Female Therapists in Longmont, CO
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Danielle Schlagel
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LAC, CST, ACS
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501 (Online Only)
With warmth, humor, and honesty, I strive to create a time and place where you can feel supported in navigating the tough moments of life. As I’ve done this work over the last 17+ years I’ve learned that we can find joy and meaning, including in the hard things we pull away from. Relationships and emotions can feel confusing, scary, or painful. Sometimes our thoughts get overwhelming, we struggle with our emotions, and we try to hold onto control, all while feeling a bit lost. We can work collaboratively to help you get out of your head, learn to manage your feelings & boundaries, heal relationships, and create the life you want.
With warmth, humor, and honesty, I strive to create a time and place where you can feel supported in navigating the tough moments of life. As I’ve done this work over the last 17+ years I’ve learned that we can find joy and meaning, including in the hard things we pull away from. Relationships and emotions can feel confusing, scary, or painful. Sometimes our thoughts get overwhelming, we struggle with our emotions, and we try to hold onto control, all while feeling a bit lost. We can work collaboratively to help you get out of your head, learn to manage your feelings & boundaries, heal relationships, and create the life you want.
![Photo of Caitlin Gray, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/48f1567e-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Caitlin Gray
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501
If you've been contemplating counseling, now is the time! As a Christian Therapist, I believe that God desires so much more for us than we are currently experiencing. If you're feeling heavy, life can be lighter. If you're struggling to see change in your life, a new more peaceful life is possible. Your desires, goals and dreams for life are not selfish, and I believe that Christ calls us to live life to the full. If your life does not feel "full", change is possible. You were meant for more.
If you've been contemplating counseling, now is the time! As a Christian Therapist, I believe that God desires so much more for us than we are currently experiencing. If you're feeling heavy, life can be lighter. If you're struggling to see change in your life, a new more peaceful life is possible. Your desires, goals and dreams for life are not selfish, and I believe that Christ calls us to live life to the full. If your life does not feel "full", change is possible. You were meant for more.
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Horses Heal Therapy and Clinical Supervision (LPC)
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC-S
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80503
Relationships are what make life richer, kinder, and more fun. When those aren't working well, life can be really tough, either because we don't have the relationships we want, or those we have aren't working... Loneliness, people-pleasing, social anxiety, or fear of rejection... arguments, lack of connection, or constant conflict... all these can make relationships really, really hard. It all comes down to our relationship with... ourselves. When we know, love, and care for ourselves, our relationships start to change, from the inside out.
Relationships are what make life richer, kinder, and more fun. When those aren't working well, life can be really tough, either because we don't have the relationships we want, or those we have aren't working... Loneliness, people-pleasing, social anxiety, or fear of rejection... arguments, lack of connection, or constant conflict... all these can make relationships really, really hard. It all comes down to our relationship with... ourselves. When we know, love, and care for ourselves, our relationships start to change, from the inside out.
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The most important part of therapy is the therapeutic relationship. Non-judgment. Trust. Compassion. Acceptance. I encourage clients to work from within this space, creating a curiosity towards the innate workings of the self. "The curious paradox of life is that once I accept myself as I am, it is then I can change." Carl Rogers
The most important part of therapy is the therapeutic relationship. Non-judgment. Trust. Compassion. Acceptance. I encourage clients to work from within this space, creating a curiosity towards the innate workings of the self. "The curious paradox of life is that once I accept myself as I am, it is then I can change." Carl Rogers
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Dr. Jesseca Manson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, RPT
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80503
Waitlist for new clients
As a counselor and a person, I am heartfelt, playful, and energetic. I love incorporating the mind-body connection into my clinical work, and I love conducting therapy in unique spaces, including my farmhouse office and the acreage surrounding it. While I use play therapy with my child clients, I believe that incorporating playfulness and creativity into working with adolescents and adults can be helpful to communication, wellness, and healing. It is my deepest passion to journey with my clients as they grow, and to celebrate them as they move into ways of being, living, and loving that align with their heart’s deepest values!
