Couples Counseling Therapists in Maricopa County, AZ
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For over 30 years I have worked with adolescents and families seeking support with various life challenges. I specializes in adolescent and family relationship counseling, marriage, divorce, depression, addiction, sexual issues, and grief counseling.
For over 30 years I have worked with adolescents and families seeking support with various life challenges. I specializes in adolescent and family relationship counseling, marriage, divorce, depression, addiction, sexual issues, and grief counseling.
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Cognitive wellness is a critical aspect of lifestyle wellness. My experience has included venues as; crisis, in and outpatient, and elderly care. Private practice includes youth, adults, families focusing on individual, couples, partners and families. I typically use the Cognitive Behavioral approach with successful client satisfaction in one's counseling experience. How we think about the situations / problems / disappointments that come in and out of lives play a critical role how we develop healthy cognitive skills to get through our emotional and physical disappointments, struggles, grief and pain.
Cognitive wellness is a critical aspect of lifestyle wellness. My experience has included venues as; crisis, in and outpatient, and elderly care. Private practice includes youth, adults, families focusing on individual, couples, partners and families. I typically use the Cognitive Behavioral approach with successful client satisfaction in one's counseling experience. How we think about the situations / problems / disappointments that come in and out of lives play a critical role how we develop healthy cognitive skills to get through our emotional and physical disappointments, struggles, grief and pain.
![Photo of Stephanie Levitt - Pathways Counseling Services, MA, LPC, NCC, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3d4bf00e-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/3/320x400.jpeg)
Pathways Counseling Services
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Scottsdale, AZ 85258
I specialize in working with clients experiencing but not limited to the following: OCD, Trauma and PTSD, Anxiety, Depression, Phobias, Interpersonal/Relationship Problems, Impulsive Behaviors, and Low Self Esteem.
My primary goal is to offer a safe and caring environment where clients will be able to work through problematic thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. In doing so, the journey of healing and growth begins. I prefer to utilize a holistic approach to counseling, incorporating various treatment methods into my practice depending upon the needs of each client. As a result, individuals are able to heal from deep rooted issues and trauma. I offer a complimentary 20 minute phone consultation in order for clients to learn more about my approach to counseling and get a sense for my particular style. I also offer evening appointments.
I specialize in working with clients experiencing but not limited to the following: OCD, Trauma and PTSD, Anxiety, Depression, Phobias, Interpersonal/Relationship Problems, Impulsive Behaviors, and Low Self Esteem.
My primary goal is to offer a safe and caring environment where clients will be able to work through problematic thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. In doing so, the journey of healing and growth begins. I prefer to utilize a holistic approach to counseling, incorporating various treatment methods into my practice depending upon the needs of each client. As a result, individuals are able to heal from deep rooted issues and trauma. I offer a complimentary 20 minute phone consultation in order for clients to learn more about my approach to counseling and get a sense for my particular style. I also offer evening appointments.
![Photo of Angelo Khammo - North Pointe Services Featured Clinician, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/1517ff90-c7f8-4afd-82f8-1a8f153c7ae9/2/320x400.jpeg)
We wholeheartedly believe individuals and families can have hope and peace in the midst of difficult times. We offer support, understanding and genuine help when you need it the most. The staff at North Pointe Services takes the opportunity to recognize your needs, build up your personal strength and provide solutions to your real issues. We want to encourage and build you up in healthy ways of being so that you can influence those around you in a bigger and more positive ways. We support children, teens and adult individuals as well as couples and families who are on their journey towards living their best lives.
We wholeheartedly believe individuals and families can have hope and peace in the midst of difficult times. We offer support, understanding and genuine help when you need it the most. The staff at North Pointe Services takes the opportunity to recognize your needs, build up your personal strength and provide solutions to your real issues. We want to encourage and build you up in healthy ways of being so that you can influence those around you in a bigger and more positive ways. We support children, teens and adult individuals as well as couples and families who are on their journey towards living their best lives.
