Sex Therapists in Connecticut
Mariska Jen Miessler
Professional Counselor Associate , LPC-A, CTP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Shelton, CT 06484
As a lesbian passionate about trauma healing and helping find congruency with one’s sexual self, I am here to help you find your voice and inner strength wherever you are in your journey.
Sexuality is so challenging to talk about for most people that getting to the point where you are online this minute searching for a therapist comfortable talking about it with you is a major success. Even if you get no further than this sentence right now, you have already overcome a monumental hurdle; you will be able to do it again, and your next search will be easier. The path to sexual fulfillment can be grueling to navigate alone, and I am happy to explore whatever is on your mind regarding your sexuality, be it pleasure challenges, trauma, sexual or gender identity, non-monogamy, kink, addiction, and everything in between.
As a lesbian passionate about trauma healing and helping find congruency with one’s sexual self, I am here to help you find your voice and inner strength wherever you are in your journey.
Sexuality is so challenging to talk about for most people that getting to the point where you are online this minute searching for a therapist comfortable talking about it with you is a major success. Even if you get no further than this sentence right now, you have already overcome a monumental hurdle; you will be able to do it again, and your next search will be easier. The path to sexual fulfillment can be grueling to navigate alone, and I am happy to explore whatever is on your mind regarding your sexuality, be it pleasure challenges, trauma, sexual or gender identity, non-monogamy, kink, addiction, and everything in between.
SMPsychotherapy & Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hartford, CT 06103
My passion is focused on helping individuals and couples express their sexual desires, sexual intimacy, concerns and difficulties through various modalities.
Are you anxious, frustrated, or do you have sexual desire issues? Empower yourself to explore your pleasures in a safe space. My goal is to assist individuals navigate through this journey we call life. To gain power and understanding over concerns such as intimacy and relationship issues that cause and result from emotional distress, trauma, disability, depression, anxiety and societal stigmas. Take the journey down the path to discover your pleasure principles, to explore and be able to communicate your love language to yourself as well as to your partner.
My passion is focused on helping individuals and couples express their sexual desires, sexual intimacy, concerns and difficulties through various modalities.
Are you anxious, frustrated, or do you have sexual desire issues? Empower yourself to explore your pleasures in a safe space. My goal is to assist individuals navigate through this journey we call life. To gain power and understanding over concerns such as intimacy and relationship issues that cause and result from emotional distress, trauma, disability, depression, anxiety and societal stigmas. Take the journey down the path to discover your pleasure principles, to explore and be able to communicate your love language to yourself as well as to your partner.
Sexuality is often plagued by ideas and expectations regarding performance.
I am a sexologist and licensed couples therapist. I maintain a private practice with a focus on sex therapy. My areas of expertise are intimate relationships, pleasure, infidelity, sexual desire discrepancies, lack of desire, difficulties with orgasm, difficulties with erections and orgasm, pain and discomfort in sex, alternative sexualities and lifestyles, sexual abuse and violence. My approach is one that is positive, validating, and nurturing.
Sexuality is often plagued by ideas and expectations regarding performance.
I am a sexologist and licensed couples therapist. I maintain a private practice with a focus on sex therapy. My areas of expertise are intimate relationships, pleasure, infidelity, sexual desire discrepancies, lack of desire, difficulties with orgasm, difficulties with erections and orgasm, pain and discomfort in sex, alternative sexualities and lifestyles, sexual abuse and violence. My approach is one that is positive, validating, and nurturing.
Dr. Sandra Scantling, Loving Better, Living Better
Psychologist, PsyD, MSN, CST, DipST, CIFST
Verified Verified
Farmington, CT 06032
I specialize in male and female sexual dysfunction.
Whether your issues are as an individual or couple, I'm here to help you. In addition to being a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, I am also a Certified Diplomate in Sex Therapy, Master's prepared psychiatric nurse clinician, and Certified IFS Therapist (see ifs-institute.com). I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual problems, infidelity, divorce, or separation in traditional and non-traditional relationships. Making that first call to a therapist can be challenging. I am committed to helping you in a safe compassionate setting that focuses on your specific needs.
I specialize in male and female sexual dysfunction.
Whether your issues are as an individual or couple, I'm here to help you. In addition to being a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, I am also a Certified Diplomate in Sex Therapy, Master's prepared psychiatric nurse clinician, and Certified IFS Therapist (see ifs-institute.com). I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual problems, infidelity, divorce, or separation in traditional and non-traditional relationships. Making that first call to a therapist can be challenging. I am committed to helping you in a safe compassionate setting that focuses on your specific needs.
