Couples Counseling Therapists in Vancouver, WA

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Michael Fernandez
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98684
I also work with couples to break unhealthy patterns of communication and rekindle foundational friendships.
If you have felt taken advantage of by spiritual leaders, hurt by those who are meant to shepherd, or just turned off by the hypocrisy of the church, we could be a great fit. I work with young adults and grown adults to help you discover a more meaningful way to integrate with your negative spiritual experiences with whatever your remaining faith may look like. Empathy and humor is central to how I interact with clients. If you’re ready to see a change in your life, even if it seems out of reach, please reach out and let me join you on your journey.
I also work with couples to break unhealthy patterns of communication and rekindle foundational friendships.
If you have felt taken advantage of by spiritual leaders, hurt by those who are meant to shepherd, or just turned off by the hypocrisy of the church, we could be a great fit. I work with young adults and grown adults to help you discover a more meaningful way to integrate with your negative spiritual experiences with whatever your remaining faith may look like. Empathy and humor is central to how I interact with clients. If you’re ready to see a change in your life, even if it seems out of reach, please reach out and let me join you on your journey.
(360) 968-8831 View (360) 968-8831
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Heather Gamble
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98663
My approach honors clients as experts of their own change and combines aspects of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Theory, Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the Gottman Method (couples).
Are you looking to embrace hope and find personalized solutions to overcome your barriers? Whether you are looking for support as an individual, couple, or family, I am here to help you clarify your needs, find inner strength, develop solutions that resonate with you, reach your goals, and build the future you envision.
My approach honors clients as experts of their own change and combines aspects of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Theory, Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the Gottman Method (couples).
Are you looking to embrace hope and find personalized solutions to overcome your barriers? Whether you are looking for support as an individual, couple, or family, I am here to help you clarify your needs, find inner strength, develop solutions that resonate with you, reach your goals, and build the future you envision.
(360) 228-3947 View (360) 228-3947
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Stephen P Grant
Counselor, MACP, LMHC, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98685
I have both betrayed my partner and been betrayed by a partner.
Is your world imploding? Betrayal shatters our worlds. Whether the betrayer or the betrayed, it destroys us! Betrayers face a sense of powerlessness, loneliness, and hopelessness: realizing they can never be really known or completely love another. And, the betrayed dazedly look at a million shattered pieces of the life they thought they knew and wonder if they can trust themselves or another again. Betrayal, fear, and grief traumatize us and become our constant companions. Shock often sets in. We feel isolated & alone. But real, lasting help is available. You don’t have to stay stuck in this frightening & paralyzing space.
I have both betrayed my partner and been betrayed by a partner.
Is your world imploding? Betrayal shatters our worlds. Whether the betrayer or the betrayed, it destroys us! Betrayers face a sense of powerlessness, loneliness, and hopelessness: realizing they can never be really known or completely love another. And, the betrayed dazedly look at a million shattered pieces of the life they thought they knew and wonder if they can trust themselves or another again. Betrayal, fear, and grief traumatize us and become our constant companions. Shock often sets in. We feel isolated & alone. But real, lasting help is available. You don’t have to stay stuck in this frightening & paralyzing space.
(360) 835-6884 View (360) 835-6884
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Joey Schweinfurth
Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98686
My areas of focus includes: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, marriage/couples counseling, divorce/separation support, self-esteem/confidence issues.
I firmly believe that there is power in lending an ear and meeting someone where they are at through providing empathy and support. With that support change is possible, and clients can work towards seeing the growth an healing they desire. I would be honored to provide that ear to listen and support you as we work together to reach your goals and achieve the change you wish to see in your life. I primarily work with individuals 13+ who are dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, divorce/separation support, communication & self-esteem issues and men's issues. Se habla espanol, por favor contactarme para mas detalles.
My areas of focus includes: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, marriage/couples counseling, divorce/separation support, self-esteem/confidence issues.
