Marriage Counseling Therapists in Fort Myers, FL

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Wendy Wolf Petzel
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
Two unique individuals with varying backgrounds in marriage when the honeymoon is past, time for the real work of marriage which requires tools.
Begin the journey...be courageous. Struggling with depression, anxiety, fear, loss, trauma, seeking direction & purpose? This is a safe place to heal & grow. Marriage in trouble and help needed understanding differences, communicating effectively, resolving conflict, learning to laugh and "play" and experience greater intimacy, be empowered to make it great again. Navigating the unchartered waters of parenting and need guidance in the developmental stages, "acting out" teenager, setting boundaries, having realistic expectations and learning to stay connected with your children, or teens come receive guidance, and direction. Family sculpting, psychodrama, relaxation techniques, creativity, and arts used to facilitate healing.
Two unique individuals with varying backgrounds in marriage when the honeymoon is past, time for the real work of marriage which requires tools.
Begin the journey...be courageous. Struggling with depression, anxiety, fear, loss, trauma, seeking direction & purpose? This is a safe place to heal & grow. Marriage in trouble and help needed understanding differences, communicating effectively, resolving conflict, learning to laugh and "play" and experience greater intimacy, be empowered to make it great again. Navigating the unchartered waters of parenting and need guidance in the developmental stages, "acting out" teenager, setting boundaries, having realistic expectations and learning to stay connected with your children, or teens come receive guidance, and direction. Family sculpting, psychodrama, relaxation techniques, creativity, and arts used to facilitate healing.
(239) 214-7924 View (239) 214-7924
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Pat Capozzoli
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
Capozzoli provides individual, play (for children), family, marriage, and couples therapy.
Gulf Coast Psychology is a multidisciplinary mental health practice that is based in Fort Myers, FL. Dr. Capozzoli provides an array of psychological, educational, vocational and forensic services for children, adolescents and adults. Because everyone is unique, Dr. Capozzoli collaborates with all of his patients to develop individualized treatment plans that meet their specific needs and goals.
Capozzoli provides individual, play (for children), family, marriage, and couples therapy.
Gulf Coast Psychology is a multidisciplinary mental health practice that is based in Fort Myers, FL. Dr. Capozzoli provides an array of psychological, educational, vocational and forensic services for children, adolescents and adults. Because everyone is unique, Dr. Capozzoli collaborates with all of his patients to develop individualized treatment plans that meet their specific needs and goals.
(239) 274-7792 x401 View (239) 274-7792 x401
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Lynn Rosen
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33913  (Online Only)
I am a marriage and family therapist, psychologist,and coach with over 30 years experience.
We all have within us a resilience to confront and handle even the most challenging of issues. But we do not have to do it alone. A willingness to share our deepest thoughts and emotions in a safe and caring environment can empower you to figure out how you are feeling , how to move forward, reclaim your purpose and passion. I would like to participate in that process with you. I am experienced in relationship and self-counseling, using complementary approaches tto best facilitate positive change. I'm looking forward to being your partner in this process. Go to my website for more info
I am a marriage and family therapist, psychologist,and coach with over 30 years experience.
We all have within us a resilience to confront and handle even the most challenging of issues. But we do not have to do it alone. A willingness to share our deepest thoughts and emotions in a safe and caring environment can empower you to figure out how you are feeling , how to move forward, reclaim your purpose and passion. I would like to participate in that process with you. I am experienced in relationship and self-counseling, using complementary approaches tto best facilitate positive change. I'm looking forward to being your partner in this process. Go to my website for more info
(561) 287-3325 View (561) 287-3325
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Danielle Jediny-Racies, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33908  (Online Only)
Hello. My name is Danielle Jediny-Racies. I am a practicing licensed marriage and family therapist since 2009 providing care for people who live in Oregon, California, Florida, Washington, South Carolina, and Georgia. My therapeutic approach is informed by system-centered, attachment, trauma-informed methods of care and psychobiological approach to couples therapy (PACT). I am steady, reflective, and compassionate.