Paula Kirsch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST
Verified Verified
Norwalk, CT 06855 (Online Only)
to grow into your full potential? I am also a Certified Psycho sexual Therapist through IAPST.
Are you having relationship problems or sexual difficulties? I am a Master Clinical Social Worker and an IBOSP-Certified Sex Therapist. I’ve helped countless couples and individuals find connection and sexual intimacy in their lives. Improve your communication and deal with desire discrepancy and conflict! I work with women's sexual health issues: vaginismus, sexual trauma, past abuse, pelvic pain, low desire. There is help, don't suffer! Call me. I offer a client-centered approach and trauma-informed care to help you as a unique individual or couple. Together we can also address anxiety, grief and loss, depression, PTSD, and more
to grow into your full potential? I am also a Certified Psycho sexual Therapist through IAPST.
Are you having relationship problems or sexual difficulties? I am a Master Clinical Social Worker and an IBOSP-Certified Sex Therapist. I’ve helped countless couples and individuals find connection and sexual intimacy in their lives. Improve your communication and deal with desire discrepancy and conflict! I work with women's sexual health issues: vaginismus, sexual trauma, past abuse, pelvic pain, low desire. There is help, don't suffer! Call me. I offer a client-centered approach and trauma-informed care to help you as a unique individual or couple. Together we can also address anxiety, grief and loss, depression, PTSD, and more
Shaldeen Campbell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Monroe, CT 06468 (Online Only)
I specialize in sex therapy, a type of talk therapy that's designed to help folks address factors impacting sexual satisfaction.
I am a licensed clinical social worker passionate about connecting with individuals and couples to support them in creating a life of harmony, balance, and pleasure. My focus lies in assisting folks in navigating the complexities of setting healthy boundaries in their relationships. I am also incredibly passionate about working with individuals overcome anxiety and self-defeating intrusive thoughts, by prioritizing self-care to create a fulfilling life. In addition, I am dedicated to supporting women cope with the challenges of pregnancy and motherhood. I am committed to helping clients achieve personal growth and resilience.
I specialize in sex therapy, a type of talk therapy that's designed to help folks address factors impacting sexual satisfaction.
I am a licensed clinical social worker passionate about connecting with individuals and couples to support them in creating a life of harmony, balance, and pleasure. My focus lies in assisting folks in navigating the complexities of setting healthy boundaries in their relationships. I am also incredibly passionate about working with individuals overcome anxiety and self-defeating intrusive thoughts, by prioritizing self-care to create a fulfilling life. In addition, I am dedicated to supporting women cope with the challenges of pregnancy and motherhood. I am committed to helping clients achieve personal growth and resilience.
Heal on Purpose, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Britain, CT 06051
Workshops: Many adults know next to nothing about basic sex-ed, including pleasure anatomy, sexual communication, how to express consent, understanding arousal, orgasm and desire, navigating libido changes and how to listen to their own bodies.
Whether you are dealing with sexual issues or struggling with mental health challenges like anxiety, depression, or trauma, We are here to provide personalized and compassionate guidance. Together, we can work towards achieving a healthier and more fulfilling life. We are dedicated to providing comprehensive support for individuals and couples. In addition to addressing sexual concerns, We also specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, and more. My approach involves creating a supportive, non-judgmental, and inclusive atmosphere to foster a comfortable therapeutic environment.
Workshops: Many adults know next to nothing about basic sex-ed, including pleasure anatomy, sexual communication, how to express consent, understanding arousal, orgasm and desire, navigating libido changes and how to listen to their own bodies.
Whether you are dealing with sexual issues or struggling with mental health challenges like anxiety, depression, or trauma, We are here to provide personalized and compassionate guidance. Together, we can work towards achieving a healthier and more fulfilling life. We are dedicated to providing comprehensive support for individuals and couples. In addition to addressing sexual concerns, We also specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, and more. My approach involves creating a supportive, non-judgmental, and inclusive atmosphere to foster a comfortable therapeutic environment.
Rebekah Kanefsky
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stamford, CT 06905 (Online Only)
I am in the process of completing certification as a nationally board-certified sex and couples therapist.
