Couples Counseling Therapists in Austin, TX
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Jamie Shepherd
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78757
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in grief and relationship counseling using narrative, family systems and relational approaches to emotional healing.
Are you feeling anxious or stuck? Are you seeking a safe place to process your feelings and learn new strategies to manage your emotions in this season? Or you are you looking to understand patterns, relational themes and unresolved issues in your history? Do you want to discover how your life experiences have imprinted on your heart and soul, and how you can break free from old patterns? Do you want new levels of freedom and peace in your life?
I specialize in grief and relationship counseling using narrative, family systems and relational approaches to emotional healing.
Are you feeling anxious or stuck? Are you seeking a safe place to process your feelings and learn new strategies to manage your emotions in this season? Or you are you looking to understand patterns, relational themes and unresolved issues in your history? Do you want to discover how your life experiences have imprinted on your heart and soul, and how you can break free from old patterns? Do you want new levels of freedom and peace in your life?
My ideal client is someone who: struggles with anxiety, depression, or trauma as well as grapples with self-doubt and faces relationship challenges. Needs: a safe, non-judgment space to allow free expression of themselves. Help to identify and challenge negative thoughts patters and behaviors. Goals: To manage anxiety and depression symptoms and increase self-compassion. Wants: to feel heard, understood, and supported. Why: they want to break free from the grip of their mental conditions.
My ideal client is someone who: struggles with anxiety, depression, or trauma as well as grapples with self-doubt and faces relationship challenges. Needs: a safe, non-judgment space to allow free expression of themselves. Help to identify and challenge negative thoughts patters and behaviors. Goals: To manage anxiety and depression symptoms and increase self-compassion. Wants: to feel heard, understood, and supported. Why: they want to break free from the grip of their mental conditions.
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Alexis Wolf
Licensed Professional Counselor, MAC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78753 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Hey, my name is Alexis! I have a master's degree in Counseling Psychology and 9 years experience in the field. My experience includes working with adults struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship issues, and any unhappiness in life. I have worked with those who are or have been psychiatrically hospitalized, the formerly incarcerated, as well as veterans. I work with individuals as well as couples who are seeking help to navigate life.
Hey, my name is Alexis! I have a master's degree in Counseling Psychology and 9 years experience in the field. My experience includes working with adults struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship issues, and any unhappiness in life. I have worked with those who are or have been psychiatrically hospitalized, the formerly incarcerated, as well as veterans. I work with individuals as well as couples who are seeking help to navigate life.
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Tiana Lindberg Open Relationships Non-Monogamy And Couples
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, NCC, LPC-A
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78746
I have a passion for using a culturally inclusive framework to help individuals, couples, and other relational partner structures achieve healthier, happier, and more intimately connected relationships. I believe that everyone has the capacity for growth, change, and healing, and I am committed to creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients can explore their feelings, thoughts, and behaviors without fear of criticism or rejection.
I have a passion for using a culturally inclusive framework to help individuals, couples, and other relational partner structures achieve healthier, happier, and more intimately connected relationships. I believe that everyone has the capacity for growth, change, and healing, and I am committed to creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients can explore their feelings, thoughts, and behaviors without fear of criticism or rejection.
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I am passionate about working with neurodivergent folks (Autism, ADHD, OCD et al). I also frequently work with couples and polycules, as well as individuals who identify as LGBTQ+ and/or nerdy creatives. When working with couples and relationships, I'm passionate about facilitating improved communication to resolve a recurring area of friction, cultivating awareness of unhelpful patterns so we can break them, and deepening the friendship and intimacy in the relationship. I frequently work with relationships where one or more partner is neurodivergent. I also offer online therapy groups for ADHD and Autistic folks.
I am passionate about working with neurodivergent folks (Autism, ADHD, OCD et al). I also frequently work with couples and polycules, as well as individuals who identify as LGBTQ+ and/or nerdy creatives. When working with couples and relationships, I'm passionate about facilitating improved communication to resolve a recurring area of friction, cultivating awareness of unhelpful patterns so we can break them, and deepening the friendship and intimacy in the relationship. I frequently work with relationships where one or more partner is neurodivergent. I also offer online therapy groups for ADHD and Autistic folks.
