Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Rancho Santa Fe, CA

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Dr. Melanie A Greenberg
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
You are an adult, teen or couple dealing with trauma, life transition, grief, anxiety, relationship strain or emotional pain from your past or present. Old coping strategies no longer work and you feel stuck, indecisive, scared, or angry. An uplifting, experienced therapist, I have brain science expertise and am trauma-informed. I will help you find hope and new perspectives, face your fears, overcome self-limiting beliefs, stop avoiding and be proactive. I seek to help you move from shame to self-compassion, from self-doubt to clarity, from insecurity to empowered self-expression, from over-reactivity to clarity & mindful wisdom.
You are an adult, teen or couple dealing with trauma, life transition, grief, anxiety, relationship strain or emotional pain from your past or present. Old coping strategies no longer work and you feel stuck, indecisive, scared, or angry. An uplifting, experienced therapist, I have brain science expertise and am trauma-informed. I will help you find hope and new perspectives, face your fears, overcome self-limiting beliefs, stop avoiding and be proactive. I seek to help you move from shame to self-compassion, from self-doubt to clarity, from insecurity to empowered self-expression, from over-reactivity to clarity & mindful wisdom.
(858) 203-2131 View (858) 203-2131
Thomas E Bell
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92091
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences. I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences. I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
(858) 217-4873 View (858) 217-4873
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San Diego Divorce Counseling Center Lynn Waldman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92091
You're disappointed in your marriage and in your partner. Your vows meant something to you. For many years, you sucked it up and hoped things would get better. Now you wonder, why did I stay for so long? If you question how you've been living your life, and how things could have gone so wrong, then you've come to the right place.
You're disappointed in your marriage and in your partner. Your vows meant something to you. For many years, you sucked it up and hoped things would get better. Now you wonder, why did I stay for so long? If you question how you've been living your life, and how things could have gone so wrong, then you've come to the right place.
(619) 796-5927 View (619) 796-5927
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Alana Hecker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
Our rapport, and discovering what is deeply meaningful and valuable to you will be the foundation of our therapeutic relationship. My primary goal is to support your happiness and success by understanding your beliefs, and what you hold dear in your heart. I will gently challenge you when I see obstacles that are not supporting your well being. I will simultaneously encourage you to draw from your natural gifts and strengths. I commit to utilizing evidence based interventions that are effective, empowering, and that promote self compassion. I understand the vulnerability of seeking help, and I commend your willingness to grow.
Our rapport, and discovering what is deeply meaningful and valuable to you will be the foundation of our therapeutic relationship. My primary goal is to support your happiness and success by understanding your beliefs, and what you hold dear in your heart. I will gently challenge you when I see obstacles that are not supporting your well being. I will simultaneously encourage you to draw from your natural gifts and strengths. I commit to utilizing evidence based interventions that are effective, empowering, and that promote self compassion. I understand the vulnerability of seeking help, and I commend your willingness to grow.
(858) 381-4705 View (858) 381-4705
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Accurate Assessments of San Diego
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92091
We offer expert Psychological and Substance Abuse Assessments to people aged 17 and older. We know that you are a unique individual and we evaluate your problems in the context of your individuality and life circumstances. When you work with us, you will be treated in a manner that reflects your individuality. You will receive: a high quality evaluation administered by a psychologist, a holistic picture of your problems, comprehensive answers to your questions, recommendations for the next steps, and direct referrals so you can follow up with other treatment providers as needed.
We offer expert Psychological and Substance Abuse Assessments to people aged 17 and older. We know that you are a unique individual and we evaluate your problems in the context of your individuality and life circumstances. When you work with us, you will be treated in a manner that reflects your individuality. You will receive: a high quality evaluation administered by a psychologist, a holistic picture of your problems, comprehensive answers to your questions, recommendations for the next steps, and direct referrals so you can follow up with other treatment providers as needed.
(858) 461-6815 View (858) 461-6815
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Coherence Associates, Inc.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
We are an individual & family counseling corporation. Our mission is to expand human potential through the coherence of mind, body & spirit. With decades of collective experience, we are passionate about helping people grow through life's transitions. We are trained in efficient, evidence-based treatment methods with a holistic mindset. Breakthrough repeating unwanted patterns, improve struggling relationships, family challenges, anxiety, addictions, depression & trauma recovery. We are EMDR trained & practice with professional integrity, compassion, and commitment.
We are an individual & family counseling corporation. Our mission is to expand human potential through the coherence of mind, body & spirit. With decades of collective experience, we are passionate about helping people grow through life's transitions. We are trained in efficient, evidence-based treatment methods with a holistic mindset. Breakthrough repeating unwanted patterns, improve struggling relationships, family challenges, anxiety, addictions, depression & trauma recovery. We are EMDR trained & practice with professional integrity, compassion, and commitment.
(760) 933-9336 View (760) 933-9336
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Jessica C Silsby
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