Hello. My name is Danielle Jediny-Racies. I am a practicing licensed marriage and family therapist since 2009 providing care for people who live in Oregon, California, Florida, Washington, South Carolina, and Georgia. My therapeutic approach is informed by system-centered, attachment, trauma-informed methods of care and psychobiological approach to couples therapy (PACT). I am steady, reflective, and compassionate.
(239) 360-3133 View (239) 360-3133
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Elevating Relationships: Couple to Couple Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33913  (Online Only)
We (Rashawn & Lori Brewster) offer a unique "couple to couple" counseling experience for relationships in all stages (dating, engaged, married, separated). Typical couples/marriage counseling is with 1 therapist but with Elevating Relationships you work with a married co-therapist team. We support relationship issues such as poor communication, harmful conflict cycle, loss of trust, feeling disconnected, and lackluster intimacy. We will partner with you to highlight the areas of your relationship that you’re not experiencing success in and provide research-based tools and guidance designed to cultivate an improved relationship.
We (Rashawn & Lori Brewster) offer a unique "couple to couple" counseling experience for relationships in all stages (dating, engaged, married, separated). Typical couples/marriage counseling is with 1 therapist but with Elevating Relationships you work with a married co-therapist team. We support relationship issues such as poor communication, harmful conflict cycle, loss of trust, feeling disconnected, and lackluster intimacy. We will partner with you to highlight the areas of your relationship that you’re not experiencing success in and provide research-based tools and guidance designed to cultivate an improved relationship.
(239) 312-5825 View (239) 312-5825
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Danielle Jediny-Racies, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33913  (Online Only)
Hello. My name is Danielle Jediny-Racies. I am a practicing licensed marriage and family therapist since 2009 providing care for people who live in Oregon, California, Florida, South Carolina, Washington, and Georgia. My therapeutic approach is informed by system-centered, attachment, trauma-informed methods of care and psychobiological approach to couples therapy (PACT). I am steady, reflective, and compassionate.
Hello. My name is Danielle Jediny-Racies. I am a practicing licensed marriage and family therapist since 2009 providing care for people who live in Oregon, California, Florida, South Carolina, Washington, and Georgia. My therapeutic approach is informed by system-centered, attachment, trauma-informed methods of care and psychobiological approach to couples therapy (PACT). I am steady, reflective, and compassionate.
(239) 420-8049 View (239) 420-8049
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Christopher Santini
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33919  (Online Only)
My specialties include: anxiety, depression, self-esteem, bereavement, couples counseling and marital/family conflict, as well as unique training and insight into issues affecting the LGBTQ community.
As a clinical social worker with over 20 years of experience, I have had the privilege of working with culturally, economically and ethnically diverse individuals, families, couples and groups from all walks of life. I have practiced domestically and internationally including, NYC, California and most recently in Dublin, Ireland. (Please note that I am only taking tele-therapy clients and use a HIPPA approved site. I have found using tele-therapy to be very convenient for clients with challenging schedules).
My specialties include: anxiety, depression, self-esteem, bereavement, couples counseling and marital/family conflict, as well as unique training and insight into issues affecting the LGBTQ community.
As a clinical social worker with over 20 years of experience, I have had the privilege of working with culturally, economically and ethnically diverse individuals, families, couples and groups from all walks of life. I have practiced domestically and internationally including, NYC, California and most recently in Dublin, Ireland. (Please note that I am only taking tele-therapy clients and use a HIPPA approved site. I have found using tele-therapy to be very convenient for clients with challenging schedules).
(239) 758-0352 View (239) 758-0352
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Kellie-Ann Torres
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Myers, FL 33907
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I come along side of you, your partner and/or family to help you figure out your barriers, how to overcome them and how to achieve stability. I also enjoy providing Premarital and Individual Counseling. I am able to provide therapy to clients who live anywhere in the State of Florida.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I come along side of you, your partner and/or family to help you figure out your barriers, how to overcome them and how to achieve stability. I also enjoy providing Premarital and Individual Counseling. I am able to provide therapy to clients who live anywhere in the State of Florida.
(239) 420-9430 View (239) 420-9430
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Revive Family Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33912
Are you looking for a supportive and collaborative space to heal yourself or your family relationships? Revive Family Counseling is here to help. We understand that every individual is unique, and we tailor our approach to meet your desired needs. Our experienced therapists are skilled in working with a wide range of challenges, including: - Communication problems - Conflict resolution - Anxiety- Depression- Parenting issues - Blended families - Divorce and separation - Grief and loss - Trauma - Marriage/Couples Counseling- Mental health conditions.
