Female Therapists in Spokane Valley, WA

Sometimes life offers experiences which are difficult to walk through and often these times feel quite lonely or confusing. Whether it be feelings of sadness, anxiety, fear, anger, exhaustion, or loneliness; I would like to join you on this walk we call life to help you navigate your path. I believe in relationship with the people we are surrounded by on a daily basis and will strive to assist you in creating relationships that support you on your daily life walk.

Are you concerned about your current relationship with substances but unable to manage on your own? Achieving long-term sobriety is not easy or quick, but our programs are designed to provide the support and tools needed to develop and maintain a sober lifestyle. I provide counseling for adults who are affected by substance use disorders. I utilize evidence-based practices with a focus on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Shame Resilience Theory (courage, connection and compassion vs. fear, blame, disconnection). At Breakthrough Recovery Group, I practice Brené Brown principles with clients under a certified Daring Way facilitator.

In the beginning was the word. Thoughts are words in our head. Those words are what we talk about. What we talk about finds support. These words, given support, is literally how we create our lives. In childhood, our primary lesson was to learn how to care for ourselves in adulthood. Many of the adults around us didn’t know how to care for themselves. Some were absent, some were medicated, some seemed aloof and caught up in their own troubles. And for some of us, the adults were abusive.

If you find yourself struggling with life and relationships, in need of someone to come alongside you, I would like to offer support and aid on your healing journey. I will help you approach your challenges in safety and with compassion. I have 20+ years of experience providing counseling to hurting and broken people and specialize in trauma, anxiety, PTSD, relapse prevention, and relational issues. Your past does not define you and your future is hopeful. Sometimes the present seems uncertain. My desire is to help peel back the layers so you can be free to be who you were made to be and function out of your true and noble self.

Life can be beautiful, challenging, inspiring, overwhelming, everything in between. Through life’s challenges, I believe there are opportunities for growth and healing through self-compassion, flexibility, and courage. As a counselor, I strive to step in and walk with you, wherever you are in your journey. Just as life is unique to the individual, the counseling journey is also personal to you. believe through exploring past patterns and creating flexibility to lean into the discomfort. Together we can dismantle disenfranchising stories and replace them with new and empowering stories that are aligned with your personal values.

My belief is that counseling is a journey we travel together. Our first step is to define where you want to go – discovering the reasons that you have chosen to meet with me at this point in your life. We will also identify your strengths, what’s working well in your life, and the things that can be changed to get you to your destination. My goal is to work myself out of a job as you develop the skills and tools that you can use in the present and the future to have the life that you desire.

With unconditional acceptance and positive regard, I welcome my clients into a judgement-free and safe space. Whether you're dealing with anger, anxiety, a death, depression, discrimination, life stressors, parenting challenges, relationship problems, or trauma, hope and healing is possible and within reach.

As a licensed mental health clinician, I am here to help you achieve personal empowerment in all areas of your life. I will help guide you in addressing issues that may be present in your life, that you feel, might be holding you back from reaching your goals. I offer help with navigating anxiety, depression, phase of life transitions, parenting, sexuality, gender, chronic pain/illness, perinatal mood disorders and more. I am an LGBTQIA+ and gender affirming therapist navigating gender identity, inclusion and equity. Let’s work together to actively identify and start living by your own personally empowered best life!

Welcome to the Holy Therapy Cottage, I am dedicated to supporting, honoring, and edifying all women in different seasons of their lives. Counseling is for women who are motivated to address the issues and struggles they find present in their lives. My professional training has been focused on: Inner child healing, generational trauma healing, struggles with anxiety, relational struggles, and struggles in the perinatal stages (pregnancy struggles and postpartum struggles).

Now accepting new clients! I work with individuals who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, and life transitions. Reaching out for help can be difficult sometimes! I want to honor that and I want to make your experience in therapy meaningful and purposeful in your life. We all experience mental health challenges throughout life and we are all deserving of help. I hope that you trust me with your life stories.

