Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Redlands, CA

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Guiding Hope Marriage and Family Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
Our experience is extensive but not limited to working with substance use, Eating DO, trauma, PTSD, anxiety, dual diagnosis, chronic illness, mood and depressive disorders such as MDD, BPD, and many others.
Have you noticed an an increase in anxiety, chronic stress, loss of sleep or experiencing difficulty due to depression, difficulty within relationships, isolation or create behaviors that are harmful? Has life begun to feel like it is rocking you to our core and beginning to feel like life is unmanageable? If you are experiencing effects of trauma, mental health feeling unstable, addiction, individual, martial, family issues, teens, adjustment concerns, we are here to walk with you as we learn to understand the inner truth with healthy coping skills and restoration of strength to embrace life with all it has to offer.
Our experience is extensive but not limited to working with substance use, Eating DO, trauma, PTSD, anxiety, dual diagnosis, chronic illness, mood and depressive disorders such as MDD, BPD, and many others.
Have you noticed an an increase in anxiety, chronic stress, loss of sleep or experiencing difficulty due to depression, difficulty within relationships, isolation or create behaviors that are harmful? Has life begun to feel like it is rocking you to our core and beginning to feel like life is unmanageable? If you are experiencing effects of trauma, mental health feeling unstable, addiction, individual, martial, family issues, teens, adjustment concerns, we are here to walk with you as we learn to understand the inner truth with healthy coping skills and restoration of strength to embrace life with all it has to offer.
(909) 316-1866 View (909) 316-1866
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Lindsey Chesus
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
Navigating the mental health system is challenging. I believe therapy should be a space to feel safe and heard regardless of your life experiences, and that your culture and identity are important to honor and integrate into therapy.
Navigating the mental health system is challenging. I believe therapy should be a space to feel safe and heard regardless of your life experiences, and that your culture and identity are important to honor and integrate into therapy.
(909) 316-2791 View (909) 316-2791
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Dylan Tayag
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92374  (Online Only)
I am a licensed therapist (LCSW) specialized in serving transition-aged youth, young adults and middle-aged adults. Most of my training and expertise has been centered around treatment for trauma, depression, and anxiety. I offer collaborative guidance to my clients as they explore new perspectives, coping strategies, and interpersonal solutions.
I am a licensed therapist (LCSW) specialized in serving transition-aged youth, young adults and middle-aged adults. Most of my training and expertise has been centered around treatment for trauma, depression, and anxiety. I offer collaborative guidance to my clients as they explore new perspectives, coping strategies, and interpersonal solutions.
(909) 317-1298 View (909) 317-1298
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Claudia Gutierrez
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374
Have you ever found yourself thinking "I am not good enough" or "others cannot be trusted"? Most of us may have these core beliefs that interfere with our ability to reach our full potential. In addition, many of the issues and environmental factors influence who we become whether it is divorce, stress, substance us we will work together to help you heal and become the best version of yourself. By providing a safe and secure space in which clients can explore and overcome their challenges, we can work collaboratively towards your goals of healing. I will work as much as you do and we can make this a corrective experience.
Have you ever found yourself thinking "I am not good enough" or "others cannot be trusted"? Most of us may have these core beliefs that interfere with our ability to reach our full potential. In addition, many of the issues and environmental factors influence who we become whether it is divorce, stress, substance us we will work together to help you heal and become the best version of yourself. By providing a safe and secure space in which clients can explore and overcome their challenges, we can work collaboratively towards your goals of healing. I will work as much as you do and we can make this a corrective experience.
(909) 265-7261 View (909) 265-7261
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Mark A Williams
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
I value the importance of creating a safe, supportive and collaborative environment to help facilitate personal growth and healing from the overwhelming challenges we sometimes face in life. Pain is part of our human experience. However, suffering does not have to be. My focus is to provide my clients with practical and effective interventions that are tailored to their specific needs. My clinical practice is highly informed by principles of neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology and evidenced based psychological interventions. My aim is to assist, encourage and empower my clients on their path forward in reaching their goals.
I value the importance of creating a safe, supportive and collaborative environment to help facilitate personal growth and healing from the overwhelming challenges we sometimes face in life. Pain is part of our human experience. However, suffering does not have to be. My focus is to provide my clients with practical and effective interventions that are tailored to their specific needs. My clinical practice is highly informed by principles of neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology and evidenced based psychological interventions. My aim is to assist, encourage and empower my clients on their path forward in reaching their goals.
