Sex Therapists in San Diego County, CA
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Lakshmi Jaiprakash
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, APCC
Verified Verified
Carlsbad, CA 92008 (Online Only)
I specialize in exploring issues related to sex/intimacy, sexuality, alternative lifestyles/relationships (open/poly/non-monogamous), kink/BDSM, sexual shame, and sexual abuse/trauma.
Hi, I'm Lakshmi and my pronouns are she/her. As a member of the LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, I hope to support you on your journey of exploration and self-discovery by creating a therapeutic atmosphere of warmth, safety, and curiosity. I work with individuals, couples/partnerships, and families of every ability, age, gender, national origin, race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, and sexual orientation. My therapeutic style is eclectic, guided by your life goals and utilizing techniques that resonate with you. My practice is grounded in feminist, multicultural, anti-oppression, and anti-capitalist frameworks.
I specialize in exploring issues related to sex/intimacy, sexuality, alternative lifestyles/relationships (open/poly/non-monogamous), kink/BDSM, sexual shame, and sexual abuse/trauma.
Hi, I'm Lakshmi and my pronouns are she/her. As a member of the LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, I hope to support you on your journey of exploration and self-discovery by creating a therapeutic atmosphere of warmth, safety, and curiosity. I work with individuals, couples/partnerships, and families of every ability, age, gender, national origin, race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, and sexual orientation. My therapeutic style is eclectic, guided by your life goals and utilizing techniques that resonate with you. My practice is grounded in feminist, multicultural, anti-oppression, and anti-capitalist frameworks.
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Dr. James DiGloria, PsyD., LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92102
Are you or a loved one struggling with anxiety or depression? You may be in the process coming out for yourself or to loved ones. Dealing with issues related to sexuality and relationship issues. Do you struggle with issues related to your sexuality and/or gender expression? Whether you are single, married, poly or straight, gay, queer, or bi-, having difficulty in work, intimate or lifestyle relationships, or just stuck in what seems like a never ending struggle, I am fully committed to helping you find your authentic Self. Let's talk to see if we are a good match.
Are you or a loved one struggling with anxiety or depression? You may be in the process coming out for yourself or to loved ones. Dealing with issues related to sexuality and relationship issues. Do you struggle with issues related to your sexuality and/or gender expression? Whether you are single, married, poly or straight, gay, queer, or bi-, having difficulty in work, intimate or lifestyle relationships, or just stuck in what seems like a never ending struggle, I am fully committed to helping you find your authentic Self. Let's talk to see if we are a good match.
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It can be incredibly difficult to reach out to someone for help, especially about sexual health/ sexuality.
There is much in our world that pulls us away from ourselves..from truly feeling grounded. Coming home is meant to describe the process of connection and healing that can happen when we set aside all the daily distractions and step back into ourselves. Once home, within ourselves, we can finally begin to connect, understand, and heal. This allows space for vulnerability, growth, and love. Whether you are having difficulties moving beyond shame and trauma, having difficulties enjoying sexual activity or want to better connect with your partner(s), I am here to listen, educate and guide at your pace to a whole new way of living.
It can be incredibly difficult to reach out to someone for help, especially about sexual health/ sexuality.
There is much in our world that pulls us away from ourselves..from truly feeling grounded. Coming home is meant to describe the process of connection and healing that can happen when we set aside all the daily distractions and step back into ourselves. Once home, within ourselves, we can finally begin to connect, understand, and heal. This allows space for vulnerability, growth, and love. Whether you are having difficulties moving beyond shame and trauma, having difficulties enjoying sexual activity or want to better connect with your partner(s), I am here to listen, educate and guide at your pace to a whole new way of living.
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Rachel Levinson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008 (Online Only)
I use talk therapy, IFS (internal family system/parts work), and EMDR to work with clients' internal worlds in order to help them navigate sex, gender, and intimacy issues.
Sex Therapist Certified by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Do you struggle with being connected with parts of yourself and others? Perhaps different parts of you know how to get what you want, but something inside prevents you from making changes. Sex Therapy is a window into the mind, body, and spirit, allowing you to identify places in which healing needs to take place, and highlighting your deepest desires. Together, we’ll explore your past and present, create intentions for the future and set you up with skills in order to meet your goals.