As a counselor and a person, I am heartfelt, playful, and energetic. I love incorporating the mind-body connection into my clinical work, and I love conducting therapy in unique spaces, including my farmhouse office and the acreage surrounding it. While I use play therapy with my child clients, I believe that incorporating playfulness and creativity into working with adolescents and adults can be helpful to communication, wellness, and healing. It is my deepest passion to journey with my clients as they grow, and to celebrate them as they move into ways of being, living, and loving that align with their heart’s deepest values!
![Photo of Sara Roberts-Gaines, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/ceb85d54-a1ee-4b3f-9759-946fd254b617/2/320x400.jpeg)
Sara Roberts-Gaines
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501
Accepting New Clients! There are times in our lives where we recognize we need things to change or just need some support. I am here to help you, your family, and your children with a challenge that might feel too big to manage on your own. I specialize in working with children and adults who are seeking services for depression, anxiety, trauma and high stress experiences, behavioral issues, adjustment difficulties, and family relationship concerns. I also have experience and training working with nuerodivergent clients (ADHD, Autistic, Developmental Disorders, TBI, and birth trauma) and welcome the opportunity to work with you.
Accepting New Clients! There are times in our lives where we recognize we need things to change or just need some support. I am here to help you, your family, and your children with a challenge that might feel too big to manage on your own. I specialize in working with children and adults who are seeking services for depression, anxiety, trauma and high stress experiences, behavioral issues, adjustment difficulties, and family relationship concerns. I also have experience and training working with nuerodivergent clients (ADHD, Autistic, Developmental Disorders, TBI, and birth trauma) and welcome the opportunity to work with you.
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Sample Therapy Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LPC, LAC
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80501
At Sample Therapy Services, we recognize that every individual is different & want to work with you to find the best way to work toward your goals. We provide several areas of specialized treatment in a comfortable, home-like environment. DUI Services - Intakes, Education Level I & II, Therapy Level II, Enhanced DUI Therapy (Individuals & Group Options) Relapse Prevention Services - Weekly group meetings for individuals who are mandated to do substance abuse group counseling, Individual sessions for individuals who are mandated to do substance abuse counseling.
At Sample Therapy Services, we recognize that every individual is different & want to work with you to find the best way to work toward your goals. We provide several areas of specialized treatment in a comfortable, home-like environment. DUI Services - Intakes, Education Level I & II, Therapy Level II, Enhanced DUI Therapy (Individuals & Group Options) Relapse Prevention Services - Weekly group meetings for individuals who are mandated to do substance abuse group counseling, Individual sessions for individuals who are mandated to do substance abuse counseling.
![Photo of Lily Sepha Blodgett, MA, LPCC, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/924af913-0e83-450e-8fb0-c7f5b1b65459/1/320x400.jpeg)
Lily Sepha Blodgett
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501 (Online Only)
I have an affinity for working with teenagers and adults experiencing grief, anxiety, chronic pain or illness, and the after-effects of relational trauma, as well as those who identify as highly sensitive, introverted, and/or LGBTQIA+. I bring a warm, steady approach to counseling, am trained in EMDR, and draw on mindfulness, Gestalt, Polyvagal, and nature-based therapy techniques to support clients in cultivating self-friendship and deep healing.
I have an affinity for working with teenagers and adults experiencing grief, anxiety, chronic pain or illness, and the after-effects of relational trauma, as well as those who identify as highly sensitive, introverted, and/or LGBTQIA+. I bring a warm, steady approach to counseling, am trained in EMDR, and draw on mindfulness, Gestalt, Polyvagal, and nature-based therapy techniques to support clients in cultivating self-friendship and deep healing.
![Photo of Stacey Bramley Carleton, MA, LPC, PMH-C, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/44ed06ef-2d62-4a11-8198-5c0710e42d1f/2/320x400.jpeg)
Stacey Bramley Carleton
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, PMH-C
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80503
Hello and welcome. Thank you for being here. It may have been hard to get here and seek the help that is needed at this time. Recent and past life experiences might feel challenging, uncomfortable, painful, and scary. You are not alone. I'm dedicated to holding space for you to explore the challenging experiences and scary obstacles that have occurred recently and throughout your life. I'm passionate in supporting individuals navigate the perinatal experience and perinatal mental health, preconception through postpartum, anxiety, and developmental trauma.