I provide comprehensive Dialectical Behavior Therapy (adults & adolescents) experiencing emotional dysregulation, strained relationships, overwhelming suffering (w/wo diagnosis of BPD), and/or thoughts of suicide or self-harm. My frame is client-centered, believing that you are the expert of your life, & therapy is a collaborate effort. I also work extensively within the Trans*/Nonbinary community, supporting an affirmed life for you and those around you. This can be at any age and include issues of disclosure, life changes, overcoming fear while balancing safety, & community advocacy.
I provide comprehensive Dialectical Behavior Therapy (adults & adolescents) experiencing emotional dysregulation, strained relationships, overwhelming suffering (w/wo diagnosis of BPD), and/or thoughts of suicide or self-harm. My frame is client-centered, believing that you are the expert of your life, & therapy is a collaborate effort. I also work extensively within the Trans*/Nonbinary community, supporting an affirmed life for you and those around you. This can be at any age and include issues of disclosure, life changes, overcoming fear while balancing safety, & community advocacy.
(619) 430-2475 View (619) 430-2475
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Chris McDuffie
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MSW, CADC II
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
Chris works only with those interested in recovery from chemical substance. Chris helps individuals and corporate leaders in addiction and crisis. He is a highly effective leader of Interventions, Corporate Wellness Seminars and support for HR Directors and Leadership Teams.
Chris works only with those interested in recovery from chemical substance. Chris helps individuals and corporate leaders in addiction and crisis. He is a highly effective leader of Interventions, Corporate Wellness Seminars and support for HR Directors and Leadership Teams.
(858) 461-6921 View (858) 461-6921
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Reid Kessler
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
Our group practice of psychologists is accepting new patients as of 8/12/24 for in-person (Encinitas, Carlsbad Village, or south Vista) or virtual therapy. I offer people a caring, down-to-earth, and honest relationship. I help teens and adults navigate their distress with confidence and purpose. If you are having difficulty managing emotions that used to be easy or you want to better understand destructive patterns in life, I can help.
Our group practice of psychologists is accepting new patients as of 8/12/24 for in-person (Encinitas, Carlsbad Village, or south Vista) or virtual therapy. I offer people a caring, down-to-earth, and honest relationship. I help teens and adults navigate their distress with confidence and purpose. If you are having difficulty managing emotions that used to be easy or you want to better understand destructive patterns in life, I can help.
(760) 571-2425 View (760) 571-2425
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Lisa Arslanian
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067  (Online Only)
I work with individuals struggling with sadness, anxiety, self-doubt, self-worth, shame, boundary-setting, self-acceptance, and feeling not good enough. I utilize a systematic approach to help clients build daily coping skills and understand the underlying reasons for their struggles. With greater insight and awareness, clients are able to find their truest voice and build a life that echoes their best self. I also work with couples looking to cultivate healthy communication skills, a richer relational experience, a revived vibrancy. I commonly work with life transitions, parenting questions, and identity conflicts.
I work with individuals struggling with sadness, anxiety, self-doubt, self-worth, shame, boundary-setting, self-acceptance, and feeling not good enough. I utilize a systematic approach to help clients build daily coping skills and understand the underlying reasons for their struggles. With greater insight and awareness, clients are able to find their truest voice and build a life that echoes their best self. I also work with couples looking to cultivate healthy communication skills, a richer relational experience, a revived vibrancy. I commonly work with life transitions, parenting questions, and identity conflicts.
(818) 423-4317 View (818) 423-4317
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Dr. Jennifer Semmes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PsyD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067  (Online Only)
Are you struggling to work through personal or relationship issues you've been unable to resolve on your own? Are you finally feeling ready to address the anxiety and/or depression that has been holding you back from life? There is no reason to feel alone or stuck; it is possible to work through these issues, and to feel happy again. I have experienced much success helping my clients resolve their issues, while creating a nurturing and safe environment. I incorporate humor and friendship in my practice and have found this helpful in furthering the progress and positive therapeutic experience.
Are you struggling to work through personal or relationship issues you've been unable to resolve on your own? Are you finally feeling ready to address the anxiety and/or depression that has been holding you back from life? There is no reason to feel alone or stuck; it is possible to work through these issues, and to feel happy again. I have experienced much success helping my clients resolve their issues, while creating a nurturing and safe environment. I incorporate humor and friendship in my practice and have found this helpful in furthering the progress and positive therapeutic experience.
(760) 583-6271 View (760) 583-6271
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Cat Donohue
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, APCC, EMDR
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
With empathy and curiosity, I provide holistic, transparent, and collaborative therapy for teens, adults, couples, and families. If you're experiencing anxiety, depression, traumatic stress, interpersonal conflict, or life's inevitable challenges we will work together to help you gain insight, enhance your intuition, and address your patterns of behavior. I have advanced training in trauma processing and EMDR. NOTE: I offer a limited number of appointments at a sliding scale fee for individuals and couples who may require financial assistance.
With empathy and curiosity, I provide holistic, transparent, and collaborative therapy for teens, adults, couples, and families. If you're experiencing anxiety, depression, traumatic stress, interpersonal conflict, or life's inevitable challenges we will work together to help you gain insight, enhance your intuition, and address your patterns of behavior. I have advanced training in trauma processing and EMDR. NOTE: I offer a limited number of appointments at a sliding scale fee for individuals and couples who may require financial assistance.
(424) 722-4538 View (424) 722-4538

