Infidelity Therapists in Napa, CA

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Debra Milinsky
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558
Specializing in individual, couple, family communication; intimacy, infidelity, sexuality; LGBTQIA, school, workplace relationship concerns; child/teen challenges; Mother-Daughter conflicts.
Every journey.. your first thought to call a therapist when you need to talk to someone, begins with a single step. When anxiety, depression, stress, personal, family, work relationship problems lead you to reach out, I will listen and help you find the best way through. Experienced licensed psychotherapist, 40+ years in general psychotherapy practice, I provide a safe place to talk, explore, resolve, heal what is challenging or troubling. I bring compassion, perceptiveness combined with patience, curiosity and many years of knowledge and skill to our collaboration to help you find effective solutions and make better life choices.
Specializing in individual, couple, family communication; intimacy, infidelity, sexuality; LGBTQIA, school, workplace relationship concerns; child/teen challenges; Mother-Daughter conflicts.
Every journey.. your first thought to call a therapist when you need to talk to someone, begins with a single step. When anxiety, depression, stress, personal, family, work relationship problems lead you to reach out, I will listen and help you find the best way through. Experienced licensed psychotherapist, 40+ years in general psychotherapy practice, I provide a safe place to talk, explore, resolve, heal what is challenging or troubling. I bring compassion, perceptiveness combined with patience, curiosity and many years of knowledge and skill to our collaboration to help you find effective solutions and make better life choices.
(510) 761-5931 View (510) 761-5931
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Gail Gall
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, RN, CSAT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558
The emotional toll and mental energy spent on trying to understand and deal with the aftermath of discovery - of online multiple affairs, lying, porn use, etc.
Anger, Rage, Intense emotions can affect you and the people around you. When your anger turns to constant irritability and you start to 'act out' in unhealthy ways, it's time to get support. When ones sadness or loss becomes deeper and darker it could be depression. Most of these emotions are felt with such intensity that it's overwhelming. Sex and Porn Addiction along with Partner Trauma Betrayal is going to feel very intense and working with someone who has additional expertise in this area is going to be so important for your healing. Couples work with me because they feel safe and supported.
The emotional toll and mental energy spent on trying to understand and deal with the aftermath of discovery - of online multiple affairs, lying, porn use, etc.
Anger, Rage, Intense emotions can affect you and the people around you. When your anger turns to constant irritability and you start to 'act out' in unhealthy ways, it's time to get support. When ones sadness or loss becomes deeper and darker it could be depression. Most of these emotions are felt with such intensity that it's overwhelming. Sex and Porn Addiction along with Partner Trauma Betrayal is going to feel very intense and working with someone who has additional expertise in this area is going to be so important for your healing. Couples work with me because they feel safe and supported.
(707) 785-4038 View (707) 785-4038
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Leslee Fournier
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559
I will work with you to guide you through your depression, grief, anxiety, relationship or spiritual issues to find harmony, comfort, health and balance. I work with an integrative approach. The outcome of therapy is usually greater self-knowledge, a re-integration of de-pressed thoughts, emotions, and beliefs, and a new relationship with self, others, and the world. Therapy often involves structured "talk" therapy, creative work, an exploration of your dreams, religious experiences, and personal myths.
I will work with you to guide you through your depression, grief, anxiety, relationship or spiritual issues to find harmony, comfort, health and balance. I work with an integrative approach. The outcome of therapy is usually greater self-knowledge, a re-integration of de-pressed thoughts, emotions, and beliefs, and a new relationship with self, others, and the world. Therapy often involves structured "talk" therapy, creative work, an exploration of your dreams, religious experiences, and personal myths.
(707) 412-8949 View (707) 412-8949
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Lizzet Castillo Montanez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559  (Online Only)
Welcome! The first step to healing is the step you are taking now by searching for a therapist. I specialize in helping clients heal from trauma and work towards becoming the best versions of themselves. Clients often choose to work with me after experiencing a traumatic event(s), loss of a loved one (i.e., death, divorce, seperation), relationship difficulties, or they simply want to gain more insight and personal growth. Whether you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected from the people you love, frustrated by a relationship, or burdened by stress, anxiety, or sadness -I can help. You deserve relief.
Welcome! The first step to healing is the step you are taking now by searching for a therapist. I specialize in helping clients heal from trauma and work towards becoming the best versions of themselves. Clients often choose to work with me after experiencing a traumatic event(s), loss of a loved one (i.e., death, divorce, seperation), relationship difficulties, or they simply want to gain more insight and personal growth. Whether you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected from the people you love, frustrated by a relationship, or burdened by stress, anxiety, or sadness -I can help. You deserve relief.
