Relationship Issues Therapists in Los Altos Hills, CA
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Start seeing challenges as opportunities to get your needs met and improve your relationship! I’m Dr. Sean Robertson, creator of RDP. I work as an online Couples Counselor and Intimacy Coach. I know relationships can be hard, even though they’re also one of the most fulfilling parts of our life. In my couples counseling I create an empathic space for learning and deep connection, while also being diligent about ensuring that clients implement the tools I teach. My methods are based in behavioral psychology, Gottman Method, and attachment psychology.
Start seeing challenges as opportunities to get your needs met and improve your relationship! I’m Dr. Sean Robertson, creator of RDP. I work as an online Couples Counselor and Intimacy Coach. I know relationships can be hard, even though they’re also one of the most fulfilling parts of our life. In my couples counseling I create an empathic space for learning and deep connection, while also being diligent about ensuring that clients implement the tools I teach. My methods are based in behavioral psychology, Gottman Method, and attachment psychology.
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DTLA Couples Counseling & Adoption Evaluations
Psychologist, PsyD, MDiv
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
I serve couples/throuples who are in one of two kinds of situations. 1) At least one person is so hurt or hopeless they aren't sure whether they want to stay in the relationship. 2) Everyone wants to keep this relationship; they want it to be the best version of the relationship. And they're having trouble getting there....Many of my clients are also dealing with schizophrenia, traumas, or bipolar disorder....And I do evaluations for couples adopting from India.
I serve couples/throuples who are in one of two kinds of situations. 1) At least one person is so hurt or hopeless they aren't sure whether they want to stay in the relationship. 2) Everyone wants to keep this relationship; they want it to be the best version of the relationship. And they're having trouble getting there....Many of my clients are also dealing with schizophrenia, traumas, or bipolar disorder....And I do evaluations for couples adopting from India.
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Dr. Anissa: Self-Esteem & Relationship Concerns
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Are you feeling frustrated & misunderstood in your relationships? Do relationships seem more complicated & overwhelming? Life is just so busy, you can barely keep up. These experiences can lead to feeling unsatisfied, exhausted, helpless, and alone. Uncomfortable & painful emotions can be a result of changes in your life, relationship or family conflict, social struggles, feeling unheard, or feeling overwhelmed by the world around you. You may be tired of living your life on autopilot, & have reached a point where you're ready to see changes happen. I can help you move towards living your life in a more fulfilling & manageable way.
Are you feeling frustrated & misunderstood in your relationships? Do relationships seem more complicated & overwhelming? Life is just so busy, you can barely keep up. These experiences can lead to feeling unsatisfied, exhausted, helpless, and alone. Uncomfortable & painful emotions can be a result of changes in your life, relationship or family conflict, social struggles, feeling unheard, or feeling overwhelmed by the world around you. You may be tired of living your life on autopilot, & have reached a point where you're ready to see changes happen. I can help you move towards living your life in a more fulfilling & manageable way.
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Mary Ellen Lemieux, JD, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, JD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94024
I enjoy working with adults and families who desire change, but aren't sure how to make it happen. For some, it means a change in relationship dynamics or parenting style. For others, it means collaborating on complicated life issues, such as difficult teenagers, substance abuse, or co-parenting. If you are looking to leave a long marriage, I can help you navigate that process. I also enjoy working with individuals in their 20's and 30's trying to figure out this thing called adulting. I split my time between Steamboat Springs,CO and northern California, and am licensed to see clients in California, Colorado and Utah.
I enjoy working with adults and families who desire change, but aren't sure how to make it happen. For some, it means a change in relationship dynamics or parenting style. For others, it means collaborating on complicated life issues, such as difficult teenagers, substance abuse, or co-parenting. If you are looking to leave a long marriage, I can help you navigate that process. I also enjoy working with individuals in their 20's and 30's trying to figure out this thing called adulting. I split my time between Steamboat Springs,CO and northern California, and am licensed to see clients in California, Colorado and Utah.
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Araceli Pimentel
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, ASW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of conflict and misunderstanding in your relationships? Do you long for deeper connections but find yourself facing barriers you can't seem to overcome? As a therapist specializing in relationship issues, I am here to offer you a guiding hand on your journey towards healing and connection. With a warm, empathetic approach, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their feelings, communicate effectively, and foster healthier relationships. My focus areas include anxiety/depression, childhood trauma, PTSD, people-pleasing, and marital/pre-marital issues .
Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of conflict and misunderstanding in your relationships? Do you long for deeper connections but find yourself facing barriers you can't seem to overcome? As a therapist specializing in relationship issues, I am here to offer you a guiding hand on your journey towards healing and connection. With a warm, empathetic approach, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their feelings, communicate effectively, and foster healthier relationships. My focus areas include anxiety/depression, childhood trauma, PTSD, people-pleasing, and marital/pre-marital issues .
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My specialties are providing Mandarin-English bilingual therapy, working with internationals, immigrants, and Asian/Asian Americans, and treating relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, women’s issues, and attachment (family-of-origin) issues.
I’m glad you are here! Looking for a therapist means you’ve taken the initiative to ask for help and seek for change. Many people say that they already start to feel better after making their first appointment. Whether you are feeling stuck or blocked to achieve your goals, losing self-confidence and motivation; or having difficulty coping with a recent loss, a big life change; or finding yourself feeling more anxious, sad, angry, or having more arguments and feeling unsatisfied in your significant relationships; or you are interested in figuring out who you are and feel more connected with yourself; I am here for you.
My specialties are providing Mandarin-English bilingual therapy, working with internationals, immigrants, and Asian/Asian Americans, and treating relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, women’s issues, and attachment (family-of-origin) issues.
I’m glad you are here! Looking for a therapist means you’ve taken the initiative to ask for help and seek for change. Many people say that they already start to feel better after making their first appointment. Whether you are feeling stuck or blocked to achieve your goals, losing self-confidence and motivation; or having difficulty coping with a recent loss, a big life change; or finding yourself feeling more anxious, sad, angry, or having more arguments and feeling unsatisfied in your significant relationships; or you are interested in figuring out who you are and feel more connected with yourself; I am here for you.
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Smadar Salzman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
26 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Together we'll identify how relational patterns from the past keep you stuck replaying painful relationship dynamics in the present.
Do you keep getting hurt in relationships? Keep repeating the same patterns that leave you anxious & depressed? Feel alone, numb, or spiral into intense overwhelming feelings out of nowhere? Early relationships are our blueprint for relationships with self & others. They shape our perceptions & beliefs, often subconsciously. If you grew up with family conflict, mentally ill or absent parents- adult relationships can be hard! You're tired of feeling stuck in the same painful patterns. You know something needs to change, you're just not sure what or how. You're ready to stop feeling broken & finally live an empowered, connected life.
Together we'll identify how relational patterns from the past keep you stuck replaying painful relationship dynamics in the present.
Do you keep getting hurt in relationships? Keep repeating the same patterns that leave you anxious & depressed? Feel alone, numb, or spiral into intense overwhelming feelings out of nowhere? Early relationships are our blueprint for relationships with self & others. They shape our perceptions & beliefs, often subconsciously. If you grew up with family conflict, mentally ill or absent parents- adult relationships can be hard! You're tired of feeling stuck in the same painful patterns. You know something needs to change, you're just not sure what or how. You're ready to stop feeling broken & finally live an empowered, connected life.
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Dr. Kimberly Diorio
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, EdD, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Feeling trapped in a cycle of stress and worry? Is your relationship or career causing distress? Maybe you feel stuck, lonely, sad, or overwhelmed by choices. Imagine having a compassionate guide to help you navigate these struggles. A therapist isn’t here to tell you what to do but to help you uncover hidden barriers & explore new perspectives. With over 25 years of counseling experience, I work with you to explore, heal, & thrive, finding a path to growth & well-being. Therapy is a collaborative partnership, & I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Feeling trapped in a cycle of stress and worry? Is your relationship or career causing distress? Maybe you feel stuck, lonely, sad, or overwhelmed by choices. Imagine having a compassionate guide to help you navigate these struggles. A therapist isn’t here to tell you what to do but to help you uncover hidden barriers & explore new perspectives. With over 25 years of counseling experience, I work with you to explore, heal, & thrive, finding a path to growth & well-being. Therapy is a collaborative partnership, & I’m here to support you every step of the way.
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Shari Grande
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94024 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am passionate about supporting adults through times of life transitions. These life shifts can be full of both excitement or dread and tremendous adjustment. I offer multimodal strategies for adult clients struggling with career optimization, in many cases due to (undiagnosed) ADHD based performance issues. Clinical specialties include: adult ADHD and Executive Functioning Coaching, perfectionism and shame resilience, codependency, imposter syndrome, relationship issues, communication problems, low self-esteem, grief and loss, parent coaching, self-regulation, anger management and treatment of anxiety and depression.
