Infidelity Therapists in Pleasanton, CA
This is an incredibly painful and difficult issue, and I strive to assist my clients in processing the very deep, raw feelings it creates; determine what created the vulnerability in the relationship that gave rise to the infidelity; guide partners toward forgiveness; rebuild trust; and re-establish intimate connection.
I’m a relationship satisfaction expert committed to helping partners learn how to move past their issues to create a more fulfilling, joyful, committed relationship. My work focuses on teaching *effective* communication, identifying and alleviating unmet needs, rebuilding connection, re-establishing trust, and creating a stronger sense of intimacy between partners. I’m particularly passionate about working with individuals and couples struggling with issues of infidelity.
This is an incredibly painful and difficult issue, and I strive to assist my clients in processing the very deep, raw feelings it creates; determine what created the vulnerability in the relationship that gave rise to the infidelity; guide partners toward forgiveness; rebuild trust; and re-establish intimate connection.
I’m a relationship satisfaction expert committed to helping partners learn how to move past their issues to create a more fulfilling, joyful, committed relationship. My work focuses on teaching *effective* communication, identifying and alleviating unmet needs, rebuilding connection, re-establishing trust, and creating a stronger sense of intimacy between partners. I’m particularly passionate about working with individuals and couples struggling with issues of infidelity.
Laura Melgosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pleasanton, CA 94566
For close to 30 years, I have provided psychotherapy and counseling within a variety of settings to clients struggling with various life challenges. I have successfully treated clients both in short-term and long-term therapy. In addition to providing individual and family therapy, my special interests and extensive experience involves working with teenagers and couples. I have substantial experience with crisis intervention/prevention issues including: depression & suicide, grief & loss, infidelity, child abuse, domestic violence, and substance abuse/dependency.
For close to 30 years, I have provided psychotherapy and counseling within a variety of settings to clients struggling with various life challenges. I have successfully treated clients both in short-term and long-term therapy. In addition to providing individual and family therapy, my special interests and extensive experience involves working with teenagers and couples. I have substantial experience with crisis intervention/prevention issues including: depression & suicide, grief & loss, infidelity, child abuse, domestic violence, and substance abuse/dependency.
I have over 25 years of experience in providing psychotherapy to teens, adults, couples and families. With Couples, treatment issues may include domestic conflict, cross cultural and inter-faith marriages, in-laws, infidelity, trust, spousal equality and respect, and intimacy. With individual adults, my specialities include depression, grief and loss, stress, anxiety, trauma, and life transitions (work, family or self related). With teens, my experience encompasses delinquent behaviors, trauma, substance abuse, self-harm, depression, ADHD, OCD, identity issues, school problems and parent-child conflict.
I have over 25 years of experience in providing psychotherapy to teens, adults, couples and families. With Couples, treatment issues may include domestic conflict, cross cultural and inter-faith marriages, in-laws, infidelity, trust, spousal equality and respect, and intimacy. With individual adults, my specialities include depression, grief and loss, stress, anxiety, trauma, and life transitions (work, family or self related). With teens, my experience encompasses delinquent behaviors, trauma, substance abuse, self-harm, depression, ADHD, OCD, identity issues, school problems and parent-child conflict.
Dr Nagma Clark Tri-Valley Relationship Therapy Inc
Counselor, PhD, LPCC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pleasanton, CA 94566
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Couples Counselor, I support both couples and individuals—my work is to help you move through pain, miscommunication, or dissatisfaction in your sex life and relationships to find closeness and fulfillment. If sex feels "off": it's boring, or painful, or makes you anxious, OR if you dread coming home from work to avoid another fight OR if you feel alone in your relationship like you're roommates instead of lovers and partners OR if you're healing from betrayal or an affair, therapy can help you (and your partner) repair past hurts to create a fully satisfying marriage/relationship & life.
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Couples Counselor, I support both couples and individuals—my work is to help you move through pain, miscommunication, or dissatisfaction in your sex life and relationships to find closeness and fulfillment. If sex feels "off": it's boring, or painful, or makes you anxious, OR if you dread coming home from work to avoid another fight OR if you feel alone in your relationship like you're roommates instead of lovers and partners OR if you're healing from betrayal or an affair, therapy can help you (and your partner) repair past hurts to create a fully satisfying marriage/relationship & life.
