Infidelity Therapists in Denver, CO

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Marina Blake
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, Gottman, Method, EMDR
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
COUPLES: Too long since you felt connected to your partner? Fight all the time? Has there been a betrayal? A lack of intimacy? I show you how to understand each other, break down barriers, and create better habits. Couples who use my tools create more joy and connection - permanently. For the cost of a divorce you can instead have the loving, connected, joyous relationship you want. I'm a Certified Gottman Therapist, which is a couples method. NOW Offering Discernment Counseling: if you aren't sure if you want to end the relationship, this is a process to help you gain clarity and confidence about your decision, whatever you choose.
COUPLES: Too long since you felt connected to your partner? Fight all the time? Has there been a betrayal? A lack of intimacy? I show you how to understand each other, break down barriers, and create better habits. Couples who use my tools create more joy and connection - permanently. For the cost of a divorce you can instead have the loving, connected, joyous relationship you want. I'm a Certified Gottman Therapist, which is a couples method. NOW Offering Discernment Counseling: if you aren't sure if you want to end the relationship, this is a process to help you gain clarity and confidence about your decision, whatever you choose.
(720) 465-8926 View (720) 465-8926
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Dawn Goers
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
My work with individual adult clients includes an emphasis in infidelity.
After working with children and families for 15 years in foster care and adoption settings, I developed a passion for empowering people who have experienced trauma, grief and loss, and who struggle with relationship issues. Life always presents challenges and the ability to move through those challenges with a strong sense of self is important. I work closely with clients to develop a strong therapeutic relationship, which engenders an environment of safety and promotes healing. I am an EMDR Certified Clinician which integrates attachment theory, CBT and emotion regulation. I also use child-centered play therapy with children.
My work with individual adult clients includes an emphasis in infidelity.
After working with children and families for 15 years in foster care and adoption settings, I developed a passion for empowering people who have experienced trauma, grief and loss, and who struggle with relationship issues. Life always presents challenges and the ability to move through those challenges with a strong sense of self is important. I work closely with clients to develop a strong therapeutic relationship, which engenders an environment of safety and promotes healing. I am an EMDR Certified Clinician which integrates attachment theory, CBT and emotion regulation. I also use child-centered play therapy with children.
(303) 814-9173 View (303) 814-9173
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Eric R Crowley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80222
I work with couples and individuals who are struggling to overcome habitual patterns of behavior that are preventing them from experiencing a satisfying connection with each other and themselves. If you and your partner have experienced betrayal, addiction issues or have simply allowed your relationship to become stagnant, I can help you find your way back to a secure and fulfilling bond. I use a blend of therapeutic techniques including Brainspotting to help you first understand and then have a new experience of yourself and your partner.
I work with couples and individuals who are struggling to overcome habitual patterns of behavior that are preventing them from experiencing a satisfying connection with each other and themselves. If you and your partner have experienced betrayal, addiction issues or have simply allowed your relationship to become stagnant, I can help you find your way back to a secure and fulfilling bond. I use a blend of therapeutic techniques including Brainspotting to help you first understand and then have a new experience of yourself and your partner.
(720) 575-2389 View (720) 575-2389
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What's The Point? Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80204
I specialize in infidelity, rebuilding after betrayal, sex therapy, and ethical non-monogamy. I have experience working with clients who have depression, anxiety, and ADHD. These issues can be focused on in relationship therapy or individual therapy, both through a relational and attachment lens. I am kink-affirming, sex work-affirming, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
I specialize in infidelity, rebuilding after betrayal, sex therapy, and ethical non-monogamy. I have experience working with clients who have depression, anxiety, and ADHD. These issues can be focused on in relationship therapy or individual therapy, both through a relational and attachment lens. I am kink-affirming, sex work-affirming, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
(720) 782-6842 View (720) 782-6842
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Women's Counseling Center of Denver
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80203
The Women's Counseling Center of Denver helps women of all ages create healthy and fulfilling relationships with themselves and the important people in their lives. Areas of focus include improved communication, affairs, betrayal, commitment issues, verbal/emotional abuse, dating, relationship anxiety and low self-esteem. Our comprehensive approach to therapy combines here-and-now strategies and skills with deeper work to help you gain insight into your patterns of being in relationship and how these patterns impact you
The Women's Counseling Center of Denver helps women of all ages create healthy and fulfilling relationships with themselves and the important people in their lives. Areas of focus include improved communication, affairs, betrayal, commitment issues, verbal/emotional abuse, dating, relationship anxiety and low self-esteem. Our comprehensive approach to therapy combines here-and-now strategies and skills with deeper work to help you gain insight into your patterns of being in relationship and how these patterns impact you
(303) 562-1582 View (303) 562-1582
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Margarita Kogan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
If you're seeking to overhaul your relationship with yourself or others, you've come to the right place. Whether it's revitalizing communication, resolving trust issues, or recovering from infidelity, I specialize in guiding couples through these transformations. Additionally, for individuals with bipolar or borderline personality traits, I provide evidence-based therapies and holistic interventions to promote stability, well-being, and healthier connections in the long run.
