Relationship Issues Therapists in Los Gatos, CA

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Devora Lomas
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, APCC, MPH
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
Finding a therapist or life/ relationship coach can be a daunting task.
Have you been wanting to change? Have you been trying to change and haven't achieved your goals? Is your relationship in need of change? It can be so hard to find motivation to start or sustain change. It can feel so isolating when you are unhappy and unsure what to do. You constantly question yourself: what is wrong with me? Why can't I do things like other people? We all get stuck. We all need additional perspective at times. The solutions you seek are within you and I will help you find them.
Finding a therapist or life/ relationship coach can be a daunting task.
Have you been wanting to change? Have you been trying to change and haven't achieved your goals? Is your relationship in need of change? It can be so hard to find motivation to start or sustain change. It can feel so isolating when you are unhappy and unsure what to do. You constantly question yourself: what is wrong with me? Why can't I do things like other people? We all get stuck. We all need additional perspective at times. The solutions you seek are within you and I will help you find them.
(408) 831-7902 View (408) 831-7902
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Sarah Asmussen
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
Dr. Asmussen is a clinical neuropsychologist offering therapy and assessment. Her focus in therapy is facilitating in-depth relationship work by using an integrated approach applying Mindfulness, CBT, Psychodynamic and Couples-based treatments. By using integrated therapeutic techniques, Dr. Asmussen works closely with her clients to strengthen and deepen the core relationships in their lives, and also treats terminally ill patients and their family members. In addition to providing relationship support through clinical interventions, she provides comprehensive neuropsychological and psychological evaluations.
Dr. Asmussen is a clinical neuropsychologist offering therapy and assessment. Her focus in therapy is facilitating in-depth relationship work by using an integrated approach applying Mindfulness, CBT, Psychodynamic and Couples-based treatments. By using integrated therapeutic techniques, Dr. Asmussen works closely with her clients to strengthen and deepen the core relationships in their lives, and also treats terminally ill patients and their family members. In addition to providing relationship support through clinical interventions, she provides comprehensive neuropsychological and psychological evaluations.
(669) 221-8363 View (669) 221-8363
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Ricci Elliott
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032  (Online Only)
The therapeutic relationship is an essential part of success in therapy.
Seeking and getting support isn't always easy, but we aren't meant to endure life's challenges alone. Reaching out for support is itself a brave act of self love, and in doing so you will prove to yourself the depth of your abilities and the unlimited potential for growth with which you possess. I believe people are capable of so much, and my goal is to work collaboratively with you to help you achieve what you want to get out of your life and your relationships with others.
The therapeutic relationship is an essential part of success in therapy.
Seeking and getting support isn't always easy, but we aren't meant to endure life's challenges alone. Reaching out for support is itself a brave act of self love, and in doing so you will prove to yourself the depth of your abilities and the unlimited potential for growth with which you possess. I believe people are capable of so much, and my goal is to work collaboratively with you to help you achieve what you want to get out of your life and your relationships with others.
(510) 661-3402 View (510) 661-3402
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Michelle Cherry
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
In Person Sessions Available. I provide Couples Therapy, including; Marital, Infidelity, relationship sexual concerns, and Individual Therapy for Anxiety, PMDD and PME. I help couples deepen their intimacy, improve communication, and resolve long standing conflicts. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman, Sex Therapy Informed, and 3rd wave Behavioral Approaches (DBT, ACT).
In Person Sessions Available. I provide Couples Therapy, including; Marital, Infidelity, relationship sexual concerns, and Individual Therapy for Anxiety, PMDD and PME. I help couples deepen their intimacy, improve communication, and resolve long standing conflicts. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman, Sex Therapy Informed, and 3rd wave Behavioral Approaches (DBT, ACT).
(408) 539-7634 View (408) 539-7634
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Jennifer Yager
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT, PPS
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
The best predictor of success in therapy is the relationship built between the client and the therapist. I create an environment where you will experience unconditional acceptance and a safe place to share your thoughts and feelings. Over the course of therapy, you will feel more confident in yourself, your decisions and build healthy coping skills. For 15 years I have helped my clients cope with a variety of issues including: depression, anxiety, parenting, divorce, affairs, eating disorders, relationships, communication, grief and loss, setting appropriate boundaries, increased self-confidence and self-esteem.
