Male Therapists in East Boulder, Boulder, CO

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Marshall Winter | High Point Holistic Counseling
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
How many times have you thought to yourself “I’ll be happy when I accomplish my next big goal”, just to find that reaching that new milestone didn’t solve all of your problems? Your life may "check the boxes", but you're still left with a nagging feeling that something isn't right. You’re not alone in this feeling. The truth is, happiness and contentment are achieved by relating to yourself more compassionately, not from accomplishing external goals. That’s where I come in. I work with high-achieving individuals on issues such as anxiety, self-criticism, perfectionism, and low self-esteem to help them live more fulfilling lives.
How many times have you thought to yourself “I’ll be happy when I accomplish my next big goal”, just to find that reaching that new milestone didn’t solve all of your problems? Your life may "check the boxes", but you're still left with a nagging feeling that something isn't right. You’re not alone in this feeling. The truth is, happiness and contentment are achieved by relating to yourself more compassionately, not from accomplishing external goals. That’s where I come in. I work with high-achieving individuals on issues such as anxiety, self-criticism, perfectionism, and low self-esteem to help them live more fulfilling lives.
(720) 864-0177 View (720) 864-0177
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Scott Lilleston
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, CHT, ACC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
Are you a sensitive person who feels frustrated and can't figure out why? Do you sometimes wonder if something is wrong with you, especially when life feels harder than for others? You crave connection but struggle with relationships. You have brilliant ideas at work and see the bigger picture, yet find it challenging to get your voice heard. Sensitivity brings strengths like heightened intuition and empathy. You're here for a reason. Let's embrace your strengths and find better ways to manage your challenges.
Are you a sensitive person who feels frustrated and can't figure out why? Do you sometimes wonder if something is wrong with you, especially when life feels harder than for others? You crave connection but struggle with relationships. You have brilliant ideas at work and see the bigger picture, yet find it challenging to get your voice heard. Sensitivity brings strengths like heightened intuition and empathy. You're here for a reason. Let's embrace your strengths and find better ways to manage your challenges.
(720) 735-5895 View (720) 735-5895
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Blake Higgins
MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
Hello, I'm Blake, a therapist based in Boulder who enjoys helping people find more freedom in their lives. I use somatic, psychodynamic, and mindfulness-based modalities to help process challenging emotions and discover new ways of being in the world. My approach to therapy is embodied, trauma-informed, and deeply respectful of the whole person who is sitting in front of me. I have specialized and ongoing training in the Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM), a therapeutic technique that focuses on addressing attachment, relational, and developmental trauma (C-PTSD).
Hello, I'm Blake, a therapist based in Boulder who enjoys helping people find more freedom in their lives. I use somatic, psychodynamic, and mindfulness-based modalities to help process challenging emotions and discover new ways of being in the world. My approach to therapy is embodied, trauma-informed, and deeply respectful of the whole person who is sitting in front of me. I have specialized and ongoing training in the Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM), a therapeutic technique that focuses on addressing attachment, relational, and developmental trauma (C-PTSD).
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Joel Ricklefs
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, LPCC, MA
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
I also utilized Gott man method of repair.
Accepting new clients: I focus primarily in three different areas; Helping people recover from Addiction/Alcoholism, Couples Counseling and Psychedelic Integration. Addiction: Recovery from addiction is not straight forward. Different people need different solutions. I believe in all pathways to recovery, and I have lived experience. I can offer you a trusting, healing, judgment free space where you can be completely honest. Together we can figure out how you can best heal from this devastating affliction.
I also utilized Gott man method of repair.
Accepting new clients: I focus primarily in three different areas; Helping people recover from Addiction/Alcoholism, Couples Counseling and Psychedelic Integration. Addiction: Recovery from addiction is not straight forward. Different people need different solutions. I believe in all pathways to recovery, and I have lived experience. I can offer you a trusting, healing, judgment free space where you can be completely honest. Together we can figure out how you can best heal from this devastating affliction.
(720) 740-6313 View (720) 740-6313
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Gary Howard
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, WFR
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
I help you build capacity for your hu man liveliness and learn how to channel it so that you can be ALL of YOU right here, right now.
