Gottman Method Therapists in Naples, FL

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Jilian Sansone
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34109
I use therapies like EMDR and the Gottman Method to help you build better relationships with yourself and others.
Hi and thank you for being here! As humans, our brains are so resilient that with the right support and tools, we have the power transform ourselves. Trauma and difficulties in important relationships can shape the way we view ourselves and the world around us. Yet, when we have a safe environment to step back and look over these beliefs and experiences, we can decide for ourselves what patterns we want to hold onto and which we want to make new.
I use therapies like EMDR and the Gottman Method to help you build better relationships with yourself and others.
Hi and thank you for being here! As humans, our brains are so resilient that with the right support and tools, we have the power transform ourselves. Trauma and difficulties in important relationships can shape the way we view ourselves and the world around us. Yet, when we have a safe environment to step back and look over these beliefs and experiences, we can decide for ourselves what patterns we want to hold onto and which we want to make new.
(239) 420-6260 View (239) 420-6260
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Cynthia Ochoa Yzaguirre
Counselor, LMHC, NCC, MEd, RYT-200, ADOS
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34103
I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, National Certified Counselor, certified in Mindful Based Stress Reduction, International Nutrition Health Coach, Love & Logic: Supporting Youth with Special Needs TM, Level 1/2 trained w/ Gottman method for couples, & Registered Yoga Teacher.
I have over 30 years of experience in helping individuals of all ages, couples and families learn to survive life's struggles. I have counseled individuals for anxiety, grief, stress, anger, relationship issues and more. I've interned in an adult addiction program, domestic violence program and a healing arts program. Now, serving Lee and Collier Counties, I'm honored to be able to help many more individuals, couples, and families. If you are in the Naples, Fort Myers Beach, or Immokalee areas call me. I look forward to collaborating together with you. I am also available to administer the ADOS-2 assessment for autism.
I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, National Certified Counselor, certified in Mindful Based Stress Reduction, International Nutrition Health Coach, Love & Logic: Supporting Youth with Special Needs TM, Level 1/2 trained w/ Gottman method for couples, & Registered Yoga Teacher.
I have over 30 years of experience in helping individuals of all ages, couples and families learn to survive life's struggles. I have counseled individuals for anxiety, grief, stress, anger, relationship issues and more. I've interned in an adult addiction program, domestic violence program and a healing arts program. Now, serving Lee and Collier Counties, I'm honored to be able to help many more individuals, couples, and families. If you are in the Naples, Fort Myers Beach, or Immokalee areas call me. I look forward to collaborating together with you. I am also available to administer the ADOS-2 assessment for autism.
(239) 208-5193 View (239) 208-5193
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Dorimar Arroyo
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34116
I use different methods such as evidence based cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, solution focused brief therapy, motivational interviewing methods, attachment based, Gottman method, and mindfulness based among other techniques to assist my clients to create insights.
My ideal client struggles with insecurities, fears, has low self- esteem, and difficulties to identify his or her strengths. He or she has fears, and anxieties, and create the worst possible case scenarios in his or her inner dialogue for situations that he or she finds threatening or challenging. Also my ideal client needs to identify strategies to better manage their time. My ideal client struggles with anxieties in his or her relationship, which could lead to codependency and anxious attachment patterns.
I use different methods such as evidence based cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, solution focused brief therapy, motivational interviewing methods, attachment based, Gottman method, and mindfulness based among other techniques to assist my clients to create insights.
My ideal client struggles with insecurities, fears, has low self- esteem, and difficulties to identify his or her strengths. He or she has fears, and anxieties, and create the worst possible case scenarios in his or her inner dialogue for situations that he or she finds threatening or challenging. Also my ideal client needs to identify strategies to better manage their time. My ideal client struggles with anxieties in his or her relationship, which could lead to codependency and anxious attachment patterns.
(239) 420-9071 View (239) 420-9071
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Daniel Menely
Counselor, LMHC, MA, MFA
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34102  (Online Only)
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, dealing with repetitive conflict, and wanting to connect better.
As your therapist, I provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit there – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that are bothering you in your everyday life, be it challenges with relationships, work, or family. Whether our work is one-on-one, with you two as a couple, my clients gain valuable insights and practical tools to get unstuck and move forward. Imagine leaving each session feeling understood, empowered, and equipped to navigate life with confidence.
