Emotionally Focused Therapists in National City, CA

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Anna Sarao
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
My modalities include: CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic, and Solution Focused Therapy.
When I think about why and who I am able to help - it's because I have survived over and over again. From the family trauma that started my therapy journey to horrific life events, life transitions, grief/loss, identity crisis, relationship abuse, overcoming narcissists, ...and at the same time losing and then repairing my faith in God. If you are still reading and connect to some of what I've written, then I know your pain and that you just want it to stop. You want to heal and move forward. Because somewhere deep down - you know it's possible.
My modalities include: CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic, and Solution Focused Therapy.
When I think about why and who I am able to help - it's because I have survived over and over again. From the family trauma that started my therapy journey to horrific life events, life transitions, grief/loss, identity crisis, relationship abuse, overcoming narcissists, ...and at the same time losing and then repairing my faith in God. If you are still reading and connect to some of what I've written, then I know your pain and that you just want it to stop. You want to heal and move forward. Because somewhere deep down - you know it's possible.
(619) 853-0971 View (619) 853-0971
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Kristy Verma
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
My name is Kristy Verma, LPCC 13286, and I am a doctoral student working towards an Ed.D in Educational Leadership. I have a goal to increase mental health services at our educational institutions to better support student's educational journeys. I am a highly motivated mental health professional and genuinely passionate about helping others heal and improve their mental health. I have and continue to seek skills and education to support children and families who come from various cultures, socioeconomic status, family support systems, age, gender, and national origin.
My name is Kristy Verma, LPCC 13286, and I am a doctoral student working towards an Ed.D in Educational Leadership. I have a goal to increase mental health services at our educational institutions to better support student's educational journeys. I am a highly motivated mental health professional and genuinely passionate about helping others heal and improve their mental health. I have and continue to seek skills and education to support children and families who come from various cultures, socioeconomic status, family support systems, age, gender, and national origin.
(619) 566-7566 View (619) 566-7566
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Lori Davis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
Hello, my name is Lori Davis. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in psychotherapy with a specialty in geriatrics. I feel it is an honor to assist clients as a supportive, collaborative, and empathetic facilitator in mental health, emotional well-being, and developing resilience. I typically work with adults, seniors, and couples dealing with depression, anxiety, life transitions, health, grief, loss, and parenting issues.
Hello, my name is Lori Davis. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in psychotherapy with a specialty in geriatrics. I feel it is an honor to assist clients as a supportive, collaborative, and empathetic facilitator in mental health, emotional well-being, and developing resilience. I typically work with adults, seniors, and couples dealing with depression, anxiety, life transitions, health, grief, loss, and parenting issues.
(951) 470-1673 View (951) 470-1673
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Ashley Holmes
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
My name is Ashley Holmes and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I provide an eclectic type of approach to best fit my clients' needs and provide therapy from a non-judgmental, supportive, and safe approach. I work with various populations including trauma, depression, anxiety, stress, DV, anger management, and more. The most common theoretical approaches I work with include ACT, CBT, DBT, Solution Focused therapy, Strength Based Therapy, Psychodynamic, and Narrative Therapy.
My name is Ashley Holmes and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I provide an eclectic type of approach to best fit my clients' needs and provide therapy from a non-judgmental, supportive, and safe approach. I work with various populations including trauma, depression, anxiety, stress, DV, anger management, and more. The most common theoretical approaches I work with include ACT, CBT, DBT, Solution Focused therapy, Strength Based Therapy, Psychodynamic, and Narrative Therapy.
(858) 533-8103 View (858) 533-8103
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Lori Murphy
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
Lori Murphy, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Hi, I'm Lori, I have over 25 years' experience working with individuals, couples and families. I am passionate about helping people overcome challenges so they can life to the fullest. I believe brave, healthy people seek counseling and I provide a safe, compassionate experience that allows healing and growth. I specialize in working with individuals, couples and families with older teens. I understand the military culture and work with active-duty military and veterans and their families.
Lori Murphy, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Hi, I'm Lori, I have over 25 years' experience working with individuals, couples and families. I am passionate about helping people overcome challenges so they can life to the fullest. I believe brave, healthy people seek counseling and I provide a safe, compassionate experience that allows healing and growth. I specialize in working with individuals, couples and families with older teens. I understand the military culture and work with active-duty military and veterans and their families.
(760) 465-1469 View (760) 465-1469
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Ileana Gallegos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
National City, CA 91950  (Online Only)
I am so excited that you have decided to take this next step in your journey to allow me to assist you with promoting healing, helping you reach desired goals, to become a healthier stronger version of yourself. II have helped individuals with trauma, mental illness, relationship issues, life transitions, and grief and loss. I utilize a variety of techniques including psychodynamic, solution-focused, cognitive-behavioral and supportive interventions.