The best predictor of success in therapy is the relationship built between the client and the therapist. I create an environment where you will experience unconditional acceptance and a safe place to share your thoughts and feelings. Over the course of therapy, you will feel more confident in yourself, your decisions and build healthy coping skills. For 15 years I have helped my clients cope with a variety of issues including: depression, anxiety, parenting, divorce, affairs, eating disorders, relationships, communication, grief and loss, setting appropriate boundaries, increased self-confidence and self-esteem.
(408) 837-4110 View (408) 837-4110
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Desiree Hedberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032
Whether you have a traditional relationship, or an ENM (CNM or open-to-poly), we are here to help without judgement.
Affirming Relationship Therapy provides a judgement-free space to work on helping people create more balance and calm in their lives and within their relationships. We help you connect with your authentic self and guide you on that journey. Together, we will work through changes, anxieties, or other stressors in a way that focuses on emotional well-being and growth. We'll use mindfulness, person-centered therapy, coupled with an attachment approach and emotionally focused therapy that fits your style - let us help you to get to where you envision yourself and your relationships at their best.
Whether you have a traditional relationship, or an ENM (CNM or open-to-poly), we are here to help without judgement.
Affirming Relationship Therapy provides a judgement-free space to work on helping people create more balance and calm in their lives and within their relationships. We help you connect with your authentic self and guide you on that journey. Together, we will work through changes, anxieties, or other stressors in a way that focuses on emotional well-being and growth. We'll use mindfulness, person-centered therapy, coupled with an attachment approach and emotionally focused therapy that fits your style - let us help you to get to where you envision yourself and your relationships at their best.
(408) 409-8257 View (408) 409-8257
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Whitney Heier
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95030  (Online Only)
I have been in the therapy field for 10 years and have worked primarily with eating disorders, highly sensitive people, families, couples, and narcissistic/codependent relationship patterns, including those involving abuse.
If you struggle with low self worth, setting boundaries, losing yourself in your relationships, feeling over stimulated and overwhelmed by life, lack of self and intuitive and body connection, we might be a particularly aligned fit to work together. If you are struggling in your relationship with food and/or body image I can offer you support and hope for healing. I am an attachment-oriented therapist when it comes to supporting the parent/child relationship. I believe that when working with children and youth it is vitally important to work congruently with parents and caregivers as well.
I have been in the therapy field for 10 years and have worked primarily with eating disorders, highly sensitive people, families, couples, and narcissistic/codependent relationship patterns, including those involving abuse.
If you struggle with low self worth, setting boundaries, losing yourself in your relationships, feeling over stimulated and overwhelmed by life, lack of self and intuitive and body connection, we might be a particularly aligned fit to work together. If you are struggling in your relationship with food and/or body image I can offer you support and hope for healing. I am an attachment-oriented therapist when it comes to supporting the parent/child relationship. I believe that when working with children and youth it is vitally important to work congruently with parents and caregivers as well.
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Marie A. Felberg
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95030
If you are stuck, thinking the same thoughts over and over, lying awake, unable to turn off your brain - we need to talk! I can help you climb out of your rut, and consider the alternatives. Drawing on several therapeutic modalities, I customize a treatment strategy best suited to your problem, temperament, and personal strengths. With a practice in Los Gatos, I have developed a number of specialties, relevant to the Silicon Valley high-tech, high-achievement, high-pressure environment: anxiety; life-work balance; obesity; chronic pain management; mood disorders; workplace conflict; relationship issues; and coping skills.
If you are stuck, thinking the same thoughts over and over, lying awake, unable to turn off your brain - we need to talk! I can help you climb out of your rut, and consider the alternatives. Drawing on several therapeutic modalities, I customize a treatment strategy best suited to your problem, temperament, and personal strengths. With a practice in Los Gatos, I have developed a number of specialties, relevant to the Silicon Valley high-tech, high-achievement, high-pressure environment: anxiety; life-work balance; obesity; chronic pain management; mood disorders; workplace conflict; relationship issues; and coping skills.
