Gottman Method Therapists in Santa Paula, CA

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Nicholas K. Bennett
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Santa Paula, CA 93060  (Online Only)
In couples therapy, I embrace the Gottman method and incorporate an attachment-based, emotionally focused approach.
I am licensed in both CA & WV. I have experience treating depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, specific phobias, and trauma in clients pre-teen through late adulthood. I have served on integrative teams for parents and children in CPS cases as well as on collaborative teams providing treatment for clients residing in assisted living and skilled nursing facilities. Additionally, I have extensive experience working with service members and Veterans, survivors of sexual assault, and individuals who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community, including transgender clients seeking gender reassignment surgeries.
In couples therapy, I embrace the Gottman method and incorporate an attachment-based, emotionally focused approach.
I am licensed in both CA & WV. I have experience treating depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, specific phobias, and trauma in clients pre-teen through late adulthood. I have served on integrative teams for parents and children in CPS cases as well as on collaborative teams providing treatment for clients residing in assisted living and skilled nursing facilities. Additionally, I have extensive experience working with service members and Veterans, survivors of sexual assault, and individuals who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community, including transgender clients seeking gender reassignment surgeries.
(805) 203-6673 View (805) 203-6673
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Lois Zsarnay
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CEDS, CCTP, RD, EMDR
Verified Verified
Santa Paula, CA 93061  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
How will you know when you don't need to come here anymore? We explore together where the client is at in their journey and what is working and not working for them. I then help the Client to identify what they want to have different in their life and collaborate with them to develop the plan of how to achieve it. My focus is on balance and moderation in all areas of life. I work with clients via telemedicine sessions for both talk therapy & EMDR. Please email or call to explore if we would be a good working team.
How will you know when you don't need to come here anymore? We explore together where the client is at in their journey and what is working and not working for them. I then help the Client to identify what they want to have different in their life and collaborate with them to develop the plan of how to achieve it. My focus is on balance and moderation in all areas of life. I work with clients via telemedicine sessions for both talk therapy & EMDR. Please email or call to explore if we would be a good working team.
(820) 300-7685 View (820) 300-7685
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Kathleen Mates-Youngman
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Santa Paula, CA 93060
Hello! I’m Kathleen Mates-Youngman, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, International Speaker, Author, and Yoga Teacher. I believe we are all works in progress, and that therapy is beneficial at times of crisis or challenge, as well as for general personal growth. I’ve been married for 39 years, with three adult children and five grandchildren!
Hello! I’m Kathleen Mates-Youngman, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, International Speaker, Author, and Yoga Teacher. I believe we are all works in progress, and that therapy is beneficial at times of crisis or challenge, as well as for general personal growth. I’ve been married for 39 years, with three adult children and five grandchildren!
(707) 383-3541 View (707) 383-3541
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LaToya Cheathon
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Santa Paula, CA 93060
Hello. I am LaToya Cheathon, Licensed Marriage n Family Therapist. I specialize in working with couples on sex and relationship related concerns. I help couples with improving healthy communication, increasing intimacy and emotionally safety in the relationship, and supporting the growth of each partner as an individual by exploring patterns that are present in their life and relationships. I utilize Gottman Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness when working with my clients.
Hello. I am LaToya Cheathon, Licensed Marriage n Family Therapist. I specialize in working with couples on sex and relationship related concerns. I help couples with improving healthy communication, increasing intimacy and emotionally safety in the relationship, and supporting the growth of each partner as an individual by exploring patterns that are present in their life and relationships. I utilize Gottman Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness when working with my clients.
(408) 539-0010 View (408) 539-0010
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Lluvia Mayorquin Autism And Disability Specialist
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Santa Paula, CA 93060
I am a neurodivergent Mexican- American Bilingual therapist. I strive to make therapy a judgement free place for honest self- exploration and growth. My specialties include working with Spanish Speaking Families, Autistic individuals, individuals living with chronic illness, OCD, and grief. I use a person-centered humanistic and trauma informed approach when helping clients process presenting issues. Currently I am seeing clients remotely.
I am a neurodivergent Mexican- American Bilingual therapist. I strive to make therapy a judgement free place for honest self- exploration and growth. My specialties include working with Spanish Speaking Families, Autistic individuals, individuals living with chronic illness, OCD, and grief. I use a person-centered humanistic and trauma informed approach when helping clients process presenting issues. Currently I am seeing clients remotely.
(805) 552-5913 View (805) 552-5913

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Andrew Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93004
Not accepting new clients
He has training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Mindfulness.
