Couples Counseling Therapists in Rochester, MI
Heidi M Doran
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA MLP, LMFT, EMDR-T
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
These areas include anxiety, trauma and post-traumatic stress, personality disorders, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, anger management, conflict resolution and many others.
I am a Master's Licensed Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist. My Counseling approach is Person-Centered, focusing on building a therapeutic relationship by being warm, genuine, and understanding. I also adhere to many aspects of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - challenging and changing unhelpful cognitive distortions and behaviors, improving emotional regulation, and seeking development of personal coping strategies that target solving current problems. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy as a treatment for Post Traumatic Stress.
These areas include anxiety, trauma and post-traumatic stress, personality disorders, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, anger management, conflict resolution and many others.
I am a Master's Licensed Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist. My Counseling approach is Person-Centered, focusing on building a therapeutic relationship by being warm, genuine, and understanding. I also adhere to many aspects of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - challenging and changing unhelpful cognitive distortions and behaviors, improving emotional regulation, and seeking development of personal coping strategies that target solving current problems. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy as a treatment for Post Traumatic Stress.
Alliance Psychological Services
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
I have years of clinical experience providing psychotherapy & assessment to children, adolescents, and families dealing with a variety of issues such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, relationship problems, trauma & abuse, bereavement, ADHD & learning disorders, and behavioral problems.
I have years of clinical experience providing psychotherapy & assessment to children, adolescents, and families dealing with a variety of issues such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, relationship problems, trauma & abuse, bereavement, ADHD & learning disorders, and behavioral problems.
We believe in an integrative holistic approach to therapy, understanding that there is a integral relationship between our physical, emotional, and spiritual health.
We are all on a journey towards improved health and wholeness, but the road to healing can often be difficult to navigate. Life challenges can result in feelings of anger, depression, anxiety, and loss of control. Often times we might experience physical symptoms as a result of ongoing stress as well. These same struggles, however, can be opportunities for growth. Our counseling professionals will walk with you on your journey of self-discovery, and together we will uncover your unique strengths, develop coping skills, increase self-confidence, and work toward restoring balance in your life.
We believe in an integrative holistic approach to therapy, understanding that there is a integral relationship between our physical, emotional, and spiritual health.
We are all on a journey towards improved health and wholeness, but the road to healing can often be difficult to navigate. Life challenges can result in feelings of anger, depression, anxiety, and loss of control. Often times we might experience physical symptoms as a result of ongoing stress as well. These same struggles, however, can be opportunities for growth. Our counseling professionals will walk with you on your journey of self-discovery, and together we will uncover your unique strengths, develop coping skills, increase self-confidence, and work toward restoring balance in your life.
North Oakland Counseling LLC
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
Our therapists strive to help individuals, couples and families resolve conflicts, heal relationships, and develop practical action-oriented tools for communication.
At North Oakland Counseling our mission is to: 1-Improve your communication skills so you can deepen your connection in marriage and other relationships. 2-Provide you with tools to cope effectively with stress and experience relief from anxiety and depression. 3-Help you control & manage obsessive-compulsive behaviors. 4-Work with you through grief and emptiness so you are able to transform hopelessness and helplessness into joy and happiness. 5- Help you manage anger & recover from abuse, trauma, & addictions. 6-Increase your sense of personal integrity consciously and subconsciously so you can begin to experience more life contentment and more authentic self.
Our therapists strive to help individuals, couples and families resolve conflicts, heal relationships, and develop practical action-oriented tools for communication.
At North Oakland Counseling our mission is to: 1-Improve your communication skills so you can deepen your connection in marriage and other relationships. 2-Provide you with tools to cope effectively with stress and experience relief from anxiety and depression. 3-Help you control & manage obsessive-compulsive behaviors. 4-Work with you through grief and emptiness so you are able to transform hopelessness and helplessness into joy and happiness. 5- Help you manage anger & recover from abuse, trauma, & addictions. 6-Increase your sense of personal integrity consciously and subconsciously so you can begin to experience more life contentment and more authentic self.
I believe that trust is the cornerstone of a therapeutic relationship.