Are you looking for a supportive and collaborative space to heal yourself or your family relationships? Revive Family Counseling is here to help. We understand that every individual is unique, and we tailor our approach to meet your desired needs. Our experienced therapists are skilled in working with a wide range of challenges, including: - Communication problems - Conflict resolution - Anxiety- Depression- Parenting issues - Blended families - Divorce and separation - Grief and loss - Trauma - Marriage/Couples Counseling- Mental health conditions.
(239) 347-1938 View (239) 347-1938
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Monique Dana Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MHC1, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Myers, FL 33907
As a Marriage and Family Therapist with fifteen years of experience, I have enjoyed being a part of many journeys of reunification, redemption, resolution, healing and hope.
Are you feeling lost, alone or like you’re standing on shaky ground? We all need a firm foundation to stand on. There are times in our lives that are unpredictable. Life changes, emotional stressors, traumatic events, grief, and unstable relationships can leave us feeling empty, alone, lost or even broken. I help my clients every day by bringing healing, clarity, and hope through these types of challenges. Together we will work to find your new normal and get you back on a solid and strong foundation. I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, and families to reconnect and find peace in their relationships.
As a Marriage and Family Therapist with fifteen years of experience, I have enjoyed being a part of many journeys of reunification, redemption, resolution, healing and hope.
Are you feeling lost, alone or like you’re standing on shaky ground? We all need a firm foundation to stand on. There are times in our lives that are unpredictable. Life changes, emotional stressors, traumatic events, grief, and unstable relationships can leave us feeling empty, alone, lost or even broken. I help my clients every day by bringing healing, clarity, and hope through these types of challenges. Together we will work to find your new normal and get you back on a solid and strong foundation. I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, and families to reconnect and find peace in their relationships.
(239) 946-6076 View (239) 946-6076
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Yaro Garcia Therapy Treatment Team, LLC.
Counselor, PhD, LMHC
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
If you are struggling with past/current something personal or perhaps family/marriage/children/relationships-I can help.
Hello, I'm Dr. Yaro Garcia, please call me Yaro. I am a licensed mental health counselor with extensive training in clinical psychology, cognition, and trauma. I have 14 years of clinical practice. In addition to my work with clients, I also share my expertise as a professor and recognized speaker on topics related to mental health and wellness including complex trauma and treatment techniques.
If you are struggling with past/current something personal or perhaps family/marriage/children/relationships-I can help.
Hello, I'm Dr. Yaro Garcia, please call me Yaro. I am a licensed mental health counselor with extensive training in clinical psychology, cognition, and trauma. I have 14 years of clinical practice. In addition to my work with clients, I also share my expertise as a professor and recognized speaker on topics related to mental health and wellness including complex trauma and treatment techniques.
(239) 537-9646 View (239) 537-9646
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Ron Cook
Counselor, LMHC, BCPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fort Myers, FL 33966
With 15 years of experience as a clinician and more than 20 years of experience in Christian ministry, Ron is equipped to deal with a broad spectrum of clients and their unique concerns. Among his areas of expertise are marriage enrichment, affair recovery, trauma recovery, depression and anxiety, and grief counseling. With a unique blend of Biblical expertise, psychological training, and practical experience, Ron is a practical, solution-focused therapist.
With 15 years of experience as a clinician and more than 20 years of experience in Christian ministry, Ron is equipped to deal with a broad spectrum of clients and their unique concerns. Among his areas of expertise are marriage enrichment, affair recovery, trauma recovery, depression and anxiety, and grief counseling. With a unique blend of Biblical expertise, psychological training, and practical experience, Ron is a practical, solution-focused therapist.
(239) 676-0947 View (239) 676-0947
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Robert D Murphy
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Myers, FL 33908
Making a phone call to see a therapist can be a difficult task. When I speak with you on the phone for the first time my main goal is to put you at ease and to empower you to continue to move forward giving you the support you need. As a Pastor of local congregations for over 38 years, I am able to serve individuals who want their faith integrated into the counseling process. As a licensed therapist, I am experienced in helping you identify the core issues that have caused your emotional and personal problems, and develop strategies to resolve these issues. Dealing with marital issues, anxiety / depression are among my specialties.
