Emotionally Focused Therapists in Miami, FL
Suzanne Brabant
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Miami, FL 33133 (Online Only)
I am Suzanne Brabant, LCSW, and have been a social worker for 27 years. I utilize solution-focused therapy while working with a wide range of clients, from adolescents to the elderly, individuals, and couples. My approach to therapy is to start where you are. Once I learn a little more about you, we start working towards your goals. My approach utilizes Coaching, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Person-Centered, Strength-Based, Client-Centered Therapy, Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), Mindfulness-Based, Multidimensional Family Therapy, Solution Focused, Supportive, Behavioral Activation, Child/Parent Psychotherapy,
I am Suzanne Brabant, LCSW, and have been a social worker for 27 years. I utilize solution-focused therapy while working with a wide range of clients, from adolescents to the elderly, individuals, and couples. My approach to therapy is to start where you are. Once I learn a little more about you, we start working towards your goals. My approach utilizes Coaching, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Person-Centered, Strength-Based, Client-Centered Therapy, Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), Mindfulness-Based, Multidimensional Family Therapy, Solution Focused, Supportive, Behavioral Activation, Child/Parent Psychotherapy,
Lauren Consul
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST, JD
Verified Verified
Miami, FL 33131 (Online Only)
I also have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and love working with individuals, couples, and polycules.
If you're facing sex-related challenges, infidelity, feeling disconnected, or struggling with attachment issues, you're not alone—and you’re in the right place. Whether it's mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, or a lack of intimacy that’s leaving you feeling lost, or you’re grappling with the pain of infidelity, healing is possible (and yes, you can get through it). If you're exploring new sexual dynamics or non-monogamy, I can help you navigate the journey with confidence. You don’t have to face this on your own. I’m here to help you build satisfying, secure, and connected relationships and sexual experiences.
I also have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and love working with individuals, couples, and polycules.
If you're facing sex-related challenges, infidelity, feeling disconnected, or struggling with attachment issues, you're not alone—and you’re in the right place. Whether it's mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, or a lack of intimacy that’s leaving you feeling lost, or you’re grappling with the pain of infidelity, healing is possible (and yes, you can get through it). If you're exploring new sexual dynamics or non-monogamy, I can help you navigate the journey with confidence. You don’t have to face this on your own. I’m here to help you build satisfying, secure, and connected relationships and sexual experiences.
Trauma-Focused Therapy, Solution-Focused, Trauma Informed, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT), Imago Relationship Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy.
Hello. My name is Steve Johnson, and I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW). I have been working in the helping professions my entire adult life. I first became licensed over 25 years ago and have had the pleasure of helping many people over the years, both online and in my private practice. I have worked with individuals, couples, and families seeking counseling and served as a supervisor to newly licensed counselors and therapists. I am interested in working will clients of all ages, but working with young adults has been particularly rewarding.
Trauma-Focused Therapy, Solution-Focused, Trauma Informed, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT), Imago Relationship Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy.
Hello. My name is Steve Johnson, and I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW). I have been working in the helping professions my entire adult life. I first became licensed over 25 years ago and have had the pleasure of helping many people over the years, both online and in my private practice. I have worked with individuals, couples, and families seeking counseling and served as a supervisor to newly licensed counselors and therapists. I am interested in working will clients of all ages, but working with young adults has been particularly rewarding.
My approaches are Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT), Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Jungian Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy.
My passion in life is to help individuals transform their lives. I find success when I see others blossom toward personal growth and development. I enjoy working with a wide variety of populations centered around the provision of emotional growth, expressive arts, and recovery. I have worked with many populations with struggling with eating disorders, addiction, and dual diagnosis.
My approaches are Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT), Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Jungian Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy.
My passion in life is to help individuals transform their lives. I find success when I see others blossom toward personal growth and development. I enjoy working with a wide variety of populations centered around the provision of emotional growth, expressive arts, and recovery. I have worked with many populations with struggling with eating disorders, addiction, and dual diagnosis.