I use talk therapy, IFS (internal family system/parts work), and EMDR to work with clients' internal worlds in order to help them navigate sex, gender, and intimacy issues.
Sex Therapist Certified by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Do you struggle with being connected with parts of yourself and others? Perhaps different parts of you know how to get what you want, but something inside prevents you from making changes. Sex Therapy is a window into the mind, body, and spirit, allowing you to identify places in which healing needs to take place, and highlighting your deepest desires. Together, we’ll explore your past and present, create intentions for the future and set you up with skills in order to meet your goals.
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I am experienced working with individuals and couples in the areas of relationships, sexual health, and gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity.
Looking for a sex-positive therapist? I offer an open and accepting space in which you can be, or discover, your most authentic self. If you are struggling with issues of identity, have been harmed by messages about your body or sex, or are living with the aftermath of a traumatic event, I am here to offer my training and expertise to help you move from a place of pain and hardship into a place of peace and connection, both with me and with yourself. Therapy is more than just a place for talking. This is a place to experience safety and being seen. Allow me to join you on your journey of deeper introspection and self awareness.
I am experienced working with individuals and couples in the areas of relationships, sexual health, and gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity.
Looking for a sex-positive therapist? I offer an open and accepting space in which you can be, or discover, your most authentic self. If you are struggling with issues of identity, have been harmed by messages about your body or sex, or are living with the aftermath of a traumatic event, I am here to offer my training and expertise to help you move from a place of pain and hardship into a place of peace and connection, both with me and with yourself. Therapy is more than just a place for talking. This is a place to experience safety and being seen. Allow me to join you on your journey of deeper introspection and self awareness.
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Carly Goodkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92131 (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT certified Sex Therapist who has been providing therapy since 2016.
I work with individuals and people in relationships including couples, polycules, friends, and family members. I provide informed, affirming care to folks marginalized based on sexual orientation, gender identity, relationship structure, sexual interests or sex work. I help people to explore sexuality and gender, heal and flourish after experiencing sexual trauma, unpack sexual shame, navigate out of control sexual behavior, create intentional relationship agreements, and develop healthy consent practices. I also love helping medical professionals to clarify their professional values and manage secondary traumatic stress.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT certified Sex Therapist who has been providing therapy since 2016.
I work with individuals and people in relationships including couples, polycules, friends, and family members. I provide informed, affirming care to folks marginalized based on sexual orientation, gender identity, relationship structure, sexual interests or sex work. I help people to explore sexuality and gender, heal and flourish after experiencing sexual trauma, unpack sexual shame, navigate out of control sexual behavior, create intentional relationship agreements, and develop healthy consent practices. I also love helping medical professionals to clarify their professional values and manage secondary traumatic stress.
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I offer holistic, non-judgmental, solution focused approaches to help couples develop clear communication, effective conflict resolution skills and strategies to fulfill their emotional and sexual needs so that they can move forward with creating a more enriching relationship together.
Do you and your partner struggle with communication issues, conflict or sexual issues that undermine your ability to have a fulfilling relationship? Do you feel hopeless and frustrated by the lack of intimacy in your relationship? Do you wish that your relationship could be more rewarding for you and your partner? I provide couples counseling, sex therapy and premarital counseling for couples because I believe that our intimate relationships are our best opportunities for deep connection, intimacy, support and pleasure.
I offer holistic, non-judgmental, solution focused approaches to help couples develop clear communication, effective conflict resolution skills and strategies to fulfill their emotional and sexual needs so that they can move forward with creating a more enriching relationship together.
Do you and your partner struggle with communication issues, conflict or sexual issues that undermine your ability to have a fulfilling relationship? Do you feel hopeless and frustrated by the lack of intimacy in your relationship? Do you wish that your relationship could be more rewarding for you and your partner? I provide couples counseling, sex therapy and premarital counseling for couples because I believe that our intimate relationships are our best opportunities for deep connection, intimacy, support and pleasure.
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Douglas Braun-Harvey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CST, CST-S
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92108
Doug Braun-Harvey's award winning book "Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior: Rethinking Sex Addiction" (Springer Publishing Company) was published in 2015.