I firmly believe that there is power in lending an ear and meeting someone where they are at through providing empathy and support. With that support change is possible, and clients can work towards seeing the growth an healing they desire. I would be honored to provide that ear to listen and support you as we work together to reach your goals and achieve the change you wish to see in your life. I primarily work with individuals 13+ who are dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, divorce/separation support, communication & self-esteem issues and men's issues. Se habla espanol, por favor contactarme para mas detalles.
(360) 531-7451 View (360) 531-7451
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Dawn Tec Yah
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98686  (Online Only)
I understand the courage it takes to seek help and the complexities of relationship dynamics.
I am currently welcoming couples and families who are committed to nurturing their relationships. They may be navigating communication barriers, emotional disconnects, or transitional life stages. These clients seek a collaborative space to fortify their bonds, develop understanding, and foster a healthy family dynamic. Their objective is to achieve harmony and a deeper connection, ultimately enhancing their collective well-being.
I understand the courage it takes to seek help and the complexities of relationship dynamics.
I am currently welcoming couples and families who are committed to nurturing their relationships. They may be navigating communication barriers, emotional disconnects, or transitional life stages. These clients seek a collaborative space to fortify their bonds, develop understanding, and foster a healthy family dynamic. Their objective is to achieve harmony and a deeper connection, ultimately enhancing their collective well-being.
(360) 996-6071 View (360) 996-6071
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Kathy Shenk
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LMHC, CGE
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98663
Assisting individuals, couples, parents and families with the challenges of life is a privilege and a passion! Some of these challenges come from difficult and painful relationships we have with others but can even come in the relationship we have with ourselves! This can cause a loss of connection and an increase in anxiety, anger and depression. However, learning to manage and improve relationships can bring about significant satisfaction, confidence and joy. We are also often faced with the anxiety and fear of transitions and unexpected life changes. I am here to help you navigate these challenges!
Assisting individuals, couples, parents and families with the challenges of life is a privilege and a passion! Some of these challenges come from difficult and painful relationships we have with others but can even come in the relationship we have with ourselves! This can cause a loss of connection and an increase in anxiety, anger and depression. However, learning to manage and improve relationships can bring about significant satisfaction, confidence and joy. We are also often faced with the anxiety and fear of transitions and unexpected life changes. I am here to help you navigate these challenges!
(360) 226-7143 View (360) 226-7143
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Rob Baker
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LMHC, CSAT-S, AF-EMDR
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98684
I have been in practice since 1985 working with individuals, couples, groups, as a workshop presenter and professional coach.
I look forward to the opportunity to work with you to achieve your therapy goals. As we collaborate in working together on your concerns and goals, the possible benefits of your therapy are the reduction or relief from disturbing emotions or behaviors, an increase in your sense of empowerment, and improvement in your ability to make the changes you desire personally and in your relationships. You are respected as a unique individual with the dynamic capacity to change and grow. With this in mind, I will endeavor to work with you to apply approaches and strategies that will most meaningfully address your particular needs and goals.
I have been in practice since 1985 working with individuals, couples, groups, as a workshop presenter and professional coach.
I look forward to the opportunity to work with you to achieve your therapy goals. As we collaborate in working together on your concerns and goals, the possible benefits of your therapy are the reduction or relief from disturbing emotions or behaviors, an increase in your sense of empowerment, and improvement in your ability to make the changes you desire personally and in your relationships. You are respected as a unique individual with the dynamic capacity to change and grow. With this in mind, I will endeavor to work with you to apply approaches and strategies that will most meaningfully address your particular needs and goals.
(425) 230-5283 View (425) 230-5283
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DrShannon Lilja/Sandalwood Counseling
Counselor, DBH, LPC, LMHC, CADC, CDP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98661
Anxiety, depression, relationship issues, obsessive thoughts/behaviors…you may feel that something isn't working or doesn’t fit, or perhaps you are missing something you want (better communication, feeling heard, understanding). Perhaps you haven't found a solution to manage things quite the way you want. My goal is to help increase awareness and insight, working with you to understand what is going on now, its impact, and support efforts toward your goal to improve relationships, develop skills, resolve conflicts, increase self-esteem, heal, and grow. Therapy can offer wonderful opportunities to move toward the change you seek.
