Emotionally Focused Therapists in Southington, CT

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Kindred Psychotherapy and Consultation
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
Waitlist for new clients
Our work with our clients draws upon psychodynamic theories and evidence-based methods of treatment including Problem Solving Therapy (PST), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) & Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).
Kindred Psychotherapy is a collaborative group of highly-skilled therapists with specialized training in a variety of presenting issues including depression, anxiety, grief, stage of life issues, trauma and family conflict. We know how powerful and necessary good therapy can be so we pride ourselves on providing compassionate, effective treatment to all of our clients. We all work with adults and elders through individual therapy and some of us also offer individual and joint sessions with children, adolescents, and couples.
Our work with our clients draws upon psychodynamic theories and evidence-based methods of treatment including Problem Solving Therapy (PST), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) & Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).
Kindred Psychotherapy is a collaborative group of highly-skilled therapists with specialized training in a variety of presenting issues including depression, anxiety, grief, stage of life issues, trauma and family conflict. We know how powerful and necessary good therapy can be so we pride ourselves on providing compassionate, effective treatment to all of our clients. We all work with adults and elders through individual therapy and some of us also offer individual and joint sessions with children, adolescents, and couples.
(203) 664-5170 View (203) 664-5170
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Nicole Speranzo
Professional Counselor Associate, MA, LPCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
Hi there! Taking this first step to counseling is not always easy. Whether you have been to therapy before or are starting for the first time, I am here to help. I believe in forming a positive relationship with clients, emphasizing the importance of a safe space for therapeutic rapport. I take an existential approach with my clients, to help clients foster their roles and responsibilities. My goal as a therapist is to help you feel empowered and capable without making you feel judged. I believe therapy should be collaborative and feel it is important to work with clients to help promote growth using your own timeline.
Hi there! Taking this first step to counseling is not always easy. Whether you have been to therapy before or are starting for the first time, I am here to help. I believe in forming a positive relationship with clients, emphasizing the importance of a safe space for therapeutic rapport. I take an existential approach with my clients, to help clients foster their roles and responsibilities. My goal as a therapist is to help you feel empowered and capable without making you feel judged. I believe therapy should be collaborative and feel it is important to work with clients to help promote growth using your own timeline.
(860) 813-2837 View (860) 813-2837
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Trailheads Therapeutic Services, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SBMFT
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
We are unique individuals, yet we also share so many things. We all have images about what our life should be like: our personality, our job, our relationships... and we get stressed or anxious when life is not living up to what we imagined. Worse, sometimes it feels like we have a war going on inside of us and we are not sure we are winning. This is when a therapist can help you to see things from a different perspective, make new connections, and explore new ways to approach your life.
We are unique individuals, yet we also share so many things. We all have images about what our life should be like: our personality, our job, our relationships... and we get stressed or anxious when life is not living up to what we imagined. Worse, sometimes it feels like we have a war going on inside of us and we are not sure we are winning. This is when a therapist can help you to see things from a different perspective, make new connections, and explore new ways to approach your life.
(860) 792-5730 View (860) 792-5730
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Joanne Etter
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified School Counselor and co-owner of Apple Valley Behavioral Health. I meet my client's needs by being goal-oriented and solution focused. My strengths lie in empowering clients to create structured plans and set attainable goals. Regardless of what brings a client to seek support, I will be there to support them in taking the steps necessary to accomplish the changes they would like to achieve. I offer a safe and supportive environment in which to explore and meet your health and wellness goals.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified School Counselor and co-owner of Apple Valley Behavioral Health. I meet my client's needs by being goal-oriented and solution focused. My strengths lie in empowering clients to create structured plans and set attainable goals. Regardless of what brings a client to seek support, I will be there to support them in taking the steps necessary to accomplish the changes they would like to achieve. I offer a safe and supportive environment in which to explore and meet your health and wellness goals.
(860) 909-0661 View (860) 909-0661
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Katie M Claywell
Counselor, MAAT, LPC
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
If you are struggling with a life situation, anxiety or an emotional disturbance, I offer my genuine guidance through conversation and/or creative expression. It is my goal to see a client's happiness and peace. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & an Art Therapist. I've been trained as a clinician in traditional talk therapy but also art therapy, allowing a client to open up in a variety of ways. I feel that every person deserves to feel wholeness in his or her life.
If you are struggling with a life situation, anxiety or an emotional disturbance, I offer my genuine guidance through conversation and/or creative expression. It is my goal to see a client's happiness and peace. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & an Art Therapist. I've been trained as a clinician in traditional talk therapy but also art therapy, allowing a client to open up in a variety of ways. I feel that every person deserves to feel wholeness in his or her life.