I believe we all have the ability to live happy, fulfilling and purpose-driven lives. Sometimes relationship problems, grief, past trauma or just our own misconceptions about ourselves can contribute to our unhappiness. We may be compassionate with our friends and family, but not so much with ourself. I believe the role of a therapist is to help guide the client with objective and empathetic listening and non-judgmental suggestions. Sometimes you may need a reality check, and other times all you may need is a reinforcing message that you are on the right track with your thoughts, beliefs and actions.
I believe that trust is the cornerstone of a therapeutic relationship.
I believe we all have the ability to live happy, fulfilling and purpose-driven lives. Sometimes relationship problems, grief, past trauma or just our own misconceptions about ourselves can contribute to our unhappiness. We may be compassionate with our friends and family, but not so much with ourself. I believe the role of a therapist is to help guide the client with objective and empathetic listening and non-judgmental suggestions. Sometimes you may need a reality check, and other times all you may need is a reinforcing message that you are on the right track with your thoughts, beliefs and actions.
Dr. Nicole Parker
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
I have the tools to show you how to do those three things in your relationship right now and many more….
Strengthening marriages is my passion and my life’s mission. I want to know what are your biggest struggles in your relationship right now, and figure out the fastest and most effective way to change them forever. I understand not being able to see past today when today feels so terrible, I totally get that. But I am also thinking about your future selves in 10, 20, 30 years from now. What changes do we have to make right now, that will set you up for that bright and happy future that I want for both of you?
I have the tools to show you how to do those three things in your relationship right now and many more….
Strengthening marriages is my passion and my life’s mission. I want to know what are your biggest struggles in your relationship right now, and figure out the fastest and most effective way to change them forever. I understand not being able to see past today when today feels so terrible, I totally get that. But I am also thinking about your future selves in 10, 20, 30 years from now. What changes do we have to make right now, that will set you up for that bright and happy future that I want for both of you?
Ross L Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
I am married and enjoy a wonderful relationship with our three adult children.
I am fascinated by the process of healing. To me, deep healing can begin when we have a safe place to tell our story. A place where we won't get interrupted, where someone won't try to "fix" us with their biases, where a genuine, caring person can give us the space to hear ourselves tell our story, to empathize with us, and to affirm us. I find people make the most significant strides in their journey toward healing when they evaluate alternatives and come to a reasoned conclusion themselves, without over-concern about what others think of them.
I am married and enjoy a wonderful relationship with our three adult children.
I am fascinated by the process of healing. To me, deep healing can begin when we have a safe place to tell our story. A place where we won't get interrupted, where someone won't try to "fix" us with their biases, where a genuine, caring person can give us the space to hear ourselves tell our story, to empathize with us, and to affirm us. I find people make the most significant strides in their journey toward healing when they evaluate alternatives and come to a reasoned conclusion themselves, without over-concern about what others think of them.
Daniel Shepherd
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
We will explore the history of your relationship.
Something has gone wrong. Communication? You hear mixed messages like, "I hate you! Don't leave me!" Your partner is happily busy with everything and everyone except you? You find yourself thinking, "Too good to leave, too bad to stay". Relationship issues cause self-doubt, loneliness, sadness, and worry. You may feel alone, but in therapy you are not alone. You can talk with someone who listens instead of giving advice. Therapists listen without substituting their personal agenda for yours. We join your quest for health even if it means walking a difficult path. Solutions emerge as we explore problems in a safe place.
We will explore the history of your relationship.
Something has gone wrong. Communication? You hear mixed messages like, "I hate you! Don't leave me!" Your partner is happily busy with everything and everyone except you? You find yourself thinking, "Too good to leave, too bad to stay". Relationship issues cause self-doubt, loneliness, sadness, and worry. You may feel alone, but in therapy you are not alone. You can talk with someone who listens instead of giving advice. Therapists listen without substituting their personal agenda for yours. We join your quest for health even if it means walking a difficult path. Solutions emerge as we explore problems in a safe place.
I have particular experience and interest in issues related to personal empowerment; finding meaning and purpose in life and work; making change or negotiating life's unexpected transitions; improving the quality of relationships; enhancing self-esteem and relationship issues.
I work with individuals, families and couples that struggle with a variety of issues (i.e. anxiety, depression, life transitions and various health conditions) providing services ranging from counseling to wellness coaching to group support and education. Areas of focus include emotional health and physical well-being, spiritual health and purpose. I integrate traditional counseling techniques with mind, body, and spirit elements to help clients better identify their strengths, desires, and tools of resilience for effectively navigating through life.