If you're seeking to overhaul your relationship with yourself or others, you've come to the right place. Whether it's revitalizing communication, resolving trust issues, or recovering from infidelity, I specialize in guiding couples through these transformations. Additionally, for individuals with bipolar or borderline personality traits, I provide evidence-based therapies and holistic interventions to promote stability, well-being, and healthier connections in the long run.
(833) 315-0172 View (833) 315-0172
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Molly Jenkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CHT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in infidelity and affairs.
Whatever brought you to this page, chances are you're feeling stuck, confused, misunderstood, or at odds with someone you love. There is hope. By seeking help, you're already making things better. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Hypnotherapist. I work with individuals, couples and families using a combination of approaches to help heal your relationship with yourself and with the people you're close to. Let's collaborate to create realistic and achievable goals, measuring our progress along the way. Let's talk specifically about what you want so we can get you there.
I specialize in infidelity and affairs.
Whatever brought you to this page, chances are you're feeling stuck, confused, misunderstood, or at odds with someone you love. There is hope. By seeking help, you're already making things better. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Hypnotherapist. I work with individuals, couples and families using a combination of approaches to help heal your relationship with yourself and with the people you're close to. Let's collaborate to create realistic and achievable goals, measuring our progress along the way. Let's talk specifically about what you want so we can get you there.
(720) 263-4216 View (720) 263-4216
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Dr. Mark L Held
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80237  (Online Only)
Common issues include affairs, conflict, poor communication, relationship and sexual issues, depression, and addiction issues.
I have over 45 years of experience doing individual, couples and family therapy. My approach is directive, caring and interactive, and usually short to intermediate term in duration. I use insight and cognitive-behavioral methods as well as other techniques and methods. My goal is to be effective in bringing about constructive change to improve relationships and overall functioning. I take pride in servicing the best interests of my clients. You can call me at 303-903-5110 to see if I'm the right therapist for you.
Common issues include affairs, conflict, poor communication, relationship and sexual issues, depression, and addiction issues.
I have over 45 years of experience doing individual, couples and family therapy. My approach is directive, caring and interactive, and usually short to intermediate term in duration. I use insight and cognitive-behavioral methods as well as other techniques and methods. My goal is to be effective in bringing about constructive change to improve relationships and overall functioning. I take pride in servicing the best interests of my clients. You can call me at 303-903-5110 to see if I'm the right therapist for you.
(720) 408-6975 View (720) 408-6975
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David L Ragsdale
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80237
I also have extensive experience in treating sex addiction and recovery from marital infidelity.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 35 years serving the Denver community. As a psychotherapist, I utilize an integrative, individualized treatment plan, drawing from cognitive-behavioral, solution-focused and system's approaches which foster deep and lasting change. I will work with you to develop your personal goals and plan your therapy toward the achievement of these goals. I am a graduate of Denver Seminary and also provide faith-based counseling. My post graduate training included the Menninger School of Psychiatry in Marriage and Family Therapy.
I also have extensive experience in treating sex addiction and recovery from marital infidelity.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 35 years serving the Denver community. As a psychotherapist, I utilize an integrative, individualized treatment plan, drawing from cognitive-behavioral, solution-focused and system's approaches which foster deep and lasting change. I will work with you to develop your personal goals and plan your therapy toward the achievement of these goals. I am a graduate of Denver Seminary and also provide faith-based counseling. My post graduate training included the Menninger School of Psychiatry in Marriage and Family Therapy.
(303) 900-7040 View (303) 900-7040
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Debra L. Kaplan
Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT-S, PACT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80206
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
(520) 203-1943 View (520) 203-1943
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Karina Mueller
LCSW, CCPS-C, MSSW, MPA
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80203
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
(720) 776-1823 View (720) 776-1823
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Sherron Kilgore
Registered Psychotherapist, MBA, BBS, ECE, CSAT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80014
I specialize in spouse/partner betrayal recovery, couples recovery, as well as pornography, sexual, love and romance addiction recovery. I can help you get the life you have always wanted. Together we will customize your therapy to fit your needs. I have been trained specifically to work with people in need of this very personal help. I will support you through your journey using a gentle path process. I am Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained and a member of the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals. I am also trained in behavioral sciences and early childhood developmental education.