(860) 863-4268 View (860) 863-4268
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Kathryn Blair
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
Feeling overwhelmed? Looking for a therapist isn't easy. You may be reading profile after profile thinking all of these people sound the same or may have no idea what any of this means. You’re not alone! Most people don’t care about the interventions or methods of therapy used. They just want to feel better! I believe the answer to feeling better lies in the connection. A good therapist is someone you can trust, open up to, and share yourself with, so that you can learn to overcome the challenges you are struggling with and can grow!
Feeling overwhelmed? Looking for a therapist isn't easy. You may be reading profile after profile thinking all of these people sound the same or may have no idea what any of this means. You’re not alone! Most people don’t care about the interventions or methods of therapy used. They just want to feel better! I believe the answer to feeling better lies in the connection. A good therapist is someone you can trust, open up to, and share yourself with, so that you can learn to overcome the challenges you are struggling with and can grow!
(860) 855-0544 View (860) 855-0544
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Marissa R Caiafa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CHT, CHC
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
Not accepting new clients
Thank you for visiting my page. It takes a lot of courage to initiate this first step in asking for help or guidance. I am committed to helping my clients address their needs and assist them in working toward a healthier and more productive lifestyle. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been in the field for over 9 years. While I work with a variety of people I am especially passionate about working with clients with life transitions, anxiety disorders, and establishing healthy habits. I am trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy which is a technique to overcome the effects of trauma, anxiety, and many other issues.
Thank you for visiting my page. It takes a lot of courage to initiate this first step in asking for help or guidance. I am committed to helping my clients address their needs and assist them in working toward a healthier and more productive lifestyle. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been in the field for over 9 years. While I work with a variety of people I am especially passionate about working with clients with life transitions, anxiety disorders, and establishing healthy habits. I am trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy which is a technique to overcome the effects of trauma, anxiety, and many other issues.
(203) 344-7453 View (203) 344-7453
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Regina Kijewski
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489  (Online Only)
NOW OFFERING TELEHEALTH (remote video sessions) I have been immersed in the field of marriage and family therapy for 20+ years. I have extensive experience with families, couples, adolescents, and individual work. My expertise is in family therapy. Life is hard and having a great therapist to help you through the transitions is so valuable. We all need a great therapist!!!!!
NOW OFFERING TELEHEALTH (remote video sessions) I have been immersed in the field of marriage and family therapy for 20+ years. I have extensive experience with families, couples, adolescents, and individual work. My expertise is in family therapy. Life is hard and having a great therapist to help you through the transitions is so valuable. We all need a great therapist!!!!!
(860) 452-3128 View (860) 452-3128
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Melissa Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489  (Online Only)
Putting yourself first can truly feel impossible. Many of us have responsibilities to work, family or relationships that can easily be prioritized over our own wellbeing and happiness. It's easy to feel overwhelmed or stuck, especially when you don't know how to help yourself. Trying to manage symptoms of anxiety, depression, alcohol/drug use or other mental health concerns can make the process even more challenging. I'm here to help explore solutions so that you can live a more fulfilling life.
Putting yourself first can truly feel impossible. Many of us have responsibilities to work, family or relationships that can easily be prioritized over our own wellbeing and happiness. It's easy to feel overwhelmed or stuck, especially when you don't know how to help yourself. Trying to manage symptoms of anxiety, depression, alcohol/drug use or other mental health concerns can make the process even more challenging. I'm here to help explore solutions so that you can live a more fulfilling life.
(860) 864-4371 View (860) 864-4371
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Center for Divorce and Healing
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
HELP is here. Divorce can be frightening and confusing; the Legal Process, child custody both Legal and Physical, what about our home and property, retirement accounts (what's a QDRO), alimony? CALL me now, I can help. Let my 25+ years of experience mediating divorce benefit YOU. Keep the control in YOUR hands. No more sleepless nights. Mediation that is Smarter, Better, and Less Costly than lengthy litigation. I am skilled at working with male/female narcissists as well. CALL ME for FREE 15 minute consult. Relationship and Couples work too as needed. I am here to help you with your individual situation confidentially. Let's talk
HELP is here. Divorce can be frightening and confusing; the Legal Process, child custody both Legal and Physical, what about our home and property, retirement accounts (what's a QDRO), alimony? CALL me now, I can help. Let my 25+ years of experience mediating divorce benefit YOU. Keep the control in YOUR hands. No more sleepless nights. Mediation that is Smarter, Better, and Less Costly than lengthy litigation. I am skilled at working with male/female narcissists as well. CALL ME for FREE 15 minute consult. Relationship and Couples work too as needed. I am here to help you with your individual situation confidentially. Let's talk
(860) 406-7484 View (860) 406-7484
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Abby Consolo
Professional Counselor Associate, MA, LPCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489  (Online Only)
Hello and welcome to making the first step to explore therapy! Even if you have been in therapy before or this is your first time, it can be daunting and I am here to help! My goal is to make you comfortable and look forward to coming to therapy. My goal as a therapist is to meet you where you are at and help you achieve the goals you set forth.