I am so excited that you have decided to take this next step in your journey to allow me to assist you with promoting healing, helping you reach desired goals, to become a healthier stronger version of yourself. II have helped individuals with trauma, mental illness, relationship issues, life transitions, and grief and loss. I utilize a variety of techniques including psychodynamic, solution-focused, cognitive-behavioral and supportive interventions.
(909) 325-6197 View (909) 325-6197
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Integrity Counseling Group
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
National City, CA 91950
Are you tired of repeating the same cycle, whether it’s addiction, depression, anxiety, or infidelity? Our skilled and compassionate therapists are here to help you finally break free, so you can live fully and joyfully.
Are you tired of repeating the same cycle, whether it’s addiction, depression, anxiety, or infidelity? Our skilled and compassionate therapists are here to help you finally break free, so you can live fully and joyfully.
(619) 378-3988 View (619) 378-3988
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Charity Horn
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
My name is Charity Horn, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I approach therapy from a person-centered point of view. I believe that each individual deserves a voice. My areas of focus are depression, anxiety, grief and loss, and trauma-informed care.
My name is Charity Horn, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I approach therapy from a person-centered point of view. I believe that each individual deserves a voice. My areas of focus are depression, anxiety, grief and loss, and trauma-informed care.
(916) 767-0210 View (916) 767-0210
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Todd Cospewicz
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
National City, CA 91950
Todd Cospewicz is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in the State of California, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the State of Nevada, and a Licensed Professional Counselor in the State of Colorado He received his Master of Science in Counseling from California State University, Los Angeles with a concentration in Mental Health Counseling and a Minor in Rehabilitation Counseling. He believes in the unique experiences that shape who we are through life experiences that develop core beliefs.
Todd Cospewicz is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in the State of California, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the State of Nevada, and a Licensed Professional Counselor in the State of Colorado He received his Master of Science in Counseling from California State University, Los Angeles with a concentration in Mental Health Counseling and a Minor in Rehabilitation Counseling. He believes in the unique experiences that shape who we are through life experiences that develop core beliefs.
(657) 571-3366 View (657) 571-3366

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Jaclyn Grace
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92113  (Online Only)
However, I believe in incorporating aspects of narrative, emotionally focused and strength-based therapies as well.
I specialize in helping adults who are grappling with complex, long-term trauma, related anxiety and depression, life transitions, grief and loss and adult ADHD. These issues can deeply impact your life, creating layers of challenges that require careful, sustained attention. I also specialize in working with those that are completely new to therapy. If you're struggling with these persistent concerns or trying therapy for the first time and seeking a therapeutic relationship that focuses on long-term healing and understanding, my approach is built to support you through this intricate journey.
However, I believe in incorporating aspects of narrative, emotionally focused and strength-based therapies as well.
I specialize in helping adults who are grappling with complex, long-term trauma, related anxiety and depression, life transitions, grief and loss and adult ADHD. These issues can deeply impact your life, creating layers of challenges that require careful, sustained attention. I also specialize in working with those that are completely new to therapy. If you're struggling with these persistent concerns or trying therapy for the first time and seeking a therapeutic relationship that focuses on long-term healing and understanding, my approach is built to support you through this intricate journey.
(858) 330-6019 View (858) 330-6019
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Angie Gunn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CSTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92182  (Online Only)
Our methodologies include, systems theory, EFT, gottman couples work, EMDR, Somatic based interventions, sensory integration and regulation work, narrative, TF-CBT, meditation and grounding, attachment oriented approaches and couples interventions.
When was the last time you felt deep pleasure, connection or acceptance within yourself or a relationship? Therapy works when you find someone who gets you. As one of only 10 AASECT certified sex therapists in Oregon, I'm training a team to provide inclusive sex positive treatment for individuals, couples, groups and LGBTQIPA+ folks. We focus on the treatment of trauma, sexuality challenges (arousal, performance, desire mismatch, healing abuse, pain), gender concerns including resources during the gender affirmation process and exploration of alternative sexualities or relationship configurations including non-monogamy and kink.
Our methodologies include, systems theory, EFT, gottman couples work, EMDR, Somatic based interventions, sensory integration and regulation work, narrative, TF-CBT, meditation and grounding, attachment oriented approaches and couples interventions.
When was the last time you felt deep pleasure, connection or acceptance within yourself or a relationship? Therapy works when you find someone who gets you. As one of only 10 AASECT certified sex therapists in Oregon, I'm training a team to provide inclusive sex positive treatment for individuals, couples, groups and LGBTQIPA+ folks. We focus on the treatment of trauma, sexuality challenges (arousal, performance, desire mismatch, healing abuse, pain), gender concerns including resources during the gender affirmation process and exploration of alternative sexualities or relationship configurations including non-monogamy and kink.
