Codependency Therapists in San Marcos, CA

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Karisa Kloscak
Licensed Professional Counselor, MC, LPC, SEP, RYT-200, EAP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
Karisa uses techniques derived from cutting edge therapy models and evidenced based models that include Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Equilateral (EA-EMDR), Pia Mellody's PIT Model for Codependency and trauma resolution, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing Therapy for trauma resolution and nervous system regulation.
Karisa is a Licensed Professional Counselor in AZ and CA as well as a Yoga Teacher and Equine Assisted Psychotherapist specializing in trauma and crisis resolution models. She started her career in community mental health working with the Seriously Mentally Ill (SMI) population. She currently works with all levels of mental health. Feeling comfortable with your therapist is crucial to the healing process. Her intention is to support clients by providing a safe and nurturing environment to allow for trauma resolution.
Karisa uses techniques derived from cutting edge therapy models and evidenced based models that include Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Equilateral (EA-EMDR), Pia Mellody's PIT Model for Codependency and trauma resolution, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing Therapy for trauma resolution and nervous system regulation.
Karisa is a Licensed Professional Counselor in AZ and CA as well as a Yoga Teacher and Equine Assisted Psychotherapist specializing in trauma and crisis resolution models. She started her career in community mental health working with the Seriously Mentally Ill (SMI) population. She currently works with all levels of mental health. Feeling comfortable with your therapist is crucial to the healing process. Her intention is to support clients by providing a safe and nurturing environment to allow for trauma resolution.
(480) 999-3814 View (480) 999-3814
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Hamsa Healing Space
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, CRC, LPCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92069  (Online Only)
I specialize in: PTSD, Sex & Intimacy, Anger, Self Sabotage, Bipolar, Codependency, Relational Trauma.
I specialize in sex, porn, drug and alcohol addiction, trauma, sexual abuse, affairs and infidelity, grief, Men's anger, and Bipolar disorder. I provide individual and Couples therapy. I work with issues that I have lived experience with. I didn't just read and learn about cheating, drugs, sexual trauma, and the fallout that follows these experiences; I have walked your path and have been in your position.
I specialize in: PTSD, Sex & Intimacy, Anger, Self Sabotage, Bipolar, Codependency, Relational Trauma.
I specialize in sex, porn, drug and alcohol addiction, trauma, sexual abuse, affairs and infidelity, grief, Men's anger, and Bipolar disorder. I provide individual and Couples therapy. I work with issues that I have lived experience with. I didn't just read and learn about cheating, drugs, sexual trauma, and the fallout that follows these experiences; I have walked your path and have been in your position.
(858) 779-0685 View (858) 779-0685
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Jordan Morrison
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078
While serving these populations I have treated issues such as complex trauma, sexual abuse, self-harm, major depression, general anxiety, issues with identity or personality, men’s issues, emotional codependency, various forms of stress induced concerns, life transitions, as well as marriage and family relationship problems.
Hello, my name is Jordan Morrison, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 133351) based in Santa Rosa, CA. I am highly experienced in working with adults from diverse cultural or socioeconomic backgrounds, and I specialize in treating trauma, depression, anxiety, immigration issues, men's issues, life transitions, grief, and relationship problems often utilizing a psychodynamic approach. I believe access to mental healthcare should be available to anyone who needs or wants it. Therefore, I have worked extensively with underserved and underrepresented folks from a variety of cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds.
While serving these populations I have treated issues such as complex trauma, sexual abuse, self-harm, major depression, general anxiety, issues with identity or personality, men’s issues, emotional codependency, various forms of stress induced concerns, life transitions, as well as marriage and family relationship problems.
Hello, my name is Jordan Morrison, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 133351) based in Santa Rosa, CA. I am highly experienced in working with adults from diverse cultural or socioeconomic backgrounds, and I specialize in treating trauma, depression, anxiety, immigration issues, men's issues, life transitions, grief, and relationship problems often utilizing a psychodynamic approach. I believe access to mental healthcare should be available to anyone who needs or wants it. Therefore, I have worked extensively with underserved and underrepresented folks from a variety of cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds.