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Virginia Wilcsek
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Del Mar, CA 92014
Hello and thank you for being here. Has your world and experiences left you feeling sad, used, alone, or hopeless? Sometimes those outcomes can lead to depression, anxiety, trauma or thoughts of just not being here. What has happened to you can impact how you feel about yourself, others, feeling lost and confused, or wondering how to start over. I strive to provide a space to hear you. We will work together to create an approach that you feel best fits your journey no matter where you start. My focus is Trauma Informed Care, Mood/Anxiety, PTSD, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Treating Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents.
Hello and thank you for being here. Has your world and experiences left you feeling sad, used, alone, or hopeless? Sometimes those outcomes can lead to depression, anxiety, trauma or thoughts of just not being here. What has happened to you can impact how you feel about yourself, others, feeling lost and confused, or wondering how to start over. I strive to provide a space to hear you. We will work together to create an approach that you feel best fits your journey no matter where you start. My focus is Trauma Informed Care, Mood/Anxiety, PTSD, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Treating Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents.
(858) 289-0339 View (858) 289-0339
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Leslie Cost
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Solana Beach, CA 92075  (Online Only)
Additionally, I have a bi-weekly group to assist you in thriving after leaving a Narcissistic Abusive relationship.
If you are ready for breakthroughs, while learning how to regulate your body and getting your life back in order, you have met your therapist match. Get ready to swipe right. I help driven, anxious and overwhelmed people be more at ease in their world. If you are: - At a crossroads in life and unsure of what direction to take - Feeling unfulfilled despite having built a successful career - Paralyzed by anxious thoughts and imposter syndrome. Then, you have come to the right place, and I can't wait to chat soon. My work is geared towards helping you feel comfortable with therapy, and you becoming your own therapist.
Additionally, I have a bi-weekly group to assist you in thriving after leaving a Narcissistic Abusive relationship.
If you are ready for breakthroughs, while learning how to regulate your body and getting your life back in order, you have met your therapist match. Get ready to swipe right. I help driven, anxious and overwhelmed people be more at ease in their world. If you are: - At a crossroads in life and unsure of what direction to take - Feeling unfulfilled despite having built a successful career - Paralyzed by anxious thoughts and imposter syndrome. Then, you have come to the right place, and I can't wait to chat soon. My work is geared towards helping you feel comfortable with therapy, and you becoming your own therapist.
(818) 538-2753 View (818) 538-2753
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Lisa McLain
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Del Mar, CA 92014
Hello! I am a passionate therapist interested in walking with you down the road of self discovery. We will work collaboratively in achieving an overall sense of holistic health best suited for your needs. I provide individual, couple, and family therapy in a safe, therapeutic environment. I will support and guide you in learning and practicing new, effective, and healthy ways of living. I integrate various psychological and Eastern methodologies. We will confront present issues as well as empower you to live life to your fullest potential. I believe in creating a harmonious balance between mind, body and spirit.
Hello! I am a passionate therapist interested in walking with you down the road of self discovery. We will work collaboratively in achieving an overall sense of holistic health best suited for your needs. I provide individual, couple, and family therapy in a safe, therapeutic environment. I will support and guide you in learning and practicing new, effective, and healthy ways of living. I integrate various psychological and Eastern methodologies. We will confront present issues as well as empower you to live life to your fullest potential. I believe in creating a harmonious balance between mind, body and spirit.
(619) 333-2526 View (619) 333-2526
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Dr. Gregory E Hamlin
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Solana Beach, CA 92075  (Online Only)
You want to be listened to--really heard. You are sick and tired of conflict that creates lonely distance between you and your partner. You would like fewer angry moments and more times when you feel close and connected to your partner. You want the tools and skills to have RESPECTFUL conflict conversations that bring you closer. You are ready to grow, if only someone really understood you and had the expertise to coach both of you each step of the way. You may be feeling discouraged: "We've tried everything." So you want couples therapy rooted in solid research and a therapist who tailors it to your unique situation.