How do I know if my sexual behavior is out of control? For many men this question is very subjective and they unfortunately wait for a spouse, loved one or their employer to discover their hidden sexual life before considering help. At The Harvey Institute we believe the most important person to evaluate his personal conflict with regulating sexual behavior is the man experiencing the dilemma. We help men contemplate "What is your conflict with your sexual behavior?" and "What is your vision for your sexual health?" We strive to provide a safe, sexually informed and confidential space for sexual health conversations.
Doug Braun-Harvey's award winning book "Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior: Rethinking Sex Addiction" (Springer Publishing Company) was published in 2015.
How do I know if my sexual behavior is out of control? For many men this question is very subjective and they unfortunately wait for a spouse, loved one or their employer to discover their hidden sexual life before considering help. At The Harvey Institute we believe the most important person to evaluate his personal conflict with regulating sexual behavior is the man experiencing the dilemma. We help men contemplate "What is your conflict with your sexual behavior?" and "What is your vision for your sexual health?" We strive to provide a safe, sexually informed and confidential space for sexual health conversations.
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Sex Therapy San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
I am a Sexologist, Licensed Psychologist (AZ), Psychiatric Clinical Nurse Specialist (CA) Registered Nurse (CA), hypnotherapist and Existential Philosopher.
"RISE ABOVE THE NOISE AND CHAOS FOR CHANGE AND SUCCESS!" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected. The therapeutic alliance with Dr Silbert promotes the desirable change the individual is seeking in treatment. Arousal, Erectile Dysfunction, Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Orgasm, Anorgasmia, Sex Aversion, Performance Anxiety are Sex problems treated by Dr Silbert. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Trauma, Loss, Divorce, Lack of Control, Emotional Overload treated.
I am a Sexologist, Licensed Psychologist (AZ), Psychiatric Clinical Nurse Specialist (CA) Registered Nurse (CA), hypnotherapist and Existential Philosopher.
"RISE ABOVE THE NOISE AND CHAOS FOR CHANGE AND SUCCESS!" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected. The therapeutic alliance with Dr Silbert promotes the desirable change the individual is seeking in treatment. Arousal, Erectile Dysfunction, Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Orgasm, Anorgasmia, Sex Aversion, Performance Anxiety are Sex problems treated by Dr Silbert. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Trauma, Loss, Divorce, Lack of Control, Emotional Overload treated.
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The Center for Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, MFT
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I work with same- sex couples, addiction, eating disorders, mood and anxiety disorders and sexual dysfunction.
As a marriage and family psychotherapist for over 30 years, I am an experienced, eclectic clinician whose passion is helping couples become masters of their relationship and individuals become their best selves. Clients find me to be warm, active, engaged, and creative. I often use humor, metaphor, and therapeutic experiment to enliven sessions, and utilize tools for practice to support clients between sessions. I work to have each session build on the last and reach the client’s goals in timely and powerful ways. I am committed to having each person feel known, understood, supported and appreciated throughout the therapeutic process.
I work with same- sex couples, addiction, eating disorders, mood and anxiety disorders and sexual dysfunction.
As a marriage and family psychotherapist for over 30 years, I am an experienced, eclectic clinician whose passion is helping couples become masters of their relationship and individuals become their best selves. Clients find me to be warm, active, engaged, and creative. I often use humor, metaphor, and therapeutic experiment to enliven sessions, and utilize tools for practice to support clients between sessions. I work to have each session build on the last and reach the client’s goals in timely and powerful ways. I am committed to having each person feel known, understood, supported and appreciated throughout the therapeutic process.
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Jennifer Konzen
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT, CST, CCDC
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92120 (Online Only)
I have specialized training in Sex Therapy, Chemical Dependency and Addiction, Couples Therapy, Eating Disorders, and Play Therapy.
I work with couples to renew the fire in their love life and sexual relationship, couples affected by addiction, as well as couples who are no longer communicating or are on the brink of divorce. I counsel men and women who have experienced depression, anxiety, and OCD. I work with individuals dealing with grief, trauma, sexual abuse, and childhood or partner violence. I also work with parents and adolescents. I am a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Chemical Dependency Counselor.
I have specialized training in Sex Therapy, Chemical Dependency and Addiction, Couples Therapy, Eating Disorders, and Play Therapy.