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, dealing with repetitive conflict, and wanting to connect better.
As your therapist, I provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit there – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that are bothering you in your everyday life, be it challenges with relationships, work, or family. Whether our work is one-on-one, with you two as a couple, my clients gain valuable insights and practical tools to get unstuck and move forward. Imagine leaving each session feeling understood, empowered, and equipped to navigate life with confidence.
(321) 321-9541 View (321) 321-9541
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Peg Walsh
APRN, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34103  (Online Only)
I combine Sex Therapy with the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy to help couples improve their closeness and communication.
Phone and Teleconferencing are now being used during the pandemic. This is a good time to work on issues that you and your partner may have been too busy to focus on before. Are you anxious or depressed? Do you want to create a better life for yourself but you are unsure how to make the changes you want? Are you in a relationship where the fighting is becoming greater than the satisfaction of being with your partner? Have you or your partner had an affair? Is your sex life a disappointment? Are you and your partner experiencing the intimacy you yearn for inside and outside the bedroom? Are you struggling with sexual pain?
I combine Sex Therapy with the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy to help couples improve their closeness and communication.
Phone and Teleconferencing are now being used during the pandemic. This is a good time to work on issues that you and your partner may have been too busy to focus on before. Are you anxious or depressed? Do you want to create a better life for yourself but you are unsure how to make the changes you want? Are you in a relationship where the fighting is becoming greater than the satisfaction of being with your partner? Have you or your partner had an affair? Is your sex life a disappointment? Are you and your partner experiencing the intimacy you yearn for inside and outside the bedroom? Are you struggling with sexual pain?
(347) 514-6767 View (347) 514-6767
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Diana M Salazar
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, RPT-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34108
I use multiple therapeutic modalities such as but not limited to, Play Therapy, Sand Tray Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
I provide individual, couple's and family therapy to children, adolescents, adults and families experiencing emotional, behavioral, and/or social difficulties. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Registered Play Therapist and Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapist with more than ten years of experience. I co-founded Sunshine State Counseling Center. In my practice, I empower individuals to build and develop their inner strengths by providing compassionate, ethical and professional therapeutic services.
I use multiple therapeutic modalities such as but not limited to, Play Therapy, Sand Tray Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
I provide individual, couple's and family therapy to children, adolescents, adults and families experiencing emotional, behavioral, and/or social difficulties. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Registered Play Therapist and Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapist with more than ten years of experience. I co-founded Sunshine State Counseling Center. In my practice, I empower individuals to build and develop their inner strengths by providing compassionate, ethical and professional therapeutic services.
(239) 208-0959 View (239) 208-0959
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Ismary Lopez
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 33961  (Online Only)
I am also Level 2 trained in Gottman Method Couples Counseling and facilitated groups surrounding anxiety.
Hi. I’m Ismary a bi-lingual licensed therapist who specializes in emotional and behavioral challenges. I recognize that suffering from depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder can feel very lonely and troubling. At times, many may feel they have nowhere to turn. I provide a safe and healing environment that promotes and supports the inner strengths and skills you already possess. I have worked in a variety of settings with clients that experienced impactful life changing events causing them unwelcomed distress.
I am also Level 2 trained in Gottman Method Couples Counseling and facilitated groups surrounding anxiety.
Hi. I’m Ismary a bi-lingual licensed therapist who specializes in emotional and behavioral challenges. I recognize that suffering from depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder can feel very lonely and troubling. At times, many may feel they have nowhere to turn. I provide a safe and healing environment that promotes and supports the inner strengths and skills you already possess. I have worked in a variety of settings with clients that experienced impactful life changing events causing them unwelcomed distress.
(239) 230-4289 View (239) 230-4289
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Natalia German
Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern, IMH2370
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34102
Natalia German is a Clinical Mental Health Registered Intern with the state of Florida, working towards her Clinical Licensure. Natalia earned her bachelor’s degree from Capella University. Recently, she completed her master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Liberty University. Natalia has previous experience working with children in the school setting in Collier County, where she was a student intern. Natalia has experience being a victim’s advocate/counselor with Project HELP since May of 2022. She has seen clients across the lifespan presenting with grief, victimization, depression, PTSD, and relational distress.