Hello and welcome. Thank you for being here. It may have been hard to get here and seek the help that is needed at this time. Recent and past life experiences might feel challenging, uncomfortable, painful, and scary. You are not alone. I'm dedicated to holding space for you to explore the challenging experiences and scary obstacles that have occurred recently and throughout your life. I'm passionate in supporting individuals navigate the perinatal experience and perinatal mental health, preconception through postpartum, anxiety, and developmental trauma.
![Photo of Katie Finn, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/2207f775-c5c2-40ee-9097-499a21a5c29f/3/320x400.jpeg)
Hey there! I’m Katie. As a therapist I assist people through all of of life's ups and downs. armed with compassion, humor, and a nonjudgmental attitude I help people tackle obstacles and reach goals. First off, let's acknowledge the elephant in the room – therapy can be intimidating. It's not every day you spill your innermost thoughts to a stranger. But that’s where my job comes in, I will work to build a relationship with you at your own pace and get you to a place where you feel able to be open with me. You can expect some genuine conversations, maybe a few laughs, and yes, possibly even some tears.
Hey there! I’m Katie. As a therapist I assist people through all of of life's ups and downs. armed with compassion, humor, and a nonjudgmental attitude I help people tackle obstacles and reach goals. First off, let's acknowledge the elephant in the room – therapy can be intimidating. It's not every day you spill your innermost thoughts to a stranger. But that’s where my job comes in, I will work to build a relationship with you at your own pace and get you to a place where you feel able to be open with me. You can expect some genuine conversations, maybe a few laughs, and yes, possibly even some tears.
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School. Friendships. Play. Sleep. Family. These are the tasks of childhood. Often when our young children are struggling, we are told to wait, that they will grow out of it or that this phase will pass on its own. Unfortunately that can lead to older children who continue to struggle, only on a bigger stage. We are seeing school avoidance, irritability, isolation, and social difficulties starting at younger and younger ages.
School. Friendships. Play. Sleep. Family. These are the tasks of childhood. Often when our young children are struggling, we are told to wait, that they will grow out of it or that this phase will pass on its own. Unfortunately that can lead to older children who continue to struggle, only on a bigger stage. We are seeing school avoidance, irritability, isolation, and social difficulties starting at younger and younger ages.
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Feeling lost? Feeling hopeless? Life is hard at times. We are all fighting our own unique battles. But your story is significant, and so is your journey toward healing. Whether you are navigating the complexities of relationships, coping with anxiety, depression, other mental health issues, or simply seeking personal growth, together we will find the path toward positive change. My goal is to empower you to embrace your narrative, rewrite the chapters that no longer serve you, and cultivate a life of authenticity and resilience.
Feeling lost? Feeling hopeless? Life is hard at times. We are all fighting our own unique battles. But your story is significant, and so is your journey toward healing. Whether you are navigating the complexities of relationships, coping with anxiety, depression, other mental health issues, or simply seeking personal growth, together we will find the path toward positive change. My goal is to empower you to embrace your narrative, rewrite the chapters that no longer serve you, and cultivate a life of authenticity and resilience.
![Photo of Danelle Rottner - Aspen Mental Health Group & Neurotherapy, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/1447f7dc-4681-4b87-b666-81beb2242733/1/320x400.png)
Aspen Mental Health Group & Neurotherapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80501
Aspen Mental Health Group has been home to a dedicated team of mental health professionals for more than 20 years. We believe that lasting change comes from within. We are made up of a team of professionals who are passionate about their specific disciplines and committed to helping people in our community discover their own unique and sustainable path to healing. We offer integrative support and care, combining various approaches to produce lasting change. We believe that everyone has the ability to heal and grow, and we are here to support you on your journey.
Aspen Mental Health Group has been home to a dedicated team of mental health professionals for more than 20 years. We believe that lasting change comes from within. We are made up of a team of professionals who are passionate about their specific disciplines and committed to helping people in our community discover their own unique and sustainable path to healing. We offer integrative support and care, combining various approaches to produce lasting change. We believe that everyone has the ability to heal and grow, and we are here to support you on your journey.
