Gottman Method Therapists in Newport Beach, CA
Laura Weber
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I am experienced in various therapeutic approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, trauma-informed, as well as LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent affirming therapy.
I understand that life can be challenging, and at some point, we all face a few struggles. Whether it's dealing with depression, anxiety, adjusting to a new phase in life, coping with loss, or navigating relationships, I'm here to offer you the extra support you need. I believe that therapy should be tailored to your unique life experiences because we all have different stories to tell. My goal is to provide you with a safe and supportive environment where you can openly talk about your struggles and work through them. Together, we'll collaborate to find solutions that are tailored to fit you and your life.
I am experienced in various therapeutic approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, trauma-informed, as well as LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent affirming therapy.
I understand that life can be challenging, and at some point, we all face a few struggles. Whether it's dealing with depression, anxiety, adjusting to a new phase in life, coping with loss, or navigating relationships, I'm here to offer you the extra support you need. I believe that therapy should be tailored to your unique life experiences because we all have different stories to tell. My goal is to provide you with a safe and supportive environment where you can openly talk about your struggles and work through them. Together, we'll collaborate to find solutions that are tailored to fit you and your life.
Heather Lohmiller
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method for couples, I help clients break unhealthy cycles, rebuild self-esteem, and create stronger, healthier relationships.
Many people, like you, come to therapy feeling hopeless, uncertain of what kind of support they need, and afraid to ask for help. You might feel depleted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from your own sense of self. Whether it's managing the emotional toll of a loved one’s addiction or facing challenges with personal boundaries or self-worth, therapy provides the support and tools necessary to foster healthier, more balanced relationships. You want to feel empowered, emotionally balanced, and confident in setting boundaries, with better self-worth and the ability to nurture relationships that are mutually supportive and fulfilling.
Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method for couples, I help clients break unhealthy cycles, rebuild self-esteem, and create stronger, healthier relationships.
Many people, like you, come to therapy feeling hopeless, uncertain of what kind of support they need, and afraid to ask for help. You might feel depleted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from your own sense of self. Whether it's managing the emotional toll of a loved one’s addiction or facing challenges with personal boundaries or self-worth, therapy provides the support and tools necessary to foster healthier, more balanced relationships. You want to feel empowered, emotionally balanced, and confident in setting boundaries, with better self-worth and the ability to nurture relationships that are mutually supportive and fulfilling.
Using the research based Gottman Method in my work with couples, I also draw from Cognitive Behavioral & Solution Focused therapies as well.
If you have tried to resolve relationship issues or other life complications on your own and things still haven't changed, I can help get you to where you want to go. I specialize in working with adults (individuals & couples) regarding relationship conflicts, anxiety, depression, divorce, parenting problems and difficult life transitions. Every client is different and your treatment plan will be personalized to meet your needs. We will work together to develop the strategies that will be most effective for you.
Using the research based Gottman Method in my work with couples, I also draw from Cognitive Behavioral & Solution Focused therapies as well.
If you have tried to resolve relationship issues or other life complications on your own and things still haven't changed, I can help get you to where you want to go. I specialize in working with adults (individuals & couples) regarding relationship conflicts, anxiety, depression, divorce, parenting problems and difficult life transitions. Every client is different and your treatment plan will be personalized to meet your needs. We will work together to develop the strategies that will be most effective for you.
Jane Goldberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, REAT, CET
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660
Congratulations! You are taking the first step in moving your life forward by visiting my profile. With 37 years experience in this field, I want to celebrate your life's journey and be a catalyst for your awakening to new levels of well-being. I have many tools to assist you, from Law of Attraction, Attachment Theory and Neuroplasticity, CBT, Dreamwork, Voice Dialogue, Gottman Method, Jungian Archetypal Stories, to all the Expressive Arts Therapies - Art, Writing, Poetry, Music, Dance, Drama, Guided Imagery, Sand-Tray, Myth and Ritual. My deepest desire is to be present for you as you open the doors to your dreams.