(916) 507-1903 View (916) 507-1903
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Susan Bolea
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92113  (Online Only)
The following modalities will be incorporated in our work together: Attachment, Arts Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness, Solutions-Focused, Gottman, Emotionally Focused, and Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR).
Together we strive to understand the life events, health and relationship issues that have interrupted or sidelined you. I utilize “ah ha” provoking techniques to help you open up to your truth and recognize who you are at the present time. My background in literature, the arts and intuitive studies means that I call on metaphor and expressive arts to advance our therapeutic goals. Together we lay the groundwork for habits which specifically work for you and that will endure for a lifetime, honoring self-compassion and acceptance. My job is to establish security and space for you to relax during our exploration.
The following modalities will be incorporated in our work together: Attachment, Arts Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness, Solutions-Focused, Gottman, Emotionally Focused, and Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR).
Together we strive to understand the life events, health and relationship issues that have interrupted or sidelined you. I utilize “ah ha” provoking techniques to help you open up to your truth and recognize who you are at the present time. My background in literature, the arts and intuitive studies means that I call on metaphor and expressive arts to advance our therapeutic goals. Together we lay the groundwork for habits which specifically work for you and that will endure for a lifetime, honoring self-compassion and acceptance. My job is to establish security and space for you to relax during our exploration.
(510) 257-9774 View (510) 257-9774
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Soeun Park
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92139  (Online Only)
My therapy approaches are Attachment-based, Process-oriented, and Emotionally focused.
Are you an adult who has been navigating relationships with your parents or families throughout your life? Has your romantic relationship been rocky lately? Your entrepreneurial journey has brought you this far, but are you anxious about the future? Do you struggle with managing multiple cultural identities and feel uncertain about who you truly are? As a psychologist and immigrant myself from South Korea, I can offer support and assistance as you navigate these questions.
My therapy approaches are Attachment-based, Process-oriented, and Emotionally focused.
Are you an adult who has been navigating relationships with your parents or families throughout your life? Has your romantic relationship been rocky lately? Your entrepreneurial journey has brought you this far, but are you anxious about the future? Do you struggle with managing multiple cultural identities and feel uncertain about who you truly are? As a psychologist and immigrant myself from South Korea, I can offer support and assistance as you navigate these questions.
(714) 582-1876 View (714) 582-1876
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Mark Maxwell
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Chula Vista, CA 91910
Focused Sessions - Think of it as a mini EFT retreat for you and your partner instead of the weekly sessions.
I am the director of Pacifica Group Counseling and Wellness. We specialize in couple work as well as the struggle with various traumas, using both EFT and Brainspotting. I personally do Focused Sessions, working to find breakthrough in specific goals we collaborate on. It is a unique and different way to approach couple therapy that works for couples who struggle with the weekly therapy format. If you are looking for weekly therapy, individual work, work with teens, or work in Spanish, my team is highly trained and ready to help you!
Focused Sessions - Think of it as a mini EFT retreat for you and your partner instead of the weekly sessions.
I am the director of Pacifica Group Counseling and Wellness. We specialize in couple work as well as the struggle with various traumas, using both EFT and Brainspotting. I personally do Focused Sessions, working to find breakthrough in specific goals we collaborate on. It is a unique and different way to approach couple therapy that works for couples who struggle with the weekly therapy format. If you are looking for weekly therapy, individual work, work with teens, or work in Spanish, my team is highly trained and ready to help you!
(619) 664-4606 View (619) 664-4606
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Susan A Herbert
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92182
I have current availability for couples and individuals. My goal is to assist individuals struggling with trauma history, addiction, and mental illness in order to develop tools for healing yourself and the negative impact on relationships. The challenges you face are not as important as the tools you need to navigate them. I honor the differences and diversities in us all, and do not believe in using a 'cookie-cutter' approach with my clients. I am a certified Gestalt Experiential Therapist, with additional experience in multiple modalities, including Choice Theory, EFT, and Psychodynamic.
I have current availability for couples and individuals. My goal is to assist individuals struggling with trauma history, addiction, and mental illness in order to develop tools for healing yourself and the negative impact on relationships. The challenges you face are not as important as the tools you need to navigate them. I honor the differences and diversities in us all, and do not believe in using a 'cookie-cutter' approach with my clients. I am a certified Gestalt Experiential Therapist, with additional experience in multiple modalities, including Choice Theory, EFT, and Psychodynamic.