![Photo of Carol C Ramsay-Scott, MSW, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/94399bea-5d0b-4c81-9275-d72c5abb6b7e/1/320x400.jpeg)
Carol C Ramsay-Scott
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85204
My therapeutic approach, developed over 27 years, is for someone who struggles being stuck but is tired of past failures, events, etc., and feels like they really want to fix the problems in their individual life and/or in their relationships. Emotionally Focused Therapy training allows for a deep resolution to individual, couple and family issues. I am one of 8 EFT Therapist/Supervisors in the state of Arizona. I am passionate about helping people resolve the ROOT of their issues not only the symptoms. EFT is incredible at really resolving relationship challenges like affairs, children challenges, and just being disconnected.
My therapeutic approach, developed over 27 years, is for someone who struggles being stuck but is tired of past failures, events, etc., and feels like they really want to fix the problems in their individual life and/or in their relationships. Emotionally Focused Therapy training allows for a deep resolution to individual, couple and family issues. I am one of 8 EFT Therapist/Supervisors in the state of Arizona. I am passionate about helping people resolve the ROOT of their issues not only the symptoms. EFT is incredible at really resolving relationship challenges like affairs, children challenges, and just being disconnected.
![Photo of Heidi M Clapham, MC, LPC, LISAC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/28b82679-8f65-473d-acc8-039200642352/2/320x400.jpeg)
The decision to seek therapy is usually at a difficult time in ones life. It isn't always easy, but can be life changing. As a therapist my main goal is establish a healthy therapeutic relationship with my clients. In my practice I work primarily with addictions (gambling/alcohol) and the effects on the individual and the family. I also work with individuals dealing depression, anxiety, women's issues, as well as those struggling in their relationship/marriage. I use cognitive behavioral therapy with my clients and I truly put forth the effort to individualize each therapeutic session to fit my clients needs.
The decision to seek therapy is usually at a difficult time in ones life. It isn't always easy, but can be life changing. As a therapist my main goal is establish a healthy therapeutic relationship with my clients. In my practice I work primarily with addictions (gambling/alcohol) and the effects on the individual and the family. I also work with individuals dealing depression, anxiety, women's issues, as well as those struggling in their relationship/marriage. I use cognitive behavioral therapy with my clients and I truly put forth the effort to individualize each therapeutic session to fit my clients needs.
![Photo of Carolyn Lamparella, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/7b194a09-8de6-485d-ada1-8aa13c388d7a/1/320x400.jpeg)
Carolyn Lamparella
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Chandler, AZ 85225 (Online Only)
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and has provided counseling and life coaching services to individuals, couples, families, adolescents and children for more than 28 years. She graduated from James Madison University with an Ed.S. in counseling psychology and obtained a Certification from the Washington School of Psychiatry in Infant and Young Child Mental Health. She focuses on holistic mental and emotional wellness with an emphasis on the benefits of meditation, exercise and cognitive behavioral strategies for the treatment of stress, anxiety and depression.
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and has provided counseling and life coaching services to individuals, couples, families, adolescents and children for more than 28 years. She graduated from James Madison University with an Ed.S. in counseling psychology and obtained a Certification from the Washington School of Psychiatry in Infant and Young Child Mental Health. She focuses on holistic mental and emotional wellness with an emphasis on the benefits of meditation, exercise and cognitive behavioral strategies for the treatment of stress, anxiety and depression.
![Photo of Kara D Roberts, LAC, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/16f0ea63-02bd-4edf-af03-d7ea179249f2/4/320x400.jpeg)
Kara enjoys at working with a diverse group of clientele.She especially connects easily with teens, as well as adults. She specializes in depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, and behavioral concerns. Meeting the client where they are is her motto. She has experience working with clients that have had weight loss surgery and the effects that surgery can have on everyday life and relationships. Kara also has a passion for working with athletes who are struggling with the pressure of being a student athlete or transitioning out of sports due to injury. She enjoys working with couples and families to create stronger bonds.
