Sex Therapists in Tustin, CA
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Jennifer Rodriguez LeBar
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780
Are you seeking more awareness in your sexuality or greater satisfaction in your sexual life and relationships? I will help you move beyond the shame, fear, doubt, anxiety, traumas or anything else that is impacting your relationships and wellbeing. We will work collaboratively to address any barriers or difficulties that may be getting in the way so that you can build greater confidence, strength, and healthier connections on your empowering journey of life, love and sexuality. Issues treated include: desire discrepancies between partners, difficulties with arousal or orgasm, painful sex, exploration of kink or nonmonogamy.
Are you seeking more awareness in your sexuality or greater satisfaction in your sexual life and relationships? I will help you move beyond the shame, fear, doubt, anxiety, traumas or anything else that is impacting your relationships and wellbeing. We will work collaboratively to address any barriers or difficulties that may be getting in the way so that you can build greater confidence, strength, and healthier connections on your empowering journey of life, love and sexuality. Issues treated include: desire discrepancies between partners, difficulties with arousal or orgasm, painful sex, exploration of kink or nonmonogamy.
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Michael Smith Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780
I have focused my education, training and experience in three areas: Sex Therapy, Sex & Porn Addiction Treatment and Infidelity Counseling. My specialty is providing treatment for a wide range of sexual problems, most kinds of addictions/compulsive behaviors and counseling related to couples infidelity issues.
I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Sex Addiction Specialist. I have helped hundreds of people attain a healthy, satisfying sex life and to stop their destructive, out-of-control sex & porn behaviors.
Call me to discuss your particular concerns. Please visit my website to learn more: http://www.orangecountysextherapy.com
I have focused my education, training and experience in three areas: Sex Therapy, Sex & Porn Addiction Treatment and Infidelity Counseling. My specialty is providing treatment for a wide range of sexual problems, most kinds of addictions/compulsive behaviors and counseling related to couples infidelity issues.
I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Sex Addiction Specialist. I have helped hundreds of people attain a healthy, satisfying sex life and to stop their destructive, out-of-control sex & porn behaviors.
Call me to discuss your particular concerns. Please visit my website to learn more: http://www.orangecountysextherapy.com
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Patricia Contreras
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780
Are you up late again tonight thinking about this? Is your sex life making you feel lonely, sad or disconnected from your partner? Would you like to increase your communication and pleasure? Are you missing that intimacy and sexual connection? Perhaps you are trying to figure out why your relationships aren't working or distressed over sex/porn. I want to help you get beyond betrayals, anxiety, and past traumas that may be hindering your relationships and intimacy. I specialize in sex therapy and trauma and I can help. Sex talk can be uncomfortable, I provide a non-judgmental place to explore these sensitive issues with you.
Are you up late again tonight thinking about this? Is your sex life making you feel lonely, sad or disconnected from your partner? Would you like to increase your communication and pleasure? Are you missing that intimacy and sexual connection? Perhaps you are trying to figure out why your relationships aren't working or distressed over sex/porn. I want to help you get beyond betrayals, anxiety, and past traumas that may be hindering your relationships and intimacy. I specialize in sex therapy and trauma and I can help. Sex talk can be uncomfortable, I provide a non-judgmental place to explore these sensitive issues with you.
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With 20 years experience, I am dedicated to providing genuine, compassionate and effective care to my clients specializing in: healthy relationships, couples therapy, sex therapy, life transitions, identity, self-esteem, stress management/anxiety, and mindfulness. My belief is that therapy is one of many possible paths to self growth. I see my role as a therapist to advocate for my clients, empowering them to make healthy changes and choices by providing support and different perspectives. Witnessing my clients transcend life challenges is always inspiring and an honor.
With 20 years experience, I am dedicated to providing genuine, compassionate and effective care to my clients specializing in: healthy relationships, couples therapy, sex therapy, life transitions, identity, self-esteem, stress management/anxiety, and mindfulness. My belief is that therapy is one of many possible paths to self growth. I see my role as a therapist to advocate for my clients, empowering them to make healthy changes and choices by providing support and different perspectives. Witnessing my clients transcend life challenges is always inspiring and an honor.
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I am a trauma informed sex therapist. I specialize in helping individuals navigate the sensitive issues related to erotic recovery and sex. Many of my clients struggle with shame and guilt. You may experience a range of issues related to your sexuality, such as: sexual addiction or compulsive behavior, trauma related to sexual abuse or assault, anxiety or depression related to your sexual experiences, relationship issues related to sexuality or intimacy, shame or guilt related to your sexual desires or fantasies or relationships.