Congratulations! You are taking the first step in moving your life forward by visiting my profile. With 37 years experience in this field, I want to celebrate your life's journey and be a catalyst for your awakening to new levels of well-being. I have many tools to assist you, from Law of Attraction, Attachment Theory and Neuroplasticity, CBT, Dreamwork, Voice Dialogue, Gottman Method, Jungian Archetypal Stories, to all the Expressive Arts Therapies - Art, Writing, Poetry, Music, Dance, Drama, Guided Imagery, Sand-Tray, Myth and Ritual. My deepest desire is to be present for you as you open the doors to your dreams.
Amber S. Sibbett - Emdr Certified
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I have a high success rate in my therapy work, with clients reporting that their negative symptoms are dramatically decreasing and their quality of life is increasing. I enjoy working with individuals and couples whether in person or via online (Telehealth). I use the Gottman method when working with couples and am certified in EMDR therapy which dramatically compliments most individual therapy sessions. I have completed my academic portion for my doctorate in Forensic Psychology and I’m currently working on my dissertation which should be completed this winter of 2024.
I have a high success rate in my therapy work, with clients reporting that their negative symptoms are dramatically decreasing and their quality of life is increasing. I enjoy working with individuals and couples whether in person or via online (Telehealth). I use the Gottman method when working with couples and am certified in EMDR therapy which dramatically compliments most individual therapy sessions. I have completed my academic portion for my doctorate in Forensic Psychology and I’m currently working on my dissertation which should be completed this winter of 2024.
Taylor Hoyt
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I have spent the last year working at the Mariposa Center in a school-based program with adolescents and a community-based program with adults. I specialize in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, gender, and sexual identity. I am now in a small group practice where I provide services to individuals and couples. I am a Level 3 Trained Gottman Method Therapist to work with adults and couples as they navigate the many aspects of sexual dysfunction, intimacy issues, and family dynamics.
I have spent the last year working at the Mariposa Center in a school-based program with adolescents and a community-based program with adults. I specialize in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, gender, and sexual identity. I am now in a small group practice where I provide services to individuals and couples. I am a Level 3 Trained Gottman Method Therapist to work with adults and couples as they navigate the many aspects of sexual dysfunction, intimacy issues, and family dynamics.
I specialize in providing compassionate and scientifically supported individual psychotherapy and am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I consider it a privilege to do the work I do—in fact, helping others heal, grow, and thrive every day brings great meaning to my life. I know from personal experience how life can sometimes feel unbearable. I also know from personal experience what it is like to work closely with a gifted psychologist to create a new perspective and a new life that are even better than before. I am passionate about providing the highest-quality mental health services to each of my clients and would love the opportunity to support you through this time.
I specialize in providing compassionate and scientifically supported individual psychotherapy and am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I consider it a privilege to do the work I do—in fact, helping others heal, grow, and thrive every day brings great meaning to my life. I know from personal experience how life can sometimes feel unbearable. I also know from personal experience what it is like to work closely with a gifted psychologist to create a new perspective and a new life that are even better than before. I am passionate about providing the highest-quality mental health services to each of my clients and would love the opportunity to support you through this time.
Allison Rodgers
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I use techniques from PACT, The Developmental Model, The Gottman Method and many others to weave together a roadmap that helps create security for both partners and teaches new ways to communicate, manage conflict and understand one another.
As my favorite mentor says, "Nothing is more difficult than another person." Even if you are amongst the luckiest out there and find your relationship to be effortless, chances are even you have periods where you and your partner are challenged to find your way through a difficult time. It comes with the territory; relationships are hard. If you are in one of those times or are in a chapter in your story where you cannot find your way back to a balanced coexistence, it's time to get support. Do not wait. These things do not fix themselves. Finding relief now gives you a chance to enjoy one another again, sooner than later.
I use techniques from PACT, The Developmental Model, The Gottman Method and many others to weave together a roadmap that helps create security for both partners and teaches new ways to communicate, manage conflict and understand one another.