Are you feeling judged? Have a secret that you cannot share with others? Seeking a safe space in order to vent? With my therapeutic guidance, you can address your deepest emotional and intimate needs in a nonjudgmental, genuine and supportive environment. Dynamic and spontaneous, I am there because you are there. You do not need to struggle alone. Together, we have an opportunity to make it better.
I am in the process of completing certification as a nationally board-certified sex and couples therapist.
Are you feeling judged? Have a secret that you cannot share with others? Seeking a safe space in order to vent? With my therapeutic guidance, you can address your deepest emotional and intimate needs in a nonjudgmental, genuine and supportive environment. Dynamic and spontaneous, I am there because you are there. You do not need to struggle alone. Together, we have an opportunity to make it better.
Jennifer Kneeland
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Westport, CT 06880
Are you recycling conflicts or feeling betrayed in your relationship? Are you feeling more like roommates than lovers? I am a Licensed Relationship and Sex Therapist with over 23 years of experience. My lead speciality is working with couples who want to restore trust, connection and intimacy. I see clients in person in my CT office and happily offer video therapy for those outside of driving distance. Multi-hour sessions offered for those couples wanting accelerated change.
Are you recycling conflicts or feeling betrayed in your relationship? Are you feeling more like roommates than lovers? I am a Licensed Relationship and Sex Therapist with over 23 years of experience. My lead speciality is working with couples who want to restore trust, connection and intimacy. I see clients in person in my CT office and happily offer video therapy for those outside of driving distance. Multi-hour sessions offered for those couples wanting accelerated change.
SMSexuality & Intimacy Coaching Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hartford, CT 06103
You are not alone! So many women just like you, struggle in their sex lives, leaving them feeling stuck, dissatisfied, unhappy and unable to reconnect with their partner.
Have you been struggling with: · Pain with sexual touch · Feeling disconnected when engaging sexually with a partner · Processing past sexual trauma once in one’s current relationship · Experiencing major lack of sexual desire for one’s partner, or low libido · building trust and safety after infidelity. · Recovering from infidelity; Lack of confidence after an infidelity, building trust and safety with your partner. Frustration achieving orgasm – alone, and/or with your others. ·Reconnecting with your sexuality after major life events. I can help you.
You are not alone! So many women just like you, struggle in their sex lives, leaving them feeling stuck, dissatisfied, unhappy and unable to reconnect with their partner.
Have you been struggling with: · Pain with sexual touch · Feeling disconnected when engaging sexually with a partner · Processing past sexual trauma once in one’s current relationship · Experiencing major lack of sexual desire for one’s partner, or low libido · building trust and safety after infidelity. · Recovering from infidelity; Lack of confidence after an infidelity, building trust and safety with your partner. Frustration achieving orgasm – alone, and/or with your others. ·Reconnecting with your sexuality after major life events. I can help you.
Lori Michels - Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST, S-PSB
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Milford, CT 06460
I specialize in sexual dysfunctions, intimacy deficits, infidelities, and problematic sexual behavior.
Hi. I am a licensed psychotherapist, relationship specialist, and a certified sex therapist in the states of Connecticut, Florida, and Vermont. Offering services online allows me to work with anyone within the state lines and provide quality therapy. I work with individuals and couples with an integrative style so I can design therapy around you. My impartial and supportive setting can help you understand, work through, and resolve the dynamics that you are struggling with. Please visit my website for more information about my services.
I specialize in sexual dysfunctions, intimacy deficits, infidelities, and problematic sexual behavior.
Hi. I am a licensed psychotherapist, relationship specialist, and a certified sex therapist in the states of Connecticut, Florida, and Vermont. Offering services online allows me to work with anyone within the state lines and provide quality therapy. I work with individuals and couples with an integrative style so I can design therapy around you. My impartial and supportive setting can help you understand, work through, and resolve the dynamics that you are struggling with. Please visit my website for more information about my services.
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The stigma around this topic is still too pervasive which enhances my desire to offer support, guidance and safe spaces for the theme of sexuality/gender to be explored and accepted.
What would you say about your sex life right now? "It's complicated"! These words have been spoken by countless clients. Sex therapy is a specific type of counseling designed to treat sexual problems affecting both individuals and couples. Sex therapy can alleviate a wide variety of issues including: body image and self-esteem issues; conflict with religious belief/ sexuality; confusion about sexual orientation; gender identification; difficulty experiencing orgasm; difficulty maintaining errections; erectile dysfunction; lack of sexual desire; negative attitudes or fear towards sex due to previous traumatic experience; premature ejaculation; health/disability; BDSM/various fetishes; and stress/anxiety regarding sexual performance.