Wanting change? I am a licensed professional counselor, trauma healing wilderness therapist, coach, and men's group facilitator. I believe we have 1 life to live. My passion is helping you discover your way to live as fully and happily as possible. It is important to me that you experience progress, so I work hard with you wherever you are at in your struggles. My approach is both sensitive but masculine so that you feel safe and unpressured while bravely examining your inner blocks. Together we create action plans that help you apply your insights and get the most out of our work together. We go as deep as you feel ready to go.
I help you build capacity for your hu man liveliness and learn how to channel it so that you can be ALL of YOU right here, right now.
Wanting change? I am a licensed professional counselor, trauma healing wilderness therapist, coach, and men's group facilitator. I believe we have 1 life to live. My passion is helping you discover your way to live as fully and happily as possible. It is important to me that you experience progress, so I work hard with you wherever you are at in your struggles. My approach is both sensitive but masculine so that you feel safe and unpressured while bravely examining your inner blocks. Together we create action plans that help you apply your insights and get the most out of our work together. We go as deep as you feel ready to go.
(720) 703-9390 View (720) 703-9390
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Vincent Perrone
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80303  (Online Only)
I work with Men who want to fear less and feel more. Men whose fear of failure and insecurity thrives despite their many successes. Men whose high stress is keeping them out of balance, inside and out. By working through unresolved issues from the past, in the present moment, I help Men embrace and express themselves more fully. If these words are resonate with you, I want you to know that you are not alone. Many Men are struggling with these issues and are finding their way through it. Together we can find our way through your unique situation. Together, we can learn to embrace who you are and allow your health to shine through.
I work with Men who want to fear less and feel more. Men whose fear of failure and insecurity thrives despite their many successes. Men whose high stress is keeping them out of balance, inside and out. By working through unresolved issues from the past, in the present moment, I help Men embrace and express themselves more fully. If these words are resonate with you, I want you to know that you are not alone. Many Men are struggling with these issues and are finding their way through it. Together we can find our way through your unique situation. Together, we can learn to embrace who you are and allow your health to shine through.
(720) 764-9341 View (720) 764-9341
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Steven Spatz
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301  (Online Only)
I am happy to share my expertise with any individuals or couples/open relationships/polyamory relationships experiencing dissatisfaction in their ro mantic relationship, especially with regard to their sexual life.
UPDATED 8/21/24: Availability for 5 new clients (only virtual sessions). I accept several insurances in Colorado but do not actively participate with any insurances in Virginia. I enjoy working with adults (18+ only) and specialize in working with sex therapy, men's issues, couples/open relationships/polyamory, ADHD, depression, and anxiety. To be clear, I work with female clients too. I also have a passion for working with the LGBTQ+ community. I believe that therapy has the power to bring about change in people's lives, as people are ready and willing to look at their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
I am happy to share my expertise with any individuals or couples/open relationships/polyamory relationships experiencing dissatisfaction in their ro mantic relationship, especially with regard to their sexual life.
UPDATED 8/21/24: Availability for 5 new clients (only virtual sessions). I accept several insurances in Colorado but do not actively participate with any insurances in Virginia. I enjoy working with adults (18+ only) and specialize in working with sex therapy, men's issues, couples/open relationships/polyamory, ADHD, depression, and anxiety. To be clear, I work with female clients too. I also have a passion for working with the LGBTQ+ community. I believe that therapy has the power to bring about change in people's lives, as people are ready and willing to look at their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
(703) 596-4941 View (703) 596-4941
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Bob Whitehouse, EdD,BCB, SEP, LLC
Psychologist, EdD, BCB, SEP
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
I love working in the areas of optimal perfor mance, like in sports and perfor mance enhancement or overcoming fears, of perfor mance, of driving, etc.
In my psychotherapy sessions, I like to include Biofeedback monitoring of heart rate and breathing chemistry to give me useful information in treatment planning and to help empower clients in greater self-regulation/self-control. I provide many skills for clients to practice. I utilize Cognitive Behavioral techniques along with psychophysiological (biofeedback), transpersonal, and Somatic Experiencing stress and trauma release approaches. I also work with optimizing perfor mance in any area whether sports, music, speaking, acting, or reducing anxiety. My motto is OPT for the BEST which is my acronym for Optimal Perfor mance Training for the Body, Emotions, Spirit, and Thoughts.
I love working in the areas of optimal perfor mance, like in sports and perfor mance enhancement or overcoming fears, of perfor mance, of driving, etc.