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Hello and Welcome! It has been a dream of mine to become a therapist since I was about 11 years old. Sexual health discussions have never made me uncomfortable in any way, and I like to provide a safe space for clients to discuss these issues. Many people experience shame about their relationship preferences, kinks, and sexual orientation. I like to help individuals and couples who may be struggling in this area. I also enjoy working with clients who are gender diverse, are thinking about or currently transitioning, and so forth.
Hello and Welcome! It has been a dream of mine to become a therapist since I was about 11 years old. Sexual health discussions have never made me uncomfortable in any way, and I like to provide a safe space for clients to discuss these issues. Many people experience shame about their relationship preferences, kinks, and sexual orientation. I like to help individuals and couples who may be struggling in this area. I also enjoy working with clients who are gender diverse, are thinking about or currently transitioning, and so forth.
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We serve adults, adolescents, and couples and specialize in crisis, transitions and impasses.
Ultimately, it’s about what is important to you. Please visit our website at www.LouisLaves-Webb.com to best learn how we can meet your needs. We have over 20 years of clinical experience, two locations, and Telehealth, same day, evening and weekend appointments available. Perhaps you're feeling stuck, scared, at a loss, or genuinely overwhelmed. Counseling sessions can provide a soothing ear, clearer direction, deeper connections, and functional tools when needed. Now Offering services Statewide.
We serve adults, adolescents, and couples and specialize in crisis, transitions and impasses.
Ultimately, it’s about what is important to you. Please visit our website at www.LouisLaves-Webb.com to best learn how we can meet your needs. We have over 20 years of clinical experience, two locations, and Telehealth, same day, evening and weekend appointments available. Perhaps you're feeling stuck, scared, at a loss, or genuinely overwhelmed. Counseling sessions can provide a soothing ear, clearer direction, deeper connections, and functional tools when needed. Now Offering services Statewide.
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I am a private practitioner in the Austin area who provides individual counseling and couples counseling. In my work with individuals, anxiety, depression and relationship issues are frequent concerns. In my practice, I strive to provide an atmosphere that is caring and supportive but that also challenges you to your full growth and potential. I believe that change takes place in the context of an honest, trusting relationship in which clients feel both accepted and empowered.
I am a private practitioner in the Austin area who provides individual counseling and couples counseling. In my work with individuals, anxiety, depression and relationship issues are frequent concerns. In my practice, I strive to provide an atmosphere that is caring and supportive but that also challenges you to your full growth and potential. I believe that change takes place in the context of an honest, trusting relationship in which clients feel both accepted and empowered.
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Jeanice Pantier-Mullen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78731
Life and relationship challenges often require more than just talk to navigate successfully. This is why I specialize in approaches where mind and body work together. Providing healing experiences in therapy, I work collaboratively with you to find ways to change and grow that work for your unique situation. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, which means I've had the master's level training of individual counselors, in addition to training focused on the 'systems' of relationships. I am also PACT and EMDR trained therapist; I have additional training in sexual issues, chronic illness and infertility.
Life and relationship challenges often require more than just talk to navigate successfully. This is why I specialize in approaches where mind and body work together. Providing healing experiences in therapy, I work collaboratively with you to find ways to change and grow that work for your unique situation. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, which means I've had the master's level training of individual counselors, in addition to training focused on the 'systems' of relationships. I am also PACT and EMDR trained therapist; I have additional training in sexual issues, chronic illness and infertility.
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Dr. Tina Adkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78745 (Online Only)
Perhaps you’ve been struggling with a history of family trauma, or you are currently dealing with difficult and stressful relationship issues with a partner, family members or your children. Maybe you are going through a tough life transition and are trying to discover not only who you are, but why you feel so different or are filled with sadness or anxiety. Maybe you have a secret or are haunted by something from your past and you need a safe place/relationship where you can be your authentic self.
Perhaps you’ve been struggling with a history of family trauma, or you are currently dealing with difficult and stressful relationship issues with a partner, family members or your children. Maybe you are going through a tough life transition and are trying to discover not only who you are, but why you feel so different or are filled with sadness or anxiety. Maybe you have a secret or are haunted by something from your past and you need a safe place/relationship where you can be your authentic self.
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Adrienne Michelle Sneed
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78746
I have worked in different clinical settings with a variety of individuals including adults (ages 18-80), couples, families, LGBTQ-identified individuals, and the criminal justice population.