I work with couples to renew the fire in their love life and sexual relationship, couples affected by addiction, as well as couples who are no longer communicating or are on the brink of divorce. I counsel men and women who have experienced depression, anxiety, and OCD. I work with individuals dealing with grief, trauma, sexual abuse, and childhood or partner violence. I also work with parents and adolescents. I am a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Chemical Dependency Counselor.
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Peter Roussos
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92130 (Online Only)
Are you stuck feeling disappointed, hurt, lonely, or betrayed? Are you confused about what you want in your life? Are you unhappy and unsure of how to make positive changes in your relationships? Do you want to make your life more satisfying?
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT certified Sex Therapist. I help people change behaviors and have more satisfying lives and relationships. I help couples improve intimacy and connection, and heal from hurt, disappointment, betrayal and other violations of trust. I help families improve communication, collaboration, and problem solving, and feel more connected to each other.
Are you stuck feeling disappointed, hurt, lonely, or betrayed? Are you confused about what you want in your life? Are you unhappy and unsure of how to make positive changes in your relationships? Do you want to make your life more satisfying?
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT certified Sex Therapist. I help people change behaviors and have more satisfying lives and relationships. I help couples improve intimacy and connection, and heal from hurt, disappointment, betrayal and other violations of trust. I help families improve communication, collaboration, and problem solving, and feel more connected to each other.
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Eric van der Voort
Psychologist, PsyD, CST
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92103 (Online Only)
If you'd like to enjoy better sex, improve communication with your partner, explore healthier ways of responding to insecurities, and discover new ways to experience pleasure, then I invite you to reach out.
Are you distracted by unhelpful thoughts or insecurities during sex? Have you been frustrated with difficulties getting or sustaining erections? Do you feel guilty or ashamed about some of your kinky fantasies or porn use? Do you & your partner feel stuck as you try to talk through challenges in your sex life? If so, let's talk. I specialize in working with kinky, non-monogamous, & LGBTQ+ individuals and couples to resolve sexual performance anxieties, sexual guilt & shame, communication difficulties, desire discrepancies, & substance use. I also help straight-identified men understand and appreciate their attraction to trans women.
If you'd like to enjoy better sex, improve communication with your partner, explore healthier ways of responding to insecurities, and discover new ways to experience pleasure, then I invite you to reach out.
Are you distracted by unhelpful thoughts or insecurities during sex? Have you been frustrated with difficulties getting or sustaining erections? Do you feel guilty or ashamed about some of your kinky fantasies or porn use? Do you & your partner feel stuck as you try to talk through challenges in your sex life? If so, let's talk. I specialize in working with kinky, non-monogamous, & LGBTQ+ individuals and couples to resolve sexual performance anxieties, sexual guilt & shame, communication difficulties, desire discrepancies, & substance use. I also help straight-identified men understand and appreciate their attraction to trans women.
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Kristin Zeising
Psychologist, PsyD, CST
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92130 (Online Only)
I can help you to overcome negative thoughts, improve communication skills, develop loving relationships, become more decisive and assertive, find balance between work and family, create a fulfilling sex life, and overcome feelings of depression and anxiety.
Tired of feeling like you’ve lost the joy in life and that you're not really thriving? Wishing that your relationship or sex life felt less "meh" and was more connected, passionate and satisfying? I understand and am here to help! Please know that there is a path to reignite your life and relationship so you can feel alive and fulfilled again.
I can help you to overcome negative thoughts, improve communication skills, develop loving relationships, become more decisive and assertive, find balance between work and family, create a fulfilling sex life, and overcome feelings of depression and anxiety.
Tired of feeling like you’ve lost the joy in life and that you're not really thriving? Wishing that your relationship or sex life felt less "meh" and was more connected, passionate and satisfying? I understand and am here to help! Please know that there is a path to reignite your life and relationship so you can feel alive and fulfilled again.
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Savannah Henderson
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942 (Online Only)
Welcome! I focus on the areas of attachment, sex and intimacy, relationships, healthy life balance, and queer inclusive therapy. My goal as a therapist is to empower you to explore your lived experiences, make connections between your past and present, and make changes to improve your intimate, family, and friend relationships. I support clients in embracing their sexuality and improving communication around sex and intimacy. I believe that every person is capable of making the changes they desire for their life.