The stigma around this topic is still too pervasive which enhances my desire to offer support, guidance and safe spaces for the theme of sexuality/gender to be explored and accepted.
What would you say about your sex life right now? "It's complicated"! These words have been spoken by countless clients. Sex therapy is a specific type of counseling designed to treat sexual problems affecting both individuals and couples. Sex therapy can alleviate a wide variety of issues including: body image and self-esteem issues; conflict with religious belief/ sexuality; confusion about sexual orientation; gender identification; difficulty experiencing orgasm; difficulty maintaining errections; erectile dysfunction; lack of sexual desire; negative attitudes or fear towards sex due to previous traumatic experience; premature ejaculation; health/disability; BDSM/various fetishes; and stress/anxiety regarding sexual performance.
Tammy Nelson
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPCC, LADC, CSCT, CST
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Fairfield, CT 06824
I am the author of six books including "Open Monogamy," "The New Monogamy," "Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy," and "When You're the One Who Cheats," as well as "Getting the Sex You Want" and "What's Eating You?" I am also a TEDx speaker as well as the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex.
Therapy can help. Are you worried about your relationship? Do you have sexual desire issues? Infidelity, betrayal, unhappiness? Relationships are hard! Relationship and sex therapy or individual counseling can help you heal and determine what comes next. I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Sex and Couples Therapist with over 35 years of experience. Therapy can help repair your relationship, heal from betrayal or create more passion. Online sessions are available and in-person Intensives for couples are available. Open, poly, closed, LGBTQ welcome.
I am the author of six books including "Open Monogamy," "The New Monogamy," "Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy," and "When You're the One Who Cheats," as well as "Getting the Sex You Want" and "What's Eating You?" I am also a TEDx speaker as well as the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex.
Therapy can help. Are you worried about your relationship? Do you have sexual desire issues? Infidelity, betrayal, unhappiness? Relationships are hard! Relationship and sex therapy or individual counseling can help you heal and determine what comes next. I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Sex and Couples Therapist with over 35 years of experience. Therapy can help repair your relationship, heal from betrayal or create more passion. Online sessions are available and in-person Intensives for couples are available. Open, poly, closed, LGBTQ welcome.
Sex and intimacy issues are overwhelming for many.
Do you avoid sex with your partner? Do you feel shame or guilt with masturbation? Has your once robust libido disappeared? Has infidelity or betrayal destroyed your romantic relationship? Do you feel anxious about sex and intimacy? Do you struggle to reach orgasm? Does past sexual trauma derail your attempts to connect sexually with yourself or your partner? Many women and couples struggle with sexual intimacy due to life changes, a lack of knowledge about female pleasure, or unhealed sexual trauma. You want to enjoy a sex life full of exploration, pleasure, and orgasms but aren’t sure where to start.
Sex and intimacy issues are overwhelming for many.
Do you avoid sex with your partner? Do you feel shame or guilt with masturbation? Has your once robust libido disappeared? Has infidelity or betrayal destroyed your romantic relationship? Do you feel anxious about sex and intimacy? Do you struggle to reach orgasm? Does past sexual trauma derail your attempts to connect sexually with yourself or your partner? Many women and couples struggle with sexual intimacy due to life changes, a lack of knowledge about female pleasure, or unhealed sexual trauma. You want to enjoy a sex life full of exploration, pleasure, and orgasms but aren’t sure where to start.
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Absolute Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
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Greenwich, CT 06831
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
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Matthew Phillips Sex And Relationship Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MEd
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Stamford, CT 06905
My expertise in LGBTQ+ experience and sex therapy for men allows you to bring all of your lived experience, past and present, into the therapy room to create the change you need.
Currently accepting new clients in office (Stamford) and online (NY and CT). I specialize in working with adolescents and adults who have had their sexuality, gender, and relationships marginalized, especially members of the LGBTQ community. Sex therapy with men and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy are cornerstones of my practice. I empower adults and adolescents as they grow in response to depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges. I welcome and affirm people of all sexual orientations, gender presentations, and consensual relationship models.
My expertise in LGBTQ+ experience and sex therapy for men allows you to bring all of your lived experience, past and present, into the therapy room to create the change you need.
