Gottman Method Therapists in San Marcos, CA
Bethany Reddinger
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
For couples, I work within the Gottman Method framework to prioritize connection and communication in marriages adjusting to the ever-changing demands of planning a family, pregnancy, or parenting.
Mamas – are you overwhelmed? As a therapist, I’m passionate about serving YOU, whether you are hopeful, expectant, grieving, newly parenting, or seasoned. I am trained in Perinatal Mental Health through Postpartum Support International, and I am passionate about serving clients through the unacknowledged overwhelm of parenting in this modern age. The de-prioritization of maternal mental health in our culture impacts all facets of life, and often creates in us guilt, self-criticism, isolation, and exhaustion. Our work together can expand the ability to manage these struggles, as well as grow capacity for insight and self-compassion.
For couples, I work within the Gottman Method framework to prioritize connection and communication in marriages adjusting to the ever-changing demands of planning a family, pregnancy, or parenting.
Mamas – are you overwhelmed? As a therapist, I’m passionate about serving YOU, whether you are hopeful, expectant, grieving, newly parenting, or seasoned. I am trained in Perinatal Mental Health through Postpartum Support International, and I am passionate about serving clients through the unacknowledged overwhelm of parenting in this modern age. The de-prioritization of maternal mental health in our culture impacts all facets of life, and often creates in us guilt, self-criticism, isolation, and exhaustion. Our work together can expand the ability to manage these struggles, as well as grow capacity for insight and self-compassion.
I help couples that feel disconnected, resentful, unheard, under-appreciated, or who struggle to have productive discussions around conflictual topics. I'm here to help. I use Gottman method in my couples work. Gottman Method is an evidence-based treatment to address all of these relational issues and more. Gottman Method blends processing old wounds, enhancing connection and understanding, and relational skill building. These skills are wide ranging and include: building a friendship, conflict management, and building a life together that honors both partner's dreams.
I help couples that feel disconnected, resentful, unheard, under-appreciated, or who struggle to have productive discussions around conflictual topics. I'm here to help. I use Gottman method in my couples work. Gottman Method is an evidence-based treatment to address all of these relational issues and more. Gottman Method blends processing old wounds, enhancing connection and understanding, and relational skill building. These skills are wide ranging and include: building a friendship, conflict management, and building a life together that honors both partner's dreams.
Has your relationship lost a bit of its spark? Maybe you’re feeling more like roommates than soulmates these days. Life gets busy, routines take over, and before you know it, that deep emotional connection you once had feels distant. Your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck in “just getting by” mode. I can help you reignite that spark, refresh your emotional connection, and rebuild the closeness that makes a relationship truly fulfilling. Together, we’ll uncover what’s been causing the drift, and I’ll guide you through proven strategies to: Communicate better—so you both feel heard and understood.
Has your relationship lost a bit of its spark? Maybe you’re feeling more like roommates than soulmates these days. Life gets busy, routines take over, and before you know it, that deep emotional connection you once had feels distant. Your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck in “just getting by” mode. I can help you reignite that spark, refresh your emotional connection, and rebuild the closeness that makes a relationship truly fulfilling. Together, we’ll uncover what’s been causing the drift, and I’ll guide you through proven strategies to: Communicate better—so you both feel heard and understood.
Laura Fish
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078 (Online Only)
If you are looking to alter your patterns of behavior, to strengthen relationships, or a parent in need of proven strategies to promote healthy behavior in your children, I can help. Please visit my website at laurafishtherapy.com to learn more about my approach. Therapy doesn't have to be long term. It is simply an opportunity for someone to help you begin the process of change. I'd love to hear more from you about what you would like to leave behind and what you would like to call forward into your life.
If you are looking to alter your patterns of behavior, to strengthen relationships, or a parent in need of proven strategies to promote healthy behavior in your children, I can help. Please visit my website at laurafishtherapy.com to learn more about my approach. Therapy doesn't have to be long term. It is simply an opportunity for someone to help you begin the process of change. I'd love to hear more from you about what you would like to leave behind and what you would like to call forward into your life.
I am a therapist at Mindbodyology - Integrative Mental Health & Wellness. I am a trauma informed and "tuned in" therapist, making me a caring and supportive clinician. I am focused on ensuring that individuals feel safe to discover their true selves, develop resilience and can navigate their futures in healthy and optimistic ways. I have a unique integrative approach. My experiences, education and training have made me the ideal therapist for teens, individual adults and couples who want to grow in positivity, build self-esteem, learn how to manage life’s stressors and navigate challenging interpersonal relationships.
