Attachment-based Therapists in Neptune Beach, FL

Relationship struggles, feeling stuck, overwhelmed, stressed, or dealing with life challenges, can be painful and hold us back. As we work together, you will gain the necessary insight and skills to navigate these dificulties and unlock your full potential. My professional background consists mainly treating people who have experienced trauma -big or small- and addressing the different ways it shows up: anxiety, depression, low self esteem, attention issues, among other personal struggles.

Beginning therapy can be intimidating, but once you decide to go for it, how do you pick the right therapist? I chose the name Blue Chair Sessions because I was scared by the thought of beginning my own therapy years ago. I want therapy for my clients to be accessible- as normal as sitting in a barber’s chair, an office chair, or a beach chair. You might be looking for help with a crisis, wanting an objective perspective on your life, trying to manage painful emotions, or dealing with a difficult relationship. Getting your life back on track is possible and it doesn't have to take years.

I think as human beings we want to feel seen, heard, appreciated, respected, loved, and valued. I believe most of us want to make a difference in the lives of those around us, our loved ones, friends and community. Making a difference and enjoying healthy and gratifying relationships and contributing to one's community can take many forms but they all involve relationships. If you find yourself feeling deeply unhappy, confused and dissatisfied in any of your relationships, I'd like to learn more about you and what you are seeking in your life and in your relationships.

If you are seeking confidential assistance with a life transition, need emotional support or new discoveries - let me help. I have 25 yrs of combined professional experience in corporate training and personal development. Using my dual education in Health Science and Psychotherapy, I employ evidence-based therapeutic approaches that address lifestyle behaviors, neurobiology and interpersonal relationship patterns. I have helped hundreds of clients identify ways to enhance their lives, careers and relationships. If you are not living the life you want to and feel you are ready to make some changes, take the first step and contact me.

*ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS* Conflict arises in any and all relationships in our lives at different points. Knowing how to manage those conflicts can be the difference between finding peace or distress. Whether the problems are with your partner, parents, child, or friend, knowing how to manage our relationships can only benefit us. Something brought you here. Which is it?

Are relationship difficulties causing you to feel depressed, worried, or hopeless? Discouraged by loneliness or lack of romance in your marriage or relationship? Wondering if your relationship can recover from infidelity? Struggling with a lack of self-confidence? Dr. Virginia Boney assists individual and couples in building self-confidence and creating fulfilling relationships through research-supported treatment approaches, including Gottman Couples Therapy, Emotion Focused Couples Therapy and EMDR. Relationship difficulties and/or unresolved issues from your past can contribute to feelings of depression, irritability, anxiety and insomnia. Take action through structured, goal-oriented, scientifically-based treatment approaches to achieve change!

Having issues in your relationship? Feeling overwhelmed by problems with addictions, depression, anxiety or trauma? I understand. In our therapy sessions, I will create a safe space for us to work on solutions to issues you or you and your partner may face. I have a reputation for being an excellent listener, and ability to provide support and feedback at your pace. I work with couples and individuals from diverse backgrounds and sexual orientations. I use a method called Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT) for approaching you and your partner's relationship issues. Let's start a conversation.

Complex PTSD symptoms include emotional flashbacks (constant fight/flight/freeze triggers), a tyrannical inner critic, toxic shame, self abandonment, social anxiety, and relationship issues. This distressing experience can feel isolating and confusing, and like there is something wrong with you. The good news is there isn't - the human nervous system is intelligent and doing its best to protect us. We can learn to soften, self-soothe and communicate more deeply with our innermost self with somatic therapy. I also support with psychedelic integration, sexual awakening and am certified in yoga, breathwork, and nondual somatic inquiry.

Sometimes the way you relate to yourself and others no longer aligns with who you truly are, your values or how you envisioned your life. You may feel disconnected from yourself and others. You may feel anxious or misunderstood, and start to question your worth or love. To cope, you wear a mask to hide parts of yourself, which creates feelings of tension within yourself and with others. What if you lived your life according to your values while accepting and expressing your genuine self? I create a judgement free, safe therapeutic space where you can explore, understand and find your authentic self.

Counseling and behavioral health services for you and those you love.