In my psychotherapy sessions, I like to include Biofeedback monitoring of heart rate and breathing chemistry to give me useful information in treatment planning and to help empower clients in greater self-regulation/self-control. I provide many skills for clients to practice. I utilize Cognitive Behavioral techniques along with psychophysiological (biofeedback), transpersonal, and Somatic Experiencing stress and trauma release approaches. I also work with optimizing perfor mance in any area whether sports, music, speaking, acting, or reducing anxiety. My motto is OPT for the BEST which is my acronym for Optimal Perfor mance Training for the Body, Emotions, Spirit, and Thoughts.
(303) 502-5726 View (303) 502-5726
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Devin Lafferty
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
Are you ready to be free of blocks and live in your power? If you are facing difficulties such as stress, anxiety, self-esteem, anger, depression, or grief, you are not alone. I can help by creating a safe and relaxed space for you to share the challenges you're facing. I see you in the wholeness of your being and reflect on your experience with empathy. Life can be hard sometimes. Expressing yourself through artwork is encouraged as a tool to tell your story, release emotions, and discover hidden parts of yourself. From a place of understanding, you may see how life difficulties become the key to liberation.
Are you ready to be free of blocks and live in your power? If you are facing difficulties such as stress, anxiety, self-esteem, anger, depression, or grief, you are not alone. I can help by creating a safe and relaxed space for you to share the challenges you're facing. I see you in the wholeness of your being and reflect on your experience with empathy. Life can be hard sometimes. Expressing yourself through artwork is encouraged as a tool to tell your story, release emotions, and discover hidden parts of yourself. From a place of understanding, you may see how life difficulties become the key to liberation.
(720) 784-5222 View (720) 784-5222
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Kevin Udis
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
Hu man development is a life long process. Feel free to contact me if you are feeling that you, your spouse or children are overwhelmed with the task of adapting to life's challenges. Anxiety, worry, or depression are important symptoms to treat. However, they may also tell one that certain problems require a different approach. My consultations, evaluations and therapeutic services are fully confidential.
Hu man development is a life long process. Feel free to contact me if you are feeling that you, your spouse or children are overwhelmed with the task of adapting to life's challenges. Anxiety, worry, or depression are important symptoms to treat. However, they may also tell one that certain problems require a different approach. My consultations, evaluations and therapeutic services are fully confidential.
(303) 900-7004 View (303) 900-7004
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Shawn Perkin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80308
In my practice, I create a welcoming and accepting place to share and navigate the needs, expectations, de mands and rewards of being a dad, while receiving support, validation and empathy for the hard work we do each and every day.
Hello and Welcome! My name is Shawn Perkin. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor here in Boulder, Colorado. I have been providing father support here in Boulder County for well over the past decade. Becoming and being a father can be the most rewarding and the most challenging part of our lives. Balancing the requests and de mands of our partners, children, employers, society and even ourselves oftentimes leaves us fathers feeling overworked, under appreciated, and even isolated; not knowing which direction to turn and rarely daring to ask for help.
In my practice, I create a welcoming and accepting place to share and navigate the needs, expectations, de mands and rewards of being a dad, while receiving support, validation and empathy for the hard work we do each and every day.
Hello and Welcome! My name is Shawn Perkin. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor here in Boulder, Colorado. I have been providing father support here in Boulder County for well over the past decade. Becoming and being a father can be the most rewarding and the most challenging part of our lives. Balancing the requests and de mands of our partners, children, employers, society and even ourselves oftentimes leaves us fathers feeling overworked, under appreciated, and even isolated; not knowing which direction to turn and rarely daring to ask for help.
(720) 897-0339 View (720) 897-0339
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Jeffrey Lang
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80303
Psychotherapy is for everyone. You do not have to wait until your life falls apart to seek help. In fact, many of us will never experience a mental health crisis. But that doesn’t mean that we cannot benefit from therapy. Things are going well but you want to learn how to live your best life? Things aren’t going so great and you want to get back to where you were before Covid? Things went south and you really need some help? No matter where you are on this spectrum, therapy IS for you. Whether you are seeking Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy or traditional talk therapy, I’m here and ready to help. Let’s get started. You deserve this.