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Lori Bennett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80501 (Online Only)
Have you survived a childhood of emotional neglect? Emotional neglect in childhood can lead to a great deal of confusion in adult life. Aftereffects may include a drive to prove oneself through over-achievement, excessive self-doubt and criticism, and a disconnection from one's own needs. These aftereffects can be exacerbated if one or both parents were narcissistic. For many women, providing care-giving in relationships is not a choice; it is our sole identity. It may be the only way we feel valued. Let's resolve the grief and loss surrounding your history, so that you can live to your full potential, find inner harmony and peace.
Have you survived a childhood of emotional neglect? Emotional neglect in childhood can lead to a great deal of confusion in adult life. Aftereffects may include a drive to prove oneself through over-achievement, excessive self-doubt and criticism, and a disconnection from one's own needs. These aftereffects can be exacerbated if one or both parents were narcissistic. For many women, providing care-giving in relationships is not a choice; it is our sole identity. It may be the only way we feel valued. Let's resolve the grief and loss surrounding your history, so that you can live to your full potential, find inner harmony and peace.
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Kirsten Burris
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501
Life can be challenging and there are circumstances for many of us where we need assistance to navigate the difficulties we find ourselves facing with a professional. At times the healthiest choice is to ask for help. Counseling people through their personal challenges is a calling and passion for me. I have practiced psychotherapy for 24 years and have worked regularly with life transitions, addictions, acute and complex trauma, depression, anxiety, anger, stress, eating disorders, family issues, loss and grief. Contact me and let's see if working together would be a fit. I offer a 30-minute free consultation with no obligation.
Life can be challenging and there are circumstances for many of us where we need assistance to navigate the difficulties we find ourselves facing with a professional. At times the healthiest choice is to ask for help. Counseling people through their personal challenges is a calling and passion for me. I have practiced psychotherapy for 24 years and have worked regularly with life transitions, addictions, acute and complex trauma, depression, anxiety, anger, stress, eating disorders, family issues, loss and grief. Contact me and let's see if working together would be a fit. I offer a 30-minute free consultation with no obligation.
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Andrea Pucciarello
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80503 (Online Only)
I have been a mental health practitioner for over 25 years. I specialize in the treatment of trauma, anxiety, identity and attachment dynamics. In my experience a common thread observed is the individual's need to be understood, to be accepted as they are, experience long term meaningful connections and to live an authentic vibrant life. Too often we adopt a judgmental inner narrative that is riddled with shame. In therapy I will help you learn to explore yourself and your relationship with others through the eyes of compassion and curiosity.
I have been a mental health practitioner for over 25 years. I specialize in the treatment of trauma, anxiety, identity and attachment dynamics. In my experience a common thread observed is the individual's need to be understood, to be accepted as they are, experience long term meaningful connections and to live an authentic vibrant life. Too often we adopt a judgmental inner narrative that is riddled with shame. In therapy I will help you learn to explore yourself and your relationship with others through the eyes of compassion and curiosity.
![Photo of Kris Kirkbride, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3074a6c6-de45-4fdc-bad8-d191cb922556/2/320x400.jpeg)
On the outside, you look super successful, likely the poster child for how things “ought to be”. You went to a good school, have a rewarding career and maybe got married and had some amazing kids. You have done what you expected would make you FEEL accomplished, grateful, and happy. Except that you don’t. Lately, coloring inside the lines isn’t giving you the same ‘HIT’ it used to. Instead, you are wondering “Whose rules are these anyway and why do I need to keep following them?” The gap between what is expected and how you truly feel inside keeps growing wider. You're tired- and feeling alone, disillusioned, and conned.
On the outside, you look super successful, likely the poster child for how things “ought to be”. You went to a good school, have a rewarding career and maybe got married and had some amazing kids. You have done what you expected would make you FEEL accomplished, grateful, and happy. Except that you don’t. Lately, coloring inside the lines isn’t giving you the same ‘HIT’ it used to. Instead, you are wondering “Whose rules are these anyway and why do I need to keep following them?” The gap between what is expected and how you truly feel inside keeps growing wider. You're tired- and feeling alone, disillusioned, and conned.
