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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
Photo of Paul Paiva - CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva, MDiv, MA, LEBC, Pastoral Counselor

CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva

Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC

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Boulder, CO 80301
(720) 954-1603
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I'm a couples counselor who helps with challenges in communication, conflict, trust/infidelity, pornography, & intimacy style differences. Have you struggled to communicate your needs to your partner? Does your partner want to be polyamorous, but you are unwilling to accept that? My counseling STYLE is clear and direct. I listen to your story, then offer observations. I give you homework to help you make small steps towards actual change in behavior. I identify the motivations for your behavior, rather than focusing solely on the behavior - this can often be a breakthrough in helping you and your partner to actually change.
I'm a former Roman Catholic priest, sex-positive, LGBTQIA-embracing, poly-friendly, & kink-friendly. I do pre-marital counseling. Member of the American Counseling Association (ACA), International Association of Marriage and Family Counselors (IAMFC), and AASECT. Is it challenging to integrate your faith journey with your sexuality, and with your partner?
I am an Enneagram specialist, doing workshops and teaching my clients to use this powerful tool in their relationships. As a pastoral counselor I will have insight into your faith perspective. On my website header click on "Schedule Free 20 Min Discovery Session". Check out my podcast "CoCreative Intimacy" on Spotify.
Call or CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva now for a free 15 minute consultation - (720) 954-1603

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Boulder, CO 80301

(720) 954-1603

Lafayette, CO 80026

We can meet in my office north of Denver or on zoom video. Days, evenings, and weekend appointments are available.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Marital and Premarital and Relationship Issues 
$120 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Paul Paiva, M.Div., M.A., EBC
CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Let's Connect (720) 954-1603
Photo of Paul Paiva - CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva, MDiv, MA, LEBC, Pastoral Counselor

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Boulder, CO 80301

(720) 954-1603

Lafayette, CO 80026

We can meet in my office north of Denver or on zoom video. Days, evenings, and weekend appointments are available.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Marital and Premarital and Relationship Issues 
$120 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Paul Paiva, M.Div., M.A., EBC
CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $120
  • Couple Sessions $120
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by Cash, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa
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I do not accept insurance. I send you an invoice and you pay by card. All sessions are pre-pay.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
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I do not accept insurance. I send you an invoice and you pay by card. All sessions are pre-pay.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC

Qualifications

    Pastoral Counselor: Paul Paiva
  • Verified by Psychology Today Degree/Diploma from St. Johns Seminary Paul Paiva
  • In Practice for 14 Years
  • Membership with American Counseling Association and International Association of Marriage and Family Counselors 6655320 / 2023
  • Membership with American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) 1454192 / 2023
  • Attended Master of Divinity, Master of Arts Theology, Pastoral Counseling, Certified and Licensed Erotic Blueprint Coach, Graduated 2010
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I can journey with you as you rekindle intimacy with your partner, both emotionally and physically. Session cost is $120-160.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
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I can journey with you as you rekindle intimacy with your partner, both emotionally and physically. Session cost is $120-160.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Differences in Communication Styles
  • Divorce
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Men's Issues
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Sex and Intimacy Coaching
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Spirituality
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I work with couples struggling to communicate effectively. I will evaluate each of your communication styles, and identify your blind spots, triggers, virtues, and vices. First I do an individual session with each of you, then we have our first joint session, which in some cases can be a "mini-breakthrough".
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
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I work with couples struggling to communicate effectively. I will evaluate each of your communication styles, and identify your blind spots, triggers, virtues, and vices. First I do an individual session with each of you, then we have our first joint session, which in some cases can be a "mini-breakthrough".
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC

Client Focus

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Deaf Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Spanish

Religion

Christian

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Deaf Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Spanish

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Christian Counseling
  • Coaching
  • Enneagram counseling and typing analysis
  • Family / Marital
  • Feminist
  • Psychological Testing and Evaluation
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For couples, after an initial free Discovery Session, we start with separate individual sessions, then the third session is for all three of us. I find this is most efficient to understand the core issues quickly.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
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CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
"
For couples, after an initial free Discovery Session, we start with separate individual sessions, then the third session is for all three of us. I find this is most efficient to understand the core issues quickly.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 954-1603
Photo of Paul Paiva - CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva, MDiv, MA, LEBC, Pastoral Counselor
CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC

Location

Primary Location

Boulder, CO 80301

(720) 954-1603

Email us

Website

Additional Location

Lafayette, CO 80026

(720) 954-1603

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

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We can meet in my office north of Denver or on zoom video. Days, evenings, and weekend appointments are available.
Call for a free consultation now - (720) 954-1603
Photo of Paul Paiva - CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva, MDiv, MA, LEBC, Pastoral Counselor
CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC
"
We can meet in my office north of Denver or on zoom video. Days, evenings, and weekend appointments are available.
Call for a free consultation now - (720) 954-1603
Photo of Paul Paiva - CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva, MDiv, MA, LEBC, Pastoral Counselor
CoCreative Intimacy, Paul Paiva
Pastoral Counselor, MDiv, MA, LEBC