(650) 241-2206 View (650) 241-2206
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Mike Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95030
There are times where life feels it’s not going the way it should be. The things you used to do that worked just aren’t helping you anymore. Whether you are struggling with being able to focus on your goals, depression or anxiety has you down, or just navigating your relationships, I’m here to help. We can’t change the past, but we can look at what is going on in the present and look toward a future you want. In addition to helping individuals and couples with relationship struggles and helping them find a life that aligns with what they want, I offer an 8 week group for men struggling with online dating. See my website for info.
There are times where life feels it’s not going the way it should be. The things you used to do that worked just aren’t helping you anymore. Whether you are struggling with being able to focus on your goals, depression or anxiety has you down, or just navigating your relationships, I’m here to help. We can’t change the past, but we can look at what is going on in the present and look toward a future you want. In addition to helping individuals and couples with relationship struggles and helping them find a life that aligns with what they want, I offer an 8 week group for men struggling with online dating. See my website for info.
(408) 886-9461 View (408) 886-9461
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Vicky Venter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95030
I work best with high functioning individuals in executive roles and couples struggling with relationship issues, life events , depression and anxiety. When you are heard, seen, and encouraged, helped to explore and re-discover what you feel passionate and enlivened about, there is a good chance you will grow. You're probably here because perhaps you feel stuck, frustrated and discouraged - in your relationships, your job or with life in general and you want to make some fundamental changes and need some guidance and support. I can help you with this.
I work best with high functioning individuals in executive roles and couples struggling with relationship issues, life events , depression and anxiety. When you are heard, seen, and encouraged, helped to explore and re-discover what you feel passionate and enlivened about, there is a good chance you will grow. You're probably here because perhaps you feel stuck, frustrated and discouraged - in your relationships, your job or with life in general and you want to make some fundamental changes and need some guidance and support. I can help you with this.
(408) 837-5920 View (408) 837-5920
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Jenna Sholl, Cura Integrative Health
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032
Do you find your current relationship(s) disappointing, have trouble keeping relationships or finding one at all? Our patients have concerns about how trauma impacts their daily life. They often report that food feels overwhelming and confusing. We will track and understand the unsettling and yet important feelings you have about yourself, your past, your food intake and your relationships with others. Common topics addressed in session include anxiety, low mood, sleep difficulty, feeling out of control with food, concerns about sex and more. Taking the first step to examine this with us isn't always easy but can be life-altering.
Do you find your current relationship(s) disappointing, have trouble keeping relationships or finding one at all? Our patients have concerns about how trauma impacts their daily life. They often report that food feels overwhelming and confusing. We will track and understand the unsettling and yet important feelings you have about yourself, your past, your food intake and your relationships with others. Common topics addressed in session include anxiety, low mood, sleep difficulty, feeling out of control with food, concerns about sex and more. Taking the first step to examine this with us isn't always easy but can be life-altering.
(408) 457-0403 View (408) 457-0403
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Victoria Swenson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95030  (Online Only)
Would you like to improve your relationship by strengthening communication, dealing with conflict effectively, reviving intimacy, or balancing family/work demands? Do you want to get beyond feeling stuck in self-sabotaging and self-destructive habits? Are you tired of dealing with the emotional and physical effects of anxiety? As a specialist in couples therapy and anxiety treatment for adults, I work with people to explore unproductive patterns and develop more useful alternatives for healthier relationships and satisfying lives.
Would you like to improve your relationship by strengthening communication, dealing with conflict effectively, reviving intimacy, or balancing family/work demands? Do you want to get beyond feeling stuck in self-sabotaging and self-destructive habits? Are you tired of dealing with the emotional and physical effects of anxiety? As a specialist in couples therapy and anxiety treatment for adults, I work with people to explore unproductive patterns and develop more useful alternatives for healthier relationships and satisfying lives.
(408) 759-4097 View (408) 759-4097
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Wendy Yeh
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95030
You are frustrated with people in your life. You have resentment toward those you are meant to love; you feel misunderstood and judged; you worry others view you badly; you feel disconnected and excluded. Relationship feels confusing and frustrating. It feels like nothing you try works, you feel like it's your fault, and you feel empty inside. Your anxiety and loneliness won't go away on its own. Let me help you understand why you feel the way you do, help you gain abilities to truly connected with yourself and others, and mental clarity to handle interpersonal exchanges in ways that feels confident, caring, and thoughtful.