Welcome! I focus on the areas of attachment, sex and intimacy, relationships, healthy life balance, and queer inclusive therapy. My goal as a therapist is to empower you to explore your lived experiences, make connections between your past and present, and make changes to improve your intimate, family, and friend relationships. I support clients in embracing their sexuality and improving communication around sex and intimacy. I believe that every person is capable of making the changes they desire for their life.
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I am also well versed in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), and sex therapy - this means I can give you tangible tools for overwhelming emotions.
Struggling in your relationship? Feeling like nothing you do turns out right or gets you what you want? I'm here to help you get unstuck from frustrating patterns and find a new way forward. We'll work to understand what's going wrong and make tangible changes towards connection and the relationship that fits you.
I am also well versed in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), and sex therapy - this means I can give you tangible tools for overwhelming emotions.
Struggling in your relationship? Feeling like nothing you do turns out right or gets you what you want? I'm here to help you get unstuck from frustrating patterns and find a new way forward. We'll work to understand what's going wrong and make tangible changes towards connection and the relationship that fits you.
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I am a sex positive, harm reduction, science based therapist.
I strongly believe, and studies show, that the connection between you and your therapist is one of the most important aspects of being in therapy. No matter what brings you here, trust and communication are what help you to be comfortable. My goal is to create a safe, judgement free space for whatever you want to unpack. You can do hard things and I'm here to help you.
I am a sex positive, harm reduction, science based therapist.
I strongly believe, and studies show, that the connection between you and your therapist is one of the most important aspects of being in therapy. No matter what brings you here, trust and communication are what help you to be comfortable. My goal is to create a safe, judgement free space for whatever you want to unpack. You can do hard things and I'm here to help you.
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Kypris Aster Drake (She They)
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Julian, CA 92036 (Online Only)
com), offering Emotionally Focused Therapy and Sex Therapy.
I understand how sad and scary it can feel when you're struggling in a relationship. I help LGBTQ and CNM people heal issues with relationships, sexuality, and negative life patterns. Together we’ll make a plan to move forward improving your relationships, which involves a combination of learning to feel and understand your emotions, and using mindfulness to help you soothe yourself if the emotions get too big to manage in the moment. For CNM people, we’ll talk a lot about what these relationships can be like and figure out what does and doesn’t work for you. We’ll work as a team!
com), offering Emotionally Focused Therapy and Sex Therapy.
I understand how sad and scary it can feel when you're struggling in a relationship. I help LGBTQ and CNM people heal issues with relationships, sexuality, and negative life patterns. Together we’ll make a plan to move forward improving your relationships, which involves a combination of learning to feel and understand your emotions, and using mindfulness to help you soothe yourself if the emotions get too big to manage in the moment. For CNM people, we’ll talk a lot about what these relationships can be like and figure out what does and doesn’t work for you. We’ll work as a team!
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Reaching out for therapy can be tough but talking about sex well that's downright scary! It doesn't have to be, and part of taking back your sexuality is to talk about and say those words you may not have ever said out loud.
As a sex therapist, my mission is to empower women to reclaim their sexuality. By taking ownership of your body and your pleasure, you can refresh your zest for life. I utilize cognitive behavioral, narrative, and solution- focused techniques to enable you to identify what is holding you back from living the life you are meant to live let me help you live and love authentically. Book with me at www.beauthenticallyyou.net.
Reaching out for therapy can be tough but talking about sex well that's downright scary! It doesn't have to be, and part of taking back your sexuality is to talk about and say those words you may not have ever said out loud.
As a sex therapist, my mission is to empower women to reclaim their sexuality. By taking ownership of your body and your pleasure, you can refresh your zest for life. I utilize cognitive behavioral, narrative, and solution- focused techniques to enable you to identify what is holding you back from living the life you are meant to live let me help you live and love authentically. Book with me at www.beauthenticallyyou.net.
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Sex Addiction San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Silbert assists in modulation of mood states and comprehension of aberrant thought processes promoting dysfunctional sexual behavior.
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hyper sexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
Silbert assists in modulation of mood states and comprehension of aberrant thought processes promoting dysfunctional sexual behavior.
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hyper sexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.