As my favorite mentor says, "Nothing is more difficult than another person." Even if you are amongst the luckiest out there and find your relationship to be effortless, chances are even you have periods where you and your partner are challenged to find your way through a difficult time. It comes with the territory; relationships are hard. If you are in one of those times or are in a chapter in your story where you cannot find your way back to a balanced coexistence, it's time to get support. Do not wait. These things do not fix themselves. Finding relief now gives you a chance to enjoy one another again, sooner than later.
Anna Karin Bjorklund
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92663
I'm a dream therapist, a trained EMDR-therapist, a certified trauma-sensitive HeartMath provider, and I've completed Lvl 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Psychodynamic, EMDR-trained, heart-centered, mindfulness-based therapist: I work primarily with women, including executives, creatives, wellness professionals and mothers. I help you process anxiety, trauma, uncertainty, low self-worth, boundaries, perfectionism, and questions around identity/purpose. With compassion and mindfulness, I gently guide you to a serene space for deeper self-knowledge, higher awareness, and deeper connection. I invite you to listen to your dreams as you explore limiting beliefs and unconscious patterns that may hold you back. Healing can come from many places, most importantly from your own heart.
I'm a dream therapist, a trained EMDR-therapist, a certified trauma-sensitive HeartMath provider, and I've completed Lvl 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Psychodynamic, EMDR-trained, heart-centered, mindfulness-based therapist: I work primarily with women, including executives, creatives, wellness professionals and mothers. I help you process anxiety, trauma, uncertainty, low self-worth, boundaries, perfectionism, and questions around identity/purpose. With compassion and mindfulness, I gently guide you to a serene space for deeper self-knowledge, higher awareness, and deeper connection. I invite you to listen to your dreams as you explore limiting beliefs and unconscious patterns that may hold you back. Healing can come from many places, most importantly from your own heart.
Natalie (Nat) Newton
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660 (Online Only)
I’m trained in Gottman Method for couples and the gold-standard treatment for insomnia proven better than medication, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I).
Our hands were empty except for our hands. (Ocean Vuong, On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous) I work well with people of color, LGBTQs, and genderqueer people struggling with burn out and navigating career challenges. I approach therapy as a form of "ethical listening" to feelings, dreams, thoughts, and anxieties. Here is a safe landing pad to slow things down to hear out how you feel in moments of distress with others. I help clients out of chronic anxiety through boundary skills and grieving unresolved losses in order to set you free. I see clients via telehealth only in California.
I’m trained in Gottman Method for couples and the gold-standard treatment for insomnia proven better than medication, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I).
Our hands were empty except for our hands. (Ocean Vuong, On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous) I work well with people of color, LGBTQs, and genderqueer people struggling with burn out and navigating career challenges. I approach therapy as a form of "ethical listening" to feelings, dreams, thoughts, and anxieties. Here is a safe landing pad to slow things down to hear out how you feel in moments of distress with others. I help clients out of chronic anxiety through boundary skills and grieving unresolved losses in order to set you free. I see clients via telehealth only in California.
I use Gottman Method Couples Therapy and all the research and tools that come with it.
You've realized your relationship isn't getting better, it's getting worse. Just when you think things are more peaceful, a difficult topic comes up, and the conversation devolves into another argument. You can't talk about anything important, important to you at least. When you do try to talk again, one of you feels defensive with strong emotions, the other of you feels disrespected or picked on. How do you communicate if you can't get past the start of a conversation? Your partner feels too fragile, so you just shut down to protect yourself and your partner from difficult emotions.
I use Gottman Method Couples Therapy and all the research and tools that come with it.
You've realized your relationship isn't getting better, it's getting worse. Just when you think things are more peaceful, a difficult topic comes up, and the conversation devolves into another argument. You can't talk about anything important, important to you at least. When you do try to talk again, one of you feels defensive with strong emotions, the other of you feels disrespected or picked on. How do you communicate if you can't get past the start of a conversation? Your partner feels too fragile, so you just shut down to protect yourself and your partner from difficult emotions.
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Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92663
I am advanced trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and an Educator for The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman.