(909) 351-3086 View (909) 351-3086
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Louise Polzel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I think the most important aspect of therapy is someone who understands, who has been there, and who can relate. I treat mental health and addiction because I understand it personally and professionally. I feel like we all need space for support and the ability to connect with someone. My favorite saying is "progress, not perfection" this means we just get up and try daily. If you are ready to take some steps, reach out! I look forward to connecting.
I think the most important aspect of therapy is someone who understands, who has been there, and who can relate. I treat mental health and addiction because I understand it personally and professionally. I feel like we all need space for support and the ability to connect with someone. My favorite saying is "progress, not perfection" this means we just get up and try daily. If you are ready to take some steps, reach out! I look forward to connecting.
(562) 262-5620 View (562) 262-5620
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Esther Loewen
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
Perhaps my best quality is my ability to meet individuals where they are, acknowledging and respecting their unique perspectives and experiences. There is great power in safe and non-judgmental spaces where people can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of rejection. My commitment to helping people on their own terms is at the heart of my therapeutic philosophy. Therapy is collaborative. As a compassionate guide, a seasoned listener, and a tenaciously courageous ally, I see myself as a partner on your journey toward self-discovery and well-being.
Perhaps my best quality is my ability to meet individuals where they are, acknowledging and respecting their unique perspectives and experiences. There is great power in safe and non-judgmental spaces where people can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of rejection. My commitment to helping people on their own terms is at the heart of my therapeutic philosophy. Therapy is collaborative. As a compassionate guide, a seasoned listener, and a tenaciously courageous ally, I see myself as a partner on your journey toward self-discovery and well-being.
(951) 899-0521 View (951) 899-0521
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Divina Family Counseling Services Inc
Counselor, LPCC, AMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
I enjoy working with clients who are ready for change and desire to learn and break generations of trauma. My goal is to serve mi gente. We come from a long line of "echale ganas," but don't stir the pot. This can be both confusing and exhausting. I help individuals heal generational trauma and childhood wounds. Healing these traumas and wounds will allow individuals and generations to live authentically. A life rich in confidence, culture, and abundance. I use a Faith-Based Perspective where my beliefs are not forced on anyone. Allowing God to work through me to help fill you with strength, love, and courage.
I enjoy working with clients who are ready for change and desire to learn and break generations of trauma. My goal is to serve mi gente. We come from a long line of "echale ganas," but don't stir the pot. This can be both confusing and exhausting. I help individuals heal generational trauma and childhood wounds. Healing these traumas and wounds will allow individuals and generations to live authentically. A life rich in confidence, culture, and abundance. I use a Faith-Based Perspective where my beliefs are not forced on anyone. Allowing God to work through me to help fill you with strength, love, and courage.
(951) 337-4380 View (951) 337-4380
Chalanda Bailey
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374
I strive to provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. I strongly believe that each of us has the potential to grow and heal. As we navigate our way through this journey of therapy, the goal is for you to develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships; as well as practical skills and strategies to cope with stress and manage your emotions to achieve your goals. I have a deep sense of empathy and compassion for my clients.
I strive to provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. I strongly believe that each of us has the potential to grow and heal. As we navigate our way through this journey of therapy, the goal is for you to develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships; as well as practical skills and strategies to cope with stress and manage your emotions to achieve your goals. I have a deep sense of empathy and compassion for my clients.
(909) 321-6772 View (909) 321-6772
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Kelly C Rivinius
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
No matter your story, I will meet you at the point of your specific need. Whether you are a mother experiencing a perinatal mood disorder while desperately trying to hold on; if you are an adult having difficulty reconciling your needs for love and care with what have so far been disappointing and invalidating relationships; whether you feel like you have been anxious and depressed for longer than you can remember; or you struggle for your body to believe what your mind has heard a thousand times - that you are safe and valued and loved - I can help.
No matter your story, I will meet you at the point of your specific need. Whether you are a mother experiencing a perinatal mood disorder while desperately trying to hold on; if you are an adult having difficulty reconciling your needs for love and care with what have so far been disappointing and invalidating relationships; whether you feel like you have been anxious and depressed for longer than you can remember; or you struggle for your body to believe what your mind has heard a thousand times - that you are safe and valued and loved - I can help.