Natalia German is a Clinical Mental Health Registered Intern with the state of Florida, working towards her Clinical Licensure. Natalia earned her bachelor’s degree from Capella University. Recently, she completed her master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Liberty University. Natalia has previous experience working with children in the school setting in Collier County, where she was a student intern. Natalia has experience being a victim’s advocate/counselor with Project HELP since May of 2022. She has seen clients across the lifespan presenting with grief, victimization, depression, PTSD, and relational distress.
(239) 329-7922 View (239) 329-7922
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Eva Smidova
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhDr, LMFT, LGBTQA+, CTCT, PhD
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34103
Dear client, YOU ARE MY SPECIALTY! Let me help you get the most out of your life, relationships, and career. I am a skilled psychotherapist, counselor, certified transgender care therapist, and hypnotherapist with an international experience. My areas of emphasis are: psychotherapy with couples, families, individuals, children and teens, LGB and Transgender care, relational concerns, infidelity, sexual therapy, parenting challenges, personal growth, self-esteem and empowerment, mind and body connection work, transitions of life/career/family, anxiety and depression, death, loss and grief, trauma. Successful therapy is about you feeling better, changed, balanced, satisfied, challenged, glowing YOU!
Dear client, YOU ARE MY SPECIALTY! Let me help you get the most out of your life, relationships, and career. I am a skilled psychotherapist, counselor, certified transgender care therapist, and hypnotherapist with an international experience. My areas of emphasis are: psychotherapy with couples, families, individuals, children and teens, LGB and Transgender care, relational concerns, infidelity, sexual therapy, parenting challenges, personal growth, self-esteem and empowerment, mind and body connection work, transitions of life/career/family, anxiety and depression, death, loss and grief, trauma. Successful therapy is about you feeling better, changed, balanced, satisfied, challenged, glowing YOU!
(239) 247-4231 View (239) 247-4231
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Stan J. Strycharz
Psychologist, PsyD, MS, MDiv
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34108
As a licensed clinical psychologist, I have over 20 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families from various backgrounds. I am trained by leading experts in the science of Couples Therapy, Drs. Julie and John Gottman of the Gottman Institute and Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy. I also offer Mentoring and Executive Coaching for personal and professional progress, performance and transformation through life transitions and career changes. My approach to treatment is supportive, collaborative and based on engaging your personal strengths and inner resources.
As a licensed clinical psychologist, I have over 20 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families from various backgrounds. I am trained by leading experts in the science of Couples Therapy, Drs. Julie and John Gottman of the Gottman Institute and Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy. I also offer Mentoring and Executive Coaching for personal and professional progress, performance and transformation through life transitions and career changes. My approach to treatment is supportive, collaborative and based on engaging your personal strengths and inner resources.
(239) 260-4252 View (239) 260-4252
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Molli E. Mercer
Counselor, EdD, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34119
I earned my master's degree in Couples and Family Counseling and my doctorate in Counselor Education and Supervision. Whether you are an individual struggling with anxiety, depression, or substance abuse, a couple experiencing a loss of intimacy, or a child adjusting to life transitions, I can help you develop the best solutions to your problems. I specialize in building healthy relationships, healthy expressions of sexuality and sex positivity, play therapy, and utilize a solution-focused approach. I am passionate about working with people from all walks of life to help them move toward the healthiest versions of themselves.
I earned my master's degree in Couples and Family Counseling and my doctorate in Counselor Education and Supervision. Whether you are an individual struggling with anxiety, depression, or substance abuse, a couple experiencing a loss of intimacy, or a child adjusting to life transitions, I can help you develop the best solutions to your problems. I specialize in building healthy relationships, healthy expressions of sexuality and sex positivity, play therapy, and utilize a solution-focused approach. I am passionate about working with people from all walks of life to help them move toward the healthiest versions of themselves.
(239) 572-0974 View (239) 572-0974
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Carol Cirabisi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34102
We all want to feel connected, right? To feel we belong and are seen, understood, valued and accepted for who we are. Often, how we protect ourselves from our own fears and vulnerabilities keeps us from allowing others to really know who we are. We hide our tender hearts and limit our true selves, for fear of being hurt. However, in doing so, we live "small;" our lives and our relationships can become diminished, unsatisfying, and hopeless. Wouldn't you rather live in truth, shining your brightest light?