I am a therapist at Mindbodyology - Integrative Mental Health & Wellness. I am a trauma informed and "tuned in" therapist, making me a caring and supportive clinician. I am focused on ensuring that individuals feel safe to discover their true selves, develop resilience and can navigate their futures in healthy and optimistic ways. I have a unique integrative approach. My experiences, education and training have made me the ideal therapist for teens, individual adults and couples who want to grow in positivity, build self-esteem, learn how to manage life’s stressors and navigate challenging interpersonal relationships.
I specialize in couples, individuals and grief (AMFT: 140894). I'm also the owner of therapy is cool club – a hat and merchandise brand designed to help de-stigmatize what it means to be going to therapy.
I specialize in couples, individuals and grief (AMFT: 140894). I'm also the owner of therapy is cool club – a hat and merchandise brand designed to help de-stigmatize what it means to be going to therapy.
Kelli Larose
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92069 (Online Only)
As a compassionate and dedicated therapist, I am committed to providing a safe and supportive environment where people can explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. With over 20 years of experience in the field, I specialize in helping individuals overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship issues. Life is hard. If you would like to learn how to achieve your goals, overcome the challenges that life has thrown at you, and desire to live a more fulfilling and meaningful life, then I am here to help you get started.
As a compassionate and dedicated therapist, I am committed to providing a safe and supportive environment where people can explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. With over 20 years of experience in the field, I specialize in helping individuals overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship issues. Life is hard. If you would like to learn how to achieve your goals, overcome the challenges that life has thrown at you, and desire to live a more fulfilling and meaningful life, then I am here to help you get started.
The Mindful Lemon
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078 (Online Only)
Our mission is to provide quality online mental health and substance abuse services while breaking down the barriers of traditional, office based therapy. Traditional mental health and substance abuse treatment tends to focus on what makes you sick, what you are lacking but at The Mindful Lemon, our clinicians let you sit in the driver’s seat, focusing on your strengths and assets to help you become the best version of you! This can be via traditional talk therapy, medication management, mindfulness techniques, an emphasis on health, wellness and fitness or any combination of the above.
Our mission is to provide quality online mental health and substance abuse services while breaking down the barriers of traditional, office based therapy. Traditional mental health and substance abuse treatment tends to focus on what makes you sick, what you are lacking but at The Mindful Lemon, our clinicians let you sit in the driver’s seat, focusing on your strengths and assets to help you become the best version of you! This can be via traditional talk therapy, medication management, mindfulness techniques, an emphasis on health, wellness and fitness or any combination of the above.
Hello, I am Kim Coshnear, a dedicated Marriage and Family Therapist licensed in California. My mission is to cultivate a nurturing and accepting environment, empowering clients to embrace self-acceptance and pursue transformative changes that enrich their lives. In my practice, I specialize in assisting individuals grappling with depression, anxiety, and addiction, and navigating complex questions about relationships, personal identity, and life's purpose.
Hello, I am Kim Coshnear, a dedicated Marriage and Family Therapist licensed in California. My mission is to cultivate a nurturing and accepting environment, empowering clients to embrace self-acceptance and pursue transformative changes that enrich their lives. In my practice, I specialize in assisting individuals grappling with depression, anxiety, and addiction, and navigating complex questions about relationships, personal identity, and life's purpose.
At Behavioral Healthcare Partners, our goal is to promote behavioral health and wellness to achieve life's potential and fulfillment within the individual, family, and community. Dr. Vincent Castro and Dr. Denise Gonzales, both Licensed Psychologists, have 43 years combined experience in providing therapeutic services on concerns related to child/adolescent behavioral problems, abuse and neglect, depression, anxiety, grief/loss, coping with medical concerns, family discord, parenting, couples therapy, military/law enforcement concerns, personal growth/wellness, stress/anger management, trauma, and work/career issues. BHP services also include assessment and evaluation, short-term solution focused interventions, consultations, and psychological testing.
At Behavioral Healthcare Partners, our goal is to promote behavioral health and wellness to achieve life's potential and fulfillment within the individual, family, and community. Dr. Vincent Castro and Dr. Denise Gonzales, both Licensed Psychologists, have 43 years combined experience in providing therapeutic services on concerns related to child/adolescent behavioral problems, abuse and neglect, depression, anxiety, grief/loss, coping with medical concerns, family discord, parenting, couples therapy, military/law enforcement concerns, personal growth/wellness, stress/anger management, trauma, and work/career issues. BHP services also include assessment and evaluation, short-term solution focused interventions, consultations, and psychological testing.