Sharon Robinson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Pleasanton, CA 94566 (Online Only)
My Name is Dr. Sharon Robinson; I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, Colorado, and Texas. I have worked in a Christian Counseling Clinic in Southern California, providing mental health services in English and Spanish to culturally diverse populations. In this role, I have provided individual, couples, children, family, and group therapy to culturally diverse populations. My work experience includes working with children, adolescents, pre-marital couples, married couples, families, re-married families, affairs, grief, anxiety, depression, divorce adjustment, anger management, and conducting group therapy.
My Name is Dr. Sharon Robinson; I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, Colorado, and Texas. I have worked in a Christian Counseling Clinic in Southern California, providing mental health services in English and Spanish to culturally diverse populations. In this role, I have provided individual, couples, children, family, and group therapy to culturally diverse populations. My work experience includes working with children, adolescents, pre-marital couples, married couples, families, re-married families, affairs, grief, anxiety, depression, divorce adjustment, anger management, and conducting group therapy.
Skylar Martin
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
Pleasanton, CA 94566
Other issues I have experience working with include depression, anxiety, substance use, infidelity, crisis, and family conflict.
Hello! It is my honor and passion to help bring about meaningful, positive change in your life. My approach coalesces research-based practices and psychological insight, drawing from attachment, emotion-focused therapy, internal family systems, and somatic psychology. I value collaboration and partnership in the therapeutic process in order to instill a sense of agency and empowerment that you innately possess. As your therapist, I am empathic, compassionate, non-judgmental, patient, and open. My focus is to help you process and heal from life’s challenges and transgressions; you deserve to live a fulfilling, peaceful life.
Other issues I have experience working with include depression, anxiety, substance use, infidelity, crisis, and family conflict.
Hello! It is my honor and passion to help bring about meaningful, positive change in your life. My approach coalesces research-based practices and psychological insight, drawing from attachment, emotion-focused therapy, internal family systems, and somatic psychology. I value collaboration and partnership in the therapeutic process in order to instill a sense of agency and empowerment that you innately possess. As your therapist, I am empathic, compassionate, non-judgmental, patient, and open. My focus is to help you process and heal from life’s challenges and transgressions; you deserve to live a fulfilling, peaceful life.
Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couples Workshops/Seminars
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Pleasanton, CA 94588
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Fulfilling relationships do not happen on their own: with self or other. The more intimate our relationship is with self lends to how deeply and authentically we can connect with others. My ideal clients are individuals or couples who seek to collaborate to build awareness, the first step to ANY meaningful change. We will work together to honor previous attachment injuries. We will identify your thoughts and patterns, and we will investigate the influences that drive your choices/behavior.
Fulfilling relationships do not happen on their own: with self or other. The more intimate our relationship is with self lends to how deeply and authentically we can connect with others. My ideal clients are individuals or couples who seek to collaborate to build awareness, the first step to ANY meaningful change. We will work together to honor previous attachment injuries. We will identify your thoughts and patterns, and we will investigate the influences that drive your choices/behavior.
Feeling hopeless, sad, or overwhelmed? Helping others live a better and happier life is my passion. I work in an empathetic, collaborative, and thoughtful way with each individual or family unit. I start with understanding where you are now and help put a plan in place to help you. I offer a custom approach for each of my clients because I believe everyone is different. I believe being a good listener is important and I want to help everyone achieve their goals. It is important to work together so we can achieve your goals. I also worked years in schools so I have in depth experience working with children of all ages.
Feeling hopeless, sad, or overwhelmed? Helping others live a better and happier life is my passion. I work in an empathetic, collaborative, and thoughtful way with each individual or family unit. I start with understanding where you are now and help put a plan in place to help you. I offer a custom approach for each of my clients because I believe everyone is different. I believe being a good listener is important and I want to help everyone achieve their goals. It is important to work together so we can achieve your goals. I also worked years in schools so I have in depth experience working with children of all ages.
Dr. Wen-Ting Michelle Kan
Psychologist, PhD, LMHC, MSEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pleasanton, CA 94588
I provide psychological and neuropsychological assessments to children and adults in English, Cantonese, and Mandarin. Many clients are referred for diagnostic clarification because they or someone noticed problems with cognitive, executive, emotional, social, academic, or occupational functioning. I also offer immigration-related and independent education evaluations. I thoroughly assess a client’s neurocognitive ability, socioemotional well-being, and academic performance during an evaluation. I also explore the impact of biopsychological and sociocultural factors on their symptoms, experiences, and functioning.
