Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Denver, CO

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Ryan J Misegadis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80205  (Online Only)
In the realm of sex therapy, my area of focus is "non-traditional" relationships, Polyamory, ENM, and kink.
Sometimes, things happen, and we are forced to deal with things we never thought possible. At my core I identify as a trauma therapist, my goal for my clients is to find the root of what prevents us from living and being our most authentic selves. When we survive hardship, our body holds on to tools that got us through, even if they no longer serve us. Sometimes they are right for the situation, other times they can make things worse. Together, we will slow things down enough to find what works best for you and change reactions to responses.
In the realm of sex therapy, my area of focus is "non-traditional" relationships, Polyamory, ENM, and kink.
Sometimes, things happen, and we are forced to deal with things we never thought possible. At my core I identify as a trauma therapist, my goal for my clients is to find the root of what prevents us from living and being our most authentic selves. When we survive hardship, our body holds on to tools that got us through, even if they no longer serve us. Sometimes they are right for the situation, other times they can make things worse. Together, we will slow things down enough to find what works best for you and change reactions to responses.
(720) 594-5816 View (720) 594-5816
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Britt Masters MA, LPC at Actualize Counseling LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218  (Online Only)
I love working with people of a variety of lifestyles and paths, including but not limited to: artists & creatives, LGBTQ+, kink & BDSM, people in transition, trauma histories, and alternative spirituality.
I’m in the business of changing lives and teaching you how to thrive. There is power in the realization that you yourself can learn how to thrive. I'm here to remind you of that and help you find the manageable steps that work for you in order to grow and heal. As a veteran therapist with over 10 years of experience in trauma-informed therapy, I have many creative and evidence-based tools you will benefit from and even enjoy.
I love working with people of a variety of lifestyles and paths, including but not limited to: artists & creatives, LGBTQ+, kink & BDSM, people in transition, trauma histories, and alternative spirituality.
I’m in the business of changing lives and teaching you how to thrive. There is power in the realization that you yourself can learn how to thrive. I'm here to remind you of that and help you find the manageable steps that work for you in order to grow and heal. As a veteran therapist with over 10 years of experience in trauma-informed therapy, I have many creative and evidence-based tools you will benefit from and even enjoy.
(303) 747-6172 View (303) 747-6172
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Amanda Earle
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LAC, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80209  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
In addition to specializing in Kink-focused therapy, I primarily work with individuals who identify as part of the LGBTQIA+ community, as well as those who are beginning to explore or currently practicing various forms of Consensual Non-Monogamy (i.
How can I better understand my own Kinks and desires?... What happens if I get clear on these and then my partner(s) can’t accept me?... I provide a safe and non-judgmental space to help you address these questions and others. Over the years, I have had the privilege of working with people who enjoy a variety of kinks and fetishes, ranging from ABDL and age players, to Furries and Pups, to Hotwives and more. I am well-versed in supporting Switches navigate the duality of their needs; Doms manage the vulnerability of Top Drop; and Subs negotiate contracts with intentionality.
In addition to specializing in Kink-focused therapy, I primarily work with individuals who identify as part of the LGBTQIA+ community, as well as those who are beginning to explore or currently practicing various forms of Consensual Non-Monogamy (i.
How can I better understand my own Kinks and desires?... What happens if I get clear on these and then my partner(s) can’t accept me?... I provide a safe and non-judgmental space to help you address these questions and others. Over the years, I have had the privilege of working with people who enjoy a variety of kinks and fetishes, ranging from ABDL and age players, to Furries and Pups, to Hotwives and more. I am well-versed in supporting Switches navigate the duality of their needs; Doms manage the vulnerability of Top Drop; and Subs negotiate contracts with intentionality.
(720) 806-9546 View (720) 806-9546
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Beth Bloomfield-Fox
Licensed Professional Counselor, MBA, LPC, LMHC, CST
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80014  (Online Only)
My style of therapy is to empower individuals and couples to navigate kink, polyamory, and sexual wellness within their relationships as well as support gender transition.
My ideal clients are adults seeking support in navigating complex relationship dynamics and personal growth. I specialize in kink, polyamory, and non-traditional relationship structures, offering a safe space for exploration and self-discovery. I am passionate about working with individuals across the gender spectrum, including those transitioning. My expertise in sexuality and intimacy allows me to provide comprehensive care tailored to each client's unique needs.