Hello and welcome to making the first step to explore therapy! Even if you have been in therapy before or this is your first time, it can be daunting and I am here to help! My goal is to make you comfortable and look forward to coming to therapy. My goal as a therapist is to meet you where you are at and help you achieve the goals you set forth.
(860) 813-3287 View (860) 813-3287
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Cornerstone Counseling Center
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
We have extensive training and clinical experience with anxiety, depression and family conflict. We also specialize in behavioral modification and emotional regulation support. We have clinical experience working with children and adults who struggle with effectively managing their day-to-day tasks and regulating their emotions related to current life stressors, past trauma or underlying symptoms of anxiety and/or depression.
We have extensive training and clinical experience with anxiety, depression and family conflict. We also specialize in behavioral modification and emotional regulation support. We have clinical experience working with children and adults who struggle with effectively managing their day-to-day tasks and regulating their emotions related to current life stressors, past trauma or underlying symptoms of anxiety and/or depression.
(860) 813-8573 View (860) 813-8573
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Susan Gagnon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
I am the owner & psychotherapist for Adolescent, Adult & Family Behavioral Health. I specialize in issues of trauma, loss, depression & anxiety for adolescents, adults & their families. I have expertise in working with teenagers within all levels of psychiatric care over the past 32 years. Couples therapy is a passion of mine as I believe in our ability to change our lives by changing the way we think about & approach relationships. I also believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to reach their full potential & to have compassionate support as they reach towards their goals.
I am the owner & psychotherapist for Adolescent, Adult & Family Behavioral Health. I specialize in issues of trauma, loss, depression & anxiety for adolescents, adults & their families. I have expertise in working with teenagers within all levels of psychiatric care over the past 32 years. Couples therapy is a passion of mine as I believe in our ability to change our lives by changing the way we think about & approach relationships. I also believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to reach their full potential & to have compassionate support as they reach towards their goals.
(860) 406-5068 View (860) 406-5068
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Sarah Nicastro Shea
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Southington, CT 06489
Not accepting new clients
Not Accepting New Clients At This Time - I recognize it can feel overwhelming, maybe even a little scary, to search for a therapist at a time when you are struggling. I can assure you, with my experience and empathetic presence, I do my best to make the process feel seamless and welcoming. I have extensive experience working with children, young adults, families, and couples. I work full-time as a school-based therapist working with children and families navigating mental health diagnoses and challenging life circumstances. I welcome you to bring your challenges into my therapy room so that you don't have to navigate them alone.
Not Accepting New Clients At This Time - I recognize it can feel overwhelming, maybe even a little scary, to search for a therapist at a time when you are struggling. I can assure you, with my experience and empathetic presence, I do my best to make the process feel seamless and welcoming. I have extensive experience working with children, young adults, families, and couples. I work full-time as a school-based therapist working with children and families navigating mental health diagnoses and challenging life circumstances. I welcome you to bring your challenges into my therapy room so that you don't have to navigate them alone.
(860) 775-7480 View (860) 775-7480
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Tracie L. Preli-Derwin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Everyone is capable of learning, changing, and healing, no matter what life stage they are in. Beginning therapy can be difficult either for the first time or again after what may have felt like a not so good fit. I believe in a warm, compassionate, empathetic, nonjudgmental approach to therapy. My goal is to help you to find a starting place, work towards your personal goals, achieve success, and feel better. I believe there is a strong connection between how we feel mentally and how we feel physically, therefore, I strive to help my clients on a holistic level.
Everyone is capable of learning, changing, and healing, no matter what life stage they are in. Beginning therapy can be difficult either for the first time or again after what may have felt like a not so good fit. I believe in a warm, compassionate, empathetic, nonjudgmental approach to therapy. My goal is to help you to find a starting place, work towards your personal goals, achieve success, and feel better. I believe there is a strong connection between how we feel mentally and how we feel physically, therefore, I strive to help my clients on a holistic level.