I provide psychological and neuropsychological assessments to children and adults in English, Cantonese, and Mandarin. Many clients are referred for diagnostic clarification because they or someone noticed problems with cognitive, executive, emotional, social, academic, or occupational functioning. I also offer immigration-related and independent education evaluations. I thoroughly assess a client’s neurocognitive ability, socioemotional well-being, and academic performance during an evaluation. I also explore the impact of biopsychological and sociocultural factors on their symptoms, experiences, and functioning.
Amir A Siddiqui
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPC, LPCC
Verified Verified
Pleasanton, CA 94566
Over 12 years of experience in providing individual,couples,and family therapy services. I believe one is the driver and they control how they want to live;however, I understand often times family, bullying, substances, depression, past trauma, anxiety, relationships, raising children, career/employment, financial, and personal struggles can be obstacles.My objective is to work with you in being aware and in creating solutions, which can counterattack these obstacles. Depending on your motivation this process can be short or long. It all depends on how much you want to live a productive Life. I also provide supervision to APCC's.
Over 12 years of experience in providing individual,couples,and family therapy services. I believe one is the driver and they control how they want to live;however, I understand often times family, bullying, substances, depression, past trauma, anxiety, relationships, raising children, career/employment, financial, and personal struggles can be obstacles.My objective is to work with you in being aware and in creating solutions, which can counterattack these obstacles. Depending on your motivation this process can be short or long. It all depends on how much you want to live a productive Life. I also provide supervision to APCC's.
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Thank you for stopping by! Lesli is a licensed marriage therapist. Working in both private practice and in high tech. She has a diverse and extensive clinical background: working with couples and individuals. Lesli uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, DBT, Gottman, and Mindfulness. Lesli sees clients in Pleasanton CA. Onsite and in person! I am committed and supportive of all my clients and I always provide a kind and empathic space. I always, listen without judgment, accept your individuality unconditionally, and provide you with compassionate confidentiality space.
Thank you for stopping by! Lesli is a licensed marriage therapist. Working in both private practice and in high tech. She has a diverse and extensive clinical background: working with couples and individuals. Lesli uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, DBT, Gottman, and Mindfulness. Lesli sees clients in Pleasanton CA. Onsite and in person! I am committed and supportive of all my clients and I always provide a kind and empathic space. I always, listen without judgment, accept your individuality unconditionally, and provide you with compassionate confidentiality space.
Seeking therapy usually stems from a desire to feel better and to explore what is going on in your life presently or to understand past experiences more fully. One of my favorite sayings is, “Finding the right therapist is an important first step towards your journey of healing and growth. My approach to therapy is client-centered and solution-based. My therapeutic approach is direct, active, empathetic, and non-judgmental and I tailor my work to the style, goals, and comfort level of each client. I draw upon complimentary therapeutic methodologies, including Cognitive Based Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT).
Seeking therapy usually stems from a desire to feel better and to explore what is going on in your life presently or to understand past experiences more fully. One of my favorite sayings is, “Finding the right therapist is an important first step towards your journey of healing and growth. My approach to therapy is client-centered and solution-based. My therapeutic approach is direct, active, empathetic, and non-judgmental and I tailor my work to the style, goals, and comfort level of each client. I draw upon complimentary therapeutic methodologies, including Cognitive Based Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT).
You may experience emotional pain at times, as we all do. You may even have deeper emotional wounds that still need healing, but you don't have to endure unhappiness. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SUFFER. Let's work together to bring the joy back. True, life can get really tough. But psychology research tells us that you can improve emotional well-being and obtain the resilience you need to deal with the tough times, often regardless of challenging life circumstances. By using your strengths, increasing relational connection, positive experiences and engagement with what you value most you can find satisfaction and meaning in life.
You may experience emotional pain at times, as we all do. You may even have deeper emotional wounds that still need healing, but you don't have to endure unhappiness. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SUFFER. Let's work together to bring the joy back. True, life can get really tough. But psychology research tells us that you can improve emotional well-being and obtain the resilience you need to deal with the tough times, often regardless of challenging life circumstances. By using your strengths, increasing relational connection, positive experiences and engagement with what you value most you can find satisfaction and meaning in life.
My intention is to empower individuals, couples, and families to identify thoughts, feelings, and actions that may be creating disruptions and conflict within their lives. While focusing on their strengths and ability to meet their own goals, I provide empathic reflective listening and provide a non-judgmental environment for exploration and solution focus.