My approach involves Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT) exposure therapy to thoughts, feelings, and emotions by using positive affirmations and tapping interventions.
I have a bachelor's degree in psychology and a masters in social work from Florida International University. I am also a licensed clinical social worker in Florida and Virginia. I focus on assessment, diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of mental illness focusing on decreasing emotional and behavioral disturbances. In addition, I aim to help create life balance and help you understand how to prioritize YOU and highlighting all aspects of your authentic self.
My approach involves Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT) exposure therapy to thoughts, feelings, and emotions by using positive affirmations and tapping interventions.
I have a bachelor's degree in psychology and a masters in social work from Florida International University. I am also a licensed clinical social worker in Florida and Virginia. I focus on assessment, diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of mental illness focusing on decreasing emotional and behavioral disturbances. In addition, I aim to help create life balance and help you understand how to prioritize YOU and highlighting all aspects of your authentic self.
Hi, I'm Maisie, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in relationship trauma, attachment theory, and emotionally focused therapy. My approach to therapy emphasizes understanding and healing emotional wounds to develop deeper connections and resilience. I am dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate challenges and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. I typically work with individuals, couples, and families who are navigating relationship challenges, dealing with trauma, or seeking to improve their emotional well-being.
Hi, I'm Maisie, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in relationship trauma, attachment theory, and emotionally focused therapy. My approach to therapy emphasizes understanding and healing emotional wounds to develop deeper connections and resilience. I am dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate challenges and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. I typically work with individuals, couples, and families who are navigating relationship challenges, dealing with trauma, or seeking to improve their emotional well-being.
Dr. Olivia Schläpfer Colmer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Miami, FL 33137
I am also trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and The Gottman Method.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State of Florida. I work with individuals, couples and families. Family dynamics can be challenging for even the strongest individuals and families. I use a solution focused approach to help people cope more effectively with their problems, while finding positive and sustainable change. My goal is to help people address difficulties they are experiencing in their relationships, break old patterns, develop concrete goals and practical ways to deal with life's challenges. I assist people in changing old perceptions into new ones, finding creative ways to solve problems and improving relationships and communication.
I am also trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and The Gottman Method.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State of Florida. I work with individuals, couples and families. Family dynamics can be challenging for even the strongest individuals and families. I use a solution focused approach to help people cope more effectively with their problems, while finding positive and sustainable change. My goal is to help people address difficulties they are experiencing in their relationships, break old patterns, develop concrete goals and practical ways to deal with life's challenges. I assist people in changing old perceptions into new ones, finding creative ways to solve problems and improving relationships and communication.
I use a person-centered approach and take from the many modalities to best fit your needs, including CBT, EMDR and EFT.
Do you feel like you just "can't anymore" or torn between life's happenings, feeling overwhelmed? Have you had those moments of just wishing you can be better? Do better? I empower individuals to overcome these thoughts and realities brought upon depression, anxiety, trauma or just life. This is normal. I strongly believe in our own gift and strength to push through adversities. Resilence. We are humans and it's normal to hurt, and to struggle, but it is also within us to get back up.
I use a person-centered approach and take from the many modalities to best fit your needs, including CBT, EMDR and EFT.
Do you feel like you just "can't anymore" or torn between life's happenings, feeling overwhelmed? Have you had those moments of just wishing you can be better? Do better? I empower individuals to overcome these thoughts and realities brought upon depression, anxiety, trauma or just life. This is normal. I strongly believe in our own gift and strength to push through adversities. Resilence. We are humans and it's normal to hurt, and to struggle, but it is also within us to get back up.
Richard M. Correa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LMFT
Verified Verified
Miami, FL 33196 (Online Only)
With couples and families, I use emotionally focused therapy which has shown to be the most effective in re-creating healthy and long term bonds.
