Codependency Therapists in Tolland, CT

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Kelly Ann Pabilonia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084  (Online Only)
Additional areas of focus: Family conflicts, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Career difficulties, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Body image, Caregiver issues and stress, Codependency, Communication problems, Control issues, Emptiness, Hospice and End of Life Counseling, Midlife crisis & Self-love.
I am licensed in Connecticut with 21 years of professional social work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, relationship issues, & coping with grief and loss. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
Additional areas of focus: Family conflicts, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Career difficulties, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Body image, Caregiver issues and stress, Codependency, Communication problems, Control issues, Emptiness, Hospice and End of Life Counseling, Midlife crisis & Self-love.
I am licensed in Connecticut with 21 years of professional social work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, relationship issues, & coping with grief and loss. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
(860) 809-5807 View (860) 809-5807
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Adna Linden
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084
Waitlist for new clients
I welcome adults 25 and older looking for help with complex life transitions, high-stress situations, and high stress careers. I specialize in issues of mortality, grief, estrangement, loss, culture shock, codependency, career changes, burnout, and compassion fatigue. If we are able, together, to gain a deep understanding of your problems in the full context of your life, our goals will be to awaken or deepen your sense of self and purpose, to increase your sense of attachment and intimacy, to integrate your experience of yourself and others, to grow your ability to invoke your agency, and to increase your emotional resilience.
I welcome adults 25 and older looking for help with complex life transitions, high-stress situations, and high stress careers. I specialize in issues of mortality, grief, estrangement, loss, culture shock, codependency, career changes, burnout, and compassion fatigue. If we are able, together, to gain a deep understanding of your problems in the full context of your life, our goals will be to awaken or deepen your sense of self and purpose, to increase your sense of attachment and intimacy, to integrate your experience of yourself and others, to grow your ability to invoke your agency, and to increase your emotional resilience.
(203) 804-6423 View (203) 804-6423
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Thomas A Cordier
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, MALPC
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084
Do you feel you’re surviving through life rather than living it? Has your anxiety and/or depression immobilized you? Since 2003, I have helped thousands of individuals and families overcome their behavioral health issues. My therapy is an evidence-based clinical program called Neuro-Emotive Cognitive Behavioral therapy (NE-CBT). Individuals are taught to change their thinking, feelings, and behaviors. In my clinical sessions, I teach skills and concepts while helping individuals adapt them into their lives so that they may experience relief from their symptoms. Through NE-CBT, you can ground yourself both inward and outward.
Do you feel you’re surviving through life rather than living it? Has your anxiety and/or depression immobilized you? Since 2003, I have helped thousands of individuals and families overcome their behavioral health issues. My therapy is an evidence-based clinical program called Neuro-Emotive Cognitive Behavioral therapy (NE-CBT). Individuals are taught to change their thinking, feelings, and behaviors. In my clinical sessions, I teach skills and concepts while helping individuals adapt them into their lives so that they may experience relief from their symptoms. Through NE-CBT, you can ground yourself both inward and outward.
(860) 650-1768 View (860) 650-1768
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Becky Moore
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084  (Online Only)
Let's be real. In today's world, nothing is easy. Maybe you've been experiencing difficult symptoms for quite some time, or maybe they are new. Either way, you've finally decided it's time to talk to someone- that's the first step! I am currently accepting new clients, and have flexible scheduling. I use humor in my daily life and in my practice- I truly believe that laughing can help heal! My ideal client appreciates humor, and has an open mind. I will never tell you what to do- all I ask is that you come into therapy with an open mind and a willingness to start making changes!
Let's be real. In today's world, nothing is easy. Maybe you've been experiencing difficult symptoms for quite some time, or maybe they are new. Either way, you've finally decided it's time to talk to someone- that's the first step! I am currently accepting new clients, and have flexible scheduling. I use humor in my daily life and in my practice- I truly believe that laughing can help heal! My ideal client appreciates humor, and has an open mind. I will never tell you what to do- all I ask is that you come into therapy with an open mind and a willingness to start making changes!
(860) 891-2524 View (860) 891-2524
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Morgan North
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tolland, CT 06084
I work through the Behavioral Wellness Clinic, and utilize cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), functional analytic psychotherapy (FAP), as well as elements from internal family systems (IFS), emotionally focused couples therapy (EFCT), and systems theory. Here at the clinic, I specialize in treating Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) using the evidence-based method Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP). I also treat general stress, anxiety, LGBTQ issues, couples, and families. I strive to help clients, biological and chosen family members to know as much as I do about OCD, so they can succeed inside and outside of treatment.
