, Michigan and licensed in FL, NJ, MA, MI and DC. I help adults and couples balance the demands of life to find healing.
I am able to utilize Gottman Method Therapy when working with couples.
Creating change in your life is hard work and asking for help is even harder when you've tried to do it alone. Having distress in one part of life can create waves in other parts. I believe that therapy can provide you with the tools and confidence to face these changes. Together we can work on those hard moments in life and turn them into opportunities for change and development. Working together to dispel those waves around you can create a more peaceful and fulfilling life.
I am able to utilize Gottman Method Therapy when working with couples.
Creating change in your life is hard work and asking for help is even harder when you've tried to do it alone. Having distress in one part of life can create waves in other parts. I believe that therapy can provide you with the tools and confidence to face these changes. Together we can work on those hard moments in life and turn them into opportunities for change and development. Working together to dispel those waves around you can create a more peaceful and fulfilling life.
Brooke Illig Individual & Couples Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Branch, MI 48661
I am also skilled in assisting couples with communication and attachment issues through the use of Gottman Method Couples therapy and Emotionally Focused therapy.
Adults who have found success with my approach often come to me for help with challenges like people-pleasing, where they put others' needs before their own, and struggling to set boundaries. They may also be dealing with anxiety, body image issues, and navigating major life changes, which can leave them feeling drained and resentful. These individuals are ready to explore new approaches to break unhelpful patterns, and they're looking for a therapist who is easy to relate to and open to ongoing feedback.
I am also skilled in assisting couples with communication and attachment issues through the use of Gottman Method Couples therapy and Emotionally Focused therapy.
Adults who have found success with my approach often come to me for help with challenges like people-pleasing, where they put others' needs before their own, and struggling to set boundaries. They may also be dealing with anxiety, body image issues, and navigating major life changes, which can leave them feeling drained and resentful. These individuals are ready to explore new approaches to break unhelpful patterns, and they're looking for a therapist who is easy to relate to and open to ongoing feedback.
Hannah utilizes evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Living in relationships with others is hard work. It’s complicated and it’s often hard to know what healthy relationships are meant to look, feel, or sound like. As a limited Marriage and Family and Professional Counselor, Hannah gets the deep complexities of human relationships and specializes in providing therapy to couples, families, and individuals. She is passionate about helping clients build stronger, healthier relationships – relationships that just work and feel better.
Hannah utilizes evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Living in relationships with others is hard work. It’s complicated and it’s often hard to know what healthy relationships are meant to look, feel, or sound like. As a limited Marriage and Family and Professional Counselor, Hannah gets the deep complexities of human relationships and specializes in providing therapy to couples, families, and individuals. She is passionate about helping clients build stronger, healthier relationships – relationships that just work and feel better.
Alyse Lange
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, IBCLC
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49006 (Online Only)
I am EMDR certified and have completed additional training in the Gottman method, and treating perinatal mood and anxiety disorders through PSl.
I am passionate about empowering and supporting individuals and couples as they grow. I recognize my clients as experts on their own lives, and assist them as they learn to identify and leverage their strengths to move toward a healthier place. I have experience assisting with: trauma, anxiety, depression, issues that arise throughout pregnancy and the postpartum period, infertility & loss, parenting challenges, relationship conflict, navigating life changes, grief, attachment, phobias, mood disorders, and personality disorders. I have experience working with non-binary and transgender individuals.
I am EMDR certified and have completed additional training in the Gottman method, and treating perinatal mood and anxiety disorders through PSl.
I am passionate about empowering and supporting individuals and couples as they grow. I recognize my clients as experts on their own lives, and assist them as they learn to identify and leverage their strengths to move toward a healthier place. I have experience assisting with: trauma, anxiety, depression, issues that arise throughout pregnancy and the postpartum period, infertility & loss, parenting challenges, relationship conflict, navigating life changes, grief, attachment, phobias, mood disorders, and personality disorders. I have experience working with non-binary and transgender individuals.