We all want to feel connected, right? To feel we belong and are seen, understood, valued and accepted for who we are. Often, how we protect ourselves from our own fears and vulnerabilities keeps us from allowing others to really know who we are. We hide our tender hearts and limit our true selves, for fear of being hurt. However, in doing so, we live "small;" our lives and our relationships can become diminished, unsatisfying, and hopeless. Wouldn't you rather live in truth, shining your brightest light?
(239) 471-4469 View (239) 471-4469
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Dr. Lourdes Araujo (Se Habla Español)
Counselor, EdD, LMHC, MS, CIT
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34112  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Embrace Mental Health Wellness: Your Journey Starts Now! Engaging clients at their unique life stages, I apply therapeutic techniques rooted in clinical expertise to facilitate growth and well-being. With over 15 years of experience spanning Trauma, PTSD, Domestic Violence, and mood disorders, including working with children through teenagers, my holistic approach integrates evidence-based practices to alleviate symptoms and enhance quality of life. Trust in a multicultural counselor who warmly welcomes you to embark on your first day of healing!
Embrace Mental Health Wellness: Your Journey Starts Now! Engaging clients at their unique life stages, I apply therapeutic techniques rooted in clinical expertise to facilitate growth and well-being. With over 15 years of experience spanning Trauma, PTSD, Domestic Violence, and mood disorders, including working with children through teenagers, my holistic approach integrates evidence-based practices to alleviate symptoms and enhance quality of life. Trust in a multicultural counselor who warmly welcomes you to embark on your first day of healing!
(239) 230-3608 View (239) 230-3608
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Alison M. Slater, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34108  (Online Only)
Whether struggling with a specific challenge in life or relationship, or continuing your growth on the ever-expanding spiritual path of life, it is my passion to share this journey with you. I believe strongly in the mind-body connection and utilize mindfulness-based techniques (such as meditation, visualization and body awareness) united with elements of more traditional modalities. Encompassing a holistic approach to therapy, all aspects of the client's life are included to increase balance and self-awareness, identify personal therapeutic goals, and then to co-create the most enriching path toward optimal health.
Whether struggling with a specific challenge in life or relationship, or continuing your growth on the ever-expanding spiritual path of life, it is my passion to share this journey with you. I believe strongly in the mind-body connection and utilize mindfulness-based techniques (such as meditation, visualization and body awareness) united with elements of more traditional modalities. Encompassing a holistic approach to therapy, all aspects of the client's life are included to increase balance and self-awareness, identify personal therapeutic goals, and then to co-create the most enriching path toward optimal health.
(239) 747-1044 View (239) 747-1044
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Conscious Choices
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34102
We are dedicated to providing Relationship Counseling, Individual Psychotherapy and other Supportive Services to help you become who you were born to be, so that you can create the relationships you desire and live the life you deserve.
We are dedicated to providing Relationship Counseling, Individual Psychotherapy and other Supportive Services to help you become who you were born to be, so that you can create the relationships you desire and live the life you deserve.
(239) 674-0776 View (239) 674-0776
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Rebecca Torres
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34108
Are you battling addictions, anxiety, or depression? Are you experiencing conflict in your marriage, family, or with challenging teens? I use EMDR, brain health, and holistic focused therapy to support your needs. Alongside my Master’s level education in Mental Health Counseling, I have 27 years of experience mentoring teens and working with couples and families. This has equipped me with the wisdom and compassion to approach therapy and coaching through the lenses of empathy, care, non-judgment. I have additional experience with couples, individuals, trauma, addictions, relationships, anxiety, depression, grief, and self-esteem.
Are you battling addictions, anxiety, or depression? Are you experiencing conflict in your marriage, family, or with challenging teens? I use EMDR, brain health, and holistic focused therapy to support your needs. Alongside my Master’s level education in Mental Health Counseling, I have 27 years of experience mentoring teens and working with couples and families. This has equipped me with the wisdom and compassion to approach therapy and coaching through the lenses of empathy, care, non-judgment. I have additional experience with couples, individuals, trauma, addictions, relationships, anxiety, depression, grief, and self-esteem.