(707) 598-8892 View (707) 598-8892
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Donovan Scales
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559
"For many people it is difficult enough just committing to contact a therapist...but then, who is a good fit? Many of my clients indicate they appreciate my more 'active-therapist' approach. I offer effective solutions and provide feedback. With over 40 years of experience, I work with couples having communication challenges, those working through rebuilding trust, or ones who need improvement in their overall relationships. I also work extensively with individuals facing divorce, depression, or anxiety. Additionally I work with mature teens and young adults as they look to venture out into the world.
"For many people it is difficult enough just committing to contact a therapist...but then, who is a good fit? Many of my clients indicate they appreciate my more 'active-therapist' approach. I offer effective solutions and provide feedback. With over 40 years of experience, I work with couples having communication challenges, those working through rebuilding trust, or ones who need improvement in their overall relationships. I also work extensively with individuals facing divorce, depression, or anxiety. Additionally I work with mature teens and young adults as they look to venture out into the world.
(707) 595-2131 View (707) 595-2131
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Jennifer Inman Hampton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Napa, CA 94559
As a dedicated and empathetic therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for clients to explore thoughts, emotions, sensations and behaviors. With a background in psychology and social work, I am committed to helping clients navigate challenges and facilitate positive changes. I believe in the power of active listening to the mind and body, empathy, and unconditional positive regard to build strong therapeutic relationships. By creating a non-judgmental and collaborative environment, I empower clients to realize a life of richness and meaning through proven therapeutic approaches they adopt for their life beyond the sessions.
As a dedicated and empathetic therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for clients to explore thoughts, emotions, sensations and behaviors. With a background in psychology and social work, I am committed to helping clients navigate challenges and facilitate positive changes. I believe in the power of active listening to the mind and body, empathy, and unconditional positive regard to build strong therapeutic relationships. By creating a non-judgmental and collaborative environment, I empower clients to realize a life of richness and meaning through proven therapeutic approaches they adopt for their life beyond the sessions.
(707) 289-8727 View (707) 289-8727
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Stefani Hadley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558
A former journalist, I have a natural curiosity about people and am able to appreciate and embrace those from all cultures. I specialize in diverse populations including at-risk youth,victims of violence and adults who struggle with anger or behavioral issues due to past experiences or traumas. I utilize CBT, DBT and TF-CBT in most of my practice and am very direct, but always feel that a humanistic approach is the key to reaching a person with authenticity and genuine curiosity. I believe in second chances and that everyone deserves a voice in this world.
A former journalist, I have a natural curiosity about people and am able to appreciate and embrace those from all cultures. I specialize in diverse populations including at-risk youth,victims of violence and adults who struggle with anger or behavioral issues due to past experiences or traumas. I utilize CBT, DBT and TF-CBT in most of my practice and am very direct, but always feel that a humanistic approach is the key to reaching a person with authenticity and genuine curiosity. I believe in second chances and that everyone deserves a voice in this world.
(707) 985-3799 View (707) 985-3799
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Michelle Joan Frisch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, PhD
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559
Marriage can be extremely challenging, especially if your childhood was less than ideal. I help couples learn to listen to each other and talk about difficult issues without being triggered by past events or experiences. These reactions can cause defensiveness, or result in attacks on, or withdrawal from, the other. I help change these patterns, facilitate productive discussions and help you get the love and closeness back in your marriage. Couples can heal, become stronger in their bond and rejoin in love even after an affair or infatuation. I have 29 years of experience as an insight-oriented psychotherapist working with individuals and couples.
Marriage can be extremely challenging, especially if your childhood was less than ideal. I help couples learn to listen to each other and talk about difficult issues without being triggered by past events or experiences. These reactions can cause defensiveness, or result in attacks on, or withdrawal from, the other. I help change these patterns, facilitate productive discussions and help you get the love and closeness back in your marriage. Couples can heal, become stronger in their bond and rejoin in love even after an affair or infatuation. I have 29 years of experience as an insight-oriented psychotherapist working with individuals and couples.
(707) 902-3990 View (707) 902-3990
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Kelli Mosley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558  (Online Only)
Hello, I'm Kelli! I have been working within the social services field since 2001 and completed my master's degree in counseling psychology from California Baptist University in 2005. I have been fully licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist since 2018 and hold a license in both Nevada and California. If you are going to invest your time and resources, you want to know that you will be meeting with a therapist who is competent to address your needs and who truly sees you as the unique person you are.
Hello, I'm Kelli! I have been working within the social services field since 2001 and completed my master's degree in counseling psychology from California Baptist University in 2005. I have been fully licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist since 2018 and hold a license in both Nevada and California. If you are going to invest your time and resources, you want to know that you will be meeting with a therapist who is competent to address your needs and who truly sees you as the unique person you are.
