Gottman Method Therapists in Denver, CO

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Katie Veraldi
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80246
Not accepting new clients
I have a masters in counseling from Wake Forest University and am trained as a Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
Have you noticed you have been struggling to wake and feel confident about what’s ahead? Perhaps you feel no one else really understands? I want to help you on your path to discovering your values and how to achieve them. Life is not meant to be lived on the sidelines, you have everything inside of you to be the author of your life, and I can help you write the story the way YOU want it to be. I don’t think therapy must be a painful experience, or a last resort. Therapy can be something that can offer solutions for what you thought you, maybe, were the only one dealing with.
I have a masters in counseling from Wake Forest University and am trained as a Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
Have you noticed you have been struggling to wake and feel confident about what’s ahead? Perhaps you feel no one else really understands? I want to help you on your path to discovering your values and how to achieve them. Life is not meant to be lived on the sidelines, you have everything inside of you to be the author of your life, and I can help you write the story the way YOU want it to be. I don’t think therapy must be a painful experience, or a last resort. Therapy can be something that can offer solutions for what you thought you, maybe, were the only one dealing with.
(720) 380-3564 View (720) 380-3564
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Kristen Vega
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80222  (Online Only)
I use therapeutic modalities like Prepare/Enrich, Gottman Method, and Discernment Counseling to strengthen your relationship.
Are you and your partner feeling like roommates instead of a couple? Are you an adult woman frustrated with intimacy and connection? Do you struggle with communication, misunderstandings, and repetitive, unresolved conversations? Intimacy and connection issues leaving you feeling distant? My ideal clients are facing these challenges, yearning to feel connected and in love again. Together, we will reestablish your romantic bond, enhance mutual understanding and validation, and bring a sense of teamwork to your relationship. Let’s transform your relationship from one of distant roommates to an intimate, loving partnership once more.
I use therapeutic modalities like Prepare/Enrich, Gottman Method, and Discernment Counseling to strengthen your relationship.
Are you and your partner feeling like roommates instead of a couple? Are you an adult woman frustrated with intimacy and connection? Do you struggle with communication, misunderstandings, and repetitive, unresolved conversations? Intimacy and connection issues leaving you feeling distant? My ideal clients are facing these challenges, yearning to feel connected and in love again. Together, we will reestablish your romantic bond, enhance mutual understanding and validation, and bring a sense of teamwork to your relationship. Let’s transform your relationship from one of distant roommates to an intimate, loving partnership once more.
(720) 419-1525 View (720) 419-1525
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC, BCC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80206  (Online Only)
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, hoping to build a stronger foundation for dealing with conflict navigation, expressing more positive feelings, and wanting to connect better.
Couples who begin to work with me are often arguing over trivial matters, wondering why gridlock is happening now when it never used to.The same issues keep coming up, and processing it only leaves you feeling exhausted and isolated. Nothing changes and the conflict involves pointing fingers, bringing up past wrongs, and tearing each other down. Money-related fights may add strain, perhaps alongside issues involving alcohol, pornography, or betrayal. Intimacy is lacking, leaving you both feeling unloved. What if you had the tools to fix your relationship? A playbook for the hard times but also a playbook to have way more good times?
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, hoping to build a stronger foundation for dealing with conflict navigation, expressing more positive feelings, and wanting to connect better.
Couples who begin to work with me are often arguing over trivial matters, wondering why gridlock is happening now when it never used to.The same issues keep coming up, and processing it only leaves you feeling exhausted and isolated. Nothing changes and the conflict involves pointing fingers, bringing up past wrongs, and tearing each other down. Money-related fights may add strain, perhaps alongside issues involving alcohol, pornography, or betrayal. Intimacy is lacking, leaving you both feeling unloved. What if you had the tools to fix your relationship? A playbook for the hard times but also a playbook to have way more good times?
(720) 802-4386 View (720) 802-4386
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Elevated Life Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80222
Not accepting new clients
Unable to accept new clients at this time. I excel in assisting clients with conflict, relationship issues, communication, life stressors, transitions, couples counseling, premarital counseling, and substance abuse. I incorporate the well-known Gottman method into my work, which not only benefits couples, but individuals through a special couples lens that not all therapists can provide. My background working with psychiatric crisis services allows me to gently approach the most challenging situations you bring.