(909) 922-7604 View (909) 922-7604
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Sheena Thompson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374
As a parent, it's so hard to watch your teen or young adult struggle. You know they're capable of so much, yet they seem to be sidelined by lack of energy, confusion about who they are, and an inability to see a bright future for themselves. I enjoy working with teens and young adults who struggle with tackling life. I'm skilled with helping young adults and teens who feel “stuck” – they know they're capable of so much, but they just don’t know where to start in making the life of their dreams happen. I know how to work with young people so that they gain much needed direction and confidence to allow them to soar!
As a parent, it's so hard to watch your teen or young adult struggle. You know they're capable of so much, yet they seem to be sidelined by lack of energy, confusion about who they are, and an inability to see a bright future for themselves. I enjoy working with teens and young adults who struggle with tackling life. I'm skilled with helping young adults and teens who feel “stuck” – they know they're capable of so much, but they just don’t know where to start in making the life of their dreams happen. I know how to work with young people so that they gain much needed direction and confidence to allow them to soar!
(909) 474-7994 View (909) 474-7994
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Ashley Phillips
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92373
I would summarize my professional perception as always seeing the good, seeking to understand, and have an ability to guide clients to reframe their thinking and perceptions to better themselves rather than defeat themselves.
I would summarize my professional perception as always seeing the good, seeking to understand, and have an ability to guide clients to reframe their thinking and perceptions to better themselves rather than defeat themselves.
(909) 543-1974 View (909) 543-1974
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Immigration Diagnostic Evaluations Academy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My ideal client is a survivor of human trafficking dealing with overwhelming shame, guilt, and feelings of worthlessness due to the stigma attached to their experience. They need a safe and validating space to heal and understand that being trafficked was not their fault. Their goals are to reclaim their sense of self, overcome emotional and mental challenges, and rebuild their fragmented identity. They want to feel valued, whole, and complete, free from the burdens of their past, so they can lead fulfilling lives. Their motivation is to regain their dignity and self-worth after the trauma they've survived.
My ideal client is a survivor of human trafficking dealing with overwhelming shame, guilt, and feelings of worthlessness due to the stigma attached to their experience. They need a safe and validating space to heal and understand that being trafficked was not their fault. Their goals are to reclaim their sense of self, overcome emotional and mental challenges, and rebuild their fragmented identity. They want to feel valued, whole, and complete, free from the burdens of their past, so they can lead fulfilling lives. Their motivation is to regain their dignity and self-worth after the trauma they've survived.
(909) 442-4459 View (909) 442-4459
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Gabriel Arroyo
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92374  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with relationship issues or challenges within your marriage? Struggling with communication, intimacy issues, or trust issues? If you are facing any of the challenges, now may be the time to start with a therapist that specializes in couples/marriage counseling. We can work together to rebuild skills to reconnect in your relationship by rebuilding communication, intimacy, and trust. Beginning couples counseling may be a hard decision, but can also be the most rewarding with the skillset we can grow. Continue reading below to see if this would be the best fit for your needs or feel free to call.
Are you struggling with relationship issues or challenges within your marriage? Struggling with communication, intimacy issues, or trust issues? If you are facing any of the challenges, now may be the time to start with a therapist that specializes in couples/marriage counseling. We can work together to rebuild skills to reconnect in your relationship by rebuilding communication, intimacy, and trust. Beginning couples counseling may be a hard decision, but can also be the most rewarding with the skillset we can grow. Continue reading below to see if this would be the best fit for your needs or feel free to call.
(909) 742-7517 View (909) 742-7517
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Teresa Gordon Rimmer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Here to listen. Not to judge. Let me help you find hope, regardless of your situation. We can together uncover what is underneath any pain or challenge through dialogue and understanding. My background is both professional and personal, having both faced many challenges myself and professionally supported others to find peace. Taking the first step is often difficult, but I promise to make the journey as comfortable as possible. Nothing to lose, and much to gain.
Here to listen. Not to judge. Let me help you find hope, regardless of your situation. We can together uncover what is underneath any pain or challenge through dialogue and understanding. My background is both professional and personal, having both faced many challenges myself and professionally supported others to find peace. Taking the first step is often difficult, but I promise to make the journey as comfortable as possible. Nothing to lose, and much to gain.