A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Andrew received his Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology with emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University. He earned his AB degree from Wabash College and has a Bible Certificate from Puget Sound Christian College. Andrew works with individuals, couples, and families and has worked with the treatment of anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief, sexual abuse, relationship issues, and substance abuse. He has experience leading group therapy. While working with a wide range of clients, he particularly enjoys working with tween, teen, and adult males and couples.
He has training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Mindfulness.
A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Andrew received his Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology with emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University. He earned his AB degree from Wabash College and has a Bible Certificate from Puget Sound Christian College. Andrew works with individuals, couples, and families and has worked with the treatment of anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief, sexual abuse, relationship issues, and substance abuse. He has experience leading group therapy. While working with a wide range of clients, he particularly enjoys working with tween, teen, and adult males and couples.
(805) 919-8613 View (805) 919-8613
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Azadeh Weber
Psychologist, LCP
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93004
I’m Dr. Azadeh Weber, a licensed Clinical Psychologist, with an emphasis on Holistic Health. My professional background includes mental health services for individuals, couples, and families. I am grateful to have a private practice and support people on their journeys to optimize their mental health. My approach to therapy is relational and heart-centric because rapport is integral to any and all work done in therapy. I run a therapeutic hobby farm and receive multiple grants to provide heritage art workshops to women to enhance resiliency.
I’m Dr. Azadeh Weber, a licensed Clinical Psychologist, with an emphasis on Holistic Health. My professional background includes mental health services for individuals, couples, and families. I am grateful to have a private practice and support people on their journeys to optimize their mental health. My approach to therapy is relational and heart-centric because rapport is integral to any and all work done in therapy. I run a therapeutic hobby farm and receive multiple grants to provide heritage art workshops to women to enhance resiliency.
(805) 323-9127 View (805) 323-9127
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Cheri Williams
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camarillo, CA 93010  (Online Only)
Sometimes life's challenges and personal struggles can't be overcome alone. Friends are wonderful for support; however, they aren't always equipped to guide us to the best solutions or self fulfillment that we inherently desire. My therapeutic approach involves both long and short term therapy to uncover hidden obstacles that may be hindering personal growth or healing. Together we can find strategies and tools to build upon the strengths and abilities that, perhaps, have been buried or are yet to be discovered.
Sometimes life's challenges and personal struggles can't be overcome alone. Friends are wonderful for support; however, they aren't always equipped to guide us to the best solutions or self fulfillment that we inherently desire. My therapeutic approach involves both long and short term therapy to uncover hidden obstacles that may be hindering personal growth or healing. Together we can find strategies and tools to build upon the strengths and abilities that, perhaps, have been buried or are yet to be discovered.
(818) 488-6434 View (818) 488-6434
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Dr. Tracy Bennett
Psychologist, MA, PhD
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93010
When life gets complicated you may need a safe, confidential space to figure things out with an experienced, nonjudgmental expert you trust. I've had a successful practice for over 25 yrs. Because each client and situation is unique, I've learned what it takes to help clients thrive. Using goal-oriented psychotherapy, I offer a prescriptive combination of strategies based on preference. By gaining insight into emotional and behavioral responses and applying best-fit coping skills, my clients get the relief they need to not just move through the challenges, but beyond them.
When life gets complicated you may need a safe, confidential space to figure things out with an experienced, nonjudgmental expert you trust. I've had a successful practice for over 25 yrs. Because each client and situation is unique, I've learned what it takes to help clients thrive. Using goal-oriented psychotherapy, I offer a prescriptive combination of strategies based on preference. By gaining insight into emotional and behavioral responses and applying best-fit coping skills, my clients get the relief they need to not just move through the challenges, but beyond them.
(805) 413-4674 View (805) 413-4674
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Mary Ann Lovegren
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93010
I have been practicing for over 20 years. I have an office in Westlake Village. I focus on couples and individuals to help them achieve and understand their personal goals. You can expect a warm caring environment which will provide you safety and insight on your journey to better overall health.
I have been practicing for over 20 years. I have an office in Westlake Village. I focus on couples and individuals to help them achieve and understand their personal goals. You can expect a warm caring environment which will provide you safety and insight on your journey to better overall health.
(805) 367-5953 View (805) 367-5953
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Alyssa Balli
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93010
Hello there! I'm Alyssa Balli, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based out of Southern California and providing telehealth therapy services statewide. I I'm passionate about working with individuals, adolescents and young adults and couples seeking to deepen their bonds, relationships and connections with others as well as themselves. I appreciate the opportunity to walk alongside others in their journey toward growth! I have a deep passion for working with trauma survivors and people looking to increase connection in relationships.