Crystal Smith
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Sterling Heights, MI 48314 (Online Only)
Crystal has also completed the Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Crystal is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 15 years in the mental health field working with clients to improve life satisfaction. She specializes in treating adults and children who are struggling with depression, anxiety, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, trauma, abuse, neglect, relationship difficulties, adjustment issues, grief and loss, parenting support, and substance use disorders. Crystal has a Master’s Degree in Counseling with an advanced specialization in treating children and adolescents from Oakland University in Rochester, Michigan.
Crystal has also completed the Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Crystal is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 15 years in the mental health field working with clients to improve life satisfaction. She specializes in treating adults and children who are struggling with depression, anxiety, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, trauma, abuse, neglect, relationship difficulties, adjustment issues, grief and loss, parenting support, and substance use disorders. Crystal has a Master’s Degree in Counseling with an advanced specialization in treating children and adolescents from Oakland University in Rochester, Michigan.
Christine Rice
Counselor, MA, LLC, CCTP, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48309
Christine Rice, MA, LLC, CCTP, EMDR Trained (She / Her) Every person who enters my office comes with their own unique history, identity, strengths and therapy goals. With this focus, I employ a variety of therapeutic approaches including existential therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and the Gottman Method so I can tailor our sessions to your needs. In our sessions, I will use compassion and unconditional positive regard to create a space where you can bring your whole self. I welcome all clients (both couples and individuals).
Christine Rice, MA, LLC, CCTP, EMDR Trained (She / Her) Every person who enters my office comes with their own unique history, identity, strengths and therapy goals. With this focus, I employ a variety of therapeutic approaches including existential therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and the Gottman Method so I can tailor our sessions to your needs. In our sessions, I will use compassion and unconditional positive regard to create a space where you can bring your whole self. I welcome all clients (both couples and individuals).
For couples, I utilize the Gottman Method as a basis for intervention, where I help each couple understand one another in order to work together toward a mutual goal for the relationship.
For whatever reason you are seeking therapy, I want to commend you for taking this first step. I am here for you. For me, the relationship between client and therapist is crucial. It is my goal to create a safe space for my clients to feel comfortable and cared for. Being vulnerable is not easy and having a judgement-free and compassionate environment is essential for us to work together toward your therapy goals.Using a strength-based lens I love to empower my clients to help them recognize their inner strengths. I work from a humanistic approach where I aim to understand my clients from their own identities and upbringing.
For couples, I utilize the Gottman Method as a basis for intervention, where I help each couple understand one another in order to work together toward a mutual goal for the relationship.
For whatever reason you are seeking therapy, I want to commend you for taking this first step. I am here for you. For me, the relationship between client and therapist is crucial. It is my goal to create a safe space for my clients to feel comfortable and cared for. Being vulnerable is not easy and having a judgement-free and compassionate environment is essential for us to work together toward your therapy goals.Using a strength-based lens I love to empower my clients to help them recognize their inner strengths. I work from a humanistic approach where I aim to understand my clients from their own identities and upbringing.
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Jeanette von Grabe Gottman Couples Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Rochester Hills, MI 48306 (Online Only)
As a level three Gottman Method Therapist I have extensive training and experience from the world-renown and leading research-based Gottman Institute.
Are you feeling disconnected, lonely, angry, frustrated or resentful in your marriage? Do you find yourself stuck in the same argument over and over again? Perhaps tough conversations with your partner are a struggle, that only lead to more conflict, or even worse… silence and further disengagement. Let’s break these unhealthy patterns and negative emotional cycles together. Clients have reported that they enjoy working with my warm and compassionate personality combined with my direct and practical approach.
As a level three Gottman Method Therapist I have extensive training and experience from the world-renown and leading research-based Gottman Institute.
Are you feeling disconnected, lonely, angry, frustrated or resentful in your marriage? Do you find yourself stuck in the same argument over and over again? Perhaps tough conversations with your partner are a struggle, that only lead to more conflict, or even worse… silence and further disengagement. Let’s break these unhealthy patterns and negative emotional cycles together. Clients have reported that they enjoy working with my warm and compassionate personality combined with my direct and practical approach.
Also informed by emotionally focused therapy for couples, and the Gottman Method, I help couples quickly identify small changes that can result in significant improvement in the quality of their communication and relationship.