Psychotherapy is for everyone. You do not have to wait until your life falls apart to seek help. In fact, many of us will never experience a mental health crisis. But that doesn’t mean that we cannot benefit from therapy. Things are going well but you want to learn how to live your best life? Things aren’t going so great and you want to get back to where you were before Covid? Things went south and you really need some help? No matter where you are on this spectrum, therapy IS for you. Whether you are seeking Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy or traditional talk therapy, I’m here and ready to help. Let’s get started. You deserve this.
(720) 706-6426 View (720) 706-6426
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Dustin Kerrone
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301  (Online Only)
I combine many powerful modalities, including Jungian inner work, neuroscience, fitness, career, and spirituality, but I will carefully tailor my approach to honor your unique needs and possibilities.
Love. Joy. Ecstasy. Awe. In my 18 years of clinical experience, I’ve discovered that we each have far more capacity for these expansive feelings than we often realize. Whether you are contending with many challenges, or feel ready to fly through the stars, I can work with you collaboratively to shape a life that fulfills your highest dreams, and maybe even soars beyond them. I’m eager to share what I’ve learned about our abilities to break out of old patterns of pain, fear, and shame into fruitful creativity and communion with the most inspiring aspects of being alive.
I combine many powerful modalities, including Jungian inner work, neuroscience, fitness, career, and spirituality, but I will carefully tailor my approach to honor your unique needs and possibilities.
Love. Joy. Ecstasy. Awe. In my 18 years of clinical experience, I’ve discovered that we each have far more capacity for these expansive feelings than we often realize. Whether you are contending with many challenges, or feel ready to fly through the stars, I can work with you collaboratively to shape a life that fulfills your highest dreams, and maybe even soars beyond them. I’m eager to share what I’ve learned about our abilities to break out of old patterns of pain, fear, and shame into fruitful creativity and communion with the most inspiring aspects of being alive.
(720) 928-3271 View (720) 928-3271
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Nick Serro With Connected Roots
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
Please visit the Connected Roots website to explore the many services offered by myself and our other clinicians.
If you struggle with mastering your circumstances, they may end up mastering you. This is a reality we all face, but the time and effort required to do so can be overwhelming. My experience is centered around neurodivergent populations who struggle with emotions and executive functioning. I view each client with holistic, person-centered views of a unique and complex individual rather than just a diagnosis. As an abstract thinker, I specialize in helping you tie the pieces together in a new, autonomous and empowering way. I strive to be genuine and collaborative in sessions-- come talk to me about anything, I would love to listen!
Please visit the Connected Roots website to explore the many services offered by myself and our other clinicians.
If you struggle with mastering your circumstances, they may end up mastering you. This is a reality we all face, but the time and effort required to do so can be overwhelming. My experience is centered around neurodivergent populations who struggle with emotions and executive functioning. I view each client with holistic, person-centered views of a unique and complex individual rather than just a diagnosis. As an abstract thinker, I specialize in helping you tie the pieces together in a new, autonomous and empowering way. I strive to be genuine and collaborative in sessions-- come talk to me about anything, I would love to listen!
(720) 619-3964 View (720) 619-3964
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Matty Blanc-Paul
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
As a therapist who specializes in working with teenagers, I understand how important it is for parents to have confidence in the person they entrust with their child's mental health. Adolescence is a challenging time for both teens and parents, and it can be difficult to navigate the emotional and behavioral changes that come with this stage of life. That's why I take a collaborative approach to counseling, working closely with both parents and teens to develop personalized treatment plans that address their unique needs and concerns.
As a therapist who specializes in working with teenagers, I understand how important it is for parents to have confidence in the person they entrust with their child's mental health. Adolescence is a challenging time for both teens and parents, and it can be difficult to navigate the emotional and behavioral changes that come with this stage of life. That's why I take a collaborative approach to counseling, working closely with both parents and teens to develop personalized treatment plans that address their unique needs and concerns.
(720) 637-3899 View (720) 637-3899
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Saul Randall
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
I draw from depth psychology, psychodynamic, hu manistic, transpersonal and existential theories to inform my work.
As your therapist I will work hard to provide you with the tools to overcome obstacles and reach your personal goals. Unlocking your potential will be our primary aim along with developing an awareness of how we create our own blocks. You will also work towards becoming more yourself as strange as that may sound! This involves getting in touch with your own psyche to discover, or rediscover, what makes you tick. It can be an incredibly rewarding process.
I draw from depth psychology, psychodynamic, hu manistic, transpersonal and existential theories to inform my work.
