Couples Counseling Therapists in Streeterville, Chicago, IL
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Judith Bank
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD
Verified Verified
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611
I treat individuals,couples,families and adolescents.
My ideal client is one who comes to therapy with a desire to change the feelings and behaviors that are causing difficulty in his or her life.
Over the years, I have dealt with hundreds of clients having a variety of problems and I believe I have a strong capacity to connect, build an alliance and help people live a more satisfying and productive life.
I treat individuals,couples,families and adolescents.
My ideal client is one who comes to therapy with a desire to change the feelings and behaviors that are causing difficulty in his or her life.
Over the years, I have dealt with hundreds of clients having a variety of problems and I believe I have a strong capacity to connect, build an alliance and help people live a more satisfying and productive life.
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I have more than 30 years of experience, including individual, couples, family counseling, therapy, critical incidence stress debriefing, substance addiction assessment, and counseling.
I am of the thought that we come into the world a blank slate upon which our experiences are written. What is written is sometimes harmful and may manifest as trauma, abandonment, neglect, etc. Those environmental messages often become unresolved emotional issues carried through life and into relationships. I go beyond the presenting symptoms to identify the root problems. I share my clinical impressions and propose an individualized plan. My treatment approach is generally cognitive-behavioral therapy.
I have more than 30 years of experience, including individual, couples, family counseling, therapy, critical incidence stress debriefing, substance addiction assessment, and counseling.
I am of the thought that we come into the world a blank slate upon which our experiences are written. What is written is sometimes harmful and may manifest as trauma, abandonment, neglect, etc. Those environmental messages often become unresolved emotional issues carried through life and into relationships. I go beyond the presenting symptoms to identify the root problems. I share my clinical impressions and propose an individualized plan. My treatment approach is generally cognitive-behavioral therapy.
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Christian Telehealth Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611 (Online Only)
I offer guidance and compassionate counsel and am experienced in issues related to grief and loss, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, cancer, co-dependency, self-esteem, trauma, and dealing with adult children with mental health and addiction issues.
Life is hard! Every day we are faced with navigating difficult and seemingly insurmountable and impossible challenges. You are not alone! There is hope and together, through biblical and Christian counsel, we can navigate the issues you are facing. I am here to help you through this! God has a plan for You, and it is the best plan. Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you. plans to give you hope and a future",
I offer guidance and compassionate counsel and am experienced in issues related to grief and loss, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, cancer, co-dependency, self-esteem, trauma, and dealing with adult children with mental health and addiction issues.
Life is hard! Every day we are faced with navigating difficult and seemingly insurmountable and impossible challenges. You are not alone! There is hope and together, through biblical and Christian counsel, we can navigate the issues you are facing. I am here to help you through this! God has a plan for You, and it is the best plan. Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you. plans to give you hope and a future",
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Jenny H Conviser
Psychologist, PsyD, (CEDS)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611
It often takes courage to come in for the first session, and I am glad that you are making the first step in reaching out for support. My goal is to create a safe place where we can work together towards your individual goals. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences in the Feinberg School of Medicine, and on staff at Northwestern Memorial Hospital. I am Certified in both Sport Psychology and Child and Family Therapy. I specialize in eating and weight-related disorders, couples therapy, sports psychology and women's health.
It often takes courage to come in for the first session, and I am glad that you are making the first step in reaching out for support. My goal is to create a safe place where we can work together towards your individual goals. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences in the Feinberg School of Medicine, and on staff at Northwestern Memorial Hospital. I am Certified in both Sport Psychology and Child and Family Therapy. I specialize in eating and weight-related disorders, couples therapy, sports psychology and women's health.
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Cassandra Brandes
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611 (Online Only)
Mental health is intimately connected with every aspect of your life—your work, school, relationships, and overall well-being. Acknowledging the need for support is a crucial step towards achieving balance and fulfillment, and I offer a supportive space where you can explore your experiences without judgment. I work with adults, teens, and couples with a variety of concerns, but I specialize in alcohol or other substance use problems/addiction, depression, OCD, anxiety, ADHD, and LGBTQIA+ and non-monogamy-related concerns.
Mental health is intimately connected with every aspect of your life—your work, school, relationships, and overall well-being. Acknowledging the need for support is a crucial step towards achieving balance and fulfillment, and I offer a supportive space where you can explore your experiences without judgment. I work with adults, teens, and couples with a variety of concerns, but I specialize in alcohol or other substance use problems/addiction, depression, OCD, anxiety, ADHD, and LGBTQIA+ and non-monogamy-related concerns.