I am a trauma informed sex therapist. I specialize in helping individuals navigate the sensitive issues related to erotic recovery and sex. Many of my clients struggle with shame and guilt. You may experience a range of issues related to your sexuality, such as: sexual addiction or compulsive behavior, trauma related to sexual abuse or assault, anxiety or depression related to your sexual experiences, relationship issues related to sexuality or intimacy, shame or guilt related to your sexual desires or fantasies or relationships.
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I have 15+ years experience in industrial psychology, community mental health, & medical social work and have served as an adjunct lecturer, admissions reviewer, psychiatric consultant, & as a director. I continue to be passionate about compliance practices to ensure great clinical outcomes, as these are two naturally interwoven processes in community and managed healthcare. I continue to gift back to our community as a Viet-CARE member. I provide career consultation, individual and group clinical supervision, and 1:1 coaching to enhance your leadership abilities. Goal is treating you from a whole person perspective.
I have 15+ years experience in industrial psychology, community mental health, & medical social work and have served as an adjunct lecturer, admissions reviewer, psychiatric consultant, & as a director. I continue to be passionate about compliance practices to ensure great clinical outcomes, as these are two naturally interwoven processes in community and managed healthcare. I continue to gift back to our community as a Viet-CARE member. I provide career consultation, individual and group clinical supervision, and 1:1 coaching to enhance your leadership abilities. Goal is treating you from a whole person perspective.
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Have you said to yourself "IF" I make enough money, lose weight, etc., "THEN" I will be happy, content, or joyous, only to find that you are left feeling incomplete or unaccomplished? Have you gotten to a point in your life where the "if-then" statements you make to yourself have left you feeling unworthy and critical of yourself? Do you ever find yourself fixated on your worth as a person, parent, or loved one? Using an eclectic approach I work with clients to find their worth, ease their critical voice, and create a joyous life through self-acceptance.
Have you said to yourself "IF" I make enough money, lose weight, etc., "THEN" I will be happy, content, or joyous, only to find that you are left feeling incomplete or unaccomplished? Have you gotten to a point in your life where the "if-then" statements you make to yourself have left you feeling unworthy and critical of yourself? Do you ever find yourself fixated on your worth as a person, parent, or loved one? Using an eclectic approach I work with clients to find their worth, ease their critical voice, and create a joyous life through self-acceptance.
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Olivia Rose Powanda
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, AMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92781
Your thoughts and feelings are valid, but they do not define you! We are often our biggest critics, which can unfairly create roadblocks in our journey. I am passionate about helping clients harness their potential so they can live a fulfilling life. Whether you are a teen struggling with social life, a couple suffering from lack of connection or intimacy, an individual who wants to connect with their authentic self, parents, etc., I am here to help you navigate through the life you wanna change, improve or create.
Your thoughts and feelings are valid, but they do not define you! We are often our biggest critics, which can unfairly create roadblocks in our journey. I am passionate about helping clients harness their potential so they can live a fulfilling life. Whether you are a teen struggling with social life, a couple suffering from lack of connection or intimacy, an individual who wants to connect with their authentic self, parents, etc., I am here to help you navigate through the life you wanna change, improve or create.
![Photo of Tamara Altowaiji, AMFT, EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/49e5540b-763f-485f-b088-74d899f487c8/1/320x400.jpeg)
Tamara Altowaiji
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780
Have you experienced relationship issues with your partner(s), friends, or family? Maybe you are having difficulty connecting as a couple, adjusting to life changes, or feeling your cultural identity pulled in multiple directions. Sometimes life can feel quite heavy, but I am here to tell you, you don't have to carry it alone. Together we will explore your world, and discover how, with your willingness and commitment to learning new skills and tools, you can comfortably heal, grow, and take back control over your life and improve relationships. With me, you can expect a warm, trusting, and supportive environment.
Have you experienced relationship issues with your partner(s), friends, or family? Maybe you are having difficulty connecting as a couple, adjusting to life changes, or feeling your cultural identity pulled in multiple directions. Sometimes life can feel quite heavy, but I am here to tell you, you don't have to carry it alone. Together we will explore your world, and discover how, with your willingness and commitment to learning new skills and tools, you can comfortably heal, grow, and take back control over your life and improve relationships. With me, you can expect a warm, trusting, and supportive environment.
![Photo of Vahan Oknayan, MA, Pre-Licensed Professional](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/1c96ad8f-373f-40cd-910a-d2d007716963/1/320x400.jpeg)
Hi! I'm Vahan Oknayan (Vah•hawn Oak•nye•yawn; sounds like it's spelled) I’m glad you’re taking the first steps to committing time to yourself. We all struggle to varying degrees. Whether your problems seem insurmountable or you just need someone to talk to, your needs are valid. I have an arts background and have an eclectic therapeutic approach. I use a little bit of everything based on what I hear from you. I incorporate mindfulness and physical practices that help foster mind-body connection to alleviate emotional distress and tap into more authentic self. Reach out and see if we fit. I look forward to meeting you!