(239) 230-3873 View (239) 230-3873
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Ann Mcclorey Fisher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34103
I work with individuals, couples and families - including children and adolescents - using a strength-based and solution-focused approach. You may be experiencing problems in a relationship, concerns about a child, anxiety, depression, loss or life transition, struggles with addiction or a history of trauma. Or you may be feeling a vague dissatisfaction with your life. Together, we will clarify personal goals and create a plan for change that develops resilience, restores a sense of balance and brings joy into your life.
I work with individuals, couples and families - including children and adolescents - using a strength-based and solution-focused approach. You may be experiencing problems in a relationship, concerns about a child, anxiety, depression, loss or life transition, struggles with addiction or a history of trauma. Or you may be feeling a vague dissatisfaction with your life. Together, we will clarify personal goals and create a plan for change that develops resilience, restores a sense of balance and brings joy into your life.
(781) 328-6329 View (781) 328-6329
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Brighton Heart Healing Ctr therapy/hypnotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MSW, LCSW, ACHT
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34102  (Online Only)
Healing Hearts through Heart Centered Psychotherapy, Hypnotherapy and Coaching has been my passion and my profession for the past 30 plus years. I combine my credentials, training and skills as a Counselor, Clinical Social Worker, Clinical Sexologist, Traumatologist, Coach, Ordained Minister, Energy Healer, Yoga, Qigong, Meditation and Food Healing Instructor to co-create an innovative, holistic, therapeutic plan for a life by design, with and for YOU. Together we will rapidly and effectively Heal Your Past, Embrace The Present and Create Your Future!
Healing Hearts through Heart Centered Psychotherapy, Hypnotherapy and Coaching has been my passion and my profession for the past 30 plus years. I combine my credentials, training and skills as a Counselor, Clinical Social Worker, Clinical Sexologist, Traumatologist, Coach, Ordained Minister, Energy Healer, Yoga, Qigong, Meditation and Food Healing Instructor to co-create an innovative, holistic, therapeutic plan for a life by design, with and for YOU. Together we will rapidly and effectively Heal Your Past, Embrace The Present and Create Your Future!
(239) 235-3381 View (239) 235-3381
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Betcy Walter
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Naples, FL 34109
Could you use specialized therapy to address life stress management, triggers, and dissociation? Would you like to feel more in control? Betcy has intensive training in working with complex trauma, addictions, trauma resolution protocols, and relational issues. Whether you have had/have painful romantic relationships, a difficult childhood, are battling addiction, or have survived abuse, past events do not need to keep you from the life you want. Betcy uses research based treatment and works with her clients to not only help alleviate the distress, but help them feel empowered to make choices and changes for themselves.
Could you use specialized therapy to address life stress management, triggers, and dissociation? Would you like to feel more in control? Betcy has intensive training in working with complex trauma, addictions, trauma resolution protocols, and relational issues. Whether you have had/have painful romantic relationships, a difficult childhood, are battling addiction, or have survived abuse, past events do not need to keep you from the life you want. Betcy uses research based treatment and works with her clients to not only help alleviate the distress, but help them feel empowered to make choices and changes for themselves.
(239) 734-7809 View (239) 734-7809
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Brenda Woods
Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Naples, FL 34116
My name is Brenda Woods and I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in the Tampa Bay Area. I work with Children and specialize in Anxiety, Stress, Depression, PTSD, and Self-esteem using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Spirituality, and Mindfulness Therapy in order to help my clients make progress toward their goals. I have found that my style and approach are a good fit for Adults, both single and married. I work to help my clients navigate the muddy waters of being newly married, along with being new parents as well. Their difficulties will take the form of Anxiety, Depression, and can lead to separation and divorce.
My name is Brenda Woods and I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in the Tampa Bay Area. I work with Children and specialize in Anxiety, Stress, Depression, PTSD, and Self-esteem using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Spirituality, and Mindfulness Therapy in order to help my clients make progress toward their goals. I have found that my style and approach are a good fit for Adults, both single and married. I work to help my clients navigate the muddy waters of being newly married, along with being new parents as well. Their difficulties will take the form of Anxiety, Depression, and can lead to separation and divorce.
(321) 467-7093 View (321) 467-7093
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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.