Kara enjoys at working with a diverse group of clientele.She especially connects easily with teens, as well as adults. She specializes in depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, and behavioral concerns. Meeting the client where they are is her motto. She has experience working with clients that have had weight loss surgery and the effects that surgery can have on everyday life and relationships. Kara also has a passion for working with athletes who are struggling with the pressure of being a student athlete or transitioning out of sports due to injury. She enjoys working with couples and families to create stronger bonds.
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I have experience with clients ranging from adolescence to the elderly, families and couples. My specialization is working with serious mental illness and substance abuse. I rely on compassion, empathy, and non judgment to respectfully approach complex situations. I understand that life has ebbs and flows. It can be difficult to traverse, especially when one feels alone, overwhelmed, hopeless, helpless, misunderstood, powerless, ashamed, unheard, victimized, confused, invisible, etc. I received my Masters in Counseling from Phoenix Seminary. I utilize an eclectic approach centered around a Cognitive Behavioral, person-centered
I have experience with clients ranging from adolescence to the elderly, families and couples. My specialization is working with serious mental illness and substance abuse. I rely on compassion, empathy, and non judgment to respectfully approach complex situations. I understand that life has ebbs and flows. It can be difficult to traverse, especially when one feels alone, overwhelmed, hopeless, helpless, misunderstood, powerless, ashamed, unheard, victimized, confused, invisible, etc. I received my Masters in Counseling from Phoenix Seminary. I utilize an eclectic approach centered around a Cognitive Behavioral, person-centered
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Fit Mind Professional Counseling
Counselor, LAC, CCPT
Verified Verified
Avondale, AZ 85392 (Online Only)
Using therapies like CBT, DBT, CPT, narrative, and Gottman method, you'll develop skills to manage your mood, process trauma, and improve relationships with your partner.
Develop strength to reduce the impact of depression, anxiety, and trauma! Air Force vet. I'm a licensed counselor and certified trauma professional with an approach that is flexible, collaborative, and effective. I hope to motivate you to pursue your goals and provide affordable mental health care that elevates your psychological fitness.
Using therapies like CBT, DBT, CPT, narrative, and Gottman method, you'll develop skills to manage your mood, process trauma, and improve relationships with your partner.
Develop strength to reduce the impact of depression, anxiety, and trauma! Air Force vet. I'm a licensed counselor and certified trauma professional with an approach that is flexible, collaborative, and effective. I hope to motivate you to pursue your goals and provide affordable mental health care that elevates your psychological fitness.
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Claire C. Karakey
Licensed Professional Counselor, MC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Scottsdale, AZ 85260
The day starts and self-doubt kicks in. Finding the energy to do what you need for others and yourself feels impossible. You're juggling so many roles as spouse, parent, child, business owner, friend, you name it and somehow have lost sight of yourself in the constant pressures of daily life. This leaves you riddled at times with anxiety, sadness, unpredicted tears- ultimately feeling depleted and angry that this cycle doesn't end. Then the secret thoughts begin: "Maybe I'm not good enough or worthy? I have no control. I should have known better. I've failed again..." Communicating these feelings is hard, leaving you stuck.
The day starts and self-doubt kicks in. Finding the energy to do what you need for others and yourself feels impossible. You're juggling so many roles as spouse, parent, child, business owner, friend, you name it and somehow have lost sight of yourself in the constant pressures of daily life. This leaves you riddled at times with anxiety, sadness, unpredicted tears- ultimately feeling depleted and angry that this cycle doesn't end. Then the secret thoughts begin: "Maybe I'm not good enough or worthy? I have no control. I should have known better. I've failed again..." Communicating these feelings is hard, leaving you stuck.
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Naomi Maza
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, PMH-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Scottsdale, AZ 85259 (Online Only)
I work with teens, adults, and couples.
Are you scrolling through social media late at night or just in your day-to-day life and not feeling fulfilled in life? Do you often find yourself comparing your faults with how other people are doing? Are you exhausted from any factor or stressor that is weighing you down? I will provide a comfy space for us to explore these current and past life stressors together. My focus is to empower you to leave our sessions with effective tools that you can apply to your wellbeing.