(760) 313-6820 View (760) 313-6820
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Ashley Azin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069
You are here because you are hurting and want to heal. Healing is possible and you deserve love and acceptance for just being you- your full authentic self. I have been treating anxiety, depression, identity, codependency, eating disorders, low self esteem and relationships issues in children, teens and adults since 2007. My therapeutic style is often more directive, as I see myself as a part of your therapeutic process-not a quiet observer. I use a balance of cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and exploring how your childhood shaped your current thoughts and behaviors.
You are here because you are hurting and want to heal. Healing is possible and you deserve love and acceptance for just being you- your full authentic self. I have been treating anxiety, depression, identity, codependency, eating disorders, low self esteem and relationships issues in children, teens and adults since 2007. My therapeutic style is often more directive, as I see myself as a part of your therapeutic process-not a quiet observer. I use a balance of cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and exploring how your childhood shaped your current thoughts and behaviors.
(858) 386-7502 View (858) 386-7502
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Karine Johannes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069
My name is Karine Johannes and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Sherman Oaks, California working with clients statewide via telehealth. I work with young adults and specialize in treating depression, anxiety, and codependency. My therapeutic style is compassionate, interactive, supportive, and tailored to the unique needs of each individual. My approach is trauma-informed, LGBTQ, and BIPOC-affirming. I assess each person from a holistic perspective and look forward to helping you with your healthcare concerns.
My name is Karine Johannes and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Sherman Oaks, California working with clients statewide via telehealth. I work with young adults and specialize in treating depression, anxiety, and codependency. My therapeutic style is compassionate, interactive, supportive, and tailored to the unique needs of each individual. My approach is trauma-informed, LGBTQ, and BIPOC-affirming. I assess each person from a holistic perspective and look forward to helping you with your healthcare concerns.
(408) 207-4644 View (408) 207-4644
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Richard Lenchner
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069
My focus is on adult individuals who struggle with addiction, grief/loss, depression, anxiety, codependency, motivation, self-esteem/worth issues, trauma and finding their balance in life.
My name is Richard Lenchner, LMFT and I have been a practicing therapist for approximately 31 years. I believe that everyone deserves a happy and healthy life. This can be achieved when you learn how to balance your life emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally (ESPM). I specialize in helping individuals deal with addiction/recovery, grief/loss, depression, anxiety, codependency, motivation, self-esteem/worth and finding their balance. Together we can work on helping you achieve confidence, happiness and a fulfilling life.
My focus is on adult individuals who struggle with addiction, grief/loss, depression, anxiety, codependency, motivation, self-esteem/worth issues, trauma and finding their balance in life.
My name is Richard Lenchner, LMFT and I have been a practicing therapist for approximately 31 years. I believe that everyone deserves a happy and healthy life. This can be achieved when you learn how to balance your life emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally (ESPM). I specialize in helping individuals deal with addiction/recovery, grief/loss, depression, anxiety, codependency, motivation, self-esteem/worth and finding their balance. Together we can work on helping you achieve confidence, happiness and a fulfilling life.
(909) 414-0885 View (909) 414-0885
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Emily Corner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, PhD
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078  (Online Only)
Hello and welcome! I appreciate you clicking on my page to learn more about my practice. I focus on helping adult individuals heal from all forms of trauma, including emotional, physical, sexual, and attachment injuries. I specialize in using EMDR and inner child work to help clients heal from their past traumatic experiences.
Hello and welcome! I appreciate you clicking on my page to learn more about my practice. I focus on helping adult individuals heal from all forms of trauma, including emotional, physical, sexual, and attachment injuries. I specialize in using EMDR and inner child work to help clients heal from their past traumatic experiences.