Making a phone call to see a therapist can be a difficult task. When I speak with you on the phone for the first time my main goal is to put you at ease and to empower you to continue to move forward giving you the support you need. As a Pastor of local congregations for over 38 years, I am able to serve individuals who want their faith integrated into the counseling process. As a licensed therapist, I am experienced in helping you identify the core issues that have caused your emotional and personal problems, and develop strategies to resolve these issues. Dealing with marital issues, anxiety / depression are among my specialties.
(239) 260-9080 View (239) 260-9080
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Emely Fernandez
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMCH
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
Are you feeIing overwhelmed? Sad? Anxious? I can help you get to a place in where you have peace of mind. Let's' explore together what is occuring. I have over 10 years of experience in the mental health field. I have completed a Marriage and Family Counseling certificate and I am able to provide family and couple’s therapy. I am also Level 1 Gottman’s Method for Couple’s Therapist. I am passionate about helping other find their way if they feel lost, processing trauma through EMDR, and help couples understand each other.
Are you feeIing overwhelmed? Sad? Anxious? I can help you get to a place in where you have peace of mind. Let's' explore together what is occuring. I have over 10 years of experience in the mental health field. I have completed a Marriage and Family Counseling certificate and I am able to provide family and couple’s therapy. I am also Level 1 Gottman’s Method for Couple’s Therapist. I am passionate about helping other find their way if they feel lost, processing trauma through EMDR, and help couples understand each other.
(239) 522-2939 x100 View (239) 522-2939 x100
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Amy Rose Matthews
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
Are you a parent who is concerned about your adolescent or young adult? Has your family life or marriage become chaotic? Is your teen engaging in risk-taking behaviors, or are they isolating themselves in their room? Are they having problems with a peer group or having school problems such as underachievement, truancy or fighting? Do you think that they be being bullied or cyber-bullied by other kids? Are you wondering if there might be a drug or alcohol problem? Do you worry about their sexual behavior ? Do they lie excessively or spend all their time on social media?
Are you a parent who is concerned about your adolescent or young adult? Has your family life or marriage become chaotic? Is your teen engaging in risk-taking behaviors, or are they isolating themselves in their room? Are they having problems with a peer group or having school problems such as underachievement, truancy or fighting? Do you think that they be being bullied or cyber-bullied by other kids? Are you wondering if there might be a drug or alcohol problem? Do you worry about their sexual behavior ? Do they lie excessively or spend all their time on social media?
(610) 572-7202 View (610) 572-7202
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David J Koehn
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
Dr. Koehn uses a holistic/systems approach to therapy. He incorporates the influence and support of family structure, school and work environment, as well as community when building a positive-wellness treatment plan Stylistically, Dr. Koehn utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), structural family therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy into interventions. Dr. Koehn also has extensive experience providing school and organizational psychology services. His therapy practice includes: eating disorders, marriage counseling, stress reduction, addiction, anxiety disorders, depression, obsessive compulsive disorders and anger management. He is currently in the process of publishing a book entitled "Carpe Diem - A treatise of MH experiences.
Dr. Koehn uses a holistic/systems approach to therapy. He incorporates the influence and support of family structure, school and work environment, as well as community when building a positive-wellness treatment plan Stylistically, Dr. Koehn utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), structural family therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy into interventions. Dr. Koehn also has extensive experience providing school and organizational psychology services. His therapy practice includes: eating disorders, marriage counseling, stress reduction, addiction, anxiety disorders, depression, obsessive compulsive disorders and anger management. He is currently in the process of publishing a book entitled "Carpe Diem - A treatise of MH experiences.
(239) 228-3424 View (239) 228-3424
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SWFL Counseling, LLC
LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fort Myers, FL 33919
Throughout our lifespan, we will be faced with transitions. Children experiences changes within the family as well as school, friends, and daily routine. Then there’s puberty, which brings about a whole new set of changes in a teenager. Early adulthood is full of change, as well as a search for meaning and purpose. Marriage, divorce, birth of children, death of parents, middle age, retirement, and on and on! Sometimes we can move through these transitions smoothly; however, other times it doesn’t go quite as well.