Mark Triboulet
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92069
Sitting at the cross roads of life not knowing which direction to take or perhaps cemented in the very spot where we stand, seems to be where many find themselves today. With the weight of past traumas, present stress and frustrations, and future worries of what is to come sitting upon our shoulders, we attempt to carry even more weight from our families and friends. At some point our shoulders begin to give amongst the burden that cannot be carried alone. We find ourselves in distress feeling hopeless, helpless and broken.
Sitting at the cross roads of life not knowing which direction to take or perhaps cemented in the very spot where we stand, seems to be where many find themselves today. With the weight of past traumas, present stress and frustrations, and future worries of what is to come sitting upon our shoulders, we attempt to carry even more weight from our families and friends. At some point our shoulders begin to give amongst the burden that cannot be carried alone. We find ourselves in distress feeling hopeless, helpless and broken.
Kristine Olivas
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
Are you interested in finding your life purpose? Sometimes not being on your life path may feel like you're treading water. Or perhaps, you feel depressed - a void inside that leaves you feeling hopeless and alone. If you're feeling anxious - you may be miserable with extreme panic attacks or the inability to focus on family and work. I help you learn skills to find the origins of these feelings, clear them and develop the life you dream of. This process is respectful of you and a partnership designed to assist you on your life journey.
Are you interested in finding your life purpose? Sometimes not being on your life path may feel like you're treading water. Or perhaps, you feel depressed - a void inside that leaves you feeling hopeless and alone. If you're feeling anxious - you may be miserable with extreme panic attacks or the inability to focus on family and work. I help you learn skills to find the origins of these feelings, clear them and develop the life you dream of. This process is respectful of you and a partnership designed to assist you on your life journey.
Rebecca D. Dennison
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
We all struggle and can face many difficulties as we maneuver through life. These struggles often come in our relationships as we learn about ourselves and our loved ones, sometimes causing pain, anxiety and depression. I am a christian therapist and owner at Coastline Counseling Group, who is here to come alongside my clients in the struggles they face in their individual lives, marriages and families and to offer hope for the future and healing in the present. I especially enjoy working with women suffering from anxiety and depression, couples seeking a better relationship, teens, and families.
We all struggle and can face many difficulties as we maneuver through life. These struggles often come in our relationships as we learn about ourselves and our loved ones, sometimes causing pain, anxiety and depression. I am a christian therapist and owner at Coastline Counseling Group, who is here to come alongside my clients in the struggles they face in their individual lives, marriages and families and to offer hope for the future and healing in the present. I especially enjoy working with women suffering from anxiety and depression, couples seeking a better relationship, teens, and families.
Roya Bayat-Makoui
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069
My name is Roya Bayat-Makoui and I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) with an MBA degree. The majority of my psychotherapy experience has been at a trauma center with clients of all ages and cultural backgrounds. I also have years of experience with the forensic population in group and individual therapy settings using eclectic approaches to address PTSD, depression, anxiety, situational stress, loss and grief, and work and family difficulties. My approach to therapy is eclectic as everyone is different and their needs vary. Depending on the age and situation of my client.
My name is Roya Bayat-Makoui and I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) with an MBA degree. The majority of my psychotherapy experience has been at a trauma center with clients of all ages and cultural backgrounds. I also have years of experience with the forensic population in group and individual therapy settings using eclectic approaches to address PTSD, depression, anxiety, situational stress, loss and grief, and work and family difficulties. My approach to therapy is eclectic as everyone is different and their needs vary. Depending on the age and situation of my client.
Nice to meet you. I'm Michael Bean, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist License MFC40911 My wife and I have raised 4 awesome kids (awesome adults now) & have learned to love each other & to love life despite a lot of challenges. My passion is helping people figure out how to live happily too. My clients are mostly older adolescents and adults who are struggling with grief and loss, anxiety, depression, chronic illness, and difficult and complicated relationships.
Nice to meet you. I'm Michael Bean, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist License MFC40911 My wife and I have raised 4 awesome kids (awesome adults now) & have learned to love each other & to love life despite a lot of challenges. My passion is helping people figure out how to live happily too. My clients are mostly older adolescents and adults who are struggling with grief and loss, anxiety, depression, chronic illness, and difficult and complicated relationships.