(760) 239-5387 View (760) 239-5387
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Evan Endres
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078  (Online Only)
Life can be incredibly challenging, and we all encounter struggles that can lead to deep suffering and pain. These difficult moments can feel overwhelming and isolating, making it hard to see beyond the immediate distress. Yet, within these very experiences lie opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Whether you're grappling with stress, anxiety, depression, life transitions, or unresolved trauma, these trials can also be invitations to explore your inner strength and resilience. Each challenge has the potential to spark profound personal development and transformation.
Life can be incredibly challenging, and we all encounter struggles that can lead to deep suffering and pain. These difficult moments can feel overwhelming and isolating, making it hard to see beyond the immediate distress. Yet, within these very experiences lie opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Whether you're grappling with stress, anxiety, depression, life transitions, or unresolved trauma, these trials can also be invitations to explore your inner strength and resilience. Each challenge has the potential to spark profound personal development and transformation.
(760) 991-3794 View (760) 991-3794
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Rosalyn Warren
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069
My name is Rosalyn Warren. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have experience as a medical social worker, child welfare social worker, private therapist, and social worker in prisons and on parole. I have worked with children and adolescents in therapy, young adults, adults, and older adults. I have been licensed for 20 years as an LCSW, and I have been an MSW for 30 years. I am currently working on my doctorate degree in Social Work at USC.
My name is Rosalyn Warren. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have experience as a medical social worker, child welfare social worker, private therapist, and social worker in prisons and on parole. I have worked with children and adolescents in therapy, young adults, adults, and older adults. I have been licensed for 20 years as an LCSW, and I have been an MSW for 30 years. I am currently working on my doctorate degree in Social Work at USC.
(760) 919-4529 View (760) 919-4529
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Tami Earnhart - Art Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, ATR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
You’re worried about your child. You wonder if they need therapy and it’s weighing on you. You’ve tried talking to them, reasoning why their fear doesn’t make sense, but it never seems to make a difference. I help anxious kids & worried parents feel safe and at ease. I get that you just want your child to feel more carefree and express themselves more confidently. Today, you’re searching for a child therapist because you know if you don’t get help, nothing is going to change for your child. And something has got to change. I understand.
You’re worried about your child. You wonder if they need therapy and it’s weighing on you. You’ve tried talking to them, reasoning why their fear doesn’t make sense, but it never seems to make a difference. I help anxious kids & worried parents feel safe and at ease. I get that you just want your child to feel more carefree and express themselves more confidently. Today, you’re searching for a child therapist because you know if you don’t get help, nothing is going to change for your child. And something has got to change. I understand.
(760) 840-5477 View (760) 840-5477
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Jamillah Pargo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
Are you experiencing Hopelessness, Sadness, Worthlessness, Panic Attacks, Racing Thoughts, or Fear? Do you lay awake at night WORRYING about EVERYTHING? Are your worries or fears a constant cycle? Do you avoid interaction with loved ones, or maybe you don't want to be a burden to family or friends, so you begin isolating from everyone? Do you ever say, “I can’t take this anymore?” Do you feel alone in your problems? You are not alone, whether you're dealing with Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Issues, Health Crisis, Midlife Crisis, or just unsure how to move forward in life, assisting adults redefine life is my passion & purpose.
Are you experiencing Hopelessness, Sadness, Worthlessness, Panic Attacks, Racing Thoughts, or Fear? Do you lay awake at night WORRYING about EVERYTHING? Are your worries or fears a constant cycle? Do you avoid interaction with loved ones, or maybe you don't want to be a burden to family or friends, so you begin isolating from everyone? Do you ever say, “I can’t take this anymore?” Do you feel alone in your problems? You are not alone, whether you're dealing with Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Issues, Health Crisis, Midlife Crisis, or just unsure how to move forward in life, assisting adults redefine life is my passion & purpose.
(619) 736-2408 View (619) 736-2408
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Dr. Teri Davis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, EdD, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92069  (Online Only)
Are you experiencing anxiety or have history of trauma? I work with individual adults struggling with anxiety, stress, trauma, shame, boundary and self-esteem issues. Offering a spiritual, sensitive, holistic, client-centered approach, I can guide those who are seeking a place of healing and stability. Focusing on your strengths we'll work together to uncover insights and unhealthy patterns to discover solutions and help identify new perspectives for building your resilience. Mental health problems don't define who you are. They are something you experience. You walk in the rain and you feel the rain, but, you are NOT the rain.