Hello there! I'm Alyssa Balli, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based out of Southern California and providing telehealth therapy services statewide. I I'm passionate about working with individuals, adolescents and young adults and couples seeking to deepen their bonds, relationships and connections with others as well as themselves. I appreciate the opportunity to walk alongside others in their journey toward growth! I have a deep passion for working with trauma survivors and people looking to increase connection in relationships.
(408) 351-4113 View (408) 351-4113
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Sommer Harriman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camarillo, CA 93010
Hi, my name is Sommer Harriman LCSW 108254. I have learned that navigating through this life can feel challenging and overwhelming. My goal is to offer a space that is nonjudgemental and client-centered. I believe in giving individuals the tools to not only survive but thrive in their life and find a path toward their authentic selves. My passion lies in giving individuals the time to sit in their space and allow them to explore the dark parts that can sometimes feel too big to look at.
Hi, my name is Sommer Harriman LCSW 108254. I have learned that navigating through this life can feel challenging and overwhelming. My goal is to offer a space that is nonjudgemental and client-centered. I believe in giving individuals the tools to not only survive but thrive in their life and find a path toward their authentic selves. My passion lies in giving individuals the time to sit in their space and allow them to explore the dark parts that can sometimes feel too big to look at.
(805) 624-3695 View (805) 624-3695
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Courtney Hart
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93010
My name is Courtney Hart LMFT and I enjoy assisting client in finding their true potential and life purpose through breaking down barriers caused by and related to mental health symptoms. I have been in the field for over 10 years working with diverse populations and ages. I have worked with individuals suffering from anxiety/depression and those with personality disorders. take a collective approach to therapy and apply interventions from various theories such as person centered, solution focused, CBT, DBT, trauma focused, family systems, positive psychology, and more.
My name is Courtney Hart LMFT and I enjoy assisting client in finding their true potential and life purpose through breaking down barriers caused by and related to mental health symptoms. I have been in the field for over 10 years working with diverse populations and ages. I have worked with individuals suffering from anxiety/depression and those with personality disorders. take a collective approach to therapy and apply interventions from various theories such as person centered, solution focused, CBT, DBT, trauma focused, family systems, positive psychology, and more.
(619) 494-2478 View (619) 494-2478
Nick Barneclo
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93010
I have been in private practice for over 20 years. I enjoy working with children, families, and adults in helping empowerment to overcome difficult periods in life. While I do have occasional openings for therapy, I specialize in psychological testing and understanding the "big picture" to provide diagnosis and direction for treatment. I can assist in evaluations for learning disabilities, ADHD, Autism, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Neuropsychological deficits, developmental delays, behavior disorders, sexual disorders, Forensic (Competency, Psychosexual risk), school evaluations, Spanish-speaking evals, and more.
I have been in private practice for over 20 years. I enjoy working with children, families, and adults in helping empowerment to overcome difficult periods in life. While I do have occasional openings for therapy, I specialize in psychological testing and understanding the "big picture" to provide diagnosis and direction for treatment. I can assist in evaluations for learning disabilities, ADHD, Autism, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Neuropsychological deficits, developmental delays, behavior disorders, sexual disorders, Forensic (Competency, Psychosexual risk), school evaluations, Spanish-speaking evals, and more.
(310) 919-0119 View (310) 919-0119
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Maggie Hernandez
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Camarillo, CA 93010
It can be challenging to find a therapist who gets you and can hold space for what you're dealing with. I help my clients achieve post-traumatic growth in a relaxed environment through my straightforward (no BS), compassionate, and respectful approach. I understand healing can be messy and growth can be uncomfortable, so I blend empathy and genuine curiosity with some dark humor and the occasional f-bomb to create a brave space for my clients to work through their most challenging experiences.
It can be challenging to find a therapist who gets you and can hold space for what you're dealing with. I help my clients achieve post-traumatic growth in a relaxed environment through my straightforward (no BS), compassionate, and respectful approach. I understand healing can be messy and growth can be uncomfortable, so I blend empathy and genuine curiosity with some dark humor and the occasional f-bomb to create a brave space for my clients to work through their most challenging experiences.
(805) 918-8218 View (805) 918-8218
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Linda Marlene Henson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93011
"Communication is the key to a healthy relationship." Ever heard this before? One of the most talked about subjects when it comes to romantic relationships is communication. But what about it? How can couples have good communication and create a healthy relationship? So much time is spent investing in finding the right person only to have difficulties and a breakdown in communication and ultimately the union. One of the most important relationships in our lives is our romantic relationship. Learning to understand each other and develop that deep emotional connection and lasting bond is one of the tasks that couples face.