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Are you feeling sad, anxious or overwhelmed? Are you experiencing relationship problems or feeling lonely? Asking for help is a courageous thing to do. As a licensed clinical psychologist, I offer a thoughtful, compassionate, and collaborative approach to dealing with life's difficulties. Together we can find solutions that will make you feel better as soon as possible. I can help you develop new coping strategies and a deeper understanding of your needs. I am committed to helping you use your strengths to grow personally and in your relationships with others. **Unfortunately, I am not able to accept new clients at this time.*
Are you feeling sad, anxious or overwhelmed? Are you experiencing relationship problems or feeling lonely? Asking for help is a courageous thing to do. As a licensed clinical psychologist, I offer a thoughtful, compassionate, and collaborative approach to dealing with life's difficulties. Together we can find solutions that will make you feel better as soon as possible. I can help you develop new coping strategies and a deeper understanding of your needs. I am committed to helping you use your strengths to grow personally and in your relationships with others. **Unfortunately, I am not able to accept new clients at this time.*
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I try to provide a therapeutic relationship that meets your unique needs. My goal is to allow the individual to truly explore themselves without the fear of being judged. I value meeting people "where they are" as this is your personal journey. I find this helps us remain open, and create a path to improving relationships.
I try to provide a therapeutic relationship that meets your unique needs. My goal is to allow the individual to truly explore themselves without the fear of being judged. I value meeting people "where they are" as this is your personal journey. I find this helps us remain open, and create a path to improving relationships.
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I treat people struggling with a wide range of problems including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and difficulty in adjusting to life changes.
I aspire to listen, understand, and guide each person I treat through the problems that are getting in the way of feeling more happy and fulfilled. Oftentimes, painful emotions or difficult relationships are the catalyst for someone to begin therapy. I work with each patient to alleviate the pain they are experiencing on a day-to-day basis while we ascertain the underlying emotional issues that may contribute to destructive patterns. This two-pronged approach is helpful in order to cope effectively with similar problems as they arise in the future.
I treat people struggling with a wide range of problems including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and difficulty in adjusting to life changes.
I aspire to listen, understand, and guide each person I treat through the problems that are getting in the way of feeling more happy and fulfilled. Oftentimes, painful emotions or difficult relationships are the catalyst for someone to begin therapy. I work with each patient to alleviate the pain they are experiencing on a day-to-day basis while we ascertain the underlying emotional issues that may contribute to destructive patterns. This two-pronged approach is helpful in order to cope effectively with similar problems as they arise in the future.
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Couples Counseling Associates
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611
Expert couples counselors can help if you are fighting too much, feeling distant or not sure if you want to stay together. We help couples who want to find a better way of communicating, fight less, and feel more connected. Experienced and effective. Working with couples is our only specialty. Choosing a professional you can trust can be challenging. We have a problem-solving approach that combines education, coaching and the latest research.
Expert couples counselors can help if you are fighting too much, feeling distant or not sure if you want to stay together. We help couples who want to find a better way of communicating, fight less, and feel more connected. Experienced and effective. Working with couples is our only specialty. Choosing a professional you can trust can be challenging. We have a problem-solving approach that combines education, coaching and the latest research.
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In practice for 20 years, I am a licensed clinical professional counselor and certified sex therapist specializing in the treatment of mood and anxiety disorders as a starting place. Often underlying these disorders are issues with relationship patterns and stress related to stage of life transitions in both the personal and professional realms. In addition, I have expertise providing support during the prenatal and postpartum period, treating sexual health/functioning concerns, working through grief, loss and the challenge of infertility. Other ares of specialization include working with new mothers over 40 and young adults.
In practice for 20 years, I am a licensed clinical professional counselor and certified sex therapist specializing in the treatment of mood and anxiety disorders as a starting place. Often underlying these disorders are issues with relationship patterns and stress related to stage of life transitions in both the personal and professional realms. In addition, I have expertise providing support during the prenatal and postpartum period, treating sexual health/functioning concerns, working through grief, loss and the challenge of infertility. Other ares of specialization include working with new mothers over 40 and young adults.
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I believe everyone has their own story and deserves a space where their experiences are understood. This belief shapes my practice, which is especially focused on supporting women of color, adult children of immigrant parents, individuals working to manage their anxiety/overthinking, & individuals exploring their spirituality, cultural identity, self-worth, & relationship attachments. I am also dedicated to supporting couples, as I believe that our connections with others are fundamental to the healing process. I value honesty, directness, and openness in my communication style and I work best with clients who share similar traits.