Are you experiencing anxiety or have history of trauma? I work with individual adults struggling with anxiety, stress, trauma, shame, boundary and self-esteem issues. Offering a spiritual, sensitive, holistic, client-centered approach, I can guide those who are seeking a place of healing and stability. Focusing on your strengths we'll work together to uncover insights and unhealthy patterns to discover solutions and help identify new perspectives for building your resilience. Mental health problems don't define who you are. They are something you experience. You walk in the rain and you feel the rain, but, you are NOT the rain.
(760) 891-5935 View (760) 891-5935
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Laura Fish
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078  (Online Only)
If you are looking to alter your patterns of behavior, to strengthen relationships, or a parent in need of proven strategies to promote healthy behavior in your children, I can help. Please visit my website at laurafishtherapy.com to learn more about my approach. Therapy doesn't have to be long term. It is simply an opportunity for someone to help you begin the process of change. I'd love to hear more from you about what you would like to leave behind and what you would like to call forward into your life.
If you are looking to alter your patterns of behavior, to strengthen relationships, or a parent in need of proven strategies to promote healthy behavior in your children, I can help. Please visit my website at laurafishtherapy.com to learn more about my approach. Therapy doesn't have to be long term. It is simply an opportunity for someone to help you begin the process of change. I'd love to hear more from you about what you would like to leave behind and what you would like to call forward into your life.
(760) 712-4002 View (760) 712-4002
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Megan Haase
Counselor, LMHC, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078  (Online Only)
Has your relationship lost a bit of its spark? Maybe you’re feeling more like roommates than soulmates these days. Life gets busy, routines take over, and before you know it, that deep emotional connection you once had feels distant. Your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck in “just getting by” mode. I can help you reignite that spark, refresh your emotional connection, and rebuild the closeness that makes a relationship truly fulfilling. Together, we’ll uncover what’s been causing the drift, and I’ll guide you through proven strategies to: Communicate better—so you both feel heard and understood.
Has your relationship lost a bit of its spark? Maybe you’re feeling more like roommates than soulmates these days. Life gets busy, routines take over, and before you know it, that deep emotional connection you once had feels distant. Your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck in “just getting by” mode. I can help you reignite that spark, refresh your emotional connection, and rebuild the closeness that makes a relationship truly fulfilling. Together, we’ll uncover what’s been causing the drift, and I’ll guide you through proven strategies to: Communicate better—so you both feel heard and understood.
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Trevino Counseling & Wellness
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
Have you been feeling anxious, angry, hurt, sad? It's not just one thing that happened in your life. It's the build up of many things, relationships and events, that have left you feeling this way. You feel as if your mind runs away with you and find it so hard to gain control of it and your reactions. It's just not worth the fight anymore. But before you give up and surrender to your thoughts, there is still hope.
Have you been feeling anxious, angry, hurt, sad? It's not just one thing that happened in your life. It's the build up of many things, relationships and events, that have left you feeling this way. You feel as if your mind runs away with you and find it so hard to gain control of it and your reactions. It's just not worth the fight anymore. But before you give up and surrender to your thoughts, there is still hope.
(760) 538-3105 View (760) 538-3105
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Shannon Thomason
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SUDCCIV
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078
Have you ever felt overwhelmed with life circumstances or approaching changes? Have you ever felt unsure of where to find help, or hesitant to reach out for support? Oftentimes life throws us curveballs and facing these challenges alone can be scary. I strive to provide a safe, therapeutic and trauma-informed environment based on holding hope and discovering the strengths within you. I enjoy working teens, transitional aged youth (18-25), adults, and older adults, specifically individuals living with severe and long-term mental illness and substance abuse disorders.