If you are suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, or PTSD symptoms, relief is possible. I will help you learn to reduce the impact and influence of unwanted thoughts and learn to develop the capacity to observe and feel and make use of your emotional and physical experience. I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), exposure therapy, mindfulness, and somatic psychotherapy to help you learn to stop fighting with your feelings and thoughts, and allow them to come and go without a struggle. This frees up energy to live a full, rich, connected life. You can overcome panic and anxiety and heal and grow after trauma.
I am advanced trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and an Educator for The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman.
If you are suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, or PTSD symptoms, relief is possible. I will help you learn to reduce the impact and influence of unwanted thoughts and learn to develop the capacity to observe and feel and make use of your emotional and physical experience. I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), exposure therapy, mindfulness, and somatic psychotherapy to help you learn to stop fighting with your feelings and thoughts, and allow them to come and go without a struggle. This frees up energy to live a full, rich, connected life. You can overcome panic and anxiety and heal and grow after trauma.
Pillow Talk Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, she/her
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92657 (Online Only)
I have training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Couples and Sex Therapy through American Association of Couples and Sex Therapy, and Internal Family Systems.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! Schedule free 15 min consultation at www.pillowtalktherapy.com to start! Couples/Relationship Therapy (LGBTQIA+ and poly/kink affirming), Sex Therapy (physical/emotional issues affecting sexual relationship), Trauma (IFS); PRIVATE PAY ONLY (can provide superbill but cannot guarantee insurance payment). Currently offering telehealth only for clients within California and Florida.
I have training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Couples and Sex Therapy through American Association of Couples and Sex Therapy, and Internal Family Systems.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! Schedule free 15 min consultation at www.pillowtalktherapy.com to start! Couples/Relationship Therapy (LGBTQIA+ and poly/kink affirming), Sex Therapy (physical/emotional issues affecting sexual relationship), Trauma (IFS); PRIVATE PAY ONLY (can provide superbill but cannot guarantee insurance payment). Currently offering telehealth only for clients within California and Florida.
Desiree Gonzalez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92657 (Online Only)
I specialize in adult and couples therapy, using the Gottman Method to help couples improve communication and connection.
My ideal clients are adults and couples who are navigating life’s challenges, whether they are facing overwhelming stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, or a sense of disconnection from themselves or others. Many of them feel stuck, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of how to move forward. They may be seeking a deeper understanding of themselves, improved communication with a partner, or relief from persistent emotional struggles. Their goal is to restore balance, regain control over their lives, and create stronger, more meaningful connections with their loved ones and within themselves.
I specialize in adult and couples therapy, using the Gottman Method to help couples improve communication and connection.
My ideal clients are adults and couples who are navigating life’s challenges, whether they are facing overwhelming stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, or a sense of disconnection from themselves or others. Many of them feel stuck, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of how to move forward. They may be seeking a deeper understanding of themselves, improved communication with a partner, or relief from persistent emotional struggles. Their goal is to restore balance, regain control over their lives, and create stronger, more meaningful connections with their loved ones and within themselves.
Lynelle S. Kearney
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660 (Online Only)
I am a Telehealth Therapist serving CA, OR, and WA State. I work with teens, adults, couples/partners and families. I utilize research backed therapies in my practice including but not limited to Internal Family Systems, EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
I am a Telehealth Therapist serving CA, OR, and WA State. I work with teens, adults, couples/partners and families. I utilize research backed therapies in my practice including but not limited to Internal Family Systems, EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
With couples I often use Emotionally Focused Therapy, The Gottman Method, and Imago Relationship Therapy.
At some point we all struggle to adjustment to life's changes; it's normal to feel stuck and I believe people have what it takes to adjust. For the past 20 years, I have been working with children and teens who are struggling to balance the demands of school and their social life. I integrate parents in my work as much as possible. I also work with adults and Couples often come to me for help in distress and are confused about how or why their relationship has derailed. I am dedicated to helping people build stronger; more intimate relationships and I use several modalities when attempting to help couples in distress.
With couples I often use Emotionally Focused Therapy, The Gottman Method, and Imago Relationship Therapy.