You are frustrated with people in your life. You have resentment toward those you are meant to love; you feel misunderstood and judged; you worry others view you badly; you feel disconnected and excluded. Relationship feels confusing and frustrating. It feels like nothing you try works, you feel like it's your fault, and you feel empty inside. Your anxiety and loneliness won't go away on its own. Let me help you understand why you feel the way you do, help you gain abilities to truly connected with yourself and others, and mental clarity to handle interpersonal exchanges in ways that feels confident, caring, and thoughtful.
(650) 666-2099 View (650) 666-2099
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Gail Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032  (Online Only)
Welcome to my psychotherapy practice, where I believe in the transformative power of therapy. I have several openings for Telehealth sessions at $150 (for individual). With a personalized and empathetic approach, I provide a safe space for you to explore your thoughts, behavioral choices, emotions, and challenges. My goal is to guide you towards self-discovery, resilience, and lasting positive change. I specialize in addiction recovery, relationship challenges, young adult coaching and parental support. I am dedicated to supporting you on your journey to mental and emotional well-being. ALL are Welcome here. LGBTQ+
Welcome to my psychotherapy practice, where I believe in the transformative power of therapy. I have several openings for Telehealth sessions at $150 (for individual). With a personalized and empathetic approach, I provide a safe space for you to explore your thoughts, behavioral choices, emotions, and challenges. My goal is to guide you towards self-discovery, resilience, and lasting positive change. I specialize in addiction recovery, relationship challenges, young adult coaching and parental support. I am dedicated to supporting you on your journey to mental and emotional well-being. ALL are Welcome here. LGBTQ+
(669) 200-0519 View (669) 200-0519
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Melinda Sue Johnson Carcich
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
I believe the therapeutic relationship is an important piece of the process through which growth and healing can occur. Helping clients to feel safe enough to share their feelings is paramount, and to offer hope is vital. It is important for the fearful to know that courage is being afraid, but doing it anyway. This concept promotes self esteem, and helps people to move forward in their lives. I use a variety of theoretical orientations, but chose the ones that are best suited for my client needs. I give clients tools to work with that will help them change their negative thoughts to positive ones..
I believe the therapeutic relationship is an important piece of the process through which growth and healing can occur. Helping clients to feel safe enough to share their feelings is paramount, and to offer hope is vital. It is important for the fearful to know that courage is being afraid, but doing it anyway. This concept promotes self esteem, and helps people to move forward in their lives. I use a variety of theoretical orientations, but chose the ones that are best suited for my client needs. I give clients tools to work with that will help them change their negative thoughts to positive ones..
(408) 659-0537 View (408) 659-0537
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Jeni Woodfin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95030
With help, you can work towards a new type of relationship, focused on truly knowing one another.
The violation of trust in a relationship is one of the most devastating things you can experience. Infidelity leaves you feeling confused, alone, and hopeless. Affairs are often a symptom of other struggles in a relationship, where one or both partners feel a lack of being seen and a loss of connection. Believe it or not, this can be an opportunity to strengthen your relationship. Infidelity can be the worst or best thing that happened to you. The next steps are up to you. With determination, hard work, and the right support, you can use it to heal.
With help, you can work towards a new type of relationship, focused on truly knowing one another.
The violation of trust in a relationship is one of the most devastating things you can experience. Infidelity leaves you feeling confused, alone, and hopeless. Affairs are often a symptom of other struggles in a relationship, where one or both partners feel a lack of being seen and a loss of connection. Believe it or not, this can be an opportunity to strengthen your relationship. Infidelity can be the worst or best thing that happened to you. The next steps are up to you. With determination, hard work, and the right support, you can use it to heal.
(408) 669-4649 View (408) 669-4649
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Julee Peterson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95031  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I bring a sense of genuine caring to the therapeutic relationship and I have the personal experience of living in a blended family.