Unable to accept new clients at this time. I excel in assisting clients with conflict, relationship issues, communication, life stressors, transitions, couples counseling, premarital counseling, and substance abuse. I incorporate the well-known Gottman method into my work, which not only benefits couples, but individuals through a special couples lens that not all therapists can provide. My background working with psychiatric crisis services allows me to gently approach the most challenging situations you bring.
(720) 927-1532 View (720) 927-1532
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Kali Karakasidou Mott
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MFTC, LPCC, RYT-200
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80211
I am trauma-informed and utilize techniques grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing.
I work with individuals, couples, and families who are looking to deepen their connection with themselves and those around them. With couples and families, I help co-create more meaningful connections by repairing patterns and wounds while restoring safety and security. With individuals, I support their journey toward deeper self-awareness and resiliency, empowering them to face life’s challenges with purpose and ease.
I am trauma-informed and utilize techniques grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing.
I work with individuals, couples, and families who are looking to deepen their connection with themselves and those around them. With couples and families, I help co-create more meaningful connections by repairing patterns and wounds while restoring safety and security. With individuals, I support their journey toward deeper self-awareness and resiliency, empowering them to face life’s challenges with purpose and ease.
(720) 706-7325 View (720) 706-7325
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Brittany Crawford Counseling LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LAC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I incorporate an integrated therapeutic approach utilizing methods informed by neuropsychology and somatic interventions, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing), Gottman method, & Mindfulness.
Try releasing your shoulders from your ears, unclenching your jaw, and removing your tongue from the roof of your mouth. We tend to hold onto stress in the least noticeable ways and subtle changes can help bring awareness to our stress patterns. Whether you find yourself struggling with anxiety, sexual/gender identity, relationships, life transitions, or the general stress of everyday life, you are in the right place. My hope is that through collaboration and a safe space to explore whatever it is you may be facing, I can be of support to you along your way.
I incorporate an integrated therapeutic approach utilizing methods informed by neuropsychology and somatic interventions, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing), Gottman method, & Mindfulness.
Try releasing your shoulders from your ears, unclenching your jaw, and removing your tongue from the roof of your mouth. We tend to hold onto stress in the least noticeable ways and subtle changes can help bring awareness to our stress patterns. Whether you find yourself struggling with anxiety, sexual/gender identity, relationships, life transitions, or the general stress of everyday life, you are in the right place. My hope is that through collaboration and a safe space to explore whatever it is you may be facing, I can be of support to you along your way.
(720) 664-5676 View (720) 664-5676
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Estefanía Ospina-Alikhan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211
I specialize in helping couples develop thriving relationships through Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method.
Hi, I'm Estefanía, and I'm excited to accompany you and your loved ones as you embark on your journey toward healing and personal growth. Whether you're facing unresolved childhood trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, or relationship challenges, remember that you're not alone – I'm here to support you every step of the way. With over 8 years of licensed experience, I provide bilingual therapy services in English and Spanish, celebrating diversity in all its facets. From an anti-oppressive stance, I strive to ensure that each individual, couple, and family I work with feels valued, understood, and respected.
I specialize in helping couples develop thriving relationships through Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method.
Hi, I'm Estefanía, and I'm excited to accompany you and your loved ones as you embark on your journey toward healing and personal growth. Whether you're facing unresolved childhood trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, or relationship challenges, remember that you're not alone – I'm here to support you every step of the way. With over 8 years of licensed experience, I provide bilingual therapy services in English and Spanish, celebrating diversity in all its facets. From an anti-oppressive stance, I strive to ensure that each individual, couple, and family I work with feels valued, understood, and respected.
(844) 694-0476 View (844) 694-0476
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Adam Stanford
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LAC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80205  (Online Only)
I am Level 3 trained in The Gottman Method of couples counseling, the most researched and proven method available.
I only meet online and I accept insurance for individuals but not for couples. I work best with clients who are dedicated to developing new skills that are proven to help with couples issues, anxiety, depression, borderline, bipolar, and addiction. I'm highly competent with and welcome clients of diverse backgrounds including but not limited to LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, sex positive, kink aware, and type 1 Autism (Asperger's). My clients learn how to develop healthier thinking patterns and integrate new behaviors that effectively improve relationships and manage difficult emotions.
I am Level 3 trained in The Gottman Method of couples counseling, the most researched and proven method available.
I only meet online and I accept insurance for individuals but not for couples. I work best with clients who are dedicated to developing new skills that are proven to help with couples issues, anxiety, depression, borderline, bipolar, and addiction. I'm highly competent with and welcome clients of diverse backgrounds including but not limited to LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, sex positive, kink aware, and type 1 Autism (Asperger's). My clients learn how to develop healthier thinking patterns and integrate new behaviors that effectively improve relationships and manage difficult emotions.