Hi! I'm Vahan Oknayan (Vah•hawn Oak•nye•yawn; sounds like it's spelled) I’m glad you’re taking the first steps to committing time to yourself. We all struggle to varying degrees. Whether your problems seem insurmountable or you just need someone to talk to, your needs are valid. I have an arts background and have an eclectic therapeutic approach. I use a little bit of everything based on what I hear from you. I incorporate mindfulness and physical practices that help foster mind-body connection to alleviate emotional distress and tap into more authentic self. Reach out and see if we fit. I look forward to meeting you!
![Photo of Dean Leav - Men's Issues - Dr. Dean, PsyD, QME, Author, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/e6d5fb07-5008-46d1-a04f-d150d1f9b8c8/2/320x400.jpeg)
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
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Lauren Martinez
LPC Intern, MS, APCC, RADT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92781 (Online Only)
Do you find yourself experiencing difficulties setting boundaries? Are you the self proclaimed “parent/mom/dad friend” in your friend group and find yourself chronically people pleasing? Hi, my name is Lauren Martinez and I am an Associate Professional Clinical Counselor with a passion about working with individuals who are looking to rediscover their authentic self. If you are interested in rediscovering who you are in this stage of your life, redeveloping coping mechanisms that work for you, and connecting back to your authentic self, connect with me and we can setup a time to connect via telehealth.
Do you find yourself experiencing difficulties setting boundaries? Are you the self proclaimed “parent/mom/dad friend” in your friend group and find yourself chronically people pleasing? Hi, my name is Lauren Martinez and I am an Associate Professional Clinical Counselor with a passion about working with individuals who are looking to rediscover their authentic self. If you are interested in rediscovering who you are in this stage of your life, redeveloping coping mechanisms that work for you, and connecting back to your authentic self, connect with me and we can setup a time to connect via telehealth.
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Katherine M Rogers
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780 (Online Only)
Looking for a safe space to explore and address your anxiety? Want to find meaningful connections with your partner or yourself? Interested to understand how your past has shaped your current beliefs, feelings, and motivations?
Looking for a safe space to explore and address your anxiety? Want to find meaningful connections with your partner or yourself? Interested to understand how your past has shaped your current beliefs, feelings, and motivations?
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Hello! My name is Chris Minerd, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (138866). I specialize in working with men's mental health, relationships, and self-improvement. I am committed to helping my clients cultivate a solution-oriented mindset that empowers them to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. To achieve this, I use a multi-faceted approach that draws on a range of evidence-based techniques that draw on your individual strengths and work towards challenging areas of discomfort.
Hello! My name is Chris Minerd, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (138866). I specialize in working with men's mental health, relationships, and self-improvement. I am committed to helping my clients cultivate a solution-oriented mindset that empowers them to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. To achieve this, I use a multi-faceted approach that draws on a range of evidence-based techniques that draw on your individual strengths and work towards challenging areas of discomfort.
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Dr. Daniel Tucker is recognized for his warm, calm, and nonjudgmental approach. Licensed as a clinical psychologist, he can help you with these issues: Mood Problems (depression, low self-esteem, lack of motivation and energy, loss and grief, difficulty adjusting); Relationship Issues (family discord, relationship stress, communication problems, anger management, intimacy problems, recovering from narcissistic abuse); Stress and Anxiety (nervousness, tension, worry, panic attacks, trauma); Chronic Pain (chronic neck, back, and head pain).
Dr. Daniel Tucker is recognized for his warm, calm, and nonjudgmental approach. Licensed as a clinical psychologist, he can help you with these issues: Mood Problems (depression, low self-esteem, lack of motivation and energy, loss and grief, difficulty adjusting); Relationship Issues (family discord, relationship stress, communication problems, anger management, intimacy problems, recovering from narcissistic abuse); Stress and Anxiety (nervousness, tension, worry, panic attacks, trauma); Chronic Pain (chronic neck, back, and head pain).
![Photo of Genesis Montealegre, MS, AMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/9304b0cf-67cf-43c2-bc7f-a8d27115e259/2/320x400.jpeg)
Genesis Montealegre
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780
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Do you find yourself running on empty with not enough energy to show up for yourself? Do you feel like a stranger in your own body? Maybe you look in the mirror and hate what you see or are overwhelmed by all the responsibilities of being the perfect mom/dad, daughter, sister/brother, employee, or partner. Wherever you are on your journey, you do not have to do it alone. I am here to help empower, encourage, and support you in your discovery of your inner strengths. Individual therapy can help rebuild your connection with yourself and your purpose.