I have particular experience and interest in issues related to personal empowerment; finding meaning and purpose in life and work; making change or negotiating life's unexpected transitions; improving the quality of relationships; enhancing self-esteem and relationship issues.
I work with individuals, families and couples that struggle with a variety of issues (i.e. anxiety, depression, life transitions and various health conditions) providing services ranging from counseling to wellness coaching to group support and education. Areas of focus include emotional health and physical well-being, spiritual health and purpose. I integrate traditional counseling techniques with mind, body, and spirit elements to help clients better identify their strengths, desires, and tools of resilience for effectively navigating through life.
Brian Cooper
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
When you seek help you are choosing your relationship, your loved ones and yourselves.
When your relationship is hurting you hurt. When you are hurting it affects your relationship. You and your partner argue – every conversation turns into a fight and you’ve lost the ability to communicate with each other. You’re not sure where things went wrong but things aren’t like they used to be. You don’t feel connected. You’re missing the passion, the affection, the intimacy and the love. You're sex life isn't enjoyable. You’re in a relationship yet you feel in some ways that you’re alone. You keep asking yourself – How did we get here? How did this happen? Your relationship is in trouble and you need help now!
When you seek help you are choosing your relationship, your loved ones and yourselves.
When your relationship is hurting you hurt. When you are hurting it affects your relationship. You and your partner argue – every conversation turns into a fight and you’ve lost the ability to communicate with each other. You’re not sure where things went wrong but things aren’t like they used to be. You don’t feel connected. You’re missing the passion, the affection, the intimacy and the love. You're sex life isn't enjoyable. You’re in a relationship yet you feel in some ways that you’re alone. You keep asking yourself – How did we get here? How did this happen? Your relationship is in trouble and you need help now!
I have experience working with clients who suffer from, anxiety, social anxiety, stress, childhood physical and emotional abuse, anger management, depression, OCD, relationship conflicts, marriage and family and grief and loss.
If you are having difficulties feeling overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, stuck or are looking to make some changes in yourself, I offer a place where you won’t get interrupted, where a genuine, caring person will give you the space to hear yourself tell your unique story and to empathize with you. Whatever unwanted thoughts, feelings, or behaviors you may be experiencing, I am here to help. Working together, you have the opportunity to process difficult emotions, life's uncertainties, and heal inner wounds without having to be alone.
I have experience working with clients who suffer from, anxiety, social anxiety, stress, childhood physical and emotional abuse, anger management, depression, OCD, relationship conflicts, marriage and family and grief and loss.
If you are having difficulties feeling overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, stuck or are looking to make some changes in yourself, I offer a place where you won’t get interrupted, where a genuine, caring person will give you the space to hear yourself tell your unique story and to empathize with you. Whatever unwanted thoughts, feelings, or behaviors you may be experiencing, I am here to help. Working together, you have the opportunity to process difficult emotions, life's uncertainties, and heal inner wounds without having to be alone.
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Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, MI 48307
The very first session sets a harmonious tone for our therapeutic relationship, a relationship in which both person face fears and then choose their path into the future.
Are you the one your partner needs? Maybe they give mixed messages like, "I hate you, don't leave me". Or, they seem happily busy with everything and everyone except you? You find yourself thinking "Too good to leave, too bad to stay". Relationship issues cause self-doubt, loneliness, sadness, and worry, causing you to feel alone. In therapy you are not alone. You can talk with someone who listens instead of giving advice. We listen without pushing decisions for you. Our wish is to join your quest for relationship healing - even if that means walking a difficult path. Solutions emerge as you explore problems in a safe place.
The very first session sets a harmonious tone for our therapeutic relationship, a relationship in which both person face fears and then choose their path into the future.
Are you the one your partner needs? Maybe they give mixed messages like, "I hate you, don't leave me". Or, they seem happily busy with everything and everyone except you? You find yourself thinking "Too good to leave, too bad to stay". Relationship issues cause self-doubt, loneliness, sadness, and worry, causing you to feel alone. In therapy you are not alone. You can talk with someone who listens instead of giving advice. We listen without pushing decisions for you. Our wish is to join your quest for relationship healing - even if that means walking a difficult path. Solutions emerge as you explore problems in a safe place.