My style of therapy is to empower individuals and couples to navigate kink, polyamory, and sexual wellness within their relationships as well as support gender transition.
My ideal clients are adults seeking support in navigating complex relationship dynamics and personal growth. I specialize in kink, polyamory, and non-traditional relationship structures, offering a safe space for exploration and self-discovery. I am passionate about working with individuals across the gender spectrum, including those transitioning. My expertise in sexuality and intimacy allows me to provide comprehensive care tailored to each client's unique needs.
(360) 347-9450 View (360) 347-9450
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Rachel Smith
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80210
Waitlist for new clients
I offer trans and queer-affirming counseling, identity exploration, and am sex, sex work, kink, poly/ENM positive and affirming.
How do we find inner peace when our outer presentation is wrong? Where is self-acceptance when the world around you is unaccepting? Your internal struggles are real, and you are not alone. Wholeness begins with healing. They say time heals all wounds, but some wounds are so deep it feels as though they may never heal. Asking for help takes strength. If you’re experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma from sexual assault or abuse, and/or sex and relationship issues, let’s chat. Please reach out via email if possible
I offer trans and queer-affirming counseling, identity exploration, and am sex, sex work, kink, poly/ENM positive and affirming.
How do we find inner peace when our outer presentation is wrong? Where is self-acceptance when the world around you is unaccepting? Your internal struggles are real, and you are not alone. Wholeness begins with healing. They say time heals all wounds, but some wounds are so deep it feels as though they may never heal. Asking for help takes strength. If you’re experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma from sexual assault or abuse, and/or sex and relationship issues, let’s chat. Please reach out via email if possible
(719) 294-1656 View (719) 294-1656
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Laura X. Williams - Racial Justice Attachment Therapy
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LMFT, LAC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
As a transracial adoptee, I am a great fit for couples navigating a variety of issues, including polyamory, infidelity, desire discrepancy, power dynamics in kink, and relational trauma, as well as individuals considering their sexuality, gender, or racial/multicultural identities.
Hello! My name is Laura X. Williams, and I am a Licensed Addiction Counselor and Relational Psychotherapist in the Denver area. My ideal clients are those who seek to explore potential in their own identity and relationships with an emphasis on love, sexual health, and gender. I work with couples wanting to build trust and/or are navigating polyamorous relationships; families who are seeking stronger unity about gender and communication; and individuals who hold intersecting identities, including gender, race, and adoption. We are here to repair, heal, and explore our potential for peace, trust, and well-being together.
As a transracial adoptee, I am a great fit for couples navigating a variety of issues, including polyamory, infidelity, desire discrepancy, power dynamics in kink, and relational trauma, as well as individuals considering their sexuality, gender, or racial/multicultural identities.
Hello! My name is Laura X. Williams, and I am a Licensed Addiction Counselor and Relational Psychotherapist in the Denver area. My ideal clients are those who seek to explore potential in their own identity and relationships with an emphasis on love, sexual health, and gender. I work with couples wanting to build trust and/or are navigating polyamorous relationships; families who are seeking stronger unity about gender and communication; and individuals who hold intersecting identities, including gender, race, and adoption. We are here to repair, heal, and explore our potential for peace, trust, and well-being together.
(303) 800-3084 View (303) 800-3084
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Heather M McPherson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
(720) 709-2729 View (720) 709-2729
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Coty Nolin
LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80222
I am passionate about working with folks who are in polyamory/non monogamous, BDSM/ kink, and LGBTQ+ communities.
I am an AASECT certified sex and relationships therapist working with clients in Colorado and virtually in Florida. You deserve to have space to explore different parts of who you are- without shame and stigma. Together, we can cultivate tools that are the best fit for you and your relationships. In my practice, I take a compassionate yet direct, non-judgmental approach. Overall, I hope to help you explore your relationship dynamics, patterns of behavior, and emotions to help you work through the places you feel "stuck". I use somatic psychotherapy, internal family systems, and work from a feminist, intersectional lens.
I am passionate about working with folks who are in polyamory/non monogamous, BDSM/ kink, and LGBTQ+ communities.