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Deborah Rutt PhD, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MSW, CDWF
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80503
Dr. Deborah Rutt Phd, LCSW, CDWF is a one-of-a kind psychotherapist steeped in both Western and Eastern traditions. She helps clients identify unique strengths, new perspectives, and practical tools for profound change for mental health, well-being, and to live authentically. With a doctorate in interpersonal communication and change, Deborah brings her expertise to enhance relationships of any kind. In addition to therapy, she is a Certified facilitator of Brené Brown's work and inspired by Joe Dispenza's change solutions. Her Intuitive Heart Sessions, utilize Heartmath and ThetaHealing energy work along with her intuitive gifts.
Dr. Deborah Rutt Phd, LCSW, CDWF is a one-of-a kind psychotherapist steeped in both Western and Eastern traditions. She helps clients identify unique strengths, new perspectives, and practical tools for profound change for mental health, well-being, and to live authentically. With a doctorate in interpersonal communication and change, Deborah brings her expertise to enhance relationships of any kind. In addition to therapy, she is a Certified facilitator of Brené Brown's work and inspired by Joe Dispenza's change solutions. Her Intuitive Heart Sessions, utilize Heartmath and ThetaHealing energy work along with her intuitive gifts.
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Rachael Meadows
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LPC
Verified Verified
Longmont, CO 80501 (Online Only)
Feeling overwhelmed, alone, or stuck in life? Do anxiety, depression, trauma, or family issues seem insurmountable? I'm here to help you navigate these challenges. Together, we’ll uncover your strengths and work towards creating a life filled with joy and purpose.
Feeling overwhelmed, alone, or stuck in life? Do anxiety, depression, trauma, or family issues seem insurmountable? I'm here to help you navigate these challenges. Together, we’ll uncover your strengths and work towards creating a life filled with joy and purpose.
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With great attention to what makes each of us unique, I love to support clients in feeling more whole as themselves. Our journeys as humans can feel quite isolating & confusing. Regardless of where your path has led you, I will meet you where you are & empower you to find your inner strength. Many of us struggle with emotions and thoughts we don’t know how to cope with, & behaviors we don’t feel good about, & we may not know how to change this. It is difficult & frustrating to feel stuck. Therapy is a validating & affirming space. Please know that I have a profound passion for helping clients and I meet all inquiry with compassion.
With great attention to what makes each of us unique, I love to support clients in feeling more whole as themselves. Our journeys as humans can feel quite isolating & confusing. Regardless of where your path has led you, I will meet you where you are & empower you to find your inner strength. Many of us struggle with emotions and thoughts we don’t know how to cope with, & behaviors we don’t feel good about, & we may not know how to change this. It is difficult & frustrating to feel stuck. Therapy is a validating & affirming space. Please know that I have a profound passion for helping clients and I meet all inquiry with compassion.
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Female Therapists
Does it matter what gender my therapist is?
In general, this is not an important factor, as there is no relationship between a therapist’s gender and their efficacy. Some clients, however, prefer to see therapists of a particular gender, whether due to their own past experiences with men and women, or ingrained beliefs about how people of different genders think and behave. Exploring the roots of such preferences and considering what one wants to address in therapy can help someone determine whether their therapist’s gender truly matters to them.
Should I see a female therapist?
Many people—not just women—prefer to see a female therapist, either because they believe that a woman will be able to relate to their specific challenges (for example, sexism in the workplace) or because they imagine feeling more comfortable disclosing sensitive information to a woman. Such beliefs may not turn out to be accurate, however, and adhering too rigidly to a gender preference can at times hinder a client from finding the best therapeutic match.
Do therapists get specific training to help with women’s concerns?
Therapists are trained to provide care to clients of any gender. However, some therapists—both men and women—may pursue additional training in feminist therapy, gender-specific issues, or women’s mental health. Female clients may wish to ask prospective therapists whether they have received specific training in the client’s primary area(s) of concern, or whether they have worked extensively with women on issues similar to their own.
How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience in treating women?
It’s OK—even encouraged!—to ask a therapist directly whether and how often they have treated women in the past, or whether they have treated women dealing with the client’s most prominent concern(s). Competent therapists will be happy to share their educational background, preferred treatment modalities, and prior client experience to help an individual find the therapist best suited to their needs.