(909) 281-9428 View (909) 281-9428
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Kimberly Jordan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374
Hello, my name is Kimberly Jordan, and my license number is 105037. I offer a blended approach to therapy incorporating many different methods and approaches so that I may tailor each plan to the unique individual. Some of the approaches I use are Client-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Psychoanalytic, Somatic, Gestalt, and Positive Psychology. I enjoy working with many different types of clients but my greatest experience is with individuals between the ages of 5 and 99. I am experienced and comfortable dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, LGBQ, and other forms of trauma.
Hello, my name is Kimberly Jordan, and my license number is 105037. I offer a blended approach to therapy incorporating many different methods and approaches so that I may tailor each plan to the unique individual. Some of the approaches I use are Client-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Psychoanalytic, Somatic, Gestalt, and Positive Psychology. I enjoy working with many different types of clients but my greatest experience is with individuals between the ages of 5 and 99. I am experienced and comfortable dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, LGBQ, and other forms of trauma.
(818) 659-9597 View (818) 659-9597
Moises Ponce
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
My passion is to help people, by listening and by working together to find practical solutions, I would never judge or impose my views but I would always empathize and try to understand the situation. I am bi-lingual and bi-cultural with a vast experience treating families, couples and adolescents. My goal is to always have a "good session" and for you to come out encouraged and empowered.
My passion is to help people, by listening and by working together to find practical solutions, I would never judge or impose my views but I would always empathize and try to understand the situation. I am bi-lingual and bi-cultural with a vast experience treating families, couples and adolescents. My goal is to always have a "good session" and for you to come out encouraged and empowered.
(909) 335-3026 View (909) 335-3026
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Mavernie V Mitchell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374
My greatest passion is performing my duties as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I feel honored working with clients who seek mental health treatment. I serve adults, adolescents, and children, with proficiency in various treatment modalities including, but not limited to, individual, group, family and child therapy. I utilize active listening, validation, empathy, and unconditional positive regard. My work is focussed, goal directed, purpose and problem centered, offering support, warmth, caring, and deep regard for clients' rights and potentials for change. I accept Medicare and MediCal/IEHP insurance. Additionally, I accept private insurance - Blue Cross, CHIPA, Value Options, MHN, Aetna, TriCAre, etc.
My greatest passion is performing my duties as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I feel honored working with clients who seek mental health treatment. I serve adults, adolescents, and children, with proficiency in various treatment modalities including, but not limited to, individual, group, family and child therapy. I utilize active listening, validation, empathy, and unconditional positive regard. My work is focussed, goal directed, purpose and problem centered, offering support, warmth, caring, and deep regard for clients' rights and potentials for change. I accept Medicare and MediCal/IEHP insurance. Additionally, I accept private insurance - Blue Cross, CHIPA, Value Options, MHN, Aetna, TriCAre, etc.
(909) 303-6368 View (909) 303-6368
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Alta Loma Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373
As a highly skilled therapist,Iam dedicated in assisting my clients in developing coping skills,providing support and insight that will enable them to manage life's difficult challenges. As an interactive,insight-oriented therapist,I join with my clients in exploring options that will bring resolution to a wide range of problems and traumatic events.I offer a non-judgmental environment where clients can feel safe in discussing thier innermost concerns.Together we will recognize and work through uncomfortable and dysfunctional patterns of behavior,and replace them with new healthier alternatives.
As a highly skilled therapist,Iam dedicated in assisting my clients in developing coping skills,providing support and insight that will enable them to manage life's difficult challenges. As an interactive,insight-oriented therapist,I join with my clients in exploring options that will bring resolution to a wide range of problems and traumatic events.I offer a non-judgmental environment where clients can feel safe in discussing thier innermost concerns.Together we will recognize and work through uncomfortable and dysfunctional patterns of behavior,and replace them with new healthier alternatives.
(909) 638-2759 View (909) 638-2759
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Natalie Suric
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92374
My name is Natalie Suric, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Los Angeles, California. I work with men and women and specialize in anxiety, trauma, and stress. I utilize an eclectic therapeutic approach including techniques from CBT, DBT, and solution-focused therapies. I am also trained in EMDR. I employ an eclectic approach that blends elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) when appropriate.
My name is Natalie Suric, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Los Angeles, California. I work with men and women and specialize in anxiety, trauma, and stress. I utilize an eclectic therapeutic approach including techniques from CBT, DBT, and solution-focused therapies. I am also trained in EMDR. I employ an eclectic approach that blends elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) when appropriate.
(415) 726-2637 View (415) 726-2637
Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.