At some point we all struggle to adjustment to life's changes; it's normal to feel stuck and I believe people have what it takes to adjust. For the past 20 years, I have been working with children and teens who are struggling to balance the demands of school and their social life. I integrate parents in my work as much as possible. I also work with adults and Couples often come to me for help in distress and are confused about how or why their relationship has derailed. I am dedicated to helping people build stronger; more intimate relationships and I use several modalities when attempting to help couples in distress.
Alison Lynn Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
Frustrated with your: relationship? sex life? child? I am trained in 2nd level, Gottman Method, a specialty that started with couples. John Gottman, the author of, "7 Principles of Marriage," is known for predicting divorce with 90% accuracy, has been influential over my career. The Gottman Method has transformed my practice to focusing on couples, parenting, and children. If you're looking for guidance through a challenging situation with your children, partner or anyone else, I look forward to working with you to accomplish your goals.
Frustrated with your: relationship? sex life? child? I am trained in 2nd level, Gottman Method, a specialty that started with couples. John Gottman, the author of, "7 Principles of Marriage," is known for predicting divorce with 90% accuracy, has been influential over my career. The Gottman Method has transformed my practice to focusing on couples, parenting, and children. If you're looking for guidance through a challenging situation with your children, partner or anyone else, I look forward to working with you to accomplish your goals.
Adriaan J van Zyl
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, AMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92659 (Online Only)
Combining Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I focus on delivering actionable solutions that address root causes, not just symptoms.
Understanding the unique challenges faced by individuals and couples today, I am dedicated to helping you navigate these complexities toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, and stress management, while also enhancing relationships through improved communication and conflict resolution for couples.
Combining Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I focus on delivering actionable solutions that address root causes, not just symptoms.
Understanding the unique challenges faced by individuals and couples today, I am dedicated to helping you navigate these complexities toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, and stress management, while also enhancing relationships through improved communication and conflict resolution for couples.
Kristiana Guzman
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92657
I employ an eclectic theoretical orientation, drawing from cognitive-behavioral, narrative, systems, trauma informed techniques such as EMDR and Gottman Method of couples therapy.
Do you struggle with feelings of inadequacy? Are your past experiences obstructing your thoughts regularly? Do you relive past traumatic experiences in your mind? My priority as a therapist is to help you develop skills and resilience in order to not only cultivate healing in your present, but to also ensure that you have tools for the future. I see couples and individuals who want help reconnecting, managing conflict, navigate the complexities of cultural expectations, talking through hurts and identifying what's standing in the way of them effectively communicating their needs.
I employ an eclectic theoretical orientation, drawing from cognitive-behavioral, narrative, systems, trauma informed techniques such as EMDR and Gottman Method of couples therapy.
Do you struggle with feelings of inadequacy? Are your past experiences obstructing your thoughts regularly? Do you relive past traumatic experiences in your mind? My priority as a therapist is to help you develop skills and resilience in order to not only cultivate healing in your present, but to also ensure that you have tools for the future. I see couples and individuals who want help reconnecting, managing conflict, navigate the complexities of cultural expectations, talking through hurts and identifying what's standing in the way of them effectively communicating their needs.
Regina Bernius
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92661
Need a marriage counselor or couples therapist? Let me help you create a happier relationship! Keeping relationships and marriages gratifying can be very challenging. Maybe, despite your shared love, the demands of daily life are overpowering your relationship. Or maybe you miss emotional closeness, while ineffective communication patterns cause frustration and conflicts. Surely, you know you want things to improve but need to know how. Recognize this commitment to improving the relationship as your strength! I help my couples through two best-known couples therapy approaches: Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method.
Need a marriage counselor or couples therapist? Let me help you create a happier relationship! Keeping relationships and marriages gratifying can be very challenging. Maybe, despite your shared love, the demands of daily life are overpowering your relationship. Or maybe you miss emotional closeness, while ineffective communication patterns cause frustration and conflicts. Surely, you know you want things to improve but need to know how. Recognize this commitment to improving the relationship as your strength! I help my couples through two best-known couples therapy approaches: Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.