(720) 764-6856 View (720) 764-6856
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Faith Franz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80205
I offer Discernment Counseling for couples deciding whether to divorce or restore their marriage, Gottman method for couples seeking improved communication, conflict management, and greater intimacy, & Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) for trauma treatment.
Relationships are hard work and sometimes you need a third party to support you in breaking through old wounds and limiting patterns getting in the way of healthy connection. If you are tired of being stuck in destructive patterns in your relationship, I can support you in getting unstuck and finding deeper and healthier connection. I also serve couples in crisis who are searching for clarity and confidence to make decisions about the future of their relationship. I help couples feeling stuck due to trauma or other challenges to find a way forward.
I offer Discernment Counseling for couples deciding whether to divorce or restore their marriage, Gottman method for couples seeking improved communication, conflict management, and greater intimacy, & Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) for trauma treatment.
Relationships are hard work and sometimes you need a third party to support you in breaking through old wounds and limiting patterns getting in the way of healthy connection. If you are tired of being stuck in destructive patterns in your relationship, I can support you in getting unstuck and finding deeper and healthier connection. I also serve couples in crisis who are searching for clarity and confidence to make decisions about the future of their relationship. I help couples feeling stuck due to trauma or other challenges to find a way forward.
(720) 664-2283 x24 View (720) 664-2283 x24
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Rachel LaMorte
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209  (Online Only)
I am also Level II Gottman Method Couples Therapy Certified.
Are you feeling stuck in your life? Are you and your partner feeling disconnected? Or are you struggling to get a handle on your relationship with alcohol or drugs? I work with individuals who want to improve their depression, anxiety, self esteem, or difficulty navigating life transitions and relationships so they can create the life they want. I also specialize in working with couples who are seeking to improve their communication, intimacy, friendship, and reestablish trust. I have extensive experience in treatment for substance use and enjoy working with couples and individuals who are managing addiction or addiction recovery.
I am also Level II Gottman Method Couples Therapy Certified.
Are you feeling stuck in your life? Are you and your partner feeling disconnected? Or are you struggling to get a handle on your relationship with alcohol or drugs? I work with individuals who want to improve their depression, anxiety, self esteem, or difficulty navigating life transitions and relationships so they can create the life they want. I also specialize in working with couples who are seeking to improve their communication, intimacy, friendship, and reestablish trust. I have extensive experience in treatment for substance use and enjoy working with couples and individuals who are managing addiction or addiction recovery.
(970) 616-6396 View (970) 616-6396
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Tiffany Costello
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80222
I use the Gottman Method in my work with couples, and also to inform my work with individuals.
Healing and growth takes place in the context of relationships - in our relationship with ourselves, and in our relationships with others. Unfortunately, sometimes our relationships become distant, disconnected and a place of conflict, leaving us with unmet needs and just feeling “stuck.” We don’t feel safe asking for what we need, and maybe don’t even know what we need ourselves. The therapeutic relationship in counseling provides an authentic and safe place in which healing can begin to take place.
I use the Gottman Method in my work with couples, and also to inform my work with individuals.
Healing and growth takes place in the context of relationships - in our relationship with ourselves, and in our relationships with others. Unfortunately, sometimes our relationships become distant, disconnected and a place of conflict, leaving us with unmet needs and just feeling “stuck.” We don’t feel safe asking for what we need, and maybe don’t even know what we need ourselves. The therapeutic relationship in counseling provides an authentic and safe place in which healing can begin to take place.
(720) 586-4328 View (720) 586-4328
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Petra Ulrych
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80219
With deep experience treating couples & families, I use evidence-based tools (Gottman Method Level II trained) to facilitate change.
I am currently only taking couples or family clients cash pay, and I offer a sliding scale. Common areas I can help with: Better ways to address conflict, help to stop avoiding topics, more effective communication, building trust, support and relationship strengthening after death of a child, and evaluation of current relational strengths and areas for growth. Couples therapy is hard work, and if everyone is willing to be flexible and try new things, change can happen very quickly!
With deep experience treating couples & families, I use evidence-based tools (Gottman Method Level II trained) to facilitate change.