I work with teens, adults, and couples.
Are you scrolling through social media late at night or just in your day-to-day life and not feeling fulfilled in life? Do you often find yourself comparing your faults with how other people are doing? Are you exhausted from any factor or stressor that is weighing you down? I will provide a comfy space for us to explore these current and past life stressors together. My focus is to empower you to leave our sessions with effective tools that you can apply to your wellbeing.
![Photo of Diana E Rosen, MS, LPC, IOPsych, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/21634fd0-82d3-4c67-b43b-bbe0641be821/1/320x400.jpeg)
Diana offers psychotherapy services with holistic approach for both couples and individuals facing challenges such as relationship issues, depression, anxiety, and life changes. In a safe and confidential space, we assist couples in rekindling their loving relationship by developing awareness of their strengths and resilience. For individuals, Diana offers guidance in learning coping skills and fostering self-awareness. Diana's goal is to support you on your journey toward emotional well-being and fulfilling relationships.
Diana offers psychotherapy services with holistic approach for both couples and individuals facing challenges such as relationship issues, depression, anxiety, and life changes. In a safe and confidential space, we assist couples in rekindling their loving relationship by developing awareness of their strengths and resilience. For individuals, Diana offers guidance in learning coping skills and fostering self-awareness. Diana's goal is to support you on your journey toward emotional well-being and fulfilling relationships.
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I help kids, teens, adults and couples feel healthy and whole.
I strongly believe that everyone has the ability to mend and heal the broken parts of their soul and find peace, happiness and contentment. I have experienced the power and effectiveness of embarking on the journey of healing through counseling and felt the positive influences in my own life. I assist others in overcoming depression, anxiety, addiction, broken relationships, past traumatic experiences, loss and low self-esteem. I have the privilege of walking the path of healing with my clients allowing them to become strong, resilient, happy and healthy individuals who enjoy life and all that it has to offer.
I help kids, teens, adults and couples feel healthy and whole.
I strongly believe that everyone has the ability to mend and heal the broken parts of their soul and find peace, happiness and contentment. I have experienced the power and effectiveness of embarking on the journey of healing through counseling and felt the positive influences in my own life. I assist others in overcoming depression, anxiety, addiction, broken relationships, past traumatic experiences, loss and low self-esteem. I have the privilege of walking the path of healing with my clients allowing them to become strong, resilient, happy and healthy individuals who enjoy life and all that it has to offer.
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Era’Shaunda Brown is currently pursuing her master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. She enjoys working with a mixture of different therapies but gravitates towards Emotion-Focused and Solution-Focused Therapies. She enjoys working with diverse clientele including families, couples, and adolescents, helping them to navigate through complex transitional periods that are experienced by many. Her goal is to provide a safe space for her clients to feel heard and to be able to express their feelings and emotions openly and without judgment.
Era’Shaunda Brown is currently pursuing her master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. She enjoys working with a mixture of different therapies but gravitates towards Emotion-Focused and Solution-Focused Therapies. She enjoys working with diverse clientele including families, couples, and adolescents, helping them to navigate through complex transitional periods that are experienced by many. Her goal is to provide a safe space for her clients to feel heard and to be able to express their feelings and emotions openly and without judgment.
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I have been especially helpful to people experiencing the following challenges: relationship difficulties including couple, family and work issues, grief/loss, parenting, teen and young adult issues. Each person/couple is viewed from a place of deep respect for their history, struggles and victories. My style is individualized, collaborative and designed to access the wisdom and strength within every person. Couples have felt that therapy helped them reestablish their emotional connection. My specialty is determining the core issues underneath conflict within any relationship including with self. I will serve as clinician, teacher, guide and encourager as you experience growth/healing.
I have been especially helpful to people experiencing the following challenges: relationship difficulties including couple, family and work issues, grief/loss, parenting, teen and young adult issues. Each person/couple is viewed from a place of deep respect for their history, struggles and victories. My style is individualized, collaborative and designed to access the wisdom and strength within every person. Couples have felt that therapy helped them reestablish their emotional connection. My specialty is determining the core issues underneath conflict within any relationship including with self. I will serve as clinician, teacher, guide and encourager as you experience growth/healing.