Don't suffer in silence anymore. Contact me today for an appointment. I work with individuals and couples, covering issues ranging from anxiety and phobias to relationship issues and divorce. I guide each individual through his or her own personal journey of discovery and growth. I hope to have the pleasure of meeting you soon to start work immediately on resolving your conflicts and challenges.
With couples and families, I use emotionally focused therapy which has shown to be the most effective in re-creating healthy and long term bonds.
Don't suffer in silence anymore. Contact me today for an appointment. I work with individuals and couples, covering issues ranging from anxiety and phobias to relationship issues and divorce. I guide each individual through his or her own personal journey of discovery and growth. I hope to have the pleasure of meeting you soon to start work immediately on resolving your conflicts and challenges.
Ari Garvett | Couples Therapist Expert
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd, EdS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Miami, FL 33133 (Online Only)
Struggling to maintain a strong bond with your partner? Stress, conflict, and the loss of passion can put a strain on any relationship. As a dedicated relationship specialist, I warmly welcome all couples of all orientations to my office. Drawing from EFT, the Gottman Method, & Esther Perel's work, I offer a therapeutic approach designed to help you enhance communication, desire, intimacy, and connection. Whether you're navigating issues related to sex or trust, grappling with infidelity, seeking improved communication, or feeling a sense of disconnection, I am here to guide you towards a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.
Struggling to maintain a strong bond with your partner? Stress, conflict, and the loss of passion can put a strain on any relationship. As a dedicated relationship specialist, I warmly welcome all couples of all orientations to my office. Drawing from EFT, the Gottman Method, & Esther Perel's work, I offer a therapeutic approach designed to help you enhance communication, desire, intimacy, and connection. Whether you're navigating issues related to sex or trust, grappling with infidelity, seeking improved communication, or feeling a sense of disconnection, I am here to guide you towards a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.
Additionally, I have training in EFT.
Hey there! My name is Lauren Matos. I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. I use an eclectic approach to therapy, which means I typically choose methods and tools depending on each individual person's needs. I have 12 years of experience helping people with anxiety, trauma, addiction, and getting over toxic relationships.
Additionally, I have training in EFT.
Hey there! My name is Lauren Matos. I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. I use an eclectic approach to therapy, which means I typically choose methods and tools depending on each individual person's needs. I have 12 years of experience helping people with anxiety, trauma, addiction, and getting over toxic relationships.
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It is easy to become overwhelmed, but you don't have to face it alone! I am here to help you navigate through your challenges, whether it's trauma, addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or simply the stress of daily life. My therapeutic style is warm, thoughtful, and driven by a genuine desire to understand your unique perspective and goals.
It is easy to become overwhelmed, but you don't have to face it alone! I am here to help you navigate through your challenges, whether it's trauma, addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or simply the stress of daily life. My therapeutic style is warm, thoughtful, and driven by a genuine desire to understand your unique perspective and goals.
Victoria Griffin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, CCTP, CPCS
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Miami, FL 33156
My practice offers specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Sex Therapy, EMDR, Somatic Attachment Therapy, Mindset Coaching, with expertise in trauma, relationships, and empowerment.
The journey to wholeness and intimacy is not always an easy path but it is one that can rebuild confidence, repair trust and intimacy, and create transformational growth. Having someone who is compassionate, affirming, and experienced in healing, restoration, and transformation can lead to healing, deeper intimacy, and authentic self and relationships.
My practice offers specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Sex Therapy, EMDR, Somatic Attachment Therapy, Mindset Coaching, with expertise in trauma, relationships, and empowerment.
The journey to wholeness and intimacy is not always an easy path but it is one that can rebuild confidence, repair trust and intimacy, and create transformational growth. Having someone who is compassionate, affirming, and experienced in healing, restoration, and transformation can lead to healing, deeper intimacy, and authentic self and relationships.
I am skilled in a broad range of therapeutic modalities such as Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT) aka Tapping, and the practice of mindfulness to assist you towards reaching your therapeutic goals.