I am currently only taking couples or family clients cash pay, and I offer a sliding scale. Common areas I can help with: Better ways to address conflict, help to stop avoiding topics, more effective communication, building trust, support and relationship strengthening after death of a child, and evaluation of current relational strengths and areas for growth. Couples therapy is hard work, and if everyone is willing to be flexible and try new things, change can happen very quickly!
(303) 900-5916 View (303) 900-5916
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Frances Forgione
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LAC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80202
I'm only offering video sessions at this time due to travels. Over 30 years experience. LCSW in both Colorado & Massachusetts. Licensed Addictions Counselor - CO; EMDR Therapist, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist (EFT), Certified Gestalt Therapist, AEDP Therapist, DBT Therapist & Mindfulness, Gottman Method trained. Pain and struggle are often the doorways into strength, wisdom, compassion, beauty, joy. Rather than getting stuck in fight, flight or freeze mode, discover your authentic self. Primary specialities: depression, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma, addictions, grief & loss.
I'm only offering video sessions at this time due to travels. Over 30 years experience. LCSW in both Colorado & Massachusetts. Licensed Addictions Counselor - CO; EMDR Therapist, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist (EFT), Certified Gestalt Therapist, AEDP Therapist, DBT Therapist & Mindfulness, Gottman Method trained. Pain and struggle are often the doorways into strength, wisdom, compassion, beauty, joy. Rather than getting stuck in fight, flight or freeze mode, discover your authentic self. Primary specialities: depression, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma, addictions, grief & loss.
(720) 408-7172 View (720) 408-7172
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Veronica Walton
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80211
My clinical approach utilizes the modalities of Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, of which I am Level I certified.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples to explore dating, relationship patterns, attachment, and trauma. I'm especially passionate in supporting the queer community. Together, we work to identify and examine recurring patterns with care and curiosity. In individual work, this can look like exploring your early experiences that informed your attachment style and connecting these patterns to the way you show up or abandon yourself today. In relationship therapy, we bring awareness to the dynamic between partners these individual experiences create to deepen connection, enhance vulnerability, and improve communication.
My clinical approach utilizes the modalities of Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, of which I am Level I certified.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples to explore dating, relationship patterns, attachment, and trauma. I'm especially passionate in supporting the queer community. Together, we work to identify and examine recurring patterns with care and curiosity. In individual work, this can look like exploring your early experiences that informed your attachment style and connecting these patterns to the way you show up or abandon yourself today. In relationship therapy, we bring awareness to the dynamic between partners these individual experiences create to deepen connection, enhance vulnerability, and improve communication.
(970) 463-8819 View (970) 463-8819
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Alnora Sights
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
Some favorites are: EMDR, attachment-based, polyvagal theory, narrative and mindfulness techniques, bibliotherapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), The Gottman Method, and the work of Esther Perel.
I specialize in working with both couples and individuals who are dealing with complex trauma, PTSD, and religious trauma, as well as those who are exploring their identity and navigating life transitions, such as relationship ruptures, career changes & grief. I provide therapy to both adults and youth ages 16+. In addition, I specialize in working with Latin/Hispanic and LGBTQIA+ individuals. I am particularly passionate about supporting expats and professionals from Latin American countries as they adjust to a new culture and build a life away from home. I work with couples experiencing trauma, life crises, and major transitions.
Some favorites are: EMDR, attachment-based, polyvagal theory, narrative and mindfulness techniques, bibliotherapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), The Gottman Method, and the work of Esther Perel.
I specialize in working with both couples and individuals who are dealing with complex trauma, PTSD, and religious trauma, as well as those who are exploring their identity and navigating life transitions, such as relationship ruptures, career changes & grief. I provide therapy to both adults and youth ages 16+. In addition, I specialize in working with Latin/Hispanic and LGBTQIA+ individuals. I am particularly passionate about supporting expats and professionals from Latin American countries as they adjust to a new culture and build a life away from home. I work with couples experiencing trauma, life crises, and major transitions.
(720) 640-8891 View (720) 640-8891
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Megan Veldhuizen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
When working with couples, I use Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Family Therapy.
Hi, I'm glad you're here! Looking for a therapist can feel overwhelming, and I'm so excited for you to find the therapist who feels like a match to you. I have experience working with relationships, eating disorders, addiction, mood disorders and trauma and I regularly work with adults, adolescents, and couples. I believe therapeutic work needs to be collaborative to be successful. My philosophy is to support the individuals and couples I work with in reaching the goals they set for themselves through treatment plans we create together.
When working with couples, I use Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Family Therapy.