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I support both individuals and couples in creating more meaningful lives.
Something very real and important has brought you here for help. My approach is compassion-focused & tailored to meet the unique needs of each human I work with. I believe that you are the greatest expert in your own life; my role is to help you connect to that authentic and intuitive voice to bring about change. Beliefs such as “I am not good enough,” “I am worthless,” or “I am a failure” can lead to avoidance, suffering & missed experiences - holding us back from truly enjoying life. Yet, every human has intrinsic worth despite what we may tell ourselves about the many experiences we have had in this world.
I support both individuals and couples in creating more meaningful lives.
Something very real and important has brought you here for help. My approach is compassion-focused & tailored to meet the unique needs of each human I work with. I believe that you are the greatest expert in your own life; my role is to help you connect to that authentic and intuitive voice to bring about change. Beliefs such as “I am not good enough,” “I am worthless,” or “I am a failure” can lead to avoidance, suffering & missed experiences - holding us back from truly enjoying life. Yet, every human has intrinsic worth despite what we may tell ourselves about the many experiences we have had in this world.
![Photo of Stacy Gerson, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/0b73cd29-3c78-4342-bf67-97092dbb888c/3/320x400.jpeg)
I am Accepting New Clients for both In-Person & Telehealth appointments. I am ready and willing to provide a safe space, to help you and/or your loved one face and take on any life stressors or challenges. This can include issues contributing to anxiety, depression, relational problems, trauma, unhealthy coping skills, self-esteem issues, stress and much more. Services are offered for Couples, families, teens, young adults, and adults. I’d be happy to answer any questions/ concerns- Please reach out!
I am Accepting New Clients for both In-Person & Telehealth appointments. I am ready and willing to provide a safe space, to help you and/or your loved one face and take on any life stressors or challenges. This can include issues contributing to anxiety, depression, relational problems, trauma, unhealthy coping skills, self-esteem issues, stress and much more. Services are offered for Couples, families, teens, young adults, and adults. I’d be happy to answer any questions/ concerns- Please reach out!
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Jaymina Patel
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glendale, AZ 85310 (Online Only)
My clients may be high achieving individuals suffering from various forms of angst between family stressors, career pressures, health changes, life transitions, and having difficulty facing patterns that no longer serve them or their relationship with the world. My clients may be dealing with depression, anxiety, and a lack of clarity. They may be having difficulty finding the answers that are already within themselves. My goal is to expose them to these codes and present the various strengths their mind finds.
My clients may be high achieving individuals suffering from various forms of angst between family stressors, career pressures, health changes, life transitions, and having difficulty facing patterns that no longer serve them or their relationship with the world. My clients may be dealing with depression, anxiety, and a lack of clarity. They may be having difficulty finding the answers that are already within themselves. My goal is to expose them to these codes and present the various strengths their mind finds.
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If you are haunted by past trauma that doesn’t seem to get better with time, I am able to help you find relief. If your relationship has hit an all-time low, and you don't know if you can take it much longer, I can give you the tools to work through conflict and reclaim the love you have for one another. If having affairs or watching porn has gotten out of control for you or someone you love, together we can move toward healing for both you and your partner. If you’ve been disillusioned by religion and need to find a safe place to heal from spiritual abuse, I can walk with you as you find the kind of spirituality that works for you.
If you are haunted by past trauma that doesn’t seem to get better with time, I am able to help you find relief. If your relationship has hit an all-time low, and you don't know if you can take it much longer, I can give you the tools to work through conflict and reclaim the love you have for one another. If having affairs or watching porn has gotten out of control for you or someone you love, together we can move toward healing for both you and your partner. If you’ve been disillusioned by religion and need to find a safe place to heal from spiritual abuse, I can walk with you as you find the kind of spirituality that works for you.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.