My intention is to empower individuals, couples, and families to identify thoughts, feelings, and actions that may be creating disruptions and conflict within their lives. While focusing on their strengths and ability to meet their own goals, I provide empathic reflective listening and provide a non-judgmental environment for exploration and solution focus.
Being a first generation Chinese-American immigrant, I am fluent in English, Mandarin, and Taiwanese, and I have passion, experience, and unique cultural understanding in resolving marriage and parenting issues. If you are considering filing for divorce or are wondering whether your marriage was the right choice, it is time to seek help. I will help you reevaluate your marriage, clarify your problems, release you from the constant quarreling wars, and guide you along the path of reconstruction and healing.
Being a first generation Chinese-American immigrant, I am fluent in English, Mandarin, and Taiwanese, and I have passion, experience, and unique cultural understanding in resolving marriage and parenting issues. If you are considering filing for divorce or are wondering whether your marriage was the right choice, it is time to seek help. I will help you reevaluate your marriage, clarify your problems, release you from the constant quarreling wars, and guide you along the path of reconstruction and healing.
Welcome to my practice! I work with adults, families, teens, children, and first responders to provide various types of counseling, including but not limited to CBT, EMDR, Trauma focused CBT, behavioral interventions, play therapy, parenting support, etc… Whether you are feeling stuck, frustrated, anxious, or depressed, I can help you cope with these feelings and improve your overall satisfaction in your life and relationships in a safe and confidential environment. No problem is too big, too small, or too shocking. Please reach out via email to minalcsw@gmail.com to schedule a conversation with me.
Welcome to my practice! I work with adults, families, teens, children, and first responders to provide various types of counseling, including but not limited to CBT, EMDR, Trauma focused CBT, behavioral interventions, play therapy, parenting support, etc… Whether you are feeling stuck, frustrated, anxious, or depressed, I can help you cope with these feelings and improve your overall satisfaction in your life and relationships in a safe and confidential environment. No problem is too big, too small, or too shocking. Please reach out via email to minalcsw@gmail.com to schedule a conversation with me.
My name is Janet Lengsfelder. I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist. I have been a nurse for over 40 years as well. My approach to therapy is to witness and support individuals and couples as they learn and grow so that they can experience joy, love, and peace in their lives. My post-graduate training was in Gestalt therapy. I believe the psychotherapy situation is a laboratory, an opportunity to look at oneself in a variety of mirrors. My role is as a guide and witness. I respect and honor the client to make the choices that bring freedom and fullness to their life.
My name is Janet Lengsfelder. I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist. I have been a nurse for over 40 years as well. My approach to therapy is to witness and support individuals and couples as they learn and grow so that they can experience joy, love, and peace in their lives. My post-graduate training was in Gestalt therapy. I believe the psychotherapy situation is a laboratory, an opportunity to look at oneself in a variety of mirrors. My role is as a guide and witness. I respect and honor the client to make the choices that bring freedom and fullness to their life.
I provide a safe, caring, supportive, and non-judgmental atmosphere for my clients. I believe every individual is unique and has their own inner wisdom and strength that can be built upon in our sessions. I am passionate about helping people find more balance, joy, and fulfillment in their lives by focusing on their personal goals and utilizing a highly individualized and direct approach. I specialize in working with adults with a variety of needs and issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, grief/loss, stress, anger, self-esteem issues, communication skills, divorce/separation, and parenting.
I provide a safe, caring, supportive, and non-judgmental atmosphere for my clients. I believe every individual is unique and has their own inner wisdom and strength that can be built upon in our sessions. I am passionate about helping people find more balance, joy, and fulfillment in their lives by focusing on their personal goals and utilizing a highly individualized and direct approach. I specialize in working with adults with a variety of needs and issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, grief/loss, stress, anger, self-esteem issues, communication skills, divorce/separation, and parenting.
Have you noticed that your teenager has lost weight, is counting calories, or has become a picky eater? Act now and get your child assessed for an eating disorder. I specialize in treating adolescents who have eating disorders and I use the most effective treatment methods backed by research (FBT). I also specialize in treating adults who struggle with their relationship with food (Anorexia, Bulimia, ARFID, Emotional Overeating).
Have you noticed that your teenager has lost weight, is counting calories, or has become a picky eater? Act now and get your child assessed for an eating disorder. I specialize in treating adolescents who have eating disorders and I use the most effective treatment methods backed by research (FBT). I also specialize in treating adults who struggle with their relationship with food (Anorexia, Bulimia, ARFID, Emotional Overeating).
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How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.