(707) 405-3908 View (707) 405-3908
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Luis Gonzalez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559
Life is complex. Sometimes everything is going well and things make sense, and other times we feel lost and confused. If you are currently seeking therapy, you may be feeling symptoms of emotional distress due to any number of things such as: intimate partner relationships, illness, grief/loss, or life transitions, etc. The hope, however, lies in knowing that you are not alone. As your therapist, my intention is to create a non-judgmental, safe space to help you process difficult thoughts and feelings. I rely on using a compassionate, strengths-based approach that acknowledges that you are at the center of your treatment.
Life is complex. Sometimes everything is going well and things make sense, and other times we feel lost and confused. If you are currently seeking therapy, you may be feeling symptoms of emotional distress due to any number of things such as: intimate partner relationships, illness, grief/loss, or life transitions, etc. The hope, however, lies in knowing that you are not alone. As your therapist, my intention is to create a non-judgmental, safe space to help you process difficult thoughts and feelings. I rely on using a compassionate, strengths-based approach that acknowledges that you are at the center of your treatment.
(707) 926-4876 View (707) 926-4876
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Tracy Hesse
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Napa, CA 94559
I believe we all possess innate strengths and have the potential to thrive and live meaningful lives; however, sometimes we get stuck. Major changes, life stage transitions, and stressors can become overwhelming, exceed the ability to cope, and prompt individuals, couples, and families to seek outside support. These times also hold potential for healing and growth. I use a non-judgmental, culturally sensitive, attachment, and systems lens to view and explore issues impacting the person, couple, and family; and collaborate to explore possible solutions. I work with children, adolescents, and adults of all ages and in all life stages.
I believe we all possess innate strengths and have the potential to thrive and live meaningful lives; however, sometimes we get stuck. Major changes, life stage transitions, and stressors can become overwhelming, exceed the ability to cope, and prompt individuals, couples, and families to seek outside support. These times also hold potential for healing and growth. I use a non-judgmental, culturally sensitive, attachment, and systems lens to view and explore issues impacting the person, couple, and family; and collaborate to explore possible solutions. I work with children, adolescents, and adults of all ages and in all life stages.
(707) 668-7103 View (707) 668-7103
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Cathie Gordon
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Napa, CA 94559
If you are looking for help dealing with overwhelming emotions, relationship difficulties, or challenging life transitions, I'm glad you have found me. I work with individuals on a wide variety of issues such as depression, anxiety, relationships issues, trauma, grief and loss, and stage of life transitions. I especially enjoy working with women with mid-life concerns. Working with couples and families, I focus on all stages of relationship including premarital counseling, couples and families in crisis or looking for deeper connection and those considering or in the process of separating or divorcing.
If you are looking for help dealing with overwhelming emotions, relationship difficulties, or challenging life transitions, I'm glad you have found me. I work with individuals on a wide variety of issues such as depression, anxiety, relationships issues, trauma, grief and loss, and stage of life transitions. I especially enjoy working with women with mid-life concerns. Working with couples and families, I focus on all stages of relationship including premarital counseling, couples and families in crisis or looking for deeper connection and those considering or in the process of separating or divorcing.
(707) 419-3169 View (707) 419-3169
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Samuel Moglen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Napa, CA 94558
My name is Sam and I help people who are struggling with issues around anxiety, depression, and trauma using a variety of therapeutic approaches including somatic, mindfulness and eye movement desensitization reprocessing. I support individuals who are struggling to feel normal or live a full life by using an approach that is comfortable you.
My name is Sam and I help people who are struggling with issues around anxiety, depression, and trauma using a variety of therapeutic approaches including somatic, mindfulness and eye movement desensitization reprocessing. I support individuals who are struggling to feel normal or live a full life by using an approach that is comfortable you.
(707) 375-9116 View (707) 375-9116
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Madhur-Nain Webster
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558
Life is a wild journey. There is so much to navigate through, and many of us do not have a road map. With no directions to guide us, we often get stuck circulating around the same issues. We repeat patterns of thoughts, behaviors, actions. We overanalyze. We shame ourselves. Anything can trigger these cycles: trauma, drama, emotions, a sense of grandiosity…
Life is a wild journey. There is so much to navigate through, and many of us do not have a road map. With no directions to guide us, we often get stuck circulating around the same issues. We repeat patterns of thoughts, behaviors, actions. We overanalyze. We shame ourselves. Anything can trigger these cycles: trauma, drama, emotions, a sense of grandiosity…
(707) 207-6024 View (707) 207-6024
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Annette Henke Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACHP-SW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Napa, CA 94559
Many people come to me with prior experiences of therapy that were not helpful. This happens for many reasons but sometimes it's as simple as it wasn't the right fit. A wise mentor explained that "all human growth and healing takes place in the context of relationship, from infancy on". Therapy is a relationship of growth, change, healing. Many people are driven to therapy because of suffering in current or past relationship. Often the most challenging and hurtful relationship we have is the one with one's self. The "right" therapist is one that makes moving through this vulnerable process possible and bearable.