I believe everyone has their own story and deserves a space where their experiences are understood. This belief shapes my practice, which is especially focused on supporting women of color, adult children of immigrant parents, individuals working to manage their anxiety/overthinking, & individuals exploring their spirituality, cultural identity, self-worth, & relationship attachments. I am also dedicated to supporting couples, as I believe that our connections with others are fundamental to the healing process. I value honesty, directness, and openness in my communication style and I work best with clients who share similar traits.
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Jasmine Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60601 (Online Only)
Jasmine Jones is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 10 years of experience in the mental health field. Jasmine is an empathetic and dedicated clinical practitioner with extensive experience providing individual, relationship, and family therapy. She is committed to supporting clients in navigating their emotional challenges and fostering personal growth. Jasmine has worked with ages 0-65+. Jasmine specializes in trauma, challenging behaviors, depression, anxiety, and family and relationship issues.
Jasmine Jones is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 10 years of experience in the mental health field. Jasmine is an empathetic and dedicated clinical practitioner with extensive experience providing individual, relationship, and family therapy. She is committed to supporting clients in navigating their emotional challenges and fostering personal growth. Jasmine has worked with ages 0-65+. Jasmine specializes in trauma, challenging behaviors, depression, anxiety, and family and relationship issues.
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Jess A Benge
Pre-Licensed Professional, LMFT-I
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60601
Waitlist for new clients
Extensive research shows the client-therapist relationship is the most essential part of therapy. I encourage you to find the right fit. Topics I have helped clients successfully work through: complex trauma, helping change attachment styles, boundary identification & implementation, infidelity, dysfunctional communication, repetitive arguments on the same topic, kinks or differences in sexual interests (ex. BDSM, non-monogamy, cuckolding, etc.), and severe anxiety/depression. I help clients dig deeper than average talk therapy sessions - reaching core emotional wounds that often drive behavior.
Extensive research shows the client-therapist relationship is the most essential part of therapy. I encourage you to find the right fit. Topics I have helped clients successfully work through: complex trauma, helping change attachment styles, boundary identification & implementation, infidelity, dysfunctional communication, repetitive arguments on the same topic, kinks or differences in sexual interests (ex. BDSM, non-monogamy, cuckolding, etc.), and severe anxiety/depression. I help clients dig deeper than average talk therapy sessions - reaching core emotional wounds that often drive behavior.
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Maggie Hejna
Counselor, LCPC, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611 (Online Only)
I deeply respect and value the courage that it takes for an individual to seek therapy. It is an incredible gift to oneself. Echoing the words of Erich Fromm, I wholeheartedly believe that “whether we or not we are aware of it, there is nothing of which we are more ashamed than of not being ourselves, and there is nothing that gives us greater pride and happiness than to think, to feel and say what is ours”. While fostering a therapeutic relationship grounded in trust and authenticity, I seek to emphasize each individual's unique strengths and skills as we sort out the emotional distress together.
I deeply respect and value the courage that it takes for an individual to seek therapy. It is an incredible gift to oneself. Echoing the words of Erich Fromm, I wholeheartedly believe that “whether we or not we are aware of it, there is nothing of which we are more ashamed than of not being ourselves, and there is nothing that gives us greater pride and happiness than to think, to feel and say what is ours”. While fostering a therapeutic relationship grounded in trust and authenticity, I seek to emphasize each individual's unique strengths and skills as we sort out the emotional distress together.
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I am a dedicated therapist with a passion for helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of relationships, marriages, and single life. With a growing focus on sex therapy, I am committed to addressing the complex dynamics of relational and sexual health. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, worry about being single forever, are frustrated with your sex life, have trauma that you would like to process, I am here for you.
I am a dedicated therapist with a passion for helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of relationships, marriages, and single life. With a growing focus on sex therapy, I am committed to addressing the complex dynamics of relational and sexual health. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, worry about being single forever, are frustrated with your sex life, have trauma that you would like to process, I am here for you.
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Natalie A. Hock
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LPHA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611 (Online Only)
I deeply enjoy challenging and deconstructing all flavors of shame and taboo. I work with clients to notice, give attention, and slow down when our culture encourages us to ignore, distract, and speed up. By thoughtfully exploring family patterns and our ways of being in relationship, we can come to intriguing conclusions about ourselves and others. I work with people ages 17+, and I see clients individually, as families, as sibling groups, and in all configurations of romantic relationships.