The majority of my practice focuses on empowering clients to overcome factors surrounding depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma and interpersonal relationship concerns by incorporating simple and effective tools in their daily lives. During our first session, we will explore your therapeutic goals, challenges, and resources available to you we can utilize to cultivate growth and healing. We will work together to develop a collaborative treatment plan and book additional sessions as needed.
I am skilled in a broad range of therapeutic modalities such as Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT) aka Tapping, and the practice of mindfulness to assist you towards reaching your therapeutic goals.
The majority of my practice focuses on empowering clients to overcome factors surrounding depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma and interpersonal relationship concerns by incorporating simple and effective tools in their daily lives. During our first session, we will explore your therapeutic goals, challenges, and resources available to you we can utilize to cultivate growth and healing. We will work together to develop a collaborative treatment plan and book additional sessions as needed.
Tricia O'Connor
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Miami, FL 33131 (Online Only)
Tricia utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) in her work with individuals.
Tricia O’Connor is a Licensed Professional Counselor. She has over a decade of clinical experience including residential, community, and private practice settings. Tricia specializes in providing therapy to individuals experiencing adjustment/life transition, depression, anxiety, stress management, religious/spiritual issues, and loss.
Tricia utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) in her work with individuals.
Tricia O’Connor is a Licensed Professional Counselor. She has over a decade of clinical experience including residential, community, and private practice settings. Tricia specializes in providing therapy to individuals experiencing adjustment/life transition, depression, anxiety, stress management, religious/spiritual issues, and loss.
Estelle Fineberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, BCD, PAT
Verified Verified
Miami, FL 33109
I use Somatic Experiencing (a trauma therapy), Touch Skills for Trauma, Lifespan Integration, Psychodrama and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy amongst other modalities.
I am a Somatic Psychotherapist with a focus on helping to build resilience and regulation in ones nervous system. This allows for an organic shift in dealing with life’s stresses whether it comes from current stressors or from traumas of the past as far back as utero (Developmental Trauma). This positively impacts emotional, physical and spiritual well being. I like working with adults who are in transition, who are struggling in their relationship, and/or who continue to have the after effects of traumas in their lives. It is my belief that wounding begins in relationship and therefore needs to be healed in relationship.
I use Somatic Experiencing (a trauma therapy), Touch Skills for Trauma, Lifespan Integration, Psychodrama and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy amongst other modalities.
I am a Somatic Psychotherapist with a focus on helping to build resilience and regulation in ones nervous system. This allows for an organic shift in dealing with life’s stresses whether it comes from current stressors or from traumas of the past as far back as utero (Developmental Trauma). This positively impacts emotional, physical and spiritual well being. I like working with adults who are in transition, who are struggling in their relationship, and/or who continue to have the after effects of traumas in their lives. It is my belief that wounding begins in relationship and therefore needs to be healed in relationship.
Audrey Bloom
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MMTCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Miami, FL 33143 (Online Only)
I am skilled in " EFT"- Emotionally Focused Counseling, "EMDR" - Eye Movement Desentisation Re-processing, and teaching Mindfulness.
If an old behavior is not serving you, if you are unsure, unclear or troubled about any part of your life, if you need to express your emotions or refrain from expressing them, if you are going through a difficult passage, if some part of you is conflicted or constricted, I may be the most effective counselor for you. I take into consideration the body, emotions, mind and spirit, in order to identify barriers to living freely, peacefully and productively. Stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, mood changes, self-esteem, sexuality, divorce, health changes, relationships, and life transition are all "treatable".
I am skilled in " EFT"- Emotionally Focused Counseling, "EMDR" - Eye Movement Desentisation Re-processing, and teaching Mindfulness.
If an old behavior is not serving you, if you are unsure, unclear or troubled about any part of your life, if you need to express your emotions or refrain from expressing them, if you are going through a difficult passage, if some part of you is conflicted or constricted, I may be the most effective counselor for you. I take into consideration the body, emotions, mind and spirit, in order to identify barriers to living freely, peacefully and productively. Stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, mood changes, self-esteem, sexuality, divorce, health changes, relationships, and life transition are all "treatable".