(310) 361-4203 View (310) 361-4203
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Diego Garcia
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92113  (Online Only)
My areas of specialization are working with couples to address relational conflict, repair broken trust, and foster increased intimate connection using an approach called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
I don't take for granted the strength and vulnerability it takes to enter into therapy; and as a clinician, my goal is to meet you where you are and help to create an environment that allows for both authentic exploration and fostering trust that there is an opportunity for healing and growth. In working together, I hope that my calm, curious, and intentional communication style helps you to feel heard, understood, and supported throughout our time together.
My areas of specialization are working with couples to address relational conflict, repair broken trust, and foster increased intimate connection using an approach called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
I don't take for granted the strength and vulnerability it takes to enter into therapy; and as a clinician, my goal is to meet you where you are and help to create an environment that allows for both authentic exploration and fostering trust that there is an opportunity for healing and growth. In working together, I hope that my calm, curious, and intentional communication style helps you to feel heard, understood, and supported throughout our time together.
(619) 492-5530 View (619) 492-5530
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Georgina M. Nunez-Larraz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCHT, MSW
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92182  (Online Only)
My methods, which include EMDR, EFT, NLP, inner family, and inner child work, are tailored to your journey.
I specialize in CPTSD. This is most common in people who have gone through Childhood Neglect Or Abandonment Prolonged Exposure To Domestic Violence Or Abuse Physical, Sexual, Or Emotional Abuse (At Any Age) It's crucial to understand that the child, in such circumstances, becomes traumatized and often internalizes the belief that they are at fault for not receiving love or acknowledgment. This trauma can manifest in a variety of symptoms, including Fight, flight, freeze, or appease reactions when triggered. These are just a few of the many ways CPTSD can affect an individual. However, it's important to remember that these sympt
My methods, which include EMDR, EFT, NLP, inner family, and inner child work, are tailored to your journey.
I specialize in CPTSD. This is most common in people who have gone through Childhood Neglect Or Abandonment Prolonged Exposure To Domestic Violence Or Abuse Physical, Sexual, Or Emotional Abuse (At Any Age) It's crucial to understand that the child, in such circumstances, becomes traumatized and often internalizes the belief that they are at fault for not receiving love or acknowledgment. This trauma can manifest in a variety of symptoms, including Fight, flight, freeze, or appease reactions when triggered. These are just a few of the many ways CPTSD can affect an individual. However, it's important to remember that these sympt
(909) 340-3735 View (909) 340-3735
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Carlos Navarro
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92182  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with adults and couples and I have extensive training in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT).
Hello! My name is Carlos and I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in California. I am passionate about psychotherapy and I believe that it is my duty to my clients to stay abreast of the latest trainings and opportunities for professional development.
I specialize in working with adults and couples and I have extensive training in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT).
Hello! My name is Carlos and I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in California. I am passionate about psychotherapy and I believe that it is my duty to my clients to stay abreast of the latest trainings and opportunities for professional development.
(559) 245-3139 View (559) 245-3139
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Alessandra De Oliveira Szekir
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92182  (Online Only)
Hello and Seja bem-vindo! I grew up in Brazil and moved to California to pursue my career as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I truly believe that due to life challenges, stressful jobs, career and busy lifestyle, it's very easy to dismiss our inner voice. That is the voice that wants to be heard, tell us about our emotions and hurdles. Allowing your inner voice to be heard will empower you to embrace the beautiful journey of self discovery.
Hello and Seja bem-vindo! I grew up in Brazil and moved to California to pursue my career as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I truly believe that due to life challenges, stressful jobs, career and busy lifestyle, it's very easy to dismiss our inner voice. That is the voice that wants to be heard, tell us about our emotions and hurdles. Allowing your inner voice to be heard will empower you to embrace the beautiful journey of self discovery.
(619) 359-6563 View (619) 359-6563
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Brian Shin: Hope Therapy Group
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chula Vista, CA 91910
From the unexpected challenges to finding fulfillment when overcoming a trial, every person deserves to be the hero of their own story. From trauma to mood disorders to relational issues, each challenge is not an isolated event, but a story that is connected to our past, present, and future. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is passionate about helping people work through these challenges to come out even stronger, emotionally and mentally. I work with youth, adults, couples, and families to identify how this connection can lead to overcoming challenges and finding healing.
From the unexpected challenges to finding fulfillment when overcoming a trial, every person deserves to be the hero of their own story. From trauma to mood disorders to relational issues, each challenge is not an isolated event, but a story that is connected to our past, present, and future. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is passionate about helping people work through these challenges to come out even stronger, emotionally and mentally. I work with youth, adults, couples, and families to identify how this connection can lead to overcoming challenges and finding healing.
(619) 432-6813 View (619) 432-6813

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.