I am an AASECT certified sex and relationships therapist working with clients in Colorado and virtually in Florida. You deserve to have space to explore different parts of who you are- without shame and stigma. Together, we can cultivate tools that are the best fit for you and your relationships. In my practice, I take a compassionate yet direct, non-judgmental approach. Overall, I hope to help you explore your relationship dynamics, patterns of behavior, and emotions to help you work through the places you feel "stuck". I use somatic psychotherapy, internal family systems, and work from a feminist, intersectional lens.
(470) 592-8672 View (470) 592-8672
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Crista Reid
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80209
My therapeutic values include experiential and humanistic methodologies, trauma-informed practices, and a kink and ENM informed background.
You deserve creative, compassionate, and clear direction toward claiming more pleasure, wellness, and confidence when it comes to all things related to sexuality, intimacy, and desire. I believe humans are inherently sensual and erotic beings, and embracing more sexual wellness supports our overall quality of life as well as the quality of our intimate relationships. I'm eager to embark on this journey with you, guiding you through the dance of life towards deeper connection with sexuality, trust, desire, and communication skills through compassionate and sensitive support for both individuals and couples, no matter your background.
My therapeutic values include experiential and humanistic methodologies, trauma-informed practices, and a kink and ENM informed background.
You deserve creative, compassionate, and clear direction toward claiming more pleasure, wellness, and confidence when it comes to all things related to sexuality, intimacy, and desire. I believe humans are inherently sensual and erotic beings, and embracing more sexual wellness supports our overall quality of life as well as the quality of our intimate relationships. I'm eager to embark on this journey with you, guiding you through the dance of life towards deeper connection with sexuality, trust, desire, and communication skills through compassionate and sensitive support for both individuals and couples, no matter your background.
(720) 634-8697 View (720) 634-8697
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Dave Jackson
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80206
I love to work with, and have personal and professional experience, those with relationship challenges including those that concern separation/divorce, co-parenting, non-monogamous and non-traditional relationship structures, kink, LGBTQIA+ and immigrant identities, and all manner of life transitions.
Ever find your need to be logical getting in the way of being emotionally present? Ever find yourself stuck on the outside, seeing your experience from afar? Ever find yourself lost in the forest, knowing the right path for you is just the other side of the darkness? You do not have to go through any of this alone. Using a person-centered, non-judgmental and humanistic approach, my job is to assist you in ascertaining your priorities, goals, and the best way to help you make those dreams into reality.
I love to work with, and have personal and professional experience, those with relationship challenges including those that concern separation/divorce, co-parenting, non-monogamous and non-traditional relationship structures, kink, LGBTQIA+ and immigrant identities, and all manner of life transitions.
Ever find your need to be logical getting in the way of being emotionally present? Ever find yourself stuck on the outside, seeing your experience from afar? Ever find yourself lost in the forest, knowing the right path for you is just the other side of the darkness? You do not have to go through any of this alone. Using a person-centered, non-judgmental and humanistic approach, my job is to assist you in ascertaining your priorities, goals, and the best way to help you make those dreams into reality.
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Erin Schall
Pre-Licensed Professional, LSW
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80203  (Online Only)
Reaching out for help when you are struggling is brave and beautiful. Are you feeling stuck in your life, disconnected from your self and your loved ones? Are you feeling as though no matter what you do you cannot move forward or connect meaningfully with those around you? I help people to discover how their past is showing up now and help them move toward accomplishing their therapeutic goals. If you are queer or part of the kink community you may have struggled to find a therapist who holds space for all of who you are. I seek to make space for my clients to show up in all of their humanity.
Reaching out for help when you are struggling is brave and beautiful. Are you feeling stuck in your life, disconnected from your self and your loved ones? Are you feeling as though no matter what you do you cannot move forward or connect meaningfully with those around you? I help people to discover how their past is showing up now and help them move toward accomplishing their therapeutic goals. If you are queer or part of the kink community you may have struggled to find a therapist who holds space for all of who you are. I seek to make space for my clients to show up in all of their humanity.
(720) 797-5492 View (720) 797-5492
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Kaley Selner
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80210
Clients seek me out as a therapist who is nonjudgmental, understanding, and well-versed in various relationship structures and barriers, kink practices, and sexual identity.
Are you feeling a disconnection between your body and mind, struggling to access your authentic self, or feeling strain in your relationship? Are these battles causing additional states? It's okay, and you're not alone. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples gain a deeper understanding of the roots of their attachment, how it impacts the nervous system, and how we can effectively address and unwind these patterns. Through therapy, we can reconnect, heal, and adapt to the challenges we encounter.