Throughout our lifespan, we will be faced with transitions. Children experiences changes within the family as well as school, friends, and daily routine. Then there’s puberty, which brings about a whole new set of changes in a teenager. Early adulthood is full of change, as well as a search for meaning and purpose. Marriage, divorce, birth of children, death of parents, middle age, retirement, and on and on! Sometimes we can move through these transitions smoothly; however, other times it doesn’t go quite as well.
(239) 932-6636 View (239) 932-6636
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Michelle Snyder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33905  (Online Only)
Specialties: marriage counseling, parenting support & techniques, individual counseling for depression, anxiety, grief, stress management, and self esteem.
I provide private, compassionate and effective help tailored to your needs. Beginning in 2006, I have provided therapy interventions to individuals, couples, and families as they navigate to find peace and clarity while overcoming challenges in their lives. I lead my practice with empathy and provide a judgement free environment to foster growth and healing for clients.
Specialties: marriage counseling, parenting support & techniques, individual counseling for depression, anxiety, grief, stress management, and self esteem.
I provide private, compassionate and effective help tailored to your needs. Beginning in 2006, I have provided therapy interventions to individuals, couples, and families as they navigate to find peace and clarity while overcoming challenges in their lives. I lead my practice with empathy and provide a judgement free environment to foster growth and healing for clients.
(239) 695-7522 View (239) 695-7522
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Laura Streyffeler
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, BCETS, CCDVC, CCFC
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33901
If you are struggling with an issue related to your relationship or marriage, domestic violence, sexual abuse/violence, rape, trauma, major life-tranistion, depression, anxiety, addiction, or any other problem or concern.
Feeling crazy is NOT mean the same thing as crazy. Just because your partner or other people in your life are calling you "crazy", doesn't mean that you are, Life can be hard. Relationships can be hard. Family can be hard. Hard can cause anxiety, depression, self-medication and more. Talking to a professional in a safe and non-judgmental space can help give you the tools and support to move forward in a smoother and healthier way. if you are struggling, I can help.
If you are struggling with an issue related to your relationship or marriage, domestic violence, sexual abuse/violence, rape, trauma, major life-tranistion, depression, anxiety, addiction, or any other problem or concern.
Feeling crazy is NOT mean the same thing as crazy. Just because your partner or other people in your life are calling you "crazy", doesn't mean that you are, Life can be hard. Relationships can be hard. Family can be hard. Hard can cause anxiety, depression, self-medication and more. Talking to a professional in a safe and non-judgmental space can help give you the tools and support to move forward in a smoother and healthier way. if you are struggling, I can help.
(239) 244-3888 View (239) 244-3888
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Maggie Nash Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fort Myers, FL 33907
Whether you have difficulty accepting self, have marital or partner problems, parental discord, anxiety about work or retirement , you will find in therapy rewarding dividends for life.
After “curing” most of Washington DC except Congress, I moved to Fort Myers, Florida. With 24 years of private practice experience I still love this work. I’m an author and provide tv interviews upon request. Humor is an essential part of my life and my practice. Humor is an integral part of grieving, healing, recovery and problem-solving. I, therefore incorporate it into my treatment. There are a myriad of issues for which you may be seeking help. Frequently they involve problematic relationships, or relationships with ourselves. To self most of us are unforgiving and punishing. This is common and treatable.
Whether you have difficulty accepting self, have marital or partner problems, parental discord, anxiety about work or retirement , you will find in therapy rewarding dividends for life.
After “curing” most of Washington DC except Congress, I moved to Fort Myers, Florida. With 24 years of private practice experience I still love this work. I’m an author and provide tv interviews upon request. Humor is an essential part of my life and my practice. Humor is an integral part of grieving, healing, recovery and problem-solving. I, therefore incorporate it into my treatment. There are a myriad of issues for which you may be seeking help. Frequently they involve problematic relationships, or relationships with ourselves. To self most of us are unforgiving and punishing. This is common and treatable.
(202) 552-0730 View (202) 552-0730
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Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.