I am passionate about supporting adults through times of life transitions. These life shifts can be full of both excitement or dread and tremendous adjustment. I offer multimodal strategies for adult clients struggling with career optimization, in many cases due to (undiagnosed) ADHD based performance issues. Clinical specialties include: adult ADHD and Executive Functioning Coaching, perfectionism and shame resilience, codependency, imposter syndrome, relationship issues, communication problems, low self-esteem, grief and loss, parent coaching, self-regulation, anger management and treatment of anxiety and depression.
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Breathe Again Therapy - Psychotherapy And Sex Therapy
LMHC, LPCC, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
I appreciate you taking the time to see how I can assist with your journey. As a sex therapist, I help clients understand themselves, their relationship(s), and the world around them. My clients are adults, individuals, and relationships seeking support. Focus areas are desire and arousal, gender identity, exploration, acceptance, life transitions, and trauma recovery. Many clients are living and learning in kink, ethical non-monogamy, and or a poly lifestyle. I provide care and a safe space to all clients who are cis-gender, transgender, queer, BIPOC, non-binary, and non-conformists, and I'm a Sex Worker - Affirmative Therapist.
I appreciate you taking the time to see how I can assist with your journey. As a sex therapist, I help clients understand themselves, their relationship(s), and the world around them. My clients are adults, individuals, and relationships seeking support. Focus areas are desire and arousal, gender identity, exploration, acceptance, life transitions, and trauma recovery. Many clients are living and learning in kink, ethical non-monogamy, and or a poly lifestyle. I provide care and a safe space to all clients who are cis-gender, transgender, queer, BIPOC, non-binary, and non-conformists, and I'm a Sex Worker - Affirmative Therapist.
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Therapy is a process of self-reflection and conversation that honors the struggles of life: career uncertainty, relationship decisions, loneliness, grief, and the ongoing pursuit self-love.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others, and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience.
Therapy is a process of self-reflection and conversation that honors the struggles of life: career uncertainty, relationship decisions, loneliness, grief, and the ongoing pursuit self-love.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others, and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience.
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Our sessions are crafted to recognize the intricate relationship between our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations.
Are you a healthcare professional seeking holistic and transformative support for your well-being? As a Psychotherapist, I KNOW the demands of your field can be emotionally taxing, leading to stress and burn-out. It is vital that your health and wellness be prioritized to have a fulfilling life and effective practice. Whether you're navigating the complexities of patient care, managing the emotional demands of your role, or seeking personal growth within your therapeutic practice, our sessions are designed to provide a safe and nurturing space for exploration.
Our sessions are crafted to recognize the intricate relationship between our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations.
Are you a healthcare professional seeking holistic and transformative support for your well-being? As a Psychotherapist, I KNOW the demands of your field can be emotionally taxing, leading to stress and burn-out. It is vital that your health and wellness be prioritized to have a fulfilling life and effective practice. Whether you're navigating the complexities of patient care, managing the emotional demands of your role, or seeking personal growth within your therapeutic practice, our sessions are designed to provide a safe and nurturing space for exploration.
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Life is hard and relationships can be complicated. Figuring out how to navigate it all without losing ourselves is one of the greatest challenges we face. Add trauma, loss, self-esteem issues, relationship conflict, addiction, depression, and our whole world view changes. My goal is to help you navigate the journey, identify patterns and behaviors that don't work anymore, heal old wounds and help you feel good about who you are.
Life is hard and relationships can be complicated. Figuring out how to navigate it all without losing ourselves is one of the greatest challenges we face. Add trauma, loss, self-esteem issues, relationship conflict, addiction, depression, and our whole world view changes. My goal is to help you navigate the journey, identify patterns and behaviors that don't work anymore, heal old wounds and help you feel good about who you are.
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Dr. Sandra Konja
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
You’re here today because you’re likely struggling with some aspect of womanhood or motherhood and are looking to begin your journey towards healing. Maybe you’re a new mother that’s having a difficult time adjusting to your new “normal”, which has you feeling sad and/or anxious in your role. Perhaps you’re struggling to cope with challenges in your relationship/marriage. You may be having a difficult time feeling present and connected with both yourself and the people around you. Or maybe you’re ready to begin processing and working through the difficult experiences that have been holding you captive for so long.
