Couples Counseling Therapists in Greenwich, CT

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Dr. Matthew Tansey
Counselor, PhD, LPC, MS
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06807
I help clients feel less anxious and more authentic in their relationships. I believe that many people experience struggle in their lives as a result of growing distant from their emotional compasses. I work with individual clients and couples to reconnect with these aspects of their experiences. Please note that I am only available for telehealth sessions
I help clients feel less anxious and more authentic in their relationships. I believe that many people experience struggle in their lives as a result of growing distant from their emotional compasses. I work with individual clients and couples to reconnect with these aspects of their experiences. Please note that I am only available for telehealth sessions
(385) 831-6594 View (385) 831-6594
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Mieke Stapelberg
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ABS, NCE
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
Specializing in bipolar disorder, mood disorders, and anxiety disorders, I am also a board-certified sexologist dedicated to supporting clients in their journey towards relationship development.
My path to therapy has been anything but ordinary. Twelve years ago, I took a leap of faith and packed my entire life into a single suitcase, leaving South Africa behind to build a new chapter in the United States. Today, I am blessed with a beautiful family and a career that fills me with passion and purpose. Although I initially pursued acting, I soon discovered my true calling: working closely with clients like you, witnessing their personal growth, and helping them thrive! There's nothing more fulfilling to me than connecting with individuals one-on-one and making them feel seen, heard, and understood.
Specializing in bipolar disorder, mood disorders, and anxiety disorders, I am also a board-certified sexologist dedicated to supporting clients in their journey towards relationship development.
My path to therapy has been anything but ordinary. Twelve years ago, I took a leap of faith and packed my entire life into a single suitcase, leaving South Africa behind to build a new chapter in the United States. Today, I am blessed with a beautiful family and a career that fills me with passion and purpose. Although I initially pursued acting, I soon discovered my true calling: working closely with clients like you, witnessing their personal growth, and helping them thrive! There's nothing more fulfilling to me than connecting with individuals one-on-one and making them feel seen, heard, and understood.
(475) 222-1422 View (475) 222-1422
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Greta Cowles Consulting
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP, PIT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830  (Online Only)
For over a decade, Gretchen has specialized in supporting families, executives, individuals, and couples facing PTSD and trauma, somatic disorders, chronic pain, concussions, phobias as well as neurologically-based challenges that limit motility.
Gretchen Hentsch-Cowles works with all areas of individual and relationship challenges; the breakdown of personal and professional inter-relational dynamics; freezing athletic and executive syndrome; and expansion of self-worth. Depending on each client’s needs, Gretchen’s approach is tailor made, whether it be within the privacy of productive therapeutic meetings or within the courts for the benefit of the client. Each family member is considered to play a role in the emotional, behavioral and relational patterns with the family system. Gretchen’s approach allows for every member of the family to make changes and heal.
For over a decade, Gretchen has specialized in supporting families, executives, individuals, and couples facing PTSD and trauma, somatic disorders, chronic pain, concussions, phobias as well as neurologically-based challenges that limit motility.
Gretchen Hentsch-Cowles works with all areas of individual and relationship challenges; the breakdown of personal and professional inter-relational dynamics; freezing athletic and executive syndrome; and expansion of self-worth. Depending on each client’s needs, Gretchen’s approach is tailor made, whether it be within the privacy of productive therapeutic meetings or within the courts for the benefit of the client. Each family member is considered to play a role in the emotional, behavioral and relational patterns with the family system. Gretchen’s approach allows for every member of the family to make changes and heal.
(475) 252-9632 View (475) 252-9632
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Dr. Normajean Cefarelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
Have you ever wondered whether in person or video therapy would work for you? I offer a complimentary phone consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, crisis management, anger issues, couples, and family issues. I have extensive experience working with individuals and families using CBT, mindfulness, and family system interventions. I work to create a virtual safe haven where we can explore your challenges. In addition to seeing clients virtually at Greenwich Psychology Group, I am a virtual professor and clinical supervisor at New York University.
Have you ever wondered whether in person or video therapy would work for you? I offer a complimentary phone consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, crisis management, anger issues, couples, and family issues. I have extensive experience working with individuals and families using CBT, mindfulness, and family system interventions. I work to create a virtual safe haven where we can explore your challenges. In addition to seeing clients virtually at Greenwich Psychology Group, I am a virtual professor and clinical supervisor at New York University.
(347) 508-6308 View (347) 508-6308
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Sage Williamson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
I have formal training in couples therapy and specialize in working with married individuals.