Anxiety, depression, relationship issues, obsessive thoughts/behaviors…you may feel that something isn't working or doesn’t fit, or perhaps you are missing something you want (better communication, feeling heard, understanding). Perhaps you haven't found a solution to manage things quite the way you want. My goal is to help increase awareness and insight, working with you to understand what is going on now, its impact, and support efforts toward your goal to improve relationships, develop skills, resolve conflicts, increase self-esteem, heal, and grow. Therapy can offer wonderful opportunities to move toward the change you seek.
(360) 564-5434 View (360) 564-5434
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Angel's Marriage and Individual Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98661  (Online Only)
Let me help you get back the relationship where you feel safe, loved and connected with your partner again.
Online Marriage Counseling and Individual Counseling for residents of Oregon, Washington and California - Do you want to decrease conflict and increase intimacy? Do you wish to establish and maintain a loving relationship with your partner where you feel safe, loved, and connected? If you said yes to these questions, Emotionally Focused Couples Counseling can greatly benefit you. You and your partner deserve to be happy, and I am here to help. Please visit my website Angels Marriage Counseling and click on the button Book to schedule a session.
Let me help you get back the relationship where you feel safe, loved and connected with your partner again.
Online Marriage Counseling and Individual Counseling for residents of Oregon, Washington and California - Do you want to decrease conflict and increase intimacy? Do you wish to establish and maintain a loving relationship with your partner where you feel safe, loved, and connected? If you said yes to these questions, Emotionally Focused Couples Counseling can greatly benefit you. You and your partner deserve to be happy, and I am here to help. Please visit my website Angels Marriage Counseling and click on the button Book to schedule a session.
(360) 558-3433 View (360) 558-3433
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Aimee Dupuy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98683
Waitlist for new clients
Life can become overwhelming at times, and seeking help can be the first courageous act in achieving a higher quality of living. I enjoy working with a wide variety of populations dealing with multiple issues. I am especially passionate about working with the LGBTQIA+ population and individuals struggling with relationship issues and/or anxiety. It is my belief that the therapeutic relationship is central to client growth. Creating a space of safety, trust and comfort for the client guides all my interactions and interventions.
Life can become overwhelming at times, and seeking help can be the first courageous act in achieving a higher quality of living. I enjoy working with a wide variety of populations dealing with multiple issues. I am especially passionate about working with the LGBTQIA+ population and individuals struggling with relationship issues and/or anxiety. It is my belief that the therapeutic relationship is central to client growth. Creating a space of safety, trust and comfort for the client guides all my interactions and interventions.
(360) 215-5914 View (360) 215-5914
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Melissa Hyland Wilson
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98683  (Online Only)
My passion is helping people achieve personal growth. Life throws at us a series of curveballs. At times we feel stuck and unsure how to make it to the other side of these challenges whether they are due to a life change such as marriage, divorce, new career, trauma, grief and loss or a host of other difficulties. With over 25 years in the counseling field, I have learned that people are individuals who do not fit into one mold. I employee a variety of techniques and approaches to fit your individual needs. Change starts within the therapeutic relationship. Compassion, humor and warmth assist in creating this relationship.
My passion is helping people achieve personal growth. Life throws at us a series of curveballs. At times we feel stuck and unsure how to make it to the other side of these challenges whether they are due to a life change such as marriage, divorce, new career, trauma, grief and loss or a host of other difficulties. With over 25 years in the counseling field, I have learned that people are individuals who do not fit into one mold. I employee a variety of techniques and approaches to fit your individual needs. Change starts within the therapeutic relationship. Compassion, humor and warmth assist in creating this relationship.
(360) 302-4364 View (360) 302-4364
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Esther J Kim
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98683
Waitlist for new clients
I have experience in somatic, narrative, and DBT/CBT for individual work; and Gottman, EFT for couples.