Throughout my career, I have had the opportunity to witness healing and transformation, even when hope seemed far away. I am in awe of the resilience found in each of us and I believe that everyone has an inherent wisdom within that, when fostered, can lead to a happy, fulfilling life. As a therapist, I see my role as providing a safe, non-judgmental space for individuals to explore and identify their own personal strengths and use them to achieve the goals and dreams they have set for themselves.
I have worked in different clinical settings with a variety of individuals including adults (ages 18-80), couples, families, LGBTQ-identified individuals, and the criminal justice population.
Throughout my career, I have had the opportunity to witness healing and transformation, even when hope seemed far away. I am in awe of the resilience found in each of us and I believe that everyone has an inherent wisdom within that, when fostered, can lead to a happy, fulfilling life. As a therapist, I see my role as providing a safe, non-judgmental space for individuals to explore and identify their own personal strengths and use them to achieve the goals and dreams they have set for themselves.
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Elizabeth Manieri-Odam
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78704
Currently Accepting New Clients- I see therapy as a tool to help people navigate this complex world in a way that’s connected to their authentic self. Therapy can help people process pain, manage depression and anxiety, find inner strength and create stronger relationships. My hope is that our therapeutic relationship can guide you in establishing new, healthier patterns of living.
Currently Accepting New Clients- I see therapy as a tool to help people navigate this complex world in a way that’s connected to their authentic self. Therapy can help people process pain, manage depression and anxiety, find inner strength and create stronger relationships. My hope is that our therapeutic relationship can guide you in establishing new, healthier patterns of living.
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Felicia De La Garza Mercer, Ph.D., PLLC
Psychologist, PhD, PLLC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78702
Your 20s and 30s are an important time of self-determination. If you're feeling stuck or lost, I can help you develop the tools and insights you need to enjoy this time of your life. I specialize in helping high achievers-- young professionals and grad students with academic and workplace adjustment, anxiety, burnout and stress management, multicultural stressors, and relationship and sexual desire issues. With couples, I have expertise in helping partners improve communication, conflict and emotional intimacy, and manage differences in sexual desire.
Your 20s and 30s are an important time of self-determination. If you're feeling stuck or lost, I can help you develop the tools and insights you need to enjoy this time of your life. I specialize in helping high achievers-- young professionals and grad students with academic and workplace adjustment, anxiety, burnout and stress management, multicultural stressors, and relationship and sexual desire issues. With couples, I have expertise in helping partners improve communication, conflict and emotional intimacy, and manage differences in sexual desire.
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Derek Leighton
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT-S, LPC-S, CST, EMDR
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78703
My practice also includes a weekly psychotherapy group for men dealing with sexual and relationship health.
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist available to help you experience relationships and sexuality in self-defined, healthy ways. Are you looking for more satisfaction in life? Or maybe struggling with out-of-control sexual behaviors? I believe it's important that you find a therapist that is the right fit for you. I offer counseling services to Couples, Individuals, and Families. After spending 23 years in high tech, my passion for helping others develop their careers and seek personal growth led to a natural transition to working as a psychotherapist.
My practice also includes a weekly psychotherapy group for men dealing with sexual and relationship health.
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist available to help you experience relationships and sexuality in self-defined, healthy ways. Are you looking for more satisfaction in life? Or maybe struggling with out-of-control sexual behaviors? I believe it's important that you find a therapist that is the right fit for you. I offer counseling services to Couples, Individuals, and Families. After spending 23 years in high tech, my passion for helping others develop their careers and seek personal growth led to a natural transition to working as a psychotherapist.
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Christi Kersten
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78712 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My approach is all about empowering you to see your life from a fresh perspective so you can find the way forward. My goal is to partner with you to unearth new choices you might not have considered and embrace your strengths. For me, the most rewarding part of being a therapist is helping someone move in their journey from struggling to thriving. Sessions involve lots of feedback, encouragement, and focus on what you're doing right.
My approach is all about empowering you to see your life from a fresh perspective so you can find the way forward. My goal is to partner with you to unearth new choices you might not have considered and embrace your strengths. For me, the most rewarding part of being a therapist is helping someone move in their journey from struggling to thriving. Sessions involve lots of feedback, encouragement, and focus on what you're doing right.