You want to be listened to--really heard. You are sick and tired of conflict that creates lonely distance between you and your partner. You would like fewer angry moments and more times when you feel close and connected to your partner. You want the tools and skills to have RESPECTFUL conflict conversations that bring you closer. You are ready to grow, if only someone really understood you and had the expertise to coach both of you each step of the way. You may be feeling discouraged: "We've tried everything." So you want couples therapy rooted in solid research and a therapist who tailors it to your unique situation.
(661) 347-2130 View (661) 347-2130
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Dan Loney
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Del Mar, CA 92014
Hi, I’m Dan. I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist practicing in San Diego, with in-person locations in Banker's Hill and Carlsbad. Through therapy, I'll give you the tools to move from a state of stuckness to a state of hope, health, and freedom. Through therapy, we’ll bring awareness to stuck patterns, so you will become more empowered in your relationship with yourself, others, and every area of your life.
Hi, I’m Dan. I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist practicing in San Diego, with in-person locations in Banker's Hill and Carlsbad. Through therapy, I'll give you the tools to move from a state of stuckness to a state of hope, health, and freedom. Through therapy, we’ll bring awareness to stuck patterns, so you will become more empowered in your relationship with yourself, others, and every area of your life.
(619) 914-6970 View (619) 914-6970
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Tala Johartchi, PsyD, Best Life Therapy
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Del Mar, CA 92014  (Online Only)
Best Life Therapy is a premier tele-therapy practice offering Virtual Therapy services to individuals, couples, and families, in Los Angeles and throughout California. At Best Life our clinicians can help you cope with changes while gaining insight, enhancing communication, improving self-concept, and meeting your goals. Whether issues you are facing are due to depression, anxiety, stress, relationships, mental illness, addictions, trauma, or of another nature, we will be able to support you in setting goals, changing patterns and thinking, and support you in living your Best Life.
Best Life Therapy is a premier tele-therapy practice offering Virtual Therapy services to individuals, couples, and families, in Los Angeles and throughout California. At Best Life our clinicians can help you cope with changes while gaining insight, enhancing communication, improving self-concept, and meeting your goals. Whether issues you are facing are due to depression, anxiety, stress, relationships, mental illness, addictions, trauma, or of another nature, we will be able to support you in setting goals, changing patterns and thinking, and support you in living your Best Life.
(424) 231-6604 View (424) 231-6604
Gordon Caras
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Solana Beach, CA 92075
Each person has specific needs and goals towards which they aspire fulfilling. Emotional/psychological struggles interfere adversely in actualizing these pursuits. It can be a complicated web to disentangle but well worth the effort, a gift to yourself and your loved ones. Whether it be depression, anxiety, low self-confidence/esteem, relationship turmoils, directionless, internal emptiness, impulsiveness, etc., many things can paralyze you, but help is possible. For all this comes under a close, skilled exploration mutually taken by us to unravel and resolve the unremitting knots and enduring knocks that presently bind you.
Each person has specific needs and goals towards which they aspire fulfilling. Emotional/psychological struggles interfere adversely in actualizing these pursuits. It can be a complicated web to disentangle but well worth the effort, a gift to yourself and your loved ones. Whether it be depression, anxiety, low self-confidence/esteem, relationship turmoils, directionless, internal emptiness, impulsiveness, etc., many things can paralyze you, but help is possible. For all this comes under a close, skilled exploration mutually taken by us to unravel and resolve the unremitting knots and enduring knocks that presently bind you.
(858) 808-1712 View (858) 808-1712
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified Verified
Solana Beach, CA 92075
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
Welcome to my practice. I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(442) 200-1729 View (442) 200-1729

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists

What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?

By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?

Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?

It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.