Welcome to my page. Everyone has a story that matters. Telling our story benefits us in many ways. It connects us from the past and future to our present lives. It is through these stories, that healing and growth can happen and a more resilient you can arise.
I have experience in somatic, narrative, and DBT/CBT for individual work; and Gottman, EFT for couples.
Welcome to my page. Everyone has a story that matters. Telling our story benefits us in many ways. It connects us from the past and future to our present lives. It is through these stories, that healing and growth can happen and a more resilient you can arise.
(360) 763-0695 View (360) 763-0695
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Creative Holistic Counseling
Psychologist, PsyD, RPT, RYT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98686
Counseling: As a holistic counselor, I work with individuals and couples using a creative and holistic approach that is strength-based and client-centered. Together, we will develop working goals and create a toolbox of personal and unique gifts.
Counseling: As a holistic counselor, I work with individuals and couples using a creative and holistic approach that is strength-based and client-centered. Together, we will develop working goals and create a toolbox of personal and unique gifts.
(360) 388-4310 View (360) 388-4310
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Kelly Ryan Garrett
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, WA 98683
While I might be a trained guide, the wilderness of your life belongs to you and my goal is to help you find ways to live in it well. The counseling relationship is a collaboration that will help you uncover the patterns in your life that are simply not working, so together we can discover a new way forward. The focus of my work is with MEN, COUPLES, and YOUNG ADULTS dealing with Stress, Depression, Anger, Sexual Addiction, Life Transitions, and relationship issues.
While I might be a trained guide, the wilderness of your life belongs to you and my goal is to help you find ways to live in it well. The counseling relationship is a collaboration that will help you uncover the patterns in your life that are simply not working, so together we can discover a new way forward. The focus of my work is with MEN, COUPLES, and YOUNG ADULTS dealing with Stress, Depression, Anger, Sexual Addiction, Life Transitions, and relationship issues.
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Caroline Gearing
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98660
As a licensed marriage and family therapist I specialize in sexual addiction work for men and women transitioning from sexual addiction to healthy sexuality, and partners and couples dealing with sexual addiction. Groups provided: sex addiction, partner of sexual addict, couples dealing with sexual addiction, and love addiction. Strong focus on couples counseling, premarital counseling using Prepare/Enrich assessment tools. Expertise with sexual therapy for couples and individuals. Specialty dealing with narcissistic people and assisting clients with great transitional challenges. I am a highly dedicated counselor and therapist partnering with my clients to successfully move forward in their lives.
As a licensed marriage and family therapist I specialize in sexual addiction work for men and women transitioning from sexual addiction to healthy sexuality, and partners and couples dealing with sexual addiction. Groups provided: sex addiction, partner of sexual addict, couples dealing with sexual addiction, and love addiction. Strong focus on couples counseling, premarital counseling using Prepare/Enrich assessment tools. Expertise with sexual therapy for couples and individuals. Specialty dealing with narcissistic people and assisting clients with great transitional challenges. I am a highly dedicated counselor and therapist partnering with my clients to successfully move forward in their lives.
(360) 450-4373 View (360) 450-4373
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Restoration Counseling NW
Counselor, MEd, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98660
Are you feeling lonely in your marriage and get in fights often? Do you desire to tackle life as a team but don't know how? Are you working on rebuilding trust with your spouse? Call me today to learn how and what to do connect and build a strong bond. When we are connected we have less anxiety and fear.
Are you feeling lonely in your marriage and get in fights often? Do you desire to tackle life as a team but don't know how? Are you working on rebuilding trust with your spouse? Call me today to learn how and what to do connect and build a strong bond. When we are connected we have less anxiety and fear.