Clients seek me out as a therapist who is nonjudgmental, understanding, and well-versed in various relationship structures and barriers, kink practices, and sexual identity.
Are you feeling a disconnection between your body and mind, struggling to access your authentic self, or feeling strain in your relationship? Are these battles causing additional states? It's okay, and you're not alone. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples gain a deeper understanding of the roots of their attachment, how it impacts the nervous system, and how we can effectively address and unwind these patterns. Through therapy, we can reconnect, heal, and adapt to the challenges we encounter.
(720) 541-9104 View (720) 541-9104
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Tanner Straight
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
My goal is to improve relationships, sex, intimacy, sexuality and gender identity to enhance quality of life. I strive to create a safe and accepting space to explore and discover an authentic lifestyle within these aspects of life. Through a sex positive approach, the goal is to reduce shame and enhance authenticity. Beginning with the exploration with relationship to self, my clients are able to enhance their relationships with others. Challenging the messages, beliefs and values family and societal has created allows for clients to learn and create their own narrative for the life that aligns with them.
My goal is to improve relationships, sex, intimacy, sexuality and gender identity to enhance quality of life. I strive to create a safe and accepting space to explore and discover an authentic lifestyle within these aspects of life. Through a sex positive approach, the goal is to reduce shame and enhance authenticity. Beginning with the exploration with relationship to self, my clients are able to enhance their relationships with others. Challenging the messages, beliefs and values family and societal has created allows for clients to learn and create their own narrative for the life that aligns with them.
(720) 790-5459 View (720) 790-5459
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Cara Meglio
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80216
My practice is LGBTQIA+ affirming and sex positive.
Both our inner and outer worlds can feel difficult to navigate at times. If you are feeling lost or stuck in any area of your life, I am here to help you find the path to growth and achieving your happiest, most authentic and fulfilled life. I assist couples and individuals in getting to know themselves better, understanding the obstacles they face, and tapping into the inner strength and resources that will empower them to overcome their challenges. I show up for my clients with authenticity, warmth, and humor, creating a safe and comfortable space for you to embrace all the facets of yourself.
My practice is LGBTQIA+ affirming and sex positive.
Both our inner and outer worlds can feel difficult to navigate at times. If you are feeling lost or stuck in any area of your life, I am here to help you find the path to growth and achieving your happiest, most authentic and fulfilled life. I assist couples and individuals in getting to know themselves better, understanding the obstacles they face, and tapping into the inner strength and resources that will empower them to overcome their challenges. I show up for my clients with authenticity, warmth, and humor, creating a safe and comfortable space for you to embrace all the facets of yourself.
(720) 966-2572 View (720) 966-2572
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Patricia S. Duggan
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, LCMHCA, LPCC, LCASA
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80212  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Often our hurtful experiences are out of our control. You didn’t choose to live with pain. You are tired of feeling alone and misunderstood. The reality is our experiences and memories can shape our beliefs and worldviews, creating guilt, anxiety, shame, anger, and isolation. Living with chronic pain, illness, trauma, anxiety, and grief – does impact us. Even if you don’t feel like it at this very moment, there is part of you that knows they deserve something more, whether it’s self-compassion, healthy connections, pleasure, joy, or the chance to move from surviving to thriving. Let's get curious.
Often our hurtful experiences are out of our control. You didn’t choose to live with pain. You are tired of feeling alone and misunderstood. The reality is our experiences and memories can shape our beliefs and worldviews, creating guilt, anxiety, shame, anger, and isolation. Living with chronic pain, illness, trauma, anxiety, and grief – does impact us. Even if you don’t feel like it at this very moment, there is part of you that knows they deserve something more, whether it’s self-compassion, healthy connections, pleasure, joy, or the chance to move from surviving to thriving. Let's get curious.
(720) 704-1273 View (720) 704-1273
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Shay Lyons
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80206  (Online Only)
I am non-monogamy, kink, and neurodivergent affirming.
Do you wonder what your inner voice would say if given the chance for authentic expression? There are myriad reasons that contribute to the quieting of our whole selves—individual, family, and intergenerational trauma, oppression, genetics, and sometimes just the inherent challenges of living in our world. Whatever your story is, you possess the inherent wisdom that’s key to your growth and healing. I work with LGBTQIA+ folks exploring gender identity and sexual orientation, individuals in non-traditional relationships, and those seeking support for trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, and codependency.