Hi, I'm glad you're here! Looking for a therapist can feel overwhelming, and I'm so excited for you to find the therapist who feels like a match to you. I have experience working with relationships, eating disorders, addiction, mood disorders and trauma and I regularly work with adults, adolescents, and couples. I believe therapeutic work needs to be collaborative to be successful. My philosophy is to support the individuals and couples I work with in reaching the goals they set for themselves through treatment plans we create together.
(720) 706-9382 View (720) 706-9382
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Leo Godsey
LPC Intern, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
For couples and ENM relationships, I utilize elements from the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
I am passionate about working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, shame, self-esteem, disordered eating, sexual or gender identity and other LGBTQIA+ issues, life transitions, body image, disordered eating, relationship/family/friendship issues, psychedelic integration, personal motivation, or fitting into societal expectations or “norms.” I also work with and support romantic monogamous or ENM relationships.
For couples and ENM relationships, I utilize elements from the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
I am passionate about working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, shame, self-esteem, disordered eating, sexual or gender identity and other LGBTQIA+ issues, life transitions, body image, disordered eating, relationship/family/friendship issues, psychedelic integration, personal motivation, or fitting into societal expectations or “norms.” I also work with and support romantic monogamous or ENM relationships.
(720) 783-3566 View (720) 783-3566
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A Better You Counseling Denver
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80209
I utilize the Gottman Method to support couples in identifying their strengths and areas that need to be strengthened to fortify their relationships and live more connected.
I am so glad you have taken the first step towards a better you! I look forward to connecting with you and helping you improve your life and relationships through a collaborative, supportive process of exploring the connections between your thoughts, feelings, and actions. I utilize solution focused therapy where we envision what you want your life to look like and identify the old habits and feelings that are blocking you from achieving your desired life.
I utilize the Gottman Method to support couples in identifying their strengths and areas that need to be strengthened to fortify their relationships and live more connected.
I am so glad you have taken the first step towards a better you! I look forward to connecting with you and helping you improve your life and relationships through a collaborative, supportive process of exploring the connections between your thoughts, feelings, and actions. I utilize solution focused therapy where we envision what you want your life to look like and identify the old habits and feelings that are blocking you from achieving your desired life.
(720) 738-7913 View (720) 738-7913
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Alyssa Bekerman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MFTC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
I also enjoy using attachment and somatic interventions, and I am trained in EMDR and couples-specific modalities including Gottman Method and EFT.
I believe that curiosity heals, that healing comes from approaching our lives with greater openness & non-judgement. I work with individuals and couples/intimate relationships impacted by trauma, relationship issues, chronic illness, grief, & identity exploration. Using a caring and direct approach, I support clients to gain deeper understanding, increase emotional regulation, & use more effective conflict management strategies. I believe that our world often makes it seem like we need to be fixed when really we need trust, connection, and tools to cultivate desired change within ourselves and our relationships.
I also enjoy using attachment and somatic interventions, and I am trained in EMDR and couples-specific modalities including Gottman Method and EFT.
I believe that curiosity heals, that healing comes from approaching our lives with greater openness & non-judgement. I work with individuals and couples/intimate relationships impacted by trauma, relationship issues, chronic illness, grief, & identity exploration. Using a caring and direct approach, I support clients to gain deeper understanding, increase emotional regulation, & use more effective conflict management strategies. I believe that our world often makes it seem like we need to be fixed when really we need trust, connection, and tools to cultivate desired change within ourselves and our relationships.
(720) 792-3326 View (720) 792-3326
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Abby Vasey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80209
From cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) to acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), cognitive processing therapy (CPT), polyvagal theory, and Gottman method, I integrate evidence-based interventions to foster healing and empowerment.
I am a Licensed Social Worker specializing in eating disorders, body image, substance use, anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, relationships, and OCD. I enjoy guiding teens and adults toward holistic healing and self discovery. I offer a safe haven for those navigating life’s most intricate challenges and believe in the inherent worth of each individual.
From cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) to acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), cognitive processing therapy (CPT), polyvagal theory, and Gottman method, I integrate evidence-based interventions to foster healing and empowerment.
I am a Licensed Social Worker specializing in eating disorders, body image, substance use, anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, relationships, and OCD. I enjoy guiding teens and adults toward holistic healing and self discovery. I offer a safe haven for those navigating life’s most intricate challenges and believe in the inherent worth of each individual.
(720) 386-4603 View (720) 386-4603
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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.