(360) 234-3742 View (360) 234-3742
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Laura Sendelbach
Counselor, LMHC, NCC, MA
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98684  (Online Only)
I work with adults and couples experiencing attachment injuries and disconnection. In sessions, we will explore emotion and the way it sits in the body, understand patterns in your relationships, and utilize experiential activities that engage the parts of your self/experience that want to be heard. Ultimately, your voice, strengths, and needs will determine the route we take. Clients who are ready to take ownership of their wellness and experience deeper levels of vulnerability often feel significant change.
I work with adults and couples experiencing attachment injuries and disconnection. In sessions, we will explore emotion and the way it sits in the body, understand patterns in your relationships, and utilize experiential activities that engage the parts of your self/experience that want to be heard. Ultimately, your voice, strengths, and needs will determine the route we take. Clients who are ready to take ownership of their wellness and experience deeper levels of vulnerability often feel significant change.
(360) 531-7246 View (360) 531-7246
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Aisha Willard
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CMHS
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98682  (Online Only)
I use a variety of techniques to help individuals, couples and families overcome struggles such as, but not limited to EMDR Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.
Human connection is super important to health and happiness, so why do so many of us struggle with it? Many issues impact and complicate human connection such as stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, family dynamics, and life transitions. I work to help individuals, families, and couples build deeper connections with each other as well as themselves. Because I believe human connection is so important, I do my best to bring my authentic self into sessions which can look nurturing, playful, laid-back, candid and supportive.
I use a variety of techniques to help individuals, couples and families overcome struggles such as, but not limited to EMDR Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.
Human connection is super important to health and happiness, so why do so many of us struggle with it? Many issues impact and complicate human connection such as stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, family dynamics, and life transitions. I work to help individuals, families, and couples build deeper connections with each other as well as themselves. Because I believe human connection is so important, I do my best to bring my authentic self into sessions which can look nurturing, playful, laid-back, candid and supportive.
(360) 587-0374 View (360) 587-0374
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Rob Fasman
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98662
I have a great deal of respect for the unique stories of individual lives, and I strive to create a collaborative and supportive environment where clients can safely learn about themselves, develop new skills, and make real and lasting change. I try to help people not only reduce distress and suffering, but to also cultivate more genuine and fulfilling relationships with themselves and others. My primary areas of expertise include: stress management, mindfulness, anxiety and mood concerns, assertive communication, bicultural issues, performance enhancement, LGBTQ concerns, and adjustment, relationship, and identity concerns.
I have a great deal of respect for the unique stories of individual lives, and I strive to create a collaborative and supportive environment where clients can safely learn about themselves, develop new skills, and make real and lasting change. I try to help people not only reduce distress and suffering, but to also cultivate more genuine and fulfilling relationships with themselves and others. My primary areas of expertise include: stress management, mindfulness, anxiety and mood concerns, assertive communication, bicultural issues, performance enhancement, LGBTQ concerns, and adjustment, relationship, and identity concerns.
(360) 587-2500 View (360) 587-2500
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Caitlin Truitt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
Vancouver, WA 98661
Waitlist for new clients
My work focuses on individuals and couples navigating trauma, grief, life transitions, and more.
Experiencing trauma, loss, or upheaval is destabilizing and isolating. It can erode the relationships we value the most while making us call into question our sense of identity. Even if we avoid consciously thinking about it, the imprint of our past can wreak havoc on our physical health, our nervous system, and our present experience. The healing process asks us tune into our intuition and our bodies so that we can notice which parts of ourselves most need our attention and care. I can offer tools and support for those seeking to regain a sense of safety and connection with themselves, others, and the world around them.
My work focuses on individuals and couples navigating trauma, grief, life transitions, and more.
Experiencing trauma, loss, or upheaval is destabilizing and isolating. It can erode the relationships we value the most while making us call into question our sense of identity. Even if we avoid consciously thinking about it, the imprint of our past can wreak havoc on our physical health, our nervous system, and our present experience. The healing process asks us tune into our intuition and our bodies so that we can notice which parts of ourselves most need our attention and care. I can offer tools and support for those seeking to regain a sense of safety and connection with themselves, others, and the world around them.
(360) 218-0915 View (360) 218-0915
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.