Hello, I'm Julee Peterson. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working online throughout California. I am interested in helping blended families, repairing marriages and strengthen family bonds. I'm part of a blended family and have walked the difficult starting path and have insight into the nuances of blended family life. What I love most about my work is positively affecting people’s lives through psycho-education and helping improve communication and understanding between family members and couples. Better communication increases trust for better functioning relationships.
I bring a sense of genuine caring to the therapeutic relationship and I have the personal experience of living in a blended family.
Hello, I'm Julee Peterson. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working online throughout California. I am interested in helping blended families, repairing marriages and strengthen family bonds. I'm part of a blended family and have walked the difficult starting path and have insight into the nuances of blended family life. What I love most about my work is positively affecting people’s lives through psycho-education and helping improve communication and understanding between family members and couples. Better communication increases trust for better functioning relationships.
(408) 402-4018 View (408) 402-4018
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Morgan Joines
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032
Sometimes we do not know where to start in addressing that disturbing feeling, that challenging relationship or that overwhelming addiction.
Welcome! There comes a time in everyone's life when talking to someone is a healthy step in bringing peace and balance to ones life. If you are reading this, you are one step closer to deciding if talking to a therapist is right for you at this time in your life. My goal is to help you feel comfortable and safe in the therapeutic process. To help build trust, that therapy can be a useful and effective tool to help achieve the health, healing and balance that you wish to bring to your life.
Sometimes we do not know where to start in addressing that disturbing feeling, that challenging relationship or that overwhelming addiction.
Welcome! There comes a time in everyone's life when talking to someone is a healthy step in bringing peace and balance to ones life. If you are reading this, you are one step closer to deciding if talking to a therapist is right for you at this time in your life. My goal is to help you feel comfortable and safe in the therapeutic process. To help build trust, that therapy can be a useful and effective tool to help achieve the health, healing and balance that you wish to bring to your life.
(408) 609-3863 View (408) 609-3863
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Jeanne Jakob / Inside Out Psychology Inc
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
The quality of our relationship is critical to getting the most out of our work together.
I am a seasoned, board-certified psychologist licensed in California. I provide individual and group psychotherapy via telehealth and in-person (Los Gatos, CA). My ideal clients are motivated to develop psychological flexibility skills to live more fulfilling lives. I integrate various psychotherapy perspectives, with a strong emphasis on evidence-based approaches (ACT, CBT, DBT). I am the owner of Inside Out Psychology, an educational and wellness company. I offer Zoom mindfulness sessions to the general public and host expert webinars to educate mental health consumers. Psychotherapy practice: DrJeanneJakob.com
The quality of our relationship is critical to getting the most out of our work together.
I am a seasoned, board-certified psychologist licensed in California. I provide individual and group psychotherapy via telehealth and in-person (Los Gatos, CA). My ideal clients are motivated to develop psychological flexibility skills to live more fulfilling lives. I integrate various psychotherapy perspectives, with a strong emphasis on evidence-based approaches (ACT, CBT, DBT). I am the owner of Inside Out Psychology, an educational and wellness company. I offer Zoom mindfulness sessions to the general public and host expert webinars to educate mental health consumers. Psychotherapy practice: DrJeanneJakob.com
(650) 429-8787 View (650) 429-8787
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Marco Antonio Alejandro
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032
Working with clients has taught me each client, couple, and/or family is unique and deserves a treatment plan that is formulated to their needs. I have discovered that my job is to meet the client where they are and to utilize a modality or set of modalities that best serves my clients. I have learned to help clients peel back the layers so you can address what brought you into therapy. I am happy working with individuals as well as people in relationships, couples, and people with open and polyamorous relationship styles. My goal is to help give you the tools to improve all the relationships in your life.
Working with clients has taught me each client, couple, and/or family is unique and deserves a treatment plan that is formulated to their needs. I have discovered that my job is to meet the client where they are and to utilize a modality or set of modalities that best serves my clients. I have learned to help clients peel back the layers so you can address what brought you into therapy. I am happy working with individuals as well as people in relationships, couples, and people with open and polyamorous relationship styles. My goal is to help give you the tools to improve all the relationships in your life.
(408) 351-7458 View (408) 351-7458
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.