As a life coach, I help my clients formulate goals and see them through completion. I believe each individual has a unique life purpose to fulfill. I help my clients live meaningful and fulfilled lives by utilizing a comprehensive approach. I utilize a structured program alongside a deep understanding of positive psychology, personality factors, physical wellness, and culture to guide individuals through their journey of recovery. I apply my extensive training in psychology and a system I developed to help clients navigate interpersonal relationships, mental health challenges, stress, sudden life changes, and health issues.
As a life coach, I help my clients formulate goals and see them through completion. I believe each individual has a unique life purpose to fulfill. I help my clients live meaningful and fulfilled lives by utilizing a comprehensive approach. I utilize a structured program alongside a deep understanding of positive psychology, personality factors, physical wellness, and culture to guide individuals through their journey of recovery. I apply my extensive training in psychology and a system I developed to help clients navigate interpersonal relationships, mental health challenges, stress, sudden life changes, and health issues.
Hi, my name is Leslie Westbrook, and I am an LMFT (127260). I am passionate about helping clients achieve their goals, and I believe I have the skills and knowledge to do just that. I'm excited to learn more about you and how I can help. My approach to providing therapy is to create a safe and nonjudgmental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I believe in taking an integrative approach that draws from a variety of therapeutic modalities, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, person-centered therapy, and mindfulness-based therapies.
Hi, my name is Leslie Westbrook, and I am an LMFT (127260). I am passionate about helping clients achieve their goals, and I believe I have the skills and knowledge to do just that. I'm excited to learn more about you and how I can help. My approach to providing therapy is to create a safe and nonjudgmental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I believe in taking an integrative approach that draws from a variety of therapeutic modalities, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, person-centered therapy, and mindfulness-based therapies.
Adrienne Petty
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, APCC
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069
It's hard to be a human sometimes, isn't it? Trauma, stress, anxiety, grief, and pain can overshadow the joy and peace our hearts and minds long for. We may find we are not living the life we truly desire, or we may wonder how we will ever find our way back to ourselves. I'm no stranger to life’s challenges but wholeheartedly believe it is still possible to find hope and healing even in our most difficult seasons. My passion is to companion with clients as they learn new skills, develop resilience, reclaim wholeness, and pursue a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
It's hard to be a human sometimes, isn't it? Trauma, stress, anxiety, grief, and pain can overshadow the joy and peace our hearts and minds long for. We may find we are not living the life we truly desire, or we may wonder how we will ever find our way back to ourselves. I'm no stranger to life’s challenges but wholeheartedly believe it is still possible to find hope and healing even in our most difficult seasons. My passion is to companion with clients as they learn new skills, develop resilience, reclaim wholeness, and pursue a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
Janet K Bastien
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069 (Online Only)
My passion as a therapist is to help individuals, parents, and children explore their challenges, from either the present or past. When clients are self-motivated to apply methods and skills whether for themselves or their family, positive transformation will happen! If you want to learn positive parenting skills, teach children the value of self-esteem, or identify behaviors and maladapted attachments, all of this is talk-able and worthy of investing your time and energy. I am here to listen and help dissolve trauma from childhood or social-emotional experiences in order to regain a healthy and happy life!
My passion as a therapist is to help individuals, parents, and children explore their challenges, from either the present or past. When clients are self-motivated to apply methods and skills whether for themselves or their family, positive transformation will happen! If you want to learn positive parenting skills, teach children the value of self-esteem, or identify behaviors and maladapted attachments, all of this is talk-able and worthy of investing your time and energy. I am here to listen and help dissolve trauma from childhood or social-emotional experiences in order to regain a healthy and happy life!
People who struggle with Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, and many other emotionally painful conditions just wish they had someone to talk to. Multiple traumas often occur over time, often within an atmosphere of attachment disordered relationships, neglect, and/or abandonment. You may have experienced child abuse, sexual abuse, grief, and loss. You may have grown up with family addiction/ partner addiction. At this point in your life you want answers to why you end up in the same relationships, and you need assurance things can change.
People who struggle with Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, and many other emotionally painful conditions just wish they had someone to talk to. Multiple traumas often occur over time, often within an atmosphere of attachment disordered relationships, neglect, and/or abandonment. You may have experienced child abuse, sexual abuse, grief, and loss. You may have grown up with family addiction/ partner addiction. At this point in your life you want answers to why you end up in the same relationships, and you need assurance things can change.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.