Many people come to me with prior experiences of therapy that were not helpful. This happens for many reasons but sometimes it's as simple as it wasn't the right fit. A wise mentor explained that "all human growth and healing takes place in the context of relationship, from infancy on". Therapy is a relationship of growth, change, healing. Many people are driven to therapy because of suffering in current or past relationship. Often the most challenging and hurtful relationship we have is the one with one's self. The "right" therapist is one that makes moving through this vulnerable process possible and bearable.
(707) 210-1849 View (707) 210-1849
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Mika K Shiner
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Napa, CA 94559
Life and relationships: ever-changing and often challenging. I offer a safe and collaborative, therapeutic relationship, where you can expand your ability to improve the quality of your life and your relationships. I specialize in working with young adults, individuals, and couples. Therapy can provide understanding, relief from suffering, healthier relationships, and personal empowerment. Each person or couple benefits from therapy design specifically for them.
Life and relationships: ever-changing and often challenging. I offer a safe and collaborative, therapeutic relationship, where you can expand your ability to improve the quality of your life and your relationships. I specialize in working with young adults, individuals, and couples. Therapy can provide understanding, relief from suffering, healthier relationships, and personal empowerment. Each person or couple benefits from therapy design specifically for them.
(707) 418-9715 View (707) 418-9715
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Juliet Elizabeth Broughton
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559
It is an honor for me to facilitate a client's healing by creating a partnership in their journey. I provide an environment of safety, nurturing and empathy, to support in a nonjudgemental way. I use a holistic approach in a framework that feels best to the client. I work short and long-term with individuals, couples and families. I specialize in grief, relationships, loss, couples, trauma, and life transitions. I have worked in the elder care field for 25 years, focusing on aging issues including dementia, and terminal diagnoses. I am honored to walk your path with you, as you find your way to a more fulfilling life.
It is an honor for me to facilitate a client's healing by creating a partnership in their journey. I provide an environment of safety, nurturing and empathy, to support in a nonjudgemental way. I use a holistic approach in a framework that feels best to the client. I work short and long-term with individuals, couples and families. I specialize in grief, relationships, loss, couples, trauma, and life transitions. I have worked in the elder care field for 25 years, focusing on aging issues including dementia, and terminal diagnoses. I am honored to walk your path with you, as you find your way to a more fulfilling life.
(707) 229-1591 View (707) 229-1591
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Bruce A Killen
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, MFT, CHT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558
I can help you if you are motivated, tailoring what we do to your needs, talents, strengths, and challenges; I look for the best in my clients and respect how different we all are, believing in the hidden genius and wisdom in everyone. I will not judge you and focus on empathy, acceptance, understanding, and a very good connection with my clients. I enjoy people from all cultures, ethnicities, and walks of life and thus speak several languages.
I can help you if you are motivated, tailoring what we do to your needs, talents, strengths, and challenges; I look for the best in my clients and respect how different we all are, believing in the hidden genius and wisdom in everyone. I will not judge you and focus on empathy, acceptance, understanding, and a very good connection with my clients. I enjoy people from all cultures, ethnicities, and walks of life and thus speak several languages.
(415) 749-9246 View (415) 749-9246
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Tracy Reeves
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94559
"May your choices reflect your HOPES, not your fears." - Nelson Mandela - Life can be stressful and overwhelming sometimes, causing us to lose track of long-term goals and everyday pleasures. Everyday stress stemming from family/relationship conflict, parenting issues, career choices and life transitions can build up and feel impossible to escape from. Therapy can be a useful guide to help get back on track and focus on what truly makes you happy.
"May your choices reflect your HOPES, not your fears." - Nelson Mandela - Life can be stressful and overwhelming sometimes, causing us to lose track of long-term goals and everyday pleasures. Everyday stress stemming from family/relationship conflict, parenting issues, career choices and life transitions can build up and feel impossible to escape from. Therapy can be a useful guide to help get back on track and focus on what truly makes you happy.
(707) 410-0606 View (707) 410-0606
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Ailsa Long
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Napa, CA 94558
Ailsa Long, MFC 40771. I focus on adult clients experiencing life stressors, family stressors, Anxiety, Trauma, Depression, and grief. I work with adult clients experiencing depression, anxiety, panic attacks, grief, Trauma, and family, relationship, and life stressors. I’m very validating and empathetic but I’m also tools-oriented and have a direct approach as well.
Ailsa Long, MFC 40771. I focus on adult clients experiencing life stressors, family stressors, Anxiety, Trauma, Depression, and grief. I work with adult clients experiencing depression, anxiety, panic attacks, grief, Trauma, and family, relationship, and life stressors. I’m very validating and empathetic but I’m also tools-oriented and have a direct approach as well.
(707) 728-8055 View (707) 728-8055
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.