As your therapist I will work hard to provide you with the tools to overcome obstacles and reach your personal goals. Unlocking your potential will be our primary aim along with developing an awareness of how we create our own blocks. You will also work towards becoming more yourself as strange as that may sound! This involves getting in touch with your own psyche to discover, or rediscover, what makes you tick. It can be an incredibly rewarding process.
(303) 529-7303 View (303) 529-7303
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James Jahmaya Kessler
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
I am a humble man in many things, but I am good at what I do because I love doing it.
Ever feel like there is more to this life than the one you've been living? As someone who has felt the gravity and darkness of untapped potential I know what's it's like to be living a life we don't love. The clues are within the depression and/or anxiety - these are our body's brilliantly sane ways of saying "pay attention!" Anyone can have a life that is full of passion, richness, purpose, and they feel joyfully proud to be living. It will take vulnerability, bravery, sacrifices, and perhaps some help to get this life that you love. I'd be deeply honored to be the gentle and firm guide you need to help you create this life.
I am a humble man in many things, but I am good at what I do because I love doing it.
Ever feel like there is more to this life than the one you've been living? As someone who has felt the gravity and darkness of untapped potential I know what's it's like to be living a life we don't love. The clues are within the depression and/or anxiety - these are our body's brilliantly sane ways of saying "pay attention!" Anyone can have a life that is full of passion, richness, purpose, and they feel joyfully proud to be living. It will take vulnerability, bravery, sacrifices, and perhaps some help to get this life that you love. I'd be deeply honored to be the gentle and firm guide you need to help you create this life.
(720) 669-7721 View (720) 669-7721
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Stewart Brown
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
2) If you're wanting high perfor mance assistance (sports, job, hobby), ask me about a goal related payment plan.
All of us have been hurt and humiliated, and some of us have suffered real trauma, neglect or abuse. We try to bury these experiences, and in order to live we develop ways to protect ourselves that typically involve blame, withdrawal, anger, drugs, manipulation and more. The therapeutic answer involves first resolving thoughts, feelings and behaviors born of actual or perceived past experiences, and secondly discovering an inner core of strength. Psychotherapy facilitates a sense of greater confidence and compassion, and fosters new awareness of connection and belonging. My interest and skill is in being useful to you in this process.
2) If you're wanting high perfor mance assistance (sports, job, hobby), ask me about a goal related payment plan.
All of us have been hurt and humiliated, and some of us have suffered real trauma, neglect or abuse. We try to bury these experiences, and in order to live we develop ways to protect ourselves that typically involve blame, withdrawal, anger, drugs, manipulation and more. The therapeutic answer involves first resolving thoughts, feelings and behaviors born of actual or perceived past experiences, and secondly discovering an inner core of strength. Psychotherapy facilitates a sense of greater confidence and compassion, and fosters new awareness of connection and belonging. My interest and skill is in being useful to you in this process.
(303) 900-7366 View (303) 900-7366
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Tom Devine
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, A-CBT
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
I offer in-person counseling sessions from a convenient Central Boulder location and Telehealth sessions as well. I provide individual and couples therapy for adults and adolescents who are experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma/ptsd, relationship problems, work or school stress and other problems. Call for a free 15-minute consultation if you are seeking support and looking to develop effective ways to cope with life's challenges.
I offer in-person counseling sessions from a convenient Central Boulder location and Telehealth sessions as well. I provide individual and couples therapy for adults and adolescents who are experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma/ptsd, relationship problems, work or school stress and other problems. Call for a free 15-minute consultation if you are seeking support and looking to develop effective ways to cope with life's challenges.
(720) 740-5411 View (720) 740-5411
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Inner Fire Therapy
Counselor, MA, MPH, LPCC
Verified Verified
East Boulder, Boulder, CO 80301
Tired of feeling frustrated, stuck, and disconnected? You’re not alone. My name is David and I’ve helped dozens of men struggling with these issues. My clients typically feel off course, disconnected, and frustrated when they arrive. After working with me they feel fulfilled, relaxed, and empowered.
Tired of feeling frustrated, stuck, and disconnected? You’re not alone. My name is David and I’ve helped dozens of men struggling with these issues. My clients typically feel off course, disconnected, and frustrated when they arrive. After working with me they feel fulfilled, relaxed, and empowered.
(720) 697-1464 View (720) 697-1464
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Male Therapists

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.