I specialize in spouse/partner betrayal recovery, couples recovery, as well as pornography, sexual, love and romance addiction recovery. I can help you get the life you have always wanted. Together we will customize your therapy to fit your needs. I have been trained specifically to work with people in need of this very personal help. I will support you through your journey using a gentle path process. I am Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained and a member of the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals. I am also trained in behavioral sciences and early childhood developmental education.
(970) 673-4620 View (970) 673-4620
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Sarah Harrison
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80012
I am trained in how to treat issues such as affairs, addictions, and trauma within the couple unit.
When you are alone you understand why you feel lonely. When you are in a relationship and you feel you are alone, that is different. Our need for relationships is hardwired into our biology. It goes against the grain for us to remain alone during our lifespan. However, relationships are tough. They require humbleness, honesty, and sacrifice. As a Certified Gottman Method Therapist, I am trained on the work of Drs. John & Julie Gottman and their over 5 decades of research on relationships.
I am trained in how to treat issues such as affairs, addictions, and trauma within the couple unit.
When you are alone you understand why you feel lonely. When you are in a relationship and you feel you are alone, that is different. Our need for relationships is hardwired into our biology. It goes against the grain for us to remain alone during our lifespan. However, relationships are tough. They require humbleness, honesty, and sacrifice. As a Certified Gottman Method Therapist, I am trained on the work of Drs. John & Julie Gottman and their over 5 decades of research on relationships.
(720) 515-1282 View (720) 515-1282
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Heather M McPherson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
(720) 709-2729 View (720) 709-2729
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Robert Vitaletti, Ph.D. Psychotherapy & Counseling
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80202
I also have expertise in the areas of emotional and sexual intimacy, performance anxiety, excessive or diminished desire, compulsive fantasy, infidelity, heartbreak, finding meaningful relationships, and sexual orientation.
In 40years as a licensed psychologist I have seen what works. I am an active therapist who takes the time to listen closely, then use my varied experience and expert knowledge to help you. Call for a free phone consultation, I'll be glad to speak with you. I use results-focused psychodynamic, insight, cognitive, and analytic approaches. Sessions are in a warm historical office in a discreet private practice setting. I treat anxiety, depression, sexual dysfunction, sexual compulsions and abuse, trauma, OCD, relationship conflict, and stress disorders. I offer a sliding fee scale, PPO insurance coverage, and video sessions.
I also have expertise in the areas of emotional and sexual intimacy, performance anxiety, excessive or diminished desire, compulsive fantasy, infidelity, heartbreak, finding meaningful relationships, and sexual orientation.
In 40years as a licensed psychologist I have seen what works. I am an active therapist who takes the time to listen closely, then use my varied experience and expert knowledge to help you. Call for a free phone consultation, I'll be glad to speak with you. I use results-focused psychodynamic, insight, cognitive, and analytic approaches. Sessions are in a warm historical office in a discreet private practice setting. I treat anxiety, depression, sexual dysfunction, sexual compulsions and abuse, trauma, OCD, relationship conflict, and stress disorders. I offer a sliding fee scale, PPO insurance coverage, and video sessions.
(720) 580-6113 View (720) 580-6113
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Neil Cannon
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST-S
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
Common concerns that clients seek help with range from sexual desire discrepancy, and low libido to kink and BDSM, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, infidelity, and sexual fetishes.
Dr. Neil Cannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor. Neil is Clinical Director of the Cannon Institute. Neil and the team work with individuals & couples on any matter related to sex, intimacy & relationships. Neil is well known as a leader throughout the field of sex therapy. Neil is a published author and nationally known thought leader, mentor/supervisor. Neil is an instructor at the University of Michigan's Sexual Health Certificate Program and has served as the Colorado Section Leader for the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT) since 2007.
Common concerns that clients seek help with range from sexual desire discrepancy, and low libido to kink and BDSM, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, infidelity, and sexual fetishes.
Dr. Neil Cannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor. Neil is Clinical Director of the Cannon Institute. Neil and the team work with individuals & couples on any matter related to sex, intimacy & relationships. Neil is well known as a leader throughout the field of sex therapy. Neil is a published author and nationally known thought leader, mentor/supervisor. Neil is an instructor at the University of Michigan's Sexual Health Certificate Program and has served as the Colorado Section Leader for the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT) since 2007.