You’re here today because you’re likely struggling with some aspect of womanhood or motherhood and are looking to begin your journey towards healing. Maybe you’re a new mother that’s having a difficult time adjusting to your new “normal”, which has you feeling sad and/or anxious in your role. Perhaps you’re struggling to cope with challenges in your relationship/marriage. You may be having a difficult time feeling present and connected with both yourself and the people around you. Or maybe you’re ready to begin processing and working through the difficult experiences that have been holding you captive for so long.
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You deserve to feel seen and live a life of authenticity without the stress and anxiety of being afraid to show others who you are or who you want to be. So often we find ourselves holding back our needs to ensure the needs of others are being met but this pattern leaves many of us feeling lonely and isolated in our relationships. Therapy can be a way to help you achieve the authenticity you are seeking through processing thoughts and feelings that might be getting in your way of showing up for yourself.
You deserve to feel seen and live a life of authenticity without the stress and anxiety of being afraid to show others who you are or who you want to be. So often we find ourselves holding back our needs to ensure the needs of others are being met but this pattern leaves many of us feeling lonely and isolated in our relationships. Therapy can be a way to help you achieve the authenticity you are seeking through processing thoughts and feelings that might be getting in your way of showing up for yourself.
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I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 30 years of experience providing individual, couples, and family therapy. I enjoy working with adult clients who are seeking to create healthier relationships or those seeking support in coping with loss.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 30 years of experience providing individual, couples, and family therapy. I enjoy working with adult clients who are seeking to create healthier relationships or those seeking support in coping with loss.
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Erin Todhunter
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94024 (Online Only)
Our lives—and the lives of our family and friends—are often challenged by issues such as anxiety, depression, addiction, anger, loss and grief. And we are often so pressured by the demands of everyday life that we struggle to simply get through each day. While our relationships with others can be sources of great love and support, they are often sources of our deepest pain. Through the process of therapy, we can come to better understand the roots of our suffering, heal emotional wounds and strengthen our relationships with ourselves and others.
Our lives—and the lives of our family and friends—are often challenged by issues such as anxiety, depression, addiction, anger, loss and grief. And we are often so pressured by the demands of everyday life that we struggle to simply get through each day. While our relationships with others can be sources of great love and support, they are often sources of our deepest pain. Through the process of therapy, we can come to better understand the roots of our suffering, heal emotional wounds and strengthen our relationships with ourselves and others.
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Karlie Youngblood
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Imagine seeking deeper meaning in your life, grappling with unresolved trauma, inner conflicts, and a longing for personal growth. You yearn for self-empowerment, liberation from past burdens, and a path to your own sovereignty.
Imagine seeking deeper meaning in your life, grappling with unresolved trauma, inner conflicts, and a longing for personal growth. You yearn for self-empowerment, liberation from past burdens, and a path to your own sovereignty.
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Renewed Hope Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94024 (Online Only)
Life feels like shit. You wake up each morning feeling stuck and unsure. There is no clear path to feeling better. Past experiences keep showing up when you least expect them, and your emotions get the better of you. It's lonely dealing with these feelings on your own, but you don't know where to turn. Hiding behind your mask is no longer possible. You've thought about asking for help but keep putting it off. Asking for help is on your mind and you are ready to take those first steps. The thought of confronting your past is scary, but you know that these old patterns are no longer serving you, and it's time for a change.
Life feels like shit. You wake up each morning feeling stuck and unsure. There is no clear path to feeling better. Past experiences keep showing up when you least expect them, and your emotions get the better of you. It's lonely dealing with these feelings on your own, but you don't know where to turn. Hiding behind your mask is no longer possible. You've thought about asking for help but keep putting it off. Asking for help is on your mind and you are ready to take those first steps. The thought of confronting your past is scary, but you know that these old patterns are no longer serving you, and it's time for a change.
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Heather L Mauldin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Altos Hills, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Do you find yourself struggling to cope with each day? Do you have difficult relationships, PTSD or trauma, or emotional pain from your past? Do you struggle with your self-esteem and have a shallow threshold causing you to become easily irritated, overwhelmed, and/or have panic attacks? Are you finding that you have lost interest in things that you used to enjoy, or have lost your inspiration and motivation to create and experience new and exciting chapters to your life? You are not alone!
Do you find yourself struggling to cope with each day? Do you have difficult relationships, PTSD or trauma, or emotional pain from your past? Do you struggle with your self-esteem and have a shallow threshold causing you to become easily irritated, overwhelmed, and/or have panic attacks? Are you finding that you have lost interest in things that you used to enjoy, or have lost your inspiration and motivation to create and experience new and exciting chapters to your life? You are not alone!
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.