Have you ever felt overwhelmed with life circumstances or approaching changes? Have you ever felt unsure of where to find help, or hesitant to reach out for support? Oftentimes life throws us curveballs and facing these challenges alone can be scary. I strive to provide a safe, therapeutic and trauma-informed environment based on holding hope and discovering the strengths within you. I enjoy working teens, transitional aged youth (18-25), adults, and older adults, specifically individuals living with severe and long-term mental illness and substance abuse disorders.
(442) 241-0419 View (442) 241-0419
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Kelly Krueger
Psychologist, LCP
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92069  (Online Only)
Dr. Kelly Krueger is a Clinical Psychologist with License number CA24823 who provides a multifaceted approach to therapy and seeks to help a broad range of clients seeking counseling services. As a results-oriented psychologist, Dr. Krueger uses evidence-based psychotherapy techniques to help individuals achieve their goals in life. He has experience with a variety of therapy modalities such as motivational interviewing, family therapy, and applied behavior analysis.
Dr. Kelly Krueger is a Clinical Psychologist with License number CA24823 who provides a multifaceted approach to therapy and seeks to help a broad range of clients seeking counseling services. As a results-oriented psychologist, Dr. Krueger uses evidence-based psychotherapy techniques to help individuals achieve their goals in life. He has experience with a variety of therapy modalities such as motivational interviewing, family therapy, and applied behavior analysis.
(760) 971-5537 View (760) 971-5537
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Therese Brooks
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078
I work with individuals who struggle with the demands of being human, and yearn for more loving, healthy relationships. Together we develop the insight and skills necessary to experience this pleasure of love. We may explore trauma, loss, grief, anger, repressed desire, lack of vitality, and current challenging relationships. I am especially committed to supporting individuals who desire to know and love themselves and others in a deeper, richer, and more meaningful way.
I work with individuals who struggle with the demands of being human, and yearn for more loving, healthy relationships. Together we develop the insight and skills necessary to experience this pleasure of love. We may explore trauma, loss, grief, anger, repressed desire, lack of vitality, and current challenging relationships. I am especially committed to supporting individuals who desire to know and love themselves and others in a deeper, richer, and more meaningful way.
(760) 388-9683 View (760) 388-9683
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Stacey S Stoefen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078
Hi, first I want to commend you for having the courage to reach out. It is very humbling to admit that we don't feel well or we aren't behaving like the person we want to be. Therapy is a hopeful non judgmental place where healing and growth can happen. I have benefited myself from professional help and will be along side you to join you in whatever goals you set for yourself. The human condition comes along with many challenges and powerful emotions we cannot avoid, but I do believe there is a way to handle them with grace and self love. And to tend to those wounds without letting them drive us.
Hi, first I want to commend you for having the courage to reach out. It is very humbling to admit that we don't feel well or we aren't behaving like the person we want to be. Therapy is a hopeful non judgmental place where healing and growth can happen. I have benefited myself from professional help and will be along side you to join you in whatever goals you set for yourself. The human condition comes along with many challenges and powerful emotions we cannot avoid, but I do believe there is a way to handle them with grace and self love. And to tend to those wounds without letting them drive us.
(760) 280-9203 View (760) 280-9203
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Gina Bongiorno
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Marcos, CA 92078
You've been thinking about finding a therapist but haven't had a chance to prioritize your self-care. You may have noticed excuses getting in the way of making a change. Perhaps you feel out of control with food, relationships or behaviors. Disordered eating, anxiety, addictions and other difficult to manage behaviors are common side effects of unresolved pain, complicated grief and invalidated emotions. Together we will explore how to move away from unhealthy patterns and into a more fulfilling, meaningful life.
You've been thinking about finding a therapist but haven't had a chance to prioritize your self-care. You may have noticed excuses getting in the way of making a change. Perhaps you feel out of control with food, relationships or behaviors. Disordered eating, anxiety, addictions and other difficult to manage behaviors are common side effects of unresolved pain, complicated grief and invalidated emotions. Together we will explore how to move away from unhealthy patterns and into a more fulfilling, meaningful life.
(760) 387-8622 View (760) 387-8622
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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.