(303) 622-5087 View (303) 622-5087
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Megan Frazier, PsyD, CEDS
Psychologist, PsyD, CEDS
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80206
I also support those with complex trauma, narcissistic abuse, betrayal trauma & PTSD.
Have you experienced trauma, anxiety, depression, or negative self-worth? Have you become stuck in negative patterns of poor self-care, disordered eating, or interpersonal relationships that are draining or even abusive? I have dedicated my practice to helping others heal and break free from negative cycles of abuse - both within and outside oneself.
I also support those with complex trauma, narcissistic abuse, betrayal trauma & PTSD.
Have you experienced trauma, anxiety, depression, or negative self-worth? Have you become stuck in negative patterns of poor self-care, disordered eating, or interpersonal relationships that are draining or even abusive? I have dedicated my practice to helping others heal and break free from negative cycles of abuse - both within and outside oneself.
(720) 706-9213 View (720) 706-9213
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Rae Sandler Simon
Psychologist, PsyD, BBA
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218
Have you tried everything but sadness, loneliness or your relationship stays the same? You don’t have to suffer any longer. I understand the courage it takes to ask for help. Together, we'll transform pain and isolation into meaningful insight, self-love, connection and powerful, emotional strength. I’m a couples’ therapy expert and adult wellness specialist. I help heal relationships with parenting difficulties, affairs, religious or financial differences, intimacy issues and family conflict. I also specialize in helping adults navigating life transitions, and experiencing anxiety or depression.
Have you tried everything but sadness, loneliness or your relationship stays the same? You don’t have to suffer any longer. I understand the courage it takes to ask for help. Together, we'll transform pain and isolation into meaningful insight, self-love, connection and powerful, emotional strength. I’m a couples’ therapy expert and adult wellness specialist. I help heal relationships with parenting difficulties, affairs, religious or financial differences, intimacy issues and family conflict. I also specialize in helping adults navigating life transitions, and experiencing anxiety or depression.
(720) 821-1849 View (720) 821-1849
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Maggie McDanal
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, MHC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80209  (Online Only)
I specialize in trauma, grief, oppression, anxiety and depression, life transitions, women’s issues (marriage, pregnancy, infertility, IVF, infidelity, divorce, menopause, etc), identity exploration, and spiritual & existential wayfinding.
You are NOT crazy! The part of your brain concerned with survival is likely feeling frantic, causing your logical self to go offline and your emotional self to be dysregulated. Are your old triggers and dysfunctional coping responses intensifying? Trauma, loss, change, conflict, and oppression can make you feel hopeless, lonely, anxious, depressed, and distrusting of you. You don't have to be defined by your past; you can transform your life by overcoming obstacles that keep you stuck and in pain. “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi
I specialize in trauma, grief, oppression, anxiety and depression, life transitions, women’s issues (marriage, pregnancy, infertility, IVF, infidelity, divorce, menopause, etc), identity exploration, and spiritual & existential wayfinding.
You are NOT crazy! The part of your brain concerned with survival is likely feeling frantic, causing your logical self to go offline and your emotional self to be dysregulated. Are your old triggers and dysfunctional coping responses intensifying? Trauma, loss, change, conflict, and oppression can make you feel hopeless, lonely, anxious, depressed, and distrusting of you. You don't have to be defined by your past; you can transform your life by overcoming obstacles that keep you stuck and in pain. “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi
(720) 583-9365 View (720) 583-9365
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Hannah Glusenkamp
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80211  (Online Only)
Many of my clients seek therapy to improve their relationships with themselves, their partner, and their loved ones. I specifically work with individuals and partners around experiences of trauma, depression, PTSD, anxiety, work stress, parenting stress, relationship and sexual intimacy challenges, affairs, break-ups, addiction and/or other major life transitions. I work with folks in monogamous and consensual non-monogamous relationships. In addition to counseling, I have a background in business operations and enjoy working with entrepreneurs and executives that want to improve their personal and professional lives.
Many of my clients seek therapy to improve their relationships with themselves, their partner, and their loved ones. I specifically work with individuals and partners around experiences of trauma, depression, PTSD, anxiety, work stress, parenting stress, relationship and sexual intimacy challenges, affairs, break-ups, addiction and/or other major life transitions. I work with folks in monogamous and consensual non-monogamous relationships. In addition to counseling, I have a background in business operations and enjoy working with entrepreneurs and executives that want to improve their personal and professional lives.
(720) 594-6146 View (720) 594-6146
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.