Do you find yourself running on empty with not enough energy to show up for yourself? Do you feel like a stranger in your own body? Maybe you look in the mirror and hate what you see or are overwhelmed by all the responsibilities of being the perfect mom/dad, daughter, sister/brother, employee, or partner. Wherever you are on your journey, you do not have to do it alone. I am here to help empower, encourage, and support you in your discovery of your inner strengths. Individual therapy can help rebuild your connection with yourself and your purpose.
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CALL if you have a PPO insurance plan! I will teach you how to utilize it to get reimbursed for a provider of your choice! I provide warm, empathetic, and effective care to individuals, couples, and families using some of the best, scientifically validated methods available. My goal is to help you find quick relief while developing the kinds of solutions that have long term, positive results. Because everyone is different, I customize treatment to the specific needs of each person and I go at the client's desired pace.
CALL if you have a PPO insurance plan! I will teach you how to utilize it to get reimbursed for a provider of your choice! I provide warm, empathetic, and effective care to individuals, couples, and families using some of the best, scientifically validated methods available. My goal is to help you find quick relief while developing the kinds of solutions that have long term, positive results. Because everyone is different, I customize treatment to the specific needs of each person and I go at the client's desired pace.
![Photo of Carol Eddy, MA, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3bdbfaea-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Are you struggling to recover from a painful loss? Feeling down, stressed, or overwhelmed? Maybe you find yourself lying awake worrying about your relationship, family, money, or life in general. Being strong all the time can be exhausting. We are all just doing the best we can every day, and it's easy to feel alone. Therapy can be a great place to slow down, to think carefully about your life, and get support. Maybe you just need someone to talk to, who will listen, without judgment. With over 20 years of experience I can also give constructive feedback, and help you find new approaches to old problems.
Are you struggling to recover from a painful loss? Feeling down, stressed, or overwhelmed? Maybe you find yourself lying awake worrying about your relationship, family, money, or life in general. Being strong all the time can be exhausting. We are all just doing the best we can every day, and it's easy to feel alone. Therapy can be a great place to slow down, to think carefully about your life, and get support. Maybe you just need someone to talk to, who will listen, without judgment. With over 20 years of experience I can also give constructive feedback, and help you find new approaches to old problems.
![Photo of Angelika Panova, LMFT, PMHNP, RN, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3ceaaee2-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/1/320x400.jpeg)
I worked with broad range of clients- kids, individuals, couples. I have been supervising several addiction and dual diagnosis clinics. I treated successfully hundreds of patients and helped to find best solution to the most difficult situation or problem my patients faced. I help my patients to rebuild relationships based on honesty, understanding, forgiveness, and trust. I teach coping skills to regulate your impulses, emotions, increase your sense of personal identity , improve your judgment, reduce the sense of crisis in your life and find healthy solutions. I offer Neurofeedback training that helps to enhance physical, mental performance, improves memories.
I worked with broad range of clients- kids, individuals, couples. I have been supervising several addiction and dual diagnosis clinics. I treated successfully hundreds of patients and helped to find best solution to the most difficult situation or problem my patients faced. I help my patients to rebuild relationships based on honesty, understanding, forgiveness, and trust. I teach coping skills to regulate your impulses, emotions, increase your sense of personal identity , improve your judgment, reduce the sense of crisis in your life and find healthy solutions. I offer Neurofeedback training that helps to enhance physical, mental performance, improves memories.
![Photo of Suzanne Onikul Ross, PhD, RN, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/405c785f-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/3/320x400.jpeg)
Psychotherapy is a very special endeavor with potential for positive change and decrease in discomfort. I see the therapeutic relationship formed in psychotherapy as that vehicle for change. I have worked 10 years as a nurse practitioner and over 15 years as a Clinical Psychologist. My expertise in these fields place me in a unique position to understand the mind/body interfaceI bring a unique perspective to my work particularly in the areas of women's health issues, transitions in life: men and women, postpartum depression, stress reduction, mindfulness,and coping with chronic medical illnesses. I am on staff at Hoag Hospital.
Psychotherapy is a very special endeavor with potential for positive change and decrease in discomfort. I see the therapeutic relationship formed in psychotherapy as that vehicle for change. I have worked 10 years as a nurse practitioner and over 15 years as a Clinical Psychologist. My expertise in these fields place me in a unique position to understand the mind/body interfaceI bring a unique perspective to my work particularly in the areas of women's health issues, transitions in life: men and women, postpartum depression, stress reduction, mindfulness,and coping with chronic medical illnesses. I am on staff at Hoag Hospital.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.