"Communication is the key to a healthy relationship." Ever heard this before? One of the most talked about subjects when it comes to romantic relationships is communication. But what about it? How can couples have good communication and create a healthy relationship? So much time is spent investing in finding the right person only to have difficulties and a breakdown in communication and ultimately the union. One of the most important relationships in our lives is our romantic relationship. Learning to understand each other and develop that deep emotional connection and lasting bond is one of the tasks that couples face.
(805) 465-7998 View (805) 465-7998
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Michelle Giguère
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, EMDR, Somatic, Reiki
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camarillo, CA 93010
It is so exhausting living inside a traumatized body and mind. Anxiety that seems to come out of nowhere; thoughts, feelings, and the overwhelm of re-experiencing events. Feelings of unsafety or a constant need to be hyperaware. Insomnia, changes in appetite make matters worse because the body and mind don't get the needed fuel and rest leading to cycles of collapse. The anxiety and collapse cycle can cause us to feel disconnected from ourselves, loved ones and the world. We can lose trust in our own judgment and ability to heal. My approach is informed by a holistic integration of practices to help reconnect mind, body and soul.
It is so exhausting living inside a traumatized body and mind. Anxiety that seems to come out of nowhere; thoughts, feelings, and the overwhelm of re-experiencing events. Feelings of unsafety or a constant need to be hyperaware. Insomnia, changes in appetite make matters worse because the body and mind don't get the needed fuel and rest leading to cycles of collapse. The anxiety and collapse cycle can cause us to feel disconnected from ourselves, loved ones and the world. We can lose trust in our own judgment and ability to heal. My approach is informed by a holistic integration of practices to help reconnect mind, body and soul.
(805) 243-3980 View (805) 243-3980
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Nancy Spears
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Camarillo, CA 93010
A successful counseling experience begins with a strong client/therapist rapport. As you consider your many highly-qualified options, look for professionals who specialize in your area of need and share your passion for growth. With an emphasis on high-conflict marital therapy, my expertise lies in helping clients develop crucial life-enhancement skills (e.g.-communication/conflict resolution/anger management) and a healthy sense of self. Using a variety of approaches, we will work together to build on strengths to maximize growth by learning and adapting more productive inter-relational methods, resulting in greater relationship satisfaction.
A successful counseling experience begins with a strong client/therapist rapport. As you consider your many highly-qualified options, look for professionals who specialize in your area of need and share your passion for growth. With an emphasis on high-conflict marital therapy, my expertise lies in helping clients develop crucial life-enhancement skills (e.g.-communication/conflict resolution/anger management) and a healthy sense of self. Using a variety of approaches, we will work together to build on strengths to maximize growth by learning and adapting more productive inter-relational methods, resulting in greater relationship satisfaction.
(615) 437-4121 View (615) 437-4121
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Taj-Zsa Hower
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camarillo, CA 93010
Not accepting new clients
Connecting with a therapist is an excellent way to begin healing and working towards your mental health goals. My name is Taj-Zsa Hower, and I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, as well as the owner of Minding My Own Therapy. I have over 9 years of experience and professional training providing mental health services to a multitude of diverse individuals and couples. I primarily specialize in working with Perinatal & Postpartum women, those dealing with Identity issues, provide support to Couples experiencing difficulties, work with college students, and treat those struggling with Anxiety & Depression.
Connecting with a therapist is an excellent way to begin healing and working towards your mental health goals. My name is Taj-Zsa Hower, and I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, as well as the owner of Minding My Own Therapy. I have over 9 years of experience and professional training providing mental health services to a multitude of diverse individuals and couples. I primarily specialize in working with Perinatal & Postpartum women, those dealing with Identity issues, provide support to Couples experiencing difficulties, work with college students, and treat those struggling with Anxiety & Depression.
(805) 360-4289 View (805) 360-4289
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Amie Deitel
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Camarillo, CA 93010
Considering making some changes in your life or wondering why life has you down? I trust you have good reason for being concerned. As a trauma-informed therapist and Certified Mindfulness-Informed Professional, I want to hear all about it.
Considering making some changes in your life or wondering why life has you down? I trust you have good reason for being concerned. As a trauma-informed therapist and Certified Mindfulness-Informed Professional, I want to hear all about it.
(805) 628-2108 View (805) 628-2108

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.