If you've lost a loved one, are suffering from panic attacks, can't sleep because of stress, are in a toxic relationship or are just ready to take a step in self-improvement, I'm here to walk with you on your journey.
I offer a very personalized approach to counseling. I believe in the power of a person's story and how that story has brought them to where they are at presently. I work from an integrated person-centered approach. One size/technique does NOT fit all in counseling. Moreover, I'm a believer in the therapeutic relationship being the key ingredient to effective therapy. I work with issues such as: grief, depression, anxiety, chronic-pain, panic, school issues and much more. Counseling is not the easy way through a life concern; it takes work and commitment. I promise to offer a safe, non-judgmental space for self-exploration.
If you've lost a loved one, are suffering from panic attacks, can't sleep because of stress, are in a toxic relationship or are just ready to take a step in self-improvement, I'm here to walk with you on your journey.
I offer a very personalized approach to counseling. I believe in the power of a person's story and how that story has brought them to where they are at presently. I work from an integrated person-centered approach. One size/technique does NOT fit all in counseling. Moreover, I'm a believer in the therapeutic relationship being the key ingredient to effective therapy. I work with issues such as: grief, depression, anxiety, chronic-pain, panic, school issues and much more. Counseling is not the easy way through a life concern; it takes work and commitment. I promise to offer a safe, non-judgmental space for self-exploration.
Poonam Melwani
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48306 (Online Only)
I am also trained in CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman's Method Couples, and Mindfulness based Cognitive Therapy.
Depression can seem scary and lonely. Anxiety may prevent you from having new experiences. Your past trauma may be impacting your ability to trust others. It may be hard for you to convey your emotions or thoughts. My goal is to help individuals not fear past experiences and current emotional states but rather learn from them. Struggling with mental health can be isolating and I would like to provide you with a nonjudgmental, safe-space to help you overcome your struggles while learning tools to help you grow and heal. I also have experience helping couples to communicate more effectively and reestablish intimacy.
I am also trained in CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman's Method Couples, and Mindfulness based Cognitive Therapy.
Depression can seem scary and lonely. Anxiety may prevent you from having new experiences. Your past trauma may be impacting your ability to trust others. It may be hard for you to convey your emotions or thoughts. My goal is to help individuals not fear past experiences and current emotional states but rather learn from them. Struggling with mental health can be isolating and I would like to provide you with a nonjudgmental, safe-space to help you overcome your struggles while learning tools to help you grow and heal. I also have experience helping couples to communicate more effectively and reestablish intimacy.
I work with adolescents, individuals, and couples to help find healthy solutions for the problems they may be facing.
"Mental health isn't a thing. Talking about feelings and experiences isn't going to help. Things will get better by just putting my head down and powering through. I'm strong, self-reliant, and I don't need any help. I'll be fine just the way I am." These are all valid thoughts and feelings for an individual to have and many people believe these statements are true. Stereotypically, men especially, fall into these thought patterns. The numbers reflect this, approximately 30% vs 70% of those seeking counseling are men vs women. We are taught men don't have feelings and if they do they sure as hell don't talk to anybody about them.
I work with adolescents, individuals, and couples to help find healthy solutions for the problems they may be facing.
"Mental health isn't a thing. Talking about feelings and experiences isn't going to help. Things will get better by just putting my head down and powering through. I'm strong, self-reliant, and I don't need any help. I'll be fine just the way I am." These are all valid thoughts and feelings for an individual to have and many people believe these statements are true. Stereotypically, men especially, fall into these thought patterns. The numbers reflect this, approximately 30% vs 70% of those seeking counseling are men vs women. We are taught men don't have feelings and if they do they sure as hell don't talk to anybody about them.
This works with couples well.
I believe clients are their own expert, and that with my guidance they can explore and challenge their own deeply imbedded inner core beliefs, and re-engineer them. Learning and speaking the client's language is tantamount to helping someone move forward towards a positive change. Clients begin to understand themselves better, and this allows the transition. I also believe that fear is one of the most debilitating emotions that we can have. It stops us dead in our tracks. We need to attack the fear, but first understand its roots. I like to be known as my client's "life coach!"
This works with couples well.