Being a human being can be quite challenging! There's a saying about the mind: 'the mind is a good servant, but a cruel taskmaster!' Many of us never learned how to calm our minds, limit our worrying, and self-soothe. Mindfulness training is one of the most researched methods for learning to do this. My work with individuals helps them to become skilled in this way, and to lessen the grip of attitudes and beliefs that limit us in significant ways. I work with individuals in this way, as well as with groups.
Also informed by emotionally focused therapy for couples, and the Gottman Method, I help couples quickly identify small changes that can result in significant improvement in the quality of their communication and relationship.
Being a human being can be quite challenging! There's a saying about the mind: 'the mind is a good servant, but a cruel taskmaster!' Many of us never learned how to calm our minds, limit our worrying, and self-soothe. Mindfulness training is one of the most researched methods for learning to do this. My work with individuals helps them to become skilled in this way, and to lessen the grip of attitudes and beliefs that limit us in significant ways. I work with individuals in this way, as well as with groups.
Cheryl L. Cooper
Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
Waitlist for new clients
When working with couples and families, I primarily use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method Therapy.
We all face challenges, but we don't need to face them alone. When you struggle with relationship issues, depression/anxiety, or other personal crises, you may feel alone, stuck, and helpless. As your therapist, I will come alongside you and help you to move forward with a greater sense of well-being and empowerment.
When working with couples and families, I primarily use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method Therapy.
We all face challenges, but we don't need to face them alone. When you struggle with relationship issues, depression/anxiety, or other personal crises, you may feel alone, stuck, and helpless. As your therapist, I will come alongside you and help you to move forward with a greater sense of well-being and empowerment.
Alesha Biggs
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Harper Woods, MI 48225
Waitlist for new clients
I am also Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1) trained and certified.
I am excited that you have decided to begin your Self Care Journey and/or work towards Strengthening your Relationships. Today is the perfect day to take control of your life. It is a great time to heal old wounds of Hurt, Guilt, and Disappointment. Let’s challenge negative thinking patterns, beliefs, and experiences by developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms. I want to help guide you in dissolving past and present pains by promoting hope throughout our therapeutic journey. We can work collaboratively to achieve Mental Wellness, Gratitude, and Peace of Mind. I also supervise LLPC's for full licensure.
I am also Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1) trained and certified.
I am excited that you have decided to begin your Self Care Journey and/or work towards Strengthening your Relationships. Today is the perfect day to take control of your life. It is a great time to heal old wounds of Hurt, Guilt, and Disappointment. Let’s challenge negative thinking patterns, beliefs, and experiences by developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms. I want to help guide you in dissolving past and present pains by promoting hope throughout our therapeutic journey. We can work collaboratively to achieve Mental Wellness, Gratitude, and Peace of Mind. I also supervise LLPC's for full licensure.
With training in the Gottman method and coursework from Esther Perel, let's collaborate to develop sustainable steps that guide you towards confidence and growth.
Do you ever wonder if life should be more fulfilling and joyful? Many people grapple with feelings of anxiety and uncertainty about how to navigate their relationships, marriages, careers, & overall lives. Neglecting your own needs and failing to prioritize self-care can have significant long-term consequences for your mental and physical well-being, as well as the health of your relationships. Whether you're facing struggles within your marriage, difficulties in connecting with your partner, or simply seeking more harmony in your relationships, I'm here to help.
With training in the Gottman method and coursework from Esther Perel, let's collaborate to develop sustainable steps that guide you towards confidence and growth.
Do you ever wonder if life should be more fulfilling and joyful? Many people grapple with feelings of anxiety and uncertainty about how to navigate their relationships, marriages, careers, & overall lives. Neglecting your own needs and failing to prioritize self-care can have significant long-term consequences for your mental and physical well-being, as well as the health of your relationships. Whether you're facing struggles within your marriage, difficulties in connecting with your partner, or simply seeking more harmony in your relationships, I'm here to help.
I have also completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couple Therapy.