Have you wondered if your child or adolescent would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I can help your child explore their feelings, make sense of their experience, and develop their full potential. I can help your child become their own therapist by learning techniques and coping strategies to learn how to deal with their challenges in their lives. I work well with children and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, social issues, learning issues, attention deficit disorder, and body image issues. Clients often see improved well-being early on in therapy.
I have formal training in couples therapy and specialize in working with married individuals.
Have you wondered if your child or adolescent would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I can help your child explore their feelings, make sense of their experience, and develop their full potential. I can help your child become their own therapist by learning techniques and coping strategies to learn how to deal with their challenges in their lives. I work well with children and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, social issues, learning issues, attention deficit disorder, and body image issues. Clients often see improved well-being early on in therapy.
(203) 590-8251 View (203) 590-8251
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Orla Cashman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
Cashman is intensively trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy as well as Gestalt therapy and has experience working with all ages, including couples, families, and groups.
Orla Cashman, Ph.D., LCSW is a doctor of Clinical Social Work with a Masters in Social Work from Hunter College and a Doctorate in Clinical Social Work from New York University.While finishing her thesis on the effects that socioeconomic status has on treatment and mental health, Dr. Cashman published her findings in a book she co-authored titled Toxic Wealth: How the Culture of Affluence Can Harm Us and Our Children. Dr. Cashman has maintained a private practice in Greenwich, Connecticut for 25 years, working with hundreds of children, adolescents, and adults.
Cashman is intensively trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy as well as Gestalt therapy and has experience working with all ages, including couples, families, and groups.
Orla Cashman, Ph.D., LCSW is a doctor of Clinical Social Work with a Masters in Social Work from Hunter College and a Doctorate in Clinical Social Work from New York University.While finishing her thesis on the effects that socioeconomic status has on treatment and mental health, Dr. Cashman published her findings in a book she co-authored titled Toxic Wealth: How the Culture of Affluence Can Harm Us and Our Children. Dr. Cashman has maintained a private practice in Greenwich, Connecticut for 25 years, working with hundreds of children, adolescents, and adults.
(203) 204-3363 View (203) 204-3363
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Sage Williamson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
(203) 408-6125 View (203) 408-6125
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Charles Andrew Opsahl
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
My mission is to provide the highest level of care for adults, couples, and business people.
You may have wondered whether therapy could be helpful to you. I offer a phone consult to discuss any questions you may have. I understand the impact of your psychological health and am committed to helping during this time. As a senior staff therapist at Zackson Psychology group, I enjoy working with individuals who are intelligent and thoughtful but may be struggling with anxiety, depression, family, and work issues. I work to create a safe and non- judgmental space where we can explore your challenges and find ways to reconnect with your healthier and positive self.
My mission is to provide the highest level of care for adults, couples, and business people.
You may have wondered whether therapy could be helpful to you. I offer a phone consult to discuss any questions you may have. I understand the impact of your psychological health and am committed to helping during this time. As a senior staff therapist at Zackson Psychology group, I enjoy working with individuals who are intelligent and thoughtful but may be struggling with anxiety, depression, family, and work issues. I work to create a safe and non- judgmental space where we can explore your challenges and find ways to reconnect with your healthier and positive self.
(203) 403-6626 View (203) 403-6626
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Dr. Normajean Cefarelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
Have you ever wondered whether in person or video therapy would work for you? I offer a complimentary phone consultation to discuss any questions you may have. You can talk to me about anything; nothing you say will surprise me. I can help your adolescent or young adult work through difficulties and become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. My work is dedicated to the well-being of families and young adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship and work issues, and other stressors. I am easy to talk to, compassionate, and real. Clients often see improvement early on in therapy.
Have you ever wondered whether in person or video therapy would work for you? I offer a complimentary phone consultation to discuss any questions you may have. You can talk to me about anything; nothing you say will surprise me. I can help your adolescent or young adult work through difficulties and become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. My work is dedicated to the well-being of families and young adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship and work issues, and other stressors. I am easy to talk to, compassionate, and real. Clients often see improvement early on in therapy.
(646) 679-2590 View (646) 679-2590
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Medina Cecunjanin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
This intensive clinical training, combined with my business experience, provides me with a unique understanding of relationship and workplace issues.
Are you a high-achieving Type A who has accomplished professional success but is struggling? Do you feel disengaged, lonely, negative, and beginning to dislike the person you are becoming? I have specialized training with high-functioning individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and relationship issues. I can help you harness your difficulties by learning how to manage stressors that come up in life and building resilience. I combine strategies from the best in our field, including evidence-based, solution-focused, and exploratory treatment. Simply put, whatever you're going through, I can help.