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Rachel Spiess (Ziegler)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PMH-C, BHP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78705
Not accepting new clients as I transition into maternity leave through January 2025. Shutting off the "inner critic" can often feel impossible. As such, most of the adults I treat struggle with negative beliefs about themselves in addition to anxiety/depression, body dysmorphia/low self-esteem, heartbreak/relationship problems or early attachment wounds/relational trauma. Supporting college students and young professionals who are navigating adulthood and the myriad of personal and professional challenges that can arise during this time is a passion of mine. I also enjoy supporting perfectionists and high-achieving individuals.
Not accepting new clients as I transition into maternity leave through January 2025. Shutting off the "inner critic" can often feel impossible. As such, most of the adults I treat struggle with negative beliefs about themselves in addition to anxiety/depression, body dysmorphia/low self-esteem, heartbreak/relationship problems or early attachment wounds/relational trauma. Supporting college students and young professionals who are navigating adulthood and the myriad of personal and professional challenges that can arise during this time is a passion of mine. I also enjoy supporting perfectionists and high-achieving individuals.
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I am experienced and skilled in working with clients who have chemical dependency, codependency, depression, bipolar, anxiety disorders, trauma, and/or relationship issues. I see individuals and couples. I also work with parents of adolescents and offer family therapy sessions.
I am excited about the good results that can be achieved with EMDR and EFT. Reducing the level of emotional disturbance, can clear the way for problem solving and healing.
I am experienced and skilled in working with clients who have chemical dependency, codependency, depression, bipolar, anxiety disorders, trauma, and/or relationship issues. I see individuals and couples. I also work with parents of adolescents and offer family therapy sessions.
I am excited about the good results that can be achieved with EMDR and EFT. Reducing the level of emotional disturbance, can clear the way for problem solving and healing.
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Scott Wayne Melgren
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78701 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I work with adults and teens for individual, couples, and family therapy to achieve overall growth, increased life satisfaction, and manage stress.
My personal belief is that everyone is doing their best with the tools they have. I utilize an individualized approach rooted in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing to strengthen resiliency and provide coping skills to overcome daily life stressors. If you have ever found yourself stuck and desire a way to navigate and work through your personal challanges, together we can create that change.
I work with adults and teens for individual, couples, and family therapy to achieve overall growth, increased life satisfaction, and manage stress.
My personal belief is that everyone is doing their best with the tools they have. I utilize an individualized approach rooted in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing to strengthen resiliency and provide coping skills to overcome daily life stressors. If you have ever found yourself stuck and desire a way to navigate and work through your personal challanges, together we can create that change.
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Shannon Geneen Kelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, MPA, LCDC, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78731 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Therapy with me is both thoughtful and creative, using proven techniques within a trusting, personalized relationship.
So many of us are considered "put together" while we hide the pain inside. Your feelings are valid, and your healing journey is important. I specialize in healing from trauma, enhancing self-esteem, and mending relationships using EMDR, IFS, EFT, Polyvagal Theory, mindfulness, somatic work, and creative expression. I guide you in increasing confidence, fostering healthy relationships, and cultivating a positive self-view. Together, we'll use the power of the mind and imagination to restructure neural networks through neuroplasticity for lasting well-being.
Therapy with me is both thoughtful and creative, using proven techniques within a trusting, personalized relationship.
So many of us are considered "put together" while we hide the pain inside. Your feelings are valid, and your healing journey is important. I specialize in healing from trauma, enhancing self-esteem, and mending relationships using EMDR, IFS, EFT, Polyvagal Theory, mindfulness, somatic work, and creative expression. I guide you in increasing confidence, fostering healthy relationships, and cultivating a positive self-view. Together, we'll use the power of the mind and imagination to restructure neural networks through neuroplasticity for lasting well-being.
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I specialize in working with individuals and couples from a holistic perspective, incorporating evidence-based modalities to support healing and growth. My practice is informed by the belief that healing occurs within the context of relationships. I approach therapy from a "person in the environment perspective." I help clients explore the dynamics within their families of origin and how these patterns continue to influence their current relationships and sense of self. We will also explore the importance of secure attachments in fostering emotional regulation and resilience.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples from a holistic perspective, incorporating evidence-based modalities to support healing and growth. My practice is informed by the belief that healing occurs within the context of relationships. I approach therapy from a "person in the environment perspective." I help clients explore the dynamics within their families of origin and how these patterns continue to influence their current relationships and sense of self. We will also explore the importance of secure attachments in fostering emotional regulation and resilience.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.