I work through the Behavioral Wellness Clinic, and utilize cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), functional analytic psychotherapy (FAP), as well as elements from internal family systems (IFS), emotionally focused couples therapy (EFCT), and systems theory. Here at the clinic, I specialize in treating Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) using the evidence-based method Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP). I also treat general stress, anxiety, LGBTQ issues, couples, and families. I strive to help clients, biological and chosen family members to know as much as I do about OCD, so they can succeed inside and outside of treatment.
(860) 374-9333 View (860) 374-9333
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Tamara Martinez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084  (Online Only)
Accepting clients- limited availability - Welcome to A New Chance, LLC! Seeking help can be overwhelming and stress-inducing so I’m so glad you landed on my page! My goal is to help my clients live their best lives. I start with meeting you where you are at and develop goals for where you want to be. I am a solution-focused therapist and hone in on your existing strengths while helping develop new coping skills to live your best, most authentic life. Other clients have said that I am “very relatable” and non-judgmental. I have experience with working with clients of all different ages, races, cultures and walks of life.
Accepting clients- limited availability - Welcome to A New Chance, LLC! Seeking help can be overwhelming and stress-inducing so I’m so glad you landed on my page! My goal is to help my clients live their best lives. I start with meeting you where you are at and develop goals for where you want to be. I am a solution-focused therapist and hone in on your existing strengths while helping develop new coping skills to live your best, most authentic life. Other clients have said that I am “very relatable” and non-judgmental. I have experience with working with clients of all different ages, races, cultures and walks of life.
(860) 390-4959 View (860) 390-4959
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Psychotherapy Services of CT, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, AFSW
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084
I am experienced in individual (children/adolescents), adults, couples, & family therapy. I use a variety of methods to help you on your journey in life. A few examples are talk therapy, helping you to learn how to focus on your strengths, teaching you ways in how to reduce your stress, support you in learning how to relax, helping you to learn how to increase the awareness of your thoughts which affect your behavior/emotions, & lastly teaching you how to make a connection between your body, mind & spirit thus giving you an increased sense of over all wellness and well being.
I am experienced in individual (children/adolescents), adults, couples, & family therapy. I use a variety of methods to help you on your journey in life. A few examples are talk therapy, helping you to learn how to focus on your strengths, teaching you ways in how to reduce your stress, support you in learning how to relax, helping you to learn how to increase the awareness of your thoughts which affect your behavior/emotions, & lastly teaching you how to make a connection between your body, mind & spirit thus giving you an increased sense of over all wellness and well being.
(860) 261-2151 View (860) 261-2151
West Meadow Counseling, PC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tolland, CT 06084
Welcome to West Meadow Counseling! We are comprised of 5 Licensed Therapists helping children, adolescents, adults, couples and families with mental, emotional, and spiritual struggles. We recognize and respect each individual and family as unique. Therefore, we strive to create a trusting and compassionate environment from which a strong therapeutic relationship can grow in. We believe change happens when this connection is present.
Welcome to West Meadow Counseling! We are comprised of 5 Licensed Therapists helping children, adolescents, adults, couples and families with mental, emotional, and spiritual struggles. We recognize and respect each individual and family as unique. Therefore, we strive to create a trusting and compassionate environment from which a strong therapeutic relationship can grow in. We believe change happens when this connection is present.
(959) 207-8229 View (959) 207-8229
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Michael Luongo, LPC, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084
I have been working in the Helping Profession since 1992. I have worked as a Vocational Couselor, Clinical Care Manager, & a Licensed Psychotherapist. I enjoy meeting with people, getting to know them, and helping them to achieve their personal goals.
I have been working in the Helping Profession since 1992. I have worked as a Vocational Couselor, Clinical Care Manager, & a Licensed Psychotherapist. I enjoy meeting with people, getting to know them, and helping them to achieve their personal goals.
(860) 595-2418 View (860) 595-2418
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Amy Destro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tolland, CT 06084
Life often has a way of making you feel overwhelmed and exhausted. It can seem impossible to balance day to day stresses. Sometimes even small roadblocks seem to create feelings of worry or failure. Your own thoughts may make matters feel worse. You may be struggling to achieve goals that always seem just out of your reach or feel like you don’t know where to start.
Life often has a way of making you feel overwhelmed and exhausted. It can seem impossible to balance day to day stresses. Sometimes even small roadblocks seem to create feelings of worry or failure. Your own thoughts may make matters feel worse. You may be struggling to achieve goals that always seem just out of your reach or feel like you don’t know where to start.
(860) 288-5179 View (860) 288-5179
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Suzanne M Howard
Pastoral Counselor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tolland, CT 06084
Hello and welcome! I’m Suzanne M Howard a board-certified mental health life coach committed to guiding individuals towards achieving mental wellness and enriched personal fulfillment. With 18 years of Pastoral counseling experience, I specialize in combining therapeutic practices with actionable life coaching strategies to help clients overcome challenges. For those ready to embark on a transformative journey, I offer a supportive, confidential environment where you can feel safe to explore your thoughts and feelings. Whether you are seeking to manage specific mental health issues or aiming for personal growth, I am here to assist!