This intensive clinical training, combined with my business experience, provides me with a unique understanding of relationship and workplace issues.
Are you a high-achieving Type A who has accomplished professional success but is struggling? Do you feel disengaged, lonely, negative, and beginning to dislike the person you are becoming? I have specialized training with high-functioning individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and relationship issues. I can help you harness your difficulties by learning how to manage stressors that come up in life and building resilience. I combine strategies from the best in our field, including evidence-based, solution-focused, and exploratory treatment. Simply put, whatever you're going through, I can help.
(646) 904-4339 View (646) 904-4339
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Susan Gestal
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
With extensive training in attachment-focused therapies (Emotionally Focused Therapy & Theraplay®), I am able to help children, adults, couples and families of all ages heal from past relationship wounds and develop healthy patterns of relating.
I have a passion for helping people of all ages improve their relationships, develop healthy coping skills and heal from relational injuries or trauma. In a safe and accepting environment we explore and understand the things that are not working well for you. There is always a reason for people's choices and behaviors, even those that cause significant problems. Once you understand the reason behind the behavior you can begin to make changes and adopt new healthier ways of living. I walk alongside and encourage you in this often difficult, but rewarding process.
With extensive training in attachment-focused therapies (Emotionally Focused Therapy & Theraplay®), I am able to help children, adults, couples and families of all ages heal from past relationship wounds and develop healthy patterns of relating.
I have a passion for helping people of all ages improve their relationships, develop healthy coping skills and heal from relational injuries or trauma. In a safe and accepting environment we explore and understand the things that are not working well for you. There is always a reason for people's choices and behaviors, even those that cause significant problems. Once you understand the reason behind the behavior you can begin to make changes and adopt new healthier ways of living. I walk alongside and encourage you in this often difficult, but rewarding process.
(203) 275-0453 View (203) 275-0453
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Sephora Baron
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
(203) 793-6724 View (203) 793-6724
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Edward J Schork
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
Welcome! Feeling stressed, overwhelmed, unfulfilled or invalidated at work or in your relationships? Experiencing intense sadness, anxiety, anger, loneliness, stuck in unsatisfying or self-defeating patterns? Worried about a struggling child or challenged by a troubled teen or difficult family member? Having romantic/marital difficulties, contemplating breakup/divorce? I can help. Together we can build a compassionate, empathic "team effort" that builds upon & enhances your existing strengths, helps you learn new, optimal coping strategies & communication & relationship skills, heals pain and suffering, overcomes obstacles, optimizes career, school or family wellbeing & success, enhances feelings of life satisfaction and fulfillment, and maximizes your and your loved ones' potential.
Welcome! Feeling stressed, overwhelmed, unfulfilled or invalidated at work or in your relationships? Experiencing intense sadness, anxiety, anger, loneliness, stuck in unsatisfying or self-defeating patterns? Worried about a struggling child or challenged by a troubled teen or difficult family member? Having romantic/marital difficulties, contemplating breakup/divorce? I can help. Together we can build a compassionate, empathic "team effort" that builds upon & enhances your existing strengths, helps you learn new, optimal coping strategies & communication & relationship skills, heals pain and suffering, overcomes obstacles, optimizes career, school or family wellbeing & success, enhances feelings of life satisfaction and fulfillment, and maximizes your and your loved ones' potential.
(203) 463-4194 View (203) 463-4194
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Fenia Weiller
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is an important part of the healing journey.
I have been a psychotherapist for over 20 years, working with adolescents and adults. I have extensive experience treating a wide range of difficulties including mood disorders, trauma, disruptions in life transitions, grief and loss, and co-occurring substance misuse.
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is an important part of the healing journey.
I have been a psychotherapist for over 20 years, working with adolescents and adults. I have extensive experience treating a wide range of difficulties including mood disorders, trauma, disruptions in life transitions, grief and loss, and co-occurring substance misuse.
(475) 219-2154 View (475) 219-2154
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Scott Gillet
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, CNT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
(475) 252-8010 View (475) 252-8010
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Dr. Normajean Cefarelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
Have you ever wondered whether in person or video therapy would work for you? I offer a complimentary phone consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, crisis management, anger issues, couples, and family issues. I have extensive experience working with individuals and families using CBT, mindfulness, and family system interventions. I work to create a virtual safe haven where we can explore your challenges. In addition to seeing clients virtually at Greenwich Psychology Group, I am a virtual professor and clinical supervisor at New York University.