Dr. Kimberly Cole is the founder of Briar Rose Center and a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. She is a Certified EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) Therapist. She has been in an independent practice in the Spokane-Seattle areas since January 2007. Her areas of expertise includes Complex Trauma (DID), PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, Phobias, Panic Attacks, Grief-Loss, Sexual Orientation, Self-Care, Effective Communication, Problem Solving, Substance Abuse, Consultation, and Stress Management. Dr. Cole focuses on empowerment and independence; enhancement of strengths rather than a focus on weaknesses; lack of emphasis on pathology and victim blaming; and the importance of psycho-education.

Mental disorders came from different origins in your life, such as Depression, Alcohol/substance abuse addiction, anxiety, grief, self-harming, suicidal and homicidal ideations, and mood dysregulation. In the long run, these caused you despair and hopelessness. And therefore, you have not been fully functioning as you would love to. No matter what or where your issues streamed from, my goal is help you reach your optimal level of function. I do believe that if everything in your life is fully functioning, then you will be able to enjoy your life to the fullest.

Have you ever felt misunderstood? Have you tried to create relationships that are supportive and don't know why it's not working? Do you have dreams you want to tap into, but are afraid to step outside your comfort zone? As a therapist, I strive to empower individuals to find and develop their authentic path. I want to work with you to find the obstacles in your way so we can work together to help you achieve your goals. I strive to help you create a balance between work and play, to assist with coping skills and self-soothing techniques and help you create self-care for your busy life.

I offer therapy for children, adolescents, adult individuals, couples, and families. Whether you’re seeking support for anxiety, depression, trauma, anger issues, co-dependency, infidelity, relationship problems, or other concerns, I am here to walk alongside you on your journey towards positive, lasting changes.

Life can be hard but what’s even harder is trying to figure it out on your own. Trauma, depression, anxiety among other difficulties can be challenging to understand and cause chaos to our lives and relationships. We want to feel better, but feel as if everything and everyone is letting us down. What we want most is to feel strong and free from the burdens of life. Every person’s struggle is unique, but so are their strengths. My goal as a counselor is to help clients find their unique strengths and freedom from pain. I place great importance on assisting clients in finding the tools to succeed and find peace in their world.

In alignment with person-centered counseling, I believe in establishing a brave space of acceptance, authenticity, and empathy in a therapeutic relationship. I am passionate about mental health awareness and empowering individuals to awaken their dreams and use their voices. I seek to walk with each client to hold their struggles, hear their stories, celebrate their wins, and cheer them on. As a result, clients have the freedom to gain personal insight and authentically examine well-being and create change as needed. I take on this role with honor and humility.

I have spent 15 years helping people move from what I call "Surviving to Thriving". I can help you, your relationship, or your family move there also. This process; dealing with the fears, the feelings of helplessness and hopelessness, the anger as we sometimes are forced into life changes we have no control over can, quite simply, overwhelm us. A deeply caring therapist, with the knowledge, experience, patience, and courage to help us along our life's path can be extraordinarily helpful.

It is a great privilege to be entrusted with the sacred work of helping individuals navigate life's issues. The therapeutic relationship is unlike any relationship one will experience anywhere because, in the therapy room, they are unconditionally valued and empathically listened to with their best interests in mind, free from hidden agendas, discrimination, or personal gain. In this safe environment, clients are encouraged to develop compassionate curiosity toward the pieces of their life story, which grants insight into their present functioning and is an essential part of their growth journey.

I treat adolescents and adults. My most common method of treatment is cognitive behavioral therapy. I provide assistance to those struggling with anxiety, depression, anger, sadness or grief, adjustment issues, relationship issues, problem-solving skills, and life skills. I also specialize in parent/child attachment and sports psychology. Please contact me by voicemail or text at 509.385.0292. You can also reach me by email at juliann.haffey@gmail.com