I deeply enjoy challenging and deconstructing all flavors of shame and taboo. I work with clients to notice, give attention, and slow down when our culture encourages us to ignore, distract, and speed up. By thoughtfully exploring family patterns and our ways of being in relationship, we can come to intriguing conclusions about ourselves and others. I work with people ages 17+, and I see clients individually, as families, as sibling groups, and in all configurations of romantic relationships.
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I have extensive training in child and adolescent as well as couples and family therapy, especially with clients in marginalized communities (e.
Along the journey of life, some challenges and suffering are inevitable and there often are not always clear or easy answers. We want our lives to have value, meaning and purpose. Knowing these things for ourselves can be a tremendously liberating and empowering experience that gives us the hope, courage, and tenacity we need to face life's challenges. However, the process of discovering or defining these "truths" can be confusing, frustrating or even scary. We all require support and solidarity from trusted comrades during our journey. Knowing when to stop and ask for help along the way does not make us weak, it makes us strong!
I have extensive training in child and adolescent as well as couples and family therapy, especially with clients in marginalized communities (e.
Along the journey of life, some challenges and suffering are inevitable and there often are not always clear or easy answers. We want our lives to have value, meaning and purpose. Knowing these things for ourselves can be a tremendously liberating and empowering experience that gives us the hope, courage, and tenacity we need to face life's challenges. However, the process of discovering or defining these "truths" can be confusing, frustrating or even scary. We all require support and solidarity from trusted comrades during our journey. Knowing when to stop and ask for help along the way does not make us weak, it makes us strong!
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I specialize in couples work and relationship coaching with family, friends and co-workers.
Life unfolds presenting its challenges and we are often required to adapt and change. I have over 25 years of experience helping my clients at these important times. I actively participate in creating an environment that is safe and promotes healing and growth. I do this by striving to be attentive, supportive, challenging and compassionate while embracing the gifts,losses,struggles, irony and humor in life's situations. I help my clients cultivate self care by being good observers of themselves and their surroundings, asking hard questions, and showing compassion as they try different approaches and stay open to new possibilities.
I specialize in couples work and relationship coaching with family, friends and co-workers.
Life unfolds presenting its challenges and we are often required to adapt and change. I have over 25 years of experience helping my clients at these important times. I actively participate in creating an environment that is safe and promotes healing and growth. I do this by striving to be attentive, supportive, challenging and compassionate while embracing the gifts,losses,struggles, irony and humor in life's situations. I help my clients cultivate self care by being good observers of themselves and their surroundings, asking hard questions, and showing compassion as they try different approaches and stay open to new possibilities.
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Amanda Jonikaitis-King
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, RYT, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611 (Online Only)
Are you yearning for clarity, balance, and a deeper connection with your authentic self? Navigating uncertainties about who we are and what we want in life can be challenging and isolating. I offer a judgment-free space where you can explore your core values and life purpose. My expertise extends to couples counseling, where we can work on fostering effective communication, understanding, and intimacy in your relationships.
Are you yearning for clarity, balance, and a deeper connection with your authentic self? Navigating uncertainties about who we are and what we want in life can be challenging and isolating. I offer a judgment-free space where you can explore your core values and life purpose. My expertise extends to couples counseling, where we can work on fostering effective communication, understanding, and intimacy in your relationships.
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Jennifer Gray
Counselor, MA, LCPC, CADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Streeterville, Chicago, IL 60611
I specialize in stage of life challenges, women's issues, couples counseling, LGBTQ issues, and drug & alcohol counseling.
Now offering Telehealth! Are you unhappy in your life, or in your relationship with a partner, child, family member, or friend? Are you struggling with a challenging life transition, an unfulfilling job or with issues related to your personal identity? Are you feeling overwhelmed or stressed, or experiencing depression, anxiety, drug or alcohol problems? Are you are ready to make some positive changes in your life? Let me help you to reimagine and create the life that you want, to break out of old, negative patterns, and find peace, balance, meaning and value in your life.
I specialize in stage of life challenges, women's issues, couples counseling, LGBTQ issues, and drug & alcohol counseling.
Now offering Telehealth! Are you unhappy in your life, or in your relationship with a partner, child, family member, or friend? Are you struggling with a challenging life transition, an unfulfilling job or with issues related to your personal identity? Are you feeling overwhelmed or stressed, or experiencing depression, anxiety, drug or alcohol problems? Are you are ready to make some positive changes in your life? Let me help you to reimagine and create the life that you want, to break out of old, negative patterns, and find peace, balance, meaning and value in your life.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.