My heart as a therapist is to create a safe space to help individuals, married couples and families who are navigating life's challenges. My mission is to support and guide them towards healing and personal or spiritual growth. I believe that through counseling, individuals can discover new perspectives, overcome obstacles, and experience a more profound connection with themselves and others. I will work collaboratively with you towards developing positive coping skills, healthy boundaries, and overall well-being.
I have also completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couple Therapy.
My heart as a therapist is to create a safe space to help individuals, married couples and families who are navigating life's challenges. My mission is to support and guide them towards healing and personal or spiritual growth. I believe that through counseling, individuals can discover new perspectives, overcome obstacles, and experience a more profound connection with themselves and others. I will work collaboratively with you towards developing positive coping skills, healthy boundaries, and overall well-being.
Megan Spees
Limited Licensed Psychologist, LLP, CAADC, CCTSI, CSAT-c, CCPS-c
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Novi, MI 48377
I am trained in utilizing the Gottman Method for couple’s therapy, which has been proven effective for over 25 years.
Mental health is just as important as physical health to our overall well-being. I am a Limited Licensed Psychologist and a certified trauma specialist as well as a marriage counselor. I can work with you to develop a wide variety of coping skills to help you work towards your goals of living your best life. Are you noticing mental health symptoms like nightmares, flashbacks, irritability, anxiety, depression or self-harm? I utilize a humanistic, holistic, strength-based approach to help increase your level of tolerance for dealing with these complicated mental health symptoms. I also offer EMDR for the treatment of complex PTSD.
I am trained in utilizing the Gottman Method for couple’s therapy, which has been proven effective for over 25 years.
Mental health is just as important as physical health to our overall well-being. I am a Limited Licensed Psychologist and a certified trauma specialist as well as a marriage counselor. I can work with you to develop a wide variety of coping skills to help you work towards your goals of living your best life. Are you noticing mental health symptoms like nightmares, flashbacks, irritability, anxiety, depression or self-harm? I utilize a humanistic, holistic, strength-based approach to help increase your level of tolerance for dealing with these complicated mental health symptoms. I also offer EMDR for the treatment of complex PTSD.
Jaclyn Cole
Marriage & Family Therapist, R-DMT, LLMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Royal Oak, MI 48073 (Online Only)
My theory of therapy blends Emotionally Focused Therapy, Solution Based Therapy, Attachment Theory and evidence from the Gottman Method.
Our relationships have an enormous impact on our lives, and having tension in our most important relationships can cause tension in all areas of our lives. I understand the importance of resolving the stress in our relationships, and the care and patience it takes to do so. Together, we can help develop the tools to create improved communication and support to work towards healthy connections in life.
My theory of therapy blends Emotionally Focused Therapy, Solution Based Therapy, Attachment Theory and evidence from the Gottman Method.
Our relationships have an enormous impact on our lives, and having tension in our most important relationships can cause tension in all areas of our lives. I understand the importance of resolving the stress in our relationships, and the care and patience it takes to do so. Together, we can help develop the tools to create improved communication and support to work towards healthy connections in life.
Charlene Cloutier-Spiewla
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
South Lyon, MI 48178 (Online Only)
Treatment Approaches: Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Trauma Focused, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, Attachment-based, Culturally-Sensitive, Family Systems, Interpersonal, Psychodynamic, .
Change is possible. Every person deserves the right to a fulfilling life. A life in which their needs are met, they feel safe, secure, and they are able to work towards meeting their full potential. I believe that the foundation of successful therapy is a safe and trusting environment. This is facilitated by creating a relationship built on trust, compassion and communication. My approach to therapy is eclectic, client centered, emotion focused, strength based and evidence based.
Treatment Approaches: Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Trauma Focused, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, Attachment-based, Culturally-Sensitive, Family Systems, Interpersonal, Psychodynamic, .
Change is possible. Every person deserves the right to a fulfilling life. A life in which their needs are met, they feel safe, secure, and they are able to work towards meeting their full potential. I believe that the foundation of successful therapy is a safe and trusting environment. This is facilitated by creating a relationship built on trust, compassion and communication. My approach to therapy is eclectic, client centered, emotion focused, strength based and evidence based.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.