I am certified in Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT) and trained in Gottman Couples Therapy (Level 3) with over 20 years of experience.
Are feeling overwhelmed and struggling with relationship issues or anxiety? Or, seeking to enhance your marriage, improve your couple-communication, or deal with past relational wounds? Your relationship impacts every area of your life. When it's not good, you may feel alone, hopeless, and find it difficult to focus on other things. Using a compassionate approach, I specialize in helping you address your relationship concerns, leading to insight, healing, and transformation. I also have a 6-Month Intensive Marriage program that will help you transfer your. It is possible to heal, and have a secure loving, long-lasting relationship!
I am certified in Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT) and trained in Gottman Couples Therapy (Level 3) with over 20 years of experience.
Are feeling overwhelmed and struggling with relationship issues or anxiety? Or, seeking to enhance your marriage, improve your couple-communication, or deal with past relational wounds? Your relationship impacts every area of your life. When it's not good, you may feel alone, hopeless, and find it difficult to focus on other things. Using a compassionate approach, I specialize in helping you address your relationship concerns, leading to insight, healing, and transformation. I also have a 6-Month Intensive Marriage program that will help you transfer your. It is possible to heal, and have a secure loving, long-lasting relationship!
I am also trained in a number of other highly effective evidence based therapies, including CBT, CBTi, EFT ( Emotionally Focused Therapy), harm reduction, mindfulness-based therapy, and psychodynamic psychotherapy.
I am passionate about helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of our lives and the areas where we feel stuck. I am a Clinical Psychologist and Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU School of Medicine. I have over 18 years of clinical experience, working with individuals and couples struggling with addiction, anxiety (OCD, GAD, phobias), depression and mood disorders, and trauma (PTSD). We will work together to create a therapy that is effective and in line with your goals and values. I am only in network with insurance plans for AMEX, Blackrock, Paramount, and NYU Langone and School of Medicine.
I am also trained in a number of other highly effective evidence based therapies, including CBT, CBTi, EFT ( Emotionally Focused Therapy), harm reduction, mindfulness-based therapy, and psychodynamic psychotherapy.
I am passionate about helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of our lives and the areas where we feel stuck. I am a Clinical Psychologist and Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU School of Medicine. I have over 18 years of clinical experience, working with individuals and couples struggling with addiction, anxiety (OCD, GAD, phobias), depression and mood disorders, and trauma (PTSD). We will work together to create a therapy that is effective and in line with your goals and values. I am only in network with insurance plans for AMEX, Blackrock, Paramount, and NYU Langone and School of Medicine.
Therapy For Mamas And Couples Dominique Couture-Sherman Gottman Level 2
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Miami, FL 33143 (Online Only)
I have trainings in CBT, DBT, EFT and the Gottman Method.
Welcome! My practice focuses on supporting new Mom’s, parents, couples and individuals navigating the dating world. I’m also trained and certified in grief and loss and have experience supporting people moving through neonatal, newborn or child loss, loss of a parent, spouse, life partner or pet. I also have some experience in treating those moving through a diagnosis of prolonged grief. In addition, I have a special interest in supporting individuals and couples with ADHD and especially navigating ADHD within a relationship and I enjoy supporting folks around navigating the complexities of open and polyamorous relationships.
I have trainings in CBT, DBT, EFT and the Gottman Method.
Welcome! My practice focuses on supporting new Mom’s, parents, couples and individuals navigating the dating world. I’m also trained and certified in grief and loss and have experience supporting people moving through neonatal, newborn or child loss, loss of a parent, spouse, life partner or pet. I also have some experience in treating those moving through a diagnosis of prolonged grief. In addition, I have a special interest in supporting individuals and couples with ADHD and especially navigating ADHD within a relationship and I enjoy supporting folks around navigating the complexities of open and polyamorous relationships.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.