I believe clients are their own expert, and that with my guidance they can explore and challenge their own deeply imbedded inner core beliefs, and re-engineer them. Learning and speaking the client's language is tantamount to helping someone move forward towards a positive change. Clients begin to understand themselves better, and this allows the transition. I also believe that fear is one of the most debilitating emotions that we can have. It stops us dead in our tracks. We need to attack the fear, but first understand its roots. I like to be known as my client's "life coach!"
Liz Grazioli Talbot
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LPC, LMSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Rochester, MI 48307
The word "kairos" comes the Greek word meaning, "the opportune and decisive moment for change." I will support you through the counseling process while you search for continued joy and wellness in your life. Child and adolescent services are available to focus in on difficult attitudes, home or school behavior problems, parental divorce or separation issues. Adult counseling is needed to help in difficult life transitions, which may cause anxiety or depression. Couple counseling is available to help develop the necessary communication skills to enhance the relationship. Couples may have reached an impass due to the developmental stages of marriage.
The word "kairos" comes the Greek word meaning, "the opportune and decisive moment for change." I will support you through the counseling process while you search for continued joy and wellness in your life. Child and adolescent services are available to focus in on difficult attitudes, home or school behavior problems, parental divorce or separation issues. Adult counseling is needed to help in difficult life transitions, which may cause anxiety or depression. Couple counseling is available to help develop the necessary communication skills to enhance the relationship. Couples may have reached an impass due to the developmental stages of marriage.
Insight Counseling Services LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Not Verified Not Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48308
We work with individuals, couples and families on a variety of issues.
Therapy is one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself. Everyone has a past and carries some form of baggage with them. The issues from the past that remain unresolved impact multiple areas of our lives from our personal contentment to our interpersonal relationships. Once a client understands the underlying cause of their anxiety, depression, hurt, fears, etc., they can come to a place of acceptance and move forward minimizing the impact these issues have on the present. Our goal is to help each client find healing in order to live fully and authentically in the present.
We work with individuals, couples and families on a variety of issues.
Therapy is one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself. Everyone has a past and carries some form of baggage with them. The issues from the past that remain unresolved impact multiple areas of our lives from our personal contentment to our interpersonal relationships. Once a client understands the underlying cause of their anxiety, depression, hurt, fears, etc., they can come to a place of acceptance and move forward minimizing the impact these issues have on the present. Our goal is to help each client find healing in order to live fully and authentically in the present.
Let me help you with relationship, parenting, grief/loss and and adolescent issues.
Life surely isn't easy in today's ever changing world. Do you wish you had a safe, nonjudgmental person you can trust to help you regain focus, plan, problem solve, and get in touch with your true self? Together we can walk through the issues facing you. Using a client centered, creative approach combining both traditional talk therapy and experiential activities, I will help you find your own voice, access your inner strengths, and take action to create the life you want. We'll explore your personal decision making process in a way that affirms who you are, and who you want to be. Let me share what I have learned makes it better
Let me help you with relationship, parenting, grief/loss and and adolescent issues.
Life surely isn't easy in today's ever changing world. Do you wish you had a safe, nonjudgmental person you can trust to help you regain focus, plan, problem solve, and get in touch with your true self? Together we can walk through the issues facing you. Using a client centered, creative approach combining both traditional talk therapy and experiential activities, I will help you find your own voice, access your inner strengths, and take action to create the life you want. We'll explore your personal decision making process in a way that affirms who you are, and who you want to be. Let me share what I have learned makes it better
Tina M Persha, MA, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CAADC
Verified Verified
Rochester, MI 48307
I have I have been in private practice for almost 30 years. I see clients ages five and up for individual, group, couples and family counseling. I specialize in substance abuse and my agency is licensed by the state of Michigan. I provide the full range of mental health counseling, substance abuse services, screening and assessments, DLAD evaluations, alcohol safety education courses and drug testing. I accept most insurances and provide a warm and safe counseling environment.
I have I have been in private practice for almost 30 years. I see clients ages five and up for individual, group, couples and family counseling. I specialize in substance abuse and my agency is licensed by the state of Michigan. I provide the full range of mental health counseling, substance abuse services, screening and assessments, DLAD evaluations, alcohol safety education courses and drug testing. I accept most insurances and provide a warm and safe counseling environment.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.