I am non-monogamy, kink, and neurodivergent affirming.
Do you wonder what your inner voice would say if given the chance for authentic expression? There are myriad reasons that contribute to the quieting of our whole selves—individual, family, and intergenerational trauma, oppression, genetics, and sometimes just the inherent challenges of living in our world. Whatever your story is, you possess the inherent wisdom that’s key to your growth and healing. I work with LGBTQIA+ folks exploring gender identity and sexual orientation, individuals in non-traditional relationships, and those seeking support for trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, and codependency.
(720) 571-9204 View (720) 571-9204
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Grace Ballard
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80202
I specialize in working with gender identities, consensual nonmonogamy and varied relationship structures, as well as diverse sexual practices such as kink and BDSM.
If you want to cultivate more freedom in your life, and better understand yourself and your relationships, you've come to the right place. I walk alongside you to explore your inner world. We will discover why you do what you do, and whether you want to keep doing it. Together, we learn how you impact others and yourself. I ask questions that elucidate your deeper motivations. I help you understand what you actually want so that you can get it. If you're ready to go deeper, but you're not sure how to go about it, I can help.
I specialize in working with gender identities, consensual nonmonogamy and varied relationship structures, as well as diverse sexual practices such as kink and BDSM.
If you want to cultivate more freedom in your life, and better understand yourself and your relationships, you've come to the right place. I walk alongside you to explore your inner world. We will discover why you do what you do, and whether you want to keep doing it. Together, we learn how you impact others and yourself. I ask questions that elucidate your deeper motivations. I help you understand what you actually want so that you can get it. If you're ready to go deeper, but you're not sure how to go about it, I can help.
(720) 575-5427 View (720) 575-5427
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John M Bjerum
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LSCSW, LCAC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80203  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am kink informed and supportive of all consensual and loving relationships.
I individualize my approach to meet the needs and goals of each client. I have experience and am honored to work with individuals who are struggling with depression, anxiety, posttraumatic stress, self-injury, suicidal ideation, gender and sexuality issues, phase of life issues, religious trauma, transitional stress, phobias, addictions, and personality disorders. I have specific interest and expertise in treating and resolving complex childhood trauma and the related symptoms of dissociation, flashbacks, nightmares, and hypervigilance.
I am kink informed and supportive of all consensual and loving relationships.
I individualize my approach to meet the needs and goals of each client. I have experience and am honored to work with individuals who are struggling with depression, anxiety, posttraumatic stress, self-injury, suicidal ideation, gender and sexuality issues, phase of life issues, religious trauma, transitional stress, phobias, addictions, and personality disorders. I have specific interest and expertise in treating and resolving complex childhood trauma and the related symptoms of dissociation, flashbacks, nightmares, and hypervigilance.
(866) 342-3219 View (866) 342-3219
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Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CCTP
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80211  (Online Only)
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
(720) 740-8587 View (720) 740-8587
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River Martone
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MFTC, LPCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
I utilize narrative, IFS (parts work), feminist, person-centered, and existential theories and work from an anti-racist, anti-colonial, sex positive, poly, queer and trans affirming perspective.
Whether seeking individual, relational, or family therapy, I believe we are all multi-storied beings who contain many parts-none of which are bad. Along the way, we collect stories-stories that others tell about us, stories we tell about ourselves, the story we tell about the problem, and stories we inherit from dominant knowledge or culture. These narratives shape our perception of ourselves and others and can influence relational connection and the way we relate to our own self, which often contributes to why one might seek out therapy.
I utilize narrative, IFS (parts work), feminist, person-centered, and existential theories and work from an anti-racist, anti-colonial, sex positive, poly, queer and trans affirming perspective.
Whether seeking individual, relational, or family therapy, I believe we are all multi-storied beings who contain many parts-none of which are bad. Along the way, we collect stories-stories that others tell about us, stories we tell about ourselves, the story we tell about the problem, and stories we inherit from dominant knowledge or culture. These narratives shape our perception of ourselves and others and can influence relational connection and the way we relate to our own self, which often contributes to why one might seek out therapy.
(720) 740-5710 View (720) 740-5710
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.