Have you ever wondered whether in person or video therapy would work for you? I offer a complimentary phone consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, crisis management, anger issues, couples, and family issues. I have extensive experience working with individuals and families using CBT, mindfulness, and family system interventions. I work to create a virtual safe haven where we can explore your challenges. In addition to seeing clients virtually at Greenwich Psychology Group, I am a virtual professor and clinical supervisor at New York University.
(347) 752-5447 View (347) 752-5447
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Bryanna Fatigate
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
Dr. Fatigate is a passionate therapist who utilizes highly effective treatments, such as CBT, DBT, and ACT, to empower her clients to achieve their goals. She has had extensive training at a renowned CBT/DBT training center and through Mount Sinai’s esteemed therapy programs. Through relationship building, collaboration, and adapting to each client’s needs, she provides holistic, tailored, and client-centered treatment. Her diverse experiences across outpatient, private practice, and hospitals allow her to connect with clients, regardless of what they are experiencing, and help them achieve symptom reduction and holistic well-being.
Dr. Fatigate is a passionate therapist who utilizes highly effective treatments, such as CBT, DBT, and ACT, to empower her clients to achieve their goals. She has had extensive training at a renowned CBT/DBT training center and through Mount Sinai’s esteemed therapy programs. Through relationship building, collaboration, and adapting to each client’s needs, she provides holistic, tailored, and client-centered treatment. Her diverse experiences across outpatient, private practice, and hospitals allow her to connect with clients, regardless of what they are experiencing, and help them achieve symptom reduction and holistic well-being.
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Jessica Hansmann
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06830
Having witnessed the profound impact of a supportive therapeutic relationship and the intricate layers of healing, I aspire to continue serving individuals with unconditional positive regard on their journey to overcoming challenges.
Through an integrative, whole-person approach to therapeutic intervention, I help individuals gain a deeper connection to themselves and the world, identifying limiting internal beliefs and cultivating self-acceptance, inner peace, and empowerment. I utilize a non-judgmental and compassionate approach to supporting others with confidence in their intrinsic value, importance, and potential.
Having witnessed the profound impact of a supportive therapeutic relationship and the intricate layers of healing, I aspire to continue serving individuals with unconditional positive regard on their journey to overcoming challenges.
Through an integrative, whole-person approach to therapeutic intervention, I help individuals gain a deeper connection to themselves and the world, identifying limiting internal beliefs and cultivating self-acceptance, inner peace, and empowerment. I utilize a non-judgmental and compassionate approach to supporting others with confidence in their intrinsic value, importance, and potential.
(914) 604-2486 View (914) 604-2486
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Bryanna Fatigate
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Greenwich, CT 06831
Dr. Fatigate is a passionate therapist who utilizes highly effective treatments, such as CBT, DBT, and ACT, to empower her clients to achieve their goals. She has had extensive training at a renowned CBT/DBT training center and through Mount Sinai’s esteemed therapy programs. Through relationship building, collaboration, and adapting to each client’s needs, she provides holistic, tailored, and client-centered treatment. Her diverse experiences across outpatient, private practice, and hospitals allow her to connect with clients, regardless of what they are experiencing, and help them achieve symptom reduction and holistic well-being.
Dr. Fatigate is a passionate therapist who utilizes highly effective treatments, such as CBT, DBT, and ACT, to empower her clients to achieve their goals. She has had extensive training at a renowned CBT/DBT training center and through Mount Sinai’s esteemed therapy programs. Through relationship building, collaboration, and adapting to each client’s needs, she provides holistic, tailored, and client-centered treatment. Her diverse experiences across outpatient, private practice, and hospitals allow her to connect with clients, regardless of what they are experiencing, and help them achieve symptom reduction and holistic well-being.
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Kirsten Lesch
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSW, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Greenwich, CT 06831
I treat individuals, couples issues, relationship and sexual concerns, anxiety, trauma, stress management, women's issues, and career uncertainty.
Now accepting Lyra benefits! You deserve a life that feels good. We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns. Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that's not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and silence it until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how hurt we are. The more we aren't seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates.—It doesn’t have to be this way.
I treat individuals, couples issues, relationship and sexual concerns, anxiety, trauma, stress management, women's issues, and career uncertainty.
Now accepting Lyra benefits! You deserve a life that feels good. We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns. Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that's not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and silence it until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how hurt we are. The more we aren't seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates.—It doesn’t have to be this way.
(475) 888-0184 View (475) 888-0184
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.