Hello and welcome! I’m Suzanne M Howard a board-certified mental health life coach committed to guiding individuals towards achieving mental wellness and enriched personal fulfillment. With 18 years of Pastoral counseling experience, I specialize in combining therapeutic practices with actionable life coaching strategies to help clients overcome challenges. For those ready to embark on a transformative journey, I offer a supportive, confidential environment where you can feel safe to explore your thoughts and feelings. Whether you are seeking to manage specific mental health issues or aiming for personal growth, I am here to assist!
(959) 265-0685 View (959) 265-0685
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Alison Lewis, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tolland, CT 06084
Not accepting new clients
Welcome! Whether you are new to therapy or returning, my goal is to provide a safe space and an open and balanced therapeutic alliance that will lend to healing and personal growth. My style is genuinely compassionate and empathetic with the intention of helping individuals bolster their own strengths and resources so as to find relief and contentment. I believe the most effective treatment is a collaboration between patient and therapist. I am honored to share in your life story and am always willing to be witness to both your successes as well as your challenges.
Welcome! Whether you are new to therapy or returning, my goal is to provide a safe space and an open and balanced therapeutic alliance that will lend to healing and personal growth. My style is genuinely compassionate and empathetic with the intention of helping individuals bolster their own strengths and resources so as to find relief and contentment. I believe the most effective treatment is a collaboration between patient and therapist. I am honored to share in your life story and am always willing to be witness to both your successes as well as your challenges.
(860) 554-0018 View (860) 554-0018
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Leah Bell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tolland, CT 06084
Not accepting new clients
With well over 20 years as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in a variety of settings, I bring warmth, experience and expertise into the therapeutic relationship. We tend to come to therapy when we want to make a change or feel conflict in our lives. How we operate no longer works. Something's missing or something feels wrong. This may manifest as anxiety, discomfort or sadness. I believe we all have the capacity to heal, to learn new ways of dealing with our past wounds and present circumstances. Often from trauma stems growth and strength.
With well over 20 years as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in a variety of settings, I bring warmth, experience and expertise into the therapeutic relationship. We tend to come to therapy when we want to make a change or feel conflict in our lives. How we operate no longer works. Something's missing or something feels wrong. This may manifest as anxiety, discomfort or sadness. I believe we all have the capacity to heal, to learn new ways of dealing with our past wounds and present circumstances. Often from trauma stems growth and strength.
(860) 724-2107 View (860) 724-2107
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Kerry Silva
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tolland, CT 06084
Not accepting new clients
In my time as a Marriage & Family Therapist, I have learned the biggest hurdle to getting help is reaching out and setting up the initial appointment. You may be apprehensive to begin to address your concerns, unsure whether your therapist will understand your needs or just overwhelmed by the treatment process as a whole. I acknowledge it takes great strength to work towards change and I hope to facilitate this process with ease. My approach to therapy aims to help people achieve their goals through demonstrating genuine empathy and fostering personal empowerment and insight to make change.
In my time as a Marriage & Family Therapist, I have learned the biggest hurdle to getting help is reaching out and setting up the initial appointment. You may be apprehensive to begin to address your concerns, unsure whether your therapist will understand your needs or just overwhelmed by the treatment process as a whole. I acknowledge it takes great strength to work towards change and I hope to facilitate this process with ease. My approach to therapy aims to help people achieve their goals through demonstrating genuine empathy and fostering personal empowerment and insight to make change.
(860) 451-0294 View (860) 451-0294

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Jocelyn Flores
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Vernon, CT 06066  (Online Only)
Are you a woman navigating the twists and turns of life, seeking to boost your confidence, enhance self-esteem, decrease stress, finally leave depression and codependency behind and build healthier relationships? Whatever new challenge you are faced with, you are not alone, and I would love to work with you! I enjoy using a strengths-based approach to work with clients on overcoming what is holding them back.
Are you a woman navigating the twists and turns of life, seeking to boost your confidence, enhance self-esteem, decrease stress, finally leave depression and codependency behind and build healthier relationships? Whatever new challenge you are faced with, you are not alone, and I would love to work with you! I enjoy using a strengths-based approach to work with clients on overcoming what is holding them back.
(860) 813-6683 View (860) 813-6683
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Lauriann Zane
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MS, LADC
Verified Verified
Storrs Mansfield, CT 06268
I specialize in helping people with substance and process addictions, and codependency.