Currently accepting new clients in office (Stamford) and online (NY and CT). I specialize in working with adolescents and adults who have had their sexuality, gender, and relationships marginalized, especially members of the LGBTQ community. Sex therapy with men and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy are cornerstones of my practice. I empower adults and adolescents as they grow in response to depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges. I welcome and affirm people of all sexual orientations, gender presentations, and consensual relationship models.
I offer treatments that target symptoms associated with trauma and sexuality issues.
Are you looking for a supportive space to work through your lived experiences, address concerns you have and heal? I work with a broad spectrum of clients who experience struggles with trauma, sexuality and gender issues. These topics can impact life for long periods of time and can leave you feeling alone, confused or somehow not "good enough." I strive to cultivate personalized methodologies that empower you to reclaim your authentic self in mind, body and spirit. It is my core belief that all individuals deserve quality, affirming care and a nonjudgmental space to address their needs.
I offer treatments that target symptoms associated with trauma and sexuality issues.
Are you looking for a supportive space to work through your lived experiences, address concerns you have and heal? I work with a broad spectrum of clients who experience struggles with trauma, sexuality and gender issues. These topics can impact life for long periods of time and can leave you feeling alone, confused or somehow not "good enough." I strive to cultivate personalized methodologies that empower you to reclaim your authentic self in mind, body and spirit. It is my core belief that all individuals deserve quality, affirming care and a nonjudgmental space to address their needs.
Morgan Ortiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
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Berlin, CT 06037 (Online Only)
Since no two individuals are the same, I utilize an integrative approach to tailor my clinical work to each client’s unique needs. In addition to individual work, I have experience working with families, couples and those in polyamorous relationships. I have extensive training in sex therapy and often utilize my training to assist to individuals with sexual health and intimacy concerns as well as those looking to address intimacy issues within their relationship.
Since no two individuals are the same, I utilize an integrative approach to tailor my clinical work to each client’s unique needs. In addition to individual work, I have experience working with families, couples and those in polyamorous relationships. I have extensive training in sex therapy and often utilize my training to assist to individuals with sexual health and intimacy concerns as well as those looking to address intimacy issues within their relationship.
I am trained in Psychodynamic therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Sex Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Reproductive Psychology, and S.
Transform Adversity into Opportunity! As a dynamic therapist with a conversational style, we will develop a plan to help you on the way to health, connection & happiness. Collaboration is key! Using a warm, compassionate & empowering approach, I will offer you feedback, hold you accountable, & celebrate successes with you! During our sessions, we will explore how your thoughts, emotions, & behaviors are connected. We will identify the messages you received about yourself, others, & relationships. The experiences we had as children shape us as adults, understanding their impact can help us heal and lead a more fulfilling life.
I am trained in Psychodynamic therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Sex Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Reproductive Psychology, and S.
Transform Adversity into Opportunity! As a dynamic therapist with a conversational style, we will develop a plan to help you on the way to health, connection & happiness. Collaboration is key! Using a warm, compassionate & empowering approach, I will offer you feedback, hold you accountable, & celebrate successes with you! During our sessions, we will explore how your thoughts, emotions, & behaviors are connected. We will identify the messages you received about yourself, others, & relationships. The experiences we had as children shape us as adults, understanding their impact can help us heal and lead a more fulfilling life.
My work teaches me that regardless of your sexual orientation, political stance, spiritual path, or cultural identify, your need for deep, loving connection is a universal truth.
I specialize in helping couples reclaim loving connection using a proven, evidence-based therapeutic approach called Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT). If you and your partner are stuck in a pattern of conflict, withdrawal, and disconnection, be reassured: There is hope. Even if you have experienced betrayal, therapy can guide you back to joyful connection. I am also a certified Sex Therapist, and help couples discover the joys of erotic pleasure. I am kink- and CNM-friendly. For individuals, my attachment, trauma-informed approach addresses relational traumas and sexual shame to help you journey toward health and wholeness.
My work teaches me that regardless of your sexual orientation, political stance, spiritual path, or cultural identify, your need for deep, loving connection is a universal truth.
I specialize in helping couples reclaim loving connection using a proven, evidence-based therapeutic approach called Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT). If you and your partner are stuck in a pattern of conflict, withdrawal, and disconnection, be reassured: There is hope. Even if you have experienced betrayal, therapy can guide you back to joyful connection. I am also a certified Sex Therapist, and help couples discover the joys of erotic pleasure. I am kink- and CNM-friendly. For individuals, my attachment, trauma-informed approach addresses relational traumas and sexual shame to help you journey toward health and wholeness.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.