(959) 777-4690 View (959) 777-4690
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Katie Bassoli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
You may be exhausted, disconnected, or feeling empty and looking for some hope. You may feel alone on this journey and believe something needs to change. Perhaps you are in a relationship that just doesn’t feel right or you have experienced something that has left you feeling afraid, out of control, or numb. Maybe you are navigating a difficult journey toward motherhood, grieving the loss of one or more pregnancies, or have arrived at motherhood to realize that this is not what you had expected.
You may be exhausted, disconnected, or feeling empty and looking for some hope. You may feel alone on this journey and believe something needs to change. Perhaps you are in a relationship that just doesn’t feel right or you have experienced something that has left you feeling afraid, out of control, or numb. Maybe you are navigating a difficult journey toward motherhood, grieving the loss of one or more pregnancies, or have arrived at motherhood to realize that this is not what you had expected.
(860) 378-8577 View (860) 378-8577
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Rameya Shanmugavelayutham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
I believe therapy can be a catalyst for important changes we want to make in our lives. I work with folx who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, ADHD ; people who want to improve their relationships and those who just want to learn more about themselves while building a more pleasurable and purposeful life. Many of my clients seek to enhance their sense of self by unpacking their experience of trauma in the context of varying identities, neurodiversities, family structures, and/or immigration experiences. I also work with children and their families who have experienced stress, life disruptions and trauma.
I believe therapy can be a catalyst for important changes we want to make in our lives. I work with folx who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, ADHD ; people who want to improve their relationships and those who just want to learn more about themselves while building a more pleasurable and purposeful life. Many of my clients seek to enhance their sense of self by unpacking their experience of trauma in the context of varying identities, neurodiversities, family structures, and/or immigration experiences. I also work with children and their families who have experienced stress, life disruptions and trauma.
(860) 281-1133 x5 View (860) 281-1133 x5
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Shane Putney
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
Sometimes in attempting to navigate the complexity of mental health, life change or relationships, we need support! I'm Shane Putney, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I'm here to be that support for you. Drawing from diverse experience and ongoing learning, my approach is holistic and client centered. I understand that every individual, couple, and family brings their own unique rhythm and narrative. I am dedicated to establishing a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself and gather insight you need to make a shift in your life.
Sometimes in attempting to navigate the complexity of mental health, life change or relationships, we need support! I'm Shane Putney, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I'm here to be that support for you. Drawing from diverse experience and ongoing learning, my approach is holistic and client centered. I understand that every individual, couple, and family brings their own unique rhythm and narrative. I am dedicated to establishing a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself and gather insight you need to make a shift in your life.
(203) 693-9567 View (203) 693-9567
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Grateful Soul Counseling, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489  (Online Only)
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I am dedicated to helping teens, families and adults in their path to wellness. I strive to help create a safe environment to build trust, overall peace and self awareness. Therapy and the therapeutic process is a non judgmental safe space to work on whatever you may be going through. I have extensive experience in addressing complex trauma, anxiety and panic, depression, OCD, behavioral and emotional reactivity, substance abuse and addiction, sexual reactivity, parenting and other life transitions.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I am dedicated to helping teens, families and adults in their path to wellness. I strive to help create a safe environment to build trust, overall peace and self awareness. Therapy and the therapeutic process is a non judgmental safe space to work on whatever you may be going through. I have extensive experience in addressing complex trauma, anxiety and panic, depression, OCD, behavioral and emotional reactivity, substance abuse and addiction, sexual reactivity, parenting and other life transitions.
(860) 499-3787 View (860) 499-3787
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Bryant M Keith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SBMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southington, CT 06489
We are unique individuals, yet we also share so many things. We all have images about what our life should be like: our personality, our job, our relationships... and it can be stressful and anxiety inducing when life is not living up to what we imagined. Worse, sometimes it feels like we have a war going on inside of us and we are not sure we are winning. This is when a therapist can be very helpful. A therapist can help you to see things from a different perspective, make new connections, and explore new ways to approach your life.
We are unique individuals, yet we also share so many things. We all have images about what our life should be like: our personality, our job, our relationships... and it can be stressful and anxiety inducing when life is not living up to what we imagined. Worse, sometimes it feels like we have a war going on inside of us and we are not sure we are winning. This is when a therapist can be very helpful. A therapist can help you to see things from a different perspective, make new connections, and explore new ways to approach your life.
(475) 263-3551 View (475) 263-3551
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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.