On our path in life we all go through times of struggle. Sometimes from unresolved past issues or just problems in the present. I believe we can learn to know ourselves and move through difficulties when we have support from a trusted individual with whom we can process. I work in collaboration with clients to build on natural strengths, while addressing barriers to progress, so they can move toward their goals. I work from a wholistic perspective (mind/body) and create an emotionally supportive, non-judgmental space where clients can feel safe to share their stories and create insight for action and growth.
I specialize in helping people with substance and process addictions, and codependency.
On our path in life we all go through times of struggle. Sometimes from unresolved past issues or just problems in the present. I believe we can learn to know ourselves and move through difficulties when we have support from a trusted individual with whom we can process. I work in collaboration with clients to build on natural strengths, while addressing barriers to progress, so they can move toward their goals. I work from a wholistic perspective (mind/body) and create an emotionally supportive, non-judgmental space where clients can feel safe to share their stories and create insight for action and growth.
(860) 986-6547 View (860) 986-6547
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FACETS Counseling Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, LADC, AADC, ICOGS, GC-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Manchester, CT 06040
Since 2013. Call FACETS if you need support for your drinking or substance use or if you have a loved one about whom you are concerned and if you are ready to address drinking/substance use and effects on your family, employment, physical health, legal and overall life satisfaction. Featuring a straight-forward and honest approach to the overwhelming task of learning to live a sober lifestyle, FACETS employs an understanding of the depth of emotional and physical pain and trauma leading to or caused by alcohol, substance use and by co-occurring mental health disorders. "Mindfulness, faith, spirituality and recovery spoken here."
Since 2013. Call FACETS if you need support for your drinking or substance use or if you have a loved one about whom you are concerned and if you are ready to address drinking/substance use and effects on your family, employment, physical health, legal and overall life satisfaction. Featuring a straight-forward and honest approach to the overwhelming task of learning to live a sober lifestyle, FACETS employs an understanding of the depth of emotional and physical pain and trauma leading to or caused by alcohol, substance use and by co-occurring mental health disorders. "Mindfulness, faith, spirituality and recovery spoken here."
(860) 986-6851 View (860) 986-6851
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Kurtis Garvin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Vernon, CT 06066  (Online Only)
I have immediate open availability currently throughout the week for mornings, afternoons, and evening sessions as well as Sunday mornings. I am currently only available for telehealth for both CT and FL clients. I believe that life is short and I want to maximize every ounce of enjoyment that one can have. I offer real life solutions using proven research driven modalities in an easily delivered manner to help with any treatment goals, no matter how big or small.
I have immediate open availability currently throughout the week for mornings, afternoons, and evening sessions as well as Sunday mornings. I am currently only available for telehealth for both CT and FL clients. I believe that life is short and I want to maximize every ounce of enjoyment that one can have. I offer real life solutions using proven research driven modalities in an easily delivered manner to help with any treatment goals, no matter how big or small.
(716) 638-2195 View (716) 638-2195
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Tom Morris
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
South Windsor, CT 06074
Currently accepting new morning/daytime clients (no evening/weekend availability - email contact preferred). I have been working with adults, adolescents and their families for the past ten years. Prior to that I worked for three years at an outpatient level with adults, family's and couples. I enjoy working with all types of clients and delving into family history as to what the root cause of the problem is and how to assist clients to come to a resolution of the origins of their problem and how it effects them today both personally and in their intimate relationships
Currently accepting new morning/daytime clients (no evening/weekend availability - email contact preferred). I have been working with adults, adolescents and their families for the past ten years. Prior to that I worked for three years at an outpatient level with adults, family's and couples. I enjoy working with all types of clients and delving into family history as to what the root cause of the problem is and how to assist clients to come to a resolution of the origins of their problem and how it effects them today both personally and in their intimate relationships
(860) 772-0163 View (860) 772-0163
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Evan Kosilla
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ellington, CT 06029  (Online Only)
First time in therapy? Having a hard time finding a young yet experienced male therapist? I have immediate openings and can’t wait to hear from you. I specialize in working with men, especially those curious about therapy but maybe hesitant to try. I also specialize in working with women who are more comfortable with a male therapist. Men especially have been taught to bury their feelings and power through tough times. Or even that therapy is for weak people. This has left so many men feeling stressed, alone, misunderstood, and with nobody to talk with. Let's work through your challenges in a judgment free, confidential space.
First time in therapy? Having a hard time finding a young yet experienced male therapist? I have immediate openings and can’t wait to hear from you. I specialize in working with men, especially those curious about therapy but maybe hesitant to try. I also specialize in working with women who are more comfortable with a male therapist. Men especially have been taught to bury their feelings and power through tough times. Or even that therapy is for weak people. This has left so many men feeling stressed, alone, misunderstood, and with nobody to talk with. Let's work through your challenges in a